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Most people are busy and don’t feel comfortable just saying no. Just keep inviting her to join you somewhere fun, if they don’t respond after like 2/3 times then move on. I’ve had girls not respond at first too but that doesn’t mean it’s over
/r/seduction14/09/25 02:44 PM
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smoke weed but no sex? make it make sense ​ also, you do realize that there weren't marriage certificates back then right?
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:01 PM
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lots of girls in my generation live off trader joe's lol
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:09 PM
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my point was you should try looking for quality over quantity
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 11:41 PM
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huh, i thought red pill was about self improvement and being your best self. seems like you're not into the game anymore anyways. find "the ones that do work out would probably be a better fit for me." and you'll get laid consistently lol.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 10:07 PM
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Should we toss statistics and general truths of human behavior because of outliers and that everyone is a unique special prize? no, but some people don't realize that it's not 100% true and use personal evidence as objective truths Every single thing someone could say about a group would get countered by “but soMeone I know doesn’t think/do that” yeah, people do make that argument which i agree is inaccurate but way more people here use blanket arguments such as, women only date tall dudes, or g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:46 PM
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i agree, it's to some degree. I'm realizing i could've put more thought into my post to explain that i'm referring to "the spectrum of gender universalism and the specific ethno-cultural regional behavior" thanks for the response
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:38 PM
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but you can’t ignore the group difference and trends. not ignoring that, i'm saying that anyone who makes statements about every individual based on their gender is wrong. The stats show that women do better than men in modern society at least regarding dating I agree with this, but it's not all women do better than all men No woman is forced to live without sex. no man is either? there's opportunity for those who put in the effort. also, there's plenty of women who are sexless I bet if someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:27 PM
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huh? when did i say anyone was shitty also how is this ableist or bigotry? this isn't a hill i'm planning to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:17 PM
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On average men are taller then women. nope, that's a fact not a generalization lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:28 PM
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edit: sorry I read your response wrong it's not limited to objective truths but the subjective perspective of a few people on reddit seems to be far from a reliable conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:20 PM
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N count of 650 students = 96%?? Also it says prefers not refuse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:14 PM
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How is having an opinion the same as a definite conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:05 PM
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Do you have proof ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:04 PM
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This is the type of comment I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:02 PM
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not at all, but it's difficult to come to conclusions about most topics regarding sex/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:48 PM
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Furthermore, I don't think you can swap genders in this context because, what would that even be? "Women like masculine men" compared to "Asians like masculine men"?? That doesn't even make sense. It's more like "all asians do ____". racial stereotyping is wrong, so why is gender stereotyping ok? ​ 'All' colloquially to mean 'the majority that you'll interact with on a day to day basis' sure i agree i'm focusing on the "all" aspect, but "the majority of people you interact with on a day to day b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:38 PM
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sometimes, sure when it comes to sex/relationships it is the individual who should be scrutinized
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:38 PM
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sex and relationships can't be compared to "humans like salt in their food" because of complexity. Or here's a hot take. If I said "women are need to be suspcious of men they don't know" would you go on an MRA rant about #notallmen? i'd say why is it just men, why not "women need to be suspicious of people" or people should be suspicious of people Why is it that sex and relationships are the only area of life that people are forbidden from operating under the assumption that when you meet a new …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:11 PM
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a lot of statistics/studies are inaccurate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:43 PM
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honestly, it's pointless to argue about most dating struggles, since most people here just like to complain and refuse to question their own perspective (confirmation bias is fucking crazy here) we all come from different backgrounds/experiences and the world isn't black/white what might be a struggle to some, is an easy task for others depending on a lot of factors. ​ anyone that generalizes people by gender is usually describing what happens in their own life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:56 PM
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nope genders don't matter, you're just describing attractive people or charismatic people tbh, i'm average looking and i can bullshit my way into events or free things sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:18 AM
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think about it, you're approaching multiple women because you want and need women to give you attention. i pay rent because i want and need a place to live. you can disagree but why else would you do it? that neediness is a main factor in why you care that women are "shaming" you. and your overall mentality of trying to get laid is skewed through what i'm assuming is pick up theory look up abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:26 PM
