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LEVEL UPisland_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 12:39 AM
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DISCUSSIONisland_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:13 PM
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island_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:50 PM
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#JustLVMThingsisland_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:29 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEisland_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:06 PM
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RANTisland_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 03:32 AM
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RANTisland_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:15 AM
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island_hopping/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:34 AM
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wtf is wrong with these women???? It pains me every time I hear of yet another story
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/24 06:40 PM
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He should be medicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:19 AM
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Omg yes. Avoidant. You’re right I haven’t said anything either because I don’t feel like pushing or asking for something someone won’t do on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:27 AM
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I don’t think it’ll change either. It would’ve already advanced and I wouldn’t be here wondering wtf is missing. But I do know it’s not enough for me. Thanks for your comment. It was very insightful and I appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:18 AM
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Thanks so much! This is exactly what I should and will be doing. I already made plans for Saturday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:16 AM
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I agree. I’m working on myself and my career. I don’t have time to be a starter gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:14 AM
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I’m with you on that. I agree with emotionally stunted. Also hasn’t been in a real LTR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:12 AM
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I don’t feel it’s growing the way another serious LTR did in the past. I know and feel when it’s real. It just naturally and simply moves forward and intensifies. I do not have this feeling at all now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:10 AM
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Very very well spoken! Thank you for this comment. It’s just not progressing how things have for me in the past when it was real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:09 AM
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I couldn’t see your comment when you first posted. Thank you for your comment. By the way…. Work is the reason. Even voluntarily does extra work after hours and off days. It’s a bit annoying to me. About the breadcrumbs….I suspected what you stated and I also think it’s a ploy to not get too close. Also suspect selfishness and commitment phobia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:05 AM
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Sigh. You’re right and I appreciate how direct you are…. It’s not me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:56 PM
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Thanks so much! You’re absolutely right ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:54 PM
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I’m just curious. I get you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:23 AM
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Thank you. Truly for being direct and sincere. This has been irking me and I’ve got options but I gave the guy a chance to get to know him/see where it went…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:43 AM
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Oof. That hit me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:39 PM
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We’ve done middle of week like a handful of times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:05 PM
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It’s not ideal or enough or satisfying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:04 PM
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I couldn’t see what you said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:04 PM
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Yeah. Feeling like I knew these things deep down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:03 PM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:03 PM
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Gonna delete this later for privacy concerns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:49 PM
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Yep I do agree with your point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:35 PM
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I’m going to suggest weekday outings and feel that out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:26 PM
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Oh. Just go to that site?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:19 PM
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Stays the night after we’re out that night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:02 PM
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Dinner and lounge bar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:50 PM
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Agreed. I wanted to hear from people that aren’t close friends in ltr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:22 PM
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Thanks so much for your input and your tone. And also, sigh. I deserve more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:16 PM
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Nope it’s not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:14 PM
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Oh! Duh I forgot that happened to me in the beginning. Also…if someone knows my email address, can they find me on Reddit? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:11 PM
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Fridays he’s always told me what he does, where, with whom…texts me throughout the night. Or is home. But I hear your point. Also I’ve been introduced to several different circles. I must say he’s admitted to fear of commitment. I’m not going to change that I just wanted to see where it was going. Seems I have more answers than I had going in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:09 PM
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Thank you for sharing! And I believe your last paragraph hits the nail…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:05 PM
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I totally get your point on this! I don’t think that’s the case so I’ll say what I think is…hasn’t been in a serious LTR. Only a long distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:56 PM
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It’s like he’s guarded to the point of being incapable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:48 PM
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We talk on phone, FaceTime. Calls aren’t everyday I don’t care for it as much because we text often. And no to the second question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:43 PM
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He doesn’t express how feels about me but has said he’s only dating me and nobody else. Actions show consistency in seeing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:31 PM
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I can’t see anyone’s comments but I’m getting the notifications. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:18 PM
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Why did I not see this post til now. Holy shhhh*t. What a selfish man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:14 PM
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This is so true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:13 PM
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Thank you! You’re so sweet✨💗 We deserve the love we give! Happy Sunday, friend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:29 PM
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I’ve had little lessons like that as well. He was good to look at, not good for depth or conversation but acted like it at first. I’m glad you’re doing amazing!! It all takes time and then we walk away knowing better and being better ✨✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:18 PM
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I can understand that. Patient but has those immature “babying” issues when things don’t go as he presumes. Man child. Glad he’s your ex! Hope you’re doing great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:04 PM
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What kind of red flags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:54 PM
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Warning ⚠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:28 AM
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I totally agree with you! Well said!! That poor girl has been hurt and she seems fed up. I wish she’d realize the perils of having this floating around the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:28 PM
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She needs a therapist. :: cringe ::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:24 PM
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what a mf prick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:46 AM
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thank u for this. golden. 💭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:07 AM
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HORRIFIED exactly what I felt reading the comment took the words out my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:37 AM
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laughing so loud at how true this is and how its happening with me at the moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:36 AM
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yeah you’re right that’s exactly what the X did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:54 PM
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thanks woman! 🦹🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:12 PM
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damn then we’re crazy for speaking no matter what. fuck that; we keep speaking up either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:09 PM
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yo seriously they ALL do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:41 PM
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same girl same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:40 PM
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I get you. I tried explaining it to the male gaslighter (who’s no longer in my life) and he brushed it off as something one of my friends told me and I shouldn’t go listening to them because they’re only trying to put me against him. can you believe that shit? he was doing the act without knowing it’s proper name and continued to try to talk me out of telling him what it was/that he was doing it. some people are so stuck in this toxic behavior that it mentally hurts to try to get them to see the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:39 PM
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same here! exactly 5 for me as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:34 PM
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I hate when the dudes try to play it off as a joke or sarcasm or whatever. 🙄 gooooo F yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:49 AM
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oh he definitely knows better. I think he behaves this way because it’s been permissible with other females. now i know why he mentioned he usually goes for younger females in their 20s. not that i’m putting them down but he knows what to do and say to manipulate. it shows. that’s why I speak up and call him out. I noticed it and he called it nagging. Idc I had to give a piece of my mind because i’m ballsy like that and simply felt like it. thanks for your reply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:59 PM
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thank you! i may have replied but I have no urge to see him again. I also started talking to someone new the day after her went MIA. he doesn’t deserve to see me or get any. I can meet those kinda needs myself. ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:57 PM
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yep! 💯 agree! he decided to text because he realized I never tried again. F this low effort/zero effort bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:47 PM
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omg I totally agree! it’s all about him. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:46 PM
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ah yes correct. she said not to talk to him but then proceeded to tell me to double text him (because he didn’t reply last night but replied this morning) and that’s where I was like, “ no i’m not gonna listen to you” lol seriously fuck this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:24 PM
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i’ll stick to that next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:21 PM
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thanks. i’ve also learned to not even bring things up to my friends and just straight follow my instincts (because some of their input seems to annoy me more).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:20 PM
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honestly...because I was into him. I just wanted to reply to be short and brush him off with indifference. I know he can tell i’m being different than I usually was. i’m done with him after that bullshit “Hi don’t forget me” text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:08 PM
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ugh. men are colossal idiots who haven’t figured out how to use their words. sorry he made you feel any type of way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 09:58 PM
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i’ve got some questions for ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:26 AM
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did you sleep with him or deny any advances?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:31 AM
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totally have known or dated 4 of the 5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 05:15 AM
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