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Me: Hi Her: [Surprised] Hi Me: I'm sorry to intrude but do you wanna have coffee sometime? Her:[Hesitates].. Sure. Me: [Gives her my number] Her: [Smiles]I'll give you a call sometime [Exchange names and shake hands] Me: I'm sorry but hope I didn't scare you Her: [Laughs]No. I was just a little surprised. Ok so, read the side bar and you will learn a lot. first off, good job on having the balls to approach this random girl and ask her out. Thats one of the hardest thing for guys to get over. a f…
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:50 AM
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i'd say give it one more shot and make your intentions abundantly clear, if you don't want to or she doesn't respond, drop her.
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:36 AM
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fuck, i guess she's better at playing the game than I am.
/r/seduction06/04/11 03:15 PM
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yeah she is difficult, and the only reason i got fed up is because i saw flashes of my old ex and was all of the sudden like, fuck this, not doing that again.
/r/seduction06/04/11 12:11 AM
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I like the cut of your jib. If she comes out again, this is what I'm doing.
/r/seduction05/04/11 08:10 PM
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Yeah that's how I was playing it, trying to keep up with her games. But its just exhausting and seemed a little weird. Maybe I will keep her around and just try the asshole routine...
/r/seduction05/04/11 07:53 PM
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hmmm. thinking back, i re-engaged most of the time. there was a handful of times she came back to me. thinking about it, she probably just wants attention. not necessarily from me though unless its convenient.
/r/seduction05/04/11 07:45 PM
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i did man. when she would get cold i would just walk away and talk to the group, we had 3 other girls with us and i even hit on another group of girls and got them to join us because i was so fed up with her shit. probably not the best way to handle it, but hey now i get to party with them this weekend!
/r/seduction05/04/11 07:22 PM
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no, i'm the same whether im in rags or top hat and monocle. although having a higher success rate helped the energy keep going higher and higher.
/r/seduction18/03/11 01:20 AM
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It's the beginning of Fantasy Seduction.
/r/seduction03/03/11 09:29 PM
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yeah sure, salad is great and so is desert. just serve that shit up. she's probably going to eat like 3 bites anyway, so she doesn't look fat.
/r/seduction02/03/11 11:45 PM
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just grab some boneless/skinless breasts. I suggested box because its so easy and they taste good, but if you have the time, go for it.
/r/seduction02/03/11 10:16 PM
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hey man, its better than my last direct approach response. "Sorry I have a girlfriend." good job though! keep up the abundance mentality.
/r/seduction02/03/11 10:14 PM
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ok food. super easy. stay away from garlic and onion if you don't want bad breath. Get 2 chicken breasts, a bag of mixed veggies, and a box of mashed potatoes. grill the chicken if you have a grill. If not, put some salt, pepper, lime, little garlic(i know i said otherwise, but its good), some fresh herbs if you have em & some season all. throw it in the oven and bake it for like 45 mins or until its flaky on the inside. edit* or just go to cookit and get a recipe
/r/seduction02/03/11 10:11 PM
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don't apologize. looking at his history, he's either a troll or a sad human being who can only find comfort in trying to pull others down.
/r/seduction22/02/11 01:09 AM
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Regular: "Your friend is pretty" Creepy: "I'd like to eat your friends skin" Over the top: "Did she descend from heaven?" creepy and over the top could be the same, since creepy is over the top, but not in a good way. the good way is basically saying what every guy tells her, but in a theatrical way, which just lends to them being 95% sure you are joking, but still makes them have to think about what you are saying and react to it. thats how i see it anyway
/r/seduction21/02/11 04:45 PM
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i don't do quite this. but the past two times i was out solo, i sat on one of the couches in the middle of the room, took a wide seating position, like it was my living room. drank my drink, and both times women have approached me. I think there is something to be said about both styles here. taking on the life of the party(which i do also), or just act like you own the place and build a strong manly aura about you.
/r/seduction08/02/11 06:49 PM
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i do this very often. Should I insert myself into other people's social groups and just chat up everyone, in order to see who is interesting? Yes. start at the bar, grab a drink, watch a little sports maybe. If its not too crowded chat the bartender up a bit. scope the place out see what you have going on. at the bar, just choose someone thats not talking to anyone, and open them. guy or girl. Should I focus on smaller groups, solos, or folks at the bar, and let those with big groups be? start s…
/r/seduction08/02/11 06:01 PM
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same here, i like to hit up more neighborhood type bars than the clubs downtown these days. women/girls seem more receptive to talking to people in this type of atmosphere. Possibly because if its their local bar, they are very comfortable in that element.
/r/seduction25/01/11 11:27 PM
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did everyone else read this in kanye west's voice?
/r/seduction19/01/11 06:20 PM
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great white buffalo
/r/seduction18/01/11 03:09 AM
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I know this well. I think it comes from being attractive, fun, and getting what you want all the time. It's the path of least resistance. The thing i've come to learn is: "what if she rejects me?" she probably won't. If she does, its no big deal, because there are tons of other women that won't, and probably are more attractive. Know that because of the way you are, most people are probably thinking, I wish i could be more like that guy(sociable, funny, good looking, etc.). So work on not thinki…
