| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 113 | Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood work | MALE DEPRAVITY | intrepidis_dux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:30 AM |
| 109 | This story is really the most amazing woman to woman support I have read in awhile | NICE FOR WHAT? | intrepidis_dux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:54 AM |
| 52 | Page 10 of the handbook | WHOLESOME CONTENT | intrepidis_dux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:06 AM |
| 39 | Dating the next city over as strategy | SEEKING ADVICE | intrepidis_dux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:25 AM |
| 13 | HVM behavior and decisions-example | FIELD REPORT | intrepidis_dux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:58 AM |
| 12 | Balancing strategy and safety with a toxic co-parent | intrepidis_dux | /r/askFDS | 25/05/21 03:09 AM | |
| 9 | Handbook technical question | intrepidis_dux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:30 AM | |
| 3 | Another detail in being careful of what we share | LIES MEN TELL | intrepidis_dux | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 11:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Should we aim to find men who resemble us?Yeah the last two points I can totally relate to. I feel you girl. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Should we aim to find men who resemble us?I have never found a man who looks like me physically. There seems to be very few who match the rest of the criteria you mentioned.....which is the entire crux of the problem. Can I just get philosophical for a moment here?...wouldn't wanting our clone be a tad narcissistic? And if not that, wouldn't it create a lopsided lifestyle rather than balance. I personally wouldn't want someone who is my exact opposite in the name of balance, however some similarities would be good. I personally feel lik… | /r/askFDS | 16/03/22 06:05 AM |
| 57 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.That's so sad. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 07:42 AM |
| 14 | Ban help?Surely you can follow whatever page you want. I'm sure they'll sort it out. | /r/askFDS | 01/03/22 05:56 AM |
| 7 | Found on another sub. I was grossed out by how many people thought this was so cute and #couplegoals material 🤢When I see men like this, I tell them I too would like a wife. Though have ya'll seen the Anime House husband? That would work. He can defend the house too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:46 AM |
| 158 | Please, please, please dump your porn-addicted boyfriend. There’s been a lot of posts recently on men being energy vampires, but nothing in this world will take your energy more than being partnered to a guy with a porn addiction. It’s not your problem to fix - let him goA liberal and still not comfortable with porn. SO many men are addicted! It's disheartening. After being married to a man with this problem, it's so easy to spot which is good. Also, spotting it has shown me how widespread it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:55 AM |
| 18 | Field Report: Central America-What I learnedIt could be small mindedness, yes. Also, it could be the bs women have to deal with here. US is just different. I've been to Japan, Indonesia and Kuwait. For the sake of honesty I will say I'm a woman myself. Also the times I was very soft and sweet, the dudes usually thought I was in love with them immediately. So idk, kinda feels like there's no winning here sometimes. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 06:00 AM |
| 12 | Want to have a good futureI would ask for a minimum of $15 per hour no matter where I am in the country (USA). That is the baseline to survive on your own (barely in a lot of areas) with inflation right now. Get a part time office job that allows you some choices over your environment since you have neuro issues. I'd personally avoid call centers. Just find an administrative job to start. Another consideration could be security guard somewhere easy. Edited to add you could start volunteering at a food bank, food pantry o… | /r/askFDS | 17/12/21 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Can Dropping Out Of College End Well???This comment was awhile ago, so I had to reread to remember what it was about. Ok, so from what you say, then yeah, I'd honestly drop the schooling and focus more on workplace skills and resume building. Take one of those jobs you were offered! The teaching one seems cool and like the type of thing you could keep potentially falling back on. No one can take away your language knowledge, paper or not. I think it's probably going to be more impressive to an employer to just note your level of skil… | /r/askFDS | 11/12/21 06:41 AM |
| 21 | 50/50 (FDS art by me)Could I just like, have this as a poster on my wall please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:33 AM |
| 9 | Did my heartbreak make me bitter?I think it's time you find ways to take your power back. A book called "Rising Strong" by Brene Brown helped me. | /r/askFDS | 15/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 8 | The "huh?"Yes you're correct, run when you see men like this. My ex was like this. Long periods of time of this gas lighting will break you down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:25 AM |
| 20 | Can Dropping Out Of College End Well???You could finish and have that paper just to have it for jobs? Unless it would be useless then why bother? For the 'real' knowledge, what about the free classes online at Harvard or Yale? Lots of free information out there. It could help you figure out what interests you too. | /r/askFDS | 04/11/21 03:27 AM |