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no one forces you to approach multiple women. you're coming from a place of neediness if you do that and it's unauthentic the solution is social proof, and like you mentioned it, mutual friends. anyways if you're going to do that, then you have to learn how to not give a fuck if people label you as "that guy". because that's exactly what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:59 PM
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your resentment is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:59 PM
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seems like you're generalizing based on your perspective. are you being honest about your resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:31 PM
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this is an ignorant statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:01 PM
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Idk, i dated a BPD woman when i was younger and didn't know better love bombing is a fucking crazy drug when you're new to the game
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:52 PM
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i think a major difference is that with online dating the people are actually looking for dates vs someone at the grocery store is looking for groceries.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:06 PM
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dating with an abundance mentality is fun that is if you like meeting new people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:47 PM
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sure, but a man focused on himself will do better with women in the long run vs a man focused on just finding a relationship people (not just women) will naturally gravitate towards you if you're living an interesting life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:58 PM
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if it's the end goal then what happens after the man gets into a relationship? since he already achieved his goal my guess is stagnation or letting himself go
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:46 PM
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not bad, but it shouldn't be the end goal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:36 PM
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yeah, people will help you if you're willing to admit your faults and learn. not a lot of people want to help if you're just complaining and shifting blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:40 PM
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i'm a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:24 PM
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another victimizing post from you, are you that bored? have you tried shifting your mentality? do you have anything else to offer besides complaints about women? anyways, you're generalizing and i could say that most men here openly say that all they're looking for is sex. even you admit that "plenty of men fit this description" also, instead of women don't owe you sex, it's more like women don't owe you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:16 PM
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A good relationship isn't the icing on the cake of a functioning life. It's the foundation on which to build a functioning life. i thought it was the opposite. you create a life that you enjoy (functioning) and find a partner that compliments it. you don't want to end up codependent on someone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:01 PM
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if you focused on yourself and created a life that others envy, then you could be asocial and be fine. but being in a relationship = social so do you even want a relationship if you're asocial?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:37 PM
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so you're saying you have low social IQ which can be improved through practice but you'd rather make excuses such as "social factors"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:20 PM
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i think you're experiencing the dunning-kruger effect usually, people who think they're smarter than others are often condescending and anti social also, smart people party too. your argument is basically, people who are more social get to meet more women. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:13 PM
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obese? no it's more like muscle fat / husky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:32 AM
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everyone should exercise most girls like the "dad bod" tbh don't base your ideologies off social media lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:46 AM
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i'm in stem, no women my age at my work lol good thing i have a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:26 PM
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backwards thinking, so much shit isn't "respected" anymore from history lol. why are you anti progression?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:48 PM
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from his comments, it's like he just wants to complain and get confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:04 PM
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have an abundance mentality and take everything as a learning experience focus on yourself first and create a life you want, then people will naturally gravitate towards you. the best way to learn is through failure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:27 PM
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as a man that agrees with the statement that most men can get laid if they try. it seems like your picking and choosing anecdotal evidence to support your claims. and the first two points you made can be gender reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:07 PM
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you're describing reality from your perspective, i wish you could see how the world isn't against you (highly unlikely lol) i didn't win because i didn't play? and if i did, i wouldn't expect to win. and i'm saying to get off dating apps and work on your social skills i never said it was easy, it requires effort. create a life where people naturally gravitate towards you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:33 PM
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sure i agree with that. so find a girl that makes it easy, they're out there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:30 AM
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there's so much victim mentality from your comments. I don't have hobbies because I'm trying to meet women, i do it because I enjoy them, and in the process meet cool people. and then these cool people introduce me to their friends. It's really not rocket science. You attract what you put out to the world man, think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:04 AM
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any social event? preferably related to his hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:37 PM
