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jerry_rigger/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/14 04:25 PM
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jerry_rigger/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 09:02 AM
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jerry_rigger/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 08:57 PM
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Don't be a bitch. Shave it and own it. The sooner the better. IMO, clinging to thinning hair makes you look out of touch with reality and reek of desperation.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 07:24 PM
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Well it's not Vaseline, cause if it was you'd have a ponytail growing out your ass.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:55 AM
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Why have to drive ~10 minutes to get to lift? To get you outta the fucking house and around other people that aren't your wife.
/r/askMRP11/07/16 04:21 PM
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Go home.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 09:07 PM
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Just join. If you wait you won't. Join something that has sparring. BJJ, Boxing, Muay Thai, MMA.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 12:26 AM
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Be who you want to be not what you were. Accumulate friends along the way. Don't waste resources on shit that isn't the new you.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 09:13 PM
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I agree with Eyes of the Dragon. You're over thinking. I always hold the door just so I can give 'em a good firm slap on the ass.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 04:56 PM
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how did you started with approaching? You just do it. what would happen if she say YES You get her go out with her and hopefully fuck. WARNING: As a virgin you'll be prone to oneitis.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:23 PM
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Do you even read, Bro? You are beta orbiter validating her. You are operating in her frame. It may be too late. You need to bring her into your frame and escalate.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 06:37 PM
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Stop light. Green = good Yellow = slow / ease off Red = hard stop
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:48 PM
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Lift. In the mean time learn to push and order her around.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:45 PM
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Sitting next to her makes escalating way fucking easier. If you go out and sit across the table it's more difficult. Make it a point to sit next to her or if your frame is strong enough tell her to sit next to you. Besides that you just gotta do it.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 04:29 PM
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Sounds fun except for the cumming inside.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 04:14 PM
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No big deal if she wants you to tie her up and choke her with your cock or slap her ass with a paddle. I thought this was all standard.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 03:52 PM
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True, it can be excessive if you don't have the proper frame. But with proper frame you can get away with just about anything.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 09:15 PM
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Yes, but how? What are you writing? How is it being interpreted? Are you a bad fuck?
/r/askTRP18/06/16 09:03 PM
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Always assume they're riding another cock. Are you coming across needy?
/r/askTRP18/06/16 07:29 PM
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"Nope. I'm a fucking asshole."
/r/askTRP18/06/16 06:01 PM
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This falls under grooming and hygiene, so yes do something. You don't have to go hairless but at the very least comb/brush it out if you go all natural. Like another poster already stated, you don't want women fishing for your pubes.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 05:42 PM
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You gotta be confident. Who's the prize? Hint: It ain't her.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:41 PM
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BJJ is fucking awesome and fun as hell. Don't forget about Judo (no personal experience but have heard good things). MMA if you want striking and grappling.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 04:39 PM
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unless there is a real physical treat (like knife), I don't want to get police involved, at any cost. There were some TRP threads that suggested this. Any thoughts on this? Any first-hand experience stating otherwise? Well, I hate to break it to you but, YOU FUCKED UP. In a divorce you'll need all the ammo you can get. No police, no police report. No police report, no records of assault. No records of assault, then it's just here say. If its just arguing here say, they're more likely to side wit…
/r/askMRP08/12/15 03:35 AM
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Just to add to the other solid advice: Have you considered taking over the kitchen? By this I mean you do all the grocery shopping and you cook most/all the meals you can. This won't work 100% though. Cause she can still go buy/eat junk. But if you take it upon yourself to cook breakfast and dinner there are two meals a day you can control. You can keep them healthy and exercise proper portion control.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 03:02 PM
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What about the truth? "I don't drink." You don't need to explain yourself. You're a grown ass man, are you not? I rarely drink and when questioned my responsible is, "I like guns/motorcycles more."
/r/askTRP17/10/15 02:11 PM
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Moderation, motherfucker, can you handle it? Seriously though, I used to watch way too much porn and jerk off compulsively. Ever get chapped-dick? Friction burn on your foreskin? Anyways I went cold turkey and blocked porn on electronic devices. If you can't break the compulsion, replace the compulsion. Do something productive when you get the urge to jerk the gherkin. It took about 6 months to break the addiction. But now I'm at a point where my wife and I can browse BDSM pics together looking …
/r/askMRP09/10/15 03:31 PM
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My father is a handyman type. Growing up I had to help him on all kinds of shit, every weekend. So you can say that I'm predisposed to being mechanically inclined and handy. That being said there is a bunch of shit I don't know. What do I do when there's something that needs fixing and I have no clue? I do the same shit you did, google and youtube. I also have my dad and grandfather-in-law to ask. Also it's also good to know when you're in over your head. Paying to have a problem fixed is cheape…
/r/askMRP07/10/15 05:34 AM
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I'd say getting a little cocky is acceptable.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 08:08 PM
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A curious third.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 08:07 PM
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Wife makes 6 times my wage. Doesn't me a goddamn thing IF you're on top of your shit. You may want to count it as a strike against you so that you work harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:25 PM
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Let's not forget sending all of age males to the male compound. For those who haven't / don't want to watch it: Of age = pre-teen. You're sent away before puberty really starts to kick in. Why? Testosterone. Male compound = death. They send boys off to find their fathers in a compound which doesn't exist in a zombie infested city.
/r/MGTOW15/09/15 02:58 PM
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"I'm reading something that will help me improve myself, which will in turn improve our relationship."
/r/askMRP15/09/15 04:20 AM
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asking, asking, ASKING, ASKING ¡¡¡STOP THAT FUCKING SHIT!!! Seriously, you're drying up the oasis. You've got to get to the point where your frame is strong enough that she wants to listen when you tell her to do something.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/15 02:54 PM
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Participation among subscribers should wax and wane. While here participate. Read, post, get shit clarified. But also leave. Go do. Don't fall into paralysis by analysis.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:17 PM
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Happy husband, happy wife. "A woman is a reflection of her man." Keep up the hard work. Also catch yourself when you start slipping. I caught myself starting to relapse a while back but caught it when I noticed warning signs. Holding frame is a perishable skill. Stay vigilant.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 06:53 AM
