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I would of asked her questions directly, forcing the other two to talk to each other for a bit. Then once a subtle hint or two has been dropped you can remaneuver the conversation to involve the whole group, because if she’s down she should of picked up on the subtleties.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 03:10 PM
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Real estate is a great field if you have the ability to network well and are like able. If you’re the type of person who doesn’t go out of their way to talk to people, it’s probably not for you because you will either hate it or just simply fail. You have to be able to nurture relationships and be constantly meeting people either through cold calling or going to events. It’s one of the most competitive fields and around 90% of the people barely make a livable wage
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:59 AM
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I mean it’s hard to tell, but the fact that you’re asking about whether it’s a problem is a good sign. That means you probably have a decent moral standing and that will probably be enough to avoid you doing something crazy, it also shows you might have empathy It would be way worse if you had these thoughts and also thought they were normal and/or didn’t care about the possible outcome. A therapist can help you figure out what the source is and help you work it out
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:50 PM
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Yeah bro see a therapist. You’re saying you have a constant desire to assault strangers in public for no reason. This sounds really unhealthy to constantly bottle this type of emotion. One day something might happen to trigger you and you might act uncontrollably and get into serious trouble
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:28 PM
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Sup bud. Been in Medellin for about 6 months now. The culture is much more traditional here and you can be seen as a cajero if you aren’t careful Where are you living ?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:05 PM
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So, the first scenario can be a poorly handled confirmation. You said the drive was very long and you confirmed the date in the morning. Did she also have a long drive as well? In this case you usually want to send a reconfirm style message that ensures that the date is still on. (Hey, just left. See you in a bit.) If you went all day without texting the woman could feel like you’re ghosting and is more likely to cancel if the date if she has to invest a lot (e.g long drive) which sounds like wh…
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:34 AM
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Be careful with coke for obvious reasons. We used to do coke in college similar to how you mention you do it but a lot of my boys didn’t stop after. Once the influx of money from real jobs came in it became a problem for them and still is to this day.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:36 PM
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This comment is good advice, but are you doing your part to get her turned on? Eliminate that option first
/r/askTRP13/06/19 09:31 PM
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By not over thinking it so much. Flirt with the girl and get her number. Get her to agree to a date before the number then just text her a little bit for setting up the date. If she doesn’t go on the date then move on
/r/askTRP11/06/19 04:47 AM
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Because you’re not into the girl because you think she is beneath your smv so after sex you feel like that lowers your own value so you feel bad
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:12 AM
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So you admit to being deathly scared of getting cheated on but admit to cheating on her yourself? Hmm. She probably never did anything wrong and your insecurity destroyed the relationship. There is no advice to be given here.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:07 PM
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You’re like the bully at school who makes fun of kids but backs out scared when they finally get the courage to face you and fight. It’s pretty pathetic, you should re-evaluate after this thing boils over. Realistically nothing will probably happen to you unless these guys know where you live but maybe this will teach you a lesson to only say things that you can back up.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:04 PM
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She’s not going to approach you. The fact you’re hypothesizing a potential future shows your mindset needs some work.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:57 AM
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You’re doing something wrong. Probably drunk and aggressive. I’ve never heard of anyone getting reported in my entire life, you really need to evaluate why this is happening to you
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:40 PM
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It’s an sti. Most likely chlamydia, maybe ghonorrea. Doctor will prescribe azythromicim one dosage or 2 pills per day of doxy. You can’t get the antibiotics without a doctor and there are no other alternatives. Go to a clinic
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:10 PM
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Maybe you should write this in your diary.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:20 AM
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Yeah don’t carry a knife like other people said here, that will just get you killed. A knife fight 1v2 is still a losing battle if you don’t have the right training. Get a pepper spray and file a police report. Block the girl and never respond to her again. Avoid all the regular places you go to for a few weeks where she may have known you to go, that’s where they will come looking. It should die down and they will get tired of looking eventually. Carry the pepper spray with you now in case you …
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:14 PM
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In Colombia it’s a lot easier but the problem comes if you don’t speak Spanish
/r/seduction27/05/19 01:54 AM
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No. Sounds like you’re rationalizing because you’re afraid to talk to her. Ask her out at the end of a short conversation. Don’t give her a number but instead get her number. Tell her to write it down on a napkin or your coffee cup or something. If it’s busy wait until the line dies down and walk up to her and ask her out.
