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itsfun2Bdumb/r/seduction16/01/19 03:04 PM
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itsfun2Bdumb/r/seduction22/09/19 08:52 AM
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Never had a bad experience, just alot of awkwardness on my part. Worst case scenario the girl pretends your not there and doesn’t acknowledge you, I’ve never been called a creep in person or had a drink thrown in my face, women are a lot more polite than I would have thought. I’ve also gotten to date some women way out of my league, it’s 100% worth it and I’ve never regretted a single approach even the ones where I get shot down instantly.
/r/seduction02/10/19 04:36 AM
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Next time you see her at the gym, ask to meet up for a coffee when your workouts done
/r/seduction29/09/19 08:14 PM
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Great job! Thank you for Sharing
/r/seduction29/09/19 02:39 AM
8

Make a move
/r/seduction23/09/19 12:01 AM
3

Choose a university/college you don’t work at to pick up 20ish girls
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:27 AM
4

Be attractive Don’t talk about fight club
/r/seduction08/07/19 10:55 PM
2

Beer before liquor you’ve never been sicker Liquor before beer your in the clear
/r/seduction05/07/19 03:11 AM
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Damn, if only I was that clever
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:44 AM
64

She said “why didn’t you text me today?” I said “because I didnt feel like it” She said “sorry for being so bitchy” and then took her top off
/r/seduction27/06/19 05:50 AM
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All I can offer you is 40 pesos, an expired condom and my nephews LEGO batmobile that I stole while he was taking a nap.
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:08 AM
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The pain of spending another weekend alone, and jacking off became scarier than approaching a women on the street.
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:29 AM
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1.5
/r/seduction26/05/19 03:13 PM
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They have a strawman argument, using a single post to define the entire subreddit. This is a good sub and without the help I received here, I’d never of been able to meet my girlfriend.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:19 PM
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I’f you cool it with the texts for a little while then call her for a date in a couple weeks; then id say that be your best chance of recovering with her.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:05 PM
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Don’t ask people why they didn’t text you back
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:30 PM
3

Just send me your social security number and we should be good to go.
/r/seduction20/05/19 04:08 AM
6

I’m 5’9, I’ll trade you
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:39 AM
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Watch out for pedophiles
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:19 AM
2

She might find you more attractive, chicks dig hockey players.
/r/seduction18/05/19 11:20 AM
23

I find it’s tougher to approach when I’m with friends, I procrastinate from talking to girls and tell myself I’m having fun with my bros, and then get drunk with them and leave empty handed.
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:36 AM
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Follow them home
/r/seduction11/05/19 05:42 AM
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Cut the brake line on her car Jk
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:10 AM
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Your gonna have to learn to make the first move. You’ll learn it by leaving your ego at the door and accepting the learning curve where you’ll have to fail a couple dozen times to make some breakthroughs. I spent age 19 and 20 wondering why I wasn’t getting laid, I was spending every night at home playing video games or being at the gym. I then went out 20 days in the coarse of a month and went from virgin to 5 partners. Half the days I went out I failed and wasnt able to speak to any women, but…
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:33 AM
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I approached 4 girls and said they smelt like fish ..... I did not get as good results as you did
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:40 AM
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4 messages in a row is a big mistake dude Meet other women to conquer your neediness and then she might like you.
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:58 AM
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Continuing doing this at least once a week, and you’ll start seeing amazing results in no time.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:08 AM
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You can find a lot of them at the grocery store, yoga class or Starbucks
/r/seduction14/04/19 09:49 PM
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I’d just like to say good luck, we’re all counting on you.
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:30 PM
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I believe that you did nothing wrong, sometimes girls will agree to dates but as soon as you name a time and place they ignore you. Usually it’s because they just didn’t feel like there was a connection, making a connection online is exponentially more difficult
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:03 PM
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“I don’t know, I just am”
/r/seduction10/04/19 07:13 AM
1

