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Just wanted to say that I’m a woman your age and I’m in the same situation.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 06:57 PM
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Yeah there are women with low or no libidos. It varies wildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:50 AM
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What are those studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:58 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:57 PM
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Would you broadly call the red pill popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:56 PM
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You’re severely simplifying what the RP is. It’s not just “many people are really shallow and treat better looking people better”. It’s “you’ll never in your life find a single woman who genuinely likes a below pretty attractive looking man, and every woman is more or less only shallow, to an extreme degree, to such a degree that about 80% of men will never have a woman be genuinely into him”. It’s taking simple truths to extreme levels. It’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:54 PM
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I don’t feel unsafe practically anywhere I go. Yes I would approach. However I’ve never really needed to do so, every time I’ve been interested in a guy they’ve somehow magically approached me first. I swear it’s not on purpose it’s just like, we’re hanging out, getting closer and closer together as friends and then they’ve just always taken the first step for some reason. Only with women have I done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 PM
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The risk of suicide and depression is higher in those who take hormonal birth control, and one of the most common side effects is lower libido Birth control isn’t “normal hormone levels”. It gives you an artificial “cycle” that’s not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:38 PM
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And a lot of women have crazy hormones due to hormonal birth control. Common effect of birth control is lower libido and permanently higher suicide rate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:26 PM
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Well maybe. Just like most people would prefer the most attractive person in the entire world. Doesn’t say much. You can’t prefer casual sex and marriage at the same time, at least not if you shame partners you have casual sex with, without being a disgusting hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:55 PM
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Most men prefer a traditional marriage to having casual sex and fucking around? Or do they want both, sort of, which is literally AF/BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:44 PM
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They definitely can choose to be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:39 PM
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Well yeah people are manipulative sometimes. It’s just that some men seem to freak the fuck out at crying when they really shouldn’t (but it’s still understandable that they do it).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:25 PM
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Just out of interest: why are people here? Like what do y’all like about this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:23 PM
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*Average straight men have less casual sex than average straight women, but they’re fine with this and prefer it to a traditional lifelong monogamous marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:23 PM
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Crying as well. Many men understandably takes someone crying as “their world just fell apart” and ocerpathologize it when women cry, or thinking they’re crying to cause a scene or be manipulative. But many women cry for extremely benign reasons that don’t mean much at all, similar to swearing when you stub your toe. Trans women also often say that they spontaneously and uncontrollably cried much more often after hormone therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:18 PM
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So women should stop thinking with their little head and men should not. Classic RP logic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:15 PM
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What if I don’t want a guy who values virgins? Why should I go by what most guys want, when I’m only trying to date one? Or vice versa? Additionally, if men value virgins, men are actively lowering women’s future prospects by having casual sex with these women. There’s two to tango. Is this moral? From your perspective the only moral system is early marriage where both are virgins, correct? You criticized current system for being unfair to men, but a system where men are allowed casual sex and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:59 PM
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Perhaps, but you’re essentially saying it’s okay to do if you’re able to, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:52 PM
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But you’re saying “the issue with AF BB is that women get to experience it because they get casual sex, and men do not. That’s unfair. But when men do it, it’s okay and it’s completely fair to at the same time shame women for doing it and not choose them as partners”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:47 PM
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We definitely don’t in Denmark. Everyone’s a hoe so you can’t really be one. So yeah I guess I can’t relate to that perspective at all. Don’t you see how that’s pretty hypocritical of the men though? They want to practice AF BB but do not accept women doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:43 PM
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That’s all in your head, or you’re somewhere I’m not. Go out in life and see literally everyone doing this and following this lifestyle. The RP and blackpill community, is extremely niche and small. For every Andrew Tate follower there were five people making fun of him and he was banned. “Incel” is a standard insult now FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:38 PM
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Perhaps, just like everyone, ideally, in their head, prefer an insanely beautiful partner. But life is full of trade offs. Most men nor women in the west are not interested in a traditional marriage and never having casual sex. This is the natural outcome of not following that, and most people more than accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:33 PM