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:27 AM
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I live in Colombia, it’s pretty great and cheap. If you’re going to Latin America for pussy it’s most likely not going to happen unless you speak Spanish, or pay for it. The language barrier is going to be a huge problem in most cases no matter where you go, so keep it in mind.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 05:12 PM
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It’s a bad idea. Gives her nothing to respond with. It just forces her to qualify without any context, when chances are she doesn’t remember who you are. I think you’re better off trying a different opener
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:46 AM
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Could be a bunch of things. A lot of times girls will just give you a number so you don’t feel bad Maybe you’re texting weird stuff Maybe you’re not coming across with intent One thing for sure is don’t exhaust the coffee shop by approaching a lot in there. Vary your approach spots. People will start to notice because usually the same people go to the coffee shops on campus
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:40 AM
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You either address it directly or change the topic. Move the topic away from you and force her to qualify. “That’s a dumb question. Are you fucking other guys?” “Wow way to ruin my mood for the day, did you get a bad grade on a test or something?” With every response you move the topic farther away until she gives up and the pressure is too much to bring it back up. Thus she is left with no direct answer and if she self destructs later you can always pin it on her because you never lied to her y…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 09:46 PM
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Yes. She seeks your approval and once she has it she will be really eager for another mans approval. What do you think happened to the guy she recently broke up with? Its a cycle with these girls
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:12 PM
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Disagree. Women don’t usually give resistance to splitting the bill unless you are in her frame for the entire date or you brought it up in an awkward or conniving way
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:47 PM
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Best pump n dumps are girls with daddy issues. Usually the relationships end in disaster or she leaves you so your probably want to keep it short
/r/seduction31/03/19 08:40 PM
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Thanks for your response. Can you elaborate on that?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 10:39 PM
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This was the core thought that drove my curiosity
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 08:57 PM
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I am a red piller who DOES NOT believe in a particular faith (indifferent or athiest/agnostic)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 08:48 PM
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I am a red piller who DOES believe in a particular faith (christian or non christian)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 08:48 PM
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I think your ego is hurting a little bit. You’re the one who blew her off and she settled with her second choice. You would do the exact same thing. It was a mistake asking about the other guy because now it’s in your head. Personally, once I know a girl is whoring around I lose interest, but I don’t give them shit for it. Props to her for being honest with you.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:00 AM
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I would buy popcorn and let her have some but wouldn’t entertain the slushee. Especially if you are buying tickets, which I wouldn’t recommend either. But that’s just me. Tell your homie to do the same so he doesn’t make you look cheap Don’t let the girls sit next to each other. Either sit away from the other pair or G B B G Yes make a move
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:22 AM
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Yea, a look and smile is generally the most guys will get with a random girl
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:17 AM
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It’s probably more that you are chubby. A recent 2017 study found that women 100% of the time prefer men who are strong and physicallycapable as more attractive . That means chubby guys only have a chance if the girl doesn’t have any strong or physically capable prospects. It’s not absolute but that is probably your problem. Losing weight and developing muscle is a good idea or it won’t get much easier. That’s the reality
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:13 AM
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Interesting that the economy tanked and women were having all time high sex for the last 30 years. Hoeing it up because they have no money heh
/r/seduction30/03/19 01:00 AM
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RIP lol
/r/seduction30/03/19 12:59 AM
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I DONT have a specific faith but believe in red pill
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:45 PM
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I DO have a specific faith but believe in red pill
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:45 PM
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Listen to your dick imo. If she is young and took it personal and it was a first time you probably won’t see her again. Nothing to really say after the fact, I’m sure you said enough face to face. Move on and ask her out again. Addressing it again won’t really help you. You can make a joke about it if you want while you ask her out but by focusing on it like this you just get in your head more. Give it another shot if it doesn’t work move on
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:50 AM
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I think everyone here might be missing the point. It’s not a shit test, it’s her subtly telling you to stop complaining to her. Look at what you’re actually saying and you’ll see it
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:24 AM
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Initiate sex faster. Flirt more. Make moves earlier and and more directly. Rag on her more, make fun of her more In a nice way.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:48 AM
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The mind is complex bro. Humans are great at creating imaginary barriers with themselves. I believe in your success, but there may be points where you will have to walk across hot coal. Don’t turn back
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:07 PM
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Bro Sergei would of fucked me up
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:05 PM
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This is the opposite of what I believe a successful route is. You must not blame women because they do not owe you affection, this is the downfall of incel thinking. Instead you should take the steps necessary to become a man that women find desirable It’s not as easy but it is the correct path. Just my opinion, let me know how I can help
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:03 PM
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I respect your opinion regardless, thanks for sharing it
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:00 PM
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I respect your opinion. You have highlighted the underlying lesson behind the story and that is the reason why I shared this with the community
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:00 PM
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Damn that was some real shit
/r/seduction27/03/19 09:58 PM
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Thanks for the compliment, I am writing one now for the seduction community
/r/seduction27/03/19 09:58 PM
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Change your hair style, it doesn’t suit you. If you are worried about lack of masculine features you can make up for that by having shorter hair. Shave. Peach fuzz isn’t attractive. You’re better off clean shaven until your facial hairs get thicker
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:26 PM
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Hello, Why would you act disinterested on the 3rd date like that? You’re way more likely to get frienzoned with the strategy you are following Consider her perspective... “Ok, we’ve been on 4 dates and this guy is acting aloof and disinterested and hasn’t made a move. He probably wants to be friends.” I urge you to reconsider your strat. Have you made a move yet?
