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Social Issuesjesting766/r/MensRights17/03/18 07:08 PM
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Tell that to feminists advocating that women's prisons be shut down.
/r/MensRights31/05/18 10:02 PM
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Some of what he did would have technically qualified as assault Like what?
/r/MensRights29/05/18 08:35 AM
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But when you get 18 (17?) other women to talk about him and how he had a reputation for this, then that's a different story. He was probably not ill-intentioned, but he had bad boundaries. Then you tell him so right to his face. What, are these women such shrinking violets that they can't use their words? And bad boundaries is not rape or sexual assault. Morgan commited no crime. Otherwise, you might as well Metoo every single man and woman on this planet who flirted.
/r/MensRights29/05/18 02:36 AM
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Metoo continues to jump the shark and yet they still think its necessary.
/r/MensRights29/05/18 02:33 AM
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Typical. We men express our opinions and feelings, just like we're hounded to, and yet still told to pipe down because we're not a woman so we can't possibly know what it's like to be one. Meanwhile certain women, especially feminists, get it in their head that they know what makes a man tick even though they aren't one.
/r/MensRights28/05/18 04:29 PM
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Based on that, be glad. From what you've said, you're making your own way through life and doing just fine.
/r/MensRights28/05/18 06:16 AM
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They don't understand what flirting is, or what acceptable levels of physical contact are. They've been tricked into thinking that any time a man mentions sex or touches them at all it's harassment and assault. And also taught the rules don't apply to them either when groping or flirting with men. I mean, Ellen ogles over men in their underwear and on some occasions had them appear scantily clad on her show. Yet will you ever see HER getting #metoo'd?
/r/MensRights27/05/18 05:53 PM
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Louis CK didn't force anyone to do anything. Additionally, the women had full access to the Louis's front door and were allowed to leave if need be. If Louis CK is a pervert then he's a very polite and courteous one.
/r/MensRights27/05/18 05:47 PM
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Several years after it all happened she blamed me for it and said it was my fault and that I caused it. Have you severed all ties with your sister? What about the rest of your family? Do they side with her?
/r/MensRights27/05/18 03:28 AM
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I think it's well written because I'm a professional TV writer with a Masters in story structure. (Genuinely, not being sarcastic). Well as a writer myself who knows how to tell a good story, answer me this: Why is the teen character who committed suicide depicted as nothing but a victim? I heard she was suffering from some form of depression. So you'd think, if the show was trying to be realistic, they'd present the scenarios where she felt wronged as HER interpretation of events. Like if she t…
/r/MensRights26/05/18 10:51 PM
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But I'm going to guess you'd rather just continue with your victim complex instead. Being sick and tired of male victims only receiving awareness of their existence so long as their perpetrators are male while the narrative that "Females are Victims, Men are Perpetrators" is being constantly sold as absolute is not a victim complex.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 05:00 PM
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This season does show a pretty brutal rape of a male teenager as well. Let me guess: The rapist is male as well. 1) Doesn't make up for their attempts to sell it off as the women having it worse. 2) Call me when they depict the brutality of a female raping a male. Then maybe we'll talk.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 04:34 PM
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It's pretty obvious they're looking to perpetuate unjustified hatred of guys as a group. That's it. Good guys can be rapists, too Well, then don't be surprised when you come crying like a baby towards them and they simply turn their backs. Hey, they don't want to be falsely accused of rape. So, Adios!
/r/MensRights26/05/18 04:31 PM
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All victims of assault and harassment deserve to be heard. And we need to listen to them. But it is not right to equate horrific incidences of sexual assault with misplaced compliments or humor. But I also want to make clear: I did not create unsafe working environments. I did not assault women. I did not offer employment or advancement in exchange for sex. Any suggestion that I did so is completely false Damn right, Morgan Freeman. My respect for you has gone up. Stick to your guns, stand up fo…
/r/MensRights26/05/18 07:18 AM
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Yes he deserves a fair trial, that doesn't mean he has a "right" to continue to earn voicing contracts. So he should lose all opportunities to make money and have his name dragged through the mud because of rude comments and flirty behaviour? I've heard of worse men then him. Also you people who automatically claim the girls are lying are no better than those who automatically claim he is guilty. Welcome to the world of the latter that perpetuates the cycle. Building men's rights on a framework …
/r/MensRights25/05/18 09:31 PM
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Tell me something I don't know, James.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 09:15 PM
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Then give her a LONGER jail sentence. That's what should be the deterrent for these known false-accusers. Do it once, long sentence. Do it twice, longer sentence. Three times? LIFE since its three strikes now and these female con-artists should know better.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 10:10 PM
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So when I'm 40 and single it's because I didn't heed the warnings of an insignificant user on reddit, who has never known a thing about me in my personal life, lecturing me on the dos and donts of dating? Okay, I'll be sure to stay up nights obsessing about your standards you wall of text you.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 09:31 PM
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When it comes to sharing our interests, and mine is cartoons, yes I will. And I don't need YOUR approval.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 08:27 PM
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The Simpsons and Family Guy are cartoons. But according to you, all cartoons are childish. Yeah, why should anyone take your opinion seriously?
/r/MensRights24/05/18 04:06 PM
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You mean, women need to take RESPONSIBILITY in their lives? How dare you! /s
/r/MensRights24/05/18 03:56 PM
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Says the rambling misogynist.
/r/MensRights22/05/18 08:30 PM
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Ooookaaay. backs away slowly
/r/MensRights22/05/18 03:55 PM
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Do I really need to? Uh, yeah? You made a claim now show evidence apart from "Just look around you, man!"
/r/MensRights20/05/18 07:47 AM
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I am hoping he did and goes to jail because I can't stand him and want him out. Well... I don't want pence either. Too bad, because when a President is impeached, the second-in-command assumes the mantle. That happens to be the Vice-President. And if Pence is found guilty, someone else in Trump's cabinet will still become president whether you like it or not. I suggest you be careful what you wish for.
/r/MensRights20/05/18 06:04 AM
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Can you imagine not even being able to go outside without people pointing and laughing at you? I've lived it myself. Bullied so much it drove me to suicide ideation. At age fifteen, no less.
/r/MensRights19/05/18 11:10 PM
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It's only when boys lash out that they pay attention to their problems. So long as its filtered through a feminist lens.
/r/MensRights19/05/18 11:07 PM
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You are right that I do not know of anything he has done illegal YET. Are you waiting around for him to? I ask this as I have done numerous times with people holding their breath that the shoe falls and results in impeachment: Do you really want Vice President Pence to assume full power?
/r/MensRights19/05/18 11:03 PM
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I knew it, I'm surrounded by assholes. Keep posting, assholes.
/r/MensRights18/05/18 10:16 PM
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The "Ice skating uphill" movement.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 04:06 PM
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My wife hates seeing me cry, but it isn't because it makes me unattractive. It's because she doesn't know how to help or what to do. Still, that's the point. Once we do let ourselves go, it makes them uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights17/05/18 01:06 AM
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It's so attractive when a guy isn't afraid to open up and be emotional This is what truly gets my gall whenever they talk about helping men. This obsession, fixation, with men feeling the need to open up about their feelings and cry. Treating male tears like a rare treasure fit for a museum (when they're not busy sipping on them from cups, that is.) Little are they aware that it comes with a price. Does this person truly want the whole nine yards from men in terms of emotion and sensitivity? In …
/r/MensRights16/05/18 09:36 PM
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Victim's Father: Your wife RAPED my son! Teacher's Husband: Hey, them's fighting words pal!
/r/MensRights16/05/18 05:00 PM
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Or, you know, she's legit mentally ill. What's a "Mentally Ill" rapist doing teaching children in the first place? You'd think they'd screened her or, at the very least, assign tight supervision through a teacher's aide.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 04:58 PM
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Funny how that suddenly changes when the victim's a woman.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 04:56 PM
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My opinion, Black Americans deserve reparations actually. Why should today's generation pay for slights and abuse committed centuries ago against another? Especially taxpayers if its government reparation? Not everybody's ancestor owned slaves.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 04:30 PM
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I especially hate her comment about mothers. Honestly, one popular notion that I hate more than anything is this idea that mothers are inherently good; that it's written into their DNA to love their children; that they'll always do or at least try to do the best for their children It's not just mothers. They're promoting this idea that women are innocent little flowers with innate knowledge on human relationships. The most tolerant and understanding compared to men. What does that say to a boy w…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 02:45 AM
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How many assholes have we got in this thread anyway?