/r/seduction15/01/11 01:50 AM
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I'm really curious as to why every post has a downvote. We are talking about fucking facial hair, Jesus...
/r/seduction13/01/11 11:55 PM
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i fluctuate. Depends on how lazy i am, but typically i like to have a 2 or 3 day shadow.
/r/seduction13/01/11 10:50 PM
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These lines need to be in the new guide under openers and any time someone is asking for canned material we can point them there.
/r/seduction12/01/11 09:24 PM
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I decided on researching myself and purchasing the exact clothing I felt fit and it seems to be working wonders good job. You can never feel confident in yourself if you are uncomfortable in your clothing selection.
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:47 PM
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challenge accepted!
/r/seduction11/01/11 11:55 PM
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but you may not be in a great position to be giving texting advice yet, amiright? :) you are correct, sir! but i've been working on my text game, and it still seems like a bad idea if you haven't texted yet to just start off with asking a girl to go out. to me it seems the same as if you had met her at the bar, it went well and then saw her at the supermarket 2 days later, walk up and say "Hey! lets go get a drink!" There is no re-introduction or callback, it just seems like it would take a pers…
/r/seduction11/01/11 10:49 PM
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"Hey, I had a great time with you the other night. I'm wondering if I can take you out this weekend. I can prolly fly in from [my town], ya know, since it's so far away..." You started off with wayyy too much investment. This was your first text to her? You built some attraction, great. But sending a first text that tries to setup a date is a bad idea. You have to re-initiate, get her involved keep the attraction there. then invite her out. Also, You are wondering if you can take her out? You do…
/r/seduction11/01/11 08:11 PM
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I do this all the time. didn't know it was a "technique", i thought it was just me being self important :)
/r/seduction11/01/11 03:15 AM
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I think i get it, because at this point you risk getting friendzoned. I think its more of plateauing and if you don't ramp up the attraction/sexuality then you will get stuck.
/r/seduction10/01/11 11:56 PM
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last time a girl told me to buy her a shot i said "i don't buy girls drinks, but i'll make you one at my house."
/r/seduction10/01/11 11:44 PM
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one of these days i'm going to try dropping a magnum condom for my monster dong on the ground, and see what the ladies do.
/r/seduction10/01/11 09:49 PM
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apparently its hem-haw or to hem and haw, which hem is when you say "ahem" and clear your throat and haw is when you say stuff like "ah, um, er, uh" the more you know
/r/seduction10/01/11 04:55 PM
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girls are pretty stubborn if you try to logic them into kissing you/fucking you absolutely. logic will never work, and having a conversation about it won't either. you have two options, ignore or change the subject.
/r/seduction10/01/11 05:38 AM
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it seems like you didnt escalate enough. And you had a long time to do it. you had dinner and drinks and then your apartment? By the end of it, she is laying in my arms on the couch. Looking back, this would have been a good time to kiss her. you are 100% correct. you see whatever feelings she had about not kissing were probably at the most vulnerable at this point. you him-hawed around and then once it was time to leave she had time to think about everything. action is your best friend. she is …
/r/seduction10/01/11 05:37 AM
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i drink when i go out, i just like alcohol. but i don't get drunk. Also, i start right away, so its not the alcohol that gives me confidence
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:30 AM
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I would love to be with a man who is capable of being the life of the party Who's got two thumbs and is the life of the party? This Guy!(for reference i'm pointing at myself with my thumbs) ...So, why don't you give me your number?
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:22 PM
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you don't actually believe you're as awesome as you pretend to be i don't pretend, i'm just awesome. if you had your choice, you'd rather be at home reading a book wrong. I love going out and partying. not everyone is an introvert.
/r/seduction09/01/11 10:20 PM
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get your server to like you. while the AFCs at your table will be trying to win over these girls directly, you should be getting social proof from everyone else. be the energy of the group. make sure you position yourself between two of the girls, don't sit across with the guys.
/r/seduction09/01/11 07:25 PM
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lol, you guessed it! which is why you are here, right? don't worry, we can help you get women too
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:45 PM
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thats because most of the people here are or were that guy and hated themselves for it. There's nothing wrong with being a dominant figure, and sure the underlying principles of these discussions are for picking up women, but at the same time are really all around self improving.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:34 PM
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But as it turns out a group of guys already opened them up and were in the game when I met them. At this point you want to chat the guys up. A) you will show the girls you are with you can hold conversations with anyone. B) you have an advantage here because you are already in with the group. They were "real" PUAs. One of them even touch-approached me this tells me you don't touch anyone when you talk to them. Touch everyone. Me: Do you know whats going on at close nightclub tonight? Them: No Me…
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:23 PM
