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Congrats on the sex but wow you really want to argue about your own personal definitions and opinions. Go do you, it’s all good.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/19 04:57 PM
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You’re a piece of shit. You’re a Mexican piece of shit. There’s a difference and context is important.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/18 03:32 PM
7

Dude is an American hero. I want to buy this guy a beer.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/18 01:44 AM
7

She doesn't work (but will get a full time job after the wedding) Haha and she'll get ten years younger, you'll lose that gut, and then win the lottery.
/r/askMRP27/05/17 05:00 PM
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Wait so what the fuck is she doing with her life? When you have kids all these flaws and shortcomings will be magnified 10x.
/r/askMRP27/05/17 04:57 PM
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Even tried to f**k with my head by saying " i dont know if you are the father" but I'm 100% sure. Which method did you use to be 100% sure? I prefer the time machine method, but you probably went full covert in-the-womb blood test, right? Who knows if she was fucking other people or she's just being ridiculous. Your ideas range from fine (documenting everything, new parent course) to retarded (trust fund, buy her gift cards). Talk to your fucking lawyer about this, or find a family law expert (h…
/r/RedPillParenting05/05/17 08:27 PM
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I'm sorry about your sister. They are heavily co dependent on her and she knows it. She's their mom and they're 5 and 3. No shit. No offense but I don't think you're ready to step in and be the father figure for these kids, and it's not really up to you. You're a late 20's virgin who just moved out of your parents house. Bottom line: You're not deciding who will care for another man's kids. They're family. Offer to help if you want to. Stay in their lives. Look out for them.
/r/askMRP17/03/17 11:44 PM
2

Coming here to get crucified is a new level of cuck. That's clearly what you want.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 12:46 AM
5

Squats and deadlifts only done with a partner? That seems pretty unnecessary. How about lift smart with good form and progression?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 06:15 PM
9

Seventeen kids?! I'm sorry your buddy went out like that but holy shit. That's not a couple of kids. And married three times? He was a glutton for punishment. Sad all the way down.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:42 PM
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A degree doesn't mean shit in the tech industry. Not shit. I barely graduated high school, no college, and have made over 200 for a few years now through consulting and freelancing. It's all about what you've done, who you know, and your skill set. You could take an accelerated course through something like Bloc, General Assembly, or any other the dozens of other code schools and probably know more practical job relevant coding than a four year graduate. Owning your shit and being a leader is in…
/r/askMRP19/12/16 01:11 PM
1

The way it's framed with helping to clean, then the ask makes it seem like a CC. He helped so he deserved it. Could definitely be wrong. Just my interpretation.
/r/askMRP11/12/16 07:39 PM
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You care so much about her expectations, her motives, her feelings, what she says... You need to quit that shit. Until you do that, you're still a little bitch. By the way, running that party and cleaning up like a good little boy in exchange for sex is a covert contract for sure. Sounds like you're starting to get it. Do you guys have kids? If not, sounds like you need to lay down how things will change or GTFO. Talk to a lawyer immediately to protect your assets and get things in order just in…
/r/askMRP11/12/16 06:06 PM
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I'm not suggesting any passive aggressive behavior. My post specifically says not to be passive aggressive about it. You can laugh about something without being passive aggressive. My point is to not get your feels all wrapped up like a little bitch. But beating your chest and demanding she not speak to this dude ever or you're going to Hulk out is 50/50 how you get her to trip and fall on his dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 03:16 AM
1

"Didn't love me the way I love her." Come on dude. Life isn't a fucking Disney movie. She needs you and might be attracted to you. But it's just your turn right now. That turn might last six more months or it might last sixty more years.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 03:09 AM
5

Yeah definitely cause a scene and act like a little bitch. Or you know, realize that she didn't stop feeling feelings when she married you, identify and evaluate the situation (including the dude) and be a man. Fuck that, be a better man. According to all of this, all he's done is gotten a drink for his kid and been friendly to some lady. Her hard-on for him isn't his fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 03:05 AM
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Trying not to appear butthurt and not being butthurt are two different things. You're so far in your own head about this, and so insecure it's crazy. If you see your wife talking to a dude and feel threatened go up and say hi. Introduce yourself. Be a fucking man about it. Figure out what he's projecting that she wants. The mystery? The body fat %? This is still too much about her. Her her her. Who cares? She's talking to a guy. If it bothers you that much I'd say something without emotion. Be a…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 12:28 AM
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Her: I knew you'd come back! Her: If you wear what I say, are home on time, help with the kids (etc), I'll give you a blowjob At least she knows who's in charge.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:50 AM
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Troll or dumpster fire.
/r/askMRP23/10/16 11:39 AM
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Your eight year old called your wife a whore and a feminazi and it's her fault for stepping in between an argument between your very young children? You're a fucking mess dude.
/r/askMRP23/10/16 11:31 AM
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The thing you're missing is you. Whatever with her feelings and something you're not providing. Be a lean, fun, smile machine. You provide safety, strong leadership, and fun. You're in command of your life. You can lead her but you can't force her to do shit. Then even if she fucks a whole football team you're still an attractive dude with an active life and options.
/r/askMRP23/10/16 12:12 AM
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Don't draw up papers and put them in front of her unless you're ready for her to sign them. It can't be an empty threat. It has to be one of two options that you are choosing in your head. Just be aware of that. That being said, I think it's the right move. Get the process started. Make it clear that's 100% on the table.
/r/askMRP23/10/16 12:09 AM
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Why are you letting your son talk to your wife like that? This is an obvious leadership failure. Nobody disrespects my family, including my family.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 10:56 PM
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Unless you're trying to personally cope with seeing a friend cut in half by a mortar shell and think you guys might be able to help each other out in PMs, shut the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 03:53 PM
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For real, do this. He probably has no idea and he'll find his way here shortly.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 02:12 PM
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"Don't attack against an adversary who has dug into a defended position." — Jocko on marriage
/r/askMRP23/08/16 01:12 PM
2

Have a lot of time on your hands?
/r/askMRP22/08/16 08:26 PM
15

This chick is at least co-captaining this ship. At least.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 08:13 PM
1

If you're this far down the rabbit hole just nuke the marriage dude. It's fucking over.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 05:52 PM
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Stop trying to fix everything. Women just like to vent, especially new mothers. Listen to her. Do lots of nodding, saying "yeah", and asking low-key questions for her to keep talking. She doesn't want a fix, she doesn't want you to help. She just wants you to listen. Suddenly you're an amazing listener who just gets her.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 05:51 PM
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It's okay. You didn't crash and burn. This is a comfort test. She wants you to know she's desirable too, and wants you to acknowledge it. Would have been better to either amplify or steer it back to you. Great, does this mean I'm out of going to (event you didn't want to go to anyway)? Oh sweet, am I meeting you guys at home now for the threesome? I always knew your next husband would be a gentleman Did you check out his hose? What month is he in the calendar on my desk? You just have to ask bab…
/r/askMRP22/08/16 05:49 PM
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What a huge faggot. She was down to play and you let your own insecurity ruin what could have been a fun moment in your relationship. Then she tried to talk to you about it calmly and you think by acting like a child you won. This isn't what STFU is about. You lying in the back seat, angry typing this up and submitting it is so beta. The correct alpha response was, "I don't want to hear about you with some other lame guy. Let's do something you've never done before..."
/r/askMRP22/08/16 05:41 PM
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I haven't really changed We know. my diet other than slightly laying off the carbs, less tortillas, quinoa instead of rice Who cares about any of this? How many calories are you eating. What's your macro split? "Slightly laying off the carbs" isn't going to undo the damage you've done to your body already. You have to get fucking serious. drinking soy milk Perfect for post-menopausal women. Also, why are you drinking more calories? but it's time to lose the weight and I'm having a hard time pick…
/r/askMRP22/08/16 05:35 PM
4

She totally gamed you, and you played right into it. She exposed your ego and lack of confidence with one harmless logistical sentence. She was problem solving while you were hamstering. Sitting on your lap and apologizing was a power move on her part too. She let you cool off and knew what you wanted to hear to make the bullshit go away, topping it off with some low-key sexual contact. What a pro. The correct response was, "Nah I've got this babe, but maybe he can hold the video camera later. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 05:26 PM
2

It was really just a setup to the Navy joke.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 12:20 AM
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Why are you trying to give trust to someone who keeps knowingly and willingly breaking it? Are you dumb?
/r/askMRP17/08/16 05:20 PM
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wonderful faggots dicks out of your asses this man jerking you off faggotry navy for over a decade Man, you are really into dudes fucking dudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 05:14 PM
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Being new and achieving outcome independence/indifference means stopping being codependent on your spouse. This is fucking hard for a lot of new guys, who have been basing their emotional worth on an unstable foundation they built out of sand. This takes a lot of time to reprogram yourself to stop looking at her like a sad puppy for affirmation. You can't start lifting for 13 days, read a couple threads, thumb through NMMNG and shitpost about considering the "fuck me or fuck you" talk. Stop fuck…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 05:12 PM
1

Trying to deal with all my anger and frustration with balancing it against the IDGAF and being an awesome leader who is happy-go-lucky all the time IS A GIANT FUCKING CHORE! My emotional and mental muscles are weak. If it's a giant chore, you're still pretending and that's a problem. Don't pretend to not give a fuck. Actually don't give a fuck. I know this is easier said than done, but if you're just pretending on the face of things, and actually simmering below the surface, she's probably readi…
/r/askMRP15/08/16 06:36 PM
1

I can't read between the lines of what's going on here (addiction, tumor, gangrenous penis), but sometimes in a strong relationship, the other person has to grab the flag and lead up the next hill. Grab the flag, scream the war cry, and save his life. You don't have to do it by nagging, you can do it by being right next to him in the foxhole and not wavering. Lead him on this and he'll come around. Dying is fucking scary and if you have kids you do what you need to do lady.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 06:34 PM
1