/r/MensRights15/05/18 08:05 PM
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but it's too decentralized to work out specifics that distinguish it between egalitarianism and misandry. Incompetence. It's very simple to work out specifics between egalitarianism and misandry. They're just too lazy to do it and prefer defending its image.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 08:03 PM
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I suppose she's probably just lashing out as a result of male-induced emotional trauma from her past You'll find that most of this emotional trauma is HER interpretation of how the men in her life treated her. What with how she defines Misogyny, I wouldn't be surprised if any man interacting with her so much as breaths wrong she'll be traumatized.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 04:46 PM
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Conflating feminism with misandry is fashionable these days Uh, because feminism has become Misandrist? Have you been under a rock these past few decades? Clementine Ford is but one example of countless others demonstrating the misandry that feminism allows. Unless you can point to other feminists denouncing her, PUBLICLY I might add.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 04:43 PM
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She also supported a woman who tarred and feathered a brain-damaged individual on public transportation just for being in her space. You'd think if she were so adamant about stopping harassment, she'd go through the usual channels and get help if the man was putting up a fuss. Nope. Wanted to get SJW freak on and publicly shame him on social media. And Clementine Ford honored her.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 09:13 PM
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Likely because she, and other women like her, were raised to believe male politicians ran on platforms to benefit men as a group. Whereas if she knew her history (and I mean REAL history, not what is filtered through a feminist lens), male politicians look out for groups in their inner circle (the elite) and, nowadays, women.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 09:05 PM
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Then she wouldn't get my vote if I were American.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 04:22 PM
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Helping women by filling their heads with the myth that they are the majority victims of Domestic Violence. Oh and taking it out on all males by excluding them from the event.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 08:49 AM
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And I'll bet there will be male stars to take up her demand judging how the majority of them in Hollywood are into feminism as well and virtue signal when they're between jobs.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 08:45 AM
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Discriminatory interviewing more like it.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 05:51 PM
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This is "Boys Are Stupid, Throw Rocks At Them" come to life even though it was just one boy who was signaled out.
/r/MensRights13/05/18 04:38 AM
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"Stop making me make myself feel sad."
/r/MensRights13/05/18 04:34 AM
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Just because this old lady is insecure about herself doesn't mean we should allow for shitty behavior that affects most/all women. But what do you deem "Shitty Behaviour"? The meaning has been changed so much, the bar lowered, that even men choosing to engage a woman can be put on the #Metoo list. Hell, you'd have to put every man on the list if this is what your standards of "Shitty Behaviour" amount to. Those men who harassed you were drunk. I'm not condoning it. However, there are decent men …
/r/MensRights12/05/18 05:05 AM
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I think another thing about being easily upset or offended is that it makes you the perfect target for the people who say rude things. They're looking for a reaction and you're giving it to them. Yup. They're not called Trolls for no reason.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 02:57 AM
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Kanye acts like a controversial dick to stay relevant What's so controversial pointing out that slavery can be a trap people get themselves in mentally? Morgan Freeman also said "You can only be a slave if you're party to it". Are you going to call him a white supremacist as well? There's a limit to going around saying you're a slave or that slavery is coming back constantly before people get tired of it. Especially when you're a well-off minority who still has a roof over their heads, food on t…
/r/MensRights10/05/18 12:12 AM
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We've reached pique #Metoo hysteria, folks. A "lingerie floor" joke in an elevator means its permissible for your career and reputation to be ruined. Fuck her and fuck this era.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 10:56 PM
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Yes, both genders need support. Do you see society following that motto though?
/r/MensRights07/05/18 04:24 PM
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No, you literally have not even come close to giving me anything resembling what a reasonable person would consider an answer to my original question. It was good enough because you're trying to trap me. I'm not falling for it. Unless you answer my question: Do you think feminism is above reproach? Yes or no?
/r/MensRights07/05/18 06:36 AM
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A simple question, I might add, that you didn't answer. I already gave you an answer. Figure it out.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 05:45 AM
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You think feminism is above reproach? There are legitimate reasons to dislike the movement, especially in areas where they failed men and boys grievously. Well documented, I might add. That does not mean hatred of women.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 02:20 AM
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"The Red Pill" is mainly a visual introduction on the Men's Rights Movement and some of the issues they're advocating be examined and addressed for men. A good stepping stone. But not the be all and end all of what's at stake. It'll encourage you to do more research, though.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 09:58 PM
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You know, it's so common when posts hit r/all that we get uniformed people like this waltzing in here with the "Incel" label. Now I understand that the person responsible for that tragedy in Toronto was an Incel. You won't find any endorsement from me. But I want to ask anyone who reflexively labels the people here "Incels": What makes you leap to that conclusion? If it's "Women-Hating" well I admit we get those types from time to time. But if you link hating feminism with hating women, I'm sorr…
/r/MensRights06/05/18 09:49 PM
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I was originally against the notion but now I'm all for it, just to see the heads of feminists like this one explode.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 05:39 AM
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Ohhhh my fucking god. Do we need yet another of you bill gate fags? So showing you that Bill Gates isn't just any CEO makes me a fag? Not every rich person is the spawn of Satan.
/r/MensRights05/05/18 01:35 AM
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In his lecture at Harvard he said everyone should aspire to be Bill Gates. Bill Gates is a philanthropist even though he's a CEO as well.
/r/MensRights05/05/18 12:15 AM
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Women often kill against a backdrop of victimisation and hopelessness Yet when men put up a defense against an abusive woman, THEY are the abusers.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 08:12 PM
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I understand Girl Scouts sucks and that there are girls who want to do the same things the Boy Scouts does Then the organizers should've got off their asses and provided for the girls what their counterparts do for boys. If girls want the full scout experience, I don't think "Sewing" or "Baking" is going to help.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 08:38 AM
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After they went Cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 07:59 PM
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Thanks, bot.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 07:58 PM
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The point of the article is basically that “boys being boys” means repressing feelings and feeling with issues internally, the typical male stereotype. Some men prefer not to express their emotions all the time. And that this is a cause for a lot of men who act out violently which many times manifests itself through sex. Or it could be mental illness. Something woefully underestimated. Not that men are terrible, but that societal expectations of what men should be can cause deep rooted problems …
/r/MensRights02/05/18 07:54 PM
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Because everyone in the men's rights community is incredibly ignorant. No, what's incredibly ignorant is assuming that a newspaper like this one is an entirely seperate entity from their op-ed section. SOMEBODY looked at this. SOMEBODY approved it. SOMEBODY published it. So quit acting like they're not responsible for the bad PR op-ed's like this net them.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 07:48 PM
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It's not literal, it's a metaphorical thing that forces you to examine your society and your own personal values. Please tell me where the metaphor is in outright proclaiming that boys will murder their fathers and sleep with their mothers if we let them be themselves? Because you're talking out of your ass.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 03:59 PM
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Well I am not using the term "real feminist" to mean the feminists currently out there, it's sort of more what I wish feminism was about. You don't need to wish anymore. Because feminism will never reflect your values. It is not true that "nobody" spoke out against what feminism has become and is though, I meant WHEN IT COUNTED. Duluth Model was introduced, not a peep. Why is it always DECADES later that suddenly these REAL feminists crawl out of the woodwork and "Speak Out"?
/r/MensRights02/05/18 03:56 PM
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A real feminist would want to change patriarchal beliefs such that men who are victims of domestic violence would be treated just as seriously as a woman is. Too bad. They fucked up royally and have perpetuated the system with their exclusionary Duluth Model. Nobody spoke out in protest against it either. And once again with this "Real Feminist" nonsense. REAL feminism is right in front of you. And no, they are not outliers or loud-mouthed extremists. They are in government, published in newspap…
/r/MensRights02/05/18 02:46 AM
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Clementine Ford has an extreme view of feminism, and she gets paid well to talk about it endlessly. This IS feminism now. The extremists and radicals have positions of power in society, enough to drive government policy and social thinking. Clementine may be an opinion columnist but the fact that a mainstream paper is PUBLISHING her drivel and she hasn't been ousted yet says a lot about her pull, doesn't it? If feminism weren't extreme, there would've been pushback against things like The Duluth…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 02:35 PM
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Disney is officially Cancer It's been cancer for awhile now. Look at the way boys are treated on past pre-teen shows. Or men for that matter and you'll see how much they've been preaching "Girls rule and boys drool".
