jammybastard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What to ask in a discovery request?		jammybastard	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/24 08:18 AM

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1	What does your lawyer do for you? Here’s some random thoughts from someone 9 mos in with prob 6 more to go. 1. You’ve got to stay on them. They have limited bandwidth to deal with you despite the price. When you are in the office you are the most important person to them. That’s the time to ask every question. The minute you are gone you are one of many and their attn shifts to the next client. TL;DR Be the squeaky wheel if you want to get answers. 2.If they email you and you have questions about the subject put them ALL in the …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/25 08:19 PM
16	Merry Christmas Lads... You Got This 💙 I was in the gym at 6:45AM. 45min of cardio, then 45min w/ trainer. I’ve lost 85lbs since she filed in Feb and I found out about the other guy. I feel great. My adult kids are w/ her this week. I see them Friday. The future is not a given, but you still have to get up everyday and make it yours. One day at a time. Make the right choices for yourself. Stay strong.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/24 05:57 PM
5	Asked for divorce for the second time in 8 years yesterday. She said yes today. I was honestly hoping she would try to change her behaviour towards money, but just agreed. I'm sad and feeling hopeless about my future. Any advice? In a year you will realize how much being with her was holding you back and causing you pain. Best thing you can do is move on. Just fight for everything in the divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/24 03:46 AM
1	What to ask in a discovery request? Got it. Thx.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/24 06:57 PM
1	What to ask in a discovery request? Got it. No-fault state. I have representation. They asked if I had any specific requests, hence the post. Def know about marital waste. Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/24 10:16 AM
2	35yr old thinking about testing the waters. Read “Atomic Attraction”. That will get you ready for the dating world you are entering. Covers everything, how to navigate it & how to not repeat the mistakes you made in your marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/24 04:15 PM
1	Required reading You should read it. Everyone here should. It will explain why you marriage failed and how to succeed in the future w/ whoever you get involved with. The key: know the difference btwn what she “wants” vs “needs”.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/24 06:50 PM
2	Required reading Read “Atomic Attraction”.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/24 10:45 AM
8	Weight loss after being blindsided 310 April 1. Today 252. When I got married in ‘97 I was 215. My goal is 210 when I sign the divorce papers.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 05:45 AM
3	Have you considered celibacy? Read “Atomic Attraction”. You’ll discover what you did wrong in your marriage as well as what you need to do to be successful in the future.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 01:53 AM
8	Learning to move on Just remember…they know at least six months before they tell you or file. There’s no going back. Burn the boats.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/24 09:46 PM
2	Lift heavy shit Thank you. I’m still in the middle of it but the gym is the best part of my day.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/24 01:38 AM
9	Lift heavy shit I was 330lbs last Oct when she started her affair. I’m 262lbs today. Go to a gym 7 days a week. Get a trainer if you can afford it or take classes like Grit, TRX and Body Pump. Do both. Put in a couple of hours a day. Throw a lot of med balls.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/24 12:16 AM
1	Advise for Counseling/Therapy Take the pain and get it out. No secrets. Don’t hold back. Use your therapist to protect your sanity, protect you from being gaslit, protect from doing something stupid. Most of all align yourself with the truth. Own your mistakes, be accountable. Don’t listen to her. Get away as fast as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 11:07 PM