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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | Feeling defeated, need to vent | jackb29 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 12:36 PM | |
| 18 | How to handle the meeting with the other guy | jackb29 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 03:50 AM | |
| 11 | What’s going on here? | jackb29 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/21 07:28 AM | |
| 6 | Social media + kids | jackb29 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 05:46 PM | |
| 4 | The drama seems to follow me no matter what | Rant | jackb29 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/25 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Work and joint custody schedule | jackb29 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/24 01:54 PM | |
| 2 | Good husband, can't seem to make wife happy | jackb29 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/19 03:41 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Work and joint custody scheduleOur incomes are similar so child support is minimal but changes yearly. I she has first right of refusal when it comes to watching the kids so I made sure to build that in that CS doesn’t change depending on how much I have the kids. I obviously want to spend as much time with them as possible but I can’t leave them home alone in the night if I get called out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Social media + kidsHer mom is very secretive (has been dating a married guy for 4 years, whole different story) and I think the issue is that she thinks I will be able to look at her instagram account if the phone is at my house which I literally could not give a shit about, I have enough going in my life that I’m not too concerned with her mothers private life. That’s the only thing I can come up with | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Unsubstantiated Claims of AbuseI dealt with and am dealing with the same thing, she has hit and kicked me numerous times in front of our kids, I told her she wasn’t allowed to come to my door, she flipped it around on me and said she didn’t feel safe around me. It’s a pretty shitty situation because I have been told I can’t even defend myself and basically just need to let her do it because if you grab her arm to stop it and she gets a bruise, guess who the bad guy is. I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Best advice i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/23 11:06 AM |
| 12 | Feeling defeated, need to ventForgot to mention, kids were dropped off at 5:00, i drove past on my way to work and left the clothes at her house, they were back at 6:05 but I guess she wanted them by 5:05 haha | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How to handle the meeting with the other guyI believe he is, I’ve also wasted way too much energy on this situation and I know it’s going to fall apart again soon. He has me blocked on all of her accounts and phone numbers. Is there a group for people to spam her with all this shit? Or anyone who can hack into messages and send them to her? I don’t want my ex back but I want this guy to go down because he is a literal piece of shit, my post was just the tip of the iceberg. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 01:22 PM |
| 2 | How to handle the meeting with the other guyHe has been around my kids numerous times, my kids have never met his kids is what I mean. My 4 year old was the one who told me he was back. I also don’t see it lasting, but my ex can’t be alone and has some major codependency and BPD issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | What’s going on here?I think it’s possible, with the way things ended I felt very worthless. I have done a lot of work on myself and would consider myself to be pretty red pilled now.. lots of people I know have told me what a mistake she made, and it does feel good to think that she’s starting to realize that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Good husband, can't seem to make wife happyI started reading your first suggestion, all those men he talks about are me to a t. Especially the first one- Jason the chiropractor. Thank you so much for the recommendation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/19 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Good husband, can't seem to make wife happyI was so surprised about it, I confronted her right away. It was all on Snapchat, so no evidence at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/19 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Good husband, can't seem to make wife happyI checked her phone. My suspicions were correct. Good old Snapchat. Had all the emojis to tell me this has been going on for a while. She had him blocked but when I unblocked him there was a message that popped up right away. She says nothing physical happened, I am inclined to believe her for some reason. I informed his wife, she and I are both hurting. I’m feeling very disrespected but still want to work on our issues. I’m definitely not going to be mr nice guy moving forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Good husband, can't seem to make wife happyUpdate! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Good husband, can't seem to make wife happyJust wow, thank you I will do my best to absorb this. I feel deep down I don’t need to worry about that and definitely wasn’t going to confront her about it. I’ve never been one to snoop but this is starting to consume me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/19 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Good husband, can't seem to make wife happyI should clarify, I’m a good looking guy, tall, take care of myself, she has made comments before that she feels I settled for her. I have always been the one to put in the effort when it comes to affection. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/19 03:48 AM |
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