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3

That's fucking dumb. Approach all girls
/r/seduction28/06/21 04:07 PM
3

I'm 32 and the grass is always greener bro
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:08 PM
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This advice is absolute ass. Be persistent. Cant tell how many times ive fucked a girl because I texted her again
/r/seduction14/09/20 04:51 PM
2

dont worry about the silences man.
/r/seduction25/08/20 04:42 AM
2

"hey I saw you at that party last week, how's it going?" Literally say this within 5 seconds of seeing her next.
/r/seduction05/02/20 11:09 PM
1

If her BEST friend is a guy. Deal breaker for me normally. If she just has a bunch of guy friends that doesn't bother me at all
/r/seduction29/12/19 01:41 AM
2

Her reason literally doesnt matter.
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:19 PM
1

"Forgot already" That's needy stuff
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:17 AM
3

See girl. Walk up to her. Say "hi im ____"
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:41 AM
2

Im 6'6". Its a long way down for me to kiss most girls.
/r/seduction29/08/19 06:54 PM
5

Next her
/r/seduction03/08/19 05:02 AM
18

Dont jerk at all for 90 days. No porn. Full reset. Then fap once a week with imagination. I swear to god i hold way better eye contact without fapping im currently on day 17. Feels good man
/r/seduction23/11/18 05:18 AM
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Op i want deets a out day 1
/r/seduction17/11/18 05:12 AM
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First off grats on atleast getting laid a couple times. Second. You should start mixing in some day game instead of purely relying on tinder. Only 2% of girls use tinder and every one that does has a buffet of cock so to speak. Try meeting girls in real life. Third. How are you you doing with innergame? Bettering yourself? Hobbies? Passions? Its more important what you do with your time away with girls in certain respects. It gives you stuff to talk about and be passionate about. 4thly. Dont tak…
/r/seduction16/07/18 01:41 AM
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This sub is literally meaningless unless you actually approach. Little comments like your friends' can help push you to actually go out.
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:45 PM
11

When in doubt say "hi". 1000% better than saying nothing.
/r/seduction27/01/18 08:36 PM
9

Dude. The hole is lower down than you think it is. Every time.
/r/seduction22/12/17 01:56 AM
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What kind of deformity are we talking?
/r/seduction16/12/17 09:50 PM
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If by helping you get girls you mean wing, then yes. Nothing beats cold approaching for real. Nothing this guy is going to say will help alone. If you can get a buddy to just wing with you for a day game session that could help a lot.
/r/seduction23/09/17 07:45 AM
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I'm looking for one in Vancouver for day game. Pm me
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:08 PM
3

I finally pulled the trigger and bought it. Arrives on Tuesday and I'm stoked.
/r/seduction21/09/17 06:53 PM
2

don't base any changes off 1 girl man. if you continue to have issues after 10-15 dates check back here with some more detail. are thee tinder matches? are you approaching?
/r/seduction20/09/17 05:42 AM
1

and then if you keep it for longer than 2 seconds thats enough for me to justify just literally saying"hi"
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:13 AM
1

Literally say hi.
/r/seduction19/09/17 10:53 PM
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It wasn't just any "haha". Saying it directly after her excuse makes it sound like you don't believe her and more importantly that you don't really care that she just said she has medical issues.. This type of excuse is common among flakes. It doesn't matter the excuse, you need to maintain the same frame after every flake. I would have responded with. "Oh no! That's ok, I hope you feel better. Take it easy :)" Your still keeping it light and playful but you don't seem outcome dependant. This is…
/r/seduction12/09/17 07:45 PM
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Ways I "back off after an 'im not that type of girl' comment. If your touching her (cuddling, kissing, legs touching each other while sitting beside each other), cease all physical contact. Get up for a drink of water (or booze) and ask her if she wants one. Completely change topic of conversation. Check your phone Sit-up if your lying down. Lie down if your sitting up. Sometimes too much kino, or being too aggresive with escalation can come across as creepy and from a place of non abundance. Ma…
/r/seduction05/09/17 01:26 AM
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Exactly. In another universe you fucked all 4 though.
/r/seduction07/08/17 01:59 PM
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Did you approach? Yes you did Therefore you won. Grats op. Keep approaching
/r/seduction28/07/17 08:52 PM
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Dumb thread. It's obviously worth it... Cold approach pickup changed my life. I have beaches and parks and busy streets I can go to though.. much more natural than a dead mall with 1-2 approaches an hour
/r/seduction14/07/17 04:43 AM
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Op, it really doesn't matter if she was being honest about it or not. If she's being honest (which I think in this case she is) than clearly she's not ready for a guy. If she's lying than that means it just wasn't working for her. You gained some legit reference experience for future dates/pulls. Main reason why I think this girl is telling the truth to some extent is that she sent multiple long texts on multiple occasions. I guess there are a few other things we don't know, like how 1itis you w…
/r/seduction31/05/17 08:05 AM
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Nah point 6 is the most important thing in game. Should be number 1.
/r/seduction20/05/17 11:28 PM
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Fucking my first 10 did more for me that my first ever lay. Losing my virginity was an embarrassing story I'd rather forget about lol.
/r/seduction13/05/17 06:42 PM
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As a 6'6" guy I can say that it helps a lot getting dates off tinder. It helps a lot I won't deny it. I also have an average penis size. Girls come in expecting a monster cock because I'm a giant dude and here I am with my 6.5/5 inches. Point is there are so many things that influence attraction. Height is just one that everyone can see right away.
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:29 PM
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She called you her bf on the second date?? WTF mate. This would have crossed a boundary with me. I would have brought it up with her shortly after she said it privately and asked her about it. Something like "wooh wooh wooh, we are bf/gf now??? That's a little fast isn't it" with a playful tone and a smile on your face. This will bring it up. That's really fast for an exclusive relationship man. She probably realized consciously or subconsciously that you don't have a thick of a backbone as she …
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:11 PM
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You'd think so but it's just "to talk with you". It doesn't feel like too much when I use it. Because the convocation flows away from it right away into something else. It would be Overkill if you were like "I'm looking to take you out on a date" or "I'm looking for your number" as in YouTube prank stuff. That's too much too early.
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:00 PM
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So fucking true. It lies in the middle. I can't tell you how many girls have said "you're not much of a texter are you?". Basically every one. The hard time I have is when they are initiating texting me 4x+ a day. I can't simply ignore them. But they won't stop. I've had a few girls who only text logistics and man is it great. No maintenance. I've found that you need to start right off the bat with texting less. Only initiate for logistics. And respond to her "good morning handsome" texts with s…
/r/seduction09/05/17 08:45 PM
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I love it when she describes me when I ask it :)
/r/seduction01/05/17 08:09 PM
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Lol 95% of the girls home? Bro gtfo. Nobody in rsd even has that pull rate.
/r/seduction01/05/17 08:09 PM
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I'm 6'6". I get remembered a lot too. It's fucking dope. Bouncers remember me. Promoters remember me. It helps in every way. Wtf is so bad about being remembered even if it's for a bad set.
/r/seduction29/04/17 11:24 PM
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Guys one thing I've learned after fucking a bunch of women is to moan more. Moaning. Make some fucking noise. I used to be dead silent but moaning once in a while is important.
/r/seduction20/04/17 05:31 PM
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The part you have in quotes
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:29 AM
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Your text game is weak man. "Marry me?" Isnt something I would ever say over text. In person yes, but it's hard to lose the context. Then you follow up with a needy text saying "take care"... That shit gets you nowhere. It's a solid text if your literally done with her completly. But it sounds like you're trying to mind game her and win her back by playing hard to get when you've already lost this battle. Just next her and start approaching. Orrr stay in the friend zone if she's dope.and get her…
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:52 PM
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Lol your text is more cringy than his.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:49 PM
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First off don't bring up seeing other girls on the first date. Secondly if she flakes again, next her. Thirdly the only reason I'd consider seeing her after the double flake is that she initiated the third meetup date. Also YES to sex on the first date. Don't hold out man wtf you've already seen her pussy. 9/10 chances she flakes again.if so then next her. Every girl has a pussy. Don't get caught up in the fact she showed you hers early on.
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:46 PM
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Thanks for the response man. Nice hearing it from someone else
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:42 PM
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Broo. Thanks so much. This is gold. You're right I am too romantic. I hung out with a girl for 36 hours straight on Saturday and Sunday. Now it's her birthday today so I'm going out with her and her friends. I was thinking about getting her a gift but now I definitely wont We hold hands in public. Kiss on park benches. I open doors for her (funny side note: on the 3rd date this girl said nobody had opened their car door for her on a first date, so she knew right away she liked me) we cuddle afte…
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:40 PM
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What tounge thing homie?
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:03 PM
1