No seriously, she did you a favor. She probably knew you could be listening on some level. She wants you to step up. This is all your fault and whining to her like a little bitch (even as a stoic rock) accomplishes nothing. This was two women who likely care about you commiserating over a man they wish would lead. This is a smack in the face. Don't piss on her for it.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 06:25 PM
2

I didn't realize reading two books (and hardly internalizing any of it) qualifies you to do visual paternity tests. Those pesky scientists are going to be furious! Get the fucking paternity test. She's been fucking anyone with an ounce of testosterone in their blood. I think you should get a full medical workup too. You read like someone with seriously low T.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 06:22 PM
1

Laughed out loud at seven cats. Get a good lawyer and do whatever they say. Period. That's what you should do re: divorce. Re: you, for god's sake you need a whole life reboot man. You are a fucking doormat pussy.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 06:18 PM
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Couldn't agree more. It's like booze: every so often is fine, but when you need it everyday you done goofed.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 03:22 AM
7

I'm not a doctor, but going out on a limb that it's because you're not getting laid. She just got sliced in half (I've watched it twice, it's fucking insane) and her hormones are totally fucked up. Take this opportunity to lift harder, lead like a champion, and be the stoic rock in the household. Personally I waited about 12-14 weeks after the last kid to restart sex. In the meantime don't stop gaming her though. Just realize the end result is different.
/r/askMRP04/08/16 07:10 PM
2

It's six dollars on Kindle or Paperback.
/r/RedPillBooks02/08/16 08:58 PM
3

Sure it's a puke but I think you did fine. It's easy to sit here and pick apart your interactions and tell you where you could have done something differently. You didn't fuck up. Good. Lawyer, lawyer, lawyer. And I would buy a Nest security camera to "monitor the dog when you're not home" or something similar, and pay the $10/month for 7 days of cloud recording. Now you know you're on camera and she can't claim you escalated things to the police or anyone else. Again, lawyer it up hard. Do what…
/r/askMRP01/08/16 02:02 PM
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He needs to be careful about leaving or abandoning. It can lead to further divorce rape. He needs to do whatever his bomb ass lawyer says to do.
/r/askMRP01/08/16 01:57 PM
2

Just address in your first part about her falling on his dick: I think he's past the point of gaming her for sex. I don't think he cares anymore about that—which makes sense. She's not desirable like this, she's a mess. Not sure that was the point you were making but wanted to add it in.
/r/askMRP01/08/16 01:56 PM
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facile straw-manning You've been saving that haven't you?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:45 PM
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That's cute, but there are women everywhere right here. I don't understand the allure to being legally tied to another human whose sole purpose in moving across the world to be with you is money and/or freedom. She's not coming here on a travel visa, you have to spend thousands of dollars and legally tie her to to you. Someone you've never met, who is putting on an act, who has a million motives and none even rhyme with sex or attraction. All of which include bleeding you and this country dry fo…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:12 AM
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If you have to import a girl from a hut an ocean away you might want to hit the weight room.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 06:11 PM
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Some girl you are dating who is throwing a tantrum. It's not like she cut her hand off and you had to rush her to the hospital. Holy shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 06:09 PM
2

Good point. It's shit we all do instinctively. Have to work hard to crush it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 02:05 PM
5

This is the best possible response. Live a happy, awesome life and she'll either come around or won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 01:15 PM
3

Covert contracts are covert contracts. She's still a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 01:00 PM
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Your relationship is over, she just doesn't have anywhere else to live in the interim of the lease so this is the situation. If this happened within two years, then it's exactly what will happen later on. This isn't a girl to marry dude. Follow the other good advice.
/r/askMRP08/07/16 11:22 AM
1

Freshman locker room level drivel. This guy is a role model if you're a wannabe thug piece of shit.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:10 PM
2

He would say I'm crazy and paranoid because my high school boyfriend cheated on me with Sally in Algebra... I mean I really liked him and we were plann... Annnnd that's when I hit the back button.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 09:05 PM
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Roger, I too can read. Just was wondering what his post would say.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 09:03 PM
2

This is one of those instances where I'd love to see his counterpart askMRP post. If he's truly drinking all the time and coming home plastered, recklessly gambling away their money, and punching holes in the wall he's a piece of shit. If he's got a healthy social life, has a few drinks, ignores the bar sluts and comes home to fuck his wife—and slipped one time on wet tile and put his hand through the drywall—he's got his shit together. Lenses and perspectives are funny things. No accusations, j…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 08:56 PM
2

She's getting torched in the comments. It's glorious.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 04:59 PM
2

I want to watch the bro movie with Dave Thundercock and her now ex boyfriend partying it up in Amsterdam.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 04:58 PM
1

Your trolling is so sad.
/r/askMRP22/06/16 04:41 AM
-1

Cool, you probably got her pregnant.
/r/askMRP22/06/16 03:03 AM
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I cracked up at you apologizing for calling her a jerk like a good little boy, her smirking at you, and then you seething like a little bitch. She's your daddy dude, and I'm betting she doesn't even think of it that way. It's just her natural reaction to your child-like butthurt. You're overthinking, over analyzing, and just spewing your feelings all over the place. Guys fuck this part up so much: the goal isn't to be a miserable cunt who gives her orders like she's a retard. You don't need to d…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 01:43 PM
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Psssh I bet your grandpappy doesn't even read Jezebel. What a shitlord.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 01:09 AM
1

Is this for real? She has a different opinion on a political issue and by all accounts, discussed it with you like an adult, so you turn down sex? This is hilarious. You're beyond losing frame, you lit it on fire.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 01:24 PM
1

That's odd that he wouldn't want you to have access to your own numbers. It's your body, this shouldn't be some secret.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:44 PM
2

I mean he basically let her move in after a month. Regardless I think he learned a lot from this chick. Overall a good thing it happened to him.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 01:11 PM
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Sounds like you crushed your inner bitch already today and don't give a fuck. High five.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 11:10 PM
3

Don't forget the pharmaceuticals. So many pharmaceuticals.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 11:10 PM
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Yeah you should definitely get some heroin. That'll really show her. Or you can go for a run. Think about your life. Accept this is happening to you without emotion. Seriously, accept it. You can feel the pain, and I'm sure you are, but try to acknowledge it without all the feels. Look for the bright spots. You don't have kids together, so you're not on the hook for her whore ass for another dozen years. You are young as shit and have how many years left? 30? 40? Maybe even 50? You make good mon…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 09:40 PM
2

Yeah, you're supposed to slowly sip RP, not crush it up and snort it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 07:01 PM
3

You are delusional. Do you know how stressful life can be with kids running around? It's not the gateway to a white picket fence, a smiling and hot wife who licks your balls, and you instantly becoming an alpha. It's not. It's hard, and there's a lot of "I'm too tired". Don't even get me started on your BP covert bullshit with, "she has a lot of guy friends but doesn't fuck any of them!" Probably because she's fat and undesirable, or she is fucking around and you have no idea. It sounds like you…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 06:52 PM
3

Don't ask questions, this greatness is perfect. It's the New New Testament. I can't wait for his next post: Sell drugs to be a baller.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 06:43 PM
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You talk too much about her and her feelings, her actions, her plans, her, her, her. What the fuck do you want? She's unattractive, not dependable, and not suddenly recognizing your baby deer steps towards captaining the ship. It also sounds like you don't like her. So fucking move on. Work on yourself. You don't need anyone else to be happy, and you'll attract the right mates if you are that fun loving, attractive, strong captain of his own life. Don't get tied down to this wildebeest.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 06:36 PM
1

I don't think telling her to get the fuck out so you could rest was a mistake. As long as you weren't an emotional fireball while doing it, you were doing what you wanted and not bending to her child-like behavior. I think you handled this pretty well. AM comes later when you've gotten further down the rabbit hole. My only criticism is that you have some kind of a covert contract going on about you planning all of this = her being someone she isn't. She's who she is at home, maybe with a few les…
/r/askMRP04/06/16 06:27 PM
3

Theeeeeerrrrre it is. This is why you went so hard the other way. Now you get it. You can be in command of your life without doing what your dad did to your mom.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 06:20 PM
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There are definitely women out there who don't behave this intensely. This is some level 100 branch swinging, manipulation, and self obsessive behavior.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 06:18 PM
2

Don't puke it up. Internalize it. Accept it wasn't about you—everything in her life is about her. Also, stop fucking her dude. It's not just financial when she locks you up for 18 years. She's going to give her kids a masterclass in how to be a self-serving piece of shit. Don't put yours through that abuse. There are so many women out there, just go find another.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 06:17 PM
2

Do you think the personality change has more to do with MRP than the TRT? Increased test can definitely change how you act and react, just like any hormone could.
/r/askMRP08/05/16 12:14 PM
1

Different people have different ideas about stuff. Including the moderators here. Good. I don't want to be surrounded by a bunch of stupid sheep. As for the subreddit drama, who cares?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 09:02 PM
1

This, I don't give a shit about the subreddit drama train. Who gives a fuck?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 09:01 PM
9

What an uppity dickbag.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 08:58 PM
3

Who. Cares. What. She. Thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 08:44 PM
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You sound totally bitter, completely wrapped up on her feelings, and not at all concentrating on yourself. You're not coming off as stoic, you're coming off as a bitter beta. You're not leading, you're "pitching in" with shit that's your responsibility to do anyway. I'll be damned if that bitch ever again questions whether or not she's married to the best she can get. Who fucking cares? This isn't something you should be festering about. The goal isn't to be a bitter cunt. She's probably picking…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 06:06 PM
5

