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18

Two months? He probably just fkn realized he wasn't getting laid lol Who the fuck wants a two month pen pal. Boys dont like listening to girls complain unless they're getting laid dude
/r/seduction22/09/25 04:20 PM
6

Shes on a call so she can avoid talking to you.
/r/seduction02/09/25 03:14 PM
2

People think hats are trashy. And you're wearing a giant hat associated with a culture that a lot of women interpret as sexist.
/r/seduction13/05/25 01:05 PM
1

Lol ok loser. Go touch a treadmill.
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:23 PM
0

You're talking about a tiny subset of women. And you'd be competing with 70% of the population for them. How does the concept of the law of averages and human nature seem to escape everyone
/r/seduction16/04/25 06:12 AM
-2

Yea? Name one without google
/r/seduction16/04/25 05:16 AM
122

There is zero situation where being fat is going to benefit your love life.
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:02 AM
3

Yes you are acting like a clown and they see you as a clown. Honestly have you ever considered that you use these clown antics as a defense mechanism? It's a lot easier to alienate people and keep them at arms distance if you scream and do cartwheels. Cool people don't need to yell. Jack black is a paid entertainer. He's providing a service for money that you seem to provide for free. You are giving your energy to the world for nothing
/r/seduction13/04/25 07:00 PM
2

Dude you do not need fucking instructions for this. This generation is so fucked lol
/r/seduction14/02/25 08:58 PM
4

Picking up women at church lol
/r/seduction12/02/25 06:00 PM
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And a guy at the lower end of the chart will date younger and skew things that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:27 AM
1

Laws were written by men, if women wrote laws they'd be tuned to offenses in girl world
/r/MensRights03/04/24 06:43 PM
1

A marriage without sex isn't a marriage. Sex is the point of relationships, if you're not having sex you're just playing house
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:15 PM
7

sounds like you should have had sex before forming a 6 month relationship
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:50 PM
1

you could have been taller, more muscular, better dressed, you could have not ran to catch up to her
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:44 PM
1

WHY WOULD YOU WANT THIS
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:05 PM
10

So. Are you sexually confident? If a girl looks you in the eye, that's an opportunity to let her know with your gaze that you are 100% ready to fuck her senseless. Don't just look at her eyes, look her in the eye, look down her entire body, look her back in the eye, do it with a smirk, make her feel naked.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:12 PM
1

Testosterone replacement therapy. You're probably low
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:34 PM
2

get TRT, start lifting, stop using your "is everything ok honey" voice and start talking to her like she's a human
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:08 AM
2

Why can't you just, agree to not have sex that night, Jesus christ. Like God forbid you wait a single day to get fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:15 AM
4

You'd ghost a dude because he forgot a condom? Wow But you have zero responsibility here, it's all on this hypothetical dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:43 AM
0

They have fucking TRT at 40 dude, they're fucking jacked
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:09 PM
1

so we're just supposed to turn off the 100 million years of instinct, because contraception was invented?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:57 PM
0

you don't have to pull hard when there's no resistance. you keep wasting your energy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:26 PM
1

K well on average men don't have the attractive resources or stability in life, which lead to a stable routine that can produce muscle mass, until later in their 20s or 30s. I don't know what else to tell you man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:17 PM
6

You can work these features into your life and benefit from them or you can wait 10 years and realize how important they are later. Up to you my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:10 PM
9

Girls are attracted to experience, stability, and muscle mass, which are on average obtained late 20s early 30s. but we don't have to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:04 PM
-1

Lolok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:52 PM
7

Ryan Reynolds, Mac from always sunny, Hugh Jackman, David Ducoveny, Paul Rudd, George Clooney
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:43 PM
2

K well, don't expect a ton of success until you look like a catch. You don't want to have to persuade someone to be attracted to you, you want to show up and have 90% of the work done
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:05 AM
3