Eye contact with everyone you meet.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:01 PM
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Thanks brah.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:00 PM
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Thanks for taking the time man. Really helpful.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:00 PM
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Not with that mindset brah. Girls want you and your pipe.
/r/seduction08/04/17 09:30 PM
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Don't feed the trolls guys
/r/seduction08/04/17 01:19 AM
0

Confidence tests? This guy can't say "shit tests"?
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:49 AM
1

Bro. Not good. Negative energy like that makes its way into other parts of your life. Move on with grace
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:40 AM
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I was wondering... If you wanted... I'd like to... These are all beta. How about saying. "I'm going to take you on a proper date"
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:37 AM
4

She wants his cock forsure
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:34 AM
0

Bro. Delete you're fucking Snapchat and walk outside and start cold approach pickup. You're not bettering yourself at all with the .0001% chance that she will even talk to you let alone fuck you let alone want to be with you.
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:33 AM
1

Bro. Yes it's a perfect opportunity
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:56 AM
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Exactly. Your basically lying right off the getgo. Unless something crazy did just happen.
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:32 AM
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I get 5-15 matches per day and I go on 1-2 per week. I swipe right for every girl and decide after though. So a lot of 5s and 6s
/r/seduction19/03/17 08:27 PM
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Give it another 36 hours. Follow up with a call.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:33 PM
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Someone needs to convert this to an mp3
/r/seduction14/03/17 02:28 AM
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Bra this post is gold. So many little tips. The EXAMPLES are the best part. This sub needs more examples instead of abstract ideas. Thanks for putting this together.
/r/seduction23/02/17 03:40 AM
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Who did you coach with in rsd?
/r/seduction19/02/17 10:13 PM
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Spend 1 hour / week dancing Infront of a mirror using YouTube tutorials. Learn some moves bro.
/r/seduction18/02/17 05:34 AM
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I watched a lot of rsd videos. I take action. I didn't for a long time. Now I just do it. Because that's what separated me before.
/r/seduction18/02/17 05:13 AM
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I'm 6'6" white male with maybe slightly above average looks. so yah it does help a lot, I got lucky.
/r/seduction18/02/17 05:10 AM
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I had sex with 3women up u til the age of 23. 2 of them 1 time. Ed difficulties. Beta male. All the stuff. During ages 23 and 24 I went 2 years without kissing a girl or even going on a date. I was lost. I read "the game" in highschool so I knew this stuff was out there. A co-worker of mine showed interest in me when I was 25. We dated for 4 months before her ex came back from travelling where she promptly dumped me. I will forever thank her for giving me the feeling of.wanting a girl in my life…
/r/seduction17/02/17 09:24 PM
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Op get your shit together. Hugging people in these situations is great practice. If you can't hug a co-workers wife then how the fuck are you going to hug and kiss a girl on a day 1.
/r/seduction16/02/17 04:21 PM
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Bro it's good advice. Same thing with whether or not to kiss a girl. I had a girl text me after our date a few months ago saying "no kiss?" For some reason in my head I though she wasn't into it. Turns out she was. After that I always go in for it after a date no matter what. Always give it a shot.
/r/seduction15/02/17 10:17 PM
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I prefer the river anology. Your in a boat and your headed down stream. She's in her boat too and there are times where your boats are beside each other in the river. I guess it's the same thing actually.
/r/seduction12/02/17 09:45 PM
1

Good work bra
/r/seduction10/02/17 05:16 PM
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This is what I always thought and still think this. However something happened with a recent girl. I persisted more than I normally do. We had 2 months in between hangouts when she agreed to go on another date. The first 3 were back in October November. During the date she said it was charming that I kept hastening her for a date. I would say things like "don't think I'm going to let you off easy, I'm going to pester you for another date" this is all after she admitted to having fun etc and hitt…
/r/seduction24/01/17 07:36 PM
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Save his comment!!
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:54 PM
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im 6'6". it helps getting first dates I think.
/r/seduction03/01/17 03:51 AM
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When I first started off in the pickup stuff I got this legit 8/10 back in my bed. She was a co-worker who I had know for a year but I decided to start actually acting interested in her. I vividly remember her saying multiple times "we aren't fucking tonight" like 5 times. She sucked my dick. My dick was resting on the outside her pussy while we made out. The she said "I want to fuck you so badly right now" My beta self was like "but earlier you said you didn't want to so I better respect that" …
/r/seduction31/12/16 06:55 PM
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Bra I'm 27 and i feel the same about my 22-26 age range. The main thing is. Never stop approaching.
/r/seduction31/12/16 08:33 AM
2

