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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | 1 year since Divorce was finalized, I (30M) would like to hear from others, what has been their experiences and updates after the one year mark? | jeko21 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 03:15 AM | |
| 13 | It’s finally over, after 9 years together and 5 married, it all came to an end. | jeko21 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/21 08:02 PM | |
| 13 | What did you forget (or wish) to put in your divorce decree? Especially for visitation/child custody. | jeko21 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/21 02:28 AM | |
| 4 | Ranting..Ex being difficult about visitation time. | jeko21 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 06:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Infant circumcisionI got circumcised at in my late 20’s, I will say the sensitivity decreased, but I have found my “orgasms” are more intense (mayor difference that I noticed), I wish I could have kept my hood, but I was having problems and need it gone. That being say, yes it should be to “baby’s” decision when he’s old enough to take it, it should not be up to the parents. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 01:33 PM |
| 3 | My ex keeps hitting me upHave you ever hear the phrase “out of sight l, out of mind” Block her from everything and move on, you are just feeding her ego. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Ranting..Ex being difficult about visitation time.I don’t mind moving my pick up day 2 days later, I understand those events are important and I’m all bout my daughter being there for it, I just simply ask for my ex to meet me half way when it’s time for me to pick her up. Which my ex seems to have a big problem with it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or is my STBX delusional?My man, it’s not your problem anymore. Focus on your kids and wish her the best. It’s time for her to face reality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/23 05:32 PM |
| 13 | Men...There is Life After Death“We took our time “ A month is not a lot of time. You and her are not in a position to take anything seriously right now, haven you read the rest of the stories in this subreddit? Come on man, I’m not saying it can be a good relationship but what are the chances? Be real with yourself. You are just gonna dig a deeper whole if it doesn’t work. She’s not even done with the divorce, and she’s already looking for someone, that’s an affair. Put your pants on my man and go look for a better life for y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Question about mediation(Based on the USA) My ex and I did mediation, we both had attorneys. I think what sped up the process was that my attorney and I drafted a a “decree of dissolution” detailing what I wanted when it came to a parenting plan, send it to her attorney before the mediation so they could review it. ( all of this with my attorney’s approval). Mediation lasted less than an hour where we modified the document right there so both parents were content. The very next day the judge signed the decree and it wa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/23 01:11 AM |
| 7 | STBXW claims I ruined her life, career and any chance of us being friendsAfter all she did, she has clearly stablished herself as a vindictive person, and you still want her around your circle……… wake up man! Wake up! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Upcoming divorce in IowaI divorced in IA, 5 years of marriage, she couldn’t get alimony because the marriage was too short. I took my time to look for an attorney that I could afford and was ready to fight if needed, ( I can give you his contact info you’re from the north part of the state) my attorney and I drafted a paper with everything to include the parenting plan. She got it and reviewed with her attorney and we went to mediation. Mediation lasted only one hr and the next day the judge signed the divorce decree. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/22 07:05 AM |
| 8 | Getting marriedI got you, just hear me out! 1 DO NOT GET MARRIED. You can have a family and kids without getting married, if she really loves you and wants to be with you, she will understand and accept the terms. 2 see #1 All jokes aside, I wouldn’t get married, it’s just not worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone changed their mind?Stay on course, be patient and give it time. Right now you just miss the routine. Pick up a new hobbie, hit the weights. It will all come together with time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/22 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend is letting her ex-husband stay at her house for the kidsAfter reading your past posts, and her background of problems, I’m surprised you still with her and trying to “make this work”. You have 9 months with her and already going to therapy? Run!!!!! And never look back. She has major issues that need to be solved (and only she can do it). | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | ironing out final custody agreement... need inputThese are a few that have come in handy for me since I live in another state. Set a exact place for pick up and drop off, a public place with plenty of cameras. A clause the makes the children remain in the same district school until HS is completed. 529 Plan where both of you contribute each month but you manage the account, you might get a tax break depending on the state you reside. Failure to adapt to the custody agreement, the party found in contempt in front of the court will pay the other… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | ironing out final custody agreement... need inputThose aren’t kids, those are almost adults now… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 18 | Omg I’m so annoyedDon’t wait on her, don’t take her into consideration, my ex played this game too. I was patient tru the whole process and showed my ex I wanted the divorce to be amicable, all she did was to come up with some lame excuse to delay the process. Your STBX doesn’t respect you and wants to feel in control of the situation. Have your lawyer do everything by the book as soon as possible, so you can turn the page. If you entertain this type of behavior, she will continue to do it even after the divorce … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Still struggling with thoughts of infidelity.It seems that you’re looking for closure to make your mind that this is over, the only proof/closure that you need is how she disrespected you and your marriage. She did you dirty and there’s no going back. You already know what happen, but you still want that “hard proof” to be 100 percent sure because there is still doubt in you that this is not possible, but let me tell you if you get that hard proof is not gonna make a difference. Focus on how she failed you and that should be enough for you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/21 04:45 PM |
| 9 | She caught me texting other womenI’m you go back with her, she’s gonna do it again the moment things go down again, she will text other dudes. Move on and save a lot of trouble! I forgave my “wife” the first time I caught her doing this, started with text and moved to 3hrs+ phone calls, every day with a guy, she did it again and a third time, this time said guy is move in with her and act like a happy couple even tho we are still legally married. Listen to the other comments, she will trade you the moment she find someone that … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/21 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Post Serving STBXWNothing but respect! I’m proud of you for putting your self-first. You got this bro! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/21 11:54 PM |
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