Putting on "a good bit" of cologne before bed makes you sound desperate. You're the prize. The prize doesn't have to put on cologne. Sure, shower and brush your teeth to make sure you don't smell bad, but don't get dolled up hoping she'll finally notice how special you are. Get out of your own head. She's turning her head to avoid you, and star fishing, no wonder you don't give a shit about fucking her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 05:40 PM
3

How old are you? How long have you been with her? You know who gives a shit about validating their relationship on social media for others to see? Children. You're getting worked up over a child. You only nuke the FB account if you want to do it, not because she's backed you into a corner like a weakened animal. Are you talking to your ex? "Yeah, we're planning an orgy, wanna come?" "Yeah, how'd you know? Can you see my boner?" "Yes, and she wants to know how you feel about threesomes?" "Yes, sh…
/r/askMRP05/05/16 04:46 PM
1

how do I stop her from asking me these stupid requests? You don't. That's why you're frustrated—because you're in her frame.
/r/askMRP05/05/16 04:30 PM
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Two fucking years and you're worried about if you should get a dog together? Two fucking years? And you're not ready for FMOFY? You have no kids, get the fuck out of this thing dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 04:28 PM
2

Did you turn all of that on in a super short period of time? If you started doing all that shit in a week it would make sense that she goes into panic mode.
/r/askMRP14/04/16 01:16 PM
3

That's how it's done. Sometimes you gotta see the hamster on the wheel and yell, "RUN BOY, RUN!"
/r/askMRP14/04/16 01:15 PM
1

Oh shit I'm excited. Off to Audible now...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 11:06 PM
1

There's no way this is real.
/r/askMRP13/04/16 06:39 PM
2

"Breeding distrust"? You're trying to make yourself better. That's it. You don't have to get out a whiteboard and start creating a RP glossary for her. If she reads Cosmo, do you think it's a mortal sin for her not to submit a written outline to you on what she's reading? Who gives a shit?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 04:12 PM
2

Your wife reads your post history daily, and you think that's a good thing? It's one thing to tell your wife you bullshit with the guys in the locker room. It's another to bring a recorder in and let her hear it for herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 04:09 PM
2

If that's a size 6 I'll eat my hat. Come on.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 11:44 AM
2

You texted her claiming that you're stoic? That's hilarious. Stoic doesn't mean that you do whatever she wants you to do without complaint or emotional involvement. You're not doing RP, so there's nothing to stop. Read the sidebar material if you want an improvement but I doubt you will. In the meantime shut up, stop engaging her bullshit, and stop saying she's "triggered" which denotes that something outside her control set her off. Shes a child, and you're enabling her childish behavior. Actua…
/r/askMRP07/04/16 02:12 PM
1

After reading your update, you're either: Not interested in red pill at all, just want to whine like a little bitch A troll
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 01:57 PM
14

You have to put down a deposit at a club for her fucking birthday? How much are you shelling out for this party? Why are you going through all of this to create a fantasy "let's pretend we're rich" party for this little princess? This is the definition of beta bux.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 11:10 PM
1

Extreme Ownership The Way of Men No More Mr. Nice Guy How To Win Friends and Influence People Waking Up There are other good ones in here, but these are my faves.
/r/askMRP06/04/16 12:13 AM
2

The main issue is that you're tying your self worth into women paying attention to you. You're responsible for you.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 04:09 PM
2

Bingo.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 01:54 AM
1

Everyone should agree. You're not a trained fucking monkey. Are you...?
/r/askMRP05/04/16 01:54 AM
1

Why are you not doing AA yet?
/r/askMRP05/04/16 12:51 AM
2

We don't have enough context about you and your life to know if you're doing this right. That being said: no, I'm heading to the gym, not coming back in Could very easily have been: In best bad Arnold impression I cannot get your wallet, must pump iron NOW I don't think your answer was that bad, but being humorous is what masks this perceived coldness. Part of this journey I think so many newbies get wrong is that you're not supposed to be this cold and miserable dick. New guys nuke their relati…
/r/askMRP05/04/16 12:14 AM
3

It won't even cost that much.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 11:35 PM
3

Go ask a lawyer.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 09:13 PM
15

Fuckbuddy from Tinder wants to stop using condoms and you're pumped? You deserve whatever you get. Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 05:24 PM
1

Cool, then don't be shocked when your girl thinks pajama pants and an oversized t-shirt are perfectly acceptable anytime you're both inside the house.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 03:29 PM
2

Dread levels, lifting, and OI are your new best friends. Your hamster is running at about a million miles an hour and it's all about her and her feelings.
/r/askMRP04/04/16 03:24 PM
3

You honestly believe that? Your wife was intimate with other people after joining a fucking dating site and you're now redrawing your line just beyond what she did on a technicality? Stop being such a fucking pussy. You're not acting stoic, you're acting like a beta who wants his wife to care about his widdle bitty feelings. She didn't stumble into a bad situation at a bar after drinks with the girls. She carefully and systematically cheated on you, then blamed you for it, and you're going along…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 03:18 PM
3

I can't believe no one else has hit on this: why has she invited Chad to come stay at your house with the two of you for a week? Your frame is clearly in no position to handle this well. How's your camera work? I think it might be getting a workout.
/r/askMRP01/04/16 01:17 PM
6

How much did you make last year?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 10:37 PM
5

Didn't you read the post? It says just get a job at Google or become Donald Trump. Follow his directions and you'll get fuck you money.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:53 PM
4

What's the next tip? How to start my own stock exchange? Why FOREX is FOR me?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:48 PM
8

You didn't answer my question. What did you make last year? Your other examples are ridiculous too. It's like telling someone who likes telescopes to become an astronaut. Become an engineer at Google Become a senior partner at a hedge fund Become Donald Trump Start a SAAS business like these extremely unique and niche examples Become Zara and H&M This is an eighth-grade-level term paper.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:43 PM
11

Here's a question for you: What's your net worth? Have you ever made six figures in a year? Then don't give other people advice about how to do that. Because your examples are the 1% of the 1% and your advice is horrible. Start a mining and fracking company? Are you for fucking real?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 04:59 PM
2

All of this, plus you've only been at this for three months. You tried to make a total life change in three months, and because it's not raining $20 bills and hot pussy you're ready to throw in the towel? Just quit.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 04:27 PM
2

Maybe someday they'll invent exercises people with a bad knee can do.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 03:44 PM
5

What's next in this badass world tour? A right turn on red? Rolling a stop sign? A lane change without your blinker?
/r/askMRP31/03/16 12:01 PM
2

Having a strong captain will help with some of that. Most of that sounds like she's depressed though and she needs to figure out what the fuck is going on. Is she working out or exercising? It's the best antidepressant on the market.
/r/askMRP31/03/16 02:31 AM
4

She cries everyday? She's depressed for sure. You need to practice outcome independence. When she stomps back in with her water that you wouldn't get her, you asshole, you shrug, turn on the show, and invite her to come watch. Lead. Don't chase her feelings.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 05:39 PM
6

I'd rather take my fucking chances than live in goddamn Pakistan to avoid divorce rape. What kind of bullshit question is this? If you're googling this, you are not ready to get married anyway. It's a choice and you don't have to participate. The best way not to get divorce raped is to not get married. Period.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 02:37 AM
1

You can get it used in paperback for $3.88. Three fucking eighty eight.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 02:33 AM
-1

Nah that's not true. I read the whole thing thinking she's just venting and what she's really pissed about is having to become the captain because he's unable. Sure he's having s bad time, but it's on him to fix himself.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 12:56 PM
1

That's definitely something.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 10:34 PM
2

This A&A opportunity is too good to pass up, especially in the early days of a LTR. It gently reminds her that you've got other options, so she better stay on top of her shit.
/r/askMRP22/03/16 07:21 PM
2

Prenups don't count for shit, especially if you have kids. I've been married for seven years, so I'm by no means an expert, but some thoughts on it: Marriage isn't for every person (man or woman), period. Not everyone is cut out for a life partnership, which is what marriage essentially is. Man or woman, that's fine. It's not a defect or a flaw. Just not everyone is cut out for it. Doing it successfully means some level of life compromise and an inherent amount of drama that comes with having tw…
/r/askMRP19/03/16 02:08 PM
1

Great. Until then do other stuff. Lift weights, get a kettle bell at your place, keep other parts of your leg strong, swim, whatever it takes.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:33 PM
6

Your main mistake was putting your self worth and identity into your relationship. You have to live for you and only for you. Relationships will come and go throughout your life. The important thing is what you do next. Some guys get soft, fat, and angry. Or you can double down on knee recovery, making yourself a better man, being happier, and doing whatever (and whoever) the fuck you want. The choice is yours.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 12:56 PM
2

How many cuck site subscriptions do you have?
/r/askMRP17/03/16 01:03 AM
-1

I lost it at "who took your innocence?" What a fucking loser. They deserve each other.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 02:10 PM
1

You can but I definitely would lean towards just Melatonin. Melatonin is naturally occurring in the brain, and while you can technically overdose on diphenhydramine, 25-50mg usually does the trick. 400mg is the maximum daily dose of diphenhydramine and I wouldn't approach that. Diphenhydramine is one of those "non-habit forming" drugs that you can definitely become dependent on. They get to claim non-habit forming if taken as directed which usually is only for a few days. I'm sure there's a stud…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 01:51 AM
1

I'd take natural Melatonin or just simple Benadryl pill (it's likely the same active ingredient as Zzzquil) before a chemical syrup.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:05 PM
1

You're either a troll or have no idea what red pill is.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:48 AM
1

Bro you need to read a lot more stuff. You respond with AM because that's how you should really feel.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 09:44 PM
1

If that's what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 09:43 PM
1

I don't give a shit what she thinks. You're pulling back the curtain and you're clingy at your core. That's the problem.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:59 PM
1