Have you seen tyler lmao
/r/seduction31/12/16 12:24 AM
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I find Girls always need convincing to go on walks in the winter. If you dress overly warm you'll be good to go. Get a coffee first. You find a place that you want to go to and stick to it. Coffee + walk. Then ask her if she wants to come over to warm up and have a drink Going outside in the winter is awesome because nobody is around the busy summer spots. It's dead. Rain isnt an issue either just bring an umbrella ffs.
/r/seduction26/12/16 02:22 AM
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One thing I've grasped while doing this pickup thing is that I need to escalate 100% of the time. I need to be in charge of it. Girls never escalate and if you don't do it it'll never happen.
/r/seduction20/12/16 06:16 AM
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I think the key here is to under do it if anything. I feel if you used these techniques too often it would come across as annoying and cringy.
/r/seduction09/12/16 11:23 PM
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Did it go anywhere. Numbers honestly don't mean anything if the girl never texts back and you don't get a date out of it. You sound like my buddy from who prides himself on getting numbers and brags like crazy meanwhile he hasn't gotten laid in 2 years. Congrats?
/r/seduction08/12/16 10:28 PM
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Update us op
/r/seduction03/12/16 05:21 AM
5

Yes. I never touch myself. Girls are allowed. This also motivates me to approach. Because if I want to cum. I need a girl. Basically eliminates AA for me.
/r/seduction21/11/16 08:19 PM
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Nofap changed my life. My boners got harder and last longer. Mental fog was lifted from my day to day life. I felt more in touch with girls when I was with them in bed. I'm still allowed to fuck. I just can't pleasure myself. Currently at 22 day streak. My longest is 35. Everyone should try it.
/r/seduction19/11/16 07:49 PM
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Bro these types.of events are great because typically girls are very open to guys approaching. You should attempt to approach 20-100 girls or as needed. It's amazing experiance for approaches. Because it's possible to get a lot a lot done in a short amount of time. Make it a goal to approach every single girl who's not making out with another guy. Here's how you approach Make eye contact with a girl. Walk over. Bend down. " Do You want to dance?" It's as easy as that. I tend to be touchy right o…
/r/seduction06/11/16 10:29 AM
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Nice
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/16 06:28 PM
1

One way I found out how to go from mediocre looking to good looking was hitting the gym 5x a week for 2 years with good nutrition. Anybody can attain it. Ugly dudes making excuses.
/r/seduction01/10/16 04:02 AM
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Bruh.
/r/seduction25/09/16 10:22 AM
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If you want to save the messages in snap(when a girl gives you her number) hold and press on the comment. I can't tell you how many times I get a number only for it to disappear and never get it again.(only happened once)
/r/seduction25/09/16 01:26 AM
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Bra. Embrace your cringy sets. We all have them. The important thing is that you are in the moment during your sets. You can rehash it after. The worst that can happen is a cringy set or maybe you get yelled at. It happens man. Time passes and it's forgotten. Did I mention you should be approaching
/r/seduction21/09/16 08:24 AM
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It's always one or the other for people. Ffs. What if both motivate me? Nothing like a girl grinding her pussy on my abs. I'd say that's a pretty sweet benifit
/r/seduction20/09/16 03:46 AM
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This is a good response. Hopefully I remember it.
/r/seduction11/09/16 08:32 AM
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Joke around like she's old enough to be your mom. Showing that it doesn't bother you will help her understand that age gap doesn't really matter.
/r/seduction04/09/16 01:27 AM
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Coward girl can pls go. You don't have time for shit like that. Shows her personality. Consider it a 'blessing'
/r/seduction04/09/16 01:26 AM
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Tldr. Expression over impression. 5 things : 1family 2childhood memories 3movies and pop culture. 4 how does she like to express herself(writing painting dancing) 5travel experiences
/r/seduction04/09/16 01:24 AM
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It wasn't seduction...?? How the fuck do you know considering we heard none of the audio of their conversation. This sub is so quick to shit on stuff like this. The dude pulled a solid 8 based on her body. The girl could have easily made an excuse to bail. And it sounds like this guy had already been daygaming for a couple hours already and was probably in state. Something that 99% of this sub doesn't even fucking do.
/r/seduction30/08/16 06:55 AM
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Owen is a fucking god.
/r/seduction30/08/16 02:04 AM
4

Bro I feel for you. Sounds like you put up with a bunch of shit. Best steps are to move on. Better yourself. Realize you are a unique individual with the potential to take action. Start approaching girls. Meet 20-2000 girls and go on dates. Have your mind fucking blown at the different array of girls out there. Realize that that girl you are no longer with is missing out because you are the shit. You know you are. It's life bro. This shit happens to everyone. It's all about how you pick up the p…
/r/seduction28/08/16 09:49 AM
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It's not. It only happens 1-2 times a day for 5 min max. It's fucking awesome. Keep in mind I NEVER got random boners before. My dick was always mangled from too much fapping.
/r/seduction15/08/16 04:22 PM
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Good. Now approach 5 new women tomorrow.
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:49 AM
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You make a good point. I feel like it's more of a mentality going into meeting someone new. Try to make them better off for meeting you. Doesn't mean it's always going to work.
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:44 AM
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A few months ago I got into no fap(no masturbating). I'm only on a 5 day streak right now.. but my previous streaks were 21, 7, 41, and 31. I noticed near the end of my longer streaks that I was more in the moment with girls. I noticed their hair/eyes and features more. I cared more about how she carried herself and how she did stuff. I was present and I have become more calm. I also just have way more energy in general now which helps because daygaming is tiring as fuck. I'm not 100% sure if it…
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:20 AM
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Something I realised recently. Practically everyone else is in your shoes. Everyone is worried about what everyone else thinks of them. Once I realised that everyone else was so worried about their image it was easier to let go about what other thought of me. I've been blown out hundreds of times. Those memories fade away. What sticks with me is the countless times I didn't approach. Those hurt he most.
/r/seduction14/08/16 01:00 AM
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Nothing you read here will matter if you don't approach. Approach girls regularly and your life will change.
/r/seduction14/08/16 12:57 AM
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I think it's important to talk first. If you just go up and ask a girl out right away without getting to atleast know her a bit, she will think you just do it to every girl and have no standards.
/r/seduction11/08/16 06:38 AM
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Hit the gym. Then respond with a racey snap of your own. Hold off on the cock pics until you've seen atleast full on tits. Also. Snap the base of your dick before the whole thing. Mainly practice bro. Ohh god this advice was all over the place
/r/seduction11/08/16 01:59 AM
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Also.. I still fuck girls. It's allowed. No self pleasure had a lot of effects on me... and makes the few times you do so much better
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:13 AM
2

Honestly try nofap.. 30 days.. or just see how long you can go. I went 21.. I'm at 12 right now. I was always sceptical but it's changed my life.
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:12 AM
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I liked it thanks
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:10 AM
1