/r/seduction25/03/19 05:45 PM
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dm'ed you
/r/seduction21/03/19 11:57 PM
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Youtbe mirhan kirakosian, go into his playlists, beginners steps, pick one or two you think you can do. Great channel for hip hop dance tuts
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:21 PM
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Nothing personal. It’s a psychological evaluation from my part. Can’t say that either because it’s too forward, if you’re wrong you have been embarrassed. The right idea is to get more information from the woman. “Maybe” is simple and short. It allows her and gives her a gateway to express that she would cheat if she wants, if she completely blows him out after the maybe he can just play it off like it was a joke and she was the weird one about it and salvage... the friendship The point is he is…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:35 AM
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Disagree with above advice. If she is going to cheat she would likely do it with you if you are more direct. The above move solidified you as the beta who hopes to get lucky. It’s obvious you want to fuck and you’re friend zoned, I think this was a move on her part to test your value. Women are scared of shaming and girls cheat way more likely if they know they have your approval or at least YOU won’t judge them about it Your chance now may just be if she has no other options I would of just sai…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:25 AM
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well no I was skimming, but still the same plan imo. Unless it’s been talked about in conversation with her don’t bring it up, it screams that she is higher value. It’s not up to you to know all the people who live in your dorm, right? The point is she agreed to meet you before you mentioned the dorm, you can just say “I’m in x dorm where are you?” She will say, I’m in x dorm too... okay come up before we go out and let’s pregame in my room. If she brings friends, don’t object but say something …
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:19 AM
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If she doesn’t know you live in her building you shouldn’t know she lives in your building. Don’t bring it up unless both of you know Your flow: Let’s go out and xyz at xyz> Where do you live?> Oh shit me too> Come up for some wine before we go out> Close
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:14 AM
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The truth is we can’t decide for you brother. But it sounds like the approval of others is important to you, because you mentioned you are worried that the public can obviously tell she is lower value. When I was in this situation it was actually the fear that my value would be lowered if I was seen with her. You would have to get over that or get over her
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:17 AM
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Well you don’t need to take her out too much. Since you make it seem like you have the power just only set at home dates with her until she either gets mad because you won’t give her more than sex and leaves, or submits to please you
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:05 AM
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Your comment/history screams of a guy who gets limited tail but talks a big game on trp forum. Sounds like a 4 disguising himself as an 8 imo
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:50 PM
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Sex and foods are nice because they provide ecstasy, if you search for happiness in ecstasy you risk addiction. Think about how an obese person would be around food if deprived or how a cocaine addict would be without cocaine. Women can bring happiness, but not in the state you are in. You’re horny, you said it yourself. Sounds like you have associated happiness with sex and you’re deprived so your neediness is stemmed from addictive behavior. That’s fine. If you want to fill your addiction, you…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 05:18 PM
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All three. Purpose - What do you want to accomplish by the time you die? Homies - Which men will be by you side when you die? Hobbies - What are things you enjoy doing in your spare time? You can’t say sex or women. Good luck
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:56 PM
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Sounds like you don’t understand abundance mindset. It has nothing to do with hobbies or pets. Abundance is the understanding that there are a lot of women in the world available to you so you don’t get over attached to any specific woman. To reach abundance is to incorporate tactics that bring leads into your system. You do that by approaching women in rl, online, or getting set up from friends and etc. Pets and mma classes will occupy your time if you are lonely. You can solve loneliness by ha…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:49 PM
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I live in Colombia atm and the girls are substantially more reserved than the USA on average. The culture here is more traditional and slut shaming is real af considering it is standard to live with your parents until you’re married. Girls almost never spend the night because of this
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:33 PM
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Some practical advice: 1) smell. Phase one is usually a smell test. Casually and discreetly smell your finger after rubbing a girl over the panties. If it smells bad this is almost always a sign of uti/chlam/ghonorrea 2) sight. Alwaus check a girl in light before going in. Look for substantial redness and agitation, things that loook like rashes or blotches of red like poison ivy near her vag. Look for bumps near her vag. Generally above her clit are going to be shaving bumps and etc, it’s near …
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:23 AM