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hes not even beta, hes a fucking gamma. my guess, he wont be able to keep her interested.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:02 PM
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LOL! well, there are always exceptions. read my latest FR, it was a total blow out! You can most definitely get awesome girls! Just be confident that you are a girls HB10, they will flock to you my friend.
/r/seduction08/01/11 05:46 AM
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yeah man, ending LTRs can kill your self confidence. seriously break it by going out with the intention of crashing and burning. GL!
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:48 AM
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go a town over?
/r/seduction08/01/11 12:24 AM
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i'd say wait until after sex, then casually bring it up. like "what do you think about us being more than just FWB?" or something like that.
/r/seduction07/01/11 11:56 PM
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no fair! we let girls in here!
/r/seduction07/01/11 09:37 PM
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i think for the benefit of all readers you should detail more what you did to dhv and tease. You will supply many with an arsenal of how to better read a womans signals if you do.
/r/seduction07/01/11 06:10 PM
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Its all about balance man. A lot of the time it looks weird if you aren't drinking at the bar, and you don't want to give off the creeper vibe. Just have one beer per hour or something.
/r/seduction07/01/11 05:41 PM
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I'd like to see this as a fallout/vault video.
/r/seduction07/01/11 05:23 PM
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I'd join if it helps me pickup lesbians. could have used it when i got vagblocked by this girls girlfriend!
/r/seduction07/01/11 05:19 PM
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awesome question, you really got me thinking! I'll try to explain without coming off like a total dick. First, women rarely ever approach me, but when they do its instant points even if they aren't the most attractive woman. A guy with good game can most definitely take an HB from an attractive guy in most instances. I've had it happen to me several times. Heres why. Lets say i hook an HB8. I'm like a cat, in the sense that i can get bored very easily. If you can't keep my interest because you h…
/r/seduction07/01/11 05:12 PM
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its hard. but she wasn't perfect. there are countless other women with the same features/qualities, and they are tired of AFCs. Become alpha, and give them what they want
/r/seduction07/01/11 04:52 AM
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haha thanks! I actually found seddit after my LTR ended and i fell into this horrible low state and a lot of the stuff helped me get back to my bad self. should be able to approach any girl with "hi" as your opener i do that really often. if a girl looks at me, i smile really big and say hi, and just introduce myself. I think everyone should try it.
/r/seduction07/01/11 04:42 AM
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writing this from the couch where I will be sleeping umm, shes in your bed without asking. sleep in your bed like a boss.
/r/seduction07/01/11 01:55 AM
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pants...tightening...!!!!
/r/seduction07/01/11 12:02 AM
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I'm in Denver, and we went to cherry creek which is where all the multi-millionaires live. Also, denver has an unfortunate nickname of Menver...sooooo its can get pretty meat markety everywhere. Austin is great, I used to live in SA and would stroll up there all the time for some fun. Why do you think the first and second groups were so unresponsive? I think it was bitch shields. I never have a problem dialoging, its just i didn't have a blazer and button down shirt, and i think everyone in the …
/r/seduction06/01/11 08:34 PM
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Thanks! my hair is actually a bit longer now, i haven't cut it since this picture. First find a good stylist, and stick with them. They will learn your hair like a textbook. I always do scissor cut, never clippers. Also, my hair is very soft so if i wash it every day its completely unmanageable. So i do a couple things i wash my hair every 3 days or so, and when i do i use jojoba oil before i wash it. its the closest oil to your naturally produced oil so it keeps your hair moisturized. Also get …
/r/seduction06/01/11 04:51 PM
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I wish! the text thing is really new to me. I've never had to rely on txt to continue building attraction. Everyone has something to work on, and if not, i call bullshit
/r/seduction06/01/11 04:45 PM
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lets put it this way. I was in an LTR when i went to germany, and now i'm not... Edit: yes i'm a giant asshole, i've already heard it all
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:17 AM
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there are hot german girls, but its still a give and take like the states. oktoberfest is just awesome, because everyone is there, so there is just a mass of hot women everywhere. and opening is so easy.
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:16 AM
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if i could cultivate a smaller nose, id be set!
/r/seduction06/01/11 01:56 AM
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hell yeah!
/r/seduction06/01/11 12:30 AM
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fucking degrees, how do they work?
/r/seduction06/01/11 12:24 AM
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michael cera?
/r/seduction05/01/11 11:28 PM
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I guess i'll post a pic, even though i'm regretting it as i type this. oh well [deleted] :)
/r/seduction05/01/11 11:09 PM
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"arrghhhhh pffffffffff, huuuuuuuu huuuuuuuu, arghhhhhhhh pfffffffff....Hey, How's it going?"
/r/seduction05/01/11 09:18 PM
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check what size ball she gets and tease her about it
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:08 PM
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wouldn't you have moonwalked back into the mall?
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:04 PM