/r/MensRights28/04/18 11:32 PM
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Feel sorry for the guy. She has him wrapped around her little finger. I hope he does ditch her at some point. I mean, to brag about holding him off in front of a live audience and other people watching, humiliate him like that, those are true signs of a sociopath.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 01:39 PM
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We have to remember that the suffragettes in the UK weren't initially interested in voting rights for working class women. They ignored the plight of working class men who couldn't vote either. Not to mention their racism against women of color as well. Not exactly an enlightened bunch.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 01:36 PM
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I agree that men's rights isn't nearly talked about enough outside of Reddit, but to say r/feminism never discusses it is disingenuous It's HOW they discuss it is what makes or breaks a deal. Men's issues as a result of "Patriarchy"? Forget it. Men's issues as a result of a sexist society? Well, feminism didn't exactly help matters either. So might as well NOT discuss men's issues from their perspective.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 01:28 PM
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She’s mentally damaged and she says stuff that’s not ok, but confessing that she was abused isn’t “playing the victim card.” It is when she uses it as a crutch to refuse treating men like individuals instead of potential rapists. She's 20 so that's plenty of time for her to seek professional help. Or she can make a living off her trauma. Her choice.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 02:32 AM
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First rule of r/feminism sub-reddit is you do not talk about r/MensRights. Second rule of r/feminism is you do NOT. talk. about r/MensRights.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 02:16 AM
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Good. Bitch needs to rot.
/r/MensRights27/04/18 09:35 PM
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Equality before THE LAW! We can recognize differences while not denying basic supports for any gender in need.
/r/MensRights27/04/18 04:52 PM
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I find it more disturbing that this garbage article was published by a serious news organization. BBC, like Canada's CBC, clearly pushes an agenda. They're about as serious a news organization as CNN.
/r/MensRights27/04/18 04:50 PM
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I want mens spaces. I want mens issues to be dealt with specifically and earnestly. I want reforms to marriage and custody law. Ahem It is really important to support women in getting their own spaces, it is important to support the dismantling of old boys institutions, and it important to support women who actually want to be ambitious. If you were pro-male spaces, you wouldn't be calling them "Old Boy's Institutions" or trying to lump everyone with the same label. Hell I think you might even t…
/r/MensRights26/04/18 04:34 PM
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Not an honest assessment? Then tell me, how else am I supposed to take this comment of yours: It is really important to support women in getting their own spaces, it is important to support the dismantling of old boys institutions, and it important to support women who actually want to be ambitious. Yeah, you are incredibly selfish and apathetic. I'd prefer it if both genders have their own spaces. Men AND women. You however seem to think male-only spaces are a blight on gender equality for some…
/r/MensRights26/04/18 03:39 PM
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Doesn't mean you put up with bullshit, just recognise that women are different; they don't think like guys. Don't give a shit. Anyone walks all over me, I'm standing up for myself. So please, get lost with your "But women are different" crap.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 03:36 PM
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So you want to tear things down regardless of the innocent boys or men who get buried in the heap, right? You sound no different from your supposed 'Oppressors'.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 07:55 AM
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That's what they do and if you're an average guy you just put up with it. If you're an average DOORMAT more like it.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 07:47 AM
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That's a minority of feminists you're describing and you attribute that to feminism as a whole. Call them a minority all you want, but they aren't silent and have positions of power in media and government. Meanwhile, you brush them off as totally harmless and irrelevant.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 07:43 AM
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I did read the article. Maybe you should read it again, because the lady said god told her to stop a kidnapping. You condone a mental nutcase trying to kidnap an innocent child? Either we're dealing with a troll or someone who likely communes with god in their head as well. In which case, you should hook up with this woman. You'd go hand in hand.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 05:34 AM
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Again, that's YOUR opinion. Feel free to leave then. There's the door. No one's stopping you.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 12:17 AM
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I'm just tired of the men's rights pity party. That's YOUR opinion. Talk to me about people who legitimately are fucked and have no way to help themselves. Wonderful empathy skills you're displaying there. /s I'll listen to that. But all this crap is just nonsense. At least I look at things from other perspectives. You should try sometime.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 11:54 PM
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No money, inability to find a place to stay, no job, no friends, no family. Man...you think this hypothetical man has been making good decisions in his life? Not everyone follows the same path in life or lives a life free of struggle, my friend. It's fairly obvious at this point, based on your responses, that you're getting off on blaming the hypothetical victim no matter the variables. In this, I leave you to your self-vindication. Bon Apetite.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 09:43 PM
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Yeah, you really don't know what it's like being a male victim. Walk out the door, grab your phone and walk to a fucking motel? Motel's cost MONEY! And do you seriously expect me to believe it would take only one hour to find an apartment? You think apartments grow on trees, ripe for the picking by anyone? Meanwhile, that male victim is still paying what little money he has out of his own pockets for a fruitless motel stay. When he's not successful in finding an apartment then he might as well h…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 09:23 PM
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That’s feminazis, not true feminists. They're the ones driving the movement now. And have positions of power in government and media. Can't think of anything more powerful than having your voice heard as an opinion columnist in newspapers like "The Guardian" for example.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:38 PM
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Way to completely tap dance around the issue, Aconserva3.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:34 PM
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Call a friend. Call family. Call a co-worker. Depends on how receptive they are. If not, then what? Go anywhere. WHERE?!? There are no abuse shelters specializing in male victims. The ones that just opened are spread thin across the country so if the male victim isn't in the state where one exists, he's fucked.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:27 PM
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And also if the male victims ever reports it. Majority of cases slip in the cracks because men who have been abused are scared to seek help because of the mentality that female victims count compare to them.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:25 PM
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I’m a noncommissioned officer in the US Army. Discipline, respect for authority, obedience, espirit de corps, etc... have all taken a hit with incoming millennial recruits. I’m not saying it’s right to grab a new private by the collar, throw him to the ground, and kick the shit out of him, but we even have to watch what we say now and modify our approach. We can no longer expect things like discipline and obedience if our approach is insensitive. What about Drill Instructors? Are they still allo…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:22 PM
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All of this though, doesn't excuse saying being male is a risk factor for raping. Then why bring it up all the time? Really, what is the purpose of constantly qualifying that majority rapists are men? As if male victims didn't have enough of an uphill battle, you're going to rub the height in their face? I believe, at this point, it would be better if we just refrained from bringing it up. We already know about the statistics. WE DON'T NEED TO BE REMINDED SO QUIT IT!
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:07 PM
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instead, many point out how patriarchy negatively impacts men as well. We don't live in a patriarchy anymore. Fathers roles have been reduced/limited if not outright disrespected. So how does "Rule of the father" figure in to men's suffering when the majority parents raising them are their mothers?
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:37 PM
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They tried it with Elliot Rodger and instead the people visiting came out with a better impression. Likely will be the same for this man as well. Go ahead, CNN. Give us more converts. Work that "Streisand Effect" to the bone.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 08:13 PM
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not every man is a saint, and not every man is evil/bad. And which one gets the most air time? Go on. We dont someone from our own side going on a shaming movement against men. That's precisely what Terry Crews did.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 04:40 PM
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Funny is it that a man does something grevious in a relationship it means he's a free target for the woman to do whatever she likes to his body and psychology. Whereas a woman cheats and the man has to find himself at fault or just suck it up.
/r/MensRights24/04/18 04:36 PM
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What is your view on feminism? I don't have a problem with it. Save for the multiple actions it took on behalf of women's rights that only ended up making it worse for men. how you do interpret the idea of feminism? As a good idea taken too far. Even during its early genesis. For example, granting women the vote without the responsibility of the draft and The Tender Years Doctrine. What is your view on the Men's Rights Movement? A necessary counterpart. Feminism's mistake is lying about its inte…
/r/MensRights23/04/18 08:45 PM
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Thanks for saying something here, I felt like I was taking crazy pills over on /r/CrewsCrew and /r/MensLib (though I'm not so surprised by menslib). Think of it as a learning experience that'll make you wiser with who you share your opinions with on-line.
/r/MensRights23/04/18 07:29 PM
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It disheartened me so much Terry would spout such garbage and then pass it off as something men do/think. All my respect for him has been flushed right down the toilet. And he has himself to blame. Hey Terry, sad sack whiner, I can think of women as human beings and still find a certain type hot/sexy/whatever. Whatever your past hang-ups is YOUR issue.
/r/MensRights23/04/18 02:22 PM
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Terry Crews never said anything about hashtag metoo specifically as far as I know. He said he was motivated to share his story after the Harvey Weinstein scandal came out. I'll admit that it was definitely around the same time and in the spirit of metoo. That still supports my point though. Can you or /u/superhobo666 give me examples of feminists telling Crews to stop invading their movement? They didn't outright say to stop invading their movement. Ordinary men in Crews' situation were disparag…
/r/MensRights23/04/18 05:57 AM
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Why would a group for Mens Rights, only talk about women 99% of the time? You got a problem with that?