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Close ended request. The correct move was to ask in an open ended fashion when she was available without revealing you are leaving. You have handed over the power in the interaction because now she knows you are expendable and she hasn’t invested anything except a few words Saying what you want to say is a sure way to lose her, unless you are an absolute stud Only way to recover momentum would be to disregard her self consciousness about the period in a non needy/adult male fashion as she will l…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:31 PM
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Silent treatment. When she starts don’t say a word. Stay silent during the entire encounter. She will eventually notice something is up and probably ask what’s wrong. Change the subject to something you want to talk about without addressing her question. Repeat until she gets the hint. If she fails to get the hint after a few cycles, address it directly. Addressing it directly will hurt her feelings. If you don’t care, you can do it sooner. Depends how much you value the friendship. Your call
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:23 PM
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Hi there. Speed of seduction is an incredibly important detail. If you’re waiting past the second date to sleep with a girl you will be losing a lot of women. We live in an overly sexualized society and you are going to get deemed incapable the longer you wait.
/r/seduction05/11/18 07:25 AM
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Take something of hers and ask to hold it for a while. Say you’ll give it back when <make up situation that leads to you being alone with her> You don’t really know. Usually don’t wait longer until the second hangout where you could. Example, first time she comes over - you could of but didn’t. Second time she comes over you probably end up getting sexual. Just follow your judgement here whether or not to wait You need to always kiss on the first date. No exceptions
/r/seduction29/10/18 05:12 PM
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Blacking out might seem normal because it’s college, but it is actually pretty dangerous I’ve had friends hurt themselves badly and some developed alcoholism because they thought drinking like that was normal. Just make sure you are still in control of your drinking, if you’re not - you really need to re-evaluate now before you develop a life long problem. Try taking a week or two off and see if you have the will power to not take a drink, if yes - you’re fine. I am now long past college, Just m…
/r/seduction26/10/18 05:40 PM
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Try Austin Texas. Average age is 29
/r/seduction26/10/18 06:03 AM
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I wouldn’t say a dick pic move is low value per say. It’s gotten me laid before, but he just seemed to deploy the member at the wrong time. I’m not a huge fan of the move because it ruins a lot of the surprise. I’m confused because they just met but she claims to love him. That sounds a lot more like infatuation. Are the girls inexperienced/young? In general there are not enough alphas to go around. Alphas will choose the highest tier females for themselves and the betas get what’s left. If thes…
/r/seduction26/10/18 01:21 AM
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I didn’t mean to imply you were a nice guy or anything. Why did you decided they are needy and low value? I’m just curious what these girls suggested was low value
/r/seduction26/10/18 12:24 AM
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Because those guys are hot, good at creating tension, have good sex game and prioritize themselves over your friends. They will say this stuff to maintain their innocence in front of a guy friend so when they need someone to complain to, he is safely there for them. They don’t want you to know the truth because they need security. When in reality pretty much every woman I’ve ever met loved to get thrashed hard by the cock in private regardless of how nice and innocent she was in rl. Woman’s only…
/r/seduction26/10/18 12:18 AM
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From my experience this method leads to a lower close ratio but higher retention ratio of the women you do close. Doing this also seems to work better with less experienced women. Sluts have responded to this method lot less over the years. I find they’re looking for a lot more lover value and aggression
/r/seduction25/10/18 11:57 PM
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Getting good with girls isn’t going to help with your depression I’m afraid. I Started lifting weights. The hormones help on a physiological level I Checked out a thing called positive talk and affirmations. Bough the book “think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill. It isn’t much about money. It will teach you affirmations and give you some hope I searched for a purpose in my life. A real purpose. Not just some ass job that paid well. Something mom would of been proud of. I tried giving to others, it…
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:46 AM
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Well you choose to man. Sounds like you’re the type of guy who wants some connection and romance. That’s ok. Don’t get brainwashed by game. Biologically you want comfort, security and steadiness. It seems you are in clash with what you truly want and what you believe game society wants you to be in order for woman to find you attractive.... There’s nothing wrong with getting breakfast and staying over. These things are normal. If that is what you want, do that. It doesn’t make you less attractiv…
/r/seduction23/10/18 03:44 AM
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Cool, glad I could help. Follow my reddit if you want - I try to reply every day to posts in seddit
/r/seduction22/10/18 10:07 PM
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Being a cashier sucks and people usually don’t like that job. Plus, a girl gets no self benefit to being nice to you - you aren’t gonna tip her. To me that suggests if a cashier is showing me abnormal positivity that means she’s feelin me. So I just go for it
/r/seduction22/10/18 10:02 PM
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When it comes to things like this I prefer to just glance at the male in question from a distance if he starts misbehaving. He will eventually either meet my Eyes on accident or due to her gestures. People can from my country can have very cold and aggressive facial expressions and tbh I enjoy testing the other men in the game. I want to see if I can rattle him with nothing more than 1 look, usually, yes, and he fuks off. If he doesn’t fuk off I’ll know he’s extremely aggressive and an actual th…