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well, the basics of TRP are just self improvement. he probably picked and chose what resonated with him. his life feels more fulfilled and complete now that he has found success in the dating market. i don't see why you would want to "de-radicalize" him people won't change unless they want to, you can't really do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:34 PM
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the better things in life require more effort
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:45 PM
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so are men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:28 PM
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do you have data that it's not? wouldn't you agree that there's a stereotype of people who use dapps? especially tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:25 PM
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https://earthweb.com/tinder-statistics/ "75 million people use Tinder every month." "75.8% of Tinder Users Are Male" https://www.businessofapps.com/data/dating-app-market/ this says that 323 million people use dating apps, which is less than 5% of global population idk i thought it was common knowledge that dating apps are skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:15 PM
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no, but those are the majority of the people on dapps versus people who don't use dapps, have a more equal distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:49 PM
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yeah, it's a subjective question but honestly, i think people with the 80/20 mindset are probably struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:45 PM
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dating apps don't represent real life though they're skewed by thirsty men and superficial women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:27 PM
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The average guy can find a date though, sounds like you’re describing below average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:30 PM
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but also the starving person isn't putting enough effort into getting food
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:23 PM
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idk, when i was a teen it was immediate horniness. not full hard-on but most interactions with girls had me thinking about sex during/after i'm pretty sure girls don't imagine fucking at least 50% of the opposite gender while walking around in public
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:37 PM
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sure, they delude themselves but they're also deluding the male population. ​ but how do you explain so many "straight" girls being attracted to other girls. you don't see this phenomenon within men. So basically, a lot more people find women more attractive, and naturally that scales their average higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:17 PM
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women on average put more effort into their looks. so based on looks alone, the average woman is more attractive than the average male, (not many people would dispute this) it makes sense that the average man is equal/similar to a below average woman initially. (hookups and etc) but then, personality and a bunch of other things become a factor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:03 PM
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huh? i'm a man and i don't expect anything. difference between me and you, is that you think you deserve someone you're too caught up in bullshit that "limits" you and making excuses. stop thinking that it's black and white, dating is a huge grey blob of mess. all your points can be gender reversed btw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:49 PM
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op gets married for 8 months and thinks he's a guru and can spew sexist bullshit lmao IMO, men are much better in distinguishing the physical from the emotional. lol you could've just said: girls with low n-count are less likely to leave because they have less experience and don't know when they're with a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:29 PM
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i think confidence is just not giving a fuck about others opinions. /r/howtonotgiveafuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:16 PM
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i think you're confusing aggressive with assertive. Yes girls like guys who will go for what they want. no they don't want guys beating/r*ping them also, toxic girls will go for toxic guys and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:27 PM
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sure there are people like that, but there's also celibate people it all balances out lol i just gave a number that seems right, you can fact check me idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:07 PM
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you obviously have no experience if you think this is true 30+ is an outlier it's more like 1-15
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:40 PM
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all relationship topics are anecdotal, just like your argument. You can learn all the game in the world and become wealthy, successful and be physically attractive but none of this matters in the end. I'd say doing all of these gives you countless opportunities to meet a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:06 PM
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lower your standards and find a fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:53 PM
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On the other hand, intellectual people are less inclined to have children. check out the movie idiocracy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:59 PM
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relationship with a narcissist fucked up my mental health, trp gave me some new perspectives and helped me grow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:37 PM
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get some dogs and you'll have bitches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:18 PM
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maybe lower you standards for reddit and even more for this subreddit lol don't know what you're referring to but, just don't take it so seriously, lots of polarizing opinions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:43 PM
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is it confidence, if you have to explain yourself? idk what you expect on a polarizing subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:41 PM
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She'd either stop answering like usual or just say no. well if she's going to ghost you anyways why not at least try to ask for a date. especially when it comes to OLD , you need to limit your texts, no reason to communicate beyond setting up a date. (you're just another number on those apps) and don't ask when they're free or beat around the bush. be assertive, set a date and time and ask if they want to join you. it weeds out the ones only looking for attention.
