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iskander_the_great/r/seduction11/10/16 05:44 PM
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If you have that mindset you will screw it up. The only way to be confident or at least that the girl doesn't smell your desperation is to have options. It's your first date, try to approach another girl and set up another date. Don't think that this one will be your only one.
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:34 PM
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What are you comparing it with? You cannot say it's hard. Harder than what? It takes practice yes. But if you want to exceed at something it will be hard. It depends on the amount of time you put into it, but also in your expectations. What are you trying to accomplish? What are your objectives in seduction?
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:31 PM
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Take some singing lessons, or public speaking lessons. Also you can drink huge amounts of whisky and follow Tom Waits lifestyle.
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:28 PM
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Can you give us more description. Age, Gender, what do you usually do? Does both have an orgasm? It can be a lot of other things not that you suck in bed. Sex it's just a part of the big game of seduction.
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:26 PM
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Woops too much meltboro for two consecutive days. I would wait a day to text her.
/r/seduction11/03/18 11:43 PM
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I don't like labels. I would say you are just enjoying time for yourself
/r/seduction11/03/18 11:28 PM
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Did you kiss? Did you have sex? What did you do on the first date? There is no strict rule it depends a lot of how well the date went. I usually text them just after the date, "hey text me when you arrive home" if they took a taxi. To break the barrier. If you had an inside joke you can text them the next day bringing that. If your text makes her smile and reminds her of the good moment she had with you, you can text her whenever you want. I usually schedule a a second date for the next week, th…
/r/seduction11/03/18 11:23 PM
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Go out more
/r/seduction11/03/18 11:14 PM
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I usually bring things we can do together in the first date, doing that it's easier to schedule a second date by phone. Just text her, hey le'ts cook together this new recipe I've being trying, I'm in charge of the wine, you are in charge of the dessert!
/r/seduction11/03/18 11:12 PM
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Women forgives more the one who tries when there isn't a try, than the one who doesn't try when there is a try. It's a matter of how you behave after the rejection, you should behave as if isn't a big deal.
/r/seduction11/03/18 11:07 PM
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Try to make her laugh about something (People always align together to criticise a common enemy) And then try to make it as a recurrent joke, she will remember you the second time you make it. Laugh together, tell her that she seems a funny person and ask her for her number, so you can laugh about X without him/her knowing. Something like that. The important things: Make her laugh, get her number so you can talk with her without interrupting her job and escalate from there.
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:10 AM
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Yep, but you are investing to much energy on her or that is what it seems from your post. Try to go out and chat with some other girls. Use it as learning experience, you must always close with a phone number. I learned it the hard way, losing girls that I really really really liked.
/r/seduction11/03/18 01:02 AM
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If you want to invite someone, don't make it vague. Make it explicit. Also don't ask if you want. Tell something like: Hey let's grab a coffee on (X day like Tuesday) after class, I've got this cool place that I think goes with your personality ( or something about her). Why do you think so. She will certainly ask Let's make a bet, let's go and then you tell me if i was right or not. if I'm right you pay if not I will pay. Try to not to make it as a great deal, just be playful.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:54 AM
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Three rules to live by: You don't tell her that you like her. You don't ask for a kiss. You don't talk about the fight club.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:47 AM
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Can you go to other pubs where the people doesn't sit? If you generate debate you can always tell the group hey let's ask that other group what they think about this? Go to the other table sit without asking for permission and just tell what you were debating with your friends, point them and they will laugh and approve. You can become playful with your group and do some truth or trick and as trick tell a girl from your group to go to other table and tell a guy if he would marry her, stuff like …
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:44 AM
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Don't think too much about just one girl, try to engage into multiple ones so you don't put one on a pedestal. I usually have a 3 lives Mario Bros rule. If she doesn't reply she lose a life, if she text me with something that shows interest she earns a life. If she is busy but says that she is available other day she doesn't earn or lose a life. If she gets to 0 lives, it's game over without continue.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:29 AM
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I usually have a 3 lives Mario Bros rule. If she doesn't reply she lose a life, if she text me with something that shows interest she earns a life. If she is busy but says that she is available other day she doesn't earn or lose a life. If she gets to 0 lives, it's game over without continue.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:27 AM
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Try to laugh yourself about your condition, make jokes about it and also make them laught with you about it then it will start to feel less important to you and to them. If you make people feel like they have good time with you they won't remember you as the guy with prosthetic legs, they will remember you for how you make them feel.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:26 AM
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You have oneitis, try to go out with some other girl/s and so you don't have her on a pedestal, then if you try to fuck her. If you still fuck her without resolving that conflict it will be hard for you and mostly you will get hurt.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:18 AM
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Just try to become a person how manages and engages in good conversations. Try with your own group to ask questions that generates some debates and then try to integrate girls from other groups into that debate. Timeless questions like "Who lies more women or men?" "Would you forgive a partner who cheated you?" "Who cheats more?" always generate a debate and there's always a story behind the persons opinion which you can follow on.