/r/seduction22/10/18 08:31 PM
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I’m not sure, I’m new here. Generally what you will want to do is have strong eye contact and focus on touch in a non creepy rapey way. Touching safe areas at high points in convo
/r/seduction22/10/18 04:09 PM
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Yea! Was just hoping to get your thoughts flowing. I’m happy to help if you want any specifics 🤙🏻
/r/seduction22/10/18 04:08 PM
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Go for it. But my advice would be to have some tension behind whatever you do. Don’t come in as friendly super nice guy. Make it flirty and sexually charged
/r/seduction22/10/18 07:03 AM
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Okay. So it seems your relationship was on very loose standing if she dumped you over that kind of reason. It’s important to me that a woman I invest my emotions in has my back and this girl doesn’t sound like she has your back. You risk hurt here by feeling the way you do. Most girls at 18 are sexually active too. It’s alarming that you didn’t bang in a several month period. Did you try? It sounds like she ended the relationship because she believed you to be sexually incompatible
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:50 AM
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Okay. One more question- how old is the girl??
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:43 AM
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Did you have sex when you dated? How did it end?
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:38 AM
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I don’t think the rule applies really. Have you ever tried screening the girl? If I’m diggin a waiter and want to see if she is interested I will make eye contact with her from across the restaurant and give her a slight smile as she goes about her duties. Maintain eye contact. She will either grin back or not. Girls can spot sexual tension from a mile away. Watch her body language after and see if anything changed. If her demeanor changes in a negative way, shut down your advance.
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:36 AM
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So wait can you provide more info, you never asked her out or she has said no to you before??
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:24 AM
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Good advice. Generally your girls behavior is a sign of how hard you actually have her hooked. A girl who is genuinely into you will almost always close the approach right off the bat and will look for help if the guy doesn’t go away. If a girl doesn’t do something like this, this is usually a sign of where the relationship is going
/r/seduction22/10/18 05:05 AM
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Probably not but you have missed your escalation window, in case it doesn’t turn out well - use this experience as reason to ask a girl out next time
/r/seduction21/10/18 09:30 PM
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You’re taking what I’m saying too literally. Let me rephrase. She isn’t purposefully punishing you like avparemt beating you with a belt or something. As you said yourself she has stopped showing any additional sexual investment. She isn’t moving the interaction forward anymore. That’s the punishment. It’s subconscious on her part. Showing someone you like them and not getting them to respond is embarrassing ESPECIALLY to girls. She isn’t gonna ignore you cause you seem to be in close social cir…
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:04 PM
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Assuming you are correct about your read on the girl... Her ego. Women are covert in their message unlike men. If she was willing to openly display her intent and you didn’t follow up, she will punish you to protect her ego. Just ask her out. That is the only way to know
/r/seduction21/10/18 01:21 AM
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Kiss and sex on first date is ideal. If a girl doesn’t want to sleep with me on the first date, I’ll go on a second date at my place. If she doesn’t want to come over I don’t really see the point of texting her again I usually found girls who are unwilling to fit this aggressive frame of mine are usually inexperienced and not really all that fun to sleep with But that’s just me
/r/seduction21/10/18 01:17 AM
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I think I responded to main thread. Still leaning in reddit app
/r/seduction20/10/18 07:46 PM
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That can be good but it sounds a little boring, as in the tone and words used Can you spot the difference between yours and this one? Hey Suzy! You aren’t gonna believe the article I found relating to the conversation on <xyz > we had. It was sooo helpful. You HAVE to read it! It has passion and encourages and gets her excited to read it
/r/seduction20/10/18 04:11 PM
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You are right. Stop apologizing so much man, I stopped doing this 10 yrs ago and I never looked back. Being kind and being a pushover are two very different things mates. This message is self deprecating and comes from a low value perspective imo. You are basically poopin on yourself and reminding her that you were sweaty and couldn’t hold your alcohol. Try something like this... I never knew you had such impressive dance moves Suzy. Are you part Latina? It’s a lot more sexually charged but stil…
/r/seduction20/10/18 04:06 PM
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She was probably in party mode bro. If she set out to just dance all night, she probably wasn’t looking for male advances. This can be good. It might mean that even if she doesn’t like you now, you can work on her. Texting her is ok. Just because you’re texting her doesn’t mean u wanna date her. Play some mind games. Think of 5 text messsges you would send and post em here, I’ll let you know if they’re any good. All 5 have to focus on dancing as the opener
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:35 AM
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You got the IG bro! It’s a win. What are you gonna do tomorrow that’s different?