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If you are improving yourself and focusing on yourself, instead of following her around like a puppy on a string, dread begins to happen naturally. If you're exercising, fixing your wardrobe, have hobbies, and still hang out with the boys it falls into low level dread game. But as simple as those things are men sometimes forget/stop doing that shit even though it adds to their sense of self/identity. I forget all the steps off the top of my head but you're probably hung up on the flirting with o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 06:44 AM
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Upon further analysis I stand corrected. At first it seemed to me like cleaning to earn beta fuck points, but I took his word it wasn't. Maybe I shouldn't have. Denial is a motherfucker.
/r/askMRP10/09/15 02:03 AM
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How do I do that? You want me to fuck her for you too? In the early stages I tried initiating how I used to but that doesn't work. Have you tried anything different? Obviously following the old program doesn't bear fruit. At first even if I put my hand on her back to lead her out a door I could tell she was uncomfortable. Then you felt uncomfortable, your confidence shriveled up, you lost frame and fell into hers. I stopped all that until a few days ago and she seems more receptive to it, althou…
/r/askMRP09/09/15 09:28 PM
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I said to her that I need some movement soon, what's taking you so long, I need an idea of when you're back here full time or I'm pulling the plug... What's taking her so long? You are. You've have yet to put her feelz into cockicidal maniac overdrive. she doesn't look at me in the same way but she wants those feelings back. No lust. No desire. I'm keeping the house really nice for when she comes over so she knows what she's missing etc, taking care of the bits round the house. WRONG. You should…
/r/askMRP09/09/15 03:23 PM
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The way you wrote that also confused me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 03:21 PM
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Awalt
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 05:51 PM
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If she wants another explanation on what your doing again: "I'm improving myself for myself, which in turn will benefit you, our relationship, and our family." But then again you've already answered so you could also just broken record it. Other than that learn the difference between and shit and comfort test so you can react accordingly.
/r/askMRP05/09/15 08:49 PM
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Going through your partners shit is pretty low in my opinion. It clearly shows your Blue and/or you are trying to housewife a hoe. You are one in four billion. You aren't a snowflake you are a part of the compost pile. Hurts don't it? Good. Like exercise pain brings progress. You want her to have tingles? Make her, physically. Attraction cannot be negotiated. Stop talking about your feels. Keep improving yourself for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 08:10 PM
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But as stated it would be more beneficial if it came across as a form of soft dread instead of rewarding shit behavior. Now as how to get the desired effect I'm at a complete fucking loss.
/r/askMRP04/09/15 06:23 PM
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Gift books like already suggested. Get him out of the house away from her for quality bro time. He'll probably eventually vent and you can offer advice. Just remember you can't make him change he has to want it.
/r/askMRP04/09/15 06:08 PM
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I prefer amused mastery or agree and amplify when called an asshole. But then again I don't get ass hurt when called names in front of my child or not.
/r/askMRP04/09/15 06:01 PM
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Harsh truth. Choke down that bitter red pill.
/r/askMRP04/09/15 05:56 PM
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I'm wondering if having your daughter do more for herself would help or hinder the situation. Seems like a double edged blade. It could be a form of soft dread showing your wife she isn't needed as much as she thinks. Or it could just be rewarding the toddler like temper tantrum from the older teenager. But there's no reason the twelve year old shouldn't be able to do her own laundry and cook basic meals for herself. But as others have already suggested consult an attorney and call her bluff. If…
/r/askMRP04/09/15 05:54 PM
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Yo Professor, How is it not a covert contract if you are open about it with only yourself? Obviously if your open with your partner it's not covert.
/r/askMRP03/09/15 03:29 PM
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Things improve just enough to keep going for a while more. This is ALL you. Shit improves because you improve, lead and they follow. Then I'm guessing you slack off for one reason or another and it goes to shit. It happens, things wax and wane. I know I've caught myself slippin' as of late.
/r/askMRP03/09/15 03:06 PM
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Keep on smiling. Beware of covert contracts. Starfish sex sucks. If you step up enough BJ's happen. You're off to a decent start. You'll stumble but keep it going v
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 02:58 PM
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money, bitches, and motorcycles, man. Money, bitches, and motorcycles.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 02:33 PM
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Also Women: The Most Responsible Teenager in the House
/r/askMRP03/09/15 01:13 AM
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i think if she knew i could veto any transaction she made.. she'd be less likely to make it You'd like to think that wouldn't you. Don't be too foolhardy. If she isn't 100% onboard you're gonna get tantrums and she'll spend money anyways. Take away her credit cars. So besides getting y'all's finances in order, you need to get your shit in order. Read, exercise, lead, repeat. You know what you need to do. So go do it. Fight the good fight.
/r/askMRP02/09/15 10:37 PM
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I'm no MRP expert, but here are my thoughts. Also more experience feel free to correct me as I too am still learning, as we all are. First of all, it seems to me, that y'all are living outside your means. You're hemorrhaging money and you need to track them ALL down. You don't NEED cable, especially if you have Internet for example. Then again, you don't NEED cable or Internet. Consider canceling one or both. Also you took a vacation you clearly couldn't afford. Second you want to combine accoun…
/r/askMRP02/09/15 09:59 PM
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Anyone else think Jazz is gonna be the next Buffalo Bill a la Silence of the Lambs?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:00 AM
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Gods work.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 10:45 PM
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You also got to remember that she has this old mental picture of the way you look and act. It'll time for for her to realize it. But when she does it'll hit her like a truck. In the mean time keep focusing on yourself and working hard. Also /r/marriedredpill /r/askmrp
/r/askTRP29/08/15 05:02 PM
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That's what's I was implying. I was shocked about the sheer amount of denial and BP programming that he blames everything and everyone but himself and his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 12:50 PM
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If you're serious this book is priceless.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 05:31 AM
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She has no idea that I've got some white rope, new white boxer briefs(fancy), am going to install the black lights in our room and that tonight I'm going to tie her hands up while I stand over her in white and have my way shooting my glowing load like a shooting star over her. I thought this was baseline standard practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 05:25 AM
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I too am curious about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 05:16 AM
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OP is also at fault, it's not just his ex-wife's fault.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 05:00 AM
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Wow, this article is goddamn depressing.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 04:19 AM
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Can confirm. Also to elaborate on your point: Half of my marriage was classic /r/deadbedroom. I took advice anywhere I could get it. Most of it was BP shit that supported me self sacrificing to the point on detriment and covert contracts. Hell the marriage counselor we went too tried to feed me the same shit. As a recovering SSB (Slippery Slope Beta) the RO was bitter, jagged, and hard to choke down. After being BP for so long you don't want to believe RP even though its plain as day. My thought…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/15 03:38 AM