Your hamster is on overdrive. This reads like you're her little plaything and you're scared of getting your wittle heart broken. Stop being such a little bitch about things. She's a plate you've been fucking for a few weeks not the mother of your children.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:38 PM
2

Part of doing this for me was finding out what made me happy and doing that. Like from day one. You shouldn't be miserable, you should be looking forward to conquering your day (some of the stuff you mentioned), and then have things you enjoy lined up as well. You eat an elephant one bite at a time, not in one single bite. It's a lifelong journey and you have to enjoy the ride because the destination is ever moving and changing.
/r/askMRP14/03/16 08:20 PM
3

This is how I feel as well. Also can't be bothered to have debates with people who will never impact my life. Who cares?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 07:01 PM
3

Smelled troll even before that part.
/r/askMRP14/03/16 01:28 AM
38

By 31 no less. Christ she's a fucking monster.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 02:55 AM
3

I can literally hear your hamster running on the wheel from here.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 06:20 PM
1

I think there's another category of hard working business owning risk takers who succeed. If your skill set and/or personal image is worth enough, you can work hard and make a lot of cash.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 04:36 AM
9

Because she's a good girl! Or wait, he's a dumbass and is just asking to get caught up in cutting this cheating hoe checks for the next 18 years.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 02:25 PM
-9

Basement? Who let them out of the kitchen? Edit: Take a joke you fucking babies.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:08 PM
1

As someone who sits most of the day but fights to stay active this is great. My hip flexors are short anyway so this is really helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 05:22 PM
-3

Guys I'm crying this is so beautiful. Edit: Christ I'm kidding. It's a great story.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 02:37 PM
3

Oh fuck right off. I like women who take care of themselves. That way they can take care of my dick.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 01:00 AM
5

She shouldn't shave her armpits or legs either. Deodorant and showering only washes off her beautiful woman scent.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:51 PM
2

I think I should have added more context: I'm not shitting on Obama, just using the current president for a frame of reference. Presidents have a shitload of power to do whatever they want without checks and balances.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 01:43 PM
2

So where are you going to go?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:49 PM
9

Look at the number of executive orders Obama used to circumvent the pesky congressional arm of the government. The president has an immense amount of power to impose their will.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:49 PM
0

220 is your deadlift because... you need to buy more plates? If you can do five consecutive air squats without moaning and groaning then you can DL way more than that at 200lbs.
/r/askMRP18/02/16 11:37 AM
6

Join a sports league, start jiu jitsu, show up to pickup basketball at the gym everyday, etc. Sports are a great way to make guy friends. They won't be your BFF the first or even tenth time you meet. But eventually if you're chill and outgoing you'll find yourself surrounded by friends. CrossFit is super culty and hard, but you get the bonuses of lifting heavy shit and women in shorts that look like they belong in the underwater aisle. If you're desperate try CF.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 11:34 AM
1

I was kidding. Please don't record a how to.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 02:18 AM
1

Could you record me a how-to?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/16 11:15 PM
2

Sounds like a really good use of your precious time. Listening to some harpy you used to fuck talk about her dead husband. You'd be better off spending an evening trimming your sack.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 05:40 PM
2

Peyton easily pulls $20-30m in endorsements.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 01:15 PM
0

He's made the decision that it's over. I'm not sure it gets more in charge than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 01:08 PM
3

You're underselling it. You listen to these two guys for five seconds and they just ooze alpha. It's a great listen.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/16 04:22 AM
1

It's called TRP on hard mode for a reason. There are some quality men over there.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 02:20 AM
1

I don't know what this post even means. Does anyone have value? I don't expect anything from anyone in my life. And I'm never disappointed. I don't spend time contemplating if an entire gender provides "value" to me. Become too busy with your pursuits and enjoying your life with the people you love and this kind of petty shit doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 03:46 AM
8

We need to form a society. Too old to miss the collapse of marriage. Too young to enjoy the more blissful blue days. The Order of the Lost Husbands or something. MRP exists for this. Just without the chainmail and broadswords.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:35 AM
2

Your descriptions are perfect. I've been on Reddit for 5+ years and had no idea there was a friend feature. Will definitely check it out. Thanks dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 01:41 PM
2

That's pretty much what I was insinuating.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 12:56 AM
2

I see 400+ dudes lifting at the gym. You're not too big/fat/out of shape to lift. Do the bar. Then next time do a little more.
/r/askMRP30/01/16 06:35 PM
3

Now hang on, I could watch that on mute.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 02:16 AM
1

You... watch the View?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 01:04 AM
3

Sure, if you have a large enough portfolio, metals can make sense as an anchor. If you're not in the six figure range with your investments, don't even consider it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:54 PM
20

You can usually tell someone is full of shit or has an agenda when they start talking about precious metals. It's the RP equivalent of a plate telling you she's a feminist.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:58 PM
1

Work a solo session in somewhere? I just know that frequency dictates longevity for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 09:32 PM
0

Why do you care that she isn't home while you're not home at an activity? It's not a tit-for-tat or "I'll show her" thing.
/r/askMRP26/01/16 10:22 PM
1

I love this as an alternative. Lift so hard you have trouble finishing during sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 09:40 PM
3

Taking this one step further: I think you can still lead your wife from afar. Telling her privately and with compassion some of the things you've shared here might push her to make some changes so your kids have a better life while they're with her. She's not on the pedestal anymore, she can't hurt you. You only want what's best for your whole family. Chances are she's not an ice queen who actively wants to fuck up your kids. Be both tactful and tactical in your delivering this, and she'll see y…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 09:37 PM
1

Part of this is that she wants you to be her party planner. Don't be her party planner. Pick something that has a schedule that you have to adhere to. That's one great thing about martial arts.
/r/askMRP26/01/16 09:33 PM
1

You're alternating between anger and sadness because your self worth is still dependent upon someone else's acceptance of you. Build your life where you have things to look forward to, responsibilities to do, and goals to achieve that don't require anyone else's approval. Do them. Without approval.
/r/askMRP26/01/16 09:31 PM
1

I own both a safety razor and the Braun and prefer the Braun. Don't get me wrong, sometimes I bust out the razor and give myself a nice hot shave. Especially when the jawline gets messy (the Braun isn't a surgical tool). But sometimes I can end up with bumps from the safety razor. Usually helps to take a hot shower before doing it.
/r/askMRP26/01/16 09:29 PM
1

So trim your beard to keep the stubble and shave your neck and cheeks daily to keep a good jawline and things tidy. If you have sensitive skin (I do) try a good electric. I dropped $200 on a nice Braun a few years back and now spend about 30 seconds shaving my neck and cheeks every day and have zero irritation.
/r/askMRP26/01/16 03:27 PM
5

I wished my parents had divorced. I asked them to from a young age. They hated each other and it fucked me up for years until I took charge of my life. My siblings never got over the "trauma" they inflicted by staying together for us. I learned about healthy relationships from books and TV, which is what probably made me so blue for so long. Being the positive role model and still leading her from a distance is possible and probably the best outcome. Reconciling with this woman who will never re…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 03:23 PM
10

20-30 ain't a problem in my book. Up the frequency? That usually does it for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 05:13 AM
9

Who cares? Don't give this bitch two seconds of your time or another view on YouTube.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:24 PM
6

This is terrible advice. Don't needlessly escalate a situation from 5 to 500 MPH.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 03:50 AM
0

No need for five paragraphs of feelings vomit. It's not even that important. I just didn't know if someone else had an option.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 03:43 AM
1

Just wanted to check on something. Hadn't used it in a while and was curious. Not addicted to checking in or anything. I'll just check her phone.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 03:38 AM
0

It's not a wrong post. /u/bluepillprofessor clued me into using Dr. Fone to monitor text messages on the wife's device. That software doesn't work anymore. Wondering if anyone has an alternative.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 03:20 AM
1

or "Awee babygirl is tired, I promise I'll let her sleep in a little " Don't bargain for sex. That's definitely an example of being in her frame.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 11:26 PM
1

Just a FYI: Dr Fone doesn't work anymore with iOS 9 and iCloud. You have to actually plug the phone into the computer and let it download the huge backup file. Haven't found a better option yet.
/r/askMRP19/01/16 10:18 PM
3

I just want to share this with you in hopes that it helps you: In high school we had a girl in our social circle who would commonly exaggerate to make herself look/feel better. One time she told us her dad threw her down the stairs and everyone responded with an eye roll. We knew she was just being a dumb teenage girl. A few years after nothing had ever happened and she fell into line. Fifteen years later she's married and kids and has a great relationship with her folks. Acknowledge that it hap…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 06:52 PM
3

I can only assume she's eating it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 03:18 AM
3

Did she really send you 445 texts in three hours? And all that was wrong was a dirty dog pillow?
/r/askMRP18/01/16 02:06 AM
2

Maybe I'm just tired this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 02:54 AM
1

Carby? Have another skinny girl margarita.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 11:52 PM
3

I get it, I've been there. That's why I'm telling you about the magical world of the basement. "Hey babe, I've got something to show you in the basement" right after the kids' bedtime is a commonplace in our house.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 07:52 PM
2

Did everything both subs preach and i have completely embraced the lifestyle and I've reaped the rewards of it. I have no problem there and the 12 levels of dread do not apply here. Okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:45 PM
3

Then she's not a woman, she's a child. Make her grow up or next her. You're not her dad.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 07:44 PM
1

Sure it's a total bitch move, and you said the wrong stuff... But six times in four years? I can't even blame you for blowing too soon. I think you can regain your losses by jumping right back on the horse and joking about it. Also, nothing is worse for a sex life than kids in the bed with you. You shouldn't fuck your wife with the kid in the bed. That's probably part of the reason why you're not having any sex. Do you have couches in your basement or something? Create another environment where …
/r/askMRP15/01/16 07:41 PM
1