Yup go regardless. Ask the friend a few questions scattered throughout the first hour. Try and genuinely get to know her.
/r/seduction23/07/16 07:44 PM
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do you have him on snapchat. literally stares in the camera for all of his snaps. and spins around
/r/seduction22/07/16 09:52 PM
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The sex is going to be shitty man. She's a virgin. Go slow. Warm her up. Eat her out for 5-10min before hand. slowly slide it in. Bring some lube incase you need it. If you typically cum fast maybe jerkoff 4-6 hours before hand. Don't jerk off for 2-3 days before that. Goodluck.
/r/seduction22/07/16 04:24 PM
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Rejections 1-10 hurt really bad. 11--25 hurt a lot. 26-50 hurt a bit. 50+ rejections hurt?? Lol. Keep approaching 5+ per day
/r/seduction13/07/16 06:32 AM
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Some girls act differently before they warm up and let their guard down. I've found some girls can be a bit argumentative on the first date and it tends to taper off if you stick to your guns and morals and don't let her walk on you. Deepdown A woman likes a man who won't take her bs.
/r/seduction05/07/16 07:07 AM
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The problem you have is if your always texting her for your month away she will figure out you don't have any other options and might loose attraction. don't get 1itis. Nothing wrong with a day or two here and there of texting. Avoid texting her every day. Wait for something worth talking about. Also Snapchat could be beneficial for your situation if you want to escalate sexually.
/r/seduction05/07/16 07:01 AM
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Not fake. It's easy to tell honestly. Fuck ya that was a sick pull. I started to fap when they were fucking at the end but I realised I'm on day 12 no fap. Feels good bros. Change your life and stop fapping. Boners have never been harder and I have so much more energy.
/r/seduction09/06/16 08:57 PM
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so much kino oppertunity during a hike. if your walking past another group of people and the space is narrow put your hand on her back and guide her through. also during some steep parts hold her hand and help her down (only if its really steep and if she acts scared). bring a killer lunch/ snacks in a backback.
/r/seduction07/06/16 02:36 AM
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rule 1. approach rule 2. approach
/r/seduction05/06/16 02:17 AM
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im 6'6". i slouch. i have to bend over really far to talk to girls in clubs when its loud. its really hard to kiss girls standing up ( i can easily tuck most girls under my chin). I grind on a lot of backs and not asses when dancing. it really hard to find clothes that fit well. im size 14 shoes(no good styles) All of my pants are too short and most jackets dont fit my arms and dont hang below my belt........ its not all sunshine and roses at this height. I was sexless for 2 years before i disco…
/r/seduction24/05/16 10:39 PM
1

How many times to you touch a girl per date. And per initial approach? Toss in a couple touches (highfive, shoulder bumps, fake push, touching legs under table) during appropriate times. One trick I like is the first time you find out you have something in common that is unexpected, high five her. It makes the interaction more real. Now her touch senses are activated. Also, ours are too and it can help start the sexual escalation you are looking for.
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:10 PM
2

Fully embrace it like you feel. She will remember how comfortable you were saying it more as opposed to the fact you've always been single
/r/seduction15/05/16 01:32 AM
1

The girl that shoots you down doesn't even know how sweet, caring, ambitious you are. She isn't really rejecting you. How can she reject you when she doesn't even know you. Think about how many people in your life REALLY know the real you. Maybe 2-5 people. Maybe 10 if your lucky. You have to view it as her loss because it is. You know youre awesome as fuck, and now she won't get to. Her loss.
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:09 PM
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Tldr; fucking 10/10 girls is amazing. To solve your problem. You need to approach all women. Reevaluate after 1000 approaches.
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:04 PM
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It's not even about making her wait. The last time you had probably spent a bunch of time building up raport and building up the tension which led to the kiss. The start of the second date is probably way too soon as you will have inevitably lost some of that raport and comfort because time has passed since the first date. I'd go for the kiss at a good time about 2/3 of the way through. A kiss on the cheek at the start might be alright.
/r/seduction03/05/16 05:53 PM
2

I feel like point 7 isn't realised by more people. You think you are scared in a room full of pepople but what you don't realize is that the other people are scared too. Maybe even more scared.
/r/seduction25/04/16 04:18 AM
22

After having the pleasure of living with an 8/10 for a year (she had a bf). She took the grossest shits I've ever heard or smelt. Really made me look at pretty girls differently.
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:24 PM
1

Thanks so much for your post. Really helped me.
/r/seduction19/04/16 09:34 PM
4

Open anywhere and always. Fuck social norms. What's more romantic to look back on? We met when he told me I looked cute and had to say hi when I was in line at starbucks. Or, we met because my friend introduced us. Clearly the first one. It's way more badass. Girls are waiting for you to approach. You need to get in the mindset where you feel like every girl is secretly begging for you to talk to them. It's hard, I'm not all the way there yet. But it's where we need to aim.
/r/seduction19/04/16 08:43 AM
0

Everyone is saying move on. Do you have anyone else to move on to? If not. Go out with her. Work on eye contact and slowing down your speech. Pay for 1/2 of the bill and maybe try to get her to hook you up with her single friends. That being said if you have other leads drop her, your time is better used elsewhere.
/r/seduction19/04/16 08:33 AM
1

Thanks. I asked her if it was bs. She said no it wasn't. She said it like 6 times that she thought I was too amazing and that she couldn't be the girl. Fucked with my head so hard. Looks like I'm back to day game. Better approach 20 girls tomorrow. I feel like shit. It'll pass with time. And I left my hat at her place.. Also 2 days ago she gave me three rules. 1 no same day hangout with other girls. 2 no texting other girls if ibwas with her. And 3 if I fucked another girl I had to tell her. So …
/r/seduction19/04/16 08:29 AM
2

You're on the right track. Don't over do it. If you've been texting regularly for a couple days after the fclose, dial it back a bit.
/r/seduction19/04/16 08:18 AM
7

ayyyy
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:33 AM
1

Rule of thumb. Any time a girl comes over to your place she is interested enough for atleast a kiss and probably more. 100% should be going for it every time.
/r/seduction11/04/16 12:40 AM
3

My suggestions. Within the first 5-20 messages go for the hangout +number. Don't drag the Tinder convo on over a few days. Get her interest. At its peak go for the hangout.
/r/seduction11/04/16 12:38 AM
1

I agree. I live for the nervousness. Keeps me on point.
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:23 AM
0

4 girls??? Sample size too low. Approach more. 4 girls dude. There are fucking 100000000 of them on this earth.
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:21 AM
12

Honestly man.. You can tell the difference. It's fucking easy to spot fake YouTube videos. People are shitty actors when it's not candid. This guy is legit 100%. All the reactions were genuine
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:16 AM
13

He went on in another video to say that that girl friendzone him and he ended up going on a date with one of her friends.
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:14 AM
46

also his channel is gold. a lot of other good videos of him doing similar shit. Watch it for inspiration people but dont get caught up in just watching videos. go out and act.
/r/seduction07/04/16 05:53 PM
122

pretty legit. opened up an 8 set and fucking scanned their faces for the hottest one, opened her. Mad respect considering he isnt an attractive dude. Just goes to show you personality>looks.
/r/seduction07/04/16 05:38 PM
20

