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I did leave an updoot you insolent bot, lol.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/22 02:58 PM
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OP, you’ve read through every comment on here. They all say divorce her, and they’re right. You’re in hell right now (I know, I’m there too) and it will be hard for you for a long time, but settle into it because you will become stronger and happier than you have ever been before. I know it doesn’t feel like it, but you will. This is a battle for your soul. Your self worth, your self love, your identity as a loving husband and a father are all on the chopping block. In this pain, get up and do w…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/22 02:54 PM
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This.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/22 02:43 PM
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I’m 4 months post separation and STBX texts me “And I woke up to a flat tire yesterday morning lol.” She’s just looking for your attention to fill a need. Her problems are not your problems. You have to rewire your brain, or you’ll always be miserable. I ignored the text btw.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 03:46 PM
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Also go to the gym. Quit worrying about women. Do you.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 04:26 AM
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Read The Rational Male.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/22 04:25 AM
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I have a feeling my kids are going to do the same thing. She’s been poisoning them against me and restricting my communication with them.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/22 08:33 PM
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I know the feeling.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/22 05:27 PM
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How are you paying child support but have the kids 55% of the time? If it’s 50/50 shouldn’t you not be paying child support?
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/22 04:56 PM
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Nope. Fuck that ring. It’s cursed lol.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 11:03 PM
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I’d like to add going Gray Rock on her ass. No texting, yelling, insults… no matter how hurt you are. It only hurts you and gives her the upper hand. Would you willingly give her power over you? Because you are. It gets easier. Hit the gym like a maniac, and evict her from your mind. It gets waaay better, but only you have the power to change it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 04:13 PM
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Sorry to say this, my friend. DNA test the child.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/22 05:10 PM
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It gets better. Gym everyday. Eat right. Don’t drink alcohol. Do this for thirty days straight and check back with us. 👍
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 05:42 PM
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Don’t get married foo
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 01:28 AM
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And what if you don’t have a quarter million? Just fucked, I guess.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 10:09 PM
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😂 Join the club
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 03:50 PM
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I agree with these guys, it’s gym always gym, seriously work out everyday. Your testosterone is stepped on and crushed with divorce, you gotta pump those numbers up. Date some girls, if you’re ready, if not that’s cool too, but don’t go too long. Also—grieve. Be alone, cry, punch the bed, whatever, get it the fuck out. I’ve been power grieving. Give me the pain, I’m going through it. The bitch was never worth it, you are. Action through pain. Go do it. You can and will, my man.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 03:48 PM
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THAT would have been a terrible mistake. I did that. I stayed for the kids. You’re lucky you didn’t have kids then. Trust me.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 01:50 PM
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I hear you. I’m not going to do it, but I was thinking about it. I hate that my ex is the last person I’ve been with, and I’m on a work contract in North Dakota so the pickings are slim to none.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 11:19 PM
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Lol, okay. Curious as to why you say that.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 11:14 PM
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Curious, how do you get an escort? I’ve never hired one, and I’m worried about getting busted. How do you know they’re legit?
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 02:57 PM
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I missed the question. I will do what I’m scared of. I’ll keep doing it. I’m staring at a bar bench right now. It’s Sunday. Sun. Day.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 02:25 AM
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I never expected support. My man, I will succeed. And I’ll give back. My man, I’ll give fucking back.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 02:20 AM
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I’m not religious, but motherfucker, that hit home.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 02:17 AM
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Dude, we would be good friends. I can tell by your post. Where are you?
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 02:16 AM
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My guy, your strength comes through this post. This is where I’ll be in good time. I’m fresh I’m raw, okay so what. I never could reach out for support before. I am now. Honestly, I was ashamed of it. Fuck that. I’ll take my support. When I’m better I’ll give back. I’ve looked back at my previous pain, prior to marriage to this bitch, and I conquered that. I’ll conquer this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 01:41 AM
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Right now I can’t part with them. I know myself, however. I meet an actual good woman. They’re gone, without a doubt, no regrets. What’s the difference from now to later? I’m weak now, truth. I know I will be strong later, because I’m doing the right things. I’m just fucked up now. Action will change things.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 01:35 AM
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😂 You and I would be friends in real life.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 01:29 AM
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I didn’t know that. Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 07:15 PM
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Ugh. That sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 06:43 PM
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Thank you. Yeah I never truly had the love and acceptance part. It must be amazing. I hear what you’re saying. I’ve been hitting the gym, reading a lot, and just trying to take good care of myself right now.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 06:25 PM
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I will level up. Got to keep pushing through.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 06:17 PM
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God I hope so. Today I wonder what woman could ever possibly love this broken man that cries every day. Thanks for what you said. Hit me in my heart. I don’t want to be this emotional anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 06:16 PM
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Good point.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 05:11 PM
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Great idea.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 05:09 PM
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Yes, idk why, but I feel most conflicted with the sex pics. I hate myself for not wanting to delete them. I guess I feel strongly about all the pics. Guess I’m just not ready.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 04:59 PM
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Just got back from the gym to read this. Let’s keep it going MEN!