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I was thinking about this recently and here are some things i came up with. social proof/team player - chat up the receptionist while you are waiting. get some fact from her(kid plays softball, favorite lunch spot, etc.) then when they come to get you, as you are walking away say something to the receptionist about it. "hey hope little timmy does great at the game!" This may instill in the interviewer that you are a team player and an easy person to communicate with. Really the only kino you hav…
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:01 PM
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i do this pretty much every time i am solo, and sometimes even when im with a friend. It never hurts to have more people to provide social proof for you.
/r/seduction05/01/11 06:18 AM
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r/relationshipadvice
/r/seduction05/01/11 05:24 AM
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get two pieces of glass, put a dropper of blood in between and store them in a wooden box.
/r/seduction05/01/11 03:31 AM
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it depends on what you said to get her number. girls use the "i don't give that out" like there is no tomorrow. When you change up the bad approach, its harder to think of another thing to say. "can i have your number?" = bad. You asked, and gave her an out. "You should give me your number so we can hang out again." = better. You tell her what you want her to do. "It was great talking with you. I have to go, but how can we get together and chat again?" = Best. You make her throw the idea out of …
/r/seduction05/01/11 12:29 AM
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r/seduction will solve your problems we are getting trolled by RA...
/r/seduction05/01/11 12:22 AM
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i think pickup was created for people like this. if you think about it, an attractive guy doesnt have to try as hard most of the time. study up and apply. you are going bald? like a receding hairline or you have a comb over? Check out jude law, he has a receding hairline and he is considered super sexy. Find a hair stylist that can make your hair work for you. you are short, so what, find a way to make that a strength. take up MMA, or a sport where you can use that to your advantage. I don't enj…
/r/seduction04/01/11 09:56 PM
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honestly, i already don't remember the night, and im a bit lazy to go back through the whole thing. I think i probably left stuff out also, i just remember making her think i wasn't into her, but at the same time giving her enough queues to know that i would let her have me. there is a fine line between the push and pull and you want to make sure that you don't push too hard without any pull or she will just think you are a) a dick b) uninterested in her and she will move on.
/r/seduction04/01/11 09:28 PM
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send me dirty pics and find out
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:32 PM
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yeah i was going to leave it the one liner, but i saw the guy was already getting a lot of flack and downvotes, and i didn't want him to hurt himself.
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:13 PM
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Hell they don't even have to be full on naked. If a girl sent me a pick of her in her underwear, it would be enough to spark me to action.
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:10 PM
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for the love of god, read this http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/evldk/a_lesson_on_fucking_up_attraction_via_text and the comments I have this problem of texting too much as well. The thing is, it kills attraction because he doesnt have to think about you anymore, you are always available to him. If you pull the reins back, and leave him hanging, more than likely you will populate his thoughts more, which will build attraction. Learn from my mistakes!
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:09 PM
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it seems like you are just excusing yourself for not approaching. You have AA, only way to break it is to jump in and say anything.
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:05 PM
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be forward. tell him you guys should meet halfway and hang out, or you are going to his town, and want to do something.
/r/seduction04/01/11 04:44 PM
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not sure how the gym will help my texting, but that jack3d stuff is pretty awesome.
/r/seduction04/01/11 07:18 AM
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i do this quite often as well. I think the reason is I'm not thinking about escalation, just about whats happening right then and there. Keep escalation at the forefront of your mind, and just go for it.
/r/seduction04/01/11 07:16 AM
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see if any local studios are having a batizado this week, and invite her. Then bust out some sweet moves!
/r/seduction04/01/11 07:10 AM
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pm them?
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:34 AM
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who monitors it? who has the floor at any given time? Sounds like it will just become a clusterfuck of people asking how to get the "one", talking about how stupid we are for buying into the marketing, and all the good stuff will just get lost in the shuffle. good idea, but somewhat difficult to imagine it working out well.
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:15 AM
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did you check the map? http://communitywalk.com/usa/seddit/map/888558
/r/seduction04/01/11 06:02 AM
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Try not to be so self conscious. The fact that you went up and told a story to 350 people is great! Who cares if it was the worst story ever told? Seriously, how many of the 350 went up? Own it man. You should have strutted off that stage like a boss and talked to every girl you laid eyes on, because of all the guys there, at least you weren't a pussy.
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:47 AM
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she texted me back on nye, i txted once back, and no response again. She's probably flown back by now. I figure i'll wait like a week and send a text to see if shes still in town.
/r/seduction04/01/11 03:21 AM
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You love me! You really love me!
