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I haven't lurked on RPW since early last year, but the methods of the sub don't seem as distinct. TRP was not, It was first about self improvement, Understanding and learning about masculinity. From my experience TRP is for discussion of male sexual strategy, of which two components are self improvement and learning about masculinity. That stuff can't just be cherry picked away from dread game, learning how to pass shit tests, holding frame, and all the other pieces of male sexual strategy discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:48 PM
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Sounds neat, small group trips are something I'm into, too. I'm crazy because I'm a software guy who would rather live in the countryside growing my own food than in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 06:12 AM
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Alone as in camping or living in a cabin. That used to bring me joy and a time-consuming hobby. Cool, sounds like you aren't just coming at it without knowing what you're getting yourself into. You don't sound crazy. Could just be I'm crazy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:28 AM
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What do you mean when you say "alone"? Somewhere without roommates? Without anyone you know? Somewhere with little human contact? With none? If with little human contact, follow up question: what's the longest you've been alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:47 AM
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Dude, your height puts you in the top few percent on an attractive attribute to women. Why the fuck wouldn't you use that to pull on Tinder? What level of intimacy are you expecting from your Tinder ladies?
/r/askTRP17/12/18 09:17 AM
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Pillosphere? Might as well rename it the Mrs. Puffosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:14 AM
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Atlas "leftist troll" Shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 06:03 PM
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To accuracy within the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:35 PM
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I thought she was suggesting that men should pay more attention to women's nonverbals, since she was answering the Q4W. Like the answer is what men should do to communicate better with women, not the other way around. But then the reply seems like it was for men. And now this reply... Am I too fucked up right now to be interpreting this shit, or was there a mixup here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:12 PM
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My b, I retract my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 09:36 AM
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Lol, glad I could provide such poignant compromise, bridging the gap between the pills and giving the crowd the entertainment it so desperately craves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:58 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 10:59 PM
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You vastly overestimate the amount of minutes needed. And probably the required equipment. A sultry glance in public would probably suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 02:59 PM
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Troll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 12:53 PM
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I absolutely love it when people try using RP terminology to describe things outside of the scope. Bonus post titles: male polygyny is the same as hypergamy. Male balding is the wall for men. Fat girls are the "nice guys" equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:57 AM
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Making eye contact and smiling is a big one, as is looking away and smiling. When you make any kind of eye contact at all across the room, and somehow shortly after she's doing a reason to be closer. Paying with her hair after making eye contact. Those are a few, but I'm no expert on the subject. Good search terms would be "indicators of interest" (ioi for short) and "approach signals". Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:43 AM
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If you looked like Brad Pitt and they actually were ovulating, it wouldn't matter. Kidding again. My response was a joke, sorry mate. To my knowledge there aren't any signs of ovulation that you can just pick out. Seems like extreme overanalyzing. Just learn to read the signs that they're open to being approached, that's probably the closest you're going to get to what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 12:32 AM
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Ask them where they are in their cycle. The days before their period are the most fertile.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 11:13 PM
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Did anybody else find this extremely unclear despite the repeated "clarification"? I've only had 1 drink, but maybe I should stop...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 08:43 PM
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This nagging harpy won't even let me get away with not adding a sarcasm tag. What a bitch. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 03:36 AM
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Stop laughing you branch swinging feminist alpha widow. Your emotional and irresponsible response is... Something about the friend zone and misogyny, and maybe one more non-sequitur redpill word.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:45 AM
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Thats what I truly missing, even if I just become friends with many girls who cares. But the fact that Im totally ignored even as a friend after 5 mins makes me want to cut off my balls. My suggestion? Stop trying to be friends with girls for a while. If all you're really missing is flowing conversation, just make guy friends. And friends made online are mostly useless, so even if you do try to make friends, make it be in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 09:05 PM
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When a girl is interested, the conversation will just flow. This doesn't mean you don't needed to be a decent conversationalist, but if you find yourself frequently struggling to come up with something to say, it's almost always because she's not interested enough to come up with something easy to respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 10:12 PM
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"but it's hot outside" -OP paraphrase
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 09:20 AM
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Wait for it, here comes the "do you live in Antarctica? I wear spandex booty shorts and spaghetti strap crop tops with no bra because it's hot outside."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 09:19 AM
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Here's how I began thinking about this a couple years back: Some girls may actually end up meeting you after talking for weeks online. Most are just looking to chat and have no intention of ever meeting you in person. Of the girls that do end up meeting you in person, some will have chemistry, some wont. Lets do some math. Say you talk to 10 girls, and assume for the sake of the example that it takes 2 weeks of talking to get them comfortable meeting you. 6 are time wasters, 4 are legit. Of thos…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:10 PM
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anal leakage All that weight you're losing needs to leave now!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:04 AM
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I don't know which gang color to assign this advice but I recommend, if you don't already, making female friends who you sacred vow to yourself that you will pursue or feel nothing more than friendship. Look, a man is not a woman. Some men are able to intuit enough about women to get by without doing the above, but I think many if not most men stand to benefit from a platonic relationship with women in order to learn how they think, the machinations they go through, the very real struggles they …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:01 AM
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https://m.imgur.com/gallery/eJ0vG
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:06 AM
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I'm so tired I don't even know why I bothered trying to engage with this in the middle of the night. My takeaway was Aziz Ansari masturbated into a lube-egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:05 AM
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Lol at the edit. Spectacular trollery. The whole post is a screed about leftist politics being rational. Seeing as that was the basis for your "proof" that women are more rational, it's obvious why people would take issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:58 PM
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Same question, but with blue pill instead. Better yet: same question, but extended to either side of any online debate community. The answers from any individual side on any particular sub or platform should be predictable and boring. Instead you should be seeking answer to the question of why online debate occurs at all. The answer is easily googled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 05:39 PM
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Yeah, the person you were replying to. Oops.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 08:49 PM
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https://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/us-immigration/crime-enter-illegally.html A civil offense as well as a criminal offense, depending on how they got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 08:48 PM
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Being in the US illegally is not a crime . illegally . crime . illegal . crime Hmm... Either these words do not mean what I think they mean, or that argument stands on shaky ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 07:52 AM
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Who should I vote for: the Democrat who's blasting me in the ass, or the Republican who's blasting me in the ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 07:43 AM
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I loved the concern about accidentally choosing to get dicked.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:53 AM
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For sex usually. In the case of your aunt it others like that, there's something else they must be getting out of it. Either they're just that desperate for any kind of attention, or they believe that she will come around, or hook him up in the future with a friend. Could also be a display of status to others in the vicinity, such as buying rounds at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 11:16 AM
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No disagreements here. I figure it's normal during the teen years. Once they have a foundation of experience with boys, they should know better. There's also plenty of "nice guys" who think they can "friend" their way into her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 08:50 PM
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Meaning that friendzone is simply when a woman regards the man as a friend and friend-only. I wouldn't really call this the friend zone. There are women I'm legitimately just friends with, but I don't do extra stuff for them, and they don't use me as an emotional tampon. Which is why she can often feel blindsided when he feels differently. Maybe it's just my opinion, but I think a lot of girls are only blindsided because they somehow convince themselves that male friends act that way. (All the u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 08:37 PM
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No, that wasn't your argument - and it completely debunks it. Either you didn't understand my argument or I didn't present it well enough, which I'm willing to accept fault for since it's hard for me to track the full conversation on mobile. This presumes that A, there was ever that much sex going on to begin with (there wasn't) and B, that the marriage rate was the same then as it is now (it isn't.). I think we're getting a little twisted around here, because my argument isn't dependent on eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:08 AM
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No, you know why? Because people today are actually having less sex than they used to. I'll give you a moment to recover from to recover from that shock - even though I have a sneaking suspicion it's not that much of a shock. A mild shock. But wouldn't that support my argument? More sex with less birth control back then would have resulted in more out of wedlock children. Yet that rate is on the rise now more than ever before. Drives me to conclude that a greater proportion of sex was being had …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 12:21 AM
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How is it less now than in the past? How can access to contraception have no effect on women's sexual habits? The way I see it, if women were having casual sex at the same rate in the past as they do today, there would be plenty more children born out of wedlock. Women do have libido, it's just way lower than men's. But in the past, a woman had to keep her libido in check or risk pregnancy. How are you coming to the conclusion that birth control, which allows inhibition regarding pregnancy, has …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 11:24 PM
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Casual sex is also harder to get Is it, though? Is casual sex harder for men as a whole in 2018 than it was in 1950 or 1800? I think birth control raised the ability of men to have casual sex by a tremendous amount, hence men as a whole now have it easier. Is it easy for an average guy to get casual sex? No, relative to the ease for above average guys. But that's in today's world. I guess I doubt it was ever particularly easy to get casual sex for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 10:59 PM
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"asking for a friend" I'm assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 12:54 PM
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Aw c’mon Atlas, she said she’s very accomplished, has a great career and a good salary. What more could men want? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 12:07 PM
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if it goes public then you will have people popping up with stories with distorted (while truthful) memories. I don’t follow. Why do people take it up on themselves to know whether its the offender’s first or millionth out of line behavior? Because context matters, especially when the behavior in question is in a gray area. I once witnessed 2 guys trying to break into a car with a slim Jim in the parking lot. After observing them for a few minutes, the tow truck came and it turned out it was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 11:57 AM
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tends to occur in adolescence That would be the contention, I believe. It does happen then, for sure. But that doesn't negate whose fault it is, just means it's less of a terrible behavior (on both their parts). But I would posit that it happens plenty post adolescence in college and in the workplace/beyond the"learning" phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 08:14 AM
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Good analysis, but I think the origin of the name "friendzone" doesn't come from an inherent friendship, but rather from the fact that said arrangement tends to come about after a girl rejects a guy by saying something like "It might be interesting to go out with you, but I don't want to ruin our friendship." (Or from guys that misguidedly think they can work their way through the status of "friends" to lovers; while the girl already knows she isn't attracted to him, but allows him to behave in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 08:06 AM
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Good analysis, but I think the origin of the name "friendzone" doesn't come from an inherent friendship, but rather from the fact that said arrangement tends to come about after a girl rejects a guy by saying something like "It might be interesting to go out with you, but I don't want to ruin our friendship." (Or from guys that misguidedly think they can work their way through the status of "friends" to lovers; while the girl already knows she isn't attracted to him, but allows him to behave in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 08:06 AM
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How many of those people have child payment/alimony arrangements, or children from the marriage? I agree it's more nuanced than that broad statement. I was only trying to add some more color to the previous commenter's "I thought RP hypothesis is that women were the ones looking for commitment" statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 07:52 AM
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I always thought the manosphere argument was that casual sex was the hard one to get, but women were the thirsty ones for settling down. A bit of an oversimplification. Casual sex is hard for average men to get (see Pareto principle). If women are going to have flings, might as well be with the highest quality guys they can. Casual sex is easier for all men to get in 2018 compared to ye olden times, which is one point I’m trying to make. However, not all men have it equal in terms of their abili…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:49 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 11:23 AM
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Depends on the man's goals, and what time you're comparing to. Pre birth control I don't believe average men would get to experience the number of partners they can today. That was a pre online dating time, so tapping chicks off tinder wasn't an option to anybody at all, hence they were limited to their immediate social circles. If you're talking about dating with the intention of settling down? Nightmarishly harder. Way too many options available for average girls to feel like you aren't the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 06:09 AM
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As someone who carries a weapon to defend myself, I try to be as conflict averse as possible. That means often letting go of perceived disrespect, even when I know I'm right. Because as a smaller guy, if I do get into a life threatening situation, I'm not going to think twice about what I need to do to get to safety. It's clearly not worth taking someone's life over a little argument. I don't have time to think about whether it's alpha or beta to be this way. Probably more on the beta side of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 11:21 AM
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She did talk to other guys while we were "talking", but they weren't competition. We both knew this. You knew this. Glad you've woken up. The truth is she may have said something to this effect, but she certainly did not "know" this to be the rules.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 10:47 AM
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"wanna raw dog me?" "Yeah girl! Let's go!--er... On second thought maybe I should wrap it up just to be safe." "Fair enough. I guess there's less risk of contracting the gonorrhea I haven't told you about until now."
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 08:19 AM
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Opened the post and immediately zeroed in on the word chode. That's all I came here to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:29 AM
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What the heck is the word cope supposed to mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:10 AM
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It's incredible how obsessive some people can get. Oh well, let them continue to channel their hate at you. It's probably the only thing that distracts them from depression. Plus, it provides a lifetime supply of salt so you'll never run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:06 AM
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See what I did there?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:45 AM
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Dope response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:44 AM
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OP's got a huge boner for you. This is the third post I've seen personally attacking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:37 AM
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Certainly seems to validate your claim. I'll have to dig further into the details of the study, though. They don't give exact numbers on the correlations, and have some shocking findings besides. Such as finding that people who were sexually satisfied in their relationships were more likely to engage in infidelity...how does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:37 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:32 AM
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You mean a 0.5 to 0.5 ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 04:16 PM
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Women do prefer the passive role, but societal expectation is probably less to blame than male libido. Women are the selectors. Men are the suitors. Just the way it is based on biological urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:06 PM
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TRP now discourages real LTR/marriage entirely Yep, a shame for someone like me with long term goals that don't involve plating as many women as possible. As of now, the stance seems to be that if you get to the point where you can do that, you'll have such abundance that most problems dissolve. It's perceived that there're too many barriers to LTRs nowadays that it's a fool's errand to even try. the first officer isnot inferior like an ant to a god though which is how BP misframes it What I sus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 05:59 PM
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There is a certain perspective on RP, which I think you are channeling, where very tough language is used to describe certain actions, but the actions themselves are quite benign. Absolutely. Redpill is offensive. I believe there's a purpose to it. If you've read No More Mr. Nice Guy, you know there's a fundamental behavioral flaw at work for a lot of men who end up dissatisfied, and the proposed therapy is effectively immersing yourself in the opposite perspective, and seeing that it's okay. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 05:54 PM
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Ah, I meant it's not really discussed much on r/TheRedPill, not that it isn't part of the belief system at all. There's a lot of stuff in the other red subs that I haven't digested yet because they're currently irrelevant to me. I saw it come up briefly on MRP and RPW, but wasn't really sure what it was about is all. My time in the pill arena isn't spent there (I'm not married or a woman after all), I just didn't want to misrepresent/defend a concept I don't fully understand myself. OP seems to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 04:27 PM
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I call it blue because I think that most people who post on TRP would dislike it That doesn't really make it blue. Like I said, it's all redpill. It's just a subset of redpill advice, less some of the evo psych and other models that explain it's necessity. I'd call it purple. Any purple here will tell you they a accept some rp theory, and some rp advice, but reject other parts. But what about women who don't like TRP and think they can do better than that? I still don't think they're going to "f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 04:08 PM
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Bluepill++ sounds like a programming language. One that adds object oriented design to the original bluepill. I thought the original was fundamentally against objectification. Ba dum tss ...sorry for the awful joke, it's really early.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:11 PM
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Everything you say to do is already encompassed as a subset of the redpill, and is thus more or less a prescription to follow the redpill. Redpill lite, if you will. What advantage do you see in picking and choosing your redpill and repackaging it to call it blue? (And why not purple if anything?) You say some women will leave a relationship because they find out about what red pill believes...I don't think most people are autistic enough to explain "look honey, I'm redpill, here's what I believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:04 PM
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Ah shit, there I go revealing my ignorance again. If you don't have the available funds in your account to execute the option, your brokerage will sell the contract automatically on the expiry date. If you do have the available funds in your account, your contract will be automatically exercised. This is clearly the mechanism by which moving in == economic investment, and not whatever I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 06:09 PM
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It's the exact same thing as options trading. I buy options at 15, knowing that a year from now I'll either accept or decline the option. If I accept, it's because her value is higher than 15 and I can turn a profit. If I decline, it's because her value has depreciated or it's anticipated that her value will depreciate within such a short time that I won't be able to flip her. Don't even get me started on the federal taxes and brokerage fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:59 PM
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Lucky? More like dickmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 09:04 AM
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The mass market meat industry is kinda gross, but hunting is fine. Vegans are silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:23 AM
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We must have needed a reminder of why incel discussion is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 11:23 PM
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OP, don't listen to this guy's bullshit. I can give you the secret formula that will get you from 0 tinder matches to fucking 14 girls a week! For just 6 easy payments of $19.99! But wait--there's more! I'll even throw in the my ultra super duper secret fried chicken recipe! An $80 value; yours free! Just call in the next 10 minutes! So what are you waiting for? Want to have more sex than 99.9% of the population? Want to cook poultry like a beast? Call now!
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:47 PM
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Sorry, I'm only interested in the OC's response. Kidding, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:45 AM
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What is an OH? I've seen you refer to it multiple times. Original husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:28 PM
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What about hats
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:23 AM
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You're shifting the goalposts. Why doesn't your argument hold for soccer? Basketball? Baseball? Football? Rugby? In an overwhelming majority of sports, women don't attract anywhere close to the same viewership. Tennis is pretty damn close to parity, at least with the major stars. And I didn't even know men's volleyball existed, so I'm going to refrain from comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 05:52 PM
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The only reason women under-perform than men in sports is because the school leagues get less funding. Get out of here with the obvious trolling. People like you couldn't stop Black men from dominating basketball Implying I'm racist. Nice touch. Note that it's black MEN, and I'm too young to have been involved in any of that bullshit. Soccer is a great example Any yet women still can't compete with men competitively in soccer. If you put it out there, people will watch it. I wonder how to shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 05:23 PM
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Male models make less. You know why? They draw less viewers. Why should women be payed the same when they are incapable of attracting the same viewership? In sports you want to see the best. The best men beat the best women by such a wide margin that they need separate leagues, and it's not even entertaining to watch them match up. unless you are are a homosexual man I can't even grasp the relevance of whether one is homosexual or not. A gay man...wouldn't watch female sports because he was watc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 03:30 PM
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Until we reach gender equality, Men will have an unfair advantage Okay, let's see where this goes in the workplace Worth debating, okay continue. in sports BAAAHAHAHAAAHAHA Name one woman capable of playing as a strong linebacker in the NFL. Or in major league baseball. Or one that could win a men's tennis title. Or an MMA match against the top men. What's the unfair advantage there? Testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:10 AM
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Not only have you proven NAWAL, you are admitting that even the SAME WOMAN is not always "like that". You misunderstand AWALT so thoroughly it’s difficult to argue against you. If you believe that AWALT means every single conversation/interaction is a chance for a woman to leave you or cheat, you have the wrong idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:46 PM
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dismantled Come up with a straw man, more like. Different levels of awareness for different activities. A pilot interacts with their plane not one, but hundreds of times during the course of it's use. There is continuous monitoring. Certain times/scenarios require more vigilance than others. We interact with women 10+ times a day? Sure, but not every interaction requires wariness. She wants to talk about where things are going, or voice vague, naggy complaints? That's a sign you ought to take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 02:48 PM
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I can't advise it, but I only advise based on my experience, and I've never put my height. I'm 5'10". It may or may not generate more matches, I've never tested that. Doesn't seem to be necessary IMO, and I try not to lie when I don't have a compelling reason to. Social proof in your pictures is massive. You with a couple female friends in a social setting does wonders in the preselection realm, vs. only solo pics/selfies.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:17 PM
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For openers: Asking to go straight to text is too much to soon. Make a funny remark or ask a question that is related to either her bio (I'd it exists and isn't generic crap) or the content of one of her pictures. Banter for a few messages, and bring up doing something together. If she doesn't shut down your idea, hit her with something along the lines of "Sweet, shoot me your number and we'll work out the details." No need to mention why you want to take it off tinder. Tell her to give you her …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:39 PM
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Haha I know more about that then you could possibly imagine, but I don't want to dox myself so we'll have to leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:00 PM
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Sandstorm was hot shit in highschool. Then Skrillex came along...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:50 PM
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Working title: Redpill validation porn volume IV
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 07:40 PM
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Bestiality? That's sick!
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:30 PM
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Like cows Septum ring completes the bovine look.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1x5a1v/positive_and_negative_narcissism_creating/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7dnzgv/dark_triad_narcissism/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7hw9lb/stages_of_trp_and_why_narcissism_is_a_requirement/ For a start. Those are just some of the top hits on Google for "redpill narcissism" but you can see some thought out ideas about it's place in TRP, and the commentary on the posts is also good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 05:12 PM
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AWALT is a heuristic designed for people who have the tendency to get starry eyed about their partner and overlook the fact that they're still capable of the negative behavior described when a woman loses attraction. It's not meant to be the de facto theory of all female behavior ever, for all possible cross sections of the group "women". That's being too pedantic about it. Don't try taking it literally. On a side note, if you care so much about making generalizations about the genders, you're g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 12:54 PM
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Like u/Rian_Stone says, at the end of the day TRP is pretty much guys swapping notes on what works in the sexual marketplace. It you've somehow turned it into a dogma, maybe just cut it out? Use/follow the useful parts. Don't use/follow the non-useful parts. Just because TRP is amoral doesn't mean you aren't allowed to have morals. It just means they expect you not to concern troll over personal morality while engaging in discussion on the sub. There are things I personally feel it's wrong to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 12:26 PM
1

Thanks Atlas. Keep on shruggin'. Good luck with the game, hope you don't get dickmatized anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 08:02 PM
0

Why can't I raise the kid and have her work and make payments to me? That's never the option on our end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 06:55 PM
1

when you behave like youre "still on the market" as a women, guess what? you ARE still on the market Ahh, makes sense. What would you consider male "on the market" behavior? Would getting some beers with the guys at a bar be considered such? I've started to come to believe that creating strong friendships with attractive women where there's a likelihood of one on one meeting is questionable due to the discomfort thing stated above. (And vice versa.) I guess there's a clear distinction in my mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 06:43 PM
1

My pleasure. Just didn't want you to come off sounding crazy :)
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 06:26 PM
1

How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real? O.o
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:01 PM
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I remember discussing a post from the relationships sub here a little while back about a married woman who did this exact thing and ended up having two dudes run train on her in a car for hours, called it rape and refused to go to the police or let her husband be there when she met the dudes in a Starbucks (she had given them her contact info, too, apparently). Definitely not what I'd consider "single" behavior. Its sort of a matter of not doing what I reasonably feel would make the other person…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 03:52 PM
4