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:04 PM
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that first sentence doesn't even make sense and can be interchangeable. weird mindset dude, not caring about this alpha, beta, sigma bullshit is the most "alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:24 PM
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another option is to just say whatever the fuck you want (when you want) and not give a fuck about being "interesting" to other people
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:18 PM
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Idk your ig has something she doesn’t like ? Forget and move on
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:22 AM
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social media doesn't represent real life. also your mindset is what's holding you back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:46 PM
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social status, gym, beard/haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:45 PM
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Can I ask why you believe guys don’t have standards too? Most people date/fuck within their “percentile”. I’m an average guy and I def wouldn’t fuck a lot girls. Your point kinda reinforces that more women put more effort into their looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:10 PM
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the 80/20 rule only applies to OLD and for casual sex. and it's because generally women put more effort into their looks. while the "average" guy doesn't. so an average women is above average than men in looks (which is the premise of OLD) meaning you have to be an above average man to get average women. Anyways, my theory is that average men that are struggling, just don't put in enough effort. and it doesn't take much lol. ​ also, i think it's pretty even for both genders to find a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:04 PM
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would most men date her? maybe would most men fuck her? probably i think that's the difference. looks are subjective so your argument is based on anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:29 PM
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thing is women put significantly more effort in their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:17 PM
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Bro, stop making excuses. everything you've mentioned is doable. you say you want all these things but you're not willing to work for it. yes it's going to be hard, but don't expect things to change if you're unwilling to put in the work to change. it's really up to you though, it seems you've yet to realize that it all comes down to how much effort you're willing to put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:38 PM
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I’m a 31 year old man that’s never dated, never had a relationship and never had sex you can't blame an entire gender for your own faults, men also don't care lol. sorry but that's just how the world is, no one cares unless you have something they want. whether that be friendship/money/looks/etc that being said, you need to work on yourself and create an awesome life so that people will naturally want to be apart of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:31 PM
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idk, only my bpd ex ever asked about the girls i've slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:46 PM
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there's no point because based on your other comments you fail to recognize that real nice guys, and not "nice guys" can be bad boys and vice versa. the real key is confidence and focusing on yourself first. instead of blaming the opposite gender for traits that isn't gender specific or all encompassing. only a sith deals in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:22 PM
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well yeah, if you plan on having a long term relationship with someone with kids, you'll eventually be their parental figure. (depending on the children's ages) but the tinder bio you linked is riddled with red flags, so it makes sense she has some bullshit on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:28 PM
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Why are nice guys always the second choice after a woman has had fun with bad boys? LMAO the lingo you use makes me think you're a /r/niceguys honestly this could be cross posted there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:23 PM
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can i ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:31 PM
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thanks for the ego boost? lol how accurate is this? I didn't know i was in the 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:27 PM
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how is this self company if there's someone across the table from you?