/r/seduction04/01/11 03:16 AM
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Ha! perfect! thanks for posting that. i gotta remember to keep it this simple and go for the date.
/r/seduction04/01/11 03:06 AM
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How about something like a Razzy?
/r/seduction04/01/11 03:01 AM
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I disagree. I think i was pretty neutral over text about her friends, but i pretty much think i nailed it with them. We had a blast and they gave hugs when they left. I think it was the texting man. Plus she drove them, and had to drop them off 20 mins away so i don't think there was any chance that night.
/r/seduction04/01/11 02:54 AM
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yeah you started helpful, then dicked it up. With good reason i suppose. you are totally right, i basically became a yes man. It's like panicing when you have the giant fish on the line and breaking the line. You laughed at stuff that wasn't a joke, repeatedly as a way of defusing stress (imo) and it shows true, although i do laugh a lot in real life, i know i overdid the laughing and smiley faces. in what, a club? actually it was a bar, but the music was way louder than any bar i've been to, th…
/r/seduction04/01/11 02:50 AM
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unfortunately, very
/r/seduction04/01/11 12:55 AM
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Awesome. I want this shit tattooed on my arm This was mostly before your overtexting post, i have just waited to post this. WAY WAY WAY too much small talk. Holy shit too much small talk. Did I mention you are doing way too much small talk? I'm kind of like a dog in this sense. I can never get enough attention. definitely going to work on this one. You asked her out on a group date. shit, i didn't even think of it like that. how much time did you leave in responses to her texts? Most of the time…
/r/seduction03/01/11 10:39 PM
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it worked on your mother! ZING!
/r/seduction03/01/11 10:21 PM
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I have a life, i'm just so awesome at everything i do, it doesn't take as long, thus all the free time.
/r/seduction03/01/11 10:08 PM
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thanks. Yeah i'm hoping a real life example will help people, especially me!
/r/seduction03/01/11 10:01 PM
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She was visiting her family here from out of town. I didn't want to miss my window of opportunity - fail - thus the overtexting. That and its just in my nature i think. "similar images" you lost me...
/r/seduction03/01/11 10:00 PM
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Only if you have no personality Ouch man, just ouch...
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:38 PM
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you have no idea man. I should be more productive, that will help take sex off the brain!
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:37 PM
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great tips. I'll get this txt game down eventually. I text as if i were talking face to face, and that just doesn't work.
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:15 PM
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I don't know, i hit it off really well with the friends.
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:11 PM
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these are great. I'm bad about overtexting, i think i'll create a custom iphone cover with these on it!
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:10 PM
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I have gotten a txt since, but it's still pretty much dead. Also, some of the txts got cut off when i captured them. sorry.
/r/seduction03/01/11 08:35 PM
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Whatever you do, try really hard not to let this kill your self confidence. I've experienced this recently as well, and its hard to come back. First thing is you probably need to make a new friend that doesn't know your current circle. Hit up the bars, just start talking to everyone. I promise, one good night with a girl taking interest in you, even if it leads nowhere, will get you back on your feet.
/r/seduction03/01/11 08:01 PM
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not nearly a crash and burn. you got the kiss and no slap or drink in the face. Her friend was just jealous you didnt pick her. your failure here was that you didn't go re-engage. Walk away, recalibrate. get a drink, bathroom, whatever. Then come back full force, win the friend over and then start back up with the girl.
/r/seduction03/01/11 07:57 PM
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Please don't drop subtle hints! if he is like most of the readers on seddit, he will have what we call approach anxiety and will probably think you will turn him down. Just say something like "jeez whats with the long wait" then introduce yourself. He will bite. Girls that approach are hot, because your confident. do it before its too late and you kick yourself all week.
/r/seduction03/01/11 07:52 PM
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"And I see you are here with nobody"
/r/seduction02/01/11 06:40 PM
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with a joking tone. sometimes i'll do straight face, depending on the circumstance. it just depends on what you have built up with the girl and her sense of humor.
/r/seduction02/01/11 07:51 AM
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how do you excuse yourself without being an ass to someone you know for sure has a b/f? Like this
/r/seduction01/01/11 08:19 PM
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What you did was stopped caring so much about the results. Even though you basically told her to fuck off, it hooked because you were alpha in that moment. learn to take rejection and let it roll off your back. Move to the next person and try again.
/r/seduction01/01/11 08:16 PM
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1 Don't panic. In that situation, when someone moves into your conversation, engage that person as well. This shows your target that you can hold a conversation with anyone and are interesting. 2 This was your best. If you have nothing to say on the subject, change it. Like Jagermeistr said, this was the only one you hooked. examine what you did and do that more. 3 It sounds like you approached from behind. Never do that if you can help it. Its threatening, and they have to invest too much to tu…
/r/seduction01/01/11 08:12 PM
3