Redpill: pragmatic Bluepill: delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 03:31 PM
1

Oh yikes, wtf perspective is that even? That's some radical shit not supported by either the RP or BP stances here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 03:27 PM
1

Rarely do I agree with you, but wow...guy above is arguing for equality of outcome. Same shitty argument of leftists who want free college for everyone. That is definitely not a RP stance. Acknowledgement of reality is. Expecting equality of opportunity is. But mostly we just don't like being lied to about women's preferences. When I found out about the Pareto principles applicability in this arena I was like "huh, fuck, okay. I guess I've been lied to about what generates attracrion. Time to go…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 03:22 PM
3

Tbp: ShootThemIntoSpace They can go colonize Mars for us. Just imagine what a few generations of pink haired neckbearded men breeding with green haired gender fluids will produce. Aliens for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:01 PM
1

Haha, thought to myself “that one bombed.” Glad you don’t take it too seriously!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:12 AM
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Surprised this has no engagement. I was happy to hear the story, thanks for having him on. Was nice to hear about where you’re at in your journey as well as the origin story of u/Rian_Stone. Favorite line (paraphrased because I don’t want to go back and find it): “What’s the worst that happens if you tell her to fuck off? She leaves you. Well, you’ve got a nagging bitch who won’t fuck you, is that so bad?” Also, the car crash lets him see the future? “Guys, I think I’ve got ESPN now.”
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 02:27 AM
1

I think you may have accidentally responded top level. Edit: Oh, and fun fact I was reading a chapter of NMMNG earlier today Ana’s came across DEER there.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 02:04 AM
1

I thought TRP guys did not need validation from randoms which means they don't care about the opinion of randoms. While that may or may not be true, it's a deflection of the question. Like saying "I thought women were strong and independent, why do they feel unsafe about catcalls if they can handle themselves?" or some such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 11:37 AM
1

Looks like it's not a reality yet. Right now they still need sperm, but can't create it from DNA. Had me scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:40 PM
0

You're overthinking this hard. Pretty much at any point you could have just smiled and changed the subject and been fine. And even though you didn't...it's still fine as long as you didn't fly off the handle.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:16 AM
1

And in today’s society we don’t even need your DNA; two women can donate eggs and create their own child. Great news for Lesbian partners. What fuckery is this? Am I misinterpreting this, or are you saying science has advanced to the point where eggs from two women can combine with the absence of sperm to produce a fertilized egg?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:03 AM
2

I say the most depraved shit you can imagine...and I never get called creepy. I've been playing with a variation of this. Working on being more honest (aka more of an ass). I got asked recently why I had "no obese girls please, I don't think that's too big an ask (pun intended)" on my profile. She said "why can't you just left swipe 'em instead?" Realized that yeah, maybe it's not necessary to have, but fuck if I was going to be apologetic about it. So I replied "I do, but they have the right to…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:40 PM
4

"Jeopardy!" is a classic game show -- with a twist. The answers are given first, and the contestants supply the questions. Three contestants, including the previous show's champion, compete in six categories and in three rounds (with each round's "answers" being worth more prize money). In the third round, "Final Jeopardy," the contestants can name their own jackpot -- as long as it's within the amount of money they've already earned. If a player finishes the second round with zero dollars, they…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:21 PM
1

Another thing you'll have to consider is paying the crown(government) his tax and that varies on state, county, land type etc. "Property tax! Paying for stuff you already own? Now that's a scam." I saved up and bought my 35 outright and even haggled 15 grand off the asking price because we could literally drive down to the bank/courthouse and sign. Nice! I'll consider that. Gonna keep in mind that it's a power play to be able to get the money right then and there, no financing complications. I'm…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 07:57 PM
1

He's already put himself in a tight spot by asking for pics. At this point it's recovery mode (gotta come up with a believable excuse for why he can't do it, now) but depending on how bad he needs this particular setup I might just dip out regardless of whether he follows through. Maybe I'm just not used to it, but I've never had a boss ask for anything like that and I'd feel strange just having received the offer in the first place.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:52 PM
1

Appreciate the advice, uncle! You gotta get out of debt as a number one and never go into it ever again it's not a tool. Second buy the land while working and add your fruit trees as soon as the land is in your name I'm lucky that I actually have no debt and a little bit saved up (plus some inheritance. Not enough to live on, but definitely enough to have options). I have enough to buy several acres, and because of the winter issue, family proximity, and laws, I'm considering somewhere in North …
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:28 PM
1

Mind if I ask you what you do, without revealing too many details? I'm making a career change right now and planning on doing the exact same thing. I'm educated in computer science, but right now I'm planning on picking up a trade so I can gain experience with handyman type stuff that will be important on the homestead. My concern is getting out far enough away but still having enough work to support the lifestyle. And meeting women out there...
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:57 PM
2

It's a Q4BP, we can't answer top level.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:39 PM
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If it's not something you have an easy reply to, ignore is fantastic. It's something I'm getting more comfortable with. Used to feel like (in person, too) I had to reply to each thing they say. Nowadays I've experimented with ignoring, or just saying something non-sequitur that interests me more. E.g. I made a comment about disliking feminism. She asked what I had against feminism. I briefly mention that as a political movement it fights for some retarded shit. She asks "like what?" I can see wh…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:12 PM
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You can see what they look like in the winter in the south. In the midwest, the winter becomes like unwrapping a mystery box. You never know her size until she takes off a few layers of clothing.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 01:51 PM
3

The OG orange cream soda.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:22 PM
3

She was a total 13, bro, I swear.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 12:53 PM
2

DOODOO-DOODOO DOODOO-DOODOO DOO DOO DOODOO-DOODOO DOO DOO DOOooOO DOO-oh wait did I come in too early?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 12:04 PM
1

In yoga they say "breathe in, breathe out." At TRP we say "push, pull".
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:41 AM
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...da fuck, how'd you get there?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:27 AM
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Why can't you just reply "It was a joke" or some other such thing instead of going straight to an autism jab?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:53 PM
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Why you trying to bring up incel stuff, tho? It's not really relevant unless it's a belief you hold. And if it's a belief you hold, you should be able to express it in pillosphere language without having to point to incel memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:12 PM
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I find these questions where it asks if this one aspect of an individual would be enough to turn someone off from a partner. How do you find them? ;) Agree, btw, assuming I've had a chance to get to know someone and become attracted in the first place. Medium term dating I can overlook a good bit. Unless it's for a long term thing, then there are some things that would deal break for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:10 PM
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? I'm just saying that this wasn't something to be discussed on PPD. I didn't read the whole post, not the linked one, not did I "choose a side". Nobody is here to deal with incel stuff, that's all. Very different communities, but for some reason incels seem to feel entitled to come post here and try to get us involved because it's a sub that is somewhat related.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 02:54 PM
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Thank Mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 02:49 PM
2

They sneaky tho. They don't communicate well, and then bam lightswitch effect like none other. Buyer beware.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:43 AM
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On today's latenight episode of PPD: Incel Content! Get it while you can, folks, because as soon as the sun's up the mods are (hopefully) coming to remove this dumpster fire of a thread that (I hope to God) has no place here! (Else what's the point of the rule against incel content?) Ugh even his reply is just angry that we're "all a bunch of bullies". Not a good faith post. Not a valid PPD topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:33 AM
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Sad you got downvoted on this. Personally, I immediately assumed you were joking and found it hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 06:32 AM
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write something of substance Or wait until he has something to say. This has to be one of the worst long-form Carpe Diem's I've ever seen. P.s. "Women are the Sidebar" sounds like something Jayden Smith would come up with if he were RP.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 07:13 AM
3

Look at the lives of famous individuals you know. Trophy wives exist, where a rich/high status man marries a girl 20 years younger. Now how many trophy husbands do you see? Oh, close to 0? That's odd... Money doesn't mean shit for male attraction. Nobody wants to bang Betty White, but Warren Buffet or Bob Barker could get younger girls.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:28 PM
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Genetics determines plenty, but pre-wall they basically have to be not obese. Young and fertile is generally enough to last a while. There are exceptions, and some will show signs of age/deterioration of looks faster than others. And obviously working on their looks in a positive way still increases their value, and there are those who lost the genetic lottery looks wise and will need to work on improvement even from a young age. But in the end, "not obese" is still a pretty low bar for the firs…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:13 AM
1

his gf was toxic as fuck and he let her stay bc mommy issues. Aka beta bitch. But let's not get into what's alpha/beta. The reason other stuff matters is more for you than for the purpose of pulling some chick. If all you care about is fucking, then you're getting your confidence and measuring yourself according to pussy. Also, status can come from your accomplishments within your various pursuits. Looks money and status can still lead you to only fleeting success if you don't know how to mainta…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:07 AM
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Take my upvote for the surprise out loud laughter you caused, you filthy degenerate.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:48 AM
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Echo what the other guys said about not reading as much, and going out in the field instead. It's not like you'll be able to absorb all that much material at once anyway, and the best way to improve is to suffer through the failures in the rest world, then come back and analyze what you did right/wrong. One last thing I'll say is: you've got 35 days in the place you're at. If I were you I'd think of that as 35 days to get to the next level. The next level meaning hopefully some sort of breakthro…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:45 AM
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Stopped reading at "17".
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:34 AM
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I thought it was a type of monkey, but apparently it's a type of retarded.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:05 AM
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Stupid stupid text medium getting us all turned about. Correct. It's one of the topics I like. You just took my bait with a little bit of salt. No salt, was just trying to call it out in a friendly way. Which, clearly, the text medium mangled. :) As much as I hate emoji, they're useful for sentiment. Why do you enjoy debating religion with the religious? It drives me up the wall because no matter how good a point I make they can always go running back to "...it's just God, man, God doesn't alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 05:22 PM
1

Breathing can be harmful, too. Disease comes to mind. Ignoring the snark...the relative chance of getting a disease through sexual activity is orders of magnitude greater than the chance of getting a disease by breathing. And the chance that it's incurable is also orders of magnitude greater. The problem is that they are trying it because of fear of judgment and "unholliness". They see sex in a weird light. No disagreement, I'm with you here. Just saying I don't really care if some poeple want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 04:56 PM
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Sex can be harmful, too. Disease comes to mind. Note: I'm not on the virgin marriage train, but I'm cool with some people trying for it. They usually are woefully lacking knowledge about sexual compatibility. Like, what a girl will like vs. the guy, rough vs. gentle, unknown kink development, wether or not they have comparable libido, etc. I once met a girl saving herself for marriage but willing to date non-virgin guys. Asked her: what happens if your husband has a very high sex drive, and he n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 04:05 PM
1

50 pullups. Over the course of an entire workout, though. Just pointing out that this number is worthless unless you give number of reps in a set, not total. Farmer's walk is a cool one I enjoy.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:02 PM
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I mean, are we seriously answering this shit now? Next up: I want to long distance LTR this Instagram model. We've never met but she sends me a nude every once in a while. She never makes me pay or anything, but I always send her $50 on Venmo just to show my appreciation. I told her 3 months ago that I love her and she said lol maybe me too idk. How do I get marriage from this, Bros? Edit:nude
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:55 PM
1

at least an orbiter doesn't feel dirty and interchangeable. Oh yes I did. Realizing that we didn't have some special connection, that it was just a game she played with plenty of other guys...that she didn't feel a damn thing when I left because my function in her life was so easily replaced... Women give up sex in hope for time/attention. Men give up time/attention in hope for sex. I'm not certain I place time/attention as default lower in value than sex just because as a man I personally feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 01:44 PM
2

Yo I've got a weird pain in my low back from the lat pulldown machine. Any fix for it? I currently get in it upside down and grip the handles with my knees while balancing on the seat with my hands. My back is obviously on the backrest for support. My buddy showed me it's a great full body exercise, it's just frustrating that I can barely do a single rep without intense pain and instability.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:07 AM
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Hindsight is 20/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 07:45 PM
1

I engaged on the earlier thread about the issues. Turns out this girl banged over 35 dudes before she was 21. OP claims it's regular for girls in Germany to fuck close to 100 dudes before they're 21, because they're sexually active with a new partner about once a month from age 13. I just can't believe that. But seriously, she apparently banged over 35 dudes by 21...
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:01 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 05:52 PM
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don't assume you won't like something just because it's not mainstream Thought you were going to follow this to with "go get pegged by a Dom" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:59 PM
1

This is for a those people who want to claim “sexual strategy is amoral” as an excuse to act like con artists. And yet still we are faced with the issue of how would you possibly enforce this? I don’t know how you “create” dead bedrooms. A woman can just decide to stop fucking. Starfish. Unenthusiastic/bargaining. Or, in one case I heard, straight up tell her husband during the act "I'm nothing but a hole to you."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:41 PM
5

men are able to get away with a lot of fraud and sexual abuse Kind of like turning into a land whale or creating a dead bedroom after doing whatever it took to secure marriage and children? I honestly think rape by fraud is just as bad - and should probably be a crime. I think this is one of the dumbest things I've read on this sub. How would this be enforced at all? "Officer, arrest that man! He claimed he was open to the possibility of a relationship. But I suspect based on the fact that it di…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:04 PM
1

Jesus Christ I somehow doubt they were fucking each boyfriend, but I live in the US, so I can't really back that up. And here I thought overseas girls were supposed to be less..."feminism"-y. 100 partners before 21 is just fucking absurd, even for US standards. Some prostitutes retire before that number.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:14 PM
1

Yep. She crosses lines you set and you do nothing, means she knows she has free reign to do it again because you won't leave.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:14 PM
1

Thing is, I don't want to let her go, because of how easy it was until now. I hate to play games with women to keep them, it's exhausting. I feel you. Maybe take some time off of it all for a bit, then. But there fact that it was easy sounds like it lead to complacency. And if you can't get her back in line, by definition it became "not easy" anymore. Most girls will put on a good face to get the commitment, then they push as far as they can with their nastier behavior because they think they ca…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:03 PM
1

Most girls you know took 37 dicks before 21? That's almost impossible. Most girls, the normal number by that age is less than 10, even for the slutty ones. I'd seek girls without quite as much history. Usually character issues correlate with women who need that much new cock.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:58 PM
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No problem. I do get progressively harder on you in the next couple replies below, though. I can respect the desire for having children. But this one objectively doesn't smell like a keeper. Most girls want babies. They should be the ones pushing for commitment, not you. If you come off as too willing to commit your attention to her despite shitty behavior, you'll end up unhappy. Hence the advice to leave her and find another. It's a brutal world for someone who wants a decent wife to have a kid…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:02 PM
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Holy fuck dude 37 men before she turned 21? And you were considering having kids with her? And you claim to have read TRP? That's a huge slut with issues. How many people in general do you think have an N count that high, guy or girl, before 21?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:56 PM
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Why else would I even bother to date? For sex. I have at least enough self-respect to not let this shit fade away and keep the relationship running. She lacks respect for your boundaries, clearly not someone you should still be considering having kids with. If you have any self respect you would next, because she clearly doesn't respect you.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:52 PM
3

The truth here is you set a couple boundaries, and she ignored them. Then you didn't withdraw your attention as you should have. My girl wants to smoke weed with two dudes in their room all the time? They can run train on her for all I fucking care anymore, she's fucking gone for that behavior. Girl cuddles another dude? Fine by me. I have plans this weekend. It's lack of abundance. Plates break. This one got addicted to drugs and lured in by another dude. That's gross behavior I wouldn't tolera…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:47 PM
5

The Asperger's means you'll have a more difficult time learning all the social stuff you need to know, but that stuff is critically important. College is one of the best times to practice those skills, because it's mostly a bunch of people your age doing nothing but existing together. And there are non-exclusion rules. Take advantage of those and join a few clubs to practice your social interaction. Get comfortable. Don't join a bunch all at once, you'll need time to learn from your mistakes. Yo…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 02:28 PM
4

I read most of those guides when I stumbled into PUA stuff several years back. The most in depth guides to physicality and eye contact will be found there. It was called "kino" when I looked into it. Edit: look up DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. TRP itself has some pretty solid guides to dominance. It also goes by another name: "holding frame". A search of TRP with "How to hold frame" reveals things like this (and many more) which I would call more in depth: [redacted] Hope you don't mind that I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 05:41 AM
0

Maybe phrase this as "I'm tired of..." Instead of "Stop..." It's in the posting rules: Please do your part and cut it out with the imperative post title next time.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 04:33 AM
4

But there is a blue man group ba dum tss Sorry, just saw this scrolling down to the next top level comment and couldn't resist.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 04:29 AM
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The exercise for eye contact seems legit for people that need to get comfortable with it. Read this article to learn how to arouse a girl anytime, anywhere. Major letdown on this claim, though. There are far more advanced guides to these things elsewhere. Dominance, eye contact and touch are some pretty fundamental building blocks, but you do give a few decent tips in each arena and the formatting is good.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 03:12 AM
1

A lot of people here are into Stronglifts 5x5 for beginning gains. Im looking at that for once I've recovered from joint injury.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:44 PM
2

Your willingness to compare your sex life to a horror exhibit reveals a lot about why you are on the Red Pill. Your bitchy comment repels me from wanting to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 07:39 PM
2

What about horror exhibits? People coming out with mixed reactions, no clear knowledge of what goes on, but a fairly reasonable knowledge that unexpected but mostly phyaically safe stuff could happen inside. (I haven't really fleshed this idea out, it's just what popped into my head reading your response.) But maybe consider going back to a guy's place alone = the ride. Sex might be attempted = almost a certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 06:20 AM
2

I'm red and around these parts they call me the NEUTRALIZER. Or I wish they would. At least until I come up with something cooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 06:04 AM
1

Her: "What are you, gay?" Me: "Of course! Come over here and let me show you just how gay I am."
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:10 PM
5

I know how to crochet. It's something to do with my hands while I'm watching TV or on the phone or reading, and results in new clothes, coasters, handmade grocery bags, and stuff. They make great gifts, too. Having a typically unmasculine hobby doesn't make you a pussy, but being insecure about it does. I don't go about advertising my hobby, but when a girl finds out about it she asks some questions and I confidently own it. Never be embarrassed by it. They may try to tease you about it. Remembe…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 03:34 PM
1

Just for your own edification (and context) he is an incel who refused to accept advice. He gets IOIs and chalks it up to "they must be tricking me because I'm objectively ugly. This is capital T Truth because I've spent hours analyzing my facial structure on incel subs." Even if I see a couple points of possible contention here, its mostly good and I'll miss another sane voice in all the noise. Enjoy your retirement, sir.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:11 PM
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So the main sticking points for me on this were the point about women not having men's violent tendencies, and "our" incel problem. He acknowledged that women's violence is largely ineffectual, but to make up for that they have a whole slew of manipulative tendencies that men don't, no? This isn't to put them down for those behaviors as they're in their nature, but it just seems like an effort to pedestalize women because they can't commit violence? And I don't even like to discuss incels on her…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:02 PM
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Here to build the place up, not get into dick measuring contests like some. Glad you took it well, that's how it was intended. Your response is appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 11:43 PM
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My issue with this post (without having read it) is the title. Read the posting rules. Don't post imperative statements as titles, it's bloody annoying. I suspect I know what you mean, but it's almost click bait the way it is posted. Because the title is just standard shitty bluepilled advice without context. Something better might be "What they really mean when they say 'Be yourself. Be vulnerable.'" or "How to effectively implement 'Be yourself. Be vulnerable.'"
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 05:00 PM
5

There are plenty of tools in the toolbox known as "game". Game = generating attraction. Number of times I have generated attraction using game, getting them to feel the way I want them to feel within the parameters of our relationship: numerous. Number of times I have talked my way to a relationship by straightforward expressing how I feel and want them to feel back: 0. Those things we call "shit tests" are a form of constant testing to see if we really hold up to whatever subconscious standard …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:47 PM
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Personally is be fine with that for a first meeting off tinder, but I can cum that way. Definitely don't force yourself on a chick you just met. While a lot of girls are into that, if she gave you repeated verbal "no" and was resisting, that's a red light my man. Did you try other ways of escalating besides just trying to "flip" her? If she was fully clothed and you just tried to rip her pants off, maybe try more kino until she's really ready? In conclusion: Gold star for not raping. C- on escal…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:18 AM
2

Yeah his particular flavor of argument--appeal to authority, mixed with buzzwords--wasnt doing it for me anymore.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:55 PM
3

Not to mention the complete lack of frame demonstrated by actually cooking a meal and then abandoning it to go out. I can't tell if he actually was cooking himself a meal or not, but regardless after having told her he was cooking his own meal it's difficult to imagine a good reason he would abandon it to go pay for different food. Or the foreigner comments about never settling with one. I've heard women disqualify me for marriage/LTR and it's cool. I'm not offended; I was only interested in fuc…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 12:34 PM
1

S-s-s-s-Sidebar-ar-ar-ar-ar-ar-ar.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:13 PM
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Hm...the negativity I don't have much for, except that you need to learn to let go of things in your past that don't contribute to your future success trajectory. I've experienced plenty of trauma, but I refuse to let it define me. As to the rest... With Asperger's everything social comes slower. Things that are automatic to NTs won't come as quick. You'll need to learn through even more repetition than the average Joe. And you'll need to do it in smaller increments because likely your fundament…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:08 PM
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He posted in PPD yesterday with the exact same thing. I'd that what you're referring to, or did he post here before too? I have him the advice that he should not be using this fucking incel language outside of the incel subs (or at all for that matter). And he received more than enough good advice on this topic there, despite the fact that incel content is banned. I have no more sympathy for this pathetic level of self loathing. OP clearly isn't interested in hearing good advice on the matter an…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:52 AM
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How about you dissuade other’s from DEERing by STFU? I know what DEER means. I have no idea what you are saying anymore. As in I actually don't follow anything you just said.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:27 PM
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I told him straight, I told him he wasn't keeping his word, that he is talking about doing all these things (like get clients for personal training, getting a whiteboard to right goals down, etc) but he was not acting on it. Good on you calling him out for his bullshit. told me today he was going to speak to a couple other PTs about clients - we shall see how it goes. Unrelated but fuck man, I need some PT on my knee. Got an appt. to get a referral in a couple days. IDK I'm not one for sympathy …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:11 PM
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No, it’s not because TRP is amoral Agreed. This has nothing to do with morality, though. You said you think girls who go from fat to skinny aren't worth much because they probably suffer from mental instability. I'm just pointing out that's exactly what men who subscribe here are doing--going from undesirable to desirable. And that often has little to do with their mental health. Many people simple realize they need to start improving if they want results. I don’t have to justify the way I feel …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:00 PM
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Okay, but that's dodging the point entirely. Do you believe people shouldn't compliment other people on self improvement? Does that stuff about underlying mental issues apply to men at TRP? None of us are worth anything more than a quick lay because we started behind the curve?
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:17 PM
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Haha never. Always surprises me. When a chick is really into me how agreeable they are, sometimes it sounds like they have libertarian/centrist/conservative views like me, then they add in "yeah I believe in socialisism/communism" and I just wonder how they managed to reconcile everything.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:13 PM
2