/r/MensRights22/04/18 11:25 PM
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At least I give her respect for being honest. Most sell feminism as equality for all THEN pull the rug out from under men.
/r/MensRights22/04/18 10:05 PM
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It's "The New Science".
/r/MensRights22/04/18 10:00 PM
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Since they told him, and all male victims, not to hijack the hashtag. It's not THEIR time, remember?
/r/MensRights22/04/18 05:39 AM
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There's a time and a place for everything. If I want to know about an actor's life story I'll read their interviews or autobiographies. Not have them babble it out in person when I'm trying to enjoy their performance.
/r/MensRights22/04/18 05:36 AM
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You should read "The Galbrush Paradox". http://thisisvideogames.com/gamergatewiki/index.php/Galbrush_Paradox Also would like to add women's stories, or stories with female characters, also lean towards the "Empowerment" angle. Where every male character is always wrong or screwing up while the female character gets to rub his clumsiness in his face while given free reign to deal out physical violence (like slapping him hard if he says something wrong). Of course, we're supposed to "Sympathize" w…
/r/MensRights22/04/18 05:08 AM
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I would like to clarify: The reason I'm cynical about having nothing to fear is because with the advent of social media anybody can accuse someone of being a "Racist", "Misogynist" or "Homophobe" and ruin their target's reputation and career. With no recourse available for the accused. It was a mistake giving human beings this weapon in the first place because, lo and behold, they wield it recklessly.
/r/MensRights22/04/18 05:01 AM
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Because feminist groups were successful in pressuring the government into keeping the law gendered towards female victims and male rapists.
/r/MensRights22/04/18 04:57 AM
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Doesnt really matter your politics or gender, if you havent done anything wrong then you should have to fear anything and you shouldnt have to suffer. Too bad we don't live in a perfect world.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 09:18 PM
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Why the hell does she even have "supporters" anyway? Who would support that? You'd be surprised how many of those with a similar mindset such as hers exist out there.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 08:25 PM
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Femoids and normalfags, huh? Can't see why people have no respect for you. /s
/r/MensRights21/04/18 08:23 PM
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And to think I admired him for bringing attention to male victims in the Hollywood system. He's basically no different from all the other bozos projecting their flaws on to men as a whole.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 04:25 PM
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They don't, though. It has become a cult and if you criticize it, they'll be on you fast and will ensure you are made to suffer.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 04:24 PM
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Lira Plaksina claimed she severed his manhood after he appeared at her home drunk and demanding sex Oh how vicious and cruel he was, being drunk and asking for a lay. She must've feared for her life /s
/r/MensRights21/04/18 04:19 PM
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Uh, those men were loitering around and refused to leave. Some restaurants and diners have a policy where, if you want to share space , you buy something. There are men (black, white, asian, hispanic, whatever race or creed) who have been wronged. These men weren't. Starbucks now introducing "Racial Sensitivity" training is off-base.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 05:01 AM
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In that case, yes. I agree. Those connections are sizeable for me. So there's one blessing.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 04:37 AM
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But, there's a difference between proactively engaging in productive relationships that will actually better the situation And what kind of relationships would those be. I'm not lacking in casual relationships if that's what you're referring to.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 11:45 PM
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It's good practice just to smile and nod and move on I don't think it's as easy as it sounds. Take me for example: I can't stand seeing movies or reading stories with female characters that think it makes them strong by abusing or bad-mouthing men, subtly or overtly, especially when the artist themselves condones it. It makes me so sad and helpless. Granted, I fight back out of it over time but still...imagine having been abused by both genders and seeing one gender getting their acts of violenc…
/r/MensRights20/04/18 11:17 PM
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Even after I told her that I had been sexually abused as a child by my mother's friends and therefore I understood exactly what it was like, she just said it wasn't the same because a boy was always looking for sex with women anyway God, I will never cease being disgusted by this attitude. Thinking even a little boy always looks for sex. She obviously condones child rape if that's the case.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 11:12 PM
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No the only thing ridiculous is you. But since you've been outed as a troll, not here for honest debate and preferring to throwing out your contrarian opinions in order to rile people up, I think I'll end the discussion here.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 08:16 PM
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It's not putting anyone on a pedestal, but there's nothing wrong with sexism anyway. Sexism is good. We should be as sexist as possible. Being sexist means you recognize that men and women are different in nearly every way. We can recognize that men and women are different yet not use that to justify denying one group equal supports in gender neutral areas. Which is clearly what you are doing.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 07:21 PM
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You realize the way you're putting women on a pedestal like that is sexist, right?
/r/MensRights20/04/18 04:50 PM
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Don't get me wrong I have nothing against that sub but I feel that for this sub it should be returned to have a greater focus on men's issues, rather than just anything antifeminist. Maybe you should spend more time browsing the page. You'll find many topics related to specific men's issues along with articles. I'm not against antifeminism and it is definitely necessary in order to promote equal rights for men but it's not the be all and end all of men's rights. I agree. However, the biggest opp…
/r/MensRights20/04/18 04:44 PM
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I sincerely hope you're being sarcastic. If not, then fuck you. Rape victims deserve equal support. Period.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 04:39 PM
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Why exactly should men have to stay silent so that women can be heard? Aside from the fact they both can be heard and that it doesn't have to be one or the other, it's not as if male victims are inherently less important Quite a contradiction isn't it? Feminism: Men shouldn't be ashamed to speak out Man makes me #Metoo Post Feminism: Hey, quit trying to steal attention away from female victims. It's not your time. Can't imagine what would make male victims suppress their experiences. Oh no sir. …
/r/MensRights20/04/18 04:36 PM
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Well when they're constantly told it's not THEIR time, what did you expect? https://freethoughtblogs.com/hetpat/2017/10/17/metoo-or-mentoo-how-men-can-talk-about-abuse/ Yeah, fuck you Ally.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 11:24 PM
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Um, you really think the public is going to let this slide even when nothing wrong occurred in reality? I can't blame him for avoiding the spotlight. He's a marked man for eternity. No recovering from it.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 10:46 PM
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From a commentator on another video with the same man: Why he doing that living with a sick woman he a guy why he let that sick girl hurting him of course he's humble men but don't be weak I want to take the time to tell these people attempting to shame him to remember what it's like having someone you love use your vulnerability against you in order to inflict physical and mental abuse. Because that's what it's all about. Doesn't matter if he's a man. When you've also got society ready to move …
/r/MensRights18/04/18 10:42 PM
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I hope it bombs. Amy Schumer just isn't funny. Period.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 09:08 AM
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Words are wind. Which quickly grow to a hurricane when Social Media is involved.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 09:05 AM
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Bring it straight to the administration. If they see no problem, inform your local news. People like this, with their open bigotry, shouldn't be teaching students. Period.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 04:25 PM
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Don't forget "The Myth of Male Power" by Warren Farrell. Considered the key starting point towards awareness of male issues.
/r/MensRights16/04/18 01:33 AM
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Yeah, dress in your skivvies and roll around. That'll teach the big-bad patriarchy to oppress you. /s
/r/MensRights15/04/18 06:07 AM
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This is one of those things where, even if you watch it for a tiny bit, you'll still feel the need to take a shower after wading through that pile of really personal, dirty laundry. Especially in the comment's section. You even have Dean's wife chiming in, too. It's just...eugh. Sorry, but this is the really dark underside of the internet in which the spotlight is put on personal issues that should stay private.
/r/MensRights14/04/18 04:29 PM
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God, I feel for the white men defending themselves in that cesspool of a facebook comments section below it. Enduring non-stop shaming while the shamers high five themselves. This, ladies and gentlemen, is what feminism has become now. Anyone who dares to pull the "But that's not feminism" or "Feminism is about equality" card can kiss my ass!
/r/MensRights14/04/18 05:55 AM
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Though it's not as bad as before, I can't stomach popular entertainment thinking girls can be strong characters by belittling or abusing men. My consumption of Hollywood entertainment has nose dived as a result of their new morality post #Metoo. It gets to me sometimes but I'm coming to a place where it's out of my hands to help shift that narrative unless I want to go screaming at everyone everyday. Got to pick my battles, take care of my mental health. Don't find it pleasurable flashing back t…
/r/MensRights12/04/18 10:00 PM
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That really depends on the mother. There are some who are soon able to tune in to the issues and hardships boys and men face while raising a son. Others, though, like Julie Burchill, could care less and insist on filling their sons with dogma about how women are still victims and all males are the problem unless they repent for the sins of their fathers.