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I too suffer from insomnia. Things that help me: Being physically active regularly. My job isn't too physically demanding so gotta burn off excess energy. Hard exercise, walking, hiking, swimming, fucking, etc. Last call for caffeine is 3pm for me on weeknights. No screen time 1-2 hours before bed. Read a book instead. Learn to meditate or learn yoga if your too twitchy. I was never able to sit a meditate until after I learned some yoga. To fall a sleep I usually have to basically meditate until…
/r/askMRP28/08/15 07:52 AM
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"Happy Husband, Happy Wife." I too have used this one on the wife. The first time was met with jaw dropping realization because it was done a while after I made a few drastic improvements. She kinda went deer in the headlights realizing that when I was miserable so was she and that when I was happy she was.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 10:46 PM
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I feel ya, bro. I'm a recovering Slippery Slope Beta. The woman and I had a similar problem. She wasn't getting what she wanted (cuddles) and I wasn't getting what I wanted (to fuck). I basically told her no fuck, no cuddle. Among a myriad of problems, one problem at that time was trying to negotiate attraction with covert contracts and by that time lost my ability to hold any kind of frame.
/r/askMRP27/08/15 06:42 PM
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I do. Thanks, BTW, I appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:10 PM
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Have you been watching through my bedroom window?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 03:19 PM
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/r/bodyweightfitness You can make gains if you know the proper progressions, but improvements aren't as linear. Right now I'm working on a combo of bodyweight and kettle-bell.
/r/askMRP26/08/15 04:20 AM
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I could be wrong but there are two flaws here: 1) There is no end. 2) This isn't about her, it's about you. Improving yourself for yourself. Her "falling inline" is just a bonus not the goal. Seasoned vets feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 04:16 AM
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How the fuck would that work? I mean I have no doubt they'd try bi it doesn't make sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:36 AM
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Wait, are we not suppose to choke them?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:35 AM
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Are we to the point where I have to grab a woman by the throat after I am done face fucking her and make sure she swallows like some defiant child trying to cheek a pill? Wait... Are you saying this isn't normal? If this is wrong then, good sir, I do not want to be right.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:33 AM
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I would only walk out if you can't maintain any sort of frame. Walking out, while a good idea, can be seen as a weakness. You couldn't take the heat and got ran out the kitchen. You could agree and amplify but you probably don't have strong enough frame. It'd probably turn into a glorious shit show. Since she's acting childish treat her as a child. Let her huff and puff without feeding into it. Like a child throwing a tantrum don't feed it one way or the other. When it calms down ask "if she's d…
/r/askMRP25/08/15 05:12 PM
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Have you tried grabbing her by the hair and manhandling her? Serious when was the last time you went caveman on her? If you've physically improved there has got to be attraction no matter what she says. She's got a mental picture of blue pill you and you need to break that. Here is an old post of mine that was pretty well received. You re still got work to do to change her mental image of you.
/r/askMRP25/08/15 04:53 PM
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Side story as told to me by my wife: The wife was hanging out with new girlfriends mid week. The other women started their bitch-fest. She said it was mainly about overly detached husbands and finances. My wife blatantly asked them about their sex lives. All were unsatisfied. My wife says "have you tried fucking them?" Cue a round of the "I'm too tired." Wife told them that's a shitty excuse and that to get what they want they need to give their men what they want. She was met with some mild out…
/r/askMRP25/08/15 04:46 PM
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Yeah, own that shit. Like all of us you fucked up by allowing it to happen. Now fix it.
/r/askMRP25/08/15 04:01 PM
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Her negative actions are being reinforced by everyone that caves in. On some level she knows that she'll get her way if she throws a tantrum. She also knows she can bend you and your wife's will with a big enough shit fit. You and your wife have got to stick to your guns if you want to quit falling victim to her shit. Hell start small if need be. She's shit testing and everyone is failing.
/r/askMRP25/08/15 03:54 PM
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Have you tried face-fucking her?
/r/askMRP25/08/15 07:19 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but it seems like OP is coddling not cuddling. Cuddling is a reward. Like a "good woman." It seems OP is feeling remorse and going into "Oh shit, coddle mode." Edit: You seemed to have already addressed this with another comment.
/r/askMRP25/08/15 07:12 AM
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In the BDSM world it's called Top Drop or Dom Drop. It's basically you feeling guilty and judging yourself for enjoying something that you feel is taboo. There's a cognitive dissonance there that is being bridged. I can tell you from experience that the drop feeling becomes less intense and occurs less often the more your taboo action occurs and your cognitive dissonance is being bridged. I'd suggest enjoy the moment as much as you can post climax. Cuddle her but don't coddle her like you did. W…
/r/askMRP25/08/15 06:57 AM
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Just a reminder to get a prenup if you do decide to pull the trigger. Protect yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 11:31 PM
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I second the energy drinks for helping fight lethargy. Another thing I do is stop by the coffee shop after work and get something for me and the woman. Plus after you do it enough (not letting being tired an excuse) it becomes easier. Kinda like working out. It's hell the first month or so but after that it ain't no thang.
/r/askMRP22/08/15 02:26 AM
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Yup, he's trying to drag you back down to his own personal hell. The reasons could vary as to why but it doesn't really matter. Keep up the hard work. Don't let the bastards get you down.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 04:11 PM
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It's like the whole "surround yourself with people smarter and more successful." Addicts who don't make new friends and cut out the old ones usually relapse after rehab. Misery loves company and all that. Pursue your goals and interests, and you'll meet others along the way. Provided you aren't perusing them in a bubble. I move a lot and every time I do I gotta start over in the friends department. It takes time but I always find people with similar interests.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 03:44 PM
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Life coaching and marriage counseling perhaps?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 06:41 AM
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Get a hobby or work on other self improvement. My go to advice is motorcycle.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 04:31 PM
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Not sure why you were down voted. But this seems like good reaction. Problems is OP's BP attempt at verbal initiation
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 03:48 PM
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"You look amazing, I can't wait to get home to fuck you." Say this with actions not words. Physically initiate and don't be lazy or lame about it. When you pick her up kiss the hell outta her. I'm talking pushed against the wall hair pulling kinda kiss. Then help load her into the car/truck with a smack to the ass. Use the drive home to begin foreplay, hell get road head of you can. She'll probably want food and or a shower which is fine but go caveman ASAP. Fuck unpacking or any other BS.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 03:45 PM
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1) Go get drunk with a friend. 2) Fight friend. 3) Have more beers with friend. 4) Repeat as necessary.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 01:24 PM
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Hike and a picnic. Gun/Archery range and a tailgate BBQ. Lake/River with campfire cooking.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 09:25 PM