If you haven't dedicated yourself to physical fitness a coach will be a waste of money
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:49 AM
–

for a girl? no you have to be hot, no amount of charm or money is going to get a guy to go against his 2nd head. fortunately, it's easier to squat an ass into existence than it is to make a million dollars
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:32 AM
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Be hot, if you're already hot then he's not interested in your personality. In this case you need to have a personality. If you have a personality then he was only interested in how hot you were, this is the best case scenario here
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:36 PM
5

where do you meet them? are you rich? are you jacked? I want to know your secret
/r/seduction16/04/22 04:30 PM
1

is it a turn on long term or short term? is it a turn on because now you've seen his weakness? I think the answer is, it's a turn on in the short term because now you're in control, but long term it creates a poor relationship dynamic.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:46 PM
4

for 99.999% of human existence, girls having casual sex meant risking their life via untreatable STDs or just dying during birth. men have been able to have casual sex without the risk of birth, and actually up until recently they usually didn't have to be financially responsible for the baby. this dynamic has shaped our brains and society as a whole, and in the last 70 years we have seen an explosion of casual sex. don't act like you or anyone else knows the outcome of these changes, or whether…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:45 PM
1

this is a post about accepting that reality is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:46 PM
6

If you as a man, can admit that reality doesn't work in your favour, then it is your responsibility as a man to say fuck reality and make it work in your favour, the only reason why you aren't doing that right now, is because of some personality flaw that women and men as a collective aren't responsible for fixing, only you as an individual are responsible for that ; you're too lazy/uncaring to socialize, too lazy to lose weight, too scared of rejection to ask women out, too socially stupid to u…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:57 PM
1

Also, medeival STDs that had like zero treatments and childbirth killed you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:27 PM
4

This is the best sub, I appreciate how you googled it and were like "whoah I'll reform an opinion". This like never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:09 PM
6

All of history. Throughout all of history you lived to your mid 60s if you didn't die as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:29 PM
2

what if the baby identifies as a girl
/r/MensRights23/03/22 03:16 PM
1

I can tell you these girls are getting more out if it than you
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:52 PM
2

Texting should be a small accessory. You message for a few days until you get a date, after that it fills the gap between dates. It's like hamburger helper.
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:25 PM
11

K well those are fantasies, not relationships
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:48 PM
2

forget about women right now. life is so much bigger than getting laid. like sex is how women get close to men that they want the option of a relationship with, that's why tall muscular financially stable men are attractive. you're not in a position to provide any of those things right now, you might be in the future though, just focus on yourself man.
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:47 PM
7

why are you so obsessed with texting. the relationship happens in real life, every problem on here is "she texted me this". if she's not going on dates with you then there is no relationship, just stop responding for a day and you'll instantly know how important you are to her
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:45 PM
1

there's nothing you can do to make someone love you. the only thing you've done wrong here is give a shit about some person you don't really know
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:38 PM
2

who cares. you don't change the character, you choose a new player.
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:21 PM
8

dude, you are too focused on this one girl. if you go back to that bar say hi but don't talk to that girl again until she sees you leave with another girl.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:14 PM
2

a simple ":)" would have been fine
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:11 PM
-2

dude you're a student? unless you are JACKED MUSCULAR you are not getting laid as a student. get fucking jacked bro. lift harder.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:40 PM
1

have you tried lifting weights and eating correctly? have you gained a ton of muscle mass? have you tried having a successful career?
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:39 PM
1

Don't make moves unless you're given a signal. I'm not embarrassed by rejection if she signaled she wanted to be kissed, that's her fault if she sent mixed signals.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:52 PM
1

stop going to wendy's often enough to have a detailed relationship with a cashier
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:15 PM
0

Dude what do you talk about before you're walking. What do you talk about after you're walking. You just talk about all the same shit
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:30 PM
1

don't shit where you eat
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:28 PM
2

dude if there is no chemistry, then the 3rd and 4th date were just awkward wastes of time
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:07 PM
2

you didn't provide a lot of details here, but future you will know exactly what went wrong, and will attribute the falling out to something you will eventually be able to control
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:48 PM
2

if the situation presents itself, invite her out, if it doesn't, then continue on with your life and all the other options you have. do not try to turn an apple into an orange
/r/seduction02/02/22 11:08 PM
3

or you just moved from rural game to city game and realized that dating is COMPLETELY different
/r/seduction02/02/22 07:28 PM
5

you're young and she's old, she had her fun with you but she doesn't realistically see you as a good bet to settle down with, she most likely is looking to settle down with someone who's in their mid-late 30s. ​ i'm 34 and if I hooked up with a 23 year old I would take that entire relationship with a grain of salt
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:45 PM
1

have some drinks and then show him a jiu jitsu move that ends with you guys kissing
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:12 AM
3

just focus on continuing to grow, every day get your shit together a little bit more. if she can't appreciate someone who continually grows then that's on her
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:21 AM
0