/r/MensRights12/04/18 09:48 PM
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Marilyn French was the one who said, “All men are rapists, and that’s all they are.” Actually, it was a character from her book "The Women's Room". Granted, she still put a lot of herself into it since that character happened to be a radical feminist. It's her other book, the non-biographical one about gender politics, is where you'll find everything about her personal views without any fictional filter whatsoever.
/r/MensRights12/04/18 09:41 PM
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We need more women and wives like you.
/r/MensRights12/04/18 09:37 PM
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We're comparing adult men and women here. Yet you said women shouting is a lot less scary, though.
/r/MensRights12/04/18 09:34 PM
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You're not wrong. Men often aren't shown sympathy whenever they dare to show some vulnerability. It's not simply vulnerability. We're talking about having a fear of women that's actually justified based on abuse and bullying. However I personally try to show those men some basic human decency and sympathy if they open up around me. But not society. We need more than just individual people to open themselves up to men with this struggle. In this day and age of "Girl Power", "#Metoo", and "Elevati…
/r/MensRights12/04/18 02:14 AM
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I'm literally talking about domestic homicides, you can't refute that men are overwhelmingly more likely to kill a partner, that is a fact. For the umpteenth time, I am refuting your claim that all women are smaller and men are more dangerous. Not domestic homicides or whatever dodge you're putting up. You can argue that men maybe are on the receiving end of domestic abuse at the same rates but you can't argue that women are more violent because men literally kill more. I never said they are MOR…
/r/MensRights11/04/18 11:31 PM
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It's something like 95% of men are stronger than 95% of women after adolescence. It's is an overwhelming majority. No it isn't. You're pulling that number out of your ass so put it back in because it stinks. I'm not dodging anything, men commit a lot more domestic homicides, you tried to dodge that by saying that men just didn't report it, I shut that down. It's you dodging. I'm talking about domestic violence and not dodging. I'm presenting a counterpoint and you refuse to listen. It is more sc…
/r/MensRights11/04/18 10:55 PM
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All I would ask of these girls is to change the claim that "Men are scary" into "I'm afraid of men". If they could start with that, it would stop being an accusation against men, and would become a cry for help, which they clearly need. And they'd get an immediate shoulder to cry on. There's an entire industry around this. Try being a man saying you're afraid of women for legitimate reasons (past abuse and neglect). If you're not laughed at out of the room, you're definitely going to get all kin…
/r/MensRights11/04/18 10:40 PM
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women are smaller than men are you retarded Not every woman. I specifically didn't look at 'domestic abuse' statistics because I knew you'd pull this shit, I looked at 'domestic homicides'. That doesn't change anything. You're again trying to dodge the issue. If you disagree with the fact that a bigger person is more dangerous than a smaller person then you're just being intentionally difficult. Where did I say that? I disagreed with your opinion that women, on average, are smaller. And you're t…
/r/MensRights11/04/18 10:38 PM
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I'm not giving anyone a free pass, jesus the 'muh oppression' is strong here. It's not "Muh Oppression", it's balance. I'm saying noone should shout at anyone but it's inherently scarier when a person of larger stature screams at someone of smaller stature. Again, calling women small. Females are overwhelmingly more likely to be the victim of domestic homicide and men are overwhelmingly more likely to be the perpetrator. Because nobody listens to men when they're victims and aren't counted. They…
/r/MensRights11/04/18 03:41 PM
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You're wrong. I don't agree with you because you're giving abusive women a free pass by saying its not intimidating when women yell at men.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 03:44 AM
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Women shouting is a lot less scary You've never been a little boy, I see. Try having your mother give you an earful at that vulnerable age. Threatening a beating. Trust me when I say both genders don't hold back. Or are you going to discount that because men are worse in that regard?
/r/MensRights11/04/18 02:59 AM
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In the wake of #Metoo To HELL with #Metoo. It's been a blight on natural, organic relationships for a time now. You want to teach consent, approach it from BOTH angles. #Metoo is "Only about female victims. It's not your time, male victims so shut up!" remember?
/r/MensRights10/04/18 09:17 PM
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That's because women are not a monolith. They are both weak and strong, sometimes in the same day. Seems to me that they're weak where consequences, accountability and responsibility are concerned yet strong when something goes their way. The same way men are. More like we're "Insecure" or "Afraid of losing power as white men". That said, women shouldn't have to be protected from loud noises. They should be expected of everything a man is expected of, because, barring some minor differences, we …
/r/MensRights10/04/18 09:15 PM
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How is he possibly not good at using clippers? Are your really this dense or are you trolling? There are certain kinds of styles barbers are not qualified for. The one the girl's mother requested was, as he said, out of his realm of expertise. It's not about using clippers, it's about the complexity and intricacy of a hair style.
/r/MensRights10/04/18 12:30 AM
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Can there be any question that this was not the desired result? Doesn't matter. Damage has been done. Unless they're willing to admit their share of responsibility in this and FINALLY approach it from an angle where NO GENDER has it worse than the other (as opposed to what they did before), we will never get anywhere close to undoing it.
/r/MensRights09/04/18 07:58 PM
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Yeah, its sounding like those people are whining about sleeping in the messy bed THEY made of their own accord. What hypocrisy. We have to be very careful, as psychologists, parents and educators, never to assume less motivation or capability in an individual child based on average group measures. Newsflash, you used questionable statistics and research to support tailoring education towards the needs of girls for decades in the first place. How many boys were left behind as a result, only to be…
/r/MensRights09/04/18 07:49 PM
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There's no need to be misleading here, because this is clearly discrimination. What if the barber had said that he only knows how to cut kinky hair, or only knows how to cut straight hair? The barber is admitting his range of expertise and experience is limited. Not very many people who work in such a profession are willing to confess that. If has no experience cutting a girl's hair, why do you think he should take a chance and invite more hostile criticism for making even the slightest mistake?
/r/MensRights09/04/18 07:38 PM
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Not all feminists hate men. And those feminists come in two flavors: A) Liberal feminists with no clout in the movement, no power. B) Feminists disowned and doxxed by their own movement for daring to say women don't have it worse and men also struggle with issues related to their gender that doesn't pertain to Patriarchy Theory. Group A typically feel slighted and need to defend the movement, believing it to be about equality between the sexes without doing the faintest bit of contrarian researc…
/r/MensRights07/04/18 09:39 PM
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You're asking people here to play nice while making it out that women have it worse in a gender neutral issue like Domestic Violence? We can't dilute this point by turning it into a "violence is violence" argument. Buddy, I'm sure you remember you were taught not to hit or antagonize people for no reason all the way back to when you were in training pants. Women shouldn't get a free pass to ignore this basic rule. That's why we say "Violence is violence". Because it's a woman being FUCKING VIOLE…
/r/MensRights07/04/18 02:45 AM
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Yeah, we must avoid gender politics at all co--oh wait: https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/6fw549/that_time_seth_rogen_blasted_the_grammys_for/
/r/MensRights07/04/18 02:41 AM
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It was a social experiment video. Simulated violence. None of it real.
/r/MensRights07/04/18 02:30 AM
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And yet society still insists boys will be more well-off compared to girls.
/r/MensRights06/04/18 07:17 PM
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Yes, but the original intend was to draw attention to the fact that it happened more and to more woman than you think. So it's confirmed then: Male victims are not welcome. Not their time. Got it. The MeToo movement wasn't about pointing fingers, but some have certainly taken it that way. When you put a powerful tool such as Social Media into the hands of people who are not above bias and narrow worldviews, what did you think was going to happen? While this sub Reddit is great, we must be very c…
/r/MensRights06/04/18 04:28 PM
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Lol you're the exact type of person that prevents actually valuable guys like me from being willing to align ourselves with this movement. Like a movement deserves someone going out of their way to present women as more benign of the sexes. You're the male version of a feminist. I'm not the one going around blocking Shared Parenting or advocating methods that paint men as the primary abusers or erasing male victims from statistical research, buddy. It would be funny if it wasn't so sad watching …
/r/MensRights04/04/18 09:47 PM
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I never said all women are nice you utter moron, I said women are generally nice. Still bullshit. If you genuinely can't notice a trend with women where they're far less willing to commit violence than men then you are fucking blind and stupid. And I'd say the one who automatically believes women to be more virtuous "in general" is more of a moron than the one they're accusing. Moron. It's not even a negative thing anyways, being nice is a pretty low form of virtue. Which women possess in spades…
/r/MensRights04/04/18 08:48 PM
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Ah, the infamous "Finger Poke Of Doom". (Hulk Hogan and Kevin Nash wrestling reference)
/r/MensRights04/04/18 08:20 PM
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They would be wrong, women are in general pretty nice people. Bullshit! I was abused by both genders. Believe me, women are not exempt from showcasing humanities worst traits at an equal level.