I need a list of things to say for number 1.
/r/seduction03/04/16 04:56 PM
9

You are doing the hard part that 95% of this sub doesn't do. Approach. Good job.
/r/seduction01/04/16 04:26 PM
7

I'm 6'6" and I feel like my posture is bad because I bend over to talk to people...if I talk to a 5'4" girl I have to slouch so she can hear me. Also I dance with a lot of backs instead of buts and it's hard to kiss most girls because of the height difference. Any tall bras feel my pain?
/r/seduction31/03/16 10:59 PM
1

Would have proposed?? Lol wtf. Dude.. She's not down anymore. On to the next.
/r/seduction31/03/16 03:20 AM
1

Your basing this assumption off of 2 girls? Just meet more. You fucked both girls so you are clearly doing something right
/r/seduction28/03/16 10:27 AM
0

Don't get obsessed with her. Don't get 1itis. Play it cool. Don't get needy. You need to be OK if it doesn't work out. Sounds like you've made good progress but still try your best to not overpower her with your presence (always texting and calling and being ma when she doesn't in return). Sounds like your doing well though bud.
/r/seduction28/03/16 10:22 AM
1

Thin waist. But butt. Fit. Smart. Witty.
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:45 AM
1

You just need to approach more bro. Seemed like good interactions for the most part.
/r/seduction27/03/16 09:59 PM
1

I don't mind awkward silences. I just sit, relax, look around, be totally confident and don't worry about the silence .it also put pressure on the girl. Just chill until you think of something to say.
/r/seduction27/03/16 09:52 PM
9

There were a few things scattered throughout that I didn't like. In number 1 it mentions to not turn and face your set. I Always turn and face my set. In number 3 it mentions that I approach her because I like her??? I don't even know her. Sure I see she's attractive,just like every other girl I've approached... So basically I am approaching her like she is number 12 set and nothing special.
/r/seduction26/03/16 07:32 PM
6

Honestly. You can not know her true sense of humour straight from the opener. So you came to a crazy determination and decided to throw it back in her face. You should have just said. "Well it was nice meeting you" no point to put her down man. It's all about positive emotions and that's kind of unnecessary to say IMO.
/r/seduction24/03/16 11:50 PM
2

I do and don't agree. I always go for it if we are both feeling it. Kissing a girl in the middle of the date you should always go for it. Or in the middle of an interaction or approach. But at the very end of a day 1. I may consider not going for it if I don't feel it. But generally, kissing adds a whole entire other element to the interaction. It's a sense of touch taste and smell all at once. It's sensory overload. I'd much rather go for it every time personally.
/r/seduction24/03/16 11:45 PM
1

Don't even try and ask her out on Sunday imo. Sounds like she's already gotten cold. She's not icy cold yet. Last thing you want to do it heat her up too fast. Play it cool. You need to be unneedy in your interactions with her at work. Don't expect that she will want to talk to you the whole time and that you should value every second with her. Just approach work like she isn't there. Be more casual about it. Your on your path to 1itis town. And There are no return trips.
/r/seduction24/03/16 11:40 PM
1

Next time you get that instinct to make a move. Just ACT. Once you embrace this your game will sore to new heights.
/r/seduction24/03/16 11:36 PM
3

I've been in this situation. It is a form of 1itis to a lesser degree. You want what you can have and it sounds like your in the friend zone with her now. Honestly, abundance dude. Meet other women. Keep this girl as a friend and tell her about your flings. Maybe this will get her thinking that you are desired by other women and she might pop you back into the fwb zone. Tldr; keep as friend. Approach other women.
/r/seduction23/03/16 01:29 AM
18

Ok. Nice job. Rule 1. Don't get 1itis. 2. Pat your self on the back.
/r/seduction22/03/16 03:02 AM
18

( ;) ftfy
/r/seduction20/03/16 09:15 PM
5

Honestly man. This post is a bit embarrassing. You bring up the fact that youre attractive like 3-4 times. Sure it helps but it's meaningless without various other elements of gamr.. It seems like your blaming all of these girls for not paying attention to you. The only common trend in these Interactions is you. Your first step is realising it's you that needs to change and grow..not the 100 women that have rejected you in the past few weeks.
/r/seduction20/03/16 05:39 AM
0

What about coming g up with something original like "did you see that guys squat form over there? Not even below parallel."
/r/seduction20/03/16 05:34 AM
1

You havnt met enough women. It's great you have standards with little reference experiance(virgin). Keep approaching bro. On to the next.
/r/seduction19/03/16 08:44 AM
4

Brb 10 cold approachs tomorrow. Fuck bro
/r/seduction19/03/16 08:41 AM
1

Literally everywhere. All day long. Any girl you walk by to the bus. The girl you see waiting outside a bank on a rainy afternoon.all of them. As far as best places? Places with the most people. Like a downtown area in a big city.
/r/seduction19/03/16 02:51 AM
1

Dude. Go down on a girl at the first opportunity. If you are making out and you go to feel her up and she opens her legs and is down then play with her outside her pants. The. Go into the pants. Struggle a bit and then take her pants off. Start fingering her.. Then straddle her and start kissing down her body. Make your way with your face down until it's over her crotch. If she hasn't rolled over or pushed you away it's a green light. Go to town. As far as the smell issue. Girls taste different.…
/r/seduction19/03/16 02:49 AM
3

You got DAT 1itis. Don't be so outcome dependant. It's 1 girl. She has her reasons and many of which arnt even because of you. On to he next and maybe you were to eager to chill.
/r/seduction19/03/16 02:44 AM
7

Movies are fine for a day 4+. Still a possibility to kino with her and movies are fun To watch.
/r/seduction19/03/16 02:42 AM
10

This. Get comfortable when all eyes turn on you.
/r/seduction18/03/16 05:36 AM
0

Imagine getting to the point where you are also fucking most of the girls you meet. On a regular basis. Girls always hitting you up. I was there for a bit with 3 girls but have since fallen to 1. In a rut right now. Nice post
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:31 PM
5

Dude 22 and a couple lays? Start daygaming bro it'll change your life. Just turned 27 here and here I am wishing I started at 22. It's advice I would give to myself at 22.
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:16 PM
1

It's crazy how smooth I am around unattractive girls. I give way less fucks because losing them wouldn't phase me. I need to get this mentality with all attractiveness levels and I'm getting there. It's hard when I just fucked my first 9 and I'm becoming a clinger all over again..
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:19 AM
5

It seems like a good idea at the time. But it never results in a positive outcome. I agree
/r/seduction14/03/16 01:51 AM
2