| 92 | Love how he calls out double standards.🤣 I'm surprised you found a man who calls this shit out. I hope more men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 05:02 AM |
| 26 | I made a mistake and was too friendly. How do I backtrack and establish boundaries with my male classmate?I'd just tell him you don't want to do it anymore and regret it. Ignore any attempts to butter you up or get you to change your mind. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Night at the clubs resultsWhat if she doesn't do sober nights? | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Would you a prefer a guy for whom sexual success comes naturally, or someone who worked very hard to achieve it?Why would a woman care how a guy obtains his sexual skills? Sounds uncommon to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 07:28 AM |
| 71 | This was a new one to me. Be careful out there ladies!Yeah with an iphone as far as I can tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:14 AM |
| 32 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usYep told a landscaper the other day that I have a husband and he's at work. (I'm single) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:44 AM |
| 27 | Story Time: The importance of looking someone up on social mediaWhat a trip! This guy sounds very confused, at the least. And also, good for you with the kava. I'm a small vendor of it. It's an amazing plant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:09 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, it is NOT "rude" to call men out when your boundaries are being violatedI feel better knowing another woman on this thread feels this way. I have been ridiculed in the past for wanting to be left alone when I'm at home. You're in the right sis. He can pout all he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:16 AM |
| 10 | If He Wanted to He Would!Well, it's only because I married one and was actually driven crazy. Like full on bipolar diagnosis. I wasn't bipolar. I married the embodiment of my childhood abuse and he triggered my PTSD....purposely I might add. When I left him he said he thought I should go back on meds. One last ditch attempt to gaslight I guess. It as been seven years and he's still awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:56 AM |
| 6 | If He Wanted to He Would!Your ex sounds like my covert narcissist ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:42 AM |
| 14 | How to get more comfortable being “mean” and letting others be responsible for themselves?Yep this is something my gramps has been saying to me over the years. "Always look out for number one." Because no one else is going to have your back 100% of the time. | /r/askFDS | 11/07/21 04:56 AM |
| 25 | LvmI really wish he would have used google if he legitimately didn't know how to tie hair back. The laziness is astounding. | /r/askFDS | 29/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 113 | LvmI'm shocked he didn't use it as an excuse to touch you. So many levels of stupid happening here. | /r/askFDS | 29/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Adjust your crown and project your voice forever 👸I think most men just mean they want aggressive sex. Agressive sex is not the same as the trait of being a strong woman/person. Not even close actually. They are separate things. Thanks, porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 05:55 AM |
| 15 | ladies,how would you expect your father to react when you damage the car a little?I have yet to meet a good father so I don't know. I hear you though. | /r/askFDS | 15/06/21 05:10 AM |
| 17 | How age gap ruined me. Twice.Sounds like he shit his pants. Cooties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Balancing strategy and safety with a toxic co-parentJust adding to say I'm pretty sure I had the pathological alienation from my mother towards my father and it ruined any possibility of a positive relationship. Not that I like my father these days for separate reasons but as a teenage girl it would have been nice to have some positive feelings towards him. | /r/askFDS | 25/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Balancing strategy and safety with a toxic co-parentThank you I'm getting the book now. | /r/askFDS | 25/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Balancing strategy and safety with a toxic co-parentI'm working with social workers already. Thus the team meeting. I need time to make more money for the lawyer part to happen. My goals are to continue with my business and get a day job. The business is sustaining itself so far. That usually doesn't happen right away so I think it's a good start. Get adequate housing. Currently with the price hikes I can only do a one bedroom. And yes the track record of stable income is my issue. I'm finishing my medical programming courses this year though! Th… | /r/askFDS | 25/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."A relevant meme that had me wheeze laughing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂Thanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 05:12 AM |
| 29 | *Cries in spinster.*Exactly! Also the gross amount of food they eat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:49 AM |
| 55 | *Cries in spinster.*I have kids and this is still hilarious. But seriously even with kids, my life is less expensive without a man. Men are expensive! LV or NV ones are anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:03 AM |