/r/MensRights04/04/18 08:11 PM
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For anyone who is upset by this, what are the statistics of women who are abused vs. men who are abused? For what reason? Yes, men are physically abused, emotionally abused, and verbally abused too. I don't like the thinking behind imbalanced approaches, but I can understand this more than others [i.e. always giving custody of the kids to mom, etc, etc.] So excluding male victims is understandable to you? Women are almost always more vulerable to physical abuse then men. So you're going to pull …
/r/MensRights04/04/18 08:00 PM
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As has been stated before, society still refuses to hold women who commit crimes accountable nor believe they are capable of pulling them off since "Women are wonderful" is propagated at every turn. Until we get to that point, I'll be glad to have stories like this posted on this forum.
/r/MensRights04/04/18 04:10 PM
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Reminds me of that story by Ray Bradbury, in which every able-bodied person is hobbled with weights and ropes, so that no handicapped person feels is out-competed. Correction: Kurt Vonnegut. "Harrison Bergeron"
/r/MensRights04/04/18 12:35 AM
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It’s not the rules but the idea that cause something is a rule it must be right. Which isn’t true And you're actually disputing basic etiquette?
/r/MensRights03/04/18 10:40 PM
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Just cause something is a rule doesn’t make it right. Slavery was legal. Women couldn’t legally vote. Gay marriage was illegal. You're comparing rules of basic etiquette to slavery, denial of the right to vote and making gay marriage illegal. Ease off on the hyperbole, would you?
/r/MensRights03/04/18 06:31 PM
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Wash day tomorrow. Nothing clean. Right?
/r/MensRights03/04/18 06:28 PM
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Screams into pillow
/r/MensRights02/04/18 05:06 PM
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Whatever you do, don't click the link in the opening paragraph. That opinion piece is your typical "Ohhh, men have a 'issues'. HA HA HA! DERP!". It'll give you cancer, along with the comments.
/r/MensRights31/03/18 05:13 PM
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Speculation and assumption. There have been many high profile cases of mothers murdering children that make national headlines. Off the top of my head, Casey Anthony. And how many of them were given sympathetic treatment and had the seriousness of their crimes diluted by looking for external causes (mental health, circumstances, a bad man, etc)?
/r/MensRights30/03/18 03:38 PM
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Imagine that feminists wanted to show that women are just as capable as men at politics or engineering or some other traditionally masculine field, and that to do this they posted many articles about bad male politicians or bad male engineers. But they do it anyway. Remember what I said about the current sweep of female empowerment that's galvanizing women everywhere? You can't go a day without them. implicitly or explicitly, blaming men or proclaiming that "The Future Is Female". You can see ho…
/r/MensRights29/03/18 07:41 PM
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It's misogynistic to combat the prevalent narrative that abuse is only something men do to women?
/r/MensRights29/03/18 03:28 PM
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How else are you going to do it? In today's "Girl Power" culture, any other way will be like spitting in the wind. Society has yet to shake its assumptions that only men are horrible and women as downtrodden victims of a "Male Dominated" world. I've heard this countless times from media during the rush to elevate/celebrate girls and women that its irritating. Maybe you can make a suggestion as to how we can shake society out of this mindset without "Women Behaving Badly" posts.
/r/MensRights29/03/18 03:27 PM
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Well I'm afraid that unless women, en-masse, start recognizing that the #metoo movement has seriously damaged relationships between genders as a consequence, you'll see more men refusing to play the game. Men have already warned them about the ramifications of "Trial by Social Media" only to be told they're misogynistic and rape apologists in the process. Awareness of false accusations, multiplied ten-fold by the hashtag, is still ignored and brushed off. Male victims of female abuse/harassment …
/r/MensRights28/03/18 07:05 PM
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Then answer the question. Why do you think it's sad that the the US never had a female president?
/r/MensRights27/03/18 10:16 PM
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The woman wasn't a feminist, she had a "'longstanding and chronic' history of mental ill health." It was due to feminist reforms like "The Tender Years Doctrine" that got the ball rolling for mothers like her to automatically be granted support from family court. Shared parenting would've solved this but did you see any feminist organizations supporting it? No. N.O.W came out against it assuming abusive fathers would have easier access to their children. The purpose of the bill flying right over…
/r/MensRights27/03/18 09:05 PM
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Also as a society we expect women to be the primary caregiver so when a child dies of abuse or neglect the instinct would be to blame the mother. I disagree. Today, society prefers blaming extenuating circumstances, mental illness or other "Outside" forces (primarily male) for the mother's abuse and neglect. You don't see that level of sympathy and pity donated to abusive fathers, do you?
/r/MensRights27/03/18 09:01 PM
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Not just this man but finally we are seeing major blow-back towards Trudeau's abandonment of a large chunk of male voters in that thread. Helps me to regain some hope I'd lost.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 02:49 AM
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I'm just saying it's sad we haven't had a female president. Why is it sad? Are you one of those who believe the myth that if women ran the world, we'd be free of conflict and bask in everlasting peace? Because that is as equally sexist as a refusal to take women seriously in the political arena.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 02:17 AM
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We've just never had a female president ever, and it's pretty sad if you ask me. Well I think it's even sadder propping up a person's gender as a qualification for running a country.
/r/MensRights26/03/18 10:23 PM
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While the judicial system can sometimes favor women, we have also never had a female president. I want a president that is qualified for the job, with policies I can agree with. Not some token appointee whose purpose is to satiate a minority group and score social justice points. Basically a PR Mascot.
/r/MensRights26/03/18 08:43 PM
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So long as those men are qualified. Not simply because they're men.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 06:48 AM
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No. I still stand by my principles, even if it would appear to benefit men, I'd still want someone qualified for the job. Not because of their gender. Additionally, Affirmative Action wouldn't fix mentalities like the opinion that men who share any interest in helping children must have deviant motives of a sexual nature lurking underneath their charity.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 02:27 AM
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There has been systematic sexism in the corporate world stemming from an older mindset that there is "women's work" and "men's work." There's also descrimination against men in what is traditionally called "Women's Work". Yet you don't see anyone calling for Affirmative Action on that, do you? So women were passed up in many jobs for decades causing an unfair imbalance of men to women. See above answer. As such it can be hard for a woman to get into certain professions that are typically staffed…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 11:46 PM
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Why can't you be a "good feminist" and support affirmative action? Because it descriminates in favor of gender/race. You can't a be a "Good Feminist" then turn around and support a law that seeks to make things worse. It's hypocritical. If you can't see that, then fine. Maybe we should go our separate ways.
/r/MensRights22/03/18 11:12 PM
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I'm not a feminist. I do however feel that men and women should have equal treatment. That's not what we're getting, however. I don't believe in this day and age affirmative action should have to exist but there is a lot of systemic racism and sexism in hiring practices that it is trying to correct. And failing dismally. I'd say its getting harder and harder defending it as a proper tool to fight discrimination when it's turning it all around on white people. I have no idea how to answer your la…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 10:41 PM
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People could enjoy things without having g to hear the bullshit of SJWs and the like. All this ended with the smartphone it seems, now everyone wants their voices heard and the SJW and feminists are the internet version of an “end times” preacher yelling at passerby’s. Wasn't just cellphones. Even in the early 2000s with the internet, without cellphones or Ipads, the only way you'd have access online is with either a desktop or laptop computer. Both of which cost a pretty penny if you were ever …
/r/MensRights22/03/18 10:27 PM
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When hundreds of slaves were brought here and forced to do labor, was it fair? No. That was hundreds of years ago. Hardly any of these white men you are in favor of depriving them of an honest living to feed and support themselves had anything to do with slavery. Even if, by some chance, they had ancestors who owned black slavers, what gives you the god-damn right to make THEM pay for the sins of their relatives? Affirmative Action is creating more problems than it is solving. Discriminating is …
/r/MensRights22/03/18 10:13 PM
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The reason I commented at all was because any thread I see on this subreddit (when I see one on r/all) the comment section always seem do devolve into feminism/female hatred and blaming of these seemingly imaginary "feminazis" that hate men and equality. So feminism was all for Affirmative Action towards women in jobs, the very tool responsible for this man having lost his opportunity for a job and you have a problem with criticizing feminism? I will ask this as I have with other "Good Feminists…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 10:07 PM
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Seriously they're not rare They don't matter, either. You're never going to win feminism back so quit trying to defend it. The current movement will NEVER accept you reasonable feminists and won't have any qualms throwing you under the bus as they have done others who didn't tow their line. Feminism is dying. Let it rot.