I've fucked 8 girls in the last 6 months after u finally started day game and Tinder. The last girl was a legit 9/10 and my dick was broken. Like it wouldn't work. Took me 20 min to get hard. Point is it happens allll the time. Don't be discouraged you just need to be exposed to it more. The more you do it the easier it is to get boners and keep them. ALSO.. Kegles. Google it. And do them. I've noticed it's easier to keep my boners after I started doing them every day 3 months ago.
/r/seduction09/03/16 06:28 PM
3

Practice. Don't overdo the tounge
/r/seduction09/03/16 06:22 PM
1

2 things. 1.Have a "just do it" mentality the ENTIRE TIME. Always approach. Realize you can't waste your time with Approach anxiety for obvious reasons Don't eject from sets too early.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:18 AM
2

Honestly whether you know it or not. She can likely sense that you are somewhat needy(1itis). You need to start approaching in field and using Tinder to get other girls and create abundance. When you ACTUALLY ARE busy with other things (dates with many many girls) she will notice. Good luck my friend. Day game is hard but once you nail it it's fucking life changing.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:14 AM
1

Bro if you do go for coffee. (I would) she's been thinking about you. She remembers the situation. You need to get to the heart of the issue when you first meet up with her. Tell her why your reluctant to reunite because of the flakyness. Tell her you won't stand for it again. And hold true to it and end it once she breaks your expectations. It's basically giving her a second chance. I mean.. Why not start seeing her again and have abundance (2-5 other girls and constantly meeting other girls on…
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:08 AM
11

Holy fuck I'm hitting the gym tomorrow and waking up at 7am. Fuckkkkkkk meeeeeeeeee. Thx bro.
/r/seduction09/03/16 08:54 AM
3

Dude. Fucking move. Make it your top priority
/r/seduction06/03/16 01:41 AM
5

Don't say dinner. Say drinks IMO. Much more casual
/r/seduction04/03/16 02:55 AM
2

Hit my bong. Checkout my view. Show you this thing I drew. I give great massages. Come over for a drink. Netflix+chill. Check out pics of my trip to _____.
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:52 AM
144

Dude I literally messaged a girl randomly "what are you doing tonight? ". She was a legit 9. She messages me back says she's free. Turns out to be a nympho. Hottest girl I've ever fucked. Miracles happen online dude. Grats on 100 approaches. That's a fuck ton.
/r/seduction02/03/16 02:38 AM
1

Dude. I'm going double dates some days. Those are rough. Especially when you fclose the first one. I just got back from another day 1. Kiss close afterwards. 30 sec makeout. Bad logistics. I was really into this one actually. But I can't get over last night. I literally fucked a girl so hot. Never in my wildest dreams.
/r/seduction01/03/16 06:46 AM
2

Say "this place has the worst decour. What idiot put all these hideous pieces of furniture together."
/r/seduction29/02/16 11:02 AM
1

Honestly. As much as people tell you not to. I did. I took about 15 months getting a much better physique before I started approaching. One thing I noticed was how much girls fucking love muscle. Touching it. Grabbing it. Complimenting them. They fucking love it. Ultimitly do what you think you are ready for. But in reality you can start to learn game without being huge.
/r/seduction28/02/16 05:08 AM
2

Amazing channel. All of the videos are gold. Things he gets away with. Check out his montage vid of all the 10s he pulls. Truley inspiring
/r/seduction28/02/16 05:05 AM
1

Day game homie. Test it out. Gl
/r/seduction27/02/16 06:39 PM
1

Some girls say this and it's a lie. Sounds like she told you this AFTER you got her number which leads me to believe she's telling the truth. In this case I'd delete the number and approach more
/r/seduction24/02/16 05:01 AM
2

Dude the last show I was at. I held eye contact with a girl for like 3 seconds (actually long as fuck) and we were making out within 10 min. Granted we were both high but still.
/r/seduction24/02/16 04:17 AM
1

This is so much better. And something an experienced pua can pull off. Not a rookie. Because your about to get hit with a massive shit test once you use it.
/r/seduction24/02/16 04:14 AM
2

You need to approach more. Maybe send her a message on fb but if she doesn't show much interest than don't invest much more time into her. You talked to her for a few min and got her name. Youre investing too much into her without a reason for it.
/r/seduction24/02/16 03:59 AM
1

Looking for a good answer for this too. Is there a chance for you to tell her to tone down the texting? Is it putting you off that much you want to get rid of her?
/r/seduction24/02/16 03:57 AM
1

Pocket cooler. Amazing idea. With some wine and sandwiches + crackers and cheese. Nice
/r/seduction23/02/16 07:00 PM
2

Abundance is so key. I literally don't have time in the week to fit girls in and it sucks because some of them are awesome. Just no time... This is coming from just 6 months of mostly night game+Tinder. Before that I was a beta Faggot for ~8years. Feels fucking good.
/r/seduction21/02/16 07:30 PM
2

It's crazy. Once you see success over a period of a few months. You wonder what the FUCK you were doing all those times before when you pussied out approaching. Grats man
/r/seduction21/02/16 07:26 PM
2

The fuck did you expect?
/r/seduction19/02/16 05:47 AM
1

2 things you should do as little games. Maintain eye contact with every girl you walk past. Train yourself to breakaway last, and then breakaway right after she does and look to the side. Ask girls for the time because your "phone is dead". Start small bro if youre overwhelmed
/r/seduction19/02/16 02:56 AM
5

Good on You man. Chances are you made her day.
/r/seduction19/02/16 02:53 AM
9

Strong this man. I feel like it would be wierd as fuck to both have headphones on. What about the ambient noise? Tree branches swaying, the ripple of the water, the moisture dripping from her vagina, and her subtle moans. Id stick with the portable speaker(which every smartphone has) Strong idea though. I feel more confident now to try a date like this on a day 4 or 5.
/r/seduction19/02/16 02:51 AM
1

Sounded to me like she wanted to fuck and you failed her shit test when she said it's not going to work because she's older.
/r/seduction19/02/16 02:48 AM
3

I find jizzing is mental. You need to psych yourself up
/r/seduction15/02/16 08:28 PM
3

That's actually not a bad idea.
/r/seduction15/02/16 06:37 PM
1

"You look so familiar. Where do I know you from?"
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:45 PM
2

You need to approach more during the day and at night. Simple solution dude
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:44 PM
3

Once you have sex you will realize what all the hype is about. It's literally my favourite thing to do in life. Nothing comes even close.
/r/seduction10/02/16 12:00 AM
11

You approach 2 girls? And come to this conclusion. Dude. There could be 100s of reasons why they weren't interested. Many of which are out of your control. How can you let these two girls make you feel shitty? They don't even know you. Do you figure that if they actually knew you they wouldn't like you? Your most likely an awesome dude with a lot to offer. Don't let these 2 girls change your view of how awesome you are. When I first started 7/10 approaches would result in a quick blowout. Of the…
/r/seduction09/02/16 11:49 PM
2