| 6 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂Ha! How do I do emojis? Do I have to do it from my phone or is there some setting I'm missing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Men only know to console you through physical affectionRight? He's being selfish. | /r/askFDS | 23/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 22 | Men only know to console you through physical affectionI think you have a few things going on here. You want space and he isn't respecting your wishes and is continuing to extract attention from you. Next time he shows up uninvited, refuse to see him. Let him know that this is what you will do. He is not a problem solver and he's not validating. You can't do anything about that. He hasn't taken the time to educate himself. He sounds annoying honestly, but I could be picturing the wrong thing here as I'm reading what you wrote. The other ladies here … | /r/askFDS | 22/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 54 | Just found out my manipulative, abusive ex still follows me on Spotify and apparently there is no way to block him or make him unfollow me.Maybe you can create another email and set up a different Spotify? | /r/askFDS | 17/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 18 | Murder vs. menstruationWe should be using our menstrual products as self defense products. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:46 AM |
| 81 | Oh dear god...Yeah! Like, he's obviously a seial killer. People like him give themselves away so easily but people never want to believe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 29 | How long do you wait for a guy to get tested for STDs until it's a red flag?I wonder if they can't get an accurate swab because it can't go deep enough? I'm not sure. I do know they found it in a man's throat once and I think it's funny to hear men bring this up and even they don't realize they can't get tested. If a man is over the age of 35, I just assume he has some of the strains of HPV. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 04:14 AM |
| 47 | How long do you wait for a guy to get tested for STDs until it's a red flag?There's no HPV test for men unfortunately. I was pissed when I found that out. It's not information that is made obvious to women. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 03:59 AM |
| 84 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.Divorce is super expensive so touche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:38 AM |
| 7 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsYep all these are true. I have had two babies and there is also some good resources out there. Improvingbirth.org is one good one. Desert Doulas is another if they're still around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:39 AM |
| 2 | He was not amused and blocked meGood job, girl. That guy obviously isn't a fan of good values and reason. Also, I laughed at this because he's such a disgusting idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:13 AM |
| 5 | If they ask u to go for a walk 🥴Some fool thought a walk was a great first date idea. I said I didn't like this idea and also it was predicted to rain that day. He still pouted about it (illogically so.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:24 AM |
| 49 | I'm under no obligation to be fake nice to men! This is not Chick Fil A!It is powerful though! Nice it's so easy to let people know you're a bad ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDWeird faces was the point i haven't thought of yet. It does make sense what you say! They're not showing themselves fully by hiding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:59 AM |
| 4 | You shouldn't whatsoever.I love and agree with every single point on this meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:42 AM |
| 7 | Men who say "past her prime" = LVM/IncelsI had my first baby at age 28. Idk what these guys are talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 4 | My commitment ring to myself. I promise to give myself everything I need, deserve, desire, and then some ✨ And a reminder that any man who puts a new ring on this finger first has to treat me even better than I treat me. It’s opal (my birthstone) with rose gold and white topaz! I bought it myself.I find that lab made ones are more sparkly anyways! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:00 AM |
| 7 | My commitment ring to myself. I promise to give myself everything I need, deserve, desire, and then some ✨ And a reminder that any man who puts a new ring on this finger first has to treat me even better than I treat me. It’s opal (my birthstone) with rose gold and white topaz! I bought it myself.That's a very pretty ring. I like how you avoided diamonds. One day I want a sapphire ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:14 AM |
| 19 | This is like... every man everHit the nail on it's head there. I usually translate people proudly stating that they're 'Sarcastic' as this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 25 | Question about Why Men Love Bitches and FDSI wouldn't stick around to do combat with words/ distancing either in regards to the behaviors you've described. Perhaps the person who wrote the book has the belief that it's ok to put up with this stuff as long as it doesn't happen all the time? Who knows, but the FDS handbook made more sense to me. | /r/askFDS | 26/12/20 09:23 AM |