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 05:36 PM
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I don't understand posts like this where it's generalizing a whole gender. you might as well just say "all men are trash". Only a sith deals in absolutes i don't respect anyone unless they give me a reason to, i act civil to everyone though. that being said i have friends from both genders, and the girls that are "one of the guys" are just easier to get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:04 PM
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validation and attention isn't true happiness though, just a dopamine rush
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:30 PM
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TRP is whatever the person gets from it. I found TRP after being in multiple relationships, it helped me get through a tough break up and learn to be more independent sure they talk about sex but a lot of trp ideas are basically just self improvement. also, you forget that TRP doesn't represent all men, just as FDS doesn't represent all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:24 PM
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can't generalize people, you might see more of these "mgtow, fds, trp, exredpill and even purple pill" people on reddit but in the real world it's not as prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:10 PM
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):
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:31 AM
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same reason men want to get married lol i swear i saw this question like a week ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:49 PM
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jeez who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:48 PM
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1960-1990 was pre internet era i'm going to say that people didn't have anything else to do back then (even more so). too many distractions nowadays. Also, i highly doubt the top % of men are filling out this bs survey edit: misinterpreted the point of this post, i agree that the average man gets laid more now because of accessibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:47 PM
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haha i did sales to learn how to talk to people too
/r/seduction16/06/21 09:33 PM
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7% of americans have no access to internet btw. https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/fact-sheet/social-media/ you can ignore what you want but it still exists and has effects plus the older you get the less social media you consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:44 PM
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Have you ever heard about Chinese evergreens?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:35 PM
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complaining gets you no where, adapt and overcome the system lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:08 PM
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jeez, the amount of bias in this post is almost infinite. based on your last paragraph i doubt anyone can change your mindset, but you gotta realize nothing is absolute. There is a good percentage of people that don't use social media / online dating. Stop constantly chasing your confirmation bias and get out of your echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:03 PM
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maybe there is no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:10 PM
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It could be “true” in your perspective since this is a subjective topic. If I agreed with op, I would just work on not doing things that would result in me being criticized. Or just not give a fuck about other peoples opinions. Instead of complaining without offering a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:34 PM
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bruh this is victim mindset Men criticize other men more than women lol and someone else already listed all the derogatory terms for women I will say that people tend to be more forgiving towards people who are attractive, (and there are more attractive women) but your prejudice isn't real. You're picking and choosing anecdotal evidence. both genders will be criticized if they're doing something wrong. Only a sith deals in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:25 PM
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dating apps/social media probably
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:53 PM
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people have victim mentalities and can't stand that they don't meet some requirements. people can do whatever they want, they don't have to date, they're allowed to pick and choose their partners instead of settling. it's usually the ones that complain about another's personal choices that are ignoring their own faults. Most people compromise their 'standards' when they find someone they really admire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:02 PM
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I'd change it to *Just be the best version of you we as people are constantly changing and as long as you're working on yourself and striving to improve, it will work out eventually. create and awesome life and people will naturally want to be apart of it. also, it's fine to feel down as you're in a transformative period of your life, i'm glad you're questioning your life and not just accepting whatever happens. good luck
/r/seduction12/05/21 04:58 PM
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I’d be happy but wouldn’t show it off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 07:25 AM
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Social media, I follow like 10 girls with an of, I just started seeing this more frequently and thought it was weird. The pay pig thing was a direct quote
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:04 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:02 AM
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Same, guess I’m getting old
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:00 AM
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Not mad lol just wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:58 AM
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Yeah I agree, I guess I just personally don’t think having simps is an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:57 AM
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This makes sense, never thought about it like this, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:01 PM
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models don’t do this, It’s only recently been a thing. It seems like the less attractive ones do this more but I don’t have data on that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:35 PM