I don't know if that's actually true, but I do know not all fish oil has DHA. Do your own research and figure it out though.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 07:38 PM
1

You're right and I knew that. Just meant that I intentionally blew up at her. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 07:30 PM
1

Want to hear the shit test of all shit tests? I got home from jiu jitsu and she's taking an IQ test from Barnes and Noble. And there's one for me too. I feel a field report coming on...
/r/askMRP15/01/16 02:30 AM
1

That's why the question mark is there. I'm inferring that from context. What I said stands true if he's 15 or 18 too.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:26 AM
6

Why are you with her?
/r/askMRP14/01/16 11:20 PM
44

You're 16? Focus on school, learning, lifting, sports, friends, etc. Talk to girls. Make mistakes. Don't get anybody pregnant. If your plan is to go off to college, there is so much pussy to be had, you're going to be fine. You'll look back on this shit in a few years and laugh at this moment.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:37 PM
87

Yes it is. You're being weak as shit. All women are like this.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:33 PM
1

My frame is pretty strong. Wanting me more would be nice, but I want her to respect me more than want me. She already wants me, just not with the same frequency, and only when timing aligns correctly. I really don't care how she reacts to any of it. I hold the cards, and I'm the catch. My real takeaway is that two months at this dread level and it's time to move up. Am I butt hurt? Certainly on some level deep down I feel like sighing because it's the same old fight with her. I don't demand subm…
/r/askMRP14/01/16 09:43 PM
2

Got a hard no four times in five days, and she got shitty with me this last time. I dropped "I have needs and I'm giving you first crack at them" and didn't take her shit when she hamstered and tried to rewrite history. I stayed on the facts, didn't get emotional, and didn't vomit any feelings. She ended it with, "You'll get your wish, I'll never say no again master." I just STFU and went to work.
/r/askMRP14/01/16 09:33 PM
6

We're not made for these sedentary lives where we sit in a car for thirty minutes, walk fifty feet, sit at a desk for eight hours, and walk back to our car. Food has never been more accessible. We no longer have to harvest land or hunt game. We can get food delivered with one phone call or thirty seconds of finger swipes in an app. Lifting has so many benefits, but you've hit a big one that doesn't get mentioned enough. Teach your body to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 02:18 PM
2

You don't have to stop fucking your wife to get a better perspective on your marriage. You've created a three-month crutch so you don't have to get your feelings hurt. Leading your wife doesn't involve shitting on her and laughing at her. It's about leading. I don't think you know what you're doing. So you're being a dick and not fucking her. This is How To Implode Your Marriage 101.
/r/askMRP12/01/16 07:34 PM
2

Yeah, check out MRP. You basically went for the nuclear option on a comfort test. Not a good look unless you're prepared to end the LTR.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:21 PM
11

You have one of those chairs don't you?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 12:21 PM
11

Just as a sidebar to the group: the double standard of society is staggering to me. I saw a mom buy a Cosmo at the supermarket yesterday for her ~16 year old daughter. The cover is all about sexual strategy and improving your physical appearance. Meanwhile OP's fiancé finds a few subreddits and wants to call off the wedding.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 12:16 PM
4

And until you can cut it out the glaring mistakes, quit throwing your new ideas around like you know what you're doing. Take it slower or you're going to grenade your marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 02:35 AM
2

Started BJJ last year. Love it.
/r/askMRP08/01/16 07:39 PM
2

No, I'm just not such a pussy that if I found out a woman lied to me about her past it wouldn't put me in the hospital. AWALT. He's a fucking pussy.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:34 PM
3

Stopped working in house and went out on my own. Hustled my ass off selling and building a client base. Now I have a couple employees and still hustling. Terrifying but totally rewarding.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 03:18 AM
1

I told him this too. I have a high school diploma and make well into six figures. Hopefully he sees that. Can you imagine taking on MBA-level debt without the appreciable skills to back it up? Yuck.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:46 PM
2

Or she's meeting Chad there an hour after she says whatever she has to say to you. Don't mistake convenance for intention. Just a counterpoint.
/r/askMRP07/01/16 10:39 PM
7

If you are OK with the Chad's having had a go (and you'll never know), and you want her back, then make sure you allow her to come round to being the one chasing you, if that's what she wants. And don't ask her if this happened. Ever. Knowing won't help you out in any way, and it puts you deep in the beta hole. For example, at the end of the date, just leave it at that. "makeup" sex will cloud your judgment. And don't be the one to suggest "we should do this again". Right now, she is a potential…
/r/askMRP07/01/16 09:44 PM
11

You are being such a little bitch about all of this. Good god. It's your life, you only get to do this shit once and then you die. Don't spend it with this self-obsessed harpy who doesn't give a shit about you. You're going to look back on feeling awkward and embarrassed about the wedding with so much regret.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:59 PM
6

This should really be in askMRP. We are buying real estate, getting married and have our honeymoon to Europe booked, so finances are stretched pretty thin. Why are you buying property and going to Europe if your finances are stretched thin? Why are you buying property with a woman who isn't your wife? We got to talking and she was saying she needs me to make more money I said to her she put's me down to much and I think it is hurting me psychologically, I have lost so much confidence. Sweet, now…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:54 PM
6

Real power doesn't need to advertise. Period. Yelling from the rooftops about how powerful you are is hilarious and a symptom of insecurity and powerlessness. Imagine the famous Putin smirk. That's how power looks.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:37 PM
-2

He found out his wife wasn't a virgin when they got married and was so crushed he ended up in the hospital? Either her husband is the World's Biggest Pussy™ or she's full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:34 PM
25

Left work early (slow day) and picked up a part at Home Depot This is 100% oak porn.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 03:22 AM
-2

Let this be Exhibit A in why you don't ever let your wife know about anything red pill related. Period. Ever. My response is that you need to accept your marriage is over and you need to listen to your lawyer and focus on improving yourself—and focus on those kids.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 09:06 PM
2

It's like any other practice subreddit. I see the same thing in r/BJJ. You can watch YouTube videos and read about techniques, lineage, and the history all you want. But nothing beats mat time. The guy referenced in the OP who is an RP white belt lost one big fight then questions if the whole practice is wrong? No dipshit, you're a white belt.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 05:36 PM
9

I'm not sure honestly. Top of his game for almost 30 years (early ER days), multi-multi-multi millionaire, top 5 SMV for 20+ years...
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:33 PM
7

You can't rush this shit. I felt similarly about parts of NMMNG, but the rest of it really rung true. If you're too "busy" to endure a few chapters of a book that aren't 100% revenant to you, you're doing things wrong.
/r/RedPillBooks06/01/16 05:23 PM
7

You know how I know you're gay?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:18 PM
14

She will be the Sarah Jessica Parker of this younger generation of women. They think she's beautiful and perfect.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:18 PM
24

His SMV is so high, he's still the catch in that relationship.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:16 PM
6

In it she says it's not about the bike ride, it's about me doing what I want to do without compromising with her, repeatedly. She says she will leave if it is what I want, or take a break, but this relationship can't go on indefinitely with me repeating this scenario. Like drunken captain, I think we need another nickname for this syndrome. She wants you to be her party planner who suggests endless activities until one suits her current mood. I'll bet she does this with dinner plans too. She doe…
/r/askMRP06/01/16 05:03 PM
4

Yeah you fucked up plenty, but she's not leaving because "she can't make you happy." That's bullshit. It took two of you to blow this marriage up. Reading through her posts, you're better off man. Work on you, hit the gym, get a lawyer.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 12:40 PM
1

This is it.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 02:14 AM
0

OP is not in a position to suggest his wife exercises her pussy. At this stage in the game, I'd go for positions.
/r/askMRP05/01/16 10:57 PM
9

You succeeded in turning her way on, but failed yourself. First of all, you had a huge success. She was dying for it, and it sounds like you played this game skillfully all the way through. You do what you did here with somewhat regular frequency and it will solve your "tame" issue and her lack of communications when you're making her eyes roll into the back of her head. Second of all, your lack of enjoyment because she's too excited is probably because you're overthinking the fuck out of everyt…
/r/askMRP05/01/16 08:24 PM
2

I think text game definitely exists in a LTR. You can certainly mess things up by texting, so by the inverse, there must be a strategy or way to succeed as well. It's usually by shutting the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:03 PM
1

Yeah you fucked up, but this line jumped out at me: I don’t even know what it feels like to miss you. Back to square one, dread level one, and re-up your reading dude. You need a hobby outside the home. I recommend a martial art like BJJ or kickboxing since you're lacking an outlet.
/r/askMRP05/01/16 08:00 PM
2

Option 1: He said it jokingly to her after witnessing said spanking, she relayed it as serious to fuck with you for spanking her. -- Every possibility ever -- Option 19274: He thinks you're actually beating her. It could be anything. Just keep your cool, be the oak, and do it in person. You should AM his response no matter what it is.
/r/askMRP05/01/16 07:55 PM
1

Context is really important in this. Is he a blood relative of hers? If he's a relative by marriage it's reasonable to view this as him trying to play the beta protector. In this case, I'd AM it all day. If he's a blood relative, it's pretty safe to assume this isn't a sexual advancement play. I'd probably reach out and talk to him about it, keeping your stoicism top of mind. That's just me. I wouldn't want family to gossip about me possibly hitting my wife and would squash that shit real quick.…
/r/askMRP05/01/16 07:47 PM
1

I heard him on JRE too. His new podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/jocko-podcast/id1070322219?mt=2
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 08:19 PM
1

I'm game. Thanks for mentioning the podcast, didn't know it existed.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 08:12 PM
1