| 11 | Last night after reading FDS I wondered if there is a physical community in the world, where single women and single moms live together in a small town.Oh my god I just went on a journey on that website! Maybe I could have a tiny house somewhere one day after all. There's places near me that I never knew existed. | /r/askFDS | 21/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 7 | What's considered normal and healthy communication in early dating?Just don't use Bumble and expect first contact because the premise of that one is women are in charge and make first contact. | /r/askFDS | 18/12/20 04:45 AM |
| 34 | Stop over explaining yourself. LVM don’t care about your feelings, and nothing you can say will change that.Totally. And happy cake day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:16 AM |
| 2 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisGross! Him bringing up his preferences on sex and kissing is a massive turn off. So presumptuous to think his preferences even matter when you haven't even met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:28 AM |
| 19 | Does anyone else notice a personality change when they catch feelings for someone?Yep that's what I've had to do. I just talk to everyone else in my life instead if I need to talk. He will reach out and not be salty about it if he has a good attitude and likes you enough. | /r/askFDS | 10/12/20 04:04 AM |
| 3 | BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)Excellent point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)I'm sorry but this was so true it was funny. Not that rape is funny but I'm sure my ladies here understand. Also considering getting my dog a gun now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 17 | My horrific experience with a manThis is terrible and I feel super bad for you. This sort of thing has happened to me before too. So happy you have seen the light! | /r/askFDS | 03/11/20 07:33 PM |
| 49 | Poor birthday gift from boyfriendI would judge him by his Christmas gift. Luckily other gift holidays are close to test. | /r/askFDS | 31/10/20 03:38 AM |
| 10 | Onesies all dayWhat am I wearing? Khakis. ;-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 12:37 AM |
| 28 | How to deal with this guy I turned down at the gym?I agree and second the management. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 02:45 AM |
| 69 | Guy asks people with expensive car what they do for a living. Her response is 💯. I wish this for all the HV sisters here!I don't get it. Is she saying she doesn't need a living because she's married or is she concerned about the guy hitting on her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:26 PM |
| 9 | Page 10 of the handbookOh that’s so cool! Yes the progressive revelation idea brings both the faiths together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:06 PM |
| 36 | They're so quick to joke about Daddy Issues, but forget about their Mommy Issues - what else do you call it when you want to have sex with a woman who feeds you, cleans up after you and comforts you?That kind of guy wants a slave not a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:08 AM |
| 48 | So sad how men have devolved (and women think it is ok)Last I heard; divorce rates are up and marriages are down in number. Male suicide has gone up. It seems more and more women would rather be alone than with most of these LV dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:33 AM |
| 148 | Settle for a nice guy? For what?I love when she does the "FOR WHAT?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 29 | Red Flags!You handled this person well. He is not ready to have a respectful, adult relationship. Maybe he'll grow up in the next ten years? No use in waiting for him to change, it'll take him too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 6 | It isn't feminist to pay on dates, it is patriarchalI really love you took the time to explain all of this for people. I'm never good at explaining the nuances of these things! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 24 | Where the house though? 🔨Is this a picture from the Vikings TV show? Love the warrior women on there. And yeah, I don't cook for men anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 14 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️That is actually a really good point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:12 AM |
| 5 | He stuffed so much audacity into one little space, I just had to share it with y'all!Good call sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!Yeah this girlfriend is miles better than any man right now at age 34. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 9 | I’m Dating MyselfI've been enjoying teaching my son how to play the video games I like. He's five. We play Adventure Pals together. I also just started a medical terminology course and also have been learning how to grill! :) I'm glad you're treating yourself well. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:48 AM |
| 24 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!That's right sis! I stopped caring so much that I'm dating a woman now and it is infinitely better. Not everyone is bi and has that option though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:53 AM |
| 189 | TruthYeah once a guy starts making large commitment statements with saying 'forever,' I go on guard because it never turns out well. I really wish people would take their word choices more seriously and use their words more accurately when discussing a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 13 | Do we block and move on? Something about the word “dominant” gives me the chills, and not the good kind.Yeah he's not going to be able to have a healthy relationship. He probably has a lot more sideways ideas. He reminds me of one I had a date with awhile back. Wanted so badly to say the right things, but it was so obvious he didn't believe what was coming out of his own mouth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:13 AM |