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Flair tags controlled by mods is a good idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:00 PM
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Exactly. When my marriage was shit I listened to BP advice in other subs. All is did was convince we to keep on suffering in silence while trying to earn affection. It's what was put into my head by the majority of society and reaffirmed when I looked for advice. My marriage was shitty for almost 10 years and after RP it improved within months of actual practice after I made a point to internalize the philosophy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:55 PM
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Word.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:41 PM
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Agreed. We already remind each other for the sake of our relationships to throw out a beta bone on occasion.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:40 PM
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Ban trolls. No questions asked. Real trolls just want attention, to piss you off, and distract you. This is /r/marriedredpill and that's why I come here. It's a supportive RP community for married men something that somewhat lacks on the other RP subs. My initial reaction is to say fuck all BP shit because in MY experience it doesn't work and this isn't /r/marriedpurplepill or /r/marriedbluepill. BUT after my immediate visceral reaction I remembered that we need a certain amount of BP for the re…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:38 PM
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Has anybody else ever encountered this? Yes. I'd venture to say all/most of of have at one point or another for various reasons. How did you deal with it? Being honest with myself and sorting through my emotions and the true sources of said emotions. Was it a phase that eventually passed? Yes and no. I feel way less resentment now that I've sorted through all my shit and have taken personal responsibility for all of it, whether it was my fault or not. It's mine to deal with. End of story. The si…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/14 12:10 AM
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Just something to add to the standard RP advice: Is she on birth control? Has she always been on birth control? Some will wreak havoc on a woman's sex drive. This happened to my woman. Certain ones killed her drive completely. Hormones and all that shit. You may need to take her to the doc and speak with him/her too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 04:56 PM
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Don't fix what ain't broken. Just remind him on occasion how much you like traditional gender roles and why.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 02:38 AM
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That's basically been my course of action. I've just seen the alpha-beta balance mentioned a few times here and wanted an explanation.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 02:02 AM
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My initial thoughts on alpha and beta roles are what made me confused. Strat's examples helped me redefine and reassess. I for some reason was thinking extreme beta. I never thought that basic male gender role shit could be beta; i.e. helping with kids, bringing home the bacon, vehicle maintenance, etc. Now that alpha and beta actions are redefined in my mind I see how they co-function. If you're in an alpha frame tossing out beta behaviors, you'll get positive results at a rate of diminishing r…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 12:13 AM
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Just finished NMMNG. MMSLP is next. My understanding changed pretty quickly with your explanation. Initially I was thinking of more extreme beta behaviors. I never saw bringing home the bacon or helping with the chillin's, etc. as beta behavior, but it totally makes sense in the primal animalistic sense of the definition. I always associated that kinda stuff as male gender role/ alpha type shit, not beta. Interesting. More shit to contemplate and assimilate.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 12:05 AM
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Men can't TALK their way into being captain; they need to ACT. This is a harsh truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 08:11 PM
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I'm gonna second /u/BluePillProfessor. You're not married so don't get married. Check your state for common law marriages and plan accordingly. Talk to a lawyer and financial advisor about protecting yourself financially.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 07:55 PM
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This is why I was so fucking stoked when I finally came across MRP while lurking the other RP subs. We're already married. It's a fucking monkey wrench in the gears of standard RP philosophy and we know it. Well at least those of us who have been doing our homework. We may have "fucked up" but we're owning it. I'm pro staying married, but if I divorced there is a high probability that I wouldn't get married again. But back to the monkey wrenches. Standard RP philosophy still applies we just don'…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 07:39 PM
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Married RP men need Married RP male mentors to thrive. This.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 05:58 PM
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I fear stagnation more than debate. Agreed. But it's a fine line. If we allow BP white knight we will always have to defend and down vote. Which isn't bad, it could just become annoying. If we don't allow some debate we risk becoming a "Read the FAQ/Sidebar" sub which doesn't necessarily foster more conversation and seems to end up a circle jerk. We need a good balance.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 05:50 PM
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While I agree, I think OP is looking for an "in." If the woman has a kink she wants to explore he has a safe starting point into exploring his own kinks. A foot in the door if you will.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 03:53 AM
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I give no fucks about women reading and/or commenting. Hell my wife has read my posts and comments. I don't use a secret/throw away username. I ain't scared, are you? Man or woman spouting BP philosophy here would probably be reminded which sub they were in, corrected with a RP answer, and/or down voted into oblivion. Most female comments I've seen seem to have been from RP women/wives. Though I am still new here and I could be wrong. Where do we go from here? That's up to the mods and the commu…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 03:28 AM
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You had an open door but you hesitated. Which could have worked if you were more on top of your game. Then you tried to walk through that door and she slammed it in your face. You were too late. Her entertainment (TV, reading) is more important than sex. She is subtly asserting her dominance over you and it's working. Then she finally asked what you wanted and you felt rejected and wallowed in self pity. She then pried it out of you and complied. Then you let her fall asleep watching TV multiple…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/14 07:17 AM
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She may just be a plain Jane vanilla type. Some people are and there is nothing you can do. Now if you have kinks you want to explore you need to introduce them slowly and incrementally. You can't be like "I wanna tie you up, blindfold you, shove a Jackhammer Jesus up your ass, piss on you, cum on your pillow and rub your face in it like a puppy who pissed on the carpet, and then flog the shit outta you." Kinks can be scary and intimidating to some. People think the worst. We are taught to repre…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/14 04:32 AM
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she doesn't lose herself in the moment and I feel sorry for her. Are you able to lose yourself? I've noticed that the more one partner can the more the other can. It's like a positive feedback loop.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/14 03:45 AM
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Good point.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/14 02:45 AM
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Find a way to encourage him to get out, active, and around other men. Gym, MMA, hunting, fishing, motorcycle/car clubs, micro brewing clubs, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/14 02:28 AM
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I love my motorcycle. Riding for the sake of riding. It helps me clear my head and think.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/14 02:20 AM
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You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say or do can and will be used against you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 03:34 AM
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Truth
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 03:30 AM
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Tests never end.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 03:29 AM
2

