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The difference between a tease and insult is in the way you say it. If you say “Nice glasses, you look like my year 10 chemistry teacher” with a smirk/smile then it’s a tease but if you say it in a serious tone with a straight face it’s an insult.
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:50 AM
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I probably am. In all honesty I wasn’t hoping for long and passionate make out sesh that led to sex, but I was expecting to kiss for longer than 10 or so seconds. I think she might have thought I wanted more and didn’t want to keep kissing as it may have led to more. She may have also been generally uncomfortable given we were alone at the beach.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:54 PM
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Bloody hope not haha
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:14 PM
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I considered that, but I’ve never had that complaint before
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:58 AM
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Never have I ever felt happier for a stranger on the Internet. Congrats dude. How did the kiss go down?
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:25 PM
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Sounds like you killed it with the okay in my opinion. You could have just stated your intent right there- “I’ll be honest, I stopped you because I think your kinda cute” or something like that. Or could have just asked another question “what are you up to”?
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:49 AM
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Yeah smile back and try not to break eye contact before them. Then go up and say something like “did we just have a little moment?” in a funny and friendly manner.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:38 PM
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Are you dating for sex or potential relationships?
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:25 AM
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Dating for relationships - Todd V Dating for hook ups - playing with fire (Alex)
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:50 AM
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Sounds like you need to stop giving a fuck tbh. You’ve had girls interested in you, but you reject them based on an assumption? You need to get out of your head. There’s a incongruence to your post, your not scared of rejection, yet you don’t want to give anyone a chance because your.. scared of rejection (from their friends or otherwise)?? Your thinking like a 20 year old, I thought the cool part about getting into your 30s is that you stop giving a fuck. At least go far enough to get rejected …
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:47 AM
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I wouldn’t worry too much about the age and ethnicity difference, but you’ll have to exert confidence in yourself given those factors. If your overly aware of the age gap and treat her like she’s older, she’ll sense it and lose attraction so just treat her like a girl your age and own that you are a man who knows how to lead and take control. Don’t ask what she wants to do, come up with a good plan and tell her that’s what your doing (be adaptable obviously). Use whatever your strengths are and …
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:35 AM
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These situations are why pre set openers are beneficial. You don’t need to think about it, you seem them, you like them, pull out the opener. Direct- your pretty cute (with an honest smile), what’s your name? Or indirect- hey, what are you up to?
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:55 AM
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Most girls I text only reply once or twice a day, especially if they send long messages. Probs just has a busy life and replies when she gets a few minutes spare. Try calling her to stand out.
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:53 AM
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If you live in Melbourne message me x - 23m
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:51 AM
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Cold approaching is a numbers game dude. I always assume they won’t text back, and if they do I’m happy, if not I’m not disappointed. If it’s happening super frequently, you might be aiming for girls out of your league, are being too creepy/sleazy, or are not building enough comfort/value. Keep at it I say. If you get get 10+ numbers with no replies, go back to the drawing board.
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:40 AM
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Yep. I’ve been working on it lol.
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:19 AM
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Yeah tbh as soon as I start to get invested with a chick I lose all interest in others and hence stop cold approaching/swiping and putting effort in with other chicks.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:22 AM
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Hey bro, your exactly problem is 90% of guys problems with girls. The fact is, girls will very very rarely sexually escalate the situation/relationship. That’s on you. If you don’t, you’re a friend, not a sexual option. Look up Todd V escalation on YouTube, he helped me a lot.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:09 AM
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Hey mate. I’ve been learning text game from Todd V recently and from what I’ve learned, in your situation I would wait a couple of days and then say something funny like “Should I send a search party for “her name” in “camping destination” yet?”. If she doesn’t reply to that, let it go. She’s obvs just busy enjoying her trip/getting settled. Be patient.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:01 AM
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Bro I’m wondering this exact same thing. Idk how people do it.
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:57 AM
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Thanks dude I appreciate that. Hopefully it just came across as a little charming like you said.
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:45 AM
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Sounds like you need to start from the beginning. I’d check out Todd V on YouTube. He’s great if you have no idea where to begin. Watch his ‘The Game Manifesto’ lecture. It’s a bit technical but practical enough. In terms of talking to girls online (texting, snap etc) watch Playing with fire on YouTube, he makes great videos on text game
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:18 AM
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Yeah I reckon leave class first, then wait for her at the door but not in a creepy way. When she leaves start a conversation. If you can think of an opener that had something to do with the class that’s perfect, otherwise just say hey what are you getting up to now? Free to grab lunch? If she’s not then say ah no worries, we should do something soon though, can I get your number?
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:16 AM
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I appreciate it, will do!
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:53 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:53 PM
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No books yet, although I’ve been told to read Models so I might do that soon. I’ve just been watching Todd V
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:53 PM
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Fair enough man, I guess your stuck with online for now. I’ve been watching ‘playing with fire’ on YouTube to up my online game
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:52 PM
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Yeah it was crazy how synchronistic it was! I appreciate that man, I will definitely give her a chance.
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:50 PM
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