| 29 | Nah, sisPerfect facial expression! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:16 AM |
| 28 | Elizabeth Bennet, from Pride and Prejudice: an example of queen energyI loved that book growing up. The sisters didn't have many choices, though more than some their ages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 24 | So helpful when they tell on themselfA little creativity would go a long way but I guess that's too much work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:23 AM |
| 132 | Women risk death and permanent damage to our bodies when we birth children for men and this is our reward.If the second guy thinks the vertical cut is bad, then he knows nothing about hemorrhoids and the abdominal muscle split that can happen. Sadly not shocked over here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:29 AM |
| 5 | Where are you queens going if FDS is banned?Who's hosting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:50 AM |
| 14 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.We could always have a discord server! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:22 AM |
| 15 | FDS inside jokes 🤡I had no idea this was a thing! I finally know now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:14 AM |
| 8 | Put yourself first. Always.I feel this so much. Sick of this particular brand of nonsense and I refuse to participate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:28 AM |
| 27 | Exercise: Send multiple men the same text and see how they replyI already do this and it works out fine for me. It's a good time saver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:34 AM |
| 18 | Just another reason NOT to do hookups! Men knowingly hiding their STI’s and infect their sexual partners! 🤮It's not specifically an STI, just a catchy skin infection. Looks like something little kids would get such as Hand Foot and Mouth disease. https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/molluscum-contagiosum/index.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:42 AM |
| 15 | 🤷🏻♀️Totally! NPR made a podcast about it too called "The Lonely American Man" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:30 AM |
| 5 | This one hit me. We’re all learning. Growth and self-love take constant work. Forgive yourself when you do slip up and keep moving forward.A very nice reminder to be nice to yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 9 | This absolute loser is abusing his girlfriend on the internet and it's really upsetting to watch.That was helpful thanks. He's clearly insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:57 AM |
| 47 | Swedish model gets rape threats after ad shows her unshaven legs. Meanwhile...For some men yes, but the rest fuck and dump. It's unfortunate. I don't shave consistently because I don't care what men think and that is my preference. Do whatever makes you happy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorOmg I feel for you so much. I have had similar relationships. I'm so sorry. I feel like young women are so optimistic and caring and willing to make things work and then these older men just ruin that spark of life in them. It sounds like you're getting your mojo back though, so very proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 12:21 AM |
| 118 | When he hits you with the “wyd?” at 11pmTwo men tried to slide into my dms. One was at 3am. Instant block. Just rude. My purpose as a woman doesn't include entertaining men when they're bored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 03:38 AM |
| 5 | I saw this and thought it was a really interesting take on “not like other girls”Samsies save it was like 25 for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 19 | I don’t understand pick me women sometimesI saw her post and it made me feel a little ill so I couldn't bring myself to comment. Noped right out of there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 06:18 AM |
| 5 | A reminder that my pick-me self could have used.I just don't waste my breath and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 03:21 AM |
| 8 | I didn’t know there was a place where women criticise both the mainstream “sex is empowering” rhetoric and the “tradcon” rhetoric. Thank you FDS ❤️Hit the nail on the head there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:26 AM |
| 10 | Just wanted to say thank you.Totally agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood workNow that's a great preventative power move! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:39 AM |
| 10 | Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood worklol! Yeah I chose not to reply and just blocked. Waste of time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/4/2020I just made a post and the auto mod took it down? not sure why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Don’t tell the men you know about FDSSame girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 11:52 PM |
| 11 | The average woman has been taught from birth how to take care of 90% of men's daily needs, while men have been taught to take care of almost 0% of ours. Men claim they need less to "make them happy" because most of their needs get met by default. Women have to beg to be met halfway.So so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Bad News, Good News: Men with ED and Porn useMy exhusband was like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:14 AM |