Make sure you're all good with your lawyer to stick your dick elsewhere. Not that it will stop you, but it will prescribe how discreet you really need to be. Outside of that I suspect you know what to do with your boy. Good luck man.
/r/RedPillParenting02/01/16 11:59 PM
12

You don't need to get his permission to fuck anyone. Your job is to lead. Your job as a dad is to set an example for your boy. Step one was getting away (from the information you provided in your other reply) from that crazy harpy. A real man doesn't tolerate that craziness and doesn't subject his children to it either. Good work. Now you can establish and show him what a healthy male social life looks like. Go out. Have fun. Be responsible and set a good example of a man. Have friends over to y…
/r/RedPillParenting01/01/16 04:23 PM
2

Sounds like your bar buddy is a total mess.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:50 PM
1

If you're inwardly desperate, you're desperate. Putting on a thinly-veiled RP mask isn't going to fool her. There isn't a trick to this, or something you have to fake to make real. You have to actually stop giving a shit.
/r/askMRP30/12/15 07:48 PM
4

I'm sure it's not what you want to hear, but this exchange doesn't mean anything. It's not an indicator of your value in any way. What this post actually means is that you're desperate for her to see you in a better, more vibrant light. By trying so hard to make that happen so quickly, you're going to fail. Read up and keep working on YOU and focus on outcome independence.
/r/askMRP30/12/15 07:40 PM
32

You bought a VIP ticket to a Taylor Swift concert, went alone, and hung out with some cunty mom with a fake service dog and her child. I wish you had just lied at the end and told us you fucked the mom in the VIP bathroom or something.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:02 PM
3

Sure, anything is possible. Who knows. But he's already ripped and lean in the first pic, and he's a lot bigger and leaner in the second one. Could definitely be lighting and a pump like /u/SBDadvanced says, but TRT looks just like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 06:43 PM
2

A version of this belongs attached to the MRP introduction reading. This sums up so many things.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 05:07 PM
1

I went to montessori and learned how to read pretty young. I don't have a ton of experience with specialized schools with my own kids. I'd say just check out daycares carefully. Remember these people will be helping you raise your child. If they seem like trashy pieces of shit, find somewhere else. We have found that our kids' friends who go to in-home daycares (versus our kids who go to curriculum-based daycare) lag behind greatly in things like social skills, reading, etc. It's actually quite …
/r/RedPillParenting30/12/15 04:59 PM
9

This reeks of testosterone.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 03:07 PM
16

Alternate lesson: don't be star struck by cum dumpsters.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 03:05 PM
0

This is my takeaway too. I've debated starting to research test as a supplement and reading this post and all the comments told me that it's too much work for me to do safely. Thanks for that OP.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 03:00 PM
3

You're so lucky that this problem has a simple solution. Next her right now, and read the sidebar materials.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 03:33 AM
4

Maybe because this juvenile post is worthless otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 05:42 AM
2

Text a friend about it. That is a scary situation and you want to get your ducks in the best row you can.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 04:45 AM
1

You got some good answers here: On pregnants http://reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3ycpf2/on_pregnants/ But I have to tell you, it's pregnancy.
/r/askMRP27/12/15 04:11 AM
2

This is one of your biggest mistakes. You thought any of that mattered to her. The slate is clearly daily or weekly and you start at zero. You're not leading her by any stretch. Learn something from all of this and move on. You're the only one you can count on.
/r/askMRP26/12/15 06:53 PM
8

This is all solid but remember that debt is crippling too. Having 3 months expenses in the bank is great, but if you have $200k in debt, you're still a wage slave. I'm working hard to get zero debt and a year's expenses in a savings account. From there I can be totally fucking free.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 11:40 PM
1

Yeah she's destroying you here. Don't text back passive aggressively telling her to call you. Ignore her more.
/r/askMRP23/12/15 11:31 PM
5

Honestly this reads to me like more of a religious/Muslim issue than an RP issue. From an RP POV you should have fucked the girl cuddling with you in her underwear while on vacation. That's the frame change you missed out on.
/r/askMRP22/12/15 02:50 PM
1

What's the question?
/r/askMRP22/12/15 02:30 PM
1

Reading through your post history... It really looks like this thing is crashing and burning man. She's a mess and you are still engaging the mess.
/r/askMRP21/12/15 02:14 PM
5

Are you serious with this? She's abusive and manipulative, then you have to apologize to her? You're like a battered wife. Document this shit and talk to a lawyer.
/r/askMRP17/12/15 10:10 PM
9

Your hamster is going so fast it's smoking. Your relationship can't be great if you're living with your girlfriend's parents. You can't be the alpha if you're living in his house. It has nothing to do with how much money you're making. Why not try living in your own place with just your lady for a while before dropping half a million bucks. I'm an entrepreneur business owner too. I bought my wife a $500k+ house, make over $250k, and she didn't give a flying fuck. She joked before we built the ho…
/r/askMRP17/12/15 08:45 PM
3

Do you have a smaller dick or is she literally like a Coke can up there? Honestly, I don't see a way approaching her with this works out in a way that is advantageous. I'd concentrate on positions that help promote friction and enjoy your great sex life.
/r/askMRP16/12/15 08:29 PM
5

I think there can be another side to this coin. His beta bitch flailing around like a fish out of water only intensifies OP's calm oak-like alpha persona.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:19 PM
2

So why write a public article glorifying what you did like you're some sort of hero?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:09 PM
2

You talked with a girl you dated on and off for a year about why you broke up for an hour and a half? That sounds like fucking torture. Why do it at all?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:15 PM
12

I know I'm probably pretty red pill lite. I don't dread her that hard because I don't have to. But just the consistency of you guys telling me to own my shit and work on it has seriously worked a miracle in my life. No reason to fix what ain't broken. Good for you, and good job calming down her friend. Kids getting sick or having allergic reactions is scary, it's a good thing you were there for her in that moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 05:21 AM
-5

Great, then go do something else until she stops acting like that. Don't reward her by engaging in her emotional tug of war.
/r/askMRP11/12/15 05:18 AM
16

Yeah, you did the relationship wrong. You're not supposed to give up everything that makes you you and get all fluffy.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 05:54 PM
2

You're in charge of where you stick your dick. This dumb bitch did you a favor. Next time it could easily be herpes or 18 years of child support. All you have to do is take some penicillin. Next time you might not be so lucky.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 05:44 PM
20

I don't know what's worse for her to believe: that you fucked other women on Tinder, or that you are so beta you simply needed the validation of random women online talking to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 05:05 PM
1

I've said it a bunch of times by now, but audio recording the whole encounter would have probably saved you from any issues.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 03:45 PM
4

Most people suck, period. Worry about you.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:39 PM
4

Grandpa coming through with some wisdom. You should go camping with that old fuck and take a notebook. Report back.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:35 PM
3

April? Most of them don't make it out of January.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 06:16 PM
2

I get all that, I'm just saying this one sliver of the whole situation isn't believable: lease = rape accusation denied
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 06:13 PM
3

He did, but I really fail to see how that helps you. "He raped me." "But you signed a lease with him!" ... Pussy pass denied?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 03:09 PM
2

I did not think this was going to be about kettlebells from the title. Was pleasantly surprised.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 02:39 PM
3

This is fantastic advice, but a few thoughts and clarifications to add: Leave the kiddo with the grandparents. This was unwritten, but important if you want to set a scene to show her your new frame. It will help her relax as well. While this is a great play-by-play, you're not ready to pull this off. Not an insult, you just don't have these tools in your toolbox yet. You need to read MMSLP, NMMNG, and lots of sidebar materials. Read more, study up, ask questions, take notes, and get ready for t…
/r/askMRP08/12/15 01:45 PM
3

Accepting that you've created a child, and not pushing her to an abortion isn't anti-RP, if that's what you want. It doesn't mean his decisions post sticking his dick in crazy aren't cool, calculated, and forward thinking. The lease thing is crazy. I would never do that. I'd argue though that he does act pretty stoically when you consider its the highest stakes possible. This isn't a shit test over forgetting the white wine. This is 18 years and a life on the line.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 02:24 AM
1

That would be enough for me to start believing in god.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 01:50 AM
3

Why are you against calling the police at all costs? If you were spontaneously physically abusive to her, you'd be in jail tonight. Why the double standard?
/r/askMRP08/12/15 01:39 AM
1

At this point it would be weird to overtly apologize. It happened days ago.
/r/askMRP06/12/15 05:40 PM
1

Why would he apologize to Susan?
/r/askMRP06/12/15 01:45 PM
6

Holy. Shit.
/r/askMRP06/12/15 12:41 AM
4

My buddies tried to save me from a LTR about ten years ago. It wasn't until she fucked it all up that I saw how right they were. It made me respect them all the more afterwards, but in the moment I couldn't hear them at all.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 07:36 PM
1

It's an excuse if you're a beta chump who can only think with his dick.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 07:35 PM
2

Reading the OP and then this reply, it reeks of going through the motions, but not actually believing in it. Between the title, the "I made a mistake, I'll remember next time," and "I'm not trying to hurt her" this feels beta as fuck. If my wife did all of that about the wine I'd laugh. So much hamster.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 07:19 PM
4

Building muscle isn't slow for you. You're not some biological enigma. Eat right, hit macros, lift big shit, repeat.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 07:14 PM
3

I had your first paragraph written almost verbatim. OP is clearly her first mate, even in his own mind.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 07:10 PM
24

Hint: She's not crying because you bought red wine.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 04:07 AM
10

Audio recording seems like a good gray area. If it's your place, get a Nest camera with the recording subscription and have it pointed out the window or something as a "security" camera. No sex recorded, but all of the audio. Seems like a good way to not catch some bullshit wiretapping/whatever charge.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:55 PM
33

