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It allows you to take temporary custody in the interest of your daughter
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/21 11:03 PM
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50/50 is the hill to die on, but since she didnt take a 60/40 in her favor deal fuck her, make it 50/50 everything
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/21 04:58 PM
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Welcome to the "patriarchy" just show them your male privilege card! J/k have your attorney do an ex parte order to get your daughter sounds like she went TRO on you and that fucks things but it hasnt been approved yet? So there is hope, do not let her get that TRO and do not be alone with her typical cluster b personality disorder shit, I swear like 80% of women have them or something, what a shit show, I'm sorry you are going through this, I was basically the primary parent for my 2 and she ma…
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/21 04:57 PM
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You should get 80k and STOP BEING NICE bo one is going to be nice to you, tell her to refinance the house in her name only and pay you 80k stop fucking around and screwing yourself
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 11:26 AM
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Let me strongly convey to you how much the sister is not what you imagine she is and you are idealizing her 110% she would do the same shit to you as your wife if you married her, she is just one woman among billions! There are so many other girls go find one that is really right for you and dont settle for mediocrity, there is another intelligent beauty waiting for you somewhere
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 02:47 AM
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You are getting anxiety because you are ignoring red flags because of your neediness, why in the hell would you ever cohabitate with such a woman? Kick her the fuck out and make her get her own place and focus on yourself, if she isnt ok with being a FWB while you focus on yourself then it's an easy way to see her actual feelings for you
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/21 04:30 PM
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You are getting anxiety because you are ignoring red flags because of your neediness, why in the hell would you ever cohabitate with such a woman? Kick her the fuck out and make her get her own place and focus on yourself, if she isnt ok with being a FWB while you focus on yourself then it's an easy way to see her actual feelings for you
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/21 04:29 PM
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Yes, and it sucks my ex also seems to fit the sociopath guidelines well, it's a nightmare
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/21 04:47 PM
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I've been through it too brother, it's amazing how they will use the system to their advantage and face no repercussions it absolutely sickens me
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/21 12:00 PM
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She's not "conflicted" at all she wants other dicks inside her and she wants you to be her little bitch errand boy while she gets plowed by "the chad that got away" dont be an idiot cut all communication with her and speak to a lawyer asap your marriage is long over
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 02:14 AM
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Read "when I say no I feel guilty"
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:37 PM
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The "black pill" is voluntary celibacy it has not a thing to do with dread game which should always be subtle and implied because women naturally dread every man they are with if they are attractive enough
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/21 06:28 PM
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Dread is implying to your wife through your appearance and grooming and habits that you have options and later if that doesnt work, flirting and gaming women in front of her and if needed just get a girlfriend and tell her that's how it's going to be (that will lead to divorce or her capitulating and you having a harem) lol
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/21 11:59 PM
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Start dread if you want to try but its probably too late
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/21 11:43 PM
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Lmfao gold
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:28 AM
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Need a lawyer to file an ex parte motion to get your kids back in the marital home asap
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/21 09:44 PM
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Work on staying out of your head and into the Interaction, if you do find your thoughts wander use positive words about yourself, tell yourself she is loving it, feel her spasm during orgasm, tell yourself you are in control of her and you are making her fee these good feelings, just be sure of yourself through the whole process, I just do whatever I want, change positions grab and restrain an arm here or there, think of ways to fold and hold her then just enjoy for yourself her submission to yo…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 04:58 PM
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You continue to enjoy that while guarding your commitment from someone not worthy of it, when she tries to have "the talk" you just say it's too early and you value the time with her but arent looking for a serious relationship right now maybe in a few months, repeat until the plate breaks
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:23 AM
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Just fuck her and dont be exclusive and dont expect much more from her
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:19 AM
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You said it yourself with your ex it was just "natural" so get out of your head, when you are with a woman and find yourself hamstering just make yourself stop and redirect to what you feel in that moment directly
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:05 AM
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Problem #1 only approaching 2 girls in a year!
