isharetoomuch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
190	How a cleaning app made my husband feel more loved and less anxious.	FIELD REPORT	isharetoomuch	/r/RedPillWomen	23/11/19 03:51 PM
44	The hot water heater: Variations on a theme.		isharetoomuch	/r/RedPillWives	03/01/21 06:19 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The hot water heater: Variations on a theme. I'm not demanding/naggy, but I do have expensive tastes and was perhaps a bit worried that he didn't really want the upgrade and was just going with what I wanted. Good insight!!	/r/RedPillWives	05/01/21 08:27 PM
1	Seeking further enlightenment (From a man) So, a couple more thoughts. How long have you been trying to be less demanding/aloof? Perception doesn't change quickly, and it may take her time to trust that these changes are going to be longterm. Second, be careful with 20% words/80% action. Communication is so important. Cheesy, but you need 100% words and 100% actions to back up those words. The "strong silent" type is a trope that leads to a lot of frustration. Nobody is a mind reader.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/20 02:28 PM
3	Seeking further enlightenment (From a man) > however I have been putting a ton of work of getting back to my alpha state of mind and behavior Keep in mind that women don't want the stereotypical alpha male for a long term partner or the captain of their relationship. Some alpha qualities, like strong leadership, are essential. But the "alpha male" that you discuss in the men's subreddits is not what we are looking for. Do you think your "alpha state of mind and behavior" is what she is interpreting as "your anger" and her perception th…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/20 02:22 PM
1	How to ask a male authority figure for an apology Why are you assuming she is the one that cheated? My ex beat the shit out of me when I found another woman in his bed and confronted him about it.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/19 01:11 PM
1	Happy Talk I challenge you to the opposite, friend. Spend a week thinking no ill of women. What is true for us is true for you: think of the faults and you will find the faults. Think ill of women and they will sense this and avoid you. For instance, the attitudes you expressed in this comment did not make me want to engage in conversation with you. Then I realized it's exactly what OP was talking about.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/19 01:28 PM
1	Short term LDR- how to make it work? I just went through this april-june of this year, but a marriage not a LTR. It went by quickly and wasn't really a big deal. Let him do more of the footwork to see you, visit there once for every two times he visits you. Also a good time to throw in some mild "I'm with you because I want to be, not because I need/have to be" vibes. Be independent and not pining away waiting for a text. Spend some quality time with your girlfriends before you move!!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/19 03:58 PM