| 12 | Just when I thought I had seen it all: I was approached by a man who asked me to do work for him, FOR FREE, as a way to flirt with me.Good for you sis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:03 AM |
| 7 | Just when I thought I had seen it all: I was approached by a man who asked me to do work for him, FOR FREE, as a way to flirt with me.That sounds frustrating as hell. Obviously that man isn't very smart. He should pay for your services and be twitterpated about them or STFU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 8 | Let’s sign this petition to take scumbag PornHub down.Signed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:11 AM |
| 7 | Blocked!!Oh girl, that wasn't ghosting. That was responding to his behavior and question. Don't worry. You did good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:32 AM |
| 38 | Do not be that girl.That's a bummer emotionally, but the earth is over populated. Wish she hadn't put so much effort out in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Why peel a potatoSamsies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 05:06 AM |
| 9 | Confessions of a Former PickMeRegarding seeking outward validation, I do this every time I dress traditionally super womanly with the heels, and skirts or dresses. Push up bras. The truth is that I hate most women's clothes. Heels hurt my back, skinny jeans cut off my circulation, and push up bras are also uncomfortable. I prefer practical clothes. I get more compliments when I choose to dress up though. Struggling to find a happy medium. I'm not exactly sure how to teach other women to take back their worthiness. I do encou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:54 AM |
| 8 | Never cut off your friends for a guy. Especially the ones that only want the best for you. If he hates your friends, proceed with caution.A couple of my friends have been the best barometers to help me figure out if a man is really a good fit or not. Friend's opinions are especially vital when I'm infatuated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:21 AM |
| 10 | MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE.That's so messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:19 AM |
| 5 | Friendly ReminderWhere are your stats from? I've had a few interested even with the same situation as you plus a neurotypical child. I agree that it takes a certain kind of person, but not as impossible as you may think. Being ok being alone is a legit choice too though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 05:09 AM |
| 8 | Dating the next city over as strategyThis is encouraging that you do the same thing. My alone time is important to me, and you’re right that this method helps protect it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Respect vs AttentionYas gurl! Never take anything less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 3 | The absolute river of SHIT that are the 38 to 49 year old LVMs on OLD. They smashed headfirst into THE WALL.What does OLD stand for? Online dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:29 AM |
| 55 | Signs he's doing the minimum possible in order to hook you/sleep with youInconsistent in how often they contact you with no explanation. Flaky with dates. Ugh. No thanks to all that nonsense. I had a guy text me at 3am once saying he was sick. I didn't get it till morning, but it was annoying to read his whining to me first thing in the morning. I don't like being the involuntary emotional dumping grounds. Add that to the list too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | A demisexual is defined as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.” Thanks to Porn, the description of a normal healthy sexual bond is now a fringe sexual orientation instead of a given.Finally someone says it! So true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 12:55 AM |
| 19 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.I'd rather not get into it in detail. It's a trauma issue. I don't get anything out of it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 07:13 AM |
| 27 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.Yeah I know people are this mean, this is a valid viewpoint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:43 AM |
| 63 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.Samsies. Truth doesn't fit into my views of how society *should* be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:39 AM |
| 78 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.I have totally asked myself this question and the answer is no he wouldn't do it for me 99.999% of the time. Sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else here not actively dating/hooking up and not planning to ?I'm finally dating again, but it's a lot of first dates and quick ruling out of people who aren't going to be good for me. It took me quite awhile to start back up though after the last one. It's ok if you don't want to date. Try to not isolate though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:03 AM |
| 4 | And not one single lie was toldHelps weed them out faster though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:21 AM |
| 11 | On men willing to work harder for what they can’t have or is not on offer to them. Men will attempt to turn any woman into a sex worker given the right circumstances. But won’t go to an actual sex worker.This sounds so very traumatic! It's awful policy. They should've had to leave if they got an erection. I'm glad you're happier now. What type of writing do you do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 05:26 AM |
| 2 | What are the last words your ex said to you?I know. I should just be seen and not heard! 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 08:51 PM |
