ithastobenew Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1078	My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....	FDS RESCUE MISSION	ithastobenew	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 06:51 AM
585	I saw this going around on Facebook with women swooning, I need a break from it 🤢	MALE DEPRAVITY	ithastobenew	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 04:21 PM
49	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself?	DISCUSSION	ithastobenew	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 06:41 AM
14	What advice would you give to somebody who has never dated someone with an ex??		ithastobenew	/r/askFDS	29/04/21 03:22 PM
1	I am done dropping everything to help you look for something.	STRATEGY	ithastobenew	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 06:20 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	WHAT on Earth IS THIS. Hey I know this is way way late but I wanted to let you know that coconut oil is a risky lube -- it can disintegrate condoms. I use sliquid, which is safe for condoms and toys. It's made of water, plant cellulose, guar gum, and citric acid for pH balance. Completely botanical, vegan, cruelty free, and water based. I like it because it's made out of things that wouldn't be harmful if eaten, so I know it's okay to put in my body.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 12:38 AM
7	Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every night I'm trying to find either of these stories, that is so scary!!! I am already CF, but to think that I would have to babysit my own husband at the risk of getting arrested is just such an exhausting and engaging thought	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 02:03 AM
1	I saw this going around on Facebook with women swooning, I need a break from it 🤢 Yeah there’s been comments like “I’d be excited honestly” and “he’s gonna have to buy me a whole house!” 😰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 03:02 PM
6	I saw this going around on Facebook with women swooning, I need a break from it 🤢 I’m sorry — what’s PA?? 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 06:21 PM
147	I saw this going around on Facebook with women swooning, I need a break from it 🤢 Ugh I had somebody comment saying they’d be excited because THEIR partner is good at sex 🤦🏻‍♀️ like I’m sorry but just because your partner values your pleasure (who knows if that’s actually true) doesn’t change the fact of how trash this is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 05:30 PM
3	My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent. Totally forgot about diaphragms!!! I already use a menstrual cup so I’m sure I could learn to fit it in, thanks so much for the suggestion 🙏🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/21 02:49 AM
6	A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerability I am also interested in the solution. I currently carry around a small tube of mace, but I sometimes worry that it will not dispense when I need it to	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 09:39 PM
1	I am done dropping everything to help you look for something. Done!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 07:37 PM
1	I am done dropping everything to help you look for something. Thank you for your comment. Should I copy / paste it there?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 07:33 PM
28	The problem with men wanting “independent women.” When I google serial farter it only comes up with flatulence jokes. Is there more to this?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 09:46 PM
30	This - exactly this. Yes it was the same here, I was fine with it because I didn't really hear much about him other than he was "spiritual" and had some different views. His enforced monogamy argument to reduce male violence is laughable but terrifying at the same time. The entitlement	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 03:05 AM
63	This - exactly this. Ugh god my NVex was SUPER into Jordan Peterson	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 02:35 AM
6	To young women browsing this sub: For the love of Venus, PLEASE don't waste your sexual exploration focusing on a man's pleasure. Getting at least 1 orgasm before PIV sex is a great idea!! I had actually been thinking about this and to say to any future guys "I have a medical condition I need to orgasm before I can have a penis inside me" but quickly dispelled the thought with another horrifying one of "you wanna bet?" And the theoretical man then making a game of putting a penis in me where I dont want one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 05:34 PM
2	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? I searched for "social training" in Google and the only thing that showed up is an abusive organization that does ABA therapy, which prioritizes the comfort of everyone around the autistic person rather than the autistic person themself. Ah well. This is America ✊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 07:45 PM
8	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? Social training with other autistic people sounds amazing!!!! Are you in the US?? this would be incredibly helpful for me, the only option I knew of was a mostly straight male dominated place where you learn public speaking and making small speeches and get feedback. What you describe sounds much more tolerable. What kind of therapy is it called? What should I type into the google search bar to find this service	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 07:17 PM
2	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? This is so needed, thank you. If someone finds you annoying, remember that there are hundreds and thousands of other people in the world who will find those same qualities refreshing, exciting, and captivating. I have a habit of cackling (VERY) loud at random times, and some people love it and think I'm very funny and other people find it super off putting and look at me like I'm "crazy". In these times I've noticed more people I hang out with telling me it's good to hear someone laughing. There…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 07:14 PM
13	Three Options To consider if you’re re-evaluating your relationship This is so useful and practical, thank you!!! What she said "if you can't leave them what's your plan if they leave you" really struck me. I honestly don't know what I would have done if my ex left me, rather than me leaving them and going to a guaranteed shelter.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 10:57 AM
24	I just ordered The Rules! It has been a very angering experience for me to learn that, by default, I am expected to do a shit ton of unpaid labor with no appreciation just because of the set of parts I got when I was born. I have been trying to figure out what to do in a world that doesn't see me as an equal, and how to be taken seriously when I am angry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 10:52 AM
1	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? Thanks, there's probably some info related to my exact issue and I'll look at the website and wiki some more	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 09:29 AM
12	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? If I do this work on myself will I eventually work through these feelings and not have them anymore? Or do they stay forever, but you should keep them to yourself bc if you ask it to a man then he will use it to his advantage? I would really like to believe that a caring man would accommodate for my vulnerabilities but maybe this is not possible and I should avoid dating until I have this solid foundation down. Heck, I don't even have a picture of what a perfect relationship looks like, because …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 07:14 AM
14	Yep... I might just be naive and not thinking through each possibility, but I imagine it would be super easy to just... push somebody on the tracks. And the train is loud. That's also why I have issues with the college "scream time" where everybody screams at the same time. I hope op responds the issue as I want to learn more ways to be safe	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 01:40 AM