Oh shit, Starship Troopers is on my read list.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 02:53 AM
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What book are you speaking of? Is it a good read? The 1950s housewife is a myth She and I both know that she had a romanticized view of the 50's, but that's the point. Her view of the time and the role of women then. once in a while she wants to live a fantasy for short periods of time. The key is shoet periods of time. The difference with my Woman is that she enjoys coming home and entering sub mode. She no longer has to be in charge and doesn't have to think or make decisions. It takes pressur…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 01:57 AM
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That's why we're here. Bounce ideas, share stories, successes, failures, give and receive advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 07:09 PM
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Good article. It's a nice pre-BDSM 101 read. you have to change your whole mindset, you have to find your "Alpha" core This if why I think bondage/restraints are a good intro. It forces you to be in control. If your partner can't do shit, that means you have to take control. My Woman also loves when I bring home new toy and/or hardware. Better than chocolate and flowers.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 06:06 PM
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Hell yeah. FREE THE KINK! FREE THE KINK! But seriously it did help us rekindle the fire. Helped put excitement and adventure back into it and most of all passion.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 03:21 PM
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Thanks. Hope things stay on track for y'all. Also it's good to see RP wives posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 03:18 PM
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It may be a set up or she may be a cuckquean. If she is a cuckquean you're a lucky man. Talk to her set up boundaries and guidelines. Fucking other women raises your SMV and some women, my wife being one of them, like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 09:15 AM
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/r/redpillwomen still applies. Some RP wives even post here, which is awesome btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 09:06 AM
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all I could think was, "no way that will ever happen". You sure as shit won't with that kind of attitude. I don't think she's ever experienced lust, let alone been filled with it. I'm calling bullshit on this one, unless you happened to marry an asexual nun. We all have experienced lust.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 04:30 AM
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I'm a fan of "Woman" and so is my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 01:36 AM
0