You sound like a damn good friend. I had one like that, helped me out of a post breakup rut. Sounds like he has no trouble getting girls, though. And maybe spending too much time on it. Maybe he doesn't have enough going on outside of that? How are his hobbies/goals looking? Hope things turn out well.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 10:11 PM
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If you're like me, for a short to medium term partner you're happy with a cute girl who fucks you well and isn't a bitch. What more do you think you need to provide on the flip side? Goid pussy is good pussy. Good dick is good dick.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:03 PM
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I have not. Every single one without fail (meaning non-natural hair colors, like neon and teal) has been queer, or a radfem, or some other type of mentally unstable. Every. Single. One. Even a little highlighter-color streak in the hair sets me running for the hills. It's a pattern proven to me even more solidly than AWALT.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:57 PM
3

I, too, have a disliking for antidepressants. If he can't get out of bed, that's one thing. In my opinion antidepressants should be reserved for when the depression makes them incapable of making lifestyle changes. Antidepressants help manage symptoms, not the cause. Thus lifestyle changes or situation changes must occur. It's too hard to say what to do for your friend without knowing details, and even then I don't claim to be qualified. But I would explain your feelings about antidepressants, l…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:51 PM
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Exactamente! Don't even mention it. If she brings it up, respond something like above. If she gets pissy about the lack of response, just tell her you didn't have time to respond and move on. It's going to be impossible to prepare a response for every possible way she might act out about this, but if you're interested in learning more I suggest you look into 2 topics and read plenty of examples: shit tests, and comfort tests. If you get to the bottom of those topics, you'll see the underlying re…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:44 PM
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Shit, that was an impressive call. Not unlike the types of corrections my uncle would make ;)
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:32 PM
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Asking her that will cause her to explain why she thinks you are acting weird. Which puts you in almost the exact same situation. You will need to either explain the behavior, or deny it, etc. The point here is that by taking that question seriously, you lose no matter how you play it. Asking her "what makes you think that?", even though it isn't an explanation, gives her permission to take it from a small shit test to a bigger one. One that you will have a much harder time passing, because you …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:30 PM
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Glad you agree about repetition advice. It really is the most effective. You won't get better by reading about it. That said, as an intermediate who was beginner a few years ago, let me offer a bit of advice: Get comfortable in one on one cold opens first. You wouldn't learn shooting by attempting multiple moving targets at the same time, and that's what group situations are. No, first you would get comfortable shooting a single static target 10 feet away. In the same way, it will be easier to h…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:54 PM
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Don't respond, don't mention it. It feels discontinuous to you, but it's infinitely better than trying to explain. If she tries to mention it in person, don't seriously engage. Classic shit test. Agree and amplify, or make a joke or something. "That's funny you mention that, lately it seems like I'm the normal one and everyone else is acting weird." Cue conspiracy face that morphs into shit eating grin.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:47 PM
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Should I do it? No. Girl or guy friend, if they have a history of borrowing money from you and not paying it back, absolutely not. But the truth is that's just a drop in the bucket. You mention oneitis. You're right, you have it bad. Stage 3, brother. In other words, you need treatment immediately. Get her the fuck out of your life. She is using you. She always has been using you. She will not stop using you so long as you let her. You think it's a friendship, but you are wrong. Compare the thin…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:41 PM
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Sometimes it's fun to mock them in deadpan/mock outrage. Like if they bring up rape culture for example, sometimes I'll straight up reply something like "Totally! It's absolutely disghusting that 1 in 4 women sent to college is raped during her stay on campus. I can't even believe we have the college campuses at all right now with how unsafe it is in America for women, especially on campuses. And don't even get me started on discrimination in STEM. I would just shut it all down and provide free …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:29 PM
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Congratulating her for getting fit is like congratulating her for studying. She should have been studying, fit, financially smart or whatever fits the case. Maybe I look differently, but I congratulate people all the time on their progress toward their goals. Look at how much congrats goes on in our community for the progress. It would be a grim world if people posted stuff like "just got my first 2 plates and overcame my oneitis, gained 30lb!" and got hit with "so? You should have a full harem …
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:17 PM
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I’m growing mine out. I’m doing it because I wonder what I look like with long hair. It doesn’t look the best right now at mid length, and I haven’t got it styled which might make it better. I’ll ultimately do what I believe makes me look best, and if I don’t like my results I’ll axe it eventually. But I’m doing it for me. And because I don’t give a fuck what anybody else thinks about my hair or the way I dress. Any bitches I acquire are secondary to my interests. One of which, at the moment, is…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:24 AM
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I really am attempting to give you good advice. I have experience with people involved in cults and other communities that have created specialized nomenclature. A problem that develops is an inability to express themselves to people outside those communities using standard language. The point is that while those words may be effective and useful to communicate within those ("your") communities, they are ineffective here or elsewhere. Thus attempting to use the terms results in ineffective commu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:28 PM
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Please for the love of God stop appending "-cel" to everything. You're sounding like way too much of an obbsessedcel. If you want to be differentcel and receive advice here, please leave the hardcore incel lingo back where it belongs and talk like an adultcel. Hallf the words you're using are not part of common vocabulary or the specific nomenclature of red/blue pill. In other words, try to express these thoughts without all the jargon from subs that are specifically banned from posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 08:55 PM
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OP is massively underestimating how much of sex is mental stimulation (arousal) for women. Men too I think, but less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 12:23 PM
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5 bucks says her name is legitimately Akiko.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 05:22 AM
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Use the backdoor instead. Just kidding. Here's some real advice: stop asking him to go down on you first. Kidding again, I don't really have anything to offer but levity. Sucks he's caught up on that. I just lay down a towel because my only issue is the mess. I have actually gone for option one above, but thats also a special interest and usually at least one partner has a hangup/dislike about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 05:51 PM
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Today I learned I might have aphantasia. And also what it is. This isn't the first time I've learned some pill-unrelated thing from you. Fuck this Atlas why you gotta keep information mogging me. At least my feet are bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 05:40 PM
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Ahh. I'll admit I read/commented on this in a brief insomnia fit last night, and didn't pick up on the fact that you were making a sort of pro-Peterson point. I agree. We shouldn't be bashing him. On the topic of personal improvement, he has some incredible wisdom to share, especially regarding personal responsibility. This advice is stuff that is helping many dispossessed young men find their path today. In that regard, and considering the "new" TRP readership, I'd say it's information they nee…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 12:54 PM
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Please consider a reply to every potential configuration above, obviously /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:58 AM
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And tables yo. Don't forget the tables.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:50 AM
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There has been an influx of people who weren't the original target demographic. So TRP subscribership has become much larger but also more full of angry oneitis spergs and highschool kids than disposessed divorcees. I'm somewhere in the middle, havunf come in with moderate success and the ability to get laid with effort. But even I would be considered on the lower edge of the original target demo. And now I roll my eyes at all the odd, watered down, or poor content being posted. So I agree it's …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:32 AM
1

The awkward pause followed by quiet mumbled response. She never saw it coming but, once he pointed it out, the elephant in the room was too big for her to even process.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 03:51 PM
1

I SAID good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 01:51 PM
1

What worked for me in a situation similar to yours: Find some friends on the floor of your dorm that are into drinking. A few weeks into school, find out when the big dance party's are. Some will be school sanctioned. This is fine. Just needs to be a really big dance party. Now the recipe, with your friends along: Get drunk enough to dance. Get drunk enough to dance with women. Go to said dance party and dance with friends. Dance with women, getting progressively more touchy. (If you can't do th…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 01:50 PM
2

Oh shit you're right. My bad. You said it nowhere. Your good-faith, non-contradictory arguments have made me see the light. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 01:33 PM
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silly attempt at tit-for-tat not worth addressing which is why I left it be. If that's how you want to categorize it, so be it. I think it's a bit reductionist and impolite, but certainly civil. from what I've gathered from my female relatives the drive is for the whole process: pregnancy, birth, carrying on their genes, etc. I don't see how you can say jerking it to porn is an acceptable stopgap and there doesn't exist an equally acceptable stopgap for women. Maybe jerking it to insemination po…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 01:03 PM
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that much is easily taken care of with porn if you're not stubborn. Problem is, people get addicted to porn because it's too easy. And porn sets unrealistic expectations, leading to social and sexual problems as well as odd desires. I'm not trying to say there should be no porn, merely point out some of the problems that arise from it's use, especially from teenagers who have poor impulse control and little understanding of addiction or the sexual realm. You're right about it's temporary ability…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 12:29 PM
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I wouldn’t pick on others’ reading comprehension if I were you. I wouldn't ask for English just because you can't parse complicated syntax if I were you. Yet we "need more women in STEM" (right from OPs comment that he cited). And the point made in the comment has nothing to do with that, it's a statement that sought to explain this part of OPs post. You then proceeded to go off about the OP, instead of the comment, hence putting nothing to rest. PS lots of women are doing well in STEM. Which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 12:20 PM
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A. I’m not downvoting you, sorry other people are. I agree it’s quite annoying when people do that, but... j’accuse! B. English please? That was a perfectly cohesive English sentence. If it was difficult for you, perhaps your reading level isn’t quite up to snuff. But it certainly doesn’t deserve that accusation. Legitimate defense of your argument in place of ad hominem, please? C. I don’t care if it’s in the OP or brought up here on a daily basis. You’re still not arguing against what was said…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 10:22 AM
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And naturally inclined to take risks more likely to propel them. Or plummet. They forget lots of men also don’t make it because risks are...well...not risks unless they have negatives in the failure case. If men start most businesses...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 10:01 AM
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Wait you really believe porn/masturbation is an acceptable substitute for human touch and real sex? Paging all incels! That’s like me trying to counter by saying that women can just go visit a daycare or hold a friend’s baby. The male sex drive is ultimately appeased by one thing: real sex with a human female. I’m open to hearing experiences from those with inter-species experience who may contradict this point!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 09:54 AM
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Lol! But if women == incel here, then ultimately their problems are mostly to do with their own chosen lifestyle, despite all the blame they place on society and everybody else :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 09:44 AM
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It's a horrible future for white men out there. When we’re raised improperly to hate our own race and sex, yes. As you point out, you (and society at large currently) have no clue what to tell them or how to raise them, except that they’re oppressive, and their very nature is toxic. I’d say it’s an even worse future for black men. Even more frequently raised by single mothers. Way more poverty on average. So are you’re saying that the black community still sees masculinity in a positive light? O…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 09:40 AM
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bestow honors on them that they didn’t earn. It’s bullshit. Bullshiiiit I tell you. Eeeevil anti-feminists and their terrible arguments! Except where that’s a straw man. Against “the STEMlord meme”. Which has exactly...what? To do with this guy’s statement that you’ve “put to rest”? I fail to see where he brought that up. You can try to draw a connection post hoc but the truth is you’re the one that brought that up and it has nothing to do with the original comment and only serves as something a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 09:20 AM
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If they call it kitty, I'm gonna have to go with meat wallet just to balance out the weird. I believe a fair compromise is pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:46 PM
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Seducate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:28 PM
1

Points still stand. Hypothetical is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:07 PM
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Jesus Christ, so I guess I've been reading you defend the hypothetical past the point of absurdity. My points still stand in the hypothetical case, but now I get to add the additional point that this doesn't even sound like a plausible scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 03:06 PM
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What you seem to be saying is you're in a miserable and completely unsustainable situation. Everything comes back to how stressful and overworked the situation is. You say you can't afford to spend a couple hundred dollars on yourself because your husband won't let you or he guilt trips you. You make it sound like you come home and work yourself to the bone while he sits and watches TV. While simultaneously he complains about your looks. Sounds like you want out. What the hell kind of man did yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:14 AM
1

Not to mention literally being an order of magnitude cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:56 AM
1

I'm just over here wondering what awful decisions had to be made to get to the point where both you and your husband have to work 80 hours a week each and still can't afford a piece of exercise equipment because it's apparently all going to feeding the kids/maintenance & upkeep? Jumping to divorce seems extreme. A stairmaster seems like a dumb cost/benefit trade-off. I just looked it up and they cost like 2 grand. A decent stationary bike can be obtained for less than 200 dollars. If that's too …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 10:55 AM
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Yo, this may have some good points. But I don't know. Because I'm not reading it. Because the title is all caps and a direct violation of the posting guidelines which say don't command people. Then the first two sentences are just straight up orders.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:15 AM
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Did you even read my comment... Or the one above it... You just stayed the obvious, with seemingly no connection... The comment I replied to posed a question. "Would you have sex with no chance of orgasm?" I'm offering up one perspective, and posing a return question. This reply doesn't further the conversation in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:12 AM
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In every community there is signal and there is noise. You're seeing noise. There's a lot of it.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:24 PM
1

Chop your balls off and you'll be content without it for life.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:44 PM
1

Twas a joke
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:40 PM
1

What about the women who say they have a hard time orgasming (or just don't, i.e. they likely haven't explored that) and claim that they simply enjoy sex regardless? I can't imagine they say they enjoy it if they feel nothing or actual pain. I'd maybe be a little disappointed if I couldn't orgasm, but if I got halfway and had a great time, and could finish myself off, I'd still do that shit because all the brain chemicals that get released during the act are still awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:32 PM
1

At work they have the toilets that spray your ass clean with water. Came to ask if I should be using that feature or just wiping my ass with TP. Not sure what brand TP but I'll get back to you so you can answer with all the relevant details. The water pressure is pretty good, though. If I don't clench sometimes a little water sneaks up the sphincter.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:13 PM
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Only if you look at it a certain way. Come on man, those are the guys you are aspiring to be. Try to change your mindset to one a little less envious.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:09 PM
2

And remember to put that reclaimed gear--Wait for it... ... In the rear.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:05 PM
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Everyone else mentions most of the traits I'd associate with masculinity already, so I'll make a comment related to the phrasing of the question. The very fact that it needs to be considered "positive" masculinity implies the societal shift to the belief that masculinity is inherently negative. Like "toxic" masculinity is the majority and not a minority. You don't hear people talking about what "positive" femininity is, because the concept of "toxic" femininity isn't really pervasive. By the by,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 03:32 PM
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I hit the chubs pretty hard the month after my unplugging. Just used fatty abundance to get over the girl that hooked me. I knew with my shit physique/beta ingrained tendencies I was gonna have to pull off some solid game to get the hotties, and I wasn't looking to spend my time chasing women at that moment when I figured my time would be better spent getting back into an exercise routine, developing a couple masculine hobbies, etc. Still had the urge to fuck though, and I'm still high value eno…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:56 AM
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I know how because sometime years ago I took the 2 minutes it takes to Google how to. It's something so low effort that almost anybody can do it regardless of background. If they think it will contribute to the community that they care about, they should do it themselves and share it to help others. I have a detailed theory post I'm working on for the community. I consider that a better use of my time than fulfilling the whims of someone who is just being lazy.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 08:20 PM
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Why don't you look up how to do it, lazy fucktard ;)
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:02 PM
1

Yikes, you're right. My bad, totally didn't follow the argument at all in my half-awake Reddit browsing sesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:06 PM
1

Don't shift the goalpost, that's a whole different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 10:08 AM
1

I could say I went through the Denial, Anger, and Bartering phase. You're still stuck in one of 'em, for damn sure. Pretend you were reading your own post objectively and you should be able to see which.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:06 AM
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I quit a lot of news outlets too when I realized just how many of these "journalists" were just out to confirm their version of the story. Or twist things so much that they conform. Got a good look at the new wave of aspiring "objectives" in college. Wouldn't trust any of those kids to report the truth if it gobsmacked 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 09:47 AM
1

Eh, double standards on both sides. Nowadays guys are discouraged from pursuing girls (with the hidden exception that it's okay as long as they are attractive enough. But how should they know what a woman finds attractive until they go get their heads taken off?) Not saying it happens all the time 100% of the time or anything, but probably at least as often as a woman is slut shamed for approaching a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:55 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:30 PM
2

Of course non white and non black population skews it. I just googled "male height statistics US" and got those numbers. Just rechecked a few other links. Might be off by 5% or so, but ballpark is pretty close. Seems white males average is about 5'10. Blacks probably an inch higher but that's a guess. Your competition is all males in the environment. So if you consider yourself only in competition with blacks and whites, you still have access to all the Hispanic and Asian women. That means you c…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:45 PM
3

Only 6'0. Get the fuck out of here, you're taller than 99% of women and are considered desirable height by like 95+%. You're in the top 15% in America and only like 4% of American men are over 6'2". Looks wise you're fine.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:23 PM
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takes_RP here. Just sitting back with popcorn in hand waiting for the guy to get a talking to by the mods or a ban or something for all the weird personal advice requests and now a straight up TRP post (and one that would probably be removed or ridiculed there anyway for it's low value.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 05:49 PM
1

Women might not love casual sex with men but they readily give it up to these guys in the hopes that they stick around. Call it casual sex or call it a gambling, whatever term works. Women can have a very high value man--just not keep him if they aren't also high value or if the man doesn't feel like settling. Also, even if they strongly dislike it, the ones they are having sex with are not 1/10 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:37 PM
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try to build a farm Oh yay, so there are girls who will follow me out to my farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:22 PM
2

Sure from a biological perspective we're looking at women because we want them to pop out babies. But that ignores the influence society has had. And the fact that not all guys want kids. I'm getting at the fact that for a lot of men the ability to control that theywon't accidentally have a kid with the wrong woman is what they're after, not some secret special tech method that allows them to impregnate a woman more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 01:21 PM
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Biggest one for me? Look at what they say they look for in a man. Respectful, kind, listens, emotionally in touch. Now look at the assholes they fuck. Now back to their ideal. Now back to the assholes.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:27 AM
1

I heard that in Arnold Schwarzenegger's voice.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:20 AM
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It was, thanks. A ton of interviews and challenges, a ton of waiting around, and all sorts of interview prep. Something I can stay proud of achieving. I do believe you can make those figures, much more credible ;) It's a pretty sweet deal when neither of us have any debt Double income, no children. Ah the DINC life is amazing is it not? Especially debt free. Gotta find me a productive girl so I can be in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:37 AM
1

Ahh gotcha. I actually am new, I just work for one if the Titans of silicon valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:27 AM
1

Didn't mean to imply that I couldn't make good money. Idk where your boyfriend works/lives, so I don't know how much he makes, but there's no way in hell you could ever make 170000 a year in gross benefits from dog grooming the way I do right now. Edit: gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:20 AM
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I smell fish and you refuse to show me or anybody else the goods. I'm gonna keep telling my fellow terpers that this stuff smells fishy because I don't want them consuming rotten crap. And if I'm wrong my comments/ideas will tank just like your posts have tanked. And if you're wrong, your posts will continue to tank. I don't believe you've experienced shit. I think you've got an iamverysmart level IQ trying to stroke your own ego and convince us you've figured it all out and are some sort of aut…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:49 AM
2

It's a motte and Bailey argument. The center of his argument is that commandment, which I agree with, but a lot of the stuff he says surrounding it is largely conjecture if you comb it with a skeptics eye. I'm pretty good at picking up on things from the tone of people's writing, and he's written 5 posts that give me a pretty strong suspicion that he's talking from no experience i.e. it's just armchair philosophy which is garbage. We care about results. What results has he achieved? Edit: in his…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:22 AM
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Why bother asking these questions If you haven't actually done any of this, then it's all just arm chair philosophizing. You know who else does that? The radfems that come up with theory on gender fluidity. If you've never lived through this stuff I don't want to hear you giving me or anyone else here advice. If you aren't speaking from experience then you're just mixing together bits and pieces of various theories hoping you can come up with something that sticks. If I have no reason to believe…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:18 AM
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I'm gonna ask you something. What is your experience with women? How many LTRs, your n count? Also, do you hate women? Like really hate them as a whole? Because if you understand their nature and accept it, I don't think you would write the way you do. Something bothers me about these posts (3 sizeable ones in as many days) and it's not just the long winded evo-psych like what you wrote under the first point. You just don't sound like you come from a place of experience. Not one example from the…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:46 PM
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I don't see it the same way. I think the women who say they want complete equality end up resenting the men who give it to them. I don't think women actually understand what they want very well. How else can they claim to your face that they want trusting, caring, emotional partners and then go fuck the most popular guy on the football team? Repeat over and over. If these asshole guys that are so reviled by women are getting all the sex, what does that say about women's ability to pursue what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:04 PM
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I do look at Tinder, and at the fact that probably 90% of womens' profiles say "not looking for a hookup. I want something real." Definitely not 90%, but I guess without non-anecdotal numbers on either of our parts we'll just have to agree to disagree for now. And if you want to paint the causal sex being had as venture sex, then I'd posit that many guys would be willing to commit and be her boyfriend if she didn't act so entitled and crazy. But we probably also disagree that it's a natural orde…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 08:34 PM
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Oh I see. Not as dumb as I initially thought, apologies. It's a false equivalency, though. You claim that most women dislike casual sex. But they enjoy the casual sex they can get. Gay anal isn't a fair comparrison Also I would actually deny the claim that they don't like it. Look at tinder. Look at any college campus. Rampant casual sex abounds, so who are all these women having it? Its not an insignificant amount. They certainly don't like it as much as men. And they might prefer to have a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:46 PM
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Same guy, using PPD as his weird personal advice forum. Does PPD do post bans?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:40 PM
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"Fuck her!" "She's a bitch anyway" "you're better off without her". There's something to be said about their part in things, too, but most people are just going to repeat platitudes to make you feel better. It takes maturity to introspect and discover what part you played. This is the world we live in, where personal responsibility means almost nothing at all. Sad but true. It's depressing that I can't see the true victims through the pervasive victim mentality.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:38 PM
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Technically all men can get casual sex they don't want, too: just go to a gay bar. Technically that's the worst argument I've seen all day. "Women can't find a husband that fits her standards? Technically they can! Marry a lesbian."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:27 PM
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Congrats quitting weed. I'm at the end of the second week off. Takes a lot, but it's worth it not to feel content with mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:12 PM
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Clearly he is a known actor of much import on the sub, and thus would like us to consider his words with the extra weight of the authority that grants. Who else could post such inspring questions as "Should I become a PUA?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 05:40 PM
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It's a disghusting middle eastern guy smiling into the camera with a tooth missing Edit: and a unibrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 05:34 PM
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I'm so fucking embarrassed right now. I was doing YTW the wrong direction. Thanks for (accidentally) pointing out my mistake!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:59 PM
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Congrats on actually having the balls to do what most guys only whinge about and actually realizing your value and that her duty sex isn't enough anymore. And yeah, I feel you on the shark/teddy thing. I'm only 5'9" with my bad posture (gain an inch standing fully aligned) and 140lb but the nature of the men at my work is so feminized I feel like I'm being too domninant just by maintaining eye contact. My own manager won't look me in the damn eye, and I'm by no means aggressive looking.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:53 PM
1