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i would think that a successful female is optimistic and not thinking if this charming dude is gonna start beating you later down the line success is subjective and her definition of it could be finding a partner The answer to this is the same as "why do successful, independent, men ever want wives?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:52 PM
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who is society? Also, why is it their problem to educate others? An individual is responsible for their own knowledge. Shouldn't you be angry at the society that tells these "nice guys" that they should get sex for their moral mediocrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:39 PM
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like other people said "nice guys" aren't actually nice and are just faking it to get laid. I get what you're saying that there are women who are shallow/superficial, but same goes for the opposite. you're generalizing and making a purely anecdotal argument. for example: I can use the same argument with men, that men should be upfront about only wanting to fuck a physically attractive female. there would be less women with the mindset that "all men are trash" But why are you blaming women though…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:33 PM
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love was NEVER like what we're shown in films lol. get that out of your head first. we've evolved to this because people choose the path of least resistance. there are people that still date from real life interactions. such as mutual friends, hobbies, and approaching. An individual only sees what they're exposed to, maybe you need to broaden your horizons.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:50 PM
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where tf are you getting your biased opinions from? is there any data that support these claims? less drinking and drugs? doubt it lol this is some backwards ass thinking, you can't generalize an entire gender btw. i'll leave you with a quote as to why i think the general population is decaying. "Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:12 PM
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I think people in relationships are having all the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:20 PM
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nothing is ever 100% simping isn't even a new problem, it's been happening for generations, from both genders. you're just seeing this new wave of 'simping' more because of the type of media you choose to consume. the real world doesn't care about these things and no self respecting person would complain about getting 'shit from society'. everyone has different problems lol, improvise and adapt. there's nothing wrong with being a nerdy/awkward guy, live your life how you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:16 PM
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No shit but you added a bunch of extra fluff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:31 PM
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The real world doesn’t care about your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 08:21 PM
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probably, but there's something wrong with everyone, it's all subjective. what's the point of this reply lol, there's no substance. tbh you seem like a toxic beta that tries too hard to act alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:03 PM
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so you're saying it's your fault because of your genetics? huh honestly, from your replies you don't even want people to change your view. you just want to further confirm your bias. stop being close minded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:17 PM
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I somewhat agree, but some people are just anti social or not attractive. not always both plus you should work on yourself so you'll be the one "picking" not the other way around. Only a sith deal in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:12 PM
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well yeah, humans age at similar rates, some people just try harder to delay the aging process. (exercise, diet, skin care, etc). Really depends on the individual's lifestyle more younger women are attracted to older men than vice versa though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 09:50 PM
1

This mostly applies to boomers in the US :c
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:20 PM
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I guess you can fake it, but that'll take effort too and people can usually see through it. (eventually) The best advice is that you should focus on yourself, at the end of the day girls aren't the goal. Your own life is. Once I started putting energy into making my own life better, the confidence and girls came with it. look up outcome independence.
/r/seduction03/12/20 04:57 PM
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I think both genders usually look for people they find attractive to be their friends. Stereotypes are inaccurate and don't make up the majority of the group btw. As a male I've had girls stop talking to me because I rejected their advances and vice versa. Personally I don't look at gender when making friends, because it's more about common interests and humor/personality. Why would I limit myself like that? also there's different levels of friends, so it's not black and white. Most of my closer…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:40 PM
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as a person, you'll never truly understand what it's like to be another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:53 PM
1

just because a percentage of a group are more vocal/exposed, doesn't mean it's proportional to the overall population.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 07:46 PM
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um, you sound young so i'm going to just say to not base your life around social media. Also, I'm assuming you still want to pursue things with him so, deleting him would probably have an adverse affect. (if he even bothered to check) Yes go no contact and stop worrying about what he's doing and focus on your own life. You have to create an awesome life for yourself and not need others to validate you. You have to prioritize yourself instead of others. I read some of your post history regarding …
/r/seduction26/10/20 08:14 PM
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People like feeling needed but no one wants someone who's not independent and constantly needing attention. You're giving him "all" your attention because you want his attention (why don't you have other things to do?) You have to give him time/space to miss you.