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:14 AM
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6 in 2 months is a really small number, how many you have to swipe and how many didn't answer your message. How much time you invested through the app in those six months to get only 6. Tinder is just a statistic with no improvement. If you start to meet women in reality life you improve social skills for real life.
/r/seduction25/11/16 12:59 PM
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So you give the opportunity to continue. I'd rather just move on unless serendipity cross our paths again, in that case I test her interest again and maybe she gets a life.
/r/seduction11/10/16 08:42 PM
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Yes! Thank you! I edited the post! Sorry about that, I wrote it fast. Also English is not my native language.
/r/seduction11/10/16 08:32 PM
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Help her stretch after the run, it would be good for physical contact and escalate. Also try to go for a drink after the workout
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:50 PM
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You should always seed into her ideas for a second date, usually telling her things that you like to do. For example I like cooking and I like to do different dishes. So typical I tell her that I will use her as a guinea pig for a new dish and we will cook together, but she will have to bring the dessert. Maybe you play the guitar or an instrument, so you tell her that you will show her the new song you are into and you will teach her how to play it. Also with this girl, you should move on.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:46 PM
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I usually fuck a woman on the first date, if that answer your question.
/r/seduction10/10/16 03:04 PM
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It depends if it's a club or a bar. If it's a bar that everyone is sat and you open sitting on their table definitely you can't do that for every girl there. In that situation you need accuracy like a sniper. But if it's a club just load your machine gun and start hitting everything you can. There you want numbers not accuracy.
/r/seduction08/10/16 12:33 PM
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I don't like gaming the bartenders. I'd rather become friend with them, they are a great social proof when you go out with a girl or trying to pickup another girl from the bar.
/r/seduction08/10/16 12:26 PM
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Haha I want to fly with the raccoon tail!
/r/seduction07/10/16 11:00 PM
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Try to go out by yourself to cultural events, or new places around the city, bookshops, parks, etc. I am an amateur photographer so I like to go out and take pictures.
/r/seduction07/10/16 02:07 PM
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I usually have a 3 lives Mario Bros rule. If she doesn't reply she lose a life, if she text me with something that shows interest she earns a life. If she is busy but says that she is available other day she doesn't earn or lose a life. If she gets to 0 lives, it's game over without continue.
/r/seduction07/10/16 01:47 PM
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I'll just quote Bruce Lee here: "Absorb what is useful, discard what is useless and add what is specifically your own" PUA techniques are not the panacea, but they very useful when you are starting and you don't have idea on how to start, as you get more experience you will develop your own style that works because you already tried different things. For example open - attract - qualify - close is the basic on how to seduce a woman, how you implement that it's your call you can have your own way…
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:18 PM
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Put her in the freezer for a week, I think it's salvageable. Don't text her, don't invite her. And if she invites you say you are busy this week. Keep in mind this: A girl must know that you are attracted to her, but also that you can live without it her.
/r/seduction04/10/16 02:33 PM
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Tell stories of yourself, if you don't have stories or things to tell to people then you should start building an interesting life.
/r/seduction04/10/16 02:25 PM
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Offtopic: I think you are doing the Lebron James Technique here... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqMVMlfZEZo Ontopic: Every girl thinks other girls are a bitch in secret from time to time...
/r/seduction04/10/16 02:22 PM
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This is great writing. We all have bad stories, those who claim they didn't fail are because they didn't try. By the way, if you are still here in Buenos Aires, send me a message. We can grab a beer and meet some women.