Nobody puts Atlas in the corner! Glad someone gets part of the reason trades are more appealing to me. They don't pay as much and the work might be a bit tougher, but at least it gives me the freedom of not having to slog through all the corporate BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 04:27 PM
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You're not wrong... I maintain my respect for you. but as you correctly observe... as soon as you say "only 99% of women are like that", what happens is that 100% of men believe they are dating the top 1% of women. We all want a unicorn. Tell guys there's 1% not like that and every one of 'em will go strapping horns onto seemingly above average mares.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:16 PM
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Okay. Now go refute my other comment which completely shreds your ridiculous perspective that TRP is a microcosm of the way women select men. The one that was actually related to this post, and not a compete tangent. Or have I poked that pet theory full of enough holes yet? You can choose to participate in this further derailment from that point, or not. If you really want me to I'll find the time to do a takedown, its just gonna be time consuming and requires back and forth between the post tha…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:04 PM
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Are you disagreeing with what I said? Because I agree with everything you just wrote...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 03:54 PM
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Thanks. Definitely repeating the gun metaphor from somewhere else around here, but it really helped me understand it. I can see why u/MattyAnon dislikes having to explain this to women repeatedly. Most if not all of them who claim they would never exhibit this behavior eventually end up doing so. This isn't a knock against women. It's a recognition of fact. Just like I recognize that after a few years in a relationship chances are in going to catch wandering eyes. The difference is male instinct…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 03:51 PM
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Everybody looks at me like I've lost my damn mind for wanting to quit software in California for a trade in my home state across the country. "You should give it a few more years." Or how about I autoerotically asphyxiate in an attempt to escape the massive influx of 1st generation Chinese immigrants that I'm supposed to somehow work with despite the fact that their vocabulary is limited to less than 500 words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 03:11 PM
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Hahaha gold. "If you were a vampire you fuck guys, you fuck chicks, you ain't gay, you just sling dick."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 03:01 PM
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Ugly men have limited experience to become good, so I dont think they are the best. You banging dudes, bro? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 02:33 PM
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"tell me if that's your g spot, bitch. You better explain how many inches away I am." Nah, jk, I know what you mean, this is definitely not mutually exclusive. I just tell her I want to focus on her now or try something new. The thought that they would be bothered by this never crosses my mind. It just can't be all simpy. Like ask what they like, but don't sit there and keep asking if they're enjoying it over and over like you can't read the body language. And if they say they don't cum easy but…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 02:26 PM
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Bought a TRX trainer last year (pre redpill) with some money that fell in my lap. Turned out there was really nowhere to put it in my apartment, so it got relegated to the closet, and I gave up on my fitness goals. Anyway this year new city, and I tried getting back into fitness but fucked up my shoulder so I can't do heavy loads/the major compounds. Got really sedentary while the tendonitis ran it's course, and had to undergo 6 months PT the joint was so unstable. Been meaning to get back to it…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 01:44 PM
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What correlates to good in bed for me is how feminine they are. The awkward girls who don't really understand how to touch a man casually are often the ones that are somewhat awkward sexually, too. They seem to have a harder time letting go, enjoying the moment, etc. I've been with hot girls that were terrible. I've been with a fat girl who was accepted her body, was feminine as hell, and one of the best/most enthusiastic lays of my life. I've had girls who couldn't do anything but starfish out …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 12:11 PM
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(i know many of you think all women cheat are evil etc, simply not true. Some of us work on our flaws to be a better partner for our SO). AWALT is a heuristic that helps keep us on our toes. People who truly understand it don't truly believe all women do all of this behavior. Just that looks can be deceiving, much of this behavior is encouraged by society right now, and they shouldn't be lulled into a false sense of security. Think of it like "treat all guns as if they are loaded". Having that a…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:58 AM
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Haha it certainly may open the door to it. Can't tell you the number of cringe stories where the guy forgives her.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:50 AM
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You seem to be taking it well. Keep that attitude of personal responsibility for what you got yourself into and you'll make it far. Much farther than the guys who want to bitch about female nature all day long instead of accepting it and working with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:48 AM
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Congrats on making the decision to improve. It's the right one. Now prepare to be decimated for this post. Instead of getting knee jerk defensive about your right to post it, try to take a lesson from it and understand why everyone seems to agree this shouldn't be posted here. Many people have the exact same rude awakening when they get here and try their first post. Anyway good luck, and GTFO WITH THIS LOW EFFORT SHIT NOBODY NEEDS TO HEAR IT. WE ALL HAVE A MILLION EXAMPLES IN OUR DAILY LIVES OF…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:43 AM
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I'm gonna try to be kind here: consider posting it on thanksTRP instead. I get that you feel it's helped you, but it's the wrong place for this. We have askTRP for questions, this is for content not just personal unplugging stories. Maybe it’s ok for someone to post something and not have a beta reaction over it. I lurked for over 2 months while I absorbed the information. 2 weeks isn't enough to internalize this stuff and have the full perspective shift. Then I spent about a full month commenti…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:28 AM
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You stand very little chance of nailing things the first time around. Figuring out girls takes time. I'm still figuring some stuff out myself, but a good way to look at it is that you need practice. Even if you want to wait for a girl to approach you, without skills you'll blow it or you'll let her take advantage. Think about what your goal with women is, and just start making incremental steps as you can. If you can start by just going up and talking with some girls without thinking about askin…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:06 AM
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too many young men are coming here and thinking it's a magic pill for getting ass and notching bed posts instead of a self-improvement sub. I came here because I just couldn't fucking understand why I kept catching oneitis despite my best efforts not to, and got the rude awakening. I already was capable of banging tinder hoes from the start of college, but had such a bluepilled mindset (raised by single mom, no father figure because she demonized him while society demonized the rest of men) that…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:55 AM
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Point is believing in Alpha Male ideological constructs is healthier than believing in nothing and the leftist victimhood mythos. True, and for some that's what it takes to get out of the depression that comes from that nasty mythos. Sometimes to leave a cult you need to swing hard the other way before you can find out how close to the middle you're comfortable being. If erotic fiction is what it takes to get depressed boys to lift then why not? Can't disagree. Whatever it takes to get them to t…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 05:36 AM
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We don't need more blooper examples, thanks. There isn't a single person in these subreddits who doesn't have at least 23 examples of blue pill behavior he's personally observed in the last two weeks alone. Agreed. Out of curiosity, what sort of content would you be happy to see more of on the main sub? I've seen a lot of long rambling posts that echo sidebar material lately, but are mostly hollow. (Sadly I have to admit my own post from earlier in the week probably falls under the same header d…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:04 AM
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What'd you do?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:49 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 04:43 AM
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Haha I dunno, that's not the reason for my downvote. Did you read the second post of his that he claims to be so perfect? About how women do nothing but destroy, and something about how men discovered agriculture and therefore women have never done a single valuable thing for society ever? There's a bunch of RP theory in there but when I read it it seems mixed with a bunch of personal armchair philosophy and some pretty big assertions out of nowhere that really have no theoretical backbone. He w…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:27 AM
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There are plenty of non SJW girls, just most of them aren't in the big city or blue states. I can't stand the basic bitches either but they tend to be a fitter and more attractive on the whole, especially compared to the creepy anime weebs. The difference is creepy anime weebs tend to be the antisocial girls. I've been with a few. Some are kinky as fuck. Most of them have no social skills and have no clue how to properly touch a guy/behave in a feminine manner. There's more than just those 2 typ…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:12 AM
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Wait this is fun let me add to it: The ridiculously overpainted eyebrows, and 95% of the selfies have either the stars/halo or the heart nose Snapchat filter applied
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:58 AM
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but shes alright and if u scroll thru her IG she def has a personality, she even plays world of warcraft apparently https://www.instagram.com/spiderburial Self proclaimed mentally ill SJW with a cow nose ring that plays video games is your idea of a woman with personality? compare her to the basic bitch who tweets about wanting plastic surgery and idolizes kim k and its night and day I fucking hate the ones that are into Kim Kardashian but I'd rather have them be vapid than bipolar or feminist.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:48 AM
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Software isn't nearly as 100% objective as you'd think, especially not when it comes to what gets accepted into large open source projects. Look at how capricious Linus Torvald is about what gets into the Linux kernel. Highly political. When sentiment shifts, so does the content. Maybe the prevailing sentiment is that Machine Learning is good right now, but if in 3 months my company decides that we are over using Machine Learning, that could be enough to have my objectively valid code rejected a…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:42 AM
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within 10 seconds of seeing your profile main pic. This is what I mean. The attraction is all from the picture(s). No messages are going to build more, but she will still screen dudes asking "wanna fuck?" So all you have to do is avoid that and maybe make her laugh one time or show you're capable of logistics and can pick an activity she's comfortable doing. The amount of effort that those girls require is absurdly low. Guys that don't get this dont understand the difference in attitude that com…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:28 AM
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I guess I see the parallel you're drawing. But how is that different from just saying that along with most things in life, sometimes shit just happens that throws off the expected result? You code up a piece of software. It's optimized, efficient, and all the logic dictates that it should run. You double and triple checked to make sure it runs in the fastest time possible, and you reviewed all the best examples and combined them perfectly into this masterpiece. You try to get it accepted into th…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:17 AM
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I have no idea what you're talking about when you say TRP is a microcosm of the way women select. But I agree with your conclusion point and several intermediary points. If I weren't on mobile I could quote the damn post itself and not just the title, but I can't and I'm not taking the time to figure it out, but... What is the point of that comparrison to female nature?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:44 PM
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WHERE IS THE RAPE KIT? Where is the drug test? Where are the pressed charges? Why would she ever speak to them? Why alone? I just don't believe women who claim to have been raped without a kit or pressed charges. I get pretty irritated just listening to their story knowing how much of it is half truths and fabrication.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:40 PM
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That’s not true at all. I’ve met probably 20 women off tinder. Only 3 or 4 met me with the specific intention of fucking. The rest I had to treat just like a regular date. How long did it take you to convince them to meet you? I did qualify my statement with quickly. And I also said it's 80%. I should also add that I subtly sexualize during the first few messages as well. Not in a "wanna fuck" way, that's unsubtle as shit. An example is I've asked "Would you rather eat great pizza or have great …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:02 PM
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I'll throw some advice your way after having done this shit for 4 years straight: Being more assertive is absolutely the right call. This doesn't mean you can't ask her for information on which day to do something, it just means you need to do the asking in the right way, and recognize when you need to make a decision. This is different depending on how you meet the girl, and where you are at. Some people advocate telling them "I'm doing X at 7, be there." type assertiveness. In my opinion this …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:39 PM
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Numbers. My social circle is fairly small already, why would I decide to mess with it? That's just preference though. If someone came along through the social circle that I was really interested in, I'd go for it. But I'm not going to go seeking that out if it's not there. Why not a mix of both? Diversify your portfolio. Edit: to answer the question that I forgot: the friend circle one will be easier if you are perceived as a high value person within the group or to the friend introducing. You g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 11:52 AM
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Short answer: no. TRP is considered against status quo generally and they consider TBP the normies. You're in the minority there with traditional Muslim values, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 11:40 AM
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A date he rushed through to get her back to his place Sure. But she let him do that. She could have decided not to go back to his place after drinks on the first date. Are you saying women don't have that level of agency and social awareness? Bullshit. She could have left if she wanted. It was not consensual at all. She tried to stop him several times You are...um...twisting the narrative. She voiced that she wanted to relax. Then she mumbled a bit. Later she made her concern explicit and he ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 11:32 AM
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Sure. BTW I just way over explained it. Read the last paragraph below if you want the point short and simple. Read the rest if you want to hear me beat it to death first. Start from the premise that attention and validation are women's currency. The hotter they are, the more true this is because they've been conditioned to it by being showered with it their whole young adult lives. If you have ever looked into it, you'll know that men and women have diametrically opposed experiences on tinder an…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:19 AM
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As someone who was physically assaulted to the point of bleeding, and became relieved when I saw the perpetrator's intent was rape and not murder - I used to be skeptical of women who "could have shut it down" also. I appreciate your thoughtful response, and I'm truly sorry to hear that happened to you. But, let's be fair, someone who's willing to force themselves onto someone in the first place probably isn't going to take kindly to being shut down, and when things are happening too quickly to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 03:17 AM
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Yeah. I usually get downvoted to hell when I voice the same opinion. I haven't experienced that here yet but I haven't been posting here very long. I definitely have encountered that in real life. I'll say that and they'll say "Hey! Women can be as strong as men." Then I mutter agreement so that I don't get outcast from the group. The additional requirement, too, of having to somehow keep me subdued while she manually stimulates me to an erection make it next to impossible. The other way around …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 02:15 AM
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I see your point, and agree. I maybe disagree that feminists as a class should give one fuck about that from a feminist perspective, but they should absolutely care from a human perspective, just as I believe most men who are not MRA care about female rape from a human perspective if not an activism one. If the prevalence goes both ways, it's a general problem that I don't believe falls in the camp of either rights advocacy group. My initial perception of the post was that it was directed at fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:48 AM
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Dicks prove that every morning. Haha, that's not a bad point. My own conspired against me this very day. I like your idea that we need degrees of rape for the purpose of legal punishment, as not all are created equal. It sounds like we mostly agree on the definition, but somehow we disagree that it's a significant problem? Your point seems to be that female on male rape is as large as problem as male on female. That may be. I just posit that rape isn't nearly close to the problem that most femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:11 AM
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Sorry I'm at work on mobile so it's hard to read the whole study. I did skim it. I'm skeptical they are comparing apples to apples, but would agree about statutory rape, and that if men are being raped in prison or by incapacitation levels of intoxication it is a problem. Perhaps on par with women in those same situations, although I would apply the same level of rigor to an investigation of how much intoxication it was. I've never known a guy passed out drunk who could get it up for that. I jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:49 PM
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Back to the drawing board. :/ They've still got lots of girls in bikinis, though. So there's that.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 11:23 PM
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I'm struggling to come up with a delineation for what I consider rape at this point. Because honestly? If I don't want to have sex with her, and I mean really don't, there's no way she's getting me to penetrate her because it would require her to physically overpower me. Anything less than that I would consider coersion. Maybe nasty coersion. Maybe attempted rape if she presses on despite repeated no's. But I can't envision a guy sitting there saying "no I don't consent, you may not sit on my di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:22 PM
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Haha the chick I'm banging this weekend is into "concerts, music, and traveling." Admitted to being basic. At least she knows what she can get from me. Nothing but the D, and that doesn't stand for Dollar.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 10:44 PM
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and never hide other women. To do so suggests monogamy is the default state, not a concession they must ask for and earn (or not). I hear "you're the prize" is the right mentality parroted all over, but the connection of not hiding women to the implication about monogamy is fresh to me. Just because they're expecting monogamy out of you don't mean you need to enter their frame. Besides she's almost certainly prepared to sleep with whatever better option runs her way without a second thought.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:35 PM
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You seem to have found a couple legitimate uses for them that I don't object to, aside from occasional boredom. I wait them because I choose TV (mostly comedy/documentary)/making shit with my hands when I'm bored. (Knitting. It's highly repetitive almost meditative and results in new clothes I pay very little for and can give as gifts/wear. Used to be done mostly by men, especially sailors. Not that I clearly feel the need to defend it or anything.) I cringed so hard when I read that he is "taki…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:58 PM
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She said let's get drinks, and you said let's do Sunday? You should have asked her when she was free instead of just throwing out a day, if you wanted to make this work. If she gives you multiple days, then you be assertive and pick one. But really if she was into it she would have proposed another time, so odds are it's someone else's turn.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:42 PM
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Up to C I'm into. D are cool to play with but more trouble than they're worth (get in the way of a lot of physical activities) and would totally get saggy faster, which I don't like. Not really into the inverted puffy nips. But I'm definitely more of an ass man. Is it me or is this place getting a little...weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:37 PM
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That first article is more my speed and holy fuck is it a good one. Long read, but worth every minute. Really fleshes out my half baked theory without the need to explain the exact chemical mechanism, but also explodes way beyond the scope of the narrow issue of thinking about them too much. I'm banging my third chick this weekend since I got caught by hopefully my last oneitis, but now I see the benefit of socializing a bit more outside of what I currently do. I don't think that masturbating in…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:23 PM
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This. Dude was in a long distance relationship for 4 straight years through college. Probably just a giant emotional tampon, probably never talked to a girl besides her. Fatob computer geek. I can just imagine all the dudes running train on his GF.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:47 PM
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If you need this it sounds like you are using self help in a masturbatory way. You already know what you need to do to quit, you said so yourself. The truth is nothing we say is going to give you strong enough motivation to quit. It has to come from you. It's something you must do for you. This reply might get you off a bit, but I tried to make it as gentle as possible to deny you that feeling. So that hopefully the message cuts through.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:45 PM
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Just for perspective: I have an enthusiastic girl lined up to fuck this Friday. She asked where I live and I told her (only my apartment building address. She doesn't get to know the specific apartment until she's actually there. I don't like random bitches flaking and knowing exactly where I live.) I asked if she had a car, to which she replied something like "no, I get super anxious so I Uber everywhere". Took me 3 messages to get the number and sex commitment. Very strong text game, no humble…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:38 PM
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I've been thinking about this lately. Most guys don't seem to have a problem with masturbation. There's a high codependency on porn associated with feeling the need to do NoFap. My theory is they're addicted to the dopamine. Same as in "sex addiction". I would even lump oneitis into this category as a form of masturbation. Mental masturbation, but picturing this perfect life with your perfect girl and all the perfect sex etc. is definitely releasing happy brain juice. I'm beginning to believe th…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:29 PM
1

I'm not really into duty starfish, she tends to just perform oral if she doesnt want to have sex - which is a reasonable compromise as she enjoys that even if she isnt feeling horny. I envy you so hard. I would kill for a girl that enjoys oral and does it voluntarily with any amount of regularity. In fact...new mission. Yes its a big deal. Yes its a turnoff if she isnt. Agreed, starfish will make me go soft. One time I had a ONS who was absolutely starfishing (despite th face ntshtbshe came over…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 08:10 PM
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Might be tmi but head doesn't get me off. Not tmi at all. People come here to ask about ED, going soft in condoms, all sorts of shit. Would only be weird if it came out of left field, but it's highly relevant, so you're good. Tmi at this point would be deciding to tell me you're really into pegging. Totally sucks that you don't get off from head. Works like a charm for me, but I've always had pretty good control of my orgasms. (Can last long PIV, but if I'm just getting a blowjob can allow mysel…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:37 PM
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Just know that no matter how you were raised its okay to need a hug or a confidence boost from somebody. I'm trying to get used to this. For me, breaking free of the trap required me to just all our reject attention/validation for a while, and grow comfortable like that. It's taking some getting used to letting myself actually appreciate validation, but I'd rather be here than where I was a couple years ago.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:25 PM
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I'm just sitting here thinking to myself...a lot of girls meeting quickly off tinder have 80% made up their minds to fuck you. I don't bother wasting time trying to "build attraction" with the ones that won't, because chances are they're only fishing for validation if it takes more than a few messages to get their number. At that point as long as they aren't compete morons they'll get it in. Agree, this seems like mistaking his swiping behavior for the thing that got her ready to go. He could pr…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:12 PM
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Yeah, more secure about yourself. It's good to notice the disrespect, but you don't need to act on it all the time, especially if the person doesn't matter. I'm growing my hair out, and a guy at work made a comment about how it looks feminine right now. Massively disrespectful the way he delivered it. But you know what? I smiled it off. This, coming from the pussy who can't stomach looking at a picture of a ladybug at lunch because it's too gross and makes him queasy? From the guy who instagrams…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 06:02 PM
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Yeah but this is a blowjob we're talking about. No effort on your part. You're not fucking her. Maybe she gives amazing head. I'm an optimist about head.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 05:44 PM
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I feel ya. Seems we're mostly in agreement. Unlike the lady above who I'm convinced actually believes most men have inherently rapey bahavior and went silent when pressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:34 PM
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Look up attention and validation on this sub. Lots of posts about how they are basically their currency. Maybe they're just raised with so much of it they get addicted. That's my thought. Women receive so much from guys after they leave the nest. Most men get none and learn to get along without it. I was raised (feminized) by a single mom, no father figure, and wound up an attention/validation hungry person. It's taken me years to move away from that.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 05:32 PM
1

