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| 1 | Trouble getting a second date | jab1023 | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 08:55 PM |
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| 3 | I get A LOT of first dates but can never get a second date. What am I doing wrong?A long date should end in sex. 100% agree. In February, I had an amazing first date with a woman I really dug. Lasted 3 hours, and she was CLEARLY sexually attracted to me. I stupidly didn’t even kiss her at the end. I immediately realized the fuck up the next day, and messaged her trying to get her out again. She initially said she would, but then just stopped replying. She wanted to go home with me. And I missed the signals. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Trouble getting a second dateOne thing I've been thinking about is not sticking around so long. 1.5 hours max, then leave on a high note. Like /u/FitnessJunkie92 said, I need to play it cool for a few days after the first date. Maybe just say I had a good time a day or two after and not try to set up anything new quite yet. | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Trouble getting a second dateAnd to clarify, I basically do use that same line about doing it again sometime. Girl 1 and 2 were both receptive both with that and afterwards over text. | /r/seduction | 06/03/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Trouble getting a second dateBut see, that's the rub. I am busy, so I need to know what nights work for a woman, and I was displaying interest by asking. I'm a project manager at a large software company, so people following through on what they say they're going to do is important to me. The specific date and time worked for ME, which is why I proposed it to girl 2. With girl 1 I agree to an extent, but she seemed (suddenly) wishy-washy and I smelled a time-waster when she didn't get back a couple days after the wedding. I… | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 10:31 PM |
| 6 | Field Report: Asked a girl out while she was workingI read both my comment and his about a dozen times last night, and even sober today, I have no idea why he thought I was insulting him personally. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 05:39 PM |
| 43 | Field Report: Asked a girl out while she was workingIt is girls that always say that girls don’t like being approached at work. That, and gentlesirs. “As a gentlesir, I would nary approach a fair maiden at her place of employment, for I know m’lady is far more interested in 7.25 an hour than a roguish cad like myself.” | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 01:38 AM |
| 3 | [Rant] The Cuckening is real.I haven't been banned, but I had a post on another sub removed 3-4 months ago. About one to two minutes after posting it. After I had made some comments on this sub. When I asked for claification, the mods were rude and combative, basically tried to say I was trying to make my argument another argument, and just sounded pretty much like limp-dick high schoolers living in their parents basement and jerking it to manga. I'm sure it had totally nothing to do with my making this comment right around… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 03:45 PM |
| 3 | What's that you say? You're afraid to cold approach? You're afraid to escalate? You shouldn't be, and here is why.That's cool. I was just wondering because I had a really cool cashier on Wednesday and kind of wished I would have gotten her number in some way (or mostly I wished she wasn't working just then.) I don't usually crush on every cashier that chats, but I actually liked that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 01:13 PM |
| 4 | What's that you say? You're afraid to cold approach? You're afraid to escalate? You shouldn't be, and here is why.Have you ever gotten a cashier's number? Let me know how, if so. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Nicole Kidman Reminds Jimmy Fallon He Didn’t Ask Her Out … Twice! ‘You Were So Not Interested’He looks like the type of dude who would wear a fedora and hate everything cool just to be different. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/16 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Nicole Kidman Reminds Jimmy Fallon He Didn’t Ask Her Out … Twice! ‘You Were So Not Interested’Only if you're every third man from age 25-35. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Nicole Kidman Reminds Jimmy Fallon He Didn’t Ask Her Out … Twice! ‘You Were So Not Interested’Meanwhile, I tried the same thing and the girl just got with some dude at our work that has the basic bro haircut and facial hair combo. And has made sure to rub it in my face. Glad it worked for someone, though! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 02:14 PM |
| 4 | The 4 wrong assumptions that keep you away from the girls of your dreamsI agree. I hate reading, "No one approaches her because she's so hot." Bullshit. (I'm not knocking OP, just personally not true at all where I am.) I live in a capital city and there and the surrounding suburbs attractive women have men in their lives / boyfriends all of the time. If they are single, it's because they are choosing to be. Branch-swinging happens almost 100% of the time. If a woman likes you and you don't make a move, she will shrug you off and get with someone else faster than yo… | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Everything in life tells me that approaching women is wrong so I never do, but they never initiate with me...I'll be thirty in less than two weeks and I've been approached by three females EVER. Two were actually still in high school when I was in college so I didn't act (this was while working at a local YMCA) and one was at a bar. The one at the bar would have had me, but she bailed after my friend drunkenly interrupted us to ask where our other friend was :/ Basically like the top comment says, why should women approach if they have their choice of who approaches? It just comes down to saying someth… | /r/seduction | 11/10/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | A not so gentle red pill truth: Status, SMV, and why the way others see you matters a lot.In the workplace you have to balance being alpha with being "diplomatic." If you keep focused on process improvement and learn to just kind of nod and smile at the bs and do what you want anyway, you'll be doing well. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Be Above AverageI've personally found Law 38 to really help with ambition/killer instinct in my work environment. I work in an environment that is skewed towards female mindset. There is a lot of complaining, "I'm too busy," etc. But all of our people report directly to men. So I've kind of learned to act diplomatic about things, even when it's tough to do so. I had a woman about a month ago tell me I was only getting promotions because I was male. Even though I was annoyed, I played it cool and smiled and said… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 01:50 PM |
| 12 | [FR] My date with a woman half my ageI'm 29 (30 soon) and young women can be fun, but their main problem is being boring and not knowing how to show interest in conversation. Sometimes they'll ask me the same stuff I ask them, but I'll take it because hey at least they're trying. Good to see you found one with a good head on her shoulders! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Flirting 102I always wonder what they think the hidden agenda is. Like: Maybe he's just looking for...what exactly? I think for the most part women do know when a man is into them, but they hamster it to pretend they don't because "women don't pursue™." So even if she did like you, if you don't move fast...it ain't happening. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Study Says Women 77% as Productive As MenI'm a technical writer / ad-hoc project manager at a software company. I have an AAS in Technical Communication and a BS in Organizational Communication. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 06:36 PM |
| 174 | Study Says Women 77% as Productive As MenInteresting timing of this post. Today my desk was moved to where our management team is (obvious to everyone.) I also got double the standard pay raise (just found out today, only management and I know) There was a lot of good-natured "You're moving up in the world," stuff. Then one a female coworker had to insinuate I was successful because I was a man. Maybe I'm successful because I show up for work, don't take a sick day once a week, don't run around like the fucking world is ending when I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 04:20 AM |
| 9 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)To add to this: I've noticed that even women who you just say hi to will suddenly start saying, "How are you/How's it going and they might use your name. This is more than just pleasantries in most cases. They are trying to extend the conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 09:01 PM |
| 3 | They will look at you weird. (On IOIs)I relate to "impostor syndrome" big, big time. It reminds me of the song lyric I've become spectacular, which is strange cuz I feel dumb Good post. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 07:31 PM |
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