jamesgfilms Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to stop putting girls on pedestal, if it is clearly (objectively) obvious that she is way hotter than you are? U don't nid mussils wen u got sweg	/r/seduction	15/03/17 04:06 PM
2	Should I ask my close friend if he'd be ok with me dating his ex? No	/r/seduction	10/07/16 03:43 AM
1	I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden. Take up a dancing class. That is my advice.	/r/seduction	26/05/16 04:38 PM
4	Brutal oneitis - what if there really is no one out there as good as your ex? [Warning: pretty long] Travel, write, read, meet new people, do new things and, it will take time, soon you will see your girl was only perfect for the man you used to be, not the man you are today.	/r/seduction	21/05/16 02:22 PM
1	How do I stop thinking that im creepy when I approach girls? I overcame this initially by changing my outlook toward a girl. I found it easier to talk and treat to new girls like bratty younger sisters. It's a really old tactic probably from Mystery or somewhere I forget, but it works.	/r/seduction	11/04/16 02:35 PM
2	Tinder: Been using it for months, 0 matches. Do you live in London by any chance? I had little to no matches after around 3 months. Did a job in Scotland, was bored in hotel so started swiping. Had 15 matches in space on a couple hours. I was gobsmacked *edit spelling	/r/seduction	31/01/16 01:19 PM
1	Got rejected badly but at least I tried Sometime persistence pays off with some girls. If you get to speak to her again crank up the humour and let her see you are un-phased by her initial rejection.	/r/seduction	04/01/16 09:54 AM
3	How do people find their girlfriends? Expand your social circle. 2 of my past girlfriends i met through friends, or friends of friends. House parties are great as someone will know that pretty girl standing over there and can introduce you. Its a super powerful get outta jail free card when you can be social proofed and intro'd to a girl. They are generally a lot more forgiving than if you were a total stranger and you spend less time trying to justify approaching and actually getting to know if you have things in common and if you …	/r/seduction	04/08/15 06:05 AM
2	Approaching a group of women (2-3) solo Ok here's how I did this once to great effect. Walked into bar saw a table of three girls sat on next to another table with two blokes seemingly trying to get drunk enoufgh to get their party on. I made sure i was high energy as i walked in and made good conversation/joke with the barman and the barmaid bext to him to both warm me up and also to show 'this is who i am, i am the party' i then opened the two guys and said something like 'are you heading to (x) club later?' They luckily seemed cool…	/r/seduction	31/07/15 06:50 PM
1	How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you? I dated one... I have regretted it ever since. We split up after a few tumultuous months and now I find girls who are hb7 or even hb8 just don't compare.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 02:33 AM
1	Married with recent permission to game. Could use some honest advice. PUA = 'Pick Up Artist' Well I imagine if there were a simple solution to your dilemma, we'd all be using it! The best example I have seen recently is the movie 'Shame' Michael Fassbender just looks and holds his 'I want to fuck your brains out' gaze at a girl on the tube. I would probably be considered a creep for doing that. Depends how much like Fassbender you look I guess...	/r/seduction	18/05/15 05:56 PM
1	Married with recent permission to game. Could use some honest advice. Hey curious about how women as a whole reciprocate attention in Tokyo/Japan when opening? As a Brit I have found much American PUA advice totally blows balls because UK girls are way to savvy for most the entry level game. What would your end-game be though, I assume your wife wouldn't much fancy you bringing these hookups back to the marital bed...?	/r/seduction	18/05/15 02:02 PM
0	Do This And Own Any Bar You Enter Agreed, that kind of interaction is just social suicide in the UK.	/r/seduction	29/04/15 09:33 PM
1	Men: Have you ever been seduced by a woman? How did it turn out? Its only ever happened when I have been in Relationships, and while it felt incredibly hot and tempting, I am not the kind of guy to play around so nothing came of them. Since breaking up with those girlfriends, they are always the first thing I think about...! In the right scenario, it would be nice but I think it would take a fairly headstrong girl who wants you for functionality over anything else... If you don't mind being the 'tool' for the job I see it as a great thing for both sexes. I wi…	/r/seduction	23/03/15 02:40 AM
1	Text game is killing me Drop all that book game... and turn to what exactly? I don't use lines from books. Ever. If a phrasing or idea is actually good enough to run with then I spend time to mould it to my needs in my own words for my own unique situations. Everyone has their own angle on this and and no two situations turn out the same. The OP asked a resource for text game. I offered up a whole book on the subject. I feel I miss-sold it with that example that is in the opening chapter so please don't judge the whole…	/r/seduction	28/11/14 11:52 PM
0	Text game is killing me As I said clearly "I found that the UK girls do not respond so well to the Americanisms so it was rarew I was able to use a lot of examples given the book. I agree the 'good example' isn't at all worded how I would text any girl! My point being that but by taking apart the pieces of the structure of that reply: 1) sound fun 2) use a pet name or some term of endearment she will associate with you. 3) State a fact 4) Offer up some form of question etc etc etc I won't spell it out how different it …	/r/seduction	28/11/14 09:28 AM
8	Text game is killing me I agree, texting is more about setting up another social interaction rather than sexual escalation. My ideal method of seduction if you will is to lightly day game, number close early with little interaction but enough conversation had to pick up later. Then move to texting and if she replies I know she is keen which spurs me on to set up a date. Many PUAs will laugh or say that's long way to do things or whatever, but the method in my madness is that I need to know a girl is equally interested …	/r/seduction	25/11/14 11:48 PM
-2	Text game is killing me Texting is just another form of communication and as with speech, most forget that just like face to face speech, it also depends how and when you say things. As a general rule initially avoid things like 'lol' smiley faces and kisses at the end of texts. Seek out 'The ultimate guide to text and phone game' - by Braddock. It really helped my texting game 100fold, in fact it has been invaluable. (I am currently looking for something newer to incorporate instant messaging and social networks if an…	/r/seduction	25/11/14 11:38 PM
2	How do I ask a guy out? Usually if a guy is sat alone in a bar he is caught up in his own mind and ignoring the rest of the world... (Unless it is a bar tender you mean?!) Either way keep any conversation light and playful, anything really to open a line of conversation. If he is at all human he should become smiley and warm to you. Ask him 'is X bar around the corner is any good' and you can ask him then if he wants to join you at said bar. That's how have been asked out before and it really worked. If he is desponden…	/r/seduction	21/04/14 04:16 AM