Their comments act in harmony though. You want to be aggressive because thats alpha, but alpha doesn't mean you fawn over them by showing too much interest.
/r/seduction01/01/11 08:06 PM
3

I did, I try to touch everyone i talk to. With the HB8(fur), I smacked her butt, and put my arm around her a few times, just a bit to tease her and keep her feeling the connection. I'll try to detail the Kino more in future FRs
/r/seduction01/01/11 08:03 PM
3

"You seem like you do this all the time." "You're just saying that to get in my pants."
/r/seduction01/01/11 07:52 PM
6

number 1 seemed pretty solid. jumping in the picture was a great move, and you probably had more confidence in this set because you had no interest in the girl. If you had done the same thing with set 2 you would have done much better. It sounds like you opened them just like every other guy in the bar would, which means they probably shot their defenses way up. I think you were there too long, even though the conversation was probably good if you kept talking for an hour and a half or so withou…
/r/seduction31/12/10 10:51 PM
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Actually a lot of what I've seen on seddit, as far as FRs go is not at the club. It's usually at bars where you can at least hold a conversation. Club pickup is a bit different, where its more about sexuality and getting close fast. Read up more, and apply only what you think will help you. Not all of it is going to stick with you personally.
/r/seduction31/12/10 08:07 PM
4

i have a similar problem that i've had to work on. Excess Either getting too drunk or high to function, never works. Never be more gone than your target. I've had to put it into perspective: What am i there to do? Meet women or get blasted, because you can only choose 1 and be successful. so far so good. lets see how it works on NYE though...
/r/seduction31/12/10 07:09 PM
10