| 26 | Twitter suspended this woman’s account for telling the truth.100%! Makes me think I want a 'good woman' instead of a man when I hear of all these amazing benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 12:18 AM |
| 34 | What are the last words your ex said to you?When I was mid divorce, my ex husband would say things like "No one else will ever love you." Then two years later wanted to get back together. With dating, most of the time it's an apology or something to the effect of not wanting to put up with my "shit." My "shit" being sharing what I think about whatever he has done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | What most guys forget when it comes to picking up chicksFinally someone is catching on. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Why do men never admit that they care about a woman’s career and accomplishments?Martha Nussbaum Googling now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 07:57 AM |
| 12 | Why do men never admit that they care about a woman’s career and accomplishments?The hypocrisy is shitty, but you know what? Women's success isn't for them, it's for us and any babies we have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 07:55 AM |
| 3 | For the last several months I've tried making guys crave my attention and validation. The results genuinely amazed me.At what point are you laying out the rules for these men? Or are you simply leading with your behavior instead of outright stating your expectations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 07:44 AM |
| 5 | Did you ever regret not committing to a girl because you wanted to search for your perfect someone?Better get on that then! Maybe start cooking for her too. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 02:32 AM |
| 6 | WEAR A CONDOM OR STFU. Birth Control is NOT 100% effective and comes with INSANE side effects that SIGNIFICANTLY impact our quality of life.Agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 01:33 AM |
| 7 | WEAR A CONDOM OR STFU. Birth Control is NOT 100% effective and comes with INSANE side effects that SIGNIFICANTLY impact our quality of life.Not only birth control and risks of a baby, but STI risks as well. Birth control doesn't protect against cooties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 01:29 AM |
| 14 | Cut this behavior off quick. No accountability for their actions and resorting to manipulation is a RED FLAG.Just let him sit with what he said and don't comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:17 AM |
| -1 | Look at this pathetic Man WhoreIt would be nice if he lost the weight and then became a woman's submissive. Clearly has a good starting out attitude for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 06:13 AM |
| 1 | The charmless sociopaths I’ve met have missed this memo. Just use your “superior” sense of humor to cope with your shitty life duh.Sigh, now I have to go check out this sub lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 07:23 AM |
| 1 | The charmless sociopaths I’ve met have missed this memo. Just use your “superior” sense of humor to cope with your shitty life duh.Good points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 07:19 AM |
| 6 | The charmless sociopaths I’ve met have missed this memo. Just use your “superior” sense of humor to cope with your shitty life duh.I think this guy was missing the point that the reason there are less women comedians is because it's a field women are pushed out of. He is right that men need to show their emotions in other ways than "humor" because this attempt is usually not funny in the slightest. Also, I think it's good for guys to work on the toxic features of so called masculinity. He missed the mark, but hopefully will continue to improve...including his empathy and understanding towards women and women's struggles whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 07:18 AM |
| 9 | Recently moved and downloaded Tinder (it’s since been deleted but I have so many of these lol)These all look so boring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on only counting men who've given you an orgasm toward your n-countI was thinking the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, this is exactly how you respond to nudes 👌🏼🔥He's a little slow on the uptake there. *snort* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:56 AM |
| 56 | Stop being impressed by mediocre shit.Statistically, our marriage rates are at an all time low. So many women living their lives to the fullest and waiting for dudes to grow tf up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 07:43 AM |
| 7 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬I'm not in customer service and the same thing happens. It's like watching men beat their heads against a brick wall, repeatedly. Not all are like that, but it's a looooong wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 07:41 AM |
| 4 | Guess I shouldn't get dick pics before coffee. I told him his personality must be trash since all he could send was a d*ck picThankfully, I've never gotten a dick pic. Some are doing better. Communal dick lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Most men are bad at sex and the older I'm getting the less patience I have for men 30+ who have no idea how to please a woman. Read a book or something.I've had some learn and some never do learn. It's unfortunate and I too, don't have time for a person who's not picking up what I'm putting down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/19 08:46 AM |
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