This op. If the date is 6-7 days away through it wouldn't hurt to text back and forth a couple times on day 3-4. But keep it minimal. The day of the date message her around 10-11am and bring up the date. Phrase it in a way like "I'll pick you up at 7:00 tonight" instead of "are we still on for tonight".
/r/seduction09/02/16 11:40 PM
3

A Wing man is much more useful if she is with friends. Which like 96% of girls are. The only problem your going to have without a wing is its going to be harder to isolate the girl. Your going to have to address her friends "I'm stealing her away for a couple of minutes". be firm and direct. Don't take no for an answer type of thing. This takes practice and is an important part of game(isolation). Most importantly, having a wing is only a bonus. It's 100% possible to pull a girl without a wing. …
/r/seduction09/02/16 11:37 PM
78

Sick opener bro.
/r/seduction09/02/16 11:32 PM
4

Your young as fuck. Three tips from a 26 year old that averages 2-3 dates a week and on average a new lay every month. 1. The Abundance mentality. When in doubt, approach more girls . 2. Eye contact(try to break eye contact less and less with everyone you come into contact with).. 3. Lift weights. Start early and reap the rewards.
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:50 AM
3

This. but up the kino a bit.
/r/seduction07/02/16 12:41 AM
39

Why don't you ask the girl who was grinding her pussy on my abs the other night.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:20 PM
1

All you need is warm water in the towel. 30 second vigorous scrub. Reapply watter if needed. Do ur buthole last. Get your pits if your feeling it. The deoderant. 45 seconds Max. Fuk a shower. Overkill
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:51 AM
26

Solid post. We need more posts of specific things like this. I have had much better text game when having abundance. I ask less questions and its more about logistics. Sometimes I also escalate a bit via text if we have a nice make out after a day 2 for example. It seems to have worked for me because I think I don't over do it. Some people may say not to sexually escalate over text. I really like the "either let's go for a drink or you can seranade me and feed me grapes." That's a cool way to mi…
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:48 AM
11

Assume every girl you talk to, deep down, without showing it, that they want nothing more that to fuck your brains out.
/r/seduction20/01/16 07:34 PM
5

For me the first week was just maintaining eye contact. The conversations tended to stagnate but that's because I was only focused on making regular eye contact and makih her break first like 90%. Seems small but it became more consistent. Eye contact is like a little side game within a conversation. Almost like a dance.
/r/seduction20/01/16 07:32 PM
1

Approach
/r/seduction19/01/16 05:39 PM
1

Dude. Just limit yourself. It's important to not jerk it every day once you have abundance. Every few days is OK but once you realize how much harder you cum with a girl you will realize all those faps will feel so dumb. Cum in a girls presence and the loads are way more crazy and the orgasms are 100x better.
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:43 AM
0

Bro I just finished with a girl from 1130-530. Hand job in the car. About to head on a day 3 at 700. 2 dates in 1 day is clutch. ;) also cutting off the date early will mean your busy. Which she will notice and it'll build attraction.
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:38 AM
2

Dude no. Day game to wheel chicks. Friendzone at last resort.
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:38 AM
1

Yes I do. When she's going on a rant about something sometimes I'll try and focus to not fidget. And stay calm and still. Also I'm constantly telling myself to make eye contact. I've been doing this more on dates. And its really fun. Eye contact is like a game in and of itself
/r/seduction16/01/16 06:39 PM
3

You have to realize that the girls that reject you. Don't really know you. So don't take it so personal. Think of how many people in your life REALLY know you. Maybe only a few. So how can she reject something in which she doesn't even know anything about. So you see my point. You just need to always approach. It will solve all your problems man.
/r/seduction16/01/16 06:37 PM
1

Think about it this way. If a girl rejects you right off the bat is it bad? No. She doesn't even know you dude. You just met you.she doesn't even know anything about you. Don't take it personally. The only way to improve is to approach. A lot.. Get over it sooner rather than never.
/r/seduction16/01/16 06:54 AM
2

Bro. You are getting 1itis with this girl. Lay off the texts for a bit. You got her on a day 1. That's a great start. No need to text her all the time afterwards.
/r/seduction13/01/16 06:09 PM
3

And settle down so quickly? The game is the only way to truly grow as a man
/r/seduction13/01/16 02:10 AM
1

In their primes? Currently? I'd say mystery is goat. And style and Tyler are probably top 5 all time.
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:40 PM
1

Props dude. Now it's on to the next one.
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:47 AM
1

6'6" checking in. I rest my chin on most girls heads when we hug. And I grind on a lot of lower backs when dancing. But overall I think its a huge advantage. Everybody fucking sees you dude. Where ever you are. Try not to hunch over so much. Stand tall.
/r/seduction02/01/16 12:29 AM
1

If you from Vancouver bro my buddy and me are going to start day game downtown. More than welcome to join. Plus you look normal - above normal. Nothing wrong with ur looks.
/r/seduction29/12/15 06:29 PM
2

Lol. Rule one. Never let her see your code
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:49 AM
1

On to the next bro. Nice little experiance but... On to the next one.
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:45 AM
4

For some reason I never thought to get out my car and hug a girl when she first arrives. Plus the door open. Thx for the tip.
/r/seduction24/12/15 02:16 AM
1

Models?
/r/seduction24/12/15 01:42 AM
1

I bet you even as she was getting dressed you could have kissed her and she was down. Likly annoyed but I bet even at that point you could have saved it. Clit piercing dude... Like... Come on! Some girls want to take it slow but this chick wanted ur d.
/r/seduction24/12/15 01:36 AM
3

Haha bro if your like me your going on 3-5 dates a week. Unless I'm fucking them I go 50/50 after the first one.
/r/seduction20/12/15 11:34 PM
1

Fuck ya bud. Keep it up
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:02 AM
1

You forgot rsdluke. He is new but I really resonated with his early vids
/r/seduction12/12/15 05:51 AM
3

If your 100% sure she lied about it then move on dude. Don't text her again. Start up our day game approaches again 5 per day to start. Goodluck
/r/seduction12/12/15 05:45 AM
1

Time is your friend. You need a reminder of what other girls are like in bed. Because your ex may have been good but I'm willing to bet there are other girls out there that will blow your mind 10 fold. Now its up to you to find them.
/r/seduction12/12/15 05:40 AM
5

You been hitting it off over text? Texting should be to setup the next in person meet up. Common mistake is to over text and try to establish a connection with some words instead of in person. Send her "OK" and don't text her again for 4-6 days. Don't get 1 it is bro. Shit goes south every damn motherfucking time. Goodluck
/r/seduction10/12/15 09:24 AM
5

Read 'models' and 'the power of now'. my top 2 choices. These two resonated with me the most.
/r/seduction24/11/15 12:13 AM
7