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:08 AM
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Hopefully the response below was of help
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:51 AM
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Sure you can. You just haven't done the discovery. You don't necessarily lead out with your awesome activity, the goal is to have it occur naturally and seem organic. Does she play sports? Clubs? Classes of interest? Concerts? Food? She has to like something here. I used to always teach girlfriends how to grow their butt. I was a Kines major so our activity was hitting the gym twice a week. I would teach her squats and all that good stuff. She gets a bigger butt, feels better, I shag a bigger bu…
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:51 AM
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You are very empathetic, much more than me! I can see this because you are concerned with bothering her. Although in general, yes, you do not want to pester someone that has no intention to speak with you... but when it comes to dating I tend to skew my own "societal rules" around that. At least until I am confident the woman is not interested. Don't sweat it. You aren't being rude, you are attempting to add value to her life. ​ isn't that weird that I tell her I found an interesting article but…
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:38 AM
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Hi there, ​ A question this broad can only really be answered with more details! ​ Can you please respond with a frame by frame of the last approach you did? Or your most common approach that fails? ​ What was she doing during approach? What did you open with? What did she respond? How did you continue the conversation? ​ ​ Usually if you are frequently having problems with receptiveness upon approach, it is a value problem or a communication problem. ​ Value problem doesn't mean you are unattra…
/r/seduction19/10/18 11:11 PM
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I didn’t see half your question. I’m meeting someone in a few minutes for Pho and can respond in a few hours. Hang tight
/r/seduction19/10/18 10:53 PM
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Sure, but it would be best if you had a specific question. Try to think of the most confusing thing about this and ask that, but try to be specific as possible
/r/seduction19/10/18 10:52 PM
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The truth is there is no linear approach, women are way more complicated than that. Saying something else could be just as effective! It’s hard to suggest something because I don’t know what you know about her. Maybe there was another relevant topic? Ideally, talking about why life isn’t good right now isn’t a very good conversation to be having. I went with that idea because at least we know she may find value in what you deliver and give you a shot at conversation. Otherwise, what purpose does…
/r/seduction19/10/18 10:49 PM
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Greetings friend, My biggest recommendation is have sex with another girl. This is just to get you off of this spell you are in. This would be the best course of action in my opinion as you sound like you are stuck on this particular girl, and that is just going to ruin you. I think I know the reason why you got here... You have failed to show sexual interest/tension and she (correctly so) only envisions you as a platonic friend/acquaintance. You start talking to her in a platonic way it seems. …
/r/seduction19/10/18 08:09 PM
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Sup Lowly, You are in your head man. I can see that you have already decided that you are unworthy of the women, and this is going to be a bad place to start learning game from. You are likely experiencing one of two problems - You are not approaching enough women You are failing to close the women you approach My guess would be more of number 1. You need to set yourself an objective of say... get 10 phone numbers from girls you would like to bang. How would you do this? Well, you said you go to…
/r/seduction19/10/18 07:32 PM
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You may be interested in a concept called "activity building" that I learned several years ago. Activity building is when you and a girl set out on a common objective together that has an outcome that strengthens your relationship. conquering one of her fears e.g shes is scared of tigers, you take her to every zoo within a 50 mile radius over a course of dates learning a new skill together e.g dancing, bartender classes, how to make clay pots, whatever etc. The actual activity doesn't matter, bu…
/r/seduction19/10/18 07:17 PM
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