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dont listen to that little guy in your head that says,"you cant do that with her." In fact, punch that little dude in the face, and talk to/dance with whoever you see. get rejected? do it again.
/r/seduction02/12/11 04:16 AM
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time management my friend, as a pharmacy student i feel your pain. Seems like theres never enough hours in the day. If the anxiety is getting in the way of productivity, theres no harm in seeing a doctor for prescription help (also been there). Set aside a night to go out, friday/saturday is probably best and gives you time to let loose without getting too far behind in work/school. open in the halls, before class, after class, in line at supermarkets. It works on game, and no strings attached. …
/r/seduction03/10/11 08:33 PM
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I think we all were at one point or another. whether it's looks or something else we need to overcome that nagging bit saying we aren't good enough because I'm ___.
/r/seduction12/08/11 04:20 PM
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If you have tried ALL the challenges and havnt made approaches, you have not tried all the challenges. style-life challenge FORCES approaches, forces conversation etc. You seem to have a mental block thats stopping you. You need to resist that little voice that says no, i cant do that, she will think im weird and just do it. Most people like the conversation, or at a minimum tolerate it. Have fun, smile, enjoy life, enjoy people THAT is inner game. Putting yourself down or making yourself walk h…
/r/seduction12/08/11 03:44 PM
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learned about 4 years ago= not contradictory. practicing inner game with few/no approaches=contradictory.
/r/seduction12/08/11 03:36 PM
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The attraction code is a good basic start, but its just reinforcement of the things you probably already know. Somewhere along the line on here there was a link to some videos about approaching/opening and holding conversation which were awesome but i cant seem to find them again. If Ill do some looking and see if I can find the name of the series again. There is also the "IAMA mPUA" series to get a general idea, but he does a lot of promo stuff there rather than real guidance. Still worth a loo…
/r/seduction15/06/11 12:35 AM
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Excellent start then. Though I do have to agree, once in a relationship this place becomes just a way to remind yourself of what you should be maintaining in everyday life rather than applying it to women. I do however find Styles 30 day challenge a bit dated, I personally got to about day 10 and realized it was not me. Im much more of a fan of Wygants material and natural game. Its just more of an emphasis on bringing out what you already have.
/r/seduction13/06/11 05:18 PM
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First, sidebar. Become familiar with it. Second, never stop becoming a better person, single or with a significant other of any kind. Im out of the game (awesome gf thanks to this group), but i miss aspects of it. I need to continue to game everyone, it is satisfying once you are good at it.
/r/seduction13/06/11 03:55 AM
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thus why we say to keep it to a 2 drink max when sarging
/r/seduction29/04/11 03:29 PM
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i dont see the pile of crap in the corner. he took a bit from the community, now hes taking the next step and doing it without us. We all have levels that we take this game to.
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:23 AM
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Mixed results here...but telling a girl was a dealbreaker for me twice. So if you do, follow namesnotjeff's way, itll take her by surprise and still likely get you laid. foreplay is your friend, and be sure to get her off if you dont last.
/r/seduction15/03/11 01:47 AM
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Sounds like she's playing the game. The fact she invited you out again shows she is still interested, but push back kino shows may be hesitant to escalate quickly. I suggest going to the club, and dancing, as touching becomes a must, rather than a choice. That is unless she really isn't interested. Either way you will surely know if it is a dead end road.
/r/seduction10/03/11 10:49 PM
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I only agree to the extent that it makes the community look like trash. It does not mean that we literally objectify the women we speak about. Do some of us actually get to the point of pure idolatry of the PUA community? sure. But the biggest thing other than self improvement that I remember while on this path, is that at the end of "The Game" Style realized that is was nothing without feeling. It is about self improvement, not self falsification.
/r/seduction08/03/11 05:42 PM
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hence the quotes around alpha. They dressed the part, but were total tools.
/r/seduction19/02/11 05:39 AM
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I am (slowly) learning the trick to a lot of this is not letting the girls that appear to slip by get to you. Moving on quickly is one of the hardest things to learn imo. Some work, some do not, others are in the middle which is where this one seems to be. But your mentality seems to be about right. Good luck.
/r/seduction17/02/11 08:41 PM
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Pickup has other methods than canned openers. Its about attitude. Look more into the sidebar material. The david wygant stuff may help you out alot.
/r/seduction17/02/11 03:08 PM
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Dont lock yourself into this girl. Seems like she is lukewarm at best. I would give it one more shot seeing you two have had connection twice, but you definitely need to escalate on the next date to see if its going anywhere.
/r/seduction17/02/11 03:06 PM
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Much of this is about getting out of your comfort zone. Check out the seddit wiki for some extra reading material. I found "The Attraction Code" very worthwhile. It is short and to the point. As far as your issue with always thinking there is "someone cooler" in the room, disregard that notion all together. You are now on his level. You can learn from these people. Learn to people watch, see the interaction between people at clubs, bars, coffee shops. Go talk to some people, make them realize th…
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:05 PM
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Good, you learned something. And you will probably do this a dozen times more until you get sick of missing opportunities. Its exactly what I did. Made the necessary outward changes, but my mind was still not in the game. If you are serious about this, get out and try again. There are hundreds, if not thousands more HB10s. Go fuck one of them and get this chick out of your head.