IT'S GOLD JERRY!
/r/seduction31/12/10 06:14 PM
1

Great Job! You succeeded where many have failed, myself included. If theres one thing that stands out, it's your taking the opportunities and running with them. Sometimes we hold back because we aren't sure, but you plowed through man!
/r/seduction31/12/10 04:40 PM
3

you could have gone to the game, then ditched for some sarging with your buddy at the beach
/r/seduction31/12/10 04:02 AM
2

say* "hey, you don't have to keep following me."
/r/seduction30/12/10 10:40 PM
1

yeah its a tough one to get past. My suggestion would be to spend the day tomorrow pumping yourself up. tell yourself that you are awesome, and any girl would be lucky to even talk to you. everywhere you go, act like you own that place. At the grocery store, on the bus, bar, etc.
/r/seduction30/12/10 08:29 PM
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I don't want to sound like a dick, but a genuine question i have is, how is being with friends going to get rid of your AA or kino troubles? That will just give you an excuse to not approach anyone, because you can be content with your social interactions. Just walk up to sets and say Happy New Year! with a great big smile, then ask them how its going. do this to many people until you find the girl you want to talk to. Hopefully she will see you doing this to a lot of people, then do the same th…
/r/seduction30/12/10 07:39 PM
2

I like this "RSD" process. It sounds similar to what I do now, but i would like to get the science behind it and get some more pointers. Any good reference material? She wants me to go back to her hotel but she won't leave her blonde friend alone. I hate logistics! You should have tried saying something like, "Hey, she can come too."
/r/seduction30/12/10 06:31 PM
2

I go out alone somewhat often, and the biggest point here is to befriend as many people, not just women, as you can. That takes the creeper vibe away for sure. Usually i look for sets of either guys or guys/girls to start with, instead of one lonely person.
/r/seduction30/12/10 06:09 PM
1

He's pretty great at the negs, but thats the only thing i saw that was any good.
/r/seduction30/12/10 02:35 AM
1

Don't try to get her out on NYE, it's a big social commitment that should be reserved for girls you've already slept with or have good social rapport with. shit, i guess i'll have to sarge during NYE then, shouldn't be hard unless everyone comes with someone. Maybe the masquerade isn't such a good idea if i have to sarge... The problem is, shes from out of town, so after NYE its back home for her.
/r/seduction30/12/10 12:30 AM
1

yeah i have, and its rough. I'll either txt tomorrow night or new years day, unless she does what you say and re-initiates. but then i have to be careful to not respond too quickly.
/r/seduction30/12/10 12:16 AM
1

I just learned this the hard way as well. She hasn't responded to my last txt, and im pretty sure its gone cold. I'm gonna try one last time for new years to get her out again. Any suggestions for re-gaining attraction after overtexting?
/r/seduction30/12/10 12:03 AM
1

yeah i agree, i think its because i haven't had sex in probably a month, and its getting to me!
/r/seduction29/12/10 07:43 PM
1

not sure, but seddit is more about picking up chicks. I'm sure the site is a scam to take your money and never deliver anything but the herpderp. why not save your money, read up here and use that money to go out where you will meet women?
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:50 PM
3

what if she doesn't read but listens to audiobooks?
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:47 PM
1

maybe r/sex is better
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:42 PM
1

This happens to me constantly! Usually i will just destroy their reason for being angry with some logical reason why they are so stupid, which makes them want to fight even more, then dismiss myself. I've never actually had to fight anyone, but i see the rage in their eyes, and i think this more than actually fighting them boosts your social proof.
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:40 PM
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I now teach privately. wait wait wait. so you're doing the same thing? i dont see the difference man. You are just putting your own spin on it to make a profit.
/r/seduction29/12/10 03:51 AM
0