You absolutely must start using kino.
/r/seduction12/11/15 05:23 AM
1

Thanks man
/r/seduction11/11/15 04:44 AM
1

Thanks man
/r/seduction11/11/15 04:44 AM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction11/11/15 04:44 AM
2

Thanks for the laugh op
/r/seduction09/11/15 08:30 PM
1

My advice for people on ground 0. No YouTube video or blog or seddit post or pickup book will supplement actually approaching a girl.
/r/seduction27/10/15 07:11 AM
3

Don't shit where you eat. The girls in your classes and at work are easy approaches. What's worse is dating a coworker and then breaking up. That's why I no longer shit where I eat.
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:33 PM
1

I was going t0 order it off amazon. Npt worth it?
/r/seduction17/10/15 09:13 PM
10

Atta boy. Grats. Wait a couple days before texting. Don't get 1itis. Keep approaching.
/r/seduction17/10/15 07:50 PM
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If I can provide you with advise. 4 things you need to do. 1 A book. Models by Mark Manson. 2 start lifting weights and get jacked. 3 frequent this subreddit. 4. approach five girls a day minimum. Good luck
/r/seduction15/10/15 06:34 AM
5

This is big. I realized that pepple don't have their shit together as much as I thought and have insecurities just like me.
/r/seduction14/10/15 05:47 PM
57

My last date: went for drinks at a brewery. Walked to a park. There was a white cat that we chilled with for like 45 min. It was actually nuts. Then walked to McDonalds after we blazed. Bj in my car at the end. Rule of 3s
/r/seduction12/10/15 03:55 PM
3

That post would be the most down voted post in that subs history
/r/seduction08/10/15 02:17 AM
3

Day game
/r/seduction07/10/15 07:22 AM
1

Ya bro. Good on you. That's the right attitude. You handled that exchange well I thought. Might be worth a retext in 4-5 days. Then if that goes poorly I'd stop trying to wheel her. Abundance is your friend.
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:41 AM
2

Maintain eye contact. F-close
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:35 AM
1

Considering I havnt approached a girl in over a year you are 1 step ahead of me. Good on ya
/r/seduction06/10/15 03:17 PM
22

"Call me" while holding my fingers in the shape of a phone to my ear as she walks away. Cracks me up
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:09 AM
6

I'm 6'5" and I have no game.
/r/seduction05/10/15 01:22 AM
7

I've been working on eye contact. The first time I see someone I know in a day I try not to break eye contact with them. Normally I always break off first. So I'm trying it out.
/r/seduction02/10/15 04:05 AM
1

The fact that by actually approaching girls I realized I could put my penis into a few vaginas if I did it properly.
/r/seduction30/09/15 05:27 PM
1

Not that cringy IMO
/r/seduction30/09/15 05:25 PM
2

If you're leaving in a year all the more reason to not give a fuck what any girl thinks about your approaches.
/r/seduction27/09/15 04:27 PM
1

Yoga. Go once a week. 20min early and leave 10 min after. Use this 30 min to say hi to a couple girls and see where it goes. Ratio is usually 10:1 and they are mostly always fit.
/r/seduction27/09/15 04:25 PM
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When riding solo just pretend you lost your friends. You're one step ahead of me because I don't even go out. Still working on my confidence to even do that.
/r/seduction27/09/15 04:21 PM
1

Bro. As someone who has yet to make a cold approach in 2 months of learning game ypu are one step ahead of me. I can't seem to muster up and talk to girls. One day.
/r/seduction25/09/15 11:45 PM
0

I really don't think Tucker max is funny.
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:27 PM
1

Next time park at a scenic spot and get out and sit on a bench or something. Easier to keno her. I wouldn't consider it a 'fuck up'
/r/seduction19/09/15 05:07 PM
2

You got blown out. On to the next. Good reference experience for you.
/r/seduction19/09/15 02:12 PM
1

I'm 6'5" this is relevant to me. I can't pick up girls for the life of me. Just getting into it at 26. In 3/22 as far as number closed to approaches. 2/3 flaked. So I guess I'm 1/22 lol.
/r/seduction17/09/15 09:37 PM
2

It doesn't really matter man. Don't dwell on it. keep meeting new girls.
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:28 AM
5

Face to face bro. Only proper way to do it. Make the drive. Then start wheeling once you get back
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:26 AM
1

I'm having trouble approaching girls. I've read everything about aa though. I know the steps I have to take and the tricks to make approaches. I'm curious though. What made you start approaching? Was there a clear switch in your mind where 1 day you decided to approach?
/r/seduction14/09/15 05:32 AM
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Your roommates would be dicks if they tried picking up a girl you brought home
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:52 AM
2

I've gotten many fake numbers. It's 1 night. You realize your mistakes. Big thing is try to push further and get pizza with the next girl your with. There are so many women don't get caught up on 1.
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:50 AM
1

Downtown in the major city that you live by. All sorts of attractive women
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:46 AM
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Hahah fuck that sucks.
/r/seduction12/09/15 09:54 PM
2

Awaken the giant within by Anthony Robbins if you haven't. Written in 1996. It really spoke to mn. A must read imo. Other books by Eckhart tolle. And tha one by Mark Manson is good. Models.
/r/seduction11/09/15 01:42 AM
1

Where is approaching girls?
/r/seduction05/09/15 06:54 AM
1

Details?
/r/seduction04/09/15 05:32 PM
1

nobody cares. But if they did, they don't even know you. You know youre improving yourself. Practice is the only thing that matters in the end.
/r/seduction03/09/15 08:26 PM
2

bro. similar thing happened to me. was seeing a girl for 4 months who had split with her bf because he went on a 5 month vacation. when he got back she wanted to get back with him. I told her to make her decision before he got back if it was me or him. she chose him. i deleted her off everything and havnt spoken to her for 2 weeks. last night she messaged me saying hse missed hanging out with me (her ex gets back in 2 days) i told her Im no longer interested. Get it out of your head that there i…
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:39 PM
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Sounds like a bunch of complaining to me. We are all dealt different hands in life. Life isn't fair. Genetics arnt fair. Hit the gym. Start eating right. Small steps. Nothing big. It's a slow process. What really helps me is realizing the likely hood of being alive, coupled with the fact that I have food and water. Your life is what you make it. Literally. Nobody gives a fuck about you, but you. I wish you the best dude.
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:19 AM
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Sounded like an overall good experience. You got to work on your game and scored an insta date. If every interaction led to sex the game wouldn't be fun and every guy would get laid all the time. Keep your head up and keep pushing.
/r/seduction31/08/15 12:14 AM
2

Hair. Has she touched her hair once you started talking to her. If the answer is yes she's down.
/r/seduction29/08/15 02:39 AM
1

Bud your still one step ahead of me I haven't even gone put yet to day game...
/r/seduction27/08/15 05:32 PM
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