Put a bow around your dick. It'll be a win-win.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 03:20 AM
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If you've been seeking sympathy from your woman, stop. You're a rock, a stoic fucking rock. Don't let the cold shoulder get to you. Hold frame. Focus on yourself and self improvement, and use it as distraction along with hobbies and exercise.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:48 AM
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/u/somepill is just trollin' for shits and grins.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 04:40 PM
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Would you be ashamed of the things you write on here if confronted in your real life? Nope Would you gladly show your father/mother/girl/wife/kids/etc your posts? Father would agree. Mother dead. No girlfriend. Wife reads RP and knows my account.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 04:39 PM
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OP is gonna fine tune his game and she will be a very happy woman Because he will be a happy man/husband.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 04:33 PM
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Keepin' ya' on your toes.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 04:25 PM
3

You got this shit. You're handling it well so far. Keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 04:37 PM
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The thing I'm having the most trouble with is, the point of all of this is to get more sex. If I just apologize, I'd get sex. So shouldn't I just apologize? No. She got pissed and turned a mole hill into a mountain. You apologize, you reinforce her behavior and the current paradigm stays. You gotta break the pattern and hold to it, be vigilant and shit. Or you could keep jumping through fucking hoops like a trained poodle and keep begging for treats. There is a time an place for admitting you we…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 04:15 PM
3