/r/MensRights22/03/18 10:02 PM
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A true feminist wants equal rights. Then they're not feminist according to the current movement. There are many people who call themselves feminists but aren't. Gee, I wonder why. If I say that I am a nazi it doesn't mean that I am one. Difference is NOBODY defends nazis or tries to be the "Good Nazi". But there sure are a lot of feminists pouring out, bending over backwards to defend the label.
/r/MensRights22/03/18 09:59 PM
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What feminism, for some, has morphed into simply isn't equality. Even decades ago, when feminism started taking off, it still contained an element of dislike of men as a group. Otherwise, we wouldn't have extremists like Andrea Dworkin able to publish their writings.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 08:31 PM
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Yeah. It's not worth engaging in a battle of wits with someone who is unarmed.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 08:27 PM
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This is becoming so typical that I'm surprised men don't realize this is the price you pay for publicly denouncing a powerful movement. Now Terry's going to have to fight tooth and nail to clear the taint from his legacy that will result, regardless of outcome.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 02:04 PM
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I'm pointing out a double-standard, ignoramus.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 01:58 PM
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Well, #metoo, you did it. You irreparably destroyed healthy relationships between men and women for posterity. Actual Misogynists are laughing their asses off right now.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 02:42 AM
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I was just thinking it was just a bit of fun and nobody got harmed or intimidated. Yeah, I'm laughing so hard at a woman violating a young man's promise to save his lip kiss for a relationship. /s Be honest, you'd be making a stink if the gender's were reversed.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 02:32 AM
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Did you actually read the article? Nothing in it is that bad. Oh? Men are socialized to be condescending toward women, and even the few who check themselves often fail. Did YOU read the article?
/r/MensRights19/03/18 06:21 AM
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This is a Q & A Op Ed. Approved by the editorial staff and PUBLISHED in the paper. Get it?
/r/MensRights19/03/18 12:04 AM
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I’ve since been permabanned from that sub for other comments. To be honest, Tedesche, Femradebates is too lax with its "Report" button. I've seen threads with so many "This comment has been reported..." warnings its absurd to believe the space is really about having a productive debate about gender issues. And trust me when I say this but they're not going to grow their userbase by making them go through approval in order to post.
/r/MensRights18/03/18 11:56 PM
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I've made it a habit never to visit Social Media Sites like Facebook for extensive periods, nor post often even though I have an account on one of them. It's become so toxic, the only winning move in that game is not to play.
/r/MensRights18/03/18 08:45 PM
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To the last point, which seems to broadly be about feminists shutting down men or broadly dismissing them, that happens so much. I think a lot of people are very prone to level an identifier at someone without considering their personal and specific circumstances. I definitely see the pain you have experienced. While it's a relief that you do, this here: As to your experience, had you been a woman, your autism would have likely gone undiagnosed and dismissed because autism manifests slightly dif…
/r/MensRights18/03/18 03:22 AM
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While I am grateful, just to clarify that I never made that comment. It was from a different redditor in an entirely separate sub-reddit that discusses gender issues. I'm only endorsing it because there are aspects in there that transcend this person into something I've felt myself while surrounded in all directions by "Girl Power". With this out of the way, I'll address your points: Your experience is a narrow slice of all possible contexts that men and women could exist in. I'm not sure I unde…
/r/MensRights18/03/18 02:35 AM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights18/03/18 02:14 AM
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Why is it necessary to justify writing out personal thoughts and feelings and have to defend them against someone claiming I'm making grandiose blanket statements? Why was this allowed to happen to the public forum? Well, think about it this way. You're in a world where the opinions you hold are not welcome by anyone. Not even people who claim to support you (yes, that includes family members too). On top of that, the world spends its moments elevating a certain population and then throwing it i…
/r/MensRights18/03/18 12:24 AM
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Okay, I'll see what I can do. Thanks for your input.
/r/MensRights17/03/18 06:56 PM
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Well, when you give average people the ability to ruin someone's life on social media, its inevitable it will be misused.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 11:09 PM
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That is what feminist mean by equality! No matter how good or how bad men are, they are all equally misogynists. They're just jealous because Stephen Hawking got further in life with his intellect and science than their Gender Studies Degrees will ever get them.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 11:07 PM
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Well if calling women a mystery means you're a misogynist then these feminists have really thin skin and redefined the word out of meaning.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 04:42 PM
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Notice one of the twitterers labels him a misogynist for thinking the greatest mystery in the world was "women". Meanwhile, I'll bet they're free to call all men rapist pigs then receive high-fives and cheers from their followers.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 04:41 PM
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Oh pompous and arrogant too. Quite a combination in addition to being an apathetic bigot. Listen carefully, windbag, I have more awareness about issues than you do in that hot air balloon of a head of yours. And let me tell you right now, your little word salad (which you can choke on for all I care) and pretentious intellectualism will never mask the fact that you just outed your bigotry against white people. And again, so rich talking about masturbating in a corner when your latest response RE…
/r/MensRights16/03/18 06:13 AM
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How is this not blaming women for pregnancy? Women have the option of birth control. Aren't they equally responsible or are men still expected to shoulder full responsibility in case of unexpected pregnancy? Because if its the latter, I'm sorry, but you are being sexist by denying the agency of a woman in this matter. I know this may sound like news to you but women are adults. About time they get treated as such. Don't agree with me? Then the next time you accuse people of misogyny, look in the…
/r/MensRights16/03/18 03:05 AM
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Don't blame women for pregnancy. Men are equally responsible. But they AREN'T blaming women for pregnancy.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 02:43 AM
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So you're telling men here to keep it in their pants? Okay, then how about women keep their legs together? Equality, right?
/r/MensRights16/03/18 12:41 AM
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Oh that's rich, really rich, coming from someone who admitted, in black and white right in this thread that you don't care about white men getting shafted since they, according to you, are the majority. Let's take this logic further: You: "Yeah, fuck all those white male victims of sexual abuse, those white men who are homeless, all those white boys diddled by their fathers/mothers, all those white fathers who still lost custody of their children even when they've proven they're the better paren…
/r/MensRights15/03/18 11:26 PM
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You can't get to equity for all (e.g. raising up the minority) without the majority losing. It's just not how averages work. So until we get there, white men are going to simply be slightly worse off every step of the way. You know, I'm glad you're finally taking the gloves off and admitting you don't give two shits about equality unless it benefits one group over the other. It's better then pretending at least. I guess that's the reason this sub exists - people are seeing it and fighting agains…
/r/MensRights15/03/18 09:28 PM
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So White Men are tasting very minor and limited specific instances of discrimination. Welcome to a fraction of a percent of what a black man goes through every single second of their lives from before they understand that skin color matters to a lot of people they're likely to interact with in their world. Keep that up and you're not going to sway any white people to see things from your perspective. This is why people flinch at diversity. Because you just can't resist shoving white people down …
/r/MensRights15/03/18 08:56 PM
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Fuck you right back, buddy. Discrimination against whites is a problem since she will also include white men on her hit list. I'd say that makes it a men's issue no matter how much you bitch about it. PS: You're still a troll.
/r/MensRights15/03/18 05:06 PM
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If you're going to troll, be original.
/r/MensRights15/03/18 04:36 PM
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Our goals for this month were: less than 50% white authors Um, Miss Angyal...you're white, too. Practice what you preach.
/r/MensRights15/03/18 04:35 PM
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That sub is clearly more interested in defending the "Feminist" approach to gender issues that it will ban anyone who so much as questions it. You're better off never bothering.
/r/MensRights15/03/18 07:11 AM
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However, I also don't want to live in a feminist-wastebasket of a society where any and all affection between a man and a woman in public is condemned. The young man clearly stated he wouldn't just kiss any girl on the lips unless he was in a relationship. For Katy Perry to violate that standard with a smile on her face shows she's an uncaring idiot.
/r/MensRights15/03/18 06:58 AM
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They can just pull out the sociological definition of bigotry, where it's only possibly by people with power and privilege (aka whites). Making them untouchable and unaccountable.
/r/MensRights15/03/18 01:19 AM
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What's sad is this young man had already stated he was saving that kind of kiss for the right girl. Then Katy Perry just couldn't resist throwing a wrench into that.