/r/seduction26/10/20 04:43 PM
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there’s traits that you can change and ones you can’t. I meant that you can be born “ugly” and still find success.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:19 PM
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Well yeah the reason you can be ugly and still find success is because you have other traits that are positive. If you don’t look put together or take care of your physical health, you’re setting yourself up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:02 PM
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I'm an asian man Each race has different features and everyone grows up in different environments/influences. There's no way you can tell me the beauty standard of the west is the same as the east (south korea for example) especially for men. I agree some factors are universal as biracial (mixed) people are perceived as more attractive. But it's not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 09:50 PM
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I was talking about looking homeless/not caring about how you look. Like they're obese but look normal; plus they're on tv because it's different and not the "normal"? Idk about those midwestern towns but i'd assume they don't really have options. I was saying you can be obese with money/status, or no money/status but be skinny/fit. not both (usually)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 09:37 PM
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That's not entirely true, there's too many variables in determining attractiveness. that's why people have types? Like, some people think kim kardashian is a 10 and i think she's ugly af. Jessica is a 10 but eva green is a 6/7 imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 09:03 PM
2

Sure, but she'd be an outlier. Can you provide an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 08:57 PM
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what do you mean no? for example, name a bunch of celebrities you think are 10's and I promise you I think some of them aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 08:51 PM
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Honestly, this question is dumb and ignorant. Attractiveness is all subjective, you could think a girl is a 10 while I think she's a 5. Plus you can be "ugly" but have a good personality and still find a partner. Just don't look like a bum and be overweight (you can be either but not both usually lol). Stop basing your beliefs off the small percentage of people who decide to post on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 08:22 PM
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Ikr OP's just making all these assumptions about hypergamy cause he's been reading too much RP. There's good people out there and you can't make assumptions about the overall status of humans based on a small percentage people who decide to post on reddit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 09:41 PM
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Maybe in the distant future monogamous relationships might be the minority but it definitely won't cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 09:35 PM
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Do what ever you want lmao. The eye contact thing is also learning how to be comfortable and keeping your "frame" when interacting with people.
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:05 PM
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Parents in general are responsible for the majority of issues in people tbh. Too much love or not enough from either parent will stunt someone's emotional intelligence.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 05:50 PM
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I’ve experienced this and read so many versions of this story. It’s an absolute truth.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:59 AM
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If you thought it was over then why is she living in your head rent free? lol. It's been 5 months bro. honestly if she purposely did what she did and it wasn't just a coincidence she was trying to create a reaction out of you. (shit test) and you've proved you're beta in her eyes. Being left on read doesn't mean shit btw, people have other priorities and you weren't even dating. it really sounds like you were being needy/clingy. If she doesn't want to be with you, trying harder will push her awa…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:18 PM
1

Yes lol, ever heard of indifference? What she does shouldn't affect you? Especially on social media. Sounds like you've gotten emotionally attached to someone you aren't even in a relationship with. No one really likes a needy person. Abundance mentality man, you could've eventually sparked interest in the future with her, but you fucked that up. Move on.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:57 PM
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Lol this made me laugh ty, I needed this reality check too.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:48 PM
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lol, so you have found rp. Experience with women is a skill you can learn, you just have to put yourself out there and not be scared of rejection. Literally you have nothing to lose. In the end you'll regret not trying more than failure. Plus you learn the fastest through failure, don't be scared of it. It's all a part of life. The most successful people will tell you they have failed the most. Only you have control over your mindset and how you view yourself. Tbh no one else cares and their opi…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:38 PM
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You need to realize that the only "one" is you, at the end of the day self validation is 100x more powerful than external validation. Women shouldn't be the priority but an addition to your already awesome life. You are the #1 priority always, it's not selfish, it's life. Seeking validation from a partner only leads to breakups. trust me. Focus on yourself and building your own confidence, and people will naturally gravitate towards you. "Don't worry about finding the right person, Focus on beco…
/r/seduction08/10/20 07:29 PM
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Sounds good, just wondering why lol. Easily could've had sex on 2nd/3rd "date" but she told me she was on her period both times. So I just didn't try to force it.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:58 PM
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how did I not make a move? we did everything but sex?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:55 PM
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hi, just letting you know that you should try not to put so much energy in responding to everyone, especially the trolls. Most of the time people won't change their beliefs based on what they read on reddit. So arguing with them really has no purpose and is often detrimental to mental health. (like the other dude said, don't waste your time) Unless you enjoy it i guess lol.
/r/seduction06/10/20 05:47 PM
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It's funny cause he's red pilled and she thinks she's different than other girls. I feel like Op's post is pretty basic and the second half is for long term relationships, but even then she doesn't realize that girls will get bored eventually if the guy does all these things. Who knows though, all dating advice is speculation because everyone is different and attracted to different things. Just focus on creating an awesome life for yourself and people will naturally gravitate towards you.
