I have a ton of baggage(39 Divorced with 2 kids), I am below average height, have a receding hairline, but am in decent shape and considered "cute" by most women I know. The point of that background is that in spite of that I have no issue meeting women and having a lot of sex, some of it by far the best in my life.

One month ago was at a bar and a 28 year old solid 8/10 talked me up all night and then suggested we leave to go to her hotel room. We got naked and hung out that way for 4 hours before she passed out and I left. We talk daily over text. I asked her out on a date a couple weeks later and she said sure "as friends". We were friends for most of the date but by the end of it we were making out on the street corner and soon after at her place my penis was in her mouth. I officially have one-itis. My long term FWB is away for work for 3 months which i am sure contributes to this. I asked her out again last night. She says, I don't know, I am busy with work and don't want to end up liking you. Then goes into a bunch of suggestive talk about sex etc. I am having a hard time figuring her out. Shes not like other girls and to be fair, I suck at gaming....I break all the rules. I tell girls I like them. I talk about my feelings over text...lol basically everything you shouldn't do. And I honestly have never had a girl "end" it with me. They always get attached....

Anyway, here we are, I asked her out again and now she is ignoring me. Naturally, she's on a pedestal now.
Is she gaming me? How do I chill out?

tl;dr - girl is playing games (I think). I like her. How do I react? How do I know if my desire for her attention is a result of the game working or that maybe, she is in fact special and so I care?