Ah, I see. It doesn't have to be "nice". I'd say it's more than just legal, it's fairly normal today. I agree it reads a bit awkward, but also the whole story is an accounting from her perspective after she had time to start feeling regret. I'm willing to bet his accounting of the story has no mention of her ever voicing her discomfort. From a male perspective, the male makes advances and the female sets her boundaries. He was escalating as the majority of men would normally escalate. It wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:20 PM
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Ah, I see. It doesn't have to be "nice". I'd say it's more than just legal, it's fairly normal today. I agree it reads a bit awkward, but also the whole story is an accounting from her perspective after she had time to start feeling regret. I'm willing to bet his accounting of the story has no mention of her ever voicing her discomfort. From a male perspective, the male makes advances and the female sets her boundaries. He was escalating as the majority of men would normally escalate. It wasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:20 PM
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I'd tell him that and see how he takes it. You can post it as "I hate when I go to the club and a friend does X Y Z instead of A B C." You dont quite call him out, but point out the negative behavior and why it puts a damper on everything. Hopefully you'll see a lightbulb go off in his head. I ditched the friends that wanted to keep me down at their level instead of rising with me. Some people are content to be crabs in a bucket.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 04:24 PM
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Since I took personal responsibility for my life and stopped blamong shit on the conditions around me, things have been better. After initial improvement in college, I have moderate success with women, but I know it could be much better. I have great genetics/natural looks, but have treated my body like shit. As such, I get women below what I believe I could pull. At the same time, I never let myself slide to the point where I couldn't get ONS sex with a 5-6 within a couple days effort on tinder…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:56 PM
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Just make sure he's not a cock block. He does that once, ask him about it direct. If it sounds like he's gonna keep doing it, drop the fucker. I had a "friend". One day I saw a chick and feeling confident in the moment I said "I'm gonna go ask her out." He was like "whoa dude, she's eating lunch." I was like "And she looks bored alone on her phone, and has been sitting alone ever since she sat down 15 minutes ago." He said "whatever man, just don't push yourself too hard on her. I wouldn't. Plea…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:32 PM
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Florida. Bartending gigs for sure, plus lots of hot women in a state that isn't as insane as California. No income tax.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:26 PM
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Haha shit, that went over my head. I misremembered the scene a little bit. Went back and rewatched it and it's way funnier than I described. That shit is gold. "Hello Oscar Mayer Weiner--lover. I bet that you have a bunch of very liberal girl type friends who trust you implicitly because they know you'd never touch them because of your condition."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:12 PM
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I'm a little confused. You seem to agree with me, but your comment above reflects a negative sentiment toward Aziz and the situation. Am I misunderstanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:04 PM
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A reference from the office. Michael is asking to be set up and Phyllis says she knows the perfect woman. He then asks if they could fit in a town at together. Initially she gets offended "hey!" But he emphatically restates the question to which she sadly replies "...no"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:04 PM
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What are you even saying? Why would she go back into his place after the date? Every woman I've ever asked back to my place on the first date has known what they were putting on the table. Women today are certainly aware of that. If she wasn't having a good time she could have left at any point. She is describing the entire incident from a place of regret. Look at her actions. Those were not nonconsensual actions. He went for a condom, she said whoa not yet. They continued making out and shortly…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:56 PM
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To me AWALT is a way of expressing a heuristic about women's nature. I believe women have a tendency toward hypergamy that is currently being left unchecked/actually encouraged. The corresponding behavior in men would be that all men have a tendency toward polygamy. However, this is not societally acceptable or enabled by the laws. What I think is blatant sexism is to try to imply that all men have a tendency toward rape, and the claim that there is some sort of "rape culture" that is encouragin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:46 PM
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The cost is his dignity. Or his soul. Or something. He makes money but pays with something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:33 AM
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"And ladies, this one's just for you: if you're on a date, and you know you don't like the guy, don't let him pay for your meal unless you're eventually going to put out. I know most of you like to do that, but treat every time as if by taking that meal you are depriving a fellow woman of male trust down the line. Because that's what's happening. You are." Feminists: think that would go without mention in the media?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:39 AM
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things like that woman had to go through with Aziz Ansari A nice date that led to 100% consensual sex which she later regretted and decided to smear him for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:25 AM
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What, you aren't on call? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:55 AM
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Most people have the capacity for most behaviors, so that's pretty meaningless. Most women have the capacity to sleep their way into higher positions in their respective businesses. Just because some do doesn't mean we broadcast a message to society that women tend to do that. It's a recognized behavior of a minority. I claim that rapey behavior is common only among a small portion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:02 AM
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So you admit to believing that a majority of men have rapey behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:00 AM
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That's hardly as negative as saying all men need to check their rapey nature at the door, or ponder how they are oppressing the opposite sex. Sure they got what they wanted. We're saying what they wanted is messed up. How many major broadcasting network shoes are there dedicated to unilaterally assailing the right/conservatives/men? I count at least 4. Now how many for the opposite side? Same thing with late night hosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:55 PM
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There was another political joke someone lower in the thread quoted. Something about talking only to the women. Men, sit this part out. Take the time to think about the extra money you'll be payed for the same job. It was repeated jokes advocating one position. Never cracking jokes about the other side. Also, half the audience is men. She's didn't touch a joke about women. She just ripped on men. Besides, this is not a set, it's a speech delivered to a graduating class. I had this happen at mine…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:38 PM
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I hear this argument about people like John Steward, Stephen Colbert, Trevor Noah, etc. They sit there and make political commentary that is clearly advocating one position, and are celebrated for their witty arguments. But if you ever try to criticize the message the reply is "they're just a comedian, you can't take them seriously." Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:32 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:29 PM
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Replying to save my place. I want to hear this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 10:30 PM
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By that standard, would you also consider gold diggers equally disghusting people, seeing men as walking moneybags? I don't know if I have a problem with either one, honestly. I wouldn't want to associate with that type, just not my style, but it does seem that both sides are just being honest about it. I guess it depends on how you view sex, and whether or not it's acceptable to see it as a service. I see gold diggers on the arms of these 80yo guys...the guys know what the deal is. The girls kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 05:01 PM
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And in the opposite direction, going from stick figure to someone who has meat on his bones, it feels amazing to have to buy new clothes because the old ones actually restrict your movement. Holy shit when I had to go up a waist size from 28 to 30 that was one of the happiest moments of my life. No more shopping for end sizes.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 04:53 PM
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No problem. Good luck, man. Take care of those joints especially since you've had prior problems. They will feel fine and then all of sudden BAM. Tendonitis or a torn labrum or cuff muscle or something, and all your gains go out the window for 6 months while you recover.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 03:39 PM
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Im getting ready to get back in the gym because I've beenovong so sedentary recently that my joints aren't really quite ready for the load my primary muscles can handle. That's a recipe for injury, so I'm taking the next few weeks and doing some TRX type body weight stuff and some body weight exercise. I'm at a low enough baseline that I can actually make progress with this right now and I suspect that if you don't workout at all, you can too. Don't get a joint injury. The chronic pain will ruin…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 03:30 PM
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That's a lot of questions and I'm not writing a full essay in response. I don't know what you mean by greatness. And an ambition for what? I realized that the bigger house, the best pussy, whatever...wouldn't fulfil me. I am making 6 figures in software but I'm spending my best physical years (or the ones that should theoretically be my best) in a chair letting my spine degenerate at a much more rapid rate. So instead I'm quitting the huge money and plush job and doing my own thing. I'm going to…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 03:19 PM
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I had a female roommate in a situation where I didn't even fuck her, never looked at her sexually over the course of the years I knew her. There was a point in my college days when I blacked out and ended up back in my house passed out naked (bad look but ultimately harming nobody). She found out who I voted for in the election and she told me she would file a sexual assault allegation against me if I didn't pack my shit and move THE NEXT DAY. I had 1 semester left for my bachelor's, so I begged…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:14 AM
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Poor que no los dos?
/r/askTRP12/06/18 10:04 AM
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Gonna get it innnnnnnnn On lucky date #25 The quarter centennial
/r/askTRP12/06/18 10:01 AM
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Or he'll feel the glorious inside of a vagina for the first time. I honestly don't know. I've never payed for the sex straight up, but we all usually pay one way or another. The ones where all you have to do to get them to put out is buy a cheap dinner are my fave.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:58 AM
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Legos
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:54 AM
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and it better be good the reason you provide will be inadequate by default.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 09:49 AM
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No worries. Better to get some unnecessarily harsh advice than to miss something that needed saying. I knew it came from a good intention. Appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 09:46 AM
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Alpha fux, Beta bux, baby.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:24 AM
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I once had a girl on my lap grinding against my leg about to take everything off when she pauses and asks "where are things going with us?" Man I wish I had just said "all the way".
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:21 AM
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likely he was nearly crying when he told his crush that he couldn't be around her when he was so much in love. Projecting much? Fuck off. Op apparently is clueless Nope. Op is holding out hope This was something I was doing. I thought it was a decent solution. I've been taught otherwise, and see the error in my ways. I was on the right track by refusing to be her "friend" anymore, just not implementing strategy pefectly. If you actually read the post and have decent comprehensive skills you'll s…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 03:27 AM
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He keeps insisting he doesn't want her back. I call bullshit. What do you think?
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:09 AM
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I can't parse the last few sentences there. Also in the first part are you saying that all women complain that men are systematically assholes, not just feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 12:18 AM
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I don't know what a "study group" is, but it sounds like online dating without profiles, so you just cold open? I'm running low on time so I can't help craft a better opener for you right now, but you are all over the place. There's the part about your pronunciation that doesn't fit. There's the fact that you start by telling her random facts about your life, and conclude with asking if they've been to Europe. There's the random favorite songs thrown in. It's too much and makes you look unfocuse…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:09 AM
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It also takes a lot of responsibility. You have to be good at controlling a situation to not let something get out of control, right? I'm looking into ownership with the goal of eventually everyday conceal for protection. But from what I gather, the law is ridiculously harsh about brandishing, so even though you possess the upper hand in a lot of situations, you are forced to be the mature one because they may be operating from a point of aggression where they don't know that they are toast in a…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:00 AM
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it's just a rhetoric question Don't lie to yourself. Also, don't lie to us or we can't give you the right advice. You clearly want her back if there is a way. You're asking us to show it to you. The right advice is, don't play; you're clearly caught up on her if you're here posting about her. At least admit what you want.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:54 PM
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a pass to consume alcohol That is the crux of the question. Not the lack of accountability. You seem to be parsing that sentence as "a pass to consume alcohol [and also a pass to] not be held accountable". Based on the original context, you should be getting "a pass to consume alcohol and not be held accountable [for the actions and decisions they make while intoxicated]".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 11:26 PM
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Sure. For lack of accountability. Why are you broadening my argument? Or arguing against a point in not making?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:37 PM
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Pool (billiards not swimming) is not super physically demanding, and is highly social. People can play well into their 80s at a high level. Not sure how bad it would be on your neck/arms, though, but since you can work out I imagine it wouldn't be hard. Solid for dates, too. Great isolation, some drinking, you can teach her, and if she's bored you have a private table to talk and walk around without it being awkward. Lol at the poeple recommending MMA and all these other highly physical things.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:02 PM
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You said because he was rich. Unless he was given a pass for being drunk, he is not an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:54 PM
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I'd say this is my current ideal strategy, honestly. As long as she stays somewhat fit I think the bond formed/her sexuality (she's perfect so she has a completely compatible sexual chemistry) overcomes that. I'm planning on living rural, though, so I just don't believe that above a certain threshold attractiveness girls are incentivised to develop an attractive personality. The ones that are 8-10 have so many options I can't see them giving up city life or seeing the value of hard work. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:41 PM
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But the rapists aren't getting a pass because they were intoxicated. Women are getting a pass to cry rape. Was Brock given lenient sentence because he was inebriated?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 08:48 PM
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sigh okay you get one more reply because I see what the confusion is. Here is my orginal question, which you used Brock as an example for: Why should anybody, and I mean anybody, male or female, be given a pass to consume alcohol and not be held accountable for their actions? This question would relate to the woman drinking being held accountable. Not the rapist. If someone gets drunk and rapes someone, the rapist should obviously be held accountable. But an example of someone getting away with …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 08:30 PM
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Me: "I was raised without a father figure/masculine presence, and was never taught anything masculine. Where would you recommend I go to learn what it means to be a man?" Feminist: "No! Toxix masculinity toxic masulinity toxi--" Webbed wings unfurl "REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE"
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:46 PM
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Unbalanced friendships aren't friendships at all. And they'll never admit they are unbalanced. They feel entitled to the same level of attention, without admitting that they were receiving intimate/romantic levels of attention. As I follow the path to abundance, I'll never again befriend a woman who I'm attracted to. I will make my intentions known from the beginning, and reject the offer of friendship if given. At least until I am skilled enough/at a place where I can do so effectively. I have …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:37 PM
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I tend to be pretty ruthless about this stuff. It's not to be an asshole, but rather because I think the painful truth is the best medicine. I felt the knee jerk need to defend myself because I wasn't asking for advice and it seemed people's replies were ignoring the progress demonstrated as well. But after giving serious consideration I did in fact see the blind spots being pointed out about how I could be doing even better with it. I'll keep it up, and hope to see you up there in EC land in a …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 03:53 PM
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Hahahaha ohhhhh shit. That's the hearty chuckle I came here for this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 03:25 PM
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I don't mean to get circle-jerky, only to elaborate on this: A supermajority of women give absouletely terrible or meaningless advice on how to get women. I was one of those guys who refused to listen to men. Convinced my female friends could steer me right. "Just be yourself, try to relax, you're a great catch already for someone. Oh what me? Aw, that's so cute. I wouldn't want to ruin our great friendship. But you're a great catch. Don't change."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 03:01 PM
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Men will generally bang anything that has a pulse. No--wait--anything that remotely resembles anything having a pulse. So long as they are horny enough. Thus the female 2 on tinder can actually get someone to come fuck her for a ONS. The male? Maybe when he'll freezes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:45 PM
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I hated being an incel at 12 years old. That was terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:40 PM
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I admitted you were also right. I was using past tense in a way you clearly don't understand. And it is a misdirection, as I've said 3 times now and won't say again: your example of using Brock Turner has nothing to do with the argument. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:25 PM
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the mistakes you made are blindingly obvious. All your advice is solid for that situation. But did you miss the part where I didn't have RP knowledge for most of this? They're obvious mistakes now. They weren't when I was plugged in.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 08:37 AM
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And at the time he was alleged. We are both correct. Regardless, his example has nothing to do with it, this is just misdirection of the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 08:23 AM
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For example Brock Turner got 6 months for rape because he came from a rich family. Brock was the alleged rapist. And the chick was passed out in an alley. If there's more to the story IDK because I didn't follow it closely, but that sounds like a miscarriage of justice. However, the way he was treated has nothing to do with my point at all. If you think that then you haven't been around such people while sober. I have. And I've also been the sloppy drunk person with a sober chick trying to get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 08:03 AM
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Lightswitch effect once they realize they can't get what they want out of you anymore.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 07:34 AM
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and to tell you the truth I'm suicidal over this. Honestly? If that's where you're at, I suggest seeing a therapist to work through some of that. A male therapist. Vet him, make sure he knows how to deal with your situation. Sorry shit happened to you man, hope you get help.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:16 AM
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I was always the kid a couple grades ahead. I left highschool a couple years early and ended up feeling like I had a pretty big disconnect between me and the other people by the time I left school. With highschool you'll get sort of a trial run at making a friend group/experiences. At community college, everybody around you will be at a slightly different stage of their life because of the age gap. If you found this before college, congrats! You will never have easier access to massive amounts o…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:07 AM
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Lol shit tests have nothing to do with this. Unless your mom is vetting you as a sexual prospect.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:59 AM
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I also had 0 social skills and wouldn't have known how to approach that. That and all the other things you mention are excuses. Most male incels make the same excuses. I didn't have social skills. I took the time to learn them. Maybe some people on the spectrum can't accomplish it, but a majority of people can devote some time to self improvement and learning new skills. Having anxiety isn't something I qualify as a valid excuse either. If I'm too anxious to get on a plane I'm not involuntarily …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 03:33 AM
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Me: incel content is mildly irritating and I hope it's kept to a minimum here. Also me: please let this sub be overrun and consumed by incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 12:55 AM
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By that definition I was an incel. I only had sex on college. Just sounds like a late bloomer. I think a looks match is someone with the same level of looks as you. But what if I hadn't "cleaned up"? What if I stated the same? I probably would have endured more years of solitude into my 20's. If you were a 4, you would still be capable of getting offers for casual sex if you really put in the effort to go out to clubs, or whatever. Lack of expedient sex =/= incel I have a high standard for calli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 12:50 AM
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Because they are priviledge. Sorry I don't understand what you're saying. I am only saying the law varies when it comes to being drunk and having sex if it counts as rape or not. That's true. We're discussing what the standard should be, not what it is. Where a person is prevented from resisting by any intoxicating or anesthetic substance, or any controlled substance When a girl gets horny and puts up less resistance to a guy persuading her to have sex, is the alcohol preventing her from resisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 12:31 AM
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You asked her: "has anything changed?" You're right, this was a way for me to leave the door open just a crack in case she felt like jumping in. But it was also a way for me to tell her to go away and stay away if she didn't feel like going out. I realize now that looking for that verbal confirmation is weak. And that she was still farming validation from me in the process. Even though I wouldn't mind fucking her, I'm not going to invest any more time and further complicate it. If she returns I'…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 12:16 AM
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Pick another thing? Perhaps one you believe she wants to do? Remember that just because you're comfortable in a place, doesn't mean she will be. I'm my most comfortable at the pool hall. I don't bring girls there, because they're often too uncomfortable with the guys there. You need her to be comfortable wherever you go, too, or she won't open up.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:48 PM
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The point we are trying to make is that if she looks too drunk to drive, she's probably too drunk to drive. If she makes the decision to drive anyway, she is held accountable. The same should go for sex. Perhaps she got too intoxicated to have sex. If she goes ahead and makes the decision to do it anyway, that's on her. Why should anybody, and I mean anybody, male or female, be given a pass to consume alcohol and not be held accountable for their actions? Yes, a girl who is passed out is a diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 06:43 PM
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Pretty big straw man they put up about kids on bikes getting raped. Not the same at all. The kid isn't saying yes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 06:38 PM
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They'll suck a man dry who lets them. Wouldn't mind that ;) Kidding. They simply do not give a flying fuck about you - even if they know you, even if you have friends in common. They care only about themselves and will only feign care or concern if it impacts on them. This is the real point of my post; I think I must not have organized it well, because a lot of people focused on the wrong stuff. This was the "thing I learned in the field" so to speak. I know now that it was weak to let her know …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 05:14 PM
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My best adivce if it's your first time? You will have trouble thinking. You will make yourself more anxious if you try to remember a set of moves or a sequence of actions. Try to relax, because it's okay to be nervous. The focus shouldn't be on orgasm, or the actual PIV. Just explore each other's bodies and remember that the "sex" doesn't have to be a super intense 2 minute thing. Just because you cum once or early (and you may do it immediately or very soon) doesn't mean it's over. It's over wh…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:43 AM
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What I have to say no one wants to hear. Personsal responsibility will forgo these fuzzy semi-drunk "rape" claims. This is the truth. I'm held accountable for everything I do while drunk. It's a fact that alcohol makes people more suggestible. If they aren't putting up a fight ot there's an explicit threat or actual duress (not just the pressure of an ultimatum like "sex or I leave now"), IMO they just got horny and are unwilling to admit it. There are real creeps out there and we need to be abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 12:57 AM
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I'm avoiding workplace relationships. I wanted one before discovering TRP. No longer.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 12:30 AM
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Thank the light. How shall we know where to go when the exodus begins? Wait acutally, nevermind. That would be a large enough event that it would be broadcast across the manosphere. Everyone with a brain cell will be able to follow the trail.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:46 PM
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It need to come at the right time and be delivered in the right way. I found this place independently when things got bad enough. Enough Reddit keywords to suggest TRP. I'd previously laughed it off as a bunch of mysoginist assholes, but I'd been fucked one too many times by my belief system (bluepilled) and decided I made the decision to be open to entertaining another perspective. There's a reason that cults recruit heavily from people who are at low points in there life and seeking change. Th…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:38 PM
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The hysteria is real. I had 2 incidents in college that scared the shit out of me. First, with a feminist girlfriend I'd been seeing for 6 months with regular sleepovers. Waking each other up to fuck was not uncommon, and she frequently inititated. One night, after we haven't seen each other for a few days, I get back to my house and she's in naked in my bed asleep. I wake her up with some sex, and we go to bed. Don't see her for a couple days and I get a text that "we need to talk about what ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 11:04 PM
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I actually don't harbor too much resentment for her. Her blatant contradiction was actually what really enabled me to swallow the pill. Before then there were others I orbited similarly, and all their excuses felt like bullshit but were never anything I could really prove.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 10:42 PM
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Again, care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 09:12 PM
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This is the kind of lazy, low-effort reply that doesn't belong here. I could say the same about feminism, and you'd get all enraged that I didn't address your arguments, I just threw a barb. Be willing to back your statement up on a debate thread or don't make it at all. Otherwise you're just decreasing the signal/noise ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 09:06 PM
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No disrespect, I appreciate you taking the time to reply but I think you missed some details of my post. I have taken responsibility and a good look at myself and made the realization that I need to change. I was a needy bitch. I am working on that. I'm not obsessing over her anymore. This wasn't a post requesting advice on how to deal with her. It was to give a field report that might help people who also are beginning to wake up. I'm simply not hiding how BP I was about the situation to begin.…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 09:04 PM
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if women's gaining personal power makes you feel like this, good. that means your power as a man rested on opepressing the opposite gender. let it crumble. I don't feel I was emasculated by women having the right to vote. I feel emasculated by being rasied under the care of my single mother who didn't believe I needed a dad, and by a society that has told me that I need verbal consent every step of the way and should be ashamed of my sexual desires. TRP is the gateway into learning about masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 08:43 PM
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Don't leave comments on social media That's something I don't do. Never have, never will. I don't use social media. Waste of time; the social proof doesn't outweigh the overwhelming negatives.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 07:39 PM
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Same thing I think with feminism. The militant ones screaming about the rape culture and 77 cents and all sex is rape/all sex is 100% okay. Moderate feminists like to dissociate themselves from the radical crazies. Moderate RPers like to dissociate themselves from the radical crazies. Oh, and It is an internal rationalization of conflict between what the group endorses as a whole versus the individuality of its adherents. Just wanted to add that what the group believes is not necessarily agreed …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 07:30 PM
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You sir, hit the nail on the head. I was indeed raised by a domineering single mom who divorce raped my dad. Mom is self-employed and actually makes good coin so she didn't need no man and I was raised fatherless just during the crucial years when I needed a masculine figure in my life. I have nothing but empathy for every guy in my situation. Having been raised by women to hate "toxic masculinity" and thus convince myself that "I'm not like the douchebags, I'm actually decent. Most men are assh…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:49 PM
13