Lol, ok nerd
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:50 AM
1

Awesome
/r/seduction27/12/20 08:41 PM
3

I upgrade to a girl that doesn't cherry pick propaganda to extort me for gas and bills.. holy shit this is infuriating, If I'm being honest I think you might have some BP tendencies that are enabling her to think that this is acceptable communication.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 09:22 PM
6

unacceptable. immediate hard next on this one dude. this girl obviously has zero respect for your opinion and not that I believe in LTRs, but if I did, this bitch would not be LTR material.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:02 AM
1

I feel you dude. but you have to think.. lester tried to frame him for the murder of his wife. snitches get stitches
/r/askTRP07/01/17 01:19 AM
4

I see zero indication of narcissism in his character. I mean he wears simple garb and sports a bowl cut.. dark triad is a buzzword and I think we need to stop glorifying it around here.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:41 PM
1

I mean, if she lays it out there for you then yea fuck the shit out of her. but honestly, you should try to make a habit of looking forward and spinning new plates. washing your dishes is not abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:11 PM
0

no dude, that's some racist shit. If anyone pulls that and you say "excuse me?" they will immediately backtrack and apologize. it's your good nature that is allowing people to get away with this shit.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:56 PM
1

the support she's receiving from your family is unfortunately what's causing the spiral. you need to talk to your family and unify your message. she will not get better if your family refuses to treat her like an adult.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:54 PM
3

Lorne Malvo is a perfect example of the unadulterated rp man. We're lucky to have characters like him in this sea of bp television. specifically speaking, I think he displays a rock solid frame that can serve as a great example for anyone who is looking for something to aspire to.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 06:41 PM
6

lol, I'm just glad to be working for one of the contractors that trump hasn't curb stomped on twitter. and thank you. I made a resolution to build an ecommerce business this year, and then roll those skills into getting a product crowdfunded. frankly I should have accomplished this years ago, but pussy always seemed like a priority until my N count got to a certain level.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:46 AM
14

electrical engineer, graduated at 24 with a bs, spent a year coding diesel after treatment systems for 72k. three years at 75k coding engines at chrysler (wanted to show that I could hold down a job). six months at Firefly space systems (RIP) at 82k.. and then just recently started a job at northrop grumman coding missile guidance systems at 115k. it took moving from detroit, to austin, to chicago; interviewing constantly, always demanding more and more, leveraging offers to obtain the highest p…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 02:52 AM
62

this post takes many separate TRP axioms and ties them together in an all encompassing fashion. very well written, thank you sir
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:01 PM
-2

I said smoke a Jay, pull out a vape, grab a cig. It doesn't matter, all of these things are going to give you a reason to be standing there. But. A controlled ability to smoke a cig without being a "smoker", pulling out a zippo that shows age and care, displaying a habit that implies experience and forces a reaction, and also shows a lack of regard for her opinion, all would help. You obviously have a technical grasp of smv and have attended D.a.r.e. but your analysis is flawed here
/r/askTRP07/06/16 11:03 PM
1

they're either testing you to see if you will get bashful, or they're interested in you and they want your cock. or both. there is a slight chance they think you're creepy, it really depends on the context here. but it's still better than being "nice"
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:37 PM
1

I understand, and from a psychological pavlovs dog standpoint I can see why you would consider physical treats but the truth is, you will get better results if all rewards are given in the form of your attention. anything else should be considered a perk of knowing you. extra flirty playtime = reward. extra nice plate of food = perk.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:34 PM
1

definitely not. you tell a plate to come over so you can fuck her, not a target. with a target you have to use your instincts. honestly I prefer a phone call if it's not too invasive.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:30 PM
-2

oh yea, I bet james dean, kurt russel, clint eastwood, lieutenant barnes, and every explosion ever started agree with you
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:25 PM
1

if you jerk off too much not only will it train you to react to sex differently but it will diminish your drive and natural thirst for top tier pussy. it could potentially harm your ego to compare yourself to the stunt cocks they have. some porn actually comes from a BP angle too. but I think it's ok to jerk off once or twice a week.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:23 PM
4