The “Revenge of the Nerds” method
/r/seduction09/04/19 08:51 PM
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If your texting her more often then she texts you, then definitely pull back. You really should only text when your scheduling a date or when she offers to send nudes, anything else you should be saying in person.
/r/seduction09/04/19 08:47 PM
1

You’ve seen the notebook? That’s kinda gay bro
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:44 AM
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Bingo, what makes me approach is the mindset that fear of regret is worse than the fear of not approaching. Good job
/r/seduction07/04/19 08:44 PM
1

Top Gun
/r/seduction07/04/19 08:31 PM
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Do the WOD’s along side her, and tell her not to stop. Give her tough love bro.
/r/seduction07/04/19 08:27 PM
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I’m r/suddenlygay
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:02 PM
2

Oh ok, then I guess you’ve been a bad boy and need a spanking
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:42 AM
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No man, we’ve all been at that point, some having a harder time getting out of it than others. Just say “hello” don’t think of anything further.
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:16 AM
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Preach
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:13 PM
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I love girls sending me pics of there tits. But there is something unsettling about getting a pic of a vagina, it makes me nauseous.
/r/seduction04/04/19 04:09 AM
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These girls have been conditioned by the fact that every match starts the convo for them, they realize they don’t have to. I find I have a lot less respect for girls on tinder compared to girls I daygame. Tinder girls are one night stands and nothing more.
/r/seduction02/04/19 10:00 PM
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Don’t worry about the virginity thing, I lost it at 20 after blowing several opportunities in my teenage years, and I got no regrets about waiting. I’d suggest going up to girls you find pretty and telling them what you specifically find attractive about them. It doesn’t matter what they say back to you, all that matters is that you shared your masculinity with them. Otherwise just enjoy highschool, maybe join the football team if you want an easy way to get girls to notice you.
/r/seduction21/03/19 05:44 AM
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Good job dude! Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction21/03/19 05:35 AM
1

Making a comment about your dick is very forward, so don’t backtrack, just ask her out with a place and time.
/r/seduction18/03/19 05:29 AM
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It’s easier Maybe 5-10% will find you weird, but the majority of college girls are single/horny and are down to meet new guys
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:55 AM
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bow chicka wow wow
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:38 AM
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Worse case: she says no, and stops talking to you Best case: she sucks your dick I like those odds
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:32 AM
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Yea if you wait for the perfect moment to kiss, it’s never gonna happen. But she’s going to agree to another date so it’s all good.
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:27 AM
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If your rich then you can afford to go to a bootcamp that teaches inner game and how to meet women. Some high end coaches cost over 10grand but they are worth the money.
/r/seduction12/03/19 08:31 AM
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I think your gonna have to let her fuck you In all seriousness you invited her to the concert and it wouldn’t be cool if you told her she was no longer allowed to go. Meet her at the concert, don’t give her a ride. After the concert stop asking her to do stuff with you.
/r/seduction12/03/19 05:06 AM
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Good, I was worried that OP might be into nazi’s
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:54 AM
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I would just text “i had a nice time with you yesterday” and leave it at that
/r/seduction11/03/19 05:34 AM
2

What does the “ss” stand for?
/r/seduction11/03/19 05:30 AM
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25, and we will never change
/r/seduction10/03/19 11:38 AM
1

