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jdv165/r/Divorce_Men08/04/23 11:15 PM
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To be honest i didn’t have a need to consult them, but that was one of their selling points. Cant vouch for whether it would cost more. Forgot to Mention that their site has a tracker so you can see where you are in the process and what the next steps are. “We provide everything you need to get divorced — from conflict resolution to filing support and access to divorce experts — in one comprehensive, convenient online platform.”
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 02:34 AM
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Ask all the questions you want, seriously. Most of it will depend on how fast you and your ex move. Someone will initiate and then you’ll have to fill out a questionnaire, the answers on the questionnaire is what is used to generate the forms. The slowest part is waiting for them to review and send a copy to your ex and then a copy to you to sign and return. I’d say it took less than two months for me to have the final forms in hand. For reference, we started the process in April and it went to …
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 02:15 AM
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It depends on exactly what you need and your situation is. My ex paid for most of it but i believe it was $499
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 01:25 AM
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We are using divorce.com. They provided all the forms and reviewed them to make sure they’d be accepted. It’s with the judge now about 3 months after starting the process. If you can agree on everything it can be quick and painless
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 01:01 AM
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Went through a separation almost 3 years ago. My personal circumstances are different than yours, but due to health reasons and baggage issues i had the same “I’m going to be alone forever” thoughts. I thought this every day and night until i randomly met “my person” when i wasn’t really trying. When you do, she will love you despite everything and because of everything. I didn’t believe this when i was in your shoes, but it gets better and you’ll be ok.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 09:46 PM
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Just went through this myself a few weeks back. Even went through the “maybe someone will text me” phase. There’s nothing anyone can say that will really help. It sucks that so much can be taken away from us without us having a say in the matter. Happy birthday friend.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 01:22 AM
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Not one of them has spoken to me since. Even when i sent a gift after they had a death in the family. I suspect she’s told them a bunch of lies to turn them against me.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 02:18 AM
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Same story here. One day out of the blue she left. No issues beforehand, no communication of any unhappiness, etc. But suddenly it was over and she was unwilling to work on or even discuss anything. I don’t have any good advice because it’s been 9 months and I’m still struggling myself, but sometimes it just doesn’t make sense
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 03:38 PM
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I could’ve written this word for word.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 01:31 PM
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Yup. Sounds very similar. She got money and suddenly started to think she was a kardashian.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 10:18 AM
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Amen. And I’m just scratching the surface here.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 02:02 AM
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Yep. My wife wanted a Cartier ring for Christmas. I, of course, splurged and got it for her. Two months later she was gone. She wouldn’t even move out until she would find an apartment that “was worthy of her lifestyle” despite telling me every day how miserable she was in our house
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:59 AM
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This is so relatable. My wife starting making money (because i helped fund her business and did most of the accounting work). Suddenly i was beneath her and every conversation revolved around how much she made and how she only deserves expensive things. Mind you i still made more than her at this time. But her personality did a 180 overnight.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:23 AM
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This is so painfully true.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:19 AM
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Shes not necessarily more successful than me. We make about the same and i have the freedom to do other stuff on the side that i enjoy. But i know what you mean. I think in this case it’s more her becoming a legend in her own mind and suddenly no one else is good enough for anything
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:09 PM
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I wanted a child, badly. She made excuse after excuse and gaslighted me into thinking i was pressuring her and making her not want to do it. Looking back there were a lot of fucked up things that i didn’t really notice at the time.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:08 PM
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We didn’t have kids, but i went through the exact same situation with my ex. She started a business (with my help) and once she got successful, suddenly i was useless, lazy, didn’t work as hard as her, and my job (which supported us through all of it) wasn’t as important as hers. And she made sure i knew it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 01:59 AM
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I’ve definitely gotten a lot of that already. If you listened to her, you’d think i locked her in the basement for 6 years and only let her out to clean the house.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 05:56 PM
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I’ve gotten bits and pieces from her. But her answers aren’t consistent, don’t make sense, or are flat out untrue. If that’s what she’s telling me, god knows what’s she’s telling others. I’ve been nothing but a supportive, loving husband and i spent 2 months second guessing everything I’ve ever done before i realized this is a “her” issue and she’s just projecting it on me. Not that that makes it any easier to deal with.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 05:14 PM
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Same thing here. Mine was about 6 years. She shut it down randomly one day with no warning signs and refused to try or even talk about anything. Any time i asked a question i was accused of trying to make her feel guilty. It’s been over 2 months and I’m still not close to myself. I can just now make it through a work day without either crying and falling asleep. I’ll never get any true answers or any kind of closure, even though those things would help immensely
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 04:38 PM
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Thanks. Same to you. Unfortunately seems to be a lot of us going through it
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 01:50 AM
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I don’t understand the rage and i can’t explain it. She has given many conflicting answers for the divorce. She largely blames it on my health and how it has “robbed her of a life”. With that said, i am not sure i am getting the whole truth and anytime i attempt to talk with her about it she ends up screaming at me telling me to stop asking questions. It makes an already awkward and painful situation even worse.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 12:44 AM
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I feel like i was a major part of it. I am mourning that too. This was part of our daily lives for 5 years and now I’m not allowed to know anything about it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/23 11:25 PM
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You sound a lot like me. I cashed in investments and retirement to pay for our home, paid all the bills for 2 years while she started a business, paid a down payment for her car, was always available for financially and emotionally. Two months ago the D bomb is dropped on me. One of the reasons is because she wants someone to take care of her…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/23 11:00 PM
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