/r/seduction03/02/11 01:52 PM
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I'm sorry, but fuck you alpha. This community is about supporting our AFC brothers as much as is is about them taking the advice from the AMOGs we aspire to. 15K+ readers yes, there is bound to be a lot of AFCs, offer advice or stfu. /rant
/r/seduction03/02/11 01:46 PM
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So I lost about an hour? Considering you know what you are getting into when you meet them, the time investment is well worth it rather than a cold approach.
/r/seduction03/02/11 12:31 PM
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As a person who uses the site relatively infrequently, 3. The same three that went past simple online chatter to meeting in public. Did they have other qualities yes, none of us reveal our entire persona in the beginning. My experience says 100% of my expectation with those girls was fulfilled.
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:57 PM
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Serious "sarging" is about numbers. By using online dating we are expanding our pool of women to meet. Sure its a different dynamic, but you can meet a number people you NEVER would have met at a bar/club etc. Plus it has helped me with AA.
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:51 PM
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"The Game" clearly stated how to deal with this. "Balding is not a choice, bald is." I have not lost/started to lose my hair yet, but it runs in my family. And at 22, i probably have about 5-6 years before it starts. Bald will be my choice.
/r/seduction28/01/11 04:23 PM
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I have been meaning to look into some of the RSD material. I will definitely give "The Blueprint Decoded" a look.
/r/seduction27/01/11 07:13 PM
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I have been trying to include this in my days a lot more than I used to. Talking to people has gotten easier but I am still struggling when I go out to a bar/club.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:14 AM
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Music does seem to help me on some nights, but the same thing never seems to work twice. Its tough finding what works on a particular day.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:14 AM
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I'm trying to pay close attention and figure out what causes it I think i may try keeping a journal about what happens just before i find myself in the right state of mind, maybe that will help decode the mystery.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:11 AM
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Thats basically the problem. I am trying to see what other sedditors use to help flip that switch. It is often that I am itching to go out, but just do not feel like I would be in the mindset to be "good." By the look of it, I just need to go out and do it even when I think it wont end up being worthwhile.
/r/seduction27/01/11 04:44 AM
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It looks like its a case of "if it were easy, everyone would do it." More practice needed.
/r/seduction27/01/11 02:05 AM
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Interesting tactic. Definitely worth a shot.
/r/seduction27/01/11 01:58 AM
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Always shoot for the 10s. Anything less will still feel glorious. If nothing else the conversation should boost your self esteem.
/r/seduction26/01/11 04:55 AM
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You never think you can be that awesome unless you want it. The community changed my life and i am nowhere near what I was a year ago. I still have a long way to go though. It's definitely a process. Good job, and good luck in the future.
/r/seduction23/01/11 07:53 PM
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sidebar bro.
/r/seduction22/01/11 05:17 PM
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agreed.
/r/seduction15/01/11 10:31 PM
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Just fucking do it already, its not that big of a deal.
/r/seduction13/01/11 01:40 AM
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Playfully challenge, but pick your battles. You also forgot one. Confidence is attractive. I have also started looking at Wygants material, inner game stuff is the way to go. No gimmicks, just self improvement, stay genuine.
/r/seduction14/12/10 06:18 PM
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I agree with this for overall mental status. Like you I was once an avid fapper, did a 40 day challenge and was horny as hell, but it broke the cycle. I also realized an incredible boost in energy and mental status, but 40 days was a bit much. I'm now at about once a week to avoid extreme horniness, but still reap the benefits of less masturbation. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/12/10 09:51 PM
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It's not "unhealthy" at all, whatever we dont use is either expelled in wet dreams or reabsorbed. Some studies however to show that men in their mid 20's and forward who ejaculate 2-3 times a week may have lower rates of prostate cancer. (Can't seem to find where i read this for source, sorry)
/r/seduction11/12/10 09:46 PM
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Well said. I think I will be using this as motivation.
/r/seduction11/12/10 08:58 PM
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Which is exactly how I view it now, that does not change what I used to think. Getting in touch with the Alpha rather than the beta in me is simply harder than I expected. But that does not mean I have not improved nor does it mean I will stop until I get what I want.
/r/seduction10/12/10 06:19 PM
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No, it is not a core value of mine, I was waiting for the right person for a while, but as long as attraction is there now, I am willing to give in my card. The story with the relationship as far as not consummating is simple. In the beginning, neither of us were really ready for it, time went by and I was ready but she was not. By the time she finally came around to things, the relationship was not going so well and I was not going to give it up to someone I was not committed to. Jump forward a…
/r/seduction10/12/10 01:22 AM
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Agreed on the drugs. Even if HB10 wasn't interested, HB8 had potential which he ended up ignoring.
/r/seduction07/12/10 10:01 PM
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It helps to differentiate all the numbers, HB# vs #set. It may not seem too confusing, but when reading certain FRs it can help. Plus it humanizes the girls (to a point), rather than making them just a number. Is a HB4 ugly? most likely, but she could have serious swag to make up for it (theoretically).
/r/seduction05/12/10 09:29 PM
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As a recovering INTJ myself, it took a 3.5 year relationship ending, being replaced almost instantly and realizing i needed to make a huge change in my life. Like many i discovered the PUA community by reading the game and became intrigued. I changed my image and attitude, but still have sticking points. I still fall too fast for people and can come on too strong. But "the attraction code" has also given me some foresight in the change i have to make (read through it once, going back to make not…
/r/seduction02/12/10 05:43 PM
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