Best thing to do is just politely brush them off. You don’t owe them your time.
/r/seduction10/03/19 07:44 AM
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You forgot to tell us the most important thing Grandpa’s rakia recipe
/r/seduction10/03/19 05:53 AM
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Don’t sweat it. Dude you actually fuck’n did it. You approached a random girl whom you didn’t know. You did something that 97% of men never had the balls to do. Get used to the awkwardness because it’s gonna happen a lot more. My friends laugh and give me a hard time whenever they see me talking to pretty girls. They yell “kiss her” and make kissy noises at us. Just gotta embrace the cringe.
/r/seduction09/03/19 11:45 PM
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A guy will tell a woman he wants to see her necklace as an excuse to touch her and create sexual tension. Personally I would only try this with a girl I’m interested in, not a friend. OR..... He’s gay and is actually interested in your jewelry. P.S Don’t google “pearl necklace” NSFW
/r/seduction09/03/19 11:35 PM
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Was it a pearl necklace?
/r/seduction09/03/19 10:29 PM
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But she doesn’t have that same power, so she can’t love you as freely. She lied and told everyone your a cheater. I don’t think someone who loved you would do that. Open relationships are already tricky enough, one person will always be getting less action and that can lead to them feeling vulnerable. But having one person remaining commited makes it 10x more difficult to maintain that relationship. These types of relationships may work well short term, but they almost always end with a brick th…
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:32 AM
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Sam and Dianne from cheers
/r/seduction04/03/19 08:18 AM
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My view would be “why?” Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who is committed and you are not. Without equality the relationship is doomed. The fact that she wanted to be committed while letting you sleep around makes me think she has self esteem issues.
/r/seduction04/03/19 08:15 AM
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Thanks Damone!
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:57 AM
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Don’t hold hands in public, don’t have dinner with her and her parents, don’t let her introduce you to her friends, or stay around and listen to her talk after you’ve had sex. Women pay attention to your actions more than your words so make sure you don’t behave like a boyfriend.
/r/seduction04/03/19 06:53 AM
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Making out In her bedroom I made a final call and bounced. When your about to have sex you’ll just know in the moment, so go out and see what happens.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:04 AM
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Gotta get your reps in. Make a goal to meet one new girl a day. Just go up and say hi and then take it from there.
/r/seduction03/03/19 04:54 AM
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Just gotta wait, and while your waiting you should see other guys because it’s going to be awhile.
/r/seduction02/03/19 05:24 AM
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That was an excellent report and it’s great that you review what you did good and what you still need to work on. But don’t you think your leading this girl on if you ask for another date but have no intention of a sexual exchange?
/r/seduction02/03/19 05:15 AM
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F
/r/seduction02/03/19 04:31 AM
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You don’t have to be enrolled to meet girls at school
/r/seduction25/02/19 06:06 AM
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Love is for gay people
/r/seduction25/02/19 04:37 AM
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I just find it hard to focus on things unless I’m getting laid, it’s like a hierarchy of needs. Without sex my testosterone gets all fucked up and I can’t concentrate on anything else until that need is met. Food>shelter>sex>working out>career>everything else
/r/seduction23/02/19 12:29 PM
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Getting laid frequently is a necessary evil. If you gather enough women that your having sex weekly at a minimum, then you’ll be able to see things more clearly.
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:40 AM
1

Super liking will guarantee she sees your profile. So you actually get a chance
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:04 AM
1

James Marshall infield blowout
/r/seduction17/02/19 09:40 AM
1

In that situation I try to get eye contact and then motion her to remove her earphones.
/r/seduction15/02/19 12:47 AM
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If you want to try again in a month go for it, it’s not like there’s anything more to lose. But you better be getting some action from other girls during that time.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:21 AM
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Nice! You brought her to her shununununun knees knees....
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:12 PM
3

Chicks dig metal heads. Just tell em you play guitar and they’ll be all over you.
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:06 PM
2

Your right, always focus on the end goal. Sometimes we go for the number when the girl is already DTF.
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:44 AM
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Russian girls They’re stone cold
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:57 AM
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Pua’s still exist, there’s still a lot out there, but the styles of approaching has changed. Mystery teaches trying to impress women by “demonstrating higher value” and negging girls “ to lower there self esteem”. Which looking back is pretty pathetic. For whatever reason a lot of the forums have become empty, other then Youtube and reddit, I haven’t found much luck in trying to locate other PUAs, it’s been 2 years and even I haven’t been able to find a wingman in my area.
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:50 AM
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When you shake hands during “ peace be with you” slip her a business card and then make the call me 🤙 gesture, or slip a fake 100 dollar bill when the donation bin comes by so she thinks your rich.
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:38 AM
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The game was written over ten years ago and it was a great book for its time, it helped a bunch of guys who were failing with women and didn’t know why. But alot has changed and the majority of mystery’s method is bullcrap. I’d probably recommend reading models. This is really the biggest forum I found, I find it very difficult to find lairs in my area.
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:28 AM
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Nah we all now from wedding crashes that going to funerals is the best way to pick up chicks.
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:19 AM
3

