Can’t get over oneitis

9874123987456321 · 2018-10-21T21:33:12+00:00

Get closure. Tell her how you feel, get a clear no from her, and lower contact, and start meeting other girls.

Reichka · 2018-10-21T17:09:56+00:00

You might as well just cut yourself some slack and end the torture.

sambalsam · 2018-10-21T17:09:28+00:00

I had similar situation with my ex. We broke up like 2,5 year ago and stayed in touch for like a year afterwards. She was also very happy to know whats going on in my life. I decided to cut the contant because it was too difficult for me to move on and I could not stop thinking about her. It was difficult at the beginning but after a couple of months I was able to not think about her at all or when I did there were no negative emotions.

If you want to break free from oneitis I suggest to cut the contact. You can just tell her about it. That you are not able to deal with it and its nothing personal but you want to move on.

ivan_mcnasty · 2018-10-22T06:24:44+00:00

So wait can you provide more info, you never asked her out or she has said no to you before??

Title	Can’t get over oneitis
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	21
Date	October 21, 2018 4:58 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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