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 06:53 PM
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Spoke to my lawyer. It’s completely unfounded with no proof, and if she brings it up in court it will only hurt her.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 03:50 AM
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Yeah, I thought I was feeling ready to date again (two months out duhhh) Wrong. I’m super not ready. I hear you, it’s gym time and all that. I had been feeling better but now reporting my ex for child abuse has my anxiety through the roof. I’ll get through it though.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 03:22 PM
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Without a doubt
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 06:38 PM
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I see this term being overused, but she’s a classic narcissist. Attachment avoidant with abandonment issues. She literally makes up lies in her head about me to justify her actions and believes them. When she cheated the first time she told me she believed I hated her and that because of that it wouldn’t hurt me. So she said she hated me, and started sleeping with the other guy. When I found out she said when she saw my visible hurt she didn’t believe it was real, and was surprised at how good o…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 01:54 PM
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I reread your comment three times. I hear you.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 01:38 PM
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This is one of the most insightful answers I’ve read. Yes, the bruises are large. Yes, her mother attacked her. This past December she also punched her in the face and gave her a black eye, but I chose the “keep the family together” route instead of my daughter because I was a coward. I agree with your assessment, but here’s yet another abuse where I didn’t hold her (wife) accountable. And yes she’s going for my jugular and trying to crush me, and the well’s been poisoned for years evidenced by …
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 01:28 PM
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I am tomorrow morning.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 12:01 AM
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No I didn’t cheat. She makes up things to be angry at me about to justify her actions. She’s done this our whole marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 07:50 PM
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I hear you, and regardless of my feelings I’m going to do just that. It just shook me the overwhelming feelings I had, and was thinking to myself “Wouldn’t this strengthen my resolve? Wouldn’t this make me stoic with determination, instead of frightened that the actual power to do something to help my children and myself fell right into my lap?” So, overthinking I’m sure. Feelings and racing thoughts aside, I’m acting on this decisively.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 05:36 PM
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All of this. Police station was tomorrow along with call to child protective services.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 04:27 PM
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Well, he certainly hit the nail on the head.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 11:24 PM
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Go to the gym. Read The Rational Male and No More Mr. Nice Guy. It’s gonna suck for awhile. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/22 03:55 PM
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Awesome 👏
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 02:52 AM
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My wife cheated A LOT. Yes, it strongly appears that she is cheating on you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 01:48 AM
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Thank you! Yeah I feel like dirt.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 08:32 PM
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Will any doc prescribe it? I’ve heard a lot of docs won’t optimize you, or don’t know what they’re doing. Is there a way to do it online? I want to get on it, but I’m afraid of shrinking nuts and growing tits.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 02:06 PM
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How can we find out if the bill was passed? When will it be on Desantis’ desk for signing?
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/22 04:03 PM
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I know I have this in store for me. I already feel it now. I wonder to myself how I’m progressing so quickly through this. But now I’m feeling pressed inside to achieve my dreams. Something is pushing me forward hard.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/22 07:23 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately it’s normal.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/22 10:15 PM
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He got the BDE, my friend
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/22 08:38 PM
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Thanks so much for this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/22 07:58 PM
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Same here
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/22 07:07 PM
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I’m actually looking forward to the point where I don’t give a fuck how’s she’s doing, what she’s doing, who she’s doing lol. It feels like I’m rapidly headed that way. Thanks for the encouragement man.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/22 06:17 PM
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I feel like I have this more than ever now. A couple weeks ago felt like death and destruction. I’m not deluded into thinking I won’t have some more bad days ahead. My therapist was even impressed how fast I’m progressing, and it doesn’t feel false. Give a dying plant some water and put it in the sun, I guess, lol. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/22 05:32 PM
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I love this. It’s still raw for me right now, but I’ve pulled it together, have a plan, and am doing the right things for myself now. The “crushing” feeling is gone, and I see the light at the end of the tunnel. I’m beginning to see all the positives, and also feeling the relief of being out from under the oppressive weight of a manipulative, narcissistic, cheating spouse.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/22 04:25 PM
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Whatever you do, don’t stay, and don’t try to work it out. No counseling, divorce and go. Take it from me, I wasted ten years of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 03:44 PM
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Thanks man. I’m a good looking guy but somehow convinced myself no one will love me. It’s bullshit. Getting a lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 06:25 PM
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Who knows
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 05:45 PM
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They all look like me, so idk
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 05:45 PM
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I agree with this. Eviscerating myself on Reddit wasn’t for coddling. I’m looking for the things I know I’m blind to no matter how painful so I can change.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 05:12 PM
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I didn’t prey on anyone. I truly loved her. Period. I don’t care how it “looks” to you. Do you like dogs? Or do you go kick them when they’re down?
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 05:02 PM
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Thank you. I know I need tough advice that’s why I shared.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 04:40 PM
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Two people who fell in love is not stupid. It happens in life, maybe it never happened to your bitter ass who likes to kick when people are down.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 04:32 PM
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Preying?!! Fuck you!!! We fell in love with each other. Just fuck you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 04:29 PM
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