Sorry to break it to you, but your hot.
/r/seduction09/02/19 10:02 AM
2

As long as her number isn’t 867-5309 You should be good
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:30 AM
2

Your first approach will be the most rusty, so I’d approach from least to most attractive.
/r/seduction08/02/19 06:35 AM
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If your friends happiness is really that important to you, then you did the right thing. But I personally would not be friends with someone who is that insecure. Your talking about a girl he is no longer dating, it’s not like your asking to date his sister.
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:16 AM
1

Getting attention online and in person are very different. Girls who swoon over him online do it to get attention just like he is. I’m sure the only girls who would actually go out with him in real life would be equal or lower value then he is.
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:06 AM
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Don’t worry about comparing the hours that she takes to respond, it only causes unnecessary stress.
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:23 AM
1

You forgot to mention Jedi mind tricks
/r/seduction07/02/19 04:06 AM
2

You underestimate the power of the dark side James Marshall is retiring and the Jedi will soon become extinct
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:46 AM
2

People In NYC are suspicious of strangers talking to them. So I’d open with “excuse me, I’m not here to sell you anything/steal from you, I just came over because you look ________”.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:32 AM
1

The only way you’ll find out is by asking her out.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:23 AM
6

We ask our mommies
/r/seduction05/02/19 12:23 PM
0

Bring a backpack so people will believe your a student. I just fill mine up with liquor and packs of skittles.
/r/seduction05/02/19 12:03 PM
2

Spot on analysis, I try my best to teach other guys to approach but they are very hesitant and refuse to try. The Gillette ad is just the nail in the coffin. I wonder what will happen in 15-20 years when my son will try to meet women, will he even have a chance?
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:00 AM
1

Are you going to try for an orgy with these girls of just stick to one at a time?
/r/seduction30/01/19 07:46 AM
1

If she tells me she has a boyfriend, I’ll ask if it’s a commited relationship or how long they’ve been together, if they say it’s been less than a month then I know it’s not serious yet and then I might still ask her out. This also works well if she is just saying she has a boyfriend as a defensive mechanism.
/r/seduction17/01/19 06:26 PM
1

When in Rome.....
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:51 PM
4

Great job! You’ve gotta be able to pull the trigger, not enough guys try for sex on the first date
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:40 PM
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I don’t care what your political views on the ad are, but in one pivotal scene a man sees an attractive girl and goes in for the approach but is cockblocked before he can say anything . The cockblocker is made to look the hero for stopping the “toxic masculinity “. Kids will see this ad and see that approaching of any kind is bad, they might not understand it meaning just cat calling . I think this ad could end up doing major damage towards the seduction community and the young guys who are only…
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:04 PM
0

I matched with a couple of nymphomaniacs, it was like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction07/01/19 06:44 AM
1

We all have the one who got away who we never think we will ever get over. But one day you’ll hook up with a hot chick, who has a nice ass and big tits, and then you’ll never think of that girl ever again.
/r/seduction05/01/19 10:45 AM
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I get that it’s uncomfortable especially in front of your family or hers. But you can always ask her father permission to introduce yourself. Or you might just have to intercept her on her next trip out to the beach, or out of her hotel.
/r/seduction05/01/19 09:43 AM
1

If you don’t talk to her you’ll regret for a long time. Just take it one step at a time and say “hello”. Do not worry about what comes after.
/r/seduction05/01/19 06:45 AM
2