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:01 PM
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You stop putting pussy on a pedastal and work on living an attractive life
/r/seduction24/01/21 11:00 PM
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The way of the superior man, by David Deida
/r/askTRP23/01/21 05:10 PM
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Focus on a worthy purpose and mission in life and women will love you, never let them think they can sway you or alter your course and they will adore you, slip for a minute and they will leave you, women love men, they just love in the moment and it's not guaranteed for life its transient and pure, just enjoy the present moment
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:50 AM
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Always attempt to love the way women do, which is in the moment and with presence, you can never force a woman to love you and stay with you, but the less you care about keeping or losing her the more she will be into you, it's the eternal paradox of love, remember she is never yours it's just your turn with her and just enjoy the present moment and when she wants out dont cling to the past, have abundance mentality at all times, there are always more women to meet and know and love
/r/seduction19/01/21 04:35 PM
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Almost all argumentation strategies of leftists and other insane types are feminine argumentative strategies, which rely on non linear non rational and non logical perspectives and techniques, meaning most people cant even argue a position without resorting to female argumentation tactics such as goal post moving, insults, non sequitur fallacies, labeling, grouping, out group shaming, etc it's an example of the low IQ of the average person and the (success) failure of public schools combined wit…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:44 PM
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It's best to not validate a woman you are pursuing because it puts her on a pedastal and destroys frame, once you've had her a little validation builds comfort, I always tell a girl shes doing it well if she is and even use dirty talk to encourage her to be nasty as she wants, it works too
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:45 PM
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Hands on hips, lead her, look in her eyes, you will know if she wants a kiss
/r/seduction31/12/20 10:42 PM
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Heres my strategy in reference to that thinking, I give love anyway without worry about if its reciprocated, I make invitations to women to join in my awesome life and I love like it is my last day on earth (because it could be), I make moves even if I'm scared or nervous, I always assume attraction and wait to be rejected (part of being a man) and I ask for what I want to happen to happen, the last thing is to have an abundance mindset and go with the flow mindset
/r/seduction16/12/20 04:14 PM
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Everything that ever happened to anyone began with a thought, was put into motion by the universe, and at the right time ACTION is taken to bring something into being, that process of thought -> creation is called the law of attraction and yes it works if you understand the mechanics of it
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:23 PM
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Ram Dass explains it well in this https://youtu.be/5mCDfB_nGFU
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:20 AM
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Shouldnt have bothered, leave the trash by the curb
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/20 01:53 PM
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The guy who runs the 21 conference brought a female reporter to a guys hangout to ambush rollo because he is a shit stirrer and is a purple piller who cant comprehend the red pill truths. Basically he went PC and rollo cut ties because he isnt truly about the masculine renaissance like he says hes a charlatan who is capitalizing on mens collective weakness at the moment.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:12 PM
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Ashwagandha root often, occasionally 5-HTP
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:26 PM
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Work on fulfillment only from your self love and not depending on outside validation first then you can try to be with someone else, I recommend 5 grams mushrooms and darkness
/r/seduction01/12/20 12:59 PM
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Sack tap!
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:18 PM
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You have anxious attachment style, you may feel like she doesnt like you but she probably does you just need more affirmation from her constantly
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:24 PM
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Among overt narcs yes but covert narcs are overwhelmingly female so in reality the numbers are similar percentages
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:23 PM
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Congrats bro
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/20 11:21 PM
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Live for yourself and your son, he needs you! Try 5-HTP and Ashwagandha extract and keep working on yourself Find a group hobby where you can make some social circle improvements, this will help you get out and enjoy life a bit Talk to other women, realize that although you love your wife and always will, she wasnt a unicorn and the only woman on the planet that can be your companion; there are 3 billion others who could love you and maybe even better and in a more fulfilling way
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/20 02:29 PM
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I've always had positive experiences, I'd say they helped me to become more assertive which was a problem for a controlling bitch to handle so they helped me make some decisions which lead to nearly Rambo style destruction of my relationship and my simping for an abusive bitch, also around the time I was looking at my first motorhome I had a perfect night to trip with a friend, the insight and thoughts from that night helped solidify my thinking and I'm typing this from my motorhome right now as…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:18 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to listen and respond, I miss my kids bad but I cant go back to her
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/20 03:00 AM
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Tldr: become your own mental point of origin
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 12:08 AM
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Don't worry I told her I would never hurt her and I meant it
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:22 AM
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I think you are correct, if she really cared she wouldnt have done this to me in the first place, dont even know how many times I told her I would never harm her, it was like she was trying to establish me as an abuser in her mind for years prior to this bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/20 01:16 AM
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Thank you so much, I needed the brothers here to give me the proverbial kick in the ass and stop being sentimental, I'm not allowing her back into my life, it will be really hard but I'll survive somehow
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:14 AM
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True, thanks for the advice and keeping my head straight, I posted here because I needed a reality check and not to have false hope for romance and lovey dovey bullshit, I have been ultra careful to not break the order so far and its only going to show how evil she is in the long run, even this revelation that she wants to reconcile is likely because she is getting stressed having the kids 24/7 but I'm not falling for it!