I, too, run red lights.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 04:01 AM
2

"I'll trade you for a good BJ."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 03:54 AM
1

Had a similar problem with my woman. Copper IUD. Fuck the every 6-12 month copay excuse. You'll have 4-10 more months of misery. Drag her there and pay it yourself. Have you pointed this shit out to her or just bitched about sex? She may not realize it. My woman didn't at first. Hold frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 06:07 PM
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Fuckin' aye, it does, Professor. Starting to do it and remembering to do it is the hardest part. But it's like starting to workout. It's seems like a pain in the ass at first but after a few weeks you're use to it and it starts to become habit.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/14 10:02 PM
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What's different in your advances on the weekends compared to weekdays? Something is different. Are you half-assing it? Are you all showered and cleaned up? Does your breath smell like shit from drinking coffee all day? Think about it. neither of us seem to be in the mood after work during our relaxing time. Fuck that. Get in the mood. Put forth a real advance. Hell, since she's tired and it's a weekday you may need to step up your game, which means you gotta play through the pain. i drag her up…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/14 05:13 AM
1

Victory to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 06:00 PM
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Well played, good sir, well played. You seem to be doing things for the betterment of you and not us. I found this hilarious.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 05:21 PM
3

That's solid.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 04:09 PM
2

True.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 04:04 PM
2

I use text. It's difficult to create arousal via text. You can however use text to prolong desire fairly easily. Standard RP texting guidelines apply. I will however break radio silence to send a message when the time/set up is right. In your text you basically thanked her for sex. You assumed the submissive role and that only leaves one option for her, dominant. Good initiative, bad form. Keep your message short. As short as possible. Assume the dominant role. Be wary of word choice. BAD: Any f…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 03:59 PM
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Agreed. BDSM D/s allowed me to release my Primitive Self and vent a lot of pent up anger and frustration in a healthy way. But RP and D/s seem to be blending into one.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 05:04 AM
2

Sic 'em.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 04:50 AM
3

Unfortunately I have yet to read any MMSL. I've gotten most my info from reading the various RP subs. It took a while before me and my woman actually wanted to kiss each other. That took some fuckin' work. It's fucking baby steps. But once you get there you can open the damn flood gates. You could also go fucking caveman, grab her by the hair, pull, and kiss her. This would end up a glorious Hail Mary victory or a horribly fucked up Crash & Burn. But as long as you can hold frame and be willing …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 04:11 AM
3

You are correct.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 02:59 AM
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Woman
/r/askTRP02/12/14 04:34 AM
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Start now, it is a great time to start teaching the basics. Especially becoming your alpha self, getting in shape, hobbies, money and time management. Self reliance in all its forms, cooking, laundry, basic auto repair, starting a fire, etc. It is never to early to begin talking about sex and relationships you can just change wording and add more as they mature. I got my first sex talk in like 3rd grade. I thought it was fucking hilarious but it stuck. I just wish I was given more RP advice than…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/14 06:25 PM
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I feel ya. These helped tighten my woman back up.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/14 03:46 AM
1