Never again brotha, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:38 PM
7

Yeah the truth of the matter is I let myself get played. I was BP at the start of the story, and by the end of it I have begun to internalize RP principles. She isn't really acting in surprising fashion anymore now that I get the mechanism. I expected her to come back just like she did. I don't hate her for it. I got over the rage and just accept that's how it will go if you don't escalate and make your intentions clear from the beginning. If you accept her LJBF stuff, it's not really her being …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:37 PM
10

My biggest takeaway here is that despite being correct in my decision not to pursue things any further due to it being a work situation, I was wrong to reveal anything about the way she made me feel. I didn't quite grasp the importance, because in my mind it was just over/not worth any more thought. I now see I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:32 PM
1

Glad I could inspire hope! My intention was mostly to do that. Show people someone breaking free of shit, still fumbling a bit but also definitely not the same old mindset. I thought it was important to pull back the veil on how I was acting toward her while still BP, because people have a tendency to down play/gloss over their mistakes. I wanted people to see in detail some of this back and forth, and people are right--it was pathetic. I was pathetic. Never again if I can help it. Wasn't lookin…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:25 PM
10

Aw manz, but I really wanted to add my creamer to the right cup
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:24 PM
2

The information is all here. Sidebar can be considered the main hub. Just gotta connect all the dots and internalize the information, and go out and start applying it in the field.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:09 PM
8

You played it like she had to confirm liking you in words. Yes, I'm realizing now that I failed to appreciate this fact, and that I should have adapted after making the mistake in the first place. Should have gone straight to the "just busy" blow off. Less free validation and it doesn't sounds so soft. Forcing a declaration of interest from her is far too much pressure for her to commit to one course of action; that would never fly. Fuck it. Lessons learned. Moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:06 PM
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It sucks, but the only way to learn from it is to accept that it is your fault. Damn straight. Though to be fair I have already owned up to my mistakes here. I discovered TRP after most of this. Pretty familiar with why it happened now. Just wanted to tell my story in case some people could get something out of it, even if it's just a confirmation that the same shit happens to them. Girls gonna be girls, you need to man up. That's what I'm here for, brotha!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 01:15 PM
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Appreciate the reply, thanks for letting me pick your brain! I've actually hung out with her outside work several times. Sometimes at her place, sometimes in public. Had drinks with some work friends, too, but never alone. I do see the point about lunch, though. It was part of the friend routine, too familiar. Now excuse me, I have a giant shit to take in the kitchen. Kidding. Not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 12:50 PM
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Yeah Thank fuck. If you changed that to just been busy, no issue, with a I don't really give a shit about you sort of attitude and she would have been eating out of the palm of your hand. I never intend to let this happen again but out of curiosity, how would you begin escalation to ensure it didn't become just another free attention grab? (Aside from applying that attitude throughout.) I'm thinking I would see her for a quick lunch catch-up to reestablish rapport. Then get her alone outside wor…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 12:24 PM
3

That's almost profound if you substitute "total marriages" as the economy. Or I'm just tired.
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 11:06 AM
21

She pursued you. I considered that possibility, but I haven't talked about this with anyone and was worried that lingering infatuation may have colored my perspective on it. It's nice to have an objective confirmation. You blew it by being too tame and way too overt. Agreed. But since I had been infatuated before, I didn't trust my judgment. And I was also considering "don't shit where you eat" and Tomassi's iron rule #7. Didn't want to take the chance of getting sucked into wasting time on her,…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 10:54 AM
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Oh my God the fact that you actually read the rules and still posted this makes me cringe. The section header for the rule you cite about overarching themes is: No examples from fiction or lyrics. Then you go and make a post that is ~70% pure song lyrics, and don't even bother with any analysis. Do the right thing and delete it yourself to save the mods some time.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 08:23 AM
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With an economy larger than the UK they think they can just do whatever and it'll be okay.
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 07:59 AM
1

Thats the most wtf thing I've seen in a solid month. So fucked up. I've been laughing for 2 straight minutes.
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 07:55 AM
8

Am I the only one bothered by the quotation marks?
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 07:49 AM
1

On them, too. Pheromones.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:10 AM
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I used to get all the ladies while slangin dat kindbud. Now that I've entered the workforce and started to get my shit together, I have to try a lot harder. It can only mean that all they liked about me was the drugs. Women are eeeeeeeeeevilllllll!! JK. I left school and there's not a million pretty girls the same age sitting around with nothing better to do than watch me try to strut. But yeah the drugs certainly didn't hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 01:55 AM
1

I've always wanted to read the Bible to gain perspective. Do you believe the Bible itself is effective at conversion? I can't get past the leap of faith which I refuse to take.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:44 PM
1

Muscle weighs a lot man, sounds like you're built under the extra weight. And yeah, maybe 145 isnt healthy for different build types. Lots of different frames on people the same height.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:41 PM
1

Why is this not an appropriate post? The subject isn't relevant? What if I had phrased it as "CMV: TRP hypocritically claims that women rationalize things, then advises that men rationalize as well."?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:53 AM
1

Thank you for the thought out response, I appreciate it. Aaand apparently this isn't an appropriate topic for PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:45 AM
1

I posted on the automod for a reason. Because you would be violating the rules otherwise. I realize you think that is apparently a crime against humanity. Strawman. That's not what I've been saying. I've been saying that if you believe something doesn't belong, you should make a case. Strangely enough, I was not trying to create some giant discourse. So you just wanted to throw a barb and have nobody reply? I don't buy it. I think your post is more asking RPers to reconcile something for you per…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:05 AM
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By my estimation I'm not being passive aggressive, I'm being very upfront. I felt the need to come at you like that because I've seen several threads where you do stuff like this. Your reply was very low effort, and demonstrated that you didn't really critically engage with the post. It didn't contribute, it didn't contain an explanation of why you believe my post doesn't belong. No, you just want to assume that I have circle-jerk intentions and then put the burden on me to show that it isn't. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 04:41 AM
1

What I've found so far has been pretty powerful. I don't know. This just doesn't seem like good advice to me. Which is weird, because I consider a lot of what GLO says to be very insightful. I even understand the approach when it's necessary. But nobody so far has actually responded to the crux of my argument. I'm fairly certain doing what you choose to do, and being with the people you choose to be with is part of TRP. I just don't understand why the push to actively engage in groups/activities…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 04:20 AM
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Ah, semantics. When I say trick girls, I meant present a version of you that isn't yourself. Not actually trick. Although GLB seems to advocate doing literally whatever it takes at all costs. I think some things aren't worth the price. edit: whoops, meant to reply to the one above. oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:59 AM
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Sigh Let's break it down. Because apparently you "can't really qualify" and "don't really know", so you're just spouting off about how you feel about my post: doesn't r/asktrp fill this purpose? No. r/asktrp is for advice about personal questions and theory clarifications related to personal situations. It's right there on the sidebar. This post would be removed in an instant. That, and r/asktrp isn't a place for people to debate. Like you're asking RPers only to reconcile some RP post. What's y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:55 AM
1

Haha yeah a couple quality lines in there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:39 AM
1

Hmm. According to Livestrong.com: According to the body mass index, the ideal weight range for a man who is 6-feet-2-inches-tall is 145 to 194 pounds Also ran his numbers through a BMI calculator and came back on the low end of healthy. Shrimpy, definitely. But apparently healthy (???) according to the internets. And yes, of course I believe everything I find on the internet.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:28 AM
4

Might not help with game, but I used to be a friendzone kind of guy. No More Mr. Nice Guy is a good book that helps you break out of a very common mindset of people who get frienzoned. I tried getting into PUA in my college days. Never worked because game is only a tool. The stronger your foundation, the less game you end up needing and the more things come naturally to you. Let me ask you something: would you rather struggle constantly to keep a girl in line, or have it happen mostly as a bypro…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 10:28 PM
2

How old are you? That's skirting the line for being underweight for your height. I'm entering my mid twenties and have always eaten whatever I wanted but I have the metabolism of a hummingbird so I couldn't gain weight even if I tried. Finally starting to slow down to the point where I'm hopeful I can pack on a few pounds that won't just disappear. The cardio is going to prevent you from gaining weight for sure. Try to reduce it and substitute weights. Eating like shit is going to make you feel …
/r/askTRP07/06/18 10:15 PM
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"A big part of feminism is using words to upset men instead of actually doing much. The art of low effort basically." Seems like a strawman argument to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 10:00 PM
2

Dude is pursuing this losing battle relentlessly below, even now. God I want an EC or someone to come in and fuck this guy up from a position of authority. I've looked at this guys posts, and he seems like a video game addicted college kid with a drug habit, sitting here trying to pretend he has a clue wtf TRP is about.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:55 PM
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What advice could you possibly offer men? These are the fucks that will suggest shit like "be yourself" and "never judge their behavior; what gives men the right; most of us are pigs" and other such things that belong in a cesspool.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:26 PM
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Have you read NMMNG? Betas have plenty of empathy but it's not going to be of any value to them when the girl doesn't stick around because she wanted some empathy from the next dude. Beta's have covert contracts, not empathy. Beta's are doing it because they think that is what will get them what they want in the future. They need to resort to that kind of stuff because they do not believe they can get their needs met otherwise. This means they are scared that if they ask for something, they won'…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 12:06 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. I've found that a good diet and exercise both contribute to her taste, but it's such a crapshoot. Hotness =/= pleasant taste unfortunately. But seriously, I found out the hard way that if it smells like something ain't right...trust your nose. A ton of girls have terrible diets now and are frighteningly unaware of their bacterial conditions down there.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:47 AM
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What is pleasurable about giving her so much pleasure that she shakes? What is pleasurable about giving a little boy a candy bar? What is pleasurable about making an anonymous donation to charity? What is pleasurable about helping or giving to anyone, ever, if it isn't going to net you more benefits? You write about it as if it's an erotic porn fantasy suited to make you feel more masculine. Currently suffering a bout of insomnia so I may not be on top of my writing game, but that's hardly eroti…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:33 AM
12

If you have to start "living up to it" you were never domineering or confident in the first place Sure, dude. Sure. and by extent, you're probably not a man much less one of value. Yeah, only confident and domineering men capable of immense sexual prowess with no concern for their partner whatsoever are real men. All the rest are beta incel cucks. /s This post only applies men of value This part of the post only applies to selfish or insecure men. If you are incapable of doing things for others,…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 10:15 AM
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Dude has clearly read the sidebar. May not have completely captured everything, but judging by the post seems like he has a lot of the main points. At that point it's more helpful to point to specific points where his reasoning is flaeerd than to just tell him to go read something he has clearly demonstrated familiarity with. That's more for people posting shit about "how can I get my oneitis back?" or "you should buy a round of drinks for a table of girls and you're guaranteed to start a conver…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 09:42 AM
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By that definition... weren't most men also not in the workforce? Yes, I suppose. It's almost difficult to compare pre and post revolution, though. I think we had different answers to what is considered 'part of the workforce' - I was assuming in large degrees work literally outside of the home Pre revolution division of labor was different, but that's because pre revultion life was a lot about survival. People grew their own food, people mended and created clothing instead of buying it (cost ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:34 AM
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What? Fuck you. I've read the sidebar and all the books and spent countless hours on PUA sites. Girls dig status and I've been working diligently toward being in the top 10% of WoW players. I'm clearly further along than I was when I started. I even consider myself a Chad-lite. It's just so hard to even approach girls, but trust me I know all about game now it's just this one small thing holding me back. But really I'm only doing this so I can get the love of my life back. We were friends for ye…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:47 AM
2

Scrolled down to make sure someone had mentioned this perspective. Then I had to make sure someone mentioned meditation as an option. How powerful it can be to become so aware of your feelings to the point where the moment something changes, you can analyse where that feeling came from and rationally decide how to act. Same with thoughts. You can actively steer them away from negative patterns.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:38 AM
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Pre agricultural/industrial revolutions women were still working the fields along with men. This is not the work force I'm referring to. Many lived on farms, so they all worked the fields, too. But I'm talking about leatherworking, business administration, higher education, etc. Trade and industry = workforce. Those weren't opportunities women had much of before the industrial revolution. Are you talking like maybe post WWI or something where there were even some portion of women that had the op…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 08:31 AM
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You don't seek to please her.... Was pretty in agreement up to there. While it can be alright to pursue only your pleasire, the chances of a repeat or getting her obsessed with you are minimal if you don't give her some crazy pleasure. And while she will undoubtedly be turned on by you being domineering and confidence, she WILL leave if you don't start living up to it. She believes you can give her great sex, and that belief makes it easier to do so, but it doesn't do it on it's own. As to going…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:01 AM
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Most of the people in the comments section may be younger, but most of the content there is written by middle aged men who have actually been through stuff. Society pushes a feminist narrative currently, so nearly everyone now is being raised on that. Most following TRP journey aren't doing it out of convenience, but desperation. Cognitive dissonance is painful. Sometimes you need to swing completely the other way for a bit to see. Feminists may mellow out after a bit, but is it because they've …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 06:30 AM
2

If you don't meet them, then all the time spent talking to them online is just validation for her. So I now believe that the objective of online game is simply to meet in as short a time as possible. That's my metric for my online game. Not "does she laugh at my jokes", or "does she seem to be having a good time in the conversation." Granted, there is some small benefit from learning to converse with them online. But once you know it, it's a poor use of time. I'm optimizing for results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 07:29 PM
1

Post agricultural/industrial revolution way more women entered the workforce. Pay didn't keep up with inflation, and now 2 incomes are often required to support a family (depending on the lifestyle). While it is still possible to have a man be the breadwinner and the woman a stay at home wife, it's also likely that the woman decides (or needs) to work as well. This creates a dramatically different paradigm than breadwinner/SAHM. While that may work for others, I see enough examples to be convinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 03:45 PM
1

I'm so confused. Does this man owe for a beer or doesn't he?!
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:58 AM
4

My first impression is she got caught by her period unexpectedly and just wants to reschedule. Relax, play it cool, everything's going to be fine and the pussy will still be there on the weekend.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:27 PM
6

Your depression and orbiting are related. Both of them have your brain reinforcing negative thought patterns. Look into meditation that can help you identify when you are entering one of these patterns will help tremendously. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 11:53 AM
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This is an exercise to help you get over this anxiety. Lets say Im waiting for the train(Which happens daily), a girl comes by my side, what could I say to her to just conversate? What would you say to an kind old man that sits there next to you? It doesn't matter, does it? Because it's some nice old guy who probably just wants to chat about the weather. If approaching to hit on a girl is too scary, try approaching and asking her about the weather, or if she likes sports, or something. Probably …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:19 AM
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Where do you live, Atlantis?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:13 AM
2

WITH THIS ONE QUICK TRICK YOU WONT BELIEVE THE RESULTS JUST ONE QUICK PAYMENT OF 19.99 AND ALL THE FESTIVAL GIRLS WILL LINE UP YO RIDE YOUR ONE-MAN CAROUSEL. p.s. after a day or two festival chicks have some raunchy poon if it's the camping kind.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 11:15 PM
1

Septum piercings are for cattle. I ain't about that unless it's for some funky, farm animal roleplay.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 03:57 PM
2

You're strategically misinterpreting "reasonable" in this context to not be negative. Sentiment on this word in this context is negative. It implies something along the lines of "passable", in that the person meets enough qualities you are looking for to settle. Reasonable implies that what you were doing before was not reasonable, otherwise all your choices would have been reasonable from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:40 PM
2

Ew. That's too much excitement about trannies, bro.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 06:25 PM
5

Everything through innuendo, and ramped up with caution. No hard and fast rule, but I generally don't go sexual until after she shows signs of interest.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:45 AM
4

If only it were that simple. This same problem exists in reverse as well. Often times the difference between what is considered sexy and what is considered creepy is a guy's looks. If women could just be a bit more attracted to us, they might not feel like they were settling as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 07:14 AM
1

And yes women are just as picky on looks as men, if you want to throw looks into the equation. How many wrinkles old women have hot 22yo Chads on their arms? What about the reverse? Women might value looks, but on the whole they are not as picky about looks. The number of men who will sleep with (or "fall in love" with) Betty White for her money are substantially lower than the number of women whould do so with a Hugh Heffner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:13 PM
7

Rest of your life alone? I'd die within the year trying to dick the toaster oven out of desperation or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:18 PM
1

I owe you a debt of gratitude. The nick was indeed a SOTL reference! I remembered some of the context about the line, but not what movie I'd seen it in. The thread that keeps on giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:06 AM
3

My sheets and plates are green. Also learned the name for the specific color is cerulean in the comments above. This one's an odd thread, isn't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:10 AM
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Haha the phrasing is so confusing it's almost art, but I believe he was asking: If you scored men on a scale from 1 to 10, what would the median score be, and what percentage of all scores are the median? Of course it's a pointless question unless you nail down the specifics of the 1-10 scale. Is it pure aesthetics? Attraction? Is it based on the normal distribution, where there are very few 10s and 1s? Or is it more uniform, or what? But seriously that phrasing deserves an award.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:31 PM
1

I wish I had more time to reply more in depth, but I don't right now so I'm just gonna nitpick. 28yo established guy getting hot young girl is not a good example of something that doesn't happen. The RP hypothesis is that women seek those who are already established/confident in themselves, making older men more attractive and people their age who "don't have it all figured out" unappealing. On the flip side, a 28yo established woman would never, EVER consider that 22yo dude even if he happened …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:51 PM
2

I can tell you read my comment because you're quoting it, but it doesn't feel like you actually understood it. What I just quoted was the type of question asked by guys who are massive orbiters/don't understand women at all. My point is not that what you say doesn't go on at all, it's that you are willfully ignoring the rest to oversimplify an argument. As evidenced by the fact that you think a guy in the friendzone is trying to keep that girl at a distance. They're infatuated with something the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:28 PM
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The main subs are flooded with plenty of people seeking advice totally unrelated to keeping women at arm's length. "We fooled around a bit and she said she cares about me deeply, and during the week I buy her meals and she tells me about her problems, but on the weekend she goes to fuck her boyfriend that she tells me she hates. I feel like I'm so close to winning her over. How can I get her to pick me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 03:40 PM
1

I do 30 day "challenges" a lot recently. They're not so much challenges as habit staters. I print out a calendar with a couple tasks to do on each day, and mark them when I do them. Keeps me motivated because I can see my progress. And if I happen to slip for a day, I don't lose all motivation and give up. I feel like if I fail for a day, I want that to be the exception and not the rule.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 08:26 PM
2

I say every post that doesn't start with your PRs, the books you're reading/have read and the level of dread you're on if you're in an LTR should be deleted. Maybe not that extreme vetting, but I agree there's too many incel/oneitis/"where do I start I just found this place" questions. The real question is: are the mods aware?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:26 PM
1

Small goals like get to know one or two new people sounds trivial, but the point is to get you there and interacting. If all you do at the party is get in the door, aggressively shit your pants, talk to 2 people and then run away screeching, you've accomplished your goal. Next time, make it 3 or something. But probably what will happen is that by forcing yourself to go there and engage, you will realize it's not that bad, and maybe stay a little longer because you don't want to leave yet. Assumi…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:04 PM
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Aw, be nice. I'd rather see this question than all the incel/oneitis/spergy stuff coming through lately.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:26 PM
2

No. If you cannot get girls, it is not MGTOW no matter the attitude. It means nothing for a man swear off water if he is stranded in the desert, or to swear off sports if he has no legs. You can have a good attitude or a bad attitude about involuntary celibacy, but that's what it is.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 07:09 PM
1

That's not MGTOW, that's accepting inceldom
/r/askTRP27/05/18 05:08 PM
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Nah, don't pull back the veil that much before the first date. Better to remain a mystery to her until you build more attraction in person.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:25 PM
2

It's called state dependent memory. Fascinating. This is a very common occurrence; it happened to me as well when I broke up with my girlfriend. Look into it, and you will see why you should take everything she says to you around the time of the breakup with a grain of salt. Look into the lightswitch effect and you won't be as shocked by what women say around breakup time. Helpful in cultivating stoicism.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:18 PM
1

Ahh, okay. Mixed bag. Most of what you describe seems reasonable to consider. Other bits I disagree with. That stuff is so different from what I actually experience/hear from people who proclaim themselves as feminists in the real world. I hear a lot about the wage gap, affirmative action in STEM, how men and women are completely identical/made up categorizations, have the exact same desires ("women need sex just as much as men"), and rampant sexism everywhere. Rape culture, toxic masculinity, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:44 PM
1

I went to a pretty liberal university, so I suspect I'm familiar with radical feminism more than anything else. What issues do you consider nonradical feminism to be fighting for in the United States today?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 09:46 PM
1

There may be something commenters that offer terrible advice, that I can't deny. But the canonical advice is about backing off. The endorsed advice is about backing off. The message I took away, and the guy above took away, and all the endorsed contributors took away, is about backing off. The trouble is a lot of the ideas on TRP are cencored in the media and everyday life. We don't have tone policing or morality judgments in TRP because to include them would dilute the freedom of speech and exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 06:08 PM
2

Assuming I would be considered one of those unattractive men? Couldn't care less. Sex is fun for men and we crave it like water. We want to put it in the hottest piece we can find with the least effort. But don't get me wrong, we will frequently put in a considerable amount of effort to acquire said hotness. But if I were attractive? Still couldn't care less, apparently the only difference is I get additional bragging rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 02:00 AM
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Your goal: maximize sex. Attraction determines whether you have the chance for sex. Attraction can be created over time, but the greatest part is determined early. So: Let's say you have a 5% chance of generating attraction with a new girl in the first encounter. Let's also say that you have a 5% chance of getting a girl you are "being friends with to get to know better" to change her feelings and become attracted. Say approaching a new girl takes half an hour of your time on average. And spendi…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 09:40 PM
2

The double standards are incredible. Just last night I was out with a friend of mine. He's super BP in beliefs, but is successfully "polyamorous" where he has a girlfriend but I witness him pull a new girl back to his place about every 2 weeks. Absolute rock solid frame. Last night, this crazy girl he plated once comes around drinking. She tried to get drinks from me early on (pre-RP), and I obliged, but tonight she is buying him drinks, offering to buy him food, ANYTHING to fuck him again. Like…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 08:45 PM
2