My first approach was asking a girl to dance in the sixth grade I had tunnel vision The music went muffled And I felt like I was being choked I could no longer speak coherently It was a shocking feeling I never felt before and I thought I was suffering a panic attack. The trick is to reframe it as a positive feeling. Your heart beating a million times a minute isn’t a negative thing, it’s just positive energy coarsing through your veins.
/r/seduction05/01/19 04:14 AM
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While he is with her, you should go out and bang his wife and girlfriend to show dominance
/r/seduction05/01/19 03:50 AM
5

It actually happened to my dad 30 years ago. He was over at her place when she had to go get “cigarettes” and he ended up alone with her baby for a couple hours. My dad once told me “if she has kids run”, only advice he ever gave me.
/r/seduction28/12/18 06:06 AM
2

After a couple hundred or so approaches you start to really increase your social awareness, and you know how to make her comfortable. Whether to be full on direct/ subtle, or how to approach on a bus/ elevator. Maybe 2-4% will always find you creepy, but that’s inevitable and you can’t avoid it.
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:57 AM
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Make sure you end the night back at your place. Because if your at her place she might say “I need to run a quick errand “, then you end up babysitting her kids for 3 hours.
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:36 AM
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https://youtu.be/dDxmBnClB7k “Be the high five guy”
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:16 AM
2

She just thinks your a player because she found out you asked two other girls she works with. If she didn’t know she obviously wouldn’t of told you to hit the road. You didn’t technically do anything wrong but others don’t see it like that, you just got to be a little more covert next time. Avoid American eagle for at least a couple months and only hit on one employee per store. There’s no use in trying to defend yourself. You have huge balls and confidence for approaching women but unfortunatel…
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:07 AM
1

I just accept that I’m ugly and that I always have to rely solely on my personality to get women. Also there is a 95% chance your at least average looking. Spend 5 minutes on r/amiugly and you’ll see how it’s all just average looking people who lack all self esteem
/r/seduction17/12/18 10:42 AM
3

I wear compression shorts, no boner is strong enuff to break through
/r/seduction17/12/18 10:31 AM
6

There’s gonna be days where you get nothing but harsh rejections, you’ll feel like everyone’s against you, and you don’t sees any gains in the gym Just remember to trust in the process, and push through the shit periods. most guys will fail at this point and quit when they stop seeing results.
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:16 AM
6

Just remember that if you go home with them you’ll Have to play Barbie dream house with them in morning, and then go and have a lovely chat with her father who wants to take you down to the basement, in order to show you his gun collection.
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:01 AM
14

I don’t speak British but that fact that you had the balls to approach makes it sound like a success. Talk to her some more till she’s comfortable around you and then ask her out.
/r/seduction13/12/18 10:54 AM
10

Gotta be quicker bro
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:22 AM
1

Keep at it, after a couple more approaches the nervousness should become manageable and you’ll be able to hold coherent conversations.
/r/seduction27/11/18 01:02 AM
1

Do the hustle Do do do da do do do do
/r/seduction21/11/18 12:11 PM
1

Strong eye contact, this alone won’t get you numbers, but when you are ringing a girl up and making small talk, holding eye contact is crucial. And it’s the most underrated tool of seduction Plus if your boss is around you’ll have to rely on non verbal communication
/r/seduction21/11/18 03:44 AM
1

“Yep”
/r/seduction18/11/18 06:35 AM
23

It is very non PC to call someone a fuckboy. Tell her that she’s being very offensive and that the correct terms are “slut” or “man whore”
/r/seduction18/11/18 06:32 AM
2

Actually I’m a southern Canadian, we are just like the north except we are closer to the boarder, listen to Lynyrd skynyrd and have a lot looser gun laws.
/r/seduction17/11/18 09:24 AM
2

In canada we approach at grocery stores, walmart on weekends, bookstores. We don’t even have the option of approaching outside because of the rampant polar bear attacks
/r/seduction17/11/18 07:07 AM
1

If your being branded as a clinger cut the amount of texts you send by 50%
/r/seduction17/11/18 06:54 AM
6

Gotta check out this link, just gotta know the game and how to play it https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ
/r/seduction15/11/18 07:28 AM
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