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[–]eDes1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don’t rely on your attractiveness, be open and interested in others (in their lives, what they do,…) (everyone, males and females). You will meet a lot of people if you are interested in them and for your own sake you also need to learn from them (everyone has different knowledge).
Limit social media on your phone (there’s a limit option you can set) (I set mine to 2 hours per day and I’m even using less). You can also disable notifications from your phone.
Find a work (good to learn about life/social interactions)
Do boxing(or just a sport you like) (very good for self confidence, which is a very good skill for life in general and happiness)
Try to be entrepreneurial (again gives you knowledge, makes you learn from mistakes)
Read books (knowledge, becoming less ignorant)(you will probably feel ignorant at some point in your life which is actually good because we all are)
Study what you like and study hard (studying hard also makes you learn about life in some way)(be interested in what you study)
Approach people you see and realize that they are happy to be approached and that someone is interested in them.
Express your emotions/feelings to others, it really helps.
Take opportunities and see fear as an excitement. Stress= new things = good
You are not better/smarter/anything than the others so learn from them.
Im currently 20 (soon 21) and these are the things I have learned in the last months/last year. I was very immature at 18 and I sometimes really wish I knew all these things at 18 but I try not to regret.
This Is slightly off subject but I think it leads to self improvement which is necessary to be happier in life, social and have partners.
You will meet people as you improve on yourself.
[–]Chemical_Ad_8483[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Much appreciated man thanks a lot I’m taking steps out of my comfort zone. One big step I’m taking out is joining the marines figured I’d grow up fast
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The marines aren’t gonna help you to get good at talking to girls
[–]eDes1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Life isn’t about talking to girls, as long as you are doing things you like/want and try new things you will get better in life in general and meet people.
[–]Miat361-9er1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Go to mall or take the bus, plenty of girls your age to chat up
[–]00ogen -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell an older woman you’re a virgin. They are going to find that attractive. I mean if your goal is to not be a virgin. It’s ok to be a virgin.
[–]ipresentpresence 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you need to start from the beginning. I’d check out Todd V on YouTube. He’s great if you have no idea where to begin. Watch his ‘The Game Manifesto’ lecture. It’s a bit technical but practical enough. In terms of talking to girls online (texting, snap etc) watch Playing with fire on YouTube, he makes great videos on text game
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