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I remember that one 4Chan post about a guy being glabbergasted about going to a party and kissing a girl “without even trying”, haha. Like yeah, that’s how it happens. I’m from Denmark where most people start to party regularly when you’re about 16, and it’s mostly class parties where everyone is invited. Schools even have parties regularly with alcohol. This means even socially awkward nerds get the party experience easily if they want to. My BF was an exchange in a small town in the US for a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:32 PM
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Where in the world are you where most people haven’t done drugs? I personally count alcohol as a drug but like, not even weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:26 PM
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Sucks to be them. I’m sure most women are bothered by the fact that they’ll no longer have get a shitload of money by their man and have to work now (stay at home moms are extremely rare in Denmark, I have never met a single one). I still think it’s the better more moral option that most people prefer to the old model. If some people prefer the old model, good for them, a lot do not. I think most men prefer some casual sex and relationship exploration, even if that means that women have had some…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:22 PM
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Yes, maybe. And most are pretty fine with this. It’s only online I see this extreme resentment towards the fact that people who date men have more easy access to sex, IRL people shrug and accept it as a fact of life. Maybe I’m skewed by the fact that I live in Denmark, a place even a notorious RP guru (Roosh V) admitted that redpill techniques broadly did not work and sex was more evenly distributed among men. But still. It doesn’t seem to bother the vast majority of people that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:13 PM
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Well yeah. But many people will say AF BB or a similar dating strategy is downright immoral to practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:05 PM
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Yes they should. Anti natalists doesn’t advocate not having sex or chasing sex, just not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:00 PM
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So you agree it’s fundamentally an egoistical ideology? It’s fine to compete, but why advocate continuing the sad mess? You can have your RP tradwife, but don’t bring anyone else into this world, work on ending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:59 PM
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Most RP and black pill dudes I’ve seen says it’s biological, unchangeable and hardwired that women are only attracted to the 20%/relatively few men. Women in the past were just socially semi-forced into marriages with men they weren’t attracted to. Which I reckon you would agree is really sad for both parties? If you have a different perspective, or it’s your impression that this is not the most common position, I’d love to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:57 PM
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YOU could, yes. It’s fundamentally egoistical. Anti natalism advocates for everyone to stop having kids so the human race will die out. You can compete and then not have kids, it isn’t that hard, it’s called birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:53 PM
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So your solution is that people are doomed to a life where women will eternally think of other men while having sex? I mean. More power to you and your fetishes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:52 PM
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That would just create a new higher standard for who is the 20%, no? And sure that’s the solution for yourself, in a purely egoistical way, but it will never be sustainable for the vast majority of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:50 PM
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This subreddit is definitely not representative of the average person, but I also don’t think it’s as rare as RP makes it out to be. Women are for example actually less likely to leave sick or jobless men than the reverse IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:48 PM
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But why would you have hope for biological inevitabilities to change? I guess you could hope for more women choosing men they don’t really like and aren’t attracted to, but that sounds awful for both the man and the woman in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:45 PM
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Exactly. Why not quit when it will always apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:45 PM
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Okay, then blackpill. I’ve seen redpill guys believe this too though, they just believe you can become a top 20 (and if every guy on earth did that there’d just be a new top 20, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:44 PM
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Anti natalists are against people having kids and want the human race to die out because existence is miserable. I don’t see your point about sex? I think the vast majority would agree with especially the second point lol because we know we can’t orgasm from penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:43 PM
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I’d not like that. I earn much more money than my boyfriend and pay for much more too. I don’t differentiate between boyfriend and husband since my culture doesn’t either. So no thanks. I don’t think it has anything to do with housework though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:41 PM
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Agreed. This is just what most people will naturally do when left to our own devices, and contrary to these spaces online my impression is that the vast majority of both men and women are absolutely fine with this system. Women (and gay and bi men. Really, people attracted to men. I know some lesbians and they’re also getting less action) will have an easier time hooking up, sure, but most men will still have notches in their belt too. Every single guy I know who flirted with Incel thoughts as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:36 PM
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I never truly believed in it. But I understand why it happens. I’ve been close to believing it (as a woman). When you already have a low opinion of yourself, it’s easy to accept other people hating you. You become addicted to reading things that “are just uncomfortable truths” as a form of digital self harm and misery. We’re told to accept uncomfortable truths, reality is uncomfortable, accept it or be a sheep living in a fantasy land. No one wants to be that sheep, people want to be enlightened…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 09:41 AM
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