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/20 01:11 AM
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Yup, sometimes they prove they dont really care about the kids, they are just a symbol of her reproductive success and she really doesnt view them as human beings but rather an extension of herself, just know that wanting affection and intimacy is the normal human reaction and doing what she did is not normal, keep your chin up bro!
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/20 01:08 AM
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I just miss my kids bro, I dont miss her I posted because I knew most would call me a fag and set me straight and get me out of my sentimentality so thanks
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:21 PM
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It's more like my brother got me hoping for a second that things could be normal and I could see my kids everyday and I know you guys will give me shit and set me straight (my bro is very blue pill) So thanks
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:01 AM
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We had a mediation scheduled and it was canceled because of corona, my attorney is trying to get one that does zoom mediation scheduled by july hopefully, I dont speak to her at all except email about the kids per court order but even if it wasnt I still would not speak to her after what shes done
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:33 AM
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It's not my choice we had a mediation date scheduled then courts shut down, my attorney is trying to get one scheduled with a zoom mediation via the internet
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:30 AM
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Yeah that's the plan, thanks for your advice, you are right
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 04:28 AM
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Its NH so it's slightly better but yeah I think everything you said was dead on, my bro got me thinking sentimentally but I needed a kick in the proverbial ass to realize it's a bad idea because my first instinct is that it's a bad idea, first option is to try to get my home back, second is a build a home, third is a mobile/modular, fourth is apartment, but realistically I'll be I'm an apartment first because I need to get closer to where I work to minimize travel time and cost Thanks for the ad…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 04:26 AM
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A few people have said that to me, she would be deserving of a painful death but I'm taking the high road here, my kids need their mother, even though she's a cunt
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:51 AM
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North of boston on the coast $$$, currently commuting 30 miles inland but the apartments are no cheaper here than where my job is and I feel like I'm wasting gas money and time when I could just get a studio and have a 5 min commute again but my current situation is a free room with family but it's not going to last forever so I'm going to have to make a move sooner than later My son is about to turn 10, daughter about to turn 12, I feel like this important time is slipping away and it may take …
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 02:47 AM
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That's the plan, maybe someone told her that and that's why she wants to pretend to be nice or she is worried about losing what she has, I want my kids 50/50 and my house, she can have everything else I dont care, the thing that started all this mess was a conversation where I told her she was going to be forced to mediate, forced to pay support, and forced to give me 50/50, she didnt like that and therefore started the bullshit she is currently doing I have a lawyer and hopefully will have a me…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:38 AM
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I dont know if she definitely coached him but he told his school counselor things that were not true so I can only assume, in the order she said things that happened but were exaggerated to make me seem dangerous, like how I tried to talk to her in the bathroom about not involving the kids in financial matters and talking negatively about me to them, she said I "trapped her and wouldnt let her leave" she was "trapped" for all of 30 seconds, not that the judge cared, I was the villain Thanks for …
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 02:31 AM
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Thanks, I don't feel like I have my shit together either tbh but I'm working on it and trying to stay focused and positive about my future, sometimes it seems overwhelming and bleak, I'm trying, thanks for the advice
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 02:25 AM
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I feel you, the guy is known as a notorious player around here for pumping and dumping married women and having multiple babymamas, I think I mostly feel this way because I miss my kids and my brother said "she filed for separation, and you havent filed for divorce, so what do you want?" I talked to my attorney about it and she said it doesnt matter and to file to convert after the agreement is in place for parenting and asset division etc, should I press my attorney to file now and get it movin…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:22 AM
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Thanks for giving me some advice anyways even if you didnt read it, you are right and it's what I've thought all along but theres a part of me that wants the old life back, mostly because I have seen my kids a handful if times in 5 months, maybe you dont have kids so you wouldnt understand, I would and have suffered for my kids for the last few years because I thought I could better serve them in the marriage even if I was miserable, maybe that was wrong