it sounds like what happened, is you are one of the needy antisocial guys you talk about, then spent a lot of time and money on books and seminars and felt ripped off when it didnt work like they said. so now your way of lashing out is by sounding off on an internet board. right?
/r/seduction29/12/10 03:37 AM
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lol, ok. troll harder man. i do see the marketing aspect, and its genius. I personally would never buy anything relating to the subject, nor would i ever attend a seminar. but hell, if it really helps people come out of their shell, then why do you care?
/r/seduction29/12/10 03:23 AM
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this happened when i made my new acct for seddit. I emailed the mods and they cleared it up really quickly.
/r/seduction29/12/10 02:10 AM
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troll because people don't normally make new accts to go into a group that, generally has the same line of thinking, to ask questions or make statements that are obviously unfounded. also your new edit is i think just an attempt to piss more people off because it didn't work in your original post. I just find the pu community to be insightful and hope that i can help someone get over their fear of talking to people in general.
/r/seduction29/12/10 02:06 AM
1

ah, then you got it made man. just have her over again, and reinitiate the same playful stuff, earlier on. maybe wait for a sexual part of the movie, and move your face close to hers, if your cuddling this should be a cinch. if she indicates that she enjoys it, ie. she moves her face closer, or her breathing changes or she shifts her body closer to you, then kiss her on the cheek or neck. then its off to the races my friend.
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:56 AM
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a wingman/woman should help you DHV, and pull distractions so you can isolate. It should be clear that you are leading the conversation, and they should be chiming in to reinforce your status as alpha.
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:51 AM
2

well not sure where you're from but isn't there some jailtime involved with this? in any case, you fucked up man, in the nicest sense. If shes straddling you and rolling around on you, start kissing and doing heavy kino escalation. You probably could have escalated all the way within 5 minutes.
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:48 AM
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don't do what i just did which is not escalate. even if the circumstances seem insurmountable, find a way and go for it. if theres a hint of opportunity take it.
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:38 AM
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yeah, i didn't go much into it but, i hit it off really well with the friends, we played games and stuff, and had a lot of shared interests. This was the one thing i think went well.
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:08 AM
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i smell a troll. prepare for a shit storm either way. In short, i think it depends on the person applying the things taught. You can definitely become an undesirable person if you let it take you that route. I think for most people though, its a way to become better at dealing with people in general, as well as get the girls they really want in the process. Face it, women play the game as well, men are just finding a way to crush the game. as for your points: Going after women already in relatio…
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:53 PM
1

yeah, unfortunately i just get excited about attention. not that i don't get enough, but i just enjoy it. gotta learn to stay chill about everything. and if i was getting too much i would probably lose interest...gotta find that balance i guess
/r/seduction28/12/10 07:51 PM
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great advice. I see how true this is looking back. I tried creating space between texts, but i dont think i did very well. i think its just in my nature to respond quick to everything, emails, txts, phone calls. I really gotta change my frame on this piece.
/r/seduction28/12/10 07:49 PM
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i think you may be right about the texting. i have no problem talking to a girl in person, but texting just isn't my strong suit i guess. If she texts me back, ill try changing my text habits
/r/seduction28/12/10 07:28 PM
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A. I thought so, that and shes visiting from out of town and maybe she was worried about meeting someone she just met at a bar alone. B. I did this, I think it went well. We had a great time for sure, and the friends loved me, i just couldnt isolate her. C. I'm trying to do this now, but like i said, i'm not sure if i ruined my chances at this point by not pushing harder on the escalation.
/r/seduction28/12/10 06:56 PM
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Just go out. If its too daunting to talk to even guys. just go to be in the environment. even if you are just sitting at the bar alone, most of the time, another person at the bar will engage you. once you've done this, you should start building up confidence in the place you frequent. Then you can start small talking the bartender, or just other guys at the bar in a friendly manner. then move up to the HBs at the bar.
/r/seduction28/12/10 03:54 AM
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Nice FR! great tactic with the laptop and email.
/r/seduction26/12/10 04:28 AM
0

Mine was more of a logistical problem. with yours i think your best bet, is win the friends over first. demonstrate value to them, and that in turn will demonstrate value to her. she will look to her friends approval.
/r/seduction25/12/10 11:27 PM
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I would say you need more confidence in yourself, that you are an interesting person. Breakups can do this to a person. find a few topics that you can learn about and use them every time to keep dialog going. Also, to keep her attention, find out what she likes, and just run with that. they will be more prone to talk about stuff they like and keep the conversation going. And touch, lots of touch, not creepily of course. but if you ask a question, touch her on the upper arm.
/r/seduction25/12/10 09:35 PM
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