I'd like to see video of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/14 09:26 PM
4

Normally I'd suggest just waiting it out for a while since your wife is breastfeeding. But the problem is the amount of access you wee granted in the first place. Breastfeeding has given her the chance to nail that coffin shut, depending on how you handle it. I doubt you'll get a green light until after your child quits feeding if she gives you one at all. There's a deeper problem here that needs addressing.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/14 09:25 PM
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Agreed. My wife loves when other women check me out. It affirms my SMV and her choice in a mate.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/14 03:55 PM
2

I agree about the shit tests. They keep you on your toes and are a great reminder that you must maintain your position and not to fall into complacency. They also remind your SO of their place and yours as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/14 02:08 AM
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Lift.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 02:34 AM
3

Ia, ia Cthulhu fhtagen!!!
/r/askTRP28/10/14 04:41 AM
1

Bald as fuck. Started losing hair at 16. So I feel ya. My best advice is to get over it. Stop wasting money on hair growth shit and other products and just shave it. The sooner the better. You'll save money and time with clippers and/or razor. Women like a freshly shaved head. They like rubbing it and some like licking it.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 03:39 AM
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Get over it, shave it, and own it. I've been going bald since I was 16. I was in denial until I couldn't hide it anymore, which wasn't very fucking long. Then I said fuck it and shaved my head. Best choice ever. I look damn good, better even. Also ladies love to rub a freshly shaved head.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 02:22 AM
2

Talk your bro up. Help keep conversation going. Distract cockblockers. Most important: Know when to step back from conversation and leave your bro alone with said woman. This may also include leading cockblockers away.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:56 PM
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Fucking aye it is. My suggestion is to learn some more acoustic ballet type shit where you could strum and sing. In college I once seen a dude melt some panties withies of the shittiest most fucked up version of wonderwall in my entire life. He could barley keep rhythm going while singing and sang like shit. But he did it and he did it for her in front of everyone on the quad. I criticized his musical ability cause I can play rhythm and do vocals. But gave him props for sealing the deal. He knew…
/r/askTRP12/10/14 02:22 PM
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FTFY: FUCK NO!!!
/r/askTRP09/10/14 04:15 PM
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If you have to convince her, i.e. work at it, it's probably a bad idea. Now if you're lucky and your GF is bi/bi-curious and/or gets off on you fucking other women that's different. These women are few and far between. But it could workout with little to no fallout. But even if she is down you need to sit down and talk about it seriously, like adults. She may let you fuck another woman but kissing may be off limits. Gotta keep things in comfort zones. Look up non-monogamy and poly relationships …
/r/askTRP08/10/14 11:21 PM
1

Ever hear the phrases: "Don't shit where you eat" -or- "No dipping your pen in the company ink"? There's a good reason for those sayings. They save headaches. That being said do what ever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 11:08 PM
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Audio books? Listen while driving/lifting.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 07:19 PM
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I love being objectified by my woman. It's usually cause I've spent the day sexually teasing her until she fucking explodes and uses me as her personal fuck toy. We also objectify each other in a D/s (BDSM) way. She gets treated like a piece of meat/fuck toy/slave etc and loves it all while she treats me like I'm a Demi-god or more human than human. During this play time we are both objectifying each other and from the outside looking in it could be viewed as bad without understanding our motive…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 03:39 PM
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I'm pretty damn sure that we're on the same page. I think we're just arguing semantics cause of how the question was presented. That and we all define loaded words slightly different which is what makes them a pain in the ass at times.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 03:05 PM
1

Definitely seems to be part of it / have influence on it.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 02:48 PM
2

So our predecessors say do x get y because it worked for them. That seems kinda philosophical/religious to me. But it is different, I'll give you that. Instead of be good, go to heaven; it's become the best version of yourself (alpha), get better/more choices for mate(s).
/r/askTRP08/10/14 02:43 PM
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That still could fall into the realm of philosophy, depending how you define the word that is and how loose the criteria is.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 02:25 PM
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It totally is. As you pointed out it helps frame your worldview and how to navigate in said world. Just like philosophy/religion. The only thing is that it's very specific: self improvement, social discourse, and finding mate(s). I think others responding negatively are because you used to extremely loaded words: philosophy and religion. Words like those automatically cause people to put the walls up and stop listening.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 02:24 PM
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Good answer.
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