This 100%. I see this question or variations of it a lot. Sexual strategy is amoral, but people still keep wondering if female strategy is "evil" or "wrong". If anything, it can be said that society now considers the pursuit of female strategy as acceptable, but the male sexual strategy as unacceptable. This doesn't make one strategy or another evil. Just unfair or inequitable in the face of restrictions on the other sex. Women are actively encouraged to pursue their sexual strategy, and when it…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:46 PM
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They need like a month of conversation before they are comfortable to meet up with you. While this might be true in some cases, I maintain emphatically that it is NEVER worth it. The number of girls out there that will waste your time getting attention/validation online before ultimately flaking is ENORMOUS. TRP is never going to advise someone to chat online for over a month. Others need to video chat/call to hear your voice first to feel attraction. If they're flaky like this, I suggest we vid…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:10 PM
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Question: is the Harvey Weinstein situation being portrayed incorrectly in the media? I was still bluepilled when it happened so everything I read was through that lens. Maybe an EC or someone who knows best can help me on this one: what's the official TRP stance on a boss using his position to leverage women into sex? I'm assuming it's a no-no because of all the potential legal issues and complications, not any moral issue. More along the lines of don't shit where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 11:01 PM
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There's a nugget of Truth in here, but the way you present it is so roundabout. Women will never understand on a physical/instinctive level how much visuals effect male attraction. Men will never on a physical/instinctive level understand womens lack of focus on the visual. This is because we place value on different things. Girls will complain that you care too much about looks because to them looks aren't that important when looking for beta bux. Beta bux isn't a strategy for guys, so all this…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 09:18 PM
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To reveal one additional facet to this: Men who interact with women a lot are not necessarily excluded from the RP experience. I was raised by women, surrounded by them, and was the convinced that "I prefer spending time around women." I also believe that masculinity was toxic and most of my desires around women were either anachronistic or shameful. I had them on a pedestal for so long. I wasn't one of those "nice guys" expecting friendship to turn into a relationship and being an asshole when …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:29 PM
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Which makes you exceptional! I'm describing an American perspective. I actually think a lot of guys similarly believe that if they stick it out through ANY advanced STEM degree, a beautiful woman will up and latch onto his dick despite no other redeeming qualities. What's the cost of uni over there to make it through masters? It's not unreasonable to pay a fifth of a million dollars over here without financial aid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:35 PM
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I've got to disagree with the sentiment against you. I enjoy a woman's raw intelligence or refined intelligence. I don't like it when they're highly intelligent and also highly willful. Which is an attitude I find feminism instills in every woman leaving college nowadays. Always trying to swing their balls around. I never said women couldn't be as successful/disagreeable as a man; just that I'm looking for someone who embodies more feminine traits than masculine ones. So I love it when a girl tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:47 PM
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Sometimes. Just sometimes. They're being honest. This one's kinky. Congrats, you lucky sonofabitch.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:17 PM
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Sometimes that happens here. I'll be having a totally valid, pleasant debate. Then all of a sudden they'll change focus or claim something like "I'm not trying to argue a point or anything, I don't know why you're dissceting my reply." If you're not agreeing with my point or conceding or otherwise forwarding the debate, why are you offering up a reply that you expect me not to answer? Just to get the last say? Or in this case pretending that her saying she did those things regardless of BF is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:01 PM
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Appreciate you sharing a success story, helps keep me motivated. I'm locked in golden handcuffs for another 3 months then I'm out the door. I was thinking of carpentry for the broad range of things I'd be able to create by harvesting wood off my own land, but I'll look into welding since it might be easier/pay enough to make it worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:58 AM
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Your non-argument sounded an awful lot like advocacy for a position. I'm not attacking you or anything, but this is a debate sub and I'm politely debating. I think I'm well within bounds. I'm not trying to cite the statistic about 50% of all marriages ending. I'm talking about 50% of first marriages ending before 20 years. So the success rate is still the same. The model is successful for the people it's successful for. You say it's a majority. I'm saying it's not a majority if 100 people start …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:25 PM
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Please, do not go to an internet forum for sexual strategy. I can sell you the cure for 12 easy payments of $19.99 and I guarantee it's the best way to solve all your medical problems, guaranteed.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:11 PM
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I'm facing a fucking wall, in an open floor plan packed with a ton of dudes. I'm definitely biased, but I recommend looking for some other shit to do. I realized I can always do web dev when it gets hard for me to stand all day or whatever. But I'm young and in shape now, and it doesn't make sense to throw that away for a bunch of money when I'm bedridden.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:45 PM
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Desk job in front of a computer is making it very difficult to correct my posture problems. Use all my creative problem solving energy at work on shit I don't care about, have no energy at the end of the day for my own stuff. Decided that I actually hate what tech is doing to society, and don't want to be a part of it. Immense pressure to constantly be learning new things, only to have those things go obsolete within a couple years because the field is evolving so quickly. (By the time most soft…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:42 PM
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Software engineer. 120+. Fuck this computer/desk life, though. Gonna go learn another trade, work with my hands for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:23 PM
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Only about 50% of marriages last 20 years, and roughly 70% of all divorces are initiated by women. So: For the vast majority of married people The people in this group are either the other 50% that remain married successfully, or they are on their way to divorce. Regardless, 50% of marriages ending in divorce over a 20 year period means a lot of divorces. That means your "normal" marriage and"hoping for the best" works out as often as a coin flip. Forgive me for not accepting that as reliable. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:14 PM
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Lasting 5 minutes is hardly ED; he didn't say anything about not getting it up, just about going soft from the feeling of condoms, which is not a porn problem.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:04 PM
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all youre doing is stipulating a fair divorce settlement in advance of the divorce. That's all I'm asking for. The alternatives both suck for whoever gets the short end. In a world where marriage used to mean something, communities and social pressures prevented people from divorce without serious consideration. Without that reality, marriage is no longer "for life" or even 10-20 years anymore. People can leave whenever they want, and everybody and society are cool with it. Since marriage has fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 05:39 PM
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So the goal for women is marriage without prenup. Men complain it's this Sword of Damocles. The goal for men is obtain a wife without a legal marriage. Women complain this is lack of status and security. What's the middle ground compromise that makes people happy? Seems an iron clad prenup is the best option. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst. Assume it could fall apart, and make sure that neither of you are left in the lurch should that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:27 PM
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As smart as I can find without too much neuroticism. I'm pretty smart, so the smarter she is, the better the conversations I'll have. But with greater intelligence comes more advanced hamstering. So I try to find the ones that don't have anxiety issues. That's a red flag for me based on experience.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:28 AM
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Cocaine. No wait. Adequate sleep, maybe some caffeine. Also, I'll clean the shit out of my apartment and pay my bills/other paperwork if I want to feel particularly alive. Don't ask me why it works, it just feels fucking fantastic to be able to take a girl back, or to stay out as long as I want because I know all my shit is on lock.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:07 AM
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You're onto something there but it should be clarified. Should I just treat her shit tests as if it were a man straight up disrespecting me? Disrespecting? No. As if it were a man joking with you? Yes. Ever been out with your friends and one says "resnine is such a girl!" Do you go up to him in anger and call him out and make a scene? No, it's just a little harmless fun. Agree and amplify. You respond "oh yeah? Come on over here and give my tits a squeeze." Now let's say the same friend, all nig…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:09 AM
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can be misread as creepy This scenario gave me a good laugh. Thoughts: Power lift: Done this once with a really small girl. Can confirm this works wonders. Turned her from pretty into me, to complete putty in my hands for weeks. But FUCK was it difficult. Very hard to maintain for long, still can't replicate with any chick above 5'3", and didn't have terrific sensation myself due to the strain of it. The right partner is also important. Like I said, my partner was small and athletic. Her being a…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:44 AM
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I've also got curly hair, but a different bone structure. Tried no hair, short hair, medium hair. Decided now's a good time to try long. Getting good results so far. Worth trying out if only for your own edification. Good luck.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:06 AM
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Well now that requires a bit of nuance. A lot of people in general online won't really engage in meaningful debate because they are unwilling to entertain new ideas. But let's consider the subset of girls capable of rational thought. Many of them consider red pill ideas anathema, but if you explain it to them in ordinary language, most of them will admit that they test their partner's behavior, or at least admit it when you show them that behavior in other women. But it's natural for them. So na…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:04 AM
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I'm no expert on this, but you can also consider changing your hairstyle. While a beard is the easiest solution for the chin/face, you can also pick a style that better suits the shape of your face.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:55 PM
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Instead of asking, "what?" she replies with a detailed historical account of the orgins of both jelly and jam. Oh no, what do I jam my dick into now?
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:21 PM
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Also, from what I understand a "shit test" is basically a way to gauge your reaction to something they say and do? test of your emotional strength and physical strength? Like if they start talking about an ex, or talk about some nonsense, they want to see how those words will affect your state of mind. Nailed it. But its not really at a conscious level, thus the denial.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:40 PM
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Pretty much. Men can't act out their natural sexual strategy anymore because of society. Enforced monogomy was the solution to the chaos, keeping women's hypergamy (their nature) in check. But divorce rape and other factors have caused it so there are no/low repercussions to branch swinging. In the past, if she was a cunty wife you could threaten to kick her out or hit her or something. This doesn't mean that is the ideal state, but it did mean that the men held some power in the situation. But …
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:18 PM
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"I think I'm in love with you. I really feel like you'll give me the same unconditional love my mom does."
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:00 PM
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I know demoting is an option and trp principles say so but I’m asking if there’s a way to salvage. Demoting is a way to salvage. Look into dread. I wasn't trying to question your ability to be a patriarchal figure, I was trying to point out that demoting should be an option given how recently you became exclusive. If that's not the option you go with, that's okay too. It's the only option I could recommend. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:35 AM
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That's a pretty big rationalization considering you've only been together 3 months. Relationships are built on trust. Did she come confess to you from the goodness of your heart, or admit to it after you found her out and then cry to make you less angry at her. You know what else girls will lie to you about because they're afraid you'll leave them if you found out? Cheating. "I would have told you, but I was afraid you would be mad" Holy fuck that excuse only flies because you're still giving th…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:28 AM
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LTR = Long Term Relationship. Long Term. 2 months. Long term. 2 months. See where I'm going with this? You've committed to her very quickly. She expected more work. Demote to plate if possible.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:10 AM
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Abundance mentality. You're clearly unhappy with several of her behaviors, and rationalizing them away because you lack this.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:03 AM
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Yeah but that lack of bounce, though... I guess there's always the kitchen table for that ;)
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:56 AM
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"hehehe...boobs" No shit test here, sounds like OP failed basic conversation.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:53 AM
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I've never seen anybody say"once you go trans you never go back". Are you sure you meant to post to askTRP? IMO trans women are men that are just really mentally unstable to the point where instead of just having non-masculine hobbies and accepting that they have a more feminine nature, they would rather chop their dicks off to conform to what they believe someone should look like who likes the things they like. But talking about that shit hasn't been a priority for me here and it's off topic so…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:44 AM
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The sad truth is that 99% of posts on askTRP are practically rhetorical. I don't need to read your post; frankly it's very long and over thinking. The answer is it's very pathetic, and she was/still is an emotional vampire. Look into the term "oneitis" and if you are still wondering why nobody will help you figure this girl out, you need to keep reading sidebar until you understand why. This isn't gatekeeping. The work to describe all of this has been done before. Your situation isn't special. T…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:25 AM
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Look into "how to approach women" Also "flirting" Or just send a dick pic. (One of those is bad advice)
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:31 AM
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when my hair is perfect
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:34 AM
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Jesus Christ. Why did that need to be in all caps? Don't fucking make a first move by kissing her for the first time at work. You're begging for a sexual harrassment suit. If anything ask her out. But if you really think kissing her at work would be a good idea, you should hold off and just read the sidebar for at least 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:27 AM
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Men going their own way. There's a good description of it in another reply in this chain.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 01:45 AM
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The great majority of MGTOW are not incels at all, they are mostly divorced men.....many whom were/are alphas in every way. This claim is the reason I say I'm still learning about MGTOW. In theory, this is correct. I haven't lurked the MGTOW sub yet, so my only experience so far has been hearing confused men on askTRP/TRP claiming to be MGTOW when really they are just deluding themselves into thinking this isn't incel behavior. Though, if you follow the Red Pill to it's conclusion, it is essenti…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:57 AM
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So you're just not focusing on women. This would be closer to "monk mode".
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 12:20 AM
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You're a tree, and your favorite spider monkey is enjoying your shade, eating your berries. Berries are starting to run low, though, and there are other trees nearby with full crops. You have deep roots, and a strong trunk, more than capable of producing more berries, just hit a supply shortage. But spider monkeys aren't always the brightest creatures, and all your favorite one knows is they don't see enough berries for the winter. Your monkey is leaning out of the canopy more than usual, testin…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 10:36 PM
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I'm still learning about MGTOW, so I might be wrong, but I believe the true MGTOW is not just deciding not to game women. It's being able to, and choosing not to. A man dying of dehydration in the desert can say that he's giving up water, but that's pretty meaningless statement/gesture unless he is capable of obtaining water.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 09:56 PM
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Also I know not everyone has experienced chronic pain, but I've been going through my first experience with it. And holy crap. There are days when I have been desperate for relief. The thought that someone might have the information I need and choose not to provide it when it costs them nothing...that's very sad. Seems unnecessarily cruel to deny her if it isn't an inconvenience. Treat people the way you want to be treated whenever possible. Even if they haven't treated you the best, it's so lit…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:28 PM
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obviously masturbating with a tuna fish at some point Actual LOL at work, thanks.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:12 PM
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The problem I see is that if you get a girl, and problems arise, you don't have that support. The backup of your SMV of having lots of people in your life that care. The ability to apply any amount of dread whatsoever. It sounds like you don't have a very strong universe set up for yourself yet. Finding a woman to make the center of your universe is delivering her all the power.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:32 PM
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Ask yourself what direction you want the conversation to head in. Have a goal. Either building rapport, or logistics, generally. Now, ask yourself what you want her to respond with, and come up with a message that achieves that. If I want to start a rapport building text, I'll say something funny. That way I know I will most likely cause a smile, and a reply which let's me get the ball rolling. If she's busy, she doesn't feel the need to respond right away. If I want a date, I ask them what time…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:05 AM
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If she added you and has been asking about you, she finds you attractive. That means she will be making it easy on you. If she's as into you at it sounds, I would go with a fairly low effort opener and let her put in a little bit of effort to get the ball rolling. A simple "hey, what's up?" should be all the excuse she needs to get things going.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:52 AM
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I've enjoyed this type of girl in the past, a couple at a time at one point. The difference is that the normal shit tests become more subtle. And when you fail them, they might not get angry at you, they'll keep it to themselves. Enough of that builds up, and they'll flip on you like a switch. Plus a lot of them don't exercise which can cause mood problems. The problem is that they're so damn smart, but also so damn emotional. Their hamsters can really fucking spin.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:33 AM
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Most changes to oneself have the potential for remission. That doesn't mean you shouldn't make them. Otherwise you would be telling alcoholics never to try AA because some people relapse so why even bother. And the truth of it is, things like looks DO matter. What you do in your spare time has an impact on your personality. If you are a naturally unattractive person (personality/behavior wise), and your goals in life include attracting a good mate, you need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:58 PM
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Isn't the only person on this page referencing 'shit test'...you? Yes. Was referring to this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8ji17h/how_to_hold_frame_in_front_of_cunt_boss/?utm_source=reddit-android Right, but TRP isn't exclusively sexual. It's best to think of it as a toolkit for becoming the best version of oneself. I know this; I must not have made that clear. I'm only trying to draw a distinction between general redpill terms, and terms that only apply to relationships. Perhap…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 11:44 PM
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I disagree that the solutions are mostly crappy. And as the person who supposedly made you aware that there were any solutions at all, I don't think I should have to defend against the claim that they're mostly crappy solutions until you present a decent argument for that position. And that Deadpool advice is mostly meaningless. "Find a woman whose _____ matches yours." See why that's useless advice now? It's just a roundabout way of saying "look for compatibility". Which is what many of these b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 11:16 PM
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That's the plan! I've had some exposure to the lifestyle, but I'm definitely what you'd consider a city boy. I'm heading out to live in a town of less than 5000 to see if I've just deluded myself, but I've hated the city all my life, and I've always been happier with tough, rewarding work. Your story is pretty much my nightmare, gender flipped. I have the money saved to buy an enormous property, build on it, etc. Would love to do it all and share the experiences with a wife. Terrified of getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 10:09 PM
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Appreciate the reply. Agree with your assessment regarding jobs, hope I didn't come off as disagreeing with the advice. But I also note you aren't couching your explanation in red pill sexual terminology, because this is really just a workplace problem, not a sexual one. I mean does this advice change depending on if the boss is a guy but still an asshole? I don't see why her being a chick is relevant in this situation unless there's something sexual about it that I'm missing. So if it's not sex…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:49 PM
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Women don't find you attractive? Solutions include a combination of many things. Including lifting, dressing nice, how to assess the underlying problems in your personality that they find unattractive. You haven't read the material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:29 PM
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If you ask her out now, you will be asking her out 2 months in advance. I generally don't ask a girl out more than a week in advance, and usually I prefer to keep it within 3 days. Problem is, you've already been orbitting her. So you will get rejected either way right now. You say you've got oneitis. The cure for that is to stop thinking about her, stop messaging her. Get a life, so to speak. She wants to know why you stopped texting? You can tell her you are getting busy with all the things go…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:41 PM
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Been answering questions here for about a week, curious about your opinion since you have experience. I've seen several posts like this one, where someone asks how to deal with a female boss. TRP doesn't encourage trying to get sexual with your boss, and none of these posts mention anything about any sexual strategy concerns, just everyday office work concerns. Yet they use terms like "my boss is shit testing me" and "how do I alpha my female boss". In the comment you are replying to, the last p…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:31 PM
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Ghosting doesn't apply when you have young children. You are looking for something different. I don't know what it is, because I haven't been through that phase of life. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:08 PM
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You are in denial. Do not approach her.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:03 PM
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Do your best not to think of her, and if she does come up try to think about something else. You know that the best thing for you is to forget her. You know the only reason you keep thinking about her is a lack of abundance. So you can't get abundance mentality yet? Just treat this as an opportunity to hone your willpower. You will not contact her anymore. You will not cling to that hope. You will not think about her. As you continue to improve and change other life circumstances, you will forge…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:53 PM
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Are you serious? People come in as whiny bitches who think because they become friends with a girl they are entitled to sex with them, and they leave with an understanding of the realities of the sexual marketplace. There's plenty of whining, and plenty of anger, but to say there's no solution is to admit that you didn't really engage with the material in enough depth because that absolutely is not the attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:43 PM
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Look into mindfulness meditation.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:36 PM
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Huh. Motte and bailey. You just taught me a new term that I very much enjoy, so thanks for that. I can't understand craving approval from TBPers; they're the ones I believe are perpetuating these myths that get young men like myself all tied in knots. If anything I could see a partially redpilled man looking for approval from more redpilled women, as those are the ones he may believe will tell the truth, and a TRPer who is still marriage minded might be hoping to find such a woman. That said, ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:13 PM
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Congrats on starting out with what I would consider to be a "naturally redpill" attitude! I imagine that means that you don't (or didn't, not sure your age) have to experience the horror of having to learn to be a responsible adult in your early thirties. I'm basically planning on farming in a rural area, so I'm looking for a lady that wants that lifestyle and sees the value in it. Being in my mid twenties, however, I'm finding that if I want to start looking now, I have to lower my standards a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:38 PM
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I respect your decision to work on hard mode. I'm not going to stop developing as a man just because I decide it's not worth putting in the effort to LTR a hb9. Also I'm talking at a minimum hb6, but probably 7. Hb4 is not something I'm attracted to.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:36 AM
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https://m.imgur.com/gallery/8AMaJG3 Couldn't find it in a post, this was a top hit on Google images :/ Pretty accurate. My hypothesis is that women follow a normal distribution skewed away from the uggos.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:23 AM
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Thanks for the pointer. Gonna find that chart. Sounds like the scale I've been using is the same or very close to yours.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:46 PM
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Shit, yeah hb4 is pretty bad. Im on mobile, and I forgot what number he threw out. You have to be pretty fucking unfit to hit hb4 though in my opinion, so I'm curious if that's totally accurate or if the scales we're using aren't aligned. I'm thinking about being more tolerant of something like facial symmetry being a little off, or a little taller, or something. Not like 50lb overweight or pockmarked.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 11:00 PM
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Really terrible joke I guess. So bad I didn't even see it as a joke, so I went looking for something else it might have been about and landed on flair. For the record, I think I make myself perfectly clear in my comments that I am pro flair/demographics being expressed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:53 PM
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So the benefits of the knowledge shared on TBP (the actual criticisms) makes the other stuff tolerable. Fair enough. That's pretty much how I feel about TRP. For sure there are problems. But at the end of the day, I'm really there wading through all the noise to help guys who will listen to the better advice about improving themselves and making peace with female nature, and to learn what I can from those with more experience in the areas I have yet to explore. Re "agreed, I guess" (I don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:44 PM
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I think it's mostly living vicariously. Hearing about other people hitting the wall or getting what's coming to them reinforces the knowledge that eventually the poeple in their own lives that wronged them will also hit the wall. And yes, I think being revenge minded toward an entire gender is absurd. I'm there so that I can learn and improve; I chose not to contribute content while I myself was dealing with that anger. Now please correct me if I'm wrong, because I haven't actually been over to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:49 PM
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No problem, good luck.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:21 PM
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What do I know, I mostly use mobile and haven't paid much attention to flare. I'm aware that it isn't considered poor form here. If you read my comment carefully you'll see that I'm on your side on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:20 PM
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You are mostly doing the right thing. If you want to leave while not appearing butthurt, but leave the door open to the possibility that she comes back to you, continue to avoid her. Never ask if she's sure about the space, or if she wants to get back together or anything like that. You aren't still caught up on her. You aren't mad at her for taking space, you aren't trying to make her jealous. She's just an acquaintance now. You can still smile and wave if you're forced to interact, but you don…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:17 PM
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It's the point where they can no longer get through in life with just their looks. A lot of the guys in TRP are still in the anger stage where they are just pissed off at women. Eventually the mature one's recognize that female nature isn't something to hate women for, it's something to be cognizant of so you don't end up all messed up in your attempts with women. They get hit with the let's just be friends line enough times, or cheated on, or whatever. They wake up and realize the way the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 08:19 PM
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All those scenarios seem plausible. I want to throw another one out there and see what you think: Maybe they choose a girl that's slightly uglier because of the other advantages. Maintaining frame is simpler when her smv is lower than yours. Perhaps they're trading a couple points in the looks department for other advantages. Like maybe the girl is a 7 in looks when he could pull a 9, but the 7 knows how to cook and clean while the 9 has never had to work at any of that because someone out there…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:04 PM
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I wish I had taken a screenshot. "Do you want to suck the tit of a lambo? You're going to have to take a BBC up your unlubed asshole every day of the week by working 9-5 and investing your money in a mid-risk stock portfolio." "Every guy likes sucking tits. It's undeniable. We live to suck tits, or there's no enjoyment in life. But what you guys need to remember here at the red pill is: there's a lot of dick out there you need to gobble up before they let you suck those titties. For every tit su…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 07:42 PM
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Okay there we go. The full scope of the problem is revealed. If she tells you she wants to but isn't going: watch what a women does. Pay attention to their actions more than their words. She might say she hates you and wants nothing to do with you, but if she keeps coming around to tell you that, it's because you matter to her in some way. That makes me believe that in your case, if you want to, you could keep this chick. Sounds like you believe she's a good one, and hasn't given you any reason …
/r/askTRP19/05/18 07:34 PM
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This. Your goals are how you judge yourself. Don't compare yourself to those men. Admire them for their accomplishments. You are a man, or you are learning to be one. Men take inspiration, and improve themselves or work toward their own goals with an attitude of "I might not be hot shit quite yet, but I'm persistent and making steady progress. Some of these guys are enemies, and some my brothers. Regardless, I can respect their achievements with admiration instead of envy" Little bitches look ar…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:21 PM
4