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:39 PM
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good read, been applying some of this recently to my life and it really does work. Basically just focus on creating an awesome life for yourself and people (not just girls) will naturally want to be apart of your journey.
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:14 PM
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Glad to see you're making an effort. Just remember no one's perspective is ever 100% right.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 06:53 PM
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Do you think this applies to low value girls or only high value ones because they have options?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 05:19 PM
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You learn from trial and error, just gotta get out there and do it. The more you're exposed to it the less "pressure" you'll feel. change your mindset of putting girls on a pedestal btw, they're just people too. Instead, consider what they have to offer besides their looks. Learning how to become friends first is usually the best option. Also, don't shy away from saying your thoughts that are controversial just because you think a girl's cute. honestly just focus and work on yourself, girls/guys…
/r/seduction10/09/20 04:29 PM
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In the same boat, 24 and on track to have a good engineering job. Only difference is that i can't find anyone worth pursing and the random hookups / flings is getting kinda dull without an emotional aspect to it. It all depends man, a lot of girls are boring too. Don't be afraid to be yourself, the right person will accept you. If you think your life is boring you can change it, hobbies are just as important as social proof. The more you try the more experience you'll get, just gotta step outsid…
/r/seduction02/09/20 05:28 PM
2

abundance mentality
/r/seduction06/08/20 08:30 PM
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Sure, if you're in a LDR it would with the wrong girl. Or she's a thot but I'm not always trying to fuck those kind of girls. That's why I said the right girl. Confidence is basically the ultimate comfort with yourself. There's usually no attraction without comfortableness. Are you saying if you're calm, easy going, and fun (comfortable to be around) girls wouldn't be attracted to you? How are you initiating then? If it's not making a girl comfortable enough to be with you? I get that this sub's…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 11:19 PM
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I was gonna reply with something similar to this tbh, good points. It's not bad to open up and talk about problems, just don't lose frame and show weakness. I've opened up to plenty of ONS, plates, and gfs, it really depends on the type of women they are. In my opinion, with the right girl, it creates more comfortability. I feel bad for some of you guys that don't have anyone to open up to emotionally. Some of you view it as kryptonite, if you can't talk about it with your bros or girls who tf i…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 07:05 PM
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Who hurt you lol, never checked out mgtow before and don't really care about which is better. Agreed, people should think for themselves and take responsibility for their actions. most people don't realize that humans don't have original "ideas" that their beliefs come from an outside influence. And most people just love complaining without ever working on their problems. other than that idk, i'm sure there's incels in both.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 10:16 PM
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I mean, there's more to the story. I think it's because people are still making money from her videos and she's not getting any royalties. I'd be mad if people were making money using my face/name while not receiving anything from it. I don't think she regrets doing it or wants to "erase" that part of her life because she's still doing sw stuff, but more how it played out. Who cares tho.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:06 PM
1

In middle school girls are already sending nudes and fucking Pretty normal tbh, i remember getting nudes on my flip phone in 7th grade.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 10:13 PM
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Yeah, your question is kinda vague, but i guess that's the gist of it. (there's so many variables tbh) Also, your dad had more time/experience. Guessing you're young af still, but it sounds like you're doing fine. Could work on being more confident and upfront.
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:01 PM
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too many simps nowadays, harder to get girls when they can get attention wherever. Also quality over quantity, can 100% guarantee a good amount of the girls your father was with weren't attractive by your standards. (speaking generally) but most people can get girls if they wanted. they just don't want ugly ones lol.
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:05 PM
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the more you get rejected the more you don't give a fuck what others think.
/r/seduction29/04/20 09:12 PM
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basically most humans want validation from others and don't want to be alone but we're supposed to be "independent" people. We grow up being told that marriage is necessary, but we also don't want to settle. Relationships are for mental/physical/financial support but the intimacy from a partner is way different from friends. For me it seems people are using each other for their own needs, making mistakes until they find the right person that fulfills all these needs. (i've def done this) No one …
/r/seduction15/04/20 11:34 PM
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