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:18 AM
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That's how I've felt through this whole situation but I still have that sliver of reminiscence for the family life and having a wife that was mostly sexually satisfying except for when her feels caused her to reject me, which was mostly my fault so I understand now what the main issues were 1: I was pedastalizing her 2: I was substituting anger and aggression for true dominance and leadership 3: I realized the above and tried to change it years too late 4: I am terrible at containing my emotions…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 02:14 AM
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That was my thoughts, it's all the same shit with all of them, I told her many times that we just needed to work together becauseI saw this coming, she seemed to not care but now that she has gotten (likey) pumped and dumped by her first player bf and seen how hard and stressful it is to be alone she maybe is reconsidering her choices, I will not make any move until she practically begs me and apologises, also I think I need at least 2 strange pussies on my dick before I will feel right even ent…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 02:08 AM
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What do you think my best option is going forward? Build on land, modular on land, trailer park, or apartment? Or fight for my house until it bankrupts me? Fyi a 2 br apartment where I live is 53%-65% of my take home pay, second job at night? I am feeling lost and without a plan at the moment, prob going to try and find a studio which will be slightly cheaper but it will still be hard, no health insurance, no fun, no eating out, just the basics and saving for any troubles that arise and that's i…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 02:02 AM
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What she did to your kids was horrible and 100x worse than you seeking intimacy and affection from other women, you have needs and you tried to tell her she wasnt meeting them, she didnt listen so it's as much her fault as it is yours, my story is very similar except I never cheated but a few women were very interested in me and it boosted my confidence enough for me to stand up to her a few times, my sentimental side always caved and forgot about it the next day though, it seems like you did yo…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/20 01:54 AM
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Try 5-htp and ashwagandha extract
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:53 AM
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Shibari rope techniques learn chest harness, double column, box tie, hip harness etc
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:59 PM
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Rage is how I describe my feelings for women, I do have a counselor and he says to focus on women I know who are good and not think they are all toxic, trouble is I dont know many that arent, it seems like a small minority and I'm mostly angry because they are following thier nature, I feel like men are taught and expected to overcome our nature and women are excused when they follow theirs, it makes me really pissed off and I think I'll never be able to have anything but meaningless flings and …
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/20 08:57 PM
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Thanks, I am doing those things and will continue to do them, you are right it definitely all helps, just got a few more books in the mail, I work out daily usually, guess now I'll have to find an apartment too but I an temp unemployment, due to covid, but should be back to work in a week or two, then have to worry about moving my stuff and if my brother will help me with his truck, all I have is a bed and some clothes, so I'll start from scratch and see if I can get my house back or get some mo…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/20 10:39 PM
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It can be anyone that my ex agrees to, dont know who would help me out my other brothers maybe? Not going to be able to have an overnight but I may be able to have a day trip for hiking or something because theres not much else going on but the broken ankle puts that out of the question til at least august, I hate myself but I'm going to keep trooping for now, maybe I can see them soon for a few hours if I ask my other brothers
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/20 10:28 PM
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Its court ordered because there was an unfounded dcyf case but the kids were exposed to fighting between myself and the ex, the fight began because my supervisor wanted to take her to the hospital right away and I wanted to wait and see if it was just a sprain, not wanting to expose her to a hospital and have them take her alone as they wont even let guardians go into the hospital now only patients, when she yelled at me initially I told her to leave the room and calm down but i said "you are cl…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/20 10:23 PM
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Its court ordered because there was an unfounded dcyf case but the kids were exposed to fighting between myself and the ex, the fight began because my supervisor wanted to take her to the hospital right away and I wanted to wait and see if it was just a sprain, not wanting to expose her to a hospital and have them take her alone as they wont even let guardians go into the hospital now only patients, when she yelled at me initially I told her to leave the room and calm down but i said "you are cl…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/20 03:44 PM