She's a real cunt. Too bad he'll just turn around and make a larger beta effort to impress her.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:52 PM
4

"False I also like food" made me crack up. Totally using that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 02:47 PM
3

That last one is disturbing. Shit, they're all disturbing.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 03:07 PM
1

I started Brazilian Jiu Jitsu a while ago and freaking love it. If you're in good shape already it's a nice supplement to your existing routine. Lots of discipline and energy exertion. It's eerily calming. Shit tests are laughable after you just spend 90 minutes practicing choking and being choked by your new buddies. I recommend it.
/r/askMRP02/12/15 01:37 AM
2

Fuck her. What about you? Where are you on the dread stages? Are you in shape? Activities? Friends?
/r/askMRP01/12/15 07:44 PM
1

One thing I'd add to the great feedback here: do not have kids with this woman until you're quite sure this was just a slip up, and not who she's going to become. Having kids is stressful and takes up a lot of your life. If she's prone to get depressed, anxious, and full of carbs, she's going to get even worse once kids enter the picture. Then you're fucked.
/r/askMRP01/12/15 07:41 PM
1

I think divorce is inevitable, at least I'll probably file unless her behavior does an immediate 180 but it's doubtful. Cool, so are you just venting? She's clearly setting up a branch swing, or at minimum an orbiter. If you're on your way out then who fucking cares?
/r/askMRP01/12/15 07:31 PM
1

How long did you take to get from 0 to 8?
/r/askMRP01/12/15 07:27 PM
5

5'2" 180 is fucking fat. Not curvy. Fat.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 04:11 PM
9

Weekly vital sign checkups by the family doctor? The fuck are you smoking? She's depressed for reasons we don't know, but probably related to this psychopath she's married to.
/r/askMRP24/11/15 12:00 AM
7

I just keep hoping he's a troll and not actually reacting like this.
/r/askMRP23/11/15 11:59 PM
1

Of course I know she's fucking other guys. This dude closed after ten minutes at a dog park.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:50 PM
1

You're young. With age you'll realize this fight isn't worth having and just move on to bettering yourself. Making this argument doesn't help you in any way.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:29 PM
0

There's a rule about thinking independently, but not broadcasting your RP views, because it leads to being labeled and possibly ostracized. You're going to get up there and talk for a whole period about men's rights? Sounds like a great way to get labeled a guy who hates women and crush your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:28 PM
2

This is a pretty obvious trap. Personally I'd just respectfully decline and move on.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:15 PM
2

How would you be fucking up your manhood?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 03:13 PM
4

Yeah the body wash is for guests, all the dudes she's fucking on the regular. That's why it's a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:06 PM
6

She no-showed the divorce hearing? Does that work like a default judgement where you get your terms period?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 02:51 PM
5

That's the part that makes this whole argument confusing. Is it really simply a box to check? Or does it illustrate having your life in order and a handle on your provider abilities? I will say this: I make a lot of money. It seemingly has zero impact on tingles. But if that money simply ran out, it would cause the tingles to scatter.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 12:16 AM
4

Did you follow the advice you were given here? Have you done any sidebar reading?
/r/askMRP19/11/15 10:51 PM
1

You need to read No More Mr. Nice Guy like yesterday.
/r/askMRP19/11/15 10:49 PM
3

Laughed my ass off at the science part of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 09:41 PM
2

You're going to burn it down right now because you love your daughters and she's going to ruin their lives dude.
/r/askMRP19/11/15 07:46 PM
3

No berating here except that you should not have married this woman, and you certainly shouldn't have had children with her. I'm sure you're a well-meaning guy, but you tried to save this woman (who has clearly been through something horrible). You married her two years after her ex killed her son? God damn. Hindsight is 20/20 and all, but you have to see this for what it is now. She's unstable, she's unfit, and she's going to contribute to you both raising girls who treat this behavior as norma…
/r/askMRP19/11/15 07:43 PM
2

Sounds like a perfect opportunity to grab her ass and say, "My bad, didn't mean to get you all turned on."
/r/askMRP19/11/15 03:32 PM
1

Had a super similar moment in the 90's. Kissed the neighbor girl on the lips, didn't sleep that night. I was probably... 7?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:28 AM
3

The secret handshake around here isn't that somebody sucks your dick. Stop trying to fight everyone in every thread you're involved in. Good lord man.
/r/askMRP19/11/15 12:51 AM
3

The first response to the question you asked here six days ago still applies to this. It's all related.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:21 PM
1

What about the ongoing contact though? Is he better off laying down a direct order to stop all contact, or is that counter productive and it's just better to work on his SMV and dread game?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 03:23 PM
7

I agree with the larger point you're making, but don't agree that the people she's with are more important. If she valued OP more, she would have excused herself to chat with him for a few minutes. If your phone rang and it was the President of the United States, you wouldn't put it on speaker and ignore them. You'd run out of the room apologizing for the background noise and give him 100% of your attention. OP was not a priority for her in that moment.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 03:16 PM
1

Urgent advice needed urgently! From your post 24 hours ago, /u/MRPGuy says: Advice for you is: lift, read the MRP sidebar, implement that reading. Problem solved. This isn't progress, and you don't need to read into her fucking you. You need to read the sidebar material and learn a lot. When is the last time you lifted?
/r/askMRP17/11/15 10:52 PM
0

I don't need to give her the benefit of the doubt. She's outlined why they couldn't hang out before. What changed? AWATS. You do whatever you want, but since you're in MRP and not RP, I'd just add this is a huge problem and red flag. I don't care about the blowjobs—maybe she's a nympho—but she's going to fuck this dude.
/r/askMRP17/11/15 07:50 PM
0

I meant without you. Her reason for not hanging out with him was that is attracted to him (unwritten: wants to keep fucking him), and now she's initiating contact/hanging. She wants to fuck him.
/r/askMRP17/11/15 07:25 PM
0

"I'm attracted to you too so that's why I'm saying its best we don't hang. I feel like is not fair to this relationship. Just trying to be on the up and up. I don't like secrets and I would want to keep any from him. Or you." So now they're hanging out, alone. Sounds like she's about to fuck this dude.
/r/askMRP17/11/15 07:12 PM
18

She didnt cheat because you arent worth it, she cheated because she is the only person in her world and the show must go on. Boom.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:32 PM
2

You're telling your kids their mom is stupid so don't listen to her. This isn't AM, this is being a dick. I wouldn't do this.
/r/askMRP17/11/15 02:22 AM
4

I had horrible parents who fought like crazed banshees, and my kids are your age. I think I can lend some good insight here. I've done this recently: She's yelling at him, freaking out, and he's yelling back? She's meeting him on his level. I'd calmly enter the room with my hands up going, "woah, woah, woah!" (Hands up is non threatening) Then I'd ask if I can talk to her in the other room real quick. (You're directing her and removing her, albeit nicely) "Hey, what's going on? When you yell at …
/r/askMRP17/11/15 02:20 AM
4

I think you're just not getting it bro. There are fifty other things wrong here.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 11:16 PM
2

Lots of lifting experience here. irateMD is right here. Everyone is different, everyone is a different size, everyone plateaus differently. Listen to your body, lift heavy, lift with proper form to avoid injury, and listen to your body again. Switch from 5x5 when you're ready.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 07:58 PM
2

That's exactly what I read into this. You take over a ship not by asking or seeking approval, but by assuming the role as captain. You can't pull this off if you think the way to the captain's chair is by promotion.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 06:53 PM
2

Have you read The Way of Men? Touches on a ton of this stuff. Really good read.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 04:48 PM
5

This whole thing reads like she has zero dread.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 04:43 PM
9

You got in a fight last week and plowed through The Rational Male. Slow down. You need to find /u/BluePillProfessor’s post on the stages of dread and understand what you’re doing if you’re trying to save this sinking ship. Which is totally sinking, by the way, from your drunken captaining. Being in the top 50% of SMV basically means you aren’t homeless or obese. That’s not a fucking accomplishment. 55% is still a failing grade. She’s a HB 5.5 and you’re “top 50%”? Good, you deserve each other. Y…
/r/askMRP16/11/15 04:39 PM
2

How long have you been RP? How long have you been lifting? Where are you at in the stages of dread?
/r/askMRP16/11/15 03:59 PM
2

I couldn't get through the first podcast because the guy sounded like an aimless pussy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 02:54 PM
3

Offering 10% and settling on 30% sounds like a standard negotiation. Other guy probably wanted 50%. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 02:46 PM
1

Are you serious? Get the fuck out of this relationship, preferably by fucking other women. Good lord.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 12:48 PM
1

I can't believe this shit is shaping up to be Trump/Carson vs Hillary. No matter who wins we lose. This makes Romney vs Obama look like pizza vs cheeseburgers.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 12:47 PM
2

Agree on all counts. I'll never share any of it.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 12:39 PM
1

I wouldn't budge on giving or showing her any materials. IMO amusement is he best response.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 12:31 PM
6

oh headshot!
/r/askMRP13/11/15 09:56 PM
1

Weight is made in the kitchen, muscles are made in the gym.
/r/askMRP13/11/15 09:52 PM
1

Why are you slowly losing the weight? Also, are you jerking it constantly? Because if you're not, and you're lifting, and you still don't want sex you might have low testosterone or something.
/r/askMRP13/11/15 08:47 PM
2

Trust me, it's simmering below the surface. You need someone way more versed in RP like BPP to tell you how to patch this up, I'm not nearly experienced enough to give advice on that.
/r/askMRP13/11/15 04:09 PM
3

Yeah I'm with you on some of the natural shit. I did rounds of Accutane as a teen, and it wasn't until I found soap with tea tree oil and peppermint oil that my skin cleared up.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:57 PM
13