you should never exchange gifts for sex. ever. if you take a girl out it's because you were hungry and you like the restaurant. verbal or physical affection are enough
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:20 PM
1

haha. so I like "shit pit", I'm using that. but your approach here is going to have diminishing returns, and is going to force her to test you. what happens next time she goes out. are you ready to play the hand you're representing here? I honestly would say I've been busy, and that she's in trouble because you felt like fucking her brains out the other night.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:16 PM
2

because you're asking.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:06 PM
2

to be honest you should probably be fucking her so hard that the turtle isn't a concern. but leading up to sex the scratching could be kinda creepy. that being said, I always have background noise during seduction. always have music going, or a movie going, or a fan going at least. but yea turtles don't scream sexy man so if it really is that disturbing I would eliminate it by placing it somewhere else or getting the product you described.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:04 PM
3

this is the same as a hand in poker. the only way to determine what the other guy is holding, is to bet and see how he reacts. escalate and if she responds negatively then withdraw attention
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:01 PM
-7

there you go. if you pull out a cig and she says "grosse", blow it in her face. now you're getting shit tests as opposed to baby talk. but yea, I agree with blueblus on this one, she's basically extracting value from you by having you attempt to hit on her all the time.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:59 PM
3

0.1% asking for a hookup is very beta. you do have to escalate, but you can do this via text and just fuck the first time you meet. no matter what, you have to realize that until you have nuclear bomb SMV, girls are going take longer to fuck. meeting in person is much quicker than tinder, you skip the pre-date talking and can usually fuck that night.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:55 PM
3

engineering and computer science are guaranteed money and job security. get dumbbells, a bench, and a door pullup bar that you can also hook your legs into and do crunches with. buy protein, stay at community college until you know what you want to do, don't worry if girls aren't all over you, this is the lowest value you will ever be.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:51 PM
2

she should feel as if she doesn't want to do that shit. lift, become a social dynamo. she will stop.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:48 PM
2

first of all this isn't a shit test so you don't need to add more dread. your first mistake was mateguarding though. I've been busy applies more dread and moves her out of the sweet spot what makes you say that? too many words, also try to avoid question marks in general no response worse than first one your best bet is to respond, but still ignore her question. in person I would turn it playful, in text I might ask her what she's wearing. it's all based on context but you get where I'm going wi…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:44 PM
-1

what indicators of interest has she given you. also you probably would be better off just hanging out right then and there, as opposed to formally asking her out on a "date". pull out a Jay/cig/vape and start doing something in front of her, stop standing there talking to her for no reason. if she wants a hit that's your in. at that point, you guys are "doing" something together, as opposed to just talking. suggesting that she come do another thing with you is less of a reach at this point. if s…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 08:12 PM
1

if you want to verify that you're actually making progress, you have to verify it empirically. it has nothing to do with others.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:45 PM
1

it's proof that your smv has raised. if you can't fuck a celebrity you haven't made it to the top yet. if you haven't made it to the top why would you stop improving.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:18 AM
4

start a business, get even larger muscles, fuck celebrities
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:09 PM
2

it took years of therapy to realize these inconvenient facts, I'm sorry that your idealism is preventing you from accepting the truth, but do you honestly believe that a caveman who could hunt and kill predators invented lifelong monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:36 AM
1

mothers love their sons unconditionally, and have a tendency to treat their daughters like competition, where as fathers are most likely busy working their asses off to provide. so when boys learn unconditional love from their mothers, girls learn that men are for provision. and when daddy can't provide, a new daddy is brought in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:13 AM
0

women see beta qualities as footholds, or chinks in your armor. if you have no weakness they have no control. which is why a certain amount of emotion is valued by them. What do you think the cave version of yourself did when he was sick of a girl?.. I highly doubt he kept protecting her and sharing his food with her before society forced him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:01 AM
0

there's a difference between "frequency of sustained intercourse" and "frequency of hot thunder sex" also, the AF/BB theory states that 80% of the women are sleeping with the top 20% of the men. this chart breaks average sex down by age range, not sexual market value (SMV). I don't see how the information you've provided could disprove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 01:50 AM
-6

you should find more reasons to tell people how smart you are bro
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