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My daughter did have a broken ankle, I am a horrible person and now everyone hates me, my supervisor has said she wont be supervisor anymore because I opposed her at first and wanted her to stop screaming and scaring my daughter, I feel like shit, my ex is going to use this against me, she is also saying that my daughters ankle was bruised immediately when I saw no bruise only swelling, my supervisor supposedly took a picture to help my ex with her destruction of me and agreed that it was bruise…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/20 06:46 AM
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I've tried to ignore both my ex and the supervisors emotional tirades, the supervisor tonight seemed hell bent on escalating screaming and demeaning me as a parent and claiming she was responsible for my child and I was not, this pissed me off but I did remain quite calm, it seems that from my brothers statements he kept bringing up things from the past that wer not even related to try and justify to me that her behavior was because of my past faults with her which doesnt even relate to today an…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/20 05:16 AM
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/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:49 AM
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Bitch better have my money amg
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:48 AM
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If you can make it to Saturday then you can try to make it until the following Saturday, amd so on, so do this if nothing else but for your kids, they need you! Four things, they are free or very inexpensive: 1: work out, lift, calisthenics, jogging to the point of exhaustion DO IT TODAY AND EVERYDAY! 2: 5-HTP 200mg at bed time 3: ashwagandha extract 500mg-1000mg in the am 4: macuna puriens, a dopamine precursor, try it mid day every other day at first Do this for a month and check back, we are …
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/20 04:25 AM
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She fucked another guy while you were working your ass off and trying to provide for your family, she betrayed you when she was supposed to be home caring for your child, she couldnt keep her legs closed and use her vibrator for a few months, kick her ass to the curb! She doesnt deserve you!
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/20 01:29 AM
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Read books, listen to Patrice O'Neal on youtube, lift iron and calisthenics, help my brother with home improvement projects, help family with auto repairs
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/20 02:13 AM
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NH, it's pretty good but still biased toward women I'm afraid, she is going for at fault divorce for "excessive cruelty" because I called her cunty once 2 years ago and called her a bitch when she was being abusive to me as well, we were scheduled for mediation and it was canceled but even the week before mediation she had not given my attorney any financials and I think she had not intention of doing it, the question I have is if I should estimate and include her stuff in my FA or only my stuff…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/20 11:25 PM
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Another quick question to throw out there, last year we separated finances, I signed paperwork to remove her from my accounts and credit card, she filed the accounts and tossed the credit card removal, so she was still joint owner on my credit card, this January I retained my lawyer and she saw it and a few weeks later she canceled my card, I was trying to pay it off and so I didnt notice until today when I went to make a purchase, I just used another card, so it's fine, but she is an employee o…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/20 11:21 PM
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200mg of 5HTP at bedtime, and work out to exhaustion everyday if you can or at least 4x a week that helps me a lot, still wish I would drop dead at times but I refuse to off myself because my kids need me around, as for the pain I just meditate tht I would rather be alone than stuck with someone who doesnt love me that helps a bit too
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/20 03:53 AM
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Shes not sure if her new relationship is going to work so she isnt letting go of you....yet
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/20 11:59 PM
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Dont worry about it bro, for example 120,000 people die EVERY year in italy from pneumonia, current co-19 deaths are 10x lower but the media wants to spin it like this is the bubonic plague, its not and the young and healthy will most likely get it and have no symptoms or mild symptoms, fyi there is only 1 person I know in real life who has actually gotten sick with serious symptoms and he went to the hospital via ambulance, they sent him home after 1 day because he tested negative for corona, h…
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/20 09:16 PM
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Try watching "relationship advice for men" on dan bacon channel, on youtube, he also has a bunch of videos on how to regain sexual attraction, if you want to work on things that is, that video was describing everything I did wrong and if I had seen it a few years ago maybe I could have changed things, its too late for me but maybe not for you
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/20 12:26 AM
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