That's just not true for everyone man. I've battled my oily Italian skin for years and finding the right kind of soap really made a huge difference in the number of pimples and whatnot, even while doing everything else.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:54 PM
1

Brad pitt doesn't get left at home with the kids while mommy goes partying. That right there should let you know how shitty quality of a man you are right now. Ten days later I want you to know this has become my mantra. Thanks for this golden nugget.
/r/askMRP13/11/15 03:50 PM
71

This is a mess. First you totally and completely fucked up. You basically told the group that your wife has a fat stomach, even though you admitted to us she's slim. This is probably a skin thing from carrying your twins. The words probably could have been undone, but grabbing her stomach after saying it was where you crossed into catastrophic damage territory. You're probably a pretty funny guy, but you let yourself get hammered (don't blame the wine, you're a man, you can tell how drunk you ar…
/r/askMRP13/11/15 03:42 PM
33

I want you to think about something real quick OP: This guy is likely a career criminal and he scanned this room full of SJW pussies, Brooklyn hipster bitches, and other pseudo intellectuals and picked YOU and your buddy as the easiest prey to take down. You guys get in a mild altercation and Mike is trembling? You're admittedly skinny fat and scared of this guy? Brother you've got bigger problems than the reactions from some predictable tumblrettes.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:11 AM
2

Shit man, are they looking to adopt a son?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 02:41 AM
3

This, this, this. Why in the fuck are you meeting with her to talk about your feelings?!
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 09:51 PM
15

Want to have more success than all your dumbass buddies? Drink half of what they do. Drink a quarter of what they do. Getting shitfaced isn't the goal, and you're dumbing yourself down considerably after the buzzed stage.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 05:42 PM
2

You need to hit the eject button. Learn what you can and move on.
/r/askMRP11/11/15 05:10 PM
1

This.
/r/askMRP11/11/15 02:22 AM
9

Girlfriend without kids and you're dealing with this? Why stick around if the bedroom is dead and this is going on? What's the redeeming factor aside from familiarity?
/r/askMRP11/11/15 02:19 AM
10

You sound like a ship without a rudder. You're putting the allure of new pussy on a pedestal. You have Tinder matches? What kind of bullshit is that? It may not be a popular opinion here, but if you want to be married, then don't fuck other women. If you want to fuck other women, don't be married. There's a big difference between dread stages and keeping your game in line, and actually setting yourself up with other women to fuck. You need to decide what you want before you just aimlessly wander…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 10:44 PM
2

She can change... back into her work clothes when she's done fucking him at lunch.
/r/askMRP10/11/15 10:37 PM
1

She said that to you? Have you transcribed that conversation for your lawyer yet? Because you should. Why did you not pull the eject lever six months ago? What stopped you when you decided it was over anyway?
/r/askMRP10/11/15 10:36 PM
5

Don't say a thing until you talk to a lawyer and do not leave. Do. Not. Leave. And I'm sorry but get your five year old paternity tested too. Ugh. So sorry bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 02:25 AM
3

If you're trying to build a relationship with her after just getting into her life, just sending her to any RP subreddit sounds dangerous. Sounds like an easy avenue to mom being right, my dad is crazy.
/r/RedPillParenting08/11/15 02:23 AM
1

The Joe Rogan Experience has a shitton of Red Pill conversations, and some real blue pill heroes too. Helpful to see how the other side thinks sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 09:04 PM
0

This, this, this, this. I read NMMNG first, and I'm halfway through MMSLP, and without having realized that it was MY fault and my own doing to get me here, I'm not sure MMSLP would carry as much weight as it does now. NMMNG really opened my eyes.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 09:02 PM
3

As someone who works in a white collar environment, people "get drinks" all the time in a professional setting. It could be with a group, or at an event. I've "had drinks" with women before, and it was strictly a tell me what you're working on these days or how's that project going kind of thing. Legitimately lawyering up over this seems like a gross overreaction.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 08:26 PM
2

The wife and I took a look recently after laughing at million commercials. Total wildebeests and white trash single moms in FUBU tshirts.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:22 PM
2

I'm guessing we're in the same tax bracket, the idea of alimony scares the fuck out of me.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 10:45 PM
2

Shit. If it's me, I'm still all "NEXXXXXT".
/r/askMRP05/11/15 09:51 PM
3

This could definitely backfire. It could be seen as a man who has pled guilty to a felony trying to harass his accused, or shine a spotlight on your conviction in the public eye.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:12 PM
1

Yeah it doesn't matter if she did or didn't. If she did, she cheated and it's over. If she didn't, she's a manipulative liar and it's over. Sidebar x1000.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 04:35 PM
4

Good. That's how she should be feeling. Your SMV is rising and she's noticing. Tell her not to wake you up unless it's an emergency (edit: sex is an emergency). Otherwise let the hamster hamster.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 03:12 PM
9

Are you actively reading sidebar material? This is full of covert contracts, moving into her frame, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 03:11 PM
2

Is this not clearly a shit test?
/r/askMRP05/11/15 02:46 PM
4

She TOLD you she was unfaithful. What are you looking for? A youporn link to the actual sex? That's it dude, it's over. You say the relationship is over and you can never trust her again. No shit to both. Get the hell out man. She's not your wife, those aren't your kids.
/r/askMRP05/11/15 02:44 PM
2

Thank god you didn't knock that up.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:43 PM
1

This is the best suggestion in the thread—from someone else who is just starting out.
/r/askMRP03/11/15 09:41 PM
4

And this is sleezy Z-list celeb PR firm 101.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:39 PM
5

She blows you, but doggy style is off the table? That's weird. Do you think there's trauma or something there?
/r/askMRP03/11/15 04:10 PM
6

Sounds like she's totally caught up in the hamster wheel of social media and divorce one-upping. You say she's not even mentally present or enjoying the moment when she's in it. It's all about the next thing she can brag about online, or show the ex up with her daughters. My question to you is: why do you care so much? If you want to stay at home and do something else—stay at home and do something else. Spend more awesome time with your kid, who you clearly care about. Do stuff with her, and inv…
/r/askMRP03/11/15 04:07 PM
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I read a bunch of them. This is clearly two-fold. She's got cash in the bank and has surrounded herself with a crazy vegan circle of do-gooders. This is a calculated PR move to "expose" her false reality, which she'll spin into a book deal, TV exposure, etc. This will only equal more money for her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:51 PM
1

Ah, got it. Zero emotion involved. Totally logistical.
/r/askMRP03/11/15 01:47 AM
1

Don't freak out, we'll just play it by year.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 11:12 PM
1

Are you sure your "OMG, you're not married?!" reactions aren't female coworkers trying to fuck you?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 07:43 PM
1

Yeah, this wasn't a huge ordeal, just wanted to get my ass chewed out and pointed in the right direction. Reading, reading, reading.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 07:16 PM
1

Cool, then fuck you. But thanks. More internalizing, less talking.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 07:16 PM
1

Confused by this, I shouldn't be telling her to tell me about plans/commitments in the future? The thought is that I need to demonstrate my SMV so she'll make sure to include me in plans? I get the second part, but I didn't realize telling my FO to handle something like this differently was a no-no.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 07:06 PM
1

I'm sure I am textbook. I'm working my way through the sidebar right now, but felt like I needed advice to stop my obvious hampstering. She's great about the gym herself and supports me doing the same. I hit all of my 5x5 last week and ran a mile this morning (it's my off day). Appreciate you looking out for me.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 12:26 PM
15

There's almost nothing in your post that fits RP.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 11:21 AM
21

Do you... know where you are?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 11:15 AM
1

Why would you leave your own house? Sounds like a perfect opportunity for STFU or IDGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 02:10 AM
1

You're definitely right. Appreciate the analysis!
/r/askMRP01/11/15 08:47 PM
1

I'd say she was drunk but not stumbling—in a similar condition to almost all the other adults leaving the party, ranging from 30-45 years old, and that this is fairly typical of a party of this nature. We live in an upper middle class neighborhood. This probably only happens 2-3x year.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 08:28 PM
1

My one red flag is something my wife does too and it drives me fucking nuts. "Can I just get you a girlfriend?" translates to: Because I want all the advantages of tying you down, like you working while I get my hair done, without actually having to fuck you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 06:12 PM
1

You're on the right path dude! I'm new around here but it seems like your mindset is really holding you back. I think the gym and martial art suggestions will really help.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 06:03 PM
1

I'm old fashioned too and this was what we talked about after my OP. I sat her down and instead of victim puking about my precious feelings, I told her she knew about the party and didn't communicate to me that it was happening. She acknowledged that was true and agreed she should have told me. But I don't think it was because she wanted to go alone: It's more a reflection on her maturity than our relationship—she expected me to come with her and leave the kids asleep. The neighbor is just far e…
/r/askMRP01/11/15 05:55 PM
2

Thanks for your time BPP. I didn't even know about the party until mid-day yesterday, so I'm going to talk to her about communicating things like that. She knew about it apparently. You're right that I didn't take control of making sure I had coverage to watch the kids. I'll stop hampstering, you're right about that. I started my day lifting and felt better. I don't want to go to the in-laws, but I'll plow forward and stop being a little bitch.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 03:59 PM
9

Probably because it's fiction.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:34 AM
2

Thanks, even knowing that it's not linear is helpful. I'll just keep learning.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 08:10 PM
2

Thanks /u/rurpe, appreciate the specifics man. On the larger issue, should I just read the entire TRM site?
/r/askMRP29/10/15 07:58 PM
2

I've watched a couple of these with my kids, it's pretty meh. From a RP perspective it's pretty alright in my eyes. Dad is the king, he makes all the decisions, her mom defers to him, male protectors, etc.
/r/RedPillParenting28/10/15 07:45 PM
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