If the only thing your looking for is one time casual sex, or as I like to call it, a "FWB interview", it's not particularly easy to find on tinder anymore. The closest thing would be to sexualize the conversation early, and if they're into it, suggest you mean for a drink or something and "see where it goes." Then you take it from there. If you aren't capable of meeting a girl you already know is DTF for coffee, you need to work on your game. Most girls online that are DTF want the bare minimum…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:13 PM
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Good, more details are helpful. But you're leaving out something critical. You fought over something you think she did, but you don't mention if you had any evidence, what the thing was, or why you came to think she did it. You say you know you acted like a dick. That depends on what she did. If we assume that you are the wrong party here, then your mistake looks to be not passing some comfort tests, and letting her think you're moving on.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:56 PM
1

Oh word. My bad then, I knew it might just be a What's app feature I didn't understand. I thought about this again. Did it end in a big argument, with a lot of high emotions? How long did you date, and how close is she to your social circle? Those are some important factors. I can envision a situation in which she let you down super easy and left the door open because she hasn't secured her next guy. In that case, you would still be on good enough terms where you could just ask for it back, no d…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:11 PM
2

I don't use WhatsApp, but if you're checking her message read status, you need to stop. That's how you'll get obsessed with her. Constant little reminders. If her fucking name is somewhere on your communication constantly, don't take for granted the amount of good it will do you to get rid of it. This doesn't mean you need to block her, just figure out how to not see that shit on the regular. I don't know how long it's been since the break, so it's hard to say what to do. But you've decided alre…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:47 PM
1

Haha, I'm basically just trying to explain what I read at the bottom of the official TRP rules. I actually believe it could be valuable in identifying yourself sometimes for perspective, especially in a gendered subreddit like TRP. At the same time, I see why they might consider it fishing for approval on some posts. For example, take a gender neutral discussion sub. If a girl randomly interjects that she is a woman, it is suspect unless there's a reason that bit of context helps advance her poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:38 PM
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Bahahaha I never would have taken this sub seriously if I got here and received half this advice. The sidebar can sometimes be hyperbolic, but at least the information is well written and you can see the point. If we didn't have endorsed contributors...hilarity ensues. It's important that a majority of the advice is decent quality or we'll have all sorts of ridiculous posts. Another was a guy talking about how to pass shit tests from his female boss. Like, dude if she's your boss telling you not…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 04:24 PM
1

Your first statement is the topic of a political debate, so I'm going to sidestep that to keep the discussion on point. I'm assuming when you say all but dead, you men that you are dissatisfied with the rate of social mobility, not that it is actually impossible. If I'm wrong, I apologise. I agree there are externalities that one cannot control. I'm simply advocating for people to be responsible for what they are able to, which is a lot more than they think. For example, consider people who feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:13 PM
3

Cognitive dissonance is the term I like to use for the effect you're describing where someone comes into contact with things that contradict their beliefs. When this happens, one becomes unhappy. If it's just a few things, though, they will generally ignore the evidence against their beliefs. Over time, this feeling of dissonance builds, leading to a rejection of the belief. Often that results in the person just straight up adopting the complete opposite extreme view. Usually this also causes so…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 03:44 PM
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This man knows what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 03:39 PM
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What's going on with this sub. I think the post got removed, but last night I saw another massive post on TRP giving advice on life in general. The dude was trying to equate anything you would want in life (money, women, hobbies, etc.) with how good it feels to suck on tits, and equate the work you have to put in to get those things with taking it in the ass and deepthroating dick. Just paragraphs and paragraphs of advice like "so decide which tits you want to suck, but just remember that the bi…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 03:38 PM
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This. Becoming more cognizant of how I'm treating people in my day to day life vis a vis male/female dynamics, I've been surprised by the instinctive way that I "sort" women subconsciously. Anybody too obese, too old, or unkempt/otherwise damaged almost don't even exist as women to me. (I still see them as people! Just treat them more like I would treat another guy.) As in, where a slightly more attractive person would have caused me to get excited/nervous or really feel anything other than norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:31 PM
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I don't know if this was his motivation, but over in TRP it's generally considered poor form as a woman to start your comments with something along the lines of "hi, woman here." or "as a female" because they are attention getting, and if they're arguing about male/female dynamics the reply should be able to stand on its own feet without being considered specially. Since that's the rule over there, seeing the female symbol in her flair did trigger that "moderator" voice in my head (I'm no mod) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:10 PM
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I... So you solved a cybercrime somehow... ...and then instead of reporting the criminal, or any of several other reasonable actions... You chose to...what? Tell a couple of the girls you wanna fuck that you managed to locate all their personal information, even though they were completely unaware of the hack? It just sounds like you really sucked at chosing how to deal with the issue. Honestly I don't really follow the reasoning behind your actions. They make no sense, so you're either leaving …
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:59 PM
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I believe he's trying to say that you spit concise truths. I believe he's also doing it using third grade English.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:52 PM
1

Be more descriptive of the feelings you're expecting to feel. Entertained? Content? Love? Attachment? Respect? What are you expecting?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 06:15 AM
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I dunno, maybe you're gay? But seriously, by definition you aren't hitting it off with these girls if you feel nothing. Why don't you enjoy yourself around women is the question I'd ask. I generally only interact with a girl if she's interesting in some way. Maybe you're trying too hard at gaming them, and not letting yourself feel?
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:45 AM
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She's lost interest if there was ever any in the first place. If all you have to go on is slightly prolonged eye contact one time, that's not a whole lot. This is not a shit test. You likely didn't generate attraction when you were flirting with her, or you would know the answer to your question. You say she is getting bitchy. This is her escalation her hints to you that she isn't interested. Keep going and eventually she will snap at you for being creepy. Let this one go and try again.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:20 AM
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I generally prefer to write clearly; I think we agree on that point. I just don't think the language that people are using is having the effect that you believe it is having. A lot of the people that comment and post in TRP are still in the anger phase. What leads a lot of men to TRP (myself included) is repeated failure with women and relationships. We are driven there because our society has effectively brainwashed us about the reality of male/female dynamics, and the cognitive dissonance fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:26 AM
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Hmm...this strikes me as semantic masturbation. I accept your premise about new TRPers basically being no more useful than parrots. I reject your conclusion that carefully adding qualifiers to every single statement you make will in any way help. The whole basis of this community is to seek/disseminate the truth about male and female sexual strategy. Definitionally, you end up with statements like "Women do X" or "Men behave like Y". These statements are usually then clarified through discussion…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:15 PM
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You aren't looking for escalation advice, you are looking for approach advice. Youy you've made eye contact a bit. Have you learned indicators of interest yet? Specifically eye contact indicators? If she is showing you these indicators, it almost doesn't matter what you say, because she is already receptive. Have you ever been somewhere like a grocery store, and you see a cute girl, then suddenly you see her a weird amount throughout the store? Or the same thing at a party. Too many chance encou…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:41 PM
2

I don't have time right now to go into detail, but let me clarify something about the anxiety. Disclaimer, weed affects people differently. Weed is mostly a mental addiction. This means physical withdrawal symproms are much milder than, say, heroin. But that doesn't mean there are no symptoms. Weed messes with your ability to regulate your own stress levels naturally. Your body gets accustomed to using weed to calm yourself down, instead of balancing your stress hormones naturally. As a result o…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:22 PM
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It's such a shame, but now when I hear stories like this it makes me want to vomit. I used to take girls at their word about some of these absurd stories. Until I ended up on the receiving end of the bullshit. Now, if the story is wild, I have a hard time believing it unless they are willing to deal with the police. Now, I fill in the details myself with something plausible. Clearly she's not giving the full story and I'm willing to bet it's because she's trying to bury her shame. She probably g…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:56 PM
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Growing up poor? No, you have no control over that. Remaining poor, however, is generally more controllable. So long as you finish high school and don't have a kid early, you are likely to rise up over that poverty line. People don't need to take responsibility for every single detail. There are externalities outside our control. But the world would be a better place if people would take a good look at the parts they play in events before jumping to vicimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:35 PM
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Help, somehow 4/5 of all women in my social circle are lining up to bang me and now too many of them are banging me and they aren't happy that I'm indiscriminately banging them all. I have not reached this level yet.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:49 PM
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People taking responsibility for their own situations is a key problem with my generation. Actually...not just my generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:34 PM
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Glad I could help. About getting drinks: gotcha. In terms of what it is or isn't a good idea to do with her, your top priority will be getting her to have fun with you. As long as you know you can do that, the rest comes secondary. She will be able to sense your mood, and if you're having fun and teasing/including her, she will be having fun too. So first ask yourself if it's an activity you would want to do, then ask yourself if you believe it's an activity that you can make her enjoy. When you…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:12 AM
1

Want to reiterate that you're doing well, congrats. It sounds a little like you're looking for a formula to use here. Like, it's date X and we did A and B last time, and now she's saying K, so should I L, or M? What you'll realize is that it's better to internalize the concepts. Sort of the give a man a fish, teach a man to fish principle. It sounds like you're looking mostly for advice on logistics. I have two pieces of advice in that area based on what you've written. First, if she is showing …
/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:40 PM
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What a load of shit.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 05:32 PM
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That's the right attitude! Just because you like doing nice things for her doesn't mean she gets to use you as a doormat for her and her friends. I'm assuming you know what it entails to follow a bunch of people around who are high on acid. You get to worry about them possibly making a scene and having to extricate them, while they spend 12 hours ignoring you and doing really weird shit that you won't appreciate much.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:11 PM
1

Two points here. This depends on the scale people are using. Some people use a scale like a normal distribution, so there are a ton of people on the middle (4-7) and very few at either extreme. Other people use a subjective scale, where there are plenty of 10's, and a 10 to them is just someone who triggers their attraction the hardest. Further more, some guys add personality to the mix when giving the score. With either of the first 2 scales, though, there are plenty of women who are 7's, and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:54 PM
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No fucking way. Okay maybe if she agrees to blowjobs on demand for a week. You aren't a free babysitter, are you?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:26 AM
3

Started smoking when I got to college. Made a lot of stoner friends. Felt like I had a social circle built up. Started feeling like the weed was blunting my energy. Stopped, and realized just how boring my life was, and how little I had in common with my friends. Friends that become friends through weed often aren't really friends but acquaintances dependent on the same drug.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:32 AM
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Way. Way overanlyzing. In my experience your average girl isn't sexually open enough right off the bat to talk about her kinks if she has any. Maybe she hasn't had enough experience to know. Maybe she likes to fuck a couple times and get comfortable before going into it. But for fucks sake, calm down. Learn to meditate, so you can pay attention to your own thoughts and recognize when that anxiety about this stuff starts creeping up. You'll feel much better and more in control of your frame.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:11 AM
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I really had a great time in that relationship. I do wish I could go back and experience more of that naive happiness. But also, I was still 'asleep' and she had lots of SJW tendencies. The new me would never have tried to enter a relationship with her. There are girls who, when I look back, I regret that things didn't work. I do my best not to dwell on them. They can't undo their actions. I can't undo mine. So it's just a fantasy that ultimately gets you into oneitis. The not her fault thing, t…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 12:55 AM
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Contacted her for closure a day later. Lightswitch flipped. Cosmic levels of hamstering to explain. In a way, I have to thank her for destroying me so efficiently. It's easier to forge a sword from new steel than to try and put a broken one back together.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 11:53 PM
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She waited a whole month? Motherfucker, my ex was literally fucking another dude 2 hours after she broke up with me. That shit tore me up. You say you've read the sidebar, but how extensively? You say you look good, work, etc. so it sounds like you have a solid foundation. Work on that approach anxiety and things should start falling into place. Confidence is key and it sounds like you let your breakup affect your confidence. Forgive yourself for any mistakes you made before taking the redpill, …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:56 PM
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What's the point to reading this stuff? Internalization. Continued engagement with this community serves many as a reminder of what they have been through, and what other men are going through and have gone through. We live in a BP world right now where many of these ideas are considered taboo. Without repeated engagement, some of us are likely to fall back into complacent misery due to the sheer pressure of having to face these problems alone. There are basically two things that come from TRP. …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:47 PM
1

Just the way shit goes, haha. Literally last night I had a potential tinder plate hit me up after 5 full days, saying sorry for the delay and asking if I was free to fuck in the next couple hours. You'll only ever be pleasantly surprised if you manage to achieve outcome independence on texts. I forgot that chick existed the moment I sent that text.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:28 PM
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You say you don't care, but if that were true you wouldn't be worried about how you come off to her. You won't come off ass butt hurt. If you are nexting her by having a conversation with the about why you're ending things, or by sending her almost any message at all, you are doing it incorrectly. You either soft next, by just forgetting about her existing unless she messages you again, or you hard next, by unmatching. The point is, you shouldn't care how you come off, especially not to someone …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:48 AM
2

I read all the replies, and I have a question before I offer anything: does your dick work normally without a condom? Plenty of guys offered advice assuming you can't function at all, and if that's the case then take their advice. I'm going to assume it works, and you just go soft using a rubber. I use condoms even though I fucking hate them, because I refuse the heightened risks of rawdogging some strange. There are several positions that just don't work because it feels like complete shit. I g…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:30 AM
2

Without knowing the what that message was, and your reply, it's hard to tell what the exact situation is. Usually not a good sign if they don't reply, but it doesn't mean all hope is lost. Just acknowledge this is an indicator of disinterest and move on. Believe me when I say, if they leave you "on read", the only one thinking about that shit will be you. Outcome independence is key if you want peace of mind. Personally I would give it til tomorrow night, then hit her up. Make sure it's somethin…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:59 AM
1

I've gone through several changes in my hair style. I've tried going no shampoo, I've tried shaving all the way off, and all sorts of short and medium looks. Hair back, hair forward. Right now, I'm growing it out longer than I ever have. I do it because I'm curious how it looks, and if I like the way I look then I keep it. Not once have I considered what looks masculine, or which cut is ideal for grappling.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:43 PM
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Text game is annoying to learn, because it takes a lot of waiting around. And it can also take a strong understanding of language you're using. You told her to hit you up when she's back. That puts the ball in her court. Instead, tell her you'll hit her up sometime when she gets back. Then it's still in yours. You are the hunter, you won't forget about your target. She on the other hand, will handily forget and drive you crazy. It's your fault if that's how you leave it. It helps if, before you …
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:46 PM
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Just fucking communicate. That porn quality dicking...that took a long time to coordinate and prepare for. And you can be damn sure rubbing a first one out/taking performance enhancers was part of that. For round 1, I suggest a bit of foreplay, then either have her suck you off once or just do your thing and finish quick. Then, don't get off and make excuses. Don't remark on it at all. Also, don't stop as if that was the end of your experience. That's what disappoints most of all. Immediately af…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:29 PM
2

Just realized I didn't quite complete my comment. Not going to bother editing, haha A lot of the time it's hard to tell. You have to have a lot of the context of the situation. Usually I find it easier to figure out once I have a better idea of who she is, what her experiences and upbringing were like, or if you have a chance to talk to her. If you bring it up in conversation, without getting angry, does she see have a realization and feel a little guilty, or reconsider her actions? Or does she …
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:32 PM
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Oh. In that case...you've stated that he doesn't care. I generally take men at their word about how they feel about women. He said he doesn't care, I'd roll with that. If he really did care and was hiding his feelings from you...that's some woman shit right there, and this is the perfect opportunity to make it clear that honesty amongst friends is important to you. If I suspected, or he told me that he still has some feelings for her, I wouldn't even consider it. That's not how I treat friends. …
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:09 PM
1

If a land whale let me fuck her throat on demand for a weekend, while she fed me at regular intervals and cleaned my house when on standby, and didn't expect anything from me while she does it...yeah, fuck it, I'll go to her cousins wedding reception with her. It's not that she's into beta guys, just like I'm not into chunkers. It's that the relationship is transactional by nature, and you just paid out the ass in commitment. Men are the gatekeepers to commitment, women are the gatekeepers to se…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:52 PM
2

Hypergamy and solipsism aren't very similar concepts. Solipsism can be compared much more easily to selfishness. Say you're at a dinner party, and someone puts out some chocolate covered strawberries. Everyone lines up, but before everyone has had a chance to take a couple, Stephanie loads an entire plate of them for herself. What just happened could be based on two motivations: selfishness, or solipsism. If she acted from selfishness, she saw that there are other dinner guests but she decided t…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:43 PM
2

Hey, Becky? It's User0181746. I just wanted to clarify things a bit about Saturday. I want you to come over to "meet my dog", and by "meet" I mean "suck" and by dog I mean "cock". This is an amoral sub, I don't expect people to tell you whether it's right or wrong to lie to a girl for sex. The general rule: don't put your dick in crazy, might apply here. Might not. Myself, I won't always be completely up front about my interest levels in the girl if there's a chance we smash, but I've never stra…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:24 PM
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You need to do more research. Look into clitoral vs vaginal orgasm. While your at it, look at different types of orgasm for men, too. Also's not all about orgasm. That's a wrong assumption. There are just different nerves and receptors in there, and shit feels good. Hell, I knew a girl who told me she loved (read: insatiable desire) to be fucked on her period. Something made it 10x more sensitive/pleasurable for her down there. Point is, you're trying to draw conclusions from very little informa…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:53 PM
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I...don't believe you. As in, maybe the matches don't roll in just because it's there, but I'm almost certain girls aren't seeing it and actively rejecting you for it.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:30 PM
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Since that post is all we have to know you by, I figured you would appreciate brutal honesty on how it came across. And you did appreciate it, which shows maturity. I feel you. I'm leaving a 6 figure salary at a top tech company to move somewhere cheap and work with my hands. Why? Because I would personally rather spend my best physical years staying in good shape and enjoying myself, instead of ruining myself at a desk so I have a boatload of money in my worst physical years. I also intend to h…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:06 PM
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I'm going to replace "RP books" with "self help books" because practically that's what a lot of the books you're referring to are. You can't read a constant stream of self help books and expect it to be very useful. You need to take the time to implement the things from a book. To get in that state of mind and really explore and internalize it. Otherwise, you'll forget about it and never form a habit out of thinking that way. I don't remember the exact time frame, but I believe it takes at least…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:03 PM
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I guess some people might consider 3 paragraphs a long post, but that's like an 8 second commitment for most people. But I'd work on your grammar if you want to have more interesting responses. The point will come across more clearly. That said, I do feel that American society is very "fake", with it's social media, and pretending to care about everybody. You sound like you're still in school. Keep doing what you're doing, seeking to clarify those feelings you have. What you call being "fake", I…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:54 AM
1

Do it yourself. If you're going to ask a girl for a favor, do it directly. You shouldn't be afraid of talking to the girl for any reason. You probably don't want to because you're putting her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:31 AM
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Downvoted. I am currently reading Jordan Peterson's book 12 Rules for Life: an Antidote to Chaos, the book that these 4 rules come from. I appreciate that you're doing a summary of these rules for those who haven't discovered it yet or don't have the time, and I hope it helps people find his work. But you're basically writing cliff notes that are nowhere near as insightful as the long form essays in the book that accompany these rules. But crediting "a book I'm reading" at the tag end of the pos…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 11:27 AM
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I don't see any part of this that relates to sexual strategy. You use words like "shit test" and "hold frame", but they are meaningless in the context of office relations. How could you have passed a "shit test" like your boss telling you how to do your work? Amused mastery, yeah, that'll work. Give her a coy smile and tell her you think it's cute when she gets angry. Or agree and amplify. Tell her you know your work is so awful, she might need to come micromanage the way you use the stapler. Th…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:10 AM
1

The English on this one makes it tough to interpret. If you're asking whether you should get a girl's number by asking her friend for it, the answer is no. If you're asking anything else, please clarify.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:25 AM
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I don't have any links for you, and I don't have any advice on how to actually make friends. Only a couple pieces of advice that I wish I had, speaking as someone who graduated college last year. Don't burn those bridges unless you need to. When I left, I cut contact with my friends. I developed this mindset of "fuck them, either they didn't notice they left me behind, or they're avoiding me on purpose." And that attitude really showed the few times I did see them. Years later, I'm moving back t…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:20 AM
1

Sounds like you've got a good handle on what happened here. If I were you I would get figure out exactly what kind of relationship you're looking for, then hold THAT frame. I don't know what's worse. The old me fucking up and not understanding why, or the new me, fucking up and understanding, but then accidentally making the same damn mistakes due to instinctual beta responses.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:19 PM
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I can't understand why you care so much about her sticking around after you fucked twice. She's a FWB, not an LTR, correct? She wants to leave because she's bored sounds like one of the most honest things you'll ever hear.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 09:29 PM
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Captain underpants novels and Harry Potter fan fiction. Nah, I hope he's got some decent reading material.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:39 PM
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The ideas expressed here are anathema to blue pillers. Taking responsibility for your own shit, and not hiding from hard truths are both core tenets of the redpill.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:06 AM
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