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:25 PM
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Come on man, there is a difference between being in control of the conversation and build attractiveness, and being a dick. You played, she engaged, then you have to make the move and arrange a date. Instead, you kept playing and she got bored.
/r/seduction01/10/16 02:04 PM
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It's not a PUA "by the book" crap. In fact it's a sales technique that can be applied to seduction. You should always have the lead so you can make the sell. I agree with you that if she's really interested she will text you, but keep in mind that statistically girls don't make the first move. So you are falling into the Base Rate Fallacy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Base_rate_fallacy The probability of a girl interested in you text you it would be equal to probability that she has interest mu…
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:50 PM
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No you didn't, you should always have the power to make contact, not her. She asked your number, because it's the safe way to reject you without making a scene as she works there.
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:04 PM
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It's good when you are starting, but keep in mind that attractiveness is better when you are an interesting person. Build a life, explore new things, go to places that you don't know to get out of your comfort zone. And when you talk about that in the conversation it will be far better than canned material.
/r/seduction30/09/16 01:56 PM
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And that's why... you don't give your number to a girl. You must have her number and not the other way around, it gives the power to make the contact to you and not her.
/r/seduction30/09/16 01:45 PM
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I don't like this types of approaches to feel the rejection. It's like throwing yourself to the deep part of the pool on your first class of swimming. There a very good chance you will drown and fear it forever. It's better to start simple and then go up with baby steps, you will build more confidence as you feel your progress.
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:36 AM
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Congratulations! Now you are free of the slavery of meeting women only in clubs and bars. Now it's your turn to approach the girl! A good tip to start is to be looking uncommon things, or signals that can relate to a more situational approach. Example: A girl is walking with a cute dog, just stop her and tell her that you like the dog. If you see a girl kind of lost approach her saying hey feeling lost? I can help you, and then you escalate. When you approach with a context situation, you will f…
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:28 AM
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Touching is a way to generate comfort, if creates a connection. In fact touching in general is not only for women, for example putting a hand on a shoulder, or a slight push in the arm it's a good way to connect with a friend and that you are comfortable with yourself
/r/seduction27/09/16 11:21 AM
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Thanks man! I have some experience and I'd like to give it back to the community
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:53 PM
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What I learned is that a woman that really likes you will try to like your tastes too. Stop trying to be selective about having same tastes, and look for interesting persons with good vibes. You can share your tastes with them, and also be open to share their tastes with you.
/r/seduction26/09/16 11:17 AM
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You have what's called Oneitis, you totally need to get up, what you are experiencing is an obsession with her no real sentiments. She's taking your life and your spirit. Be a Man! To take back your life you need 3 things: Disappearance: Stop seeing her, stop having any type of contact with her. Self Love: Love yourself, you deserve better, start doing things for yourself, hobbies, working out, etc. Time: Give it some time, time heals everything. Last advice, "One nail drives out another", try t…
/r/seduction26/09/16 11:07 AM
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It's a law of life. Some people are cool and other are just assholes. It's funny because sometimes I say openly to the group hey I like your friend where should I take her on a date? And some girls starts suggesting places and encourage the girl I like to give me her number, but there is always a bitch that tries to push you down.
/r/seduction24/09/16 01:35 PM
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Hey man! It's great you had a date and great you had fun. It's great to have a date and also make a connection with the girl. Here are some points! You said on your last post that she wanted a friend... as you are telling in this date she is getting it. Be careful not to get friendzoned. Did you feel any sexual tension? Why you didn't go for the kiss? Also how did you resolve it was your birthday?
/r/seduction20/09/16 12:07 PM
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It's always a good decision to pull the trigger. If you fail at least you tried and you don't end asking yourself "what if?"
/r/seduction19/09/16 03:01 PM
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I think nowadays calls are only for emergencies only, none likes to be called and interrupted. But you need to differentiate yourself from the rest that only invites through text and also show confidence with your voice. So why don't you invite her through voice message ?
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:42 PM
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Hey man! I'm new in the community here, but let me give you advice based on my experience. Usually when I go out I need some warm up so I can be in the mood. It usually takes 3-5 small talks with random people it doesn't matter if they went ok or I bad, it just pumps me into the talkative mood. And of course don't think this warm ups as targets to pick up. How many girls did you talk before that night? It seems you just weren't with good vibes. Don't be so hard on yourself
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:32 PM
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