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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Seduction and long term relationships		ispuanecessary	/r/seduction	22/12/10 09:23 AM

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1	Seduction and long term relationships question-- is negging necessary to be a man? don't get me wrong, seddit has plenty to offer but being considerate, thoughtful, polite (AFC?) shouldn't be frowned upon, imo. my beef with pua-- i couldn't keep it up in a LTR. but doing small things that make a girl's day? that shouldn't be too hard. and that is why they like me in the first place.	/r/seduction	23/12/10 07:19 AM
2	Seduction and long term relationships agreed, i dont do nice things for bitchy girls	/r/seduction	23/12/10 07:11 AM
1	Seduction and long term relationships i think being sweet while not being a pussy doormat make you the "romantic" guy SOME women want. this isn't the easy way to get laid. but laid isn't what i'm after and i'm positive some men in this subreddit want a meaningful relationship instead of meaningless sex but have issues with approaching. a big plus is that I'm free to let my guard down instead of worrying if I'm being AFC or if im escalating kino correctly because the girl usually initiates the kino and i like escalating slowly. when …	/r/seduction	23/12/10 07:08 AM
1	Seduction and long term relationships Well I definitely wouldn't go so far as to say this subreddit is creepy or depressing. I feel like seddit does offer some advice for unsuccessful men to grow a pair and do well with women. And apparently, its been gaming plenty of the female gender. My beef isn't that the place is depressing, I just disagree that there is only one way to get a girl. I feel like doing well with women has less to do with negging, kino, etc. and more to do with working on your self-confidence.	/r/seduction	23/12/10 06:01 AM
1	Seduction and long term relationships Well I never meant to take such a polarized stance on pua tactics-- I would definitely use the kiss thing and leave a girl wanting more but I feel thats fun, positive, and playful and something I would use. I'm referring more to the philosophy seddit takes on being nice-- "NEVER SAY HOW YOU FEEL, DON'T DO HER FAVORS, BE AN ASSHOLE AND GET THE BABE!" Idontgetseduction (or some other novelty) essentially poked fun at trying to communicate your feelings, which is what I feel is key in a relationshi…	/r/seduction	23/12/10 05:33 AM
2	Seduction and long term relationships I see your point, but this is another reason why I don't get the seddit mentality-- pretty big gap between being sweet and being a doormat. I'm definitely not a doormat-- when I do sweet things for a lot of people, others take notice. Some people I've only smalltalked to ask why I never do things for them (these are usually hb9-10s that I'm too shy to talk to.) If I don't know a girl, I'm not gonna be a creep and send her flowers. But I've tried being a jerk and it hasn't worked at all. Ultimate…	/r/seduction	23/12/10 05:27 AM

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