/r/MensRights14/03/18 08:59 PM
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Being the bigger man. In other words, sit on our ass and let the status quo prevail. It's wrong for both men and women to lose education for accusation. Even in a case where the assault doesn't involve college it's wrong in my opinion. Society doesn't think so. Me, I'm a drop in bucket of water. There's nothing I can do to get it changed. It's going to take all men standing together to get it changed. And that means pushing back. Making it so equality is enforced across the board. A man can be d…
/r/MensRights14/03/18 12:58 AM
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Too bad. Men can have their careers ruined and education prospects eliminated with even a mere accusation. Anytime this is brought up, anytime people attempt to advocate tirelessly, they're faced with resistance and even their own careers in jeopardy. Playing the diplomat is evidently not working. So what do you suggest?
/r/MensRights13/03/18 09:54 PM
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Katy Perry kissing the young man fully on his lips unexpectedly: Aww, cute moment. Young man kissing Katy Perry fully on her lips unexpectedly: She posts it as a #Metoo
/r/MensRights13/03/18 04:46 PM
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Oh really? And what exactly do you call, say, being passed over for a job because you're white and the company is looking more for diversity? How about, as a commentator put it above, being called "White Devil"? Wait, let me guess, it's not discrimination because whites can't be discriminated against. Is that so?
/r/MensRights13/03/18 01:33 AM
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From a commentator towards me after refuting their claim that being a man gives you an edge in life: Sucks for you that you were abused during your childhood. It really does, and there should be no shame in you being able to discuss it and getting help and support in processing it and moving forward from it. 100%. However, it doesn’t delete thousands of years of patriarchal oppression, and doesn’t delete current world patriarchal oppression, and doesn’t delete the fact that violence and sexual a…
/r/MensRights12/03/18 11:19 PM
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They're right. Reverse sexism isn't a thing. It's just plain old sexism.
/r/MensRights12/03/18 04:30 PM
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Who. Cares? You choose someone based on their qualifications and what they're willing to bring to the table. Not on skin color or gender. It has worked this way for decades and any minority who feels slighted they can bring the company to court provided they have evidence of intentional discrimination. Affirmative Action Quotas are bullshit and should be abolished. I'm tired of qualified people getting passed over just so the company can kiss the asses of a segment that DON'T BUY THEIR PRODUCT I…
/r/MensRights12/03/18 06:54 AM
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So now we have #metoo sensibilities infiltrating SIMULATED sex scenes. That is, FAKE sex planned and choreographed with the consent of both parties for film. Just wait. Next thing they'll do is outright ban sex scenes and refuse to shoot a script or adapt a novel if it has a sex scene in it.
/r/MensRights11/03/18 10:11 PM
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Don't bother. billybishop is only here to rile everyone up. We get their kind all the time.
/r/MensRights11/03/18 05:19 PM
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Convenient how your philosophical arguments all come back to how everything is about you and you don’t have enough privilege anymore. It's ideologues like you that are a fucking cancer on society. Trying to claim men's issues are complaining about a lack of privelege. Please, try something original for once if you're looking to disparage. The fact that dudes like you blame women for their own shortcomings is actually hilarious to everybody watching. Grow up you baby. You realize the commentator …
/r/MensRights11/03/18 05:17 PM
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Normally I would say that those weren't true feminists, but the more I'm reading, that is what the feminist movement is about. That's my point. Glad you held back on that automatic response because, let's face it, there's no ignoring what feminism is doing now. The "not true feminists" are still welcome in the feminist movement, have powered positions in media, government and educational institutions and back up in case of heavy resistance. Not exactly a fringe group.
/r/MensRights11/03/18 12:28 AM
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Still, administrators defended the posters, saying they were not intended to shame people who fell into one of the indicated privilege categories. Why put them up then? You think the average white kid is thinking, on a daily basis, about making life a living hell for a minority or a woman or whatever the hell "Flavor of the month" oppressed person is in the social media spotlight? I thought the purpose of equality was never to judge people by characteristics beyond their control. You, however, s…
/r/MensRights10/03/18 08:09 PM
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Don't know if you're still around but I have some tidbits that should make you contemplate things in a new light. I used to believe feminism was about equality. Until a few things woke me up. The first was when I talked about being hurt by females young and old in my life. Suddenly, feminists are brushing it off as nothing serious compared to what females go through on a regular basis from males. One even told me to "Check my privelege"/ Second was learning actions the movement took contradicted…
/r/MensRights10/03/18 08:01 PM
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So they want to dissuade SOME men from committing a crime of opportunity by making ALL men sit at the back of the bus. And you're telling me that does NOT presuppose all men are sexual assaulters?
/r/MensRights09/03/18 06:20 PM
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I think you should drop these guys. In fact, don't ever participate in online gaming where anything not related to the game you're playing is allowed.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 06:17 PM
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Imagine how male victims feel being asked to sit at the back of the bus, assumed THEY'RE the sole contributor to "Rape Culture" over there. Maybe you should consider that angle before acting so concern trollish about a post.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 06:09 PM
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This should be top comment. India has a major societal issue with the sexual harassment of women, As I pointed out in another comment, India also has a population of men and boys who were raped/sexually groped. But thanks to the government refusing to make rape laws gender neutral, they have NOWHERE to turn to for help and will never be officially recognized.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 06:03 PM
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Rape is a serious issue in India So is rape of men and boys. And it doesn't help that the government of India refused to make rape laws gender-neutral thanks to pressure from Feminist Groups.
/r/MensRights09/03/18 05:57 PM
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Then stop making fucking assertions and assumptions about a group if you're not going to take the time and effort to back them up with concrete, credible evidence. Jesus Christ.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 08:56 PM
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Okay OP, what makes you think this thread is anti-women's rights? I don't mind your request. But, like so many others that have come before you, you're making serious assertions backed without evidence so please provide. Unless you think critiquing areas where women have a great advantage over men like Family Courts is somehow means we want to revoke the rights of women.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 08:53 PM
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Ditto on the Daily Mail - they're not renowned for quality journalism tbh Happen to know any respectable mainstream news organizations willing to admit that women can sexually abuse men/boys? crickets
/r/MensRights08/03/18 12:03 AM
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No, traditional femism is just a platform to fight for women's rights. Traditional feminism is dead. They spear-headed their extinction by refusing to do something about the unsavory elements rising in their ranks. Now, those unsavory elements are running the show. But Traditional feminism still had flaws. Like winning the right to vote while avoiding the responsibility of signing up for the draft.
/r/MensRights07/03/18 11:56 PM
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Thanks a lot, #metoo.
/r/MensRights07/03/18 05:20 PM
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I'm not perfect, though. That's what I meant to add.
/r/MensRights06/03/18 05:48 PM
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What i find striking in this debate, and reflected in MRM responses to it, is the question of the extent to which an artist's private behaviour should discredit her as an artist. One thing I've been learning is to treat these artists as the human beings they are so that it makes partaking in their work a little easier to handle. There are some writers whose views I vehemently disagree with and find pretty toxic. But they're still great storytellers with the gift of prose.
/r/MensRights06/03/18 05:17 PM
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As I predicted: Hollywood and the studio system have thrown away any effort whatsoever in telling a good story and rewarding it. Instead, everything is about "Diversity". Oscar is so white, as one of the presenters joked. So we got to add some much-needed "Color" at any cost. People are getting sick of it. At least I am.
/r/MensRights05/03/18 10:55 PM
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Some folks have got to learn the HARD way. Social justice and virtue-signalling NEVER sells!
/r/MensRights05/03/18 10:51 PM
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Intersectionality, identity politics, and multiculturalism is going to cause social havoc. It already has. Look at the #metoo movement and the damage it has done to trust in general realtionships between men and women. Men are turning away, refusing to take mentor-ship roles and turning down chances to have one-on-one conversations alone with a woman unless someone accompanies them or the door to the room is wide open. Social Justice can go to hell.
/r/MensRights05/03/18 03:00 AM
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Who else?
/r/MensRights03/03/18 07:14 PM
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Salient point, mein fuher. Let's round up ze men in camps and taser zhem, vun by vun. Zhey vill know ze pain. Seriously, you know how ridiculous you sound?
/r/MensRights03/03/18 05:54 PM
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And sexist air conditioning.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 05:48 PM
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I figured it would be misused from the start. Look, I understand those women who were actually raped and their misgivings about the Justice System. Sometimes it works, other times it does more harm. But Social Justice (aka Lynch Mob Justice) is ten times worse. Making a rape accusation, plastering it all over Social Media and naming your accuser is a powerful weapon. Cause once its out there, the internet never forgets. Which is bad news for men who have been falsely metoo-ed. Of course a weapon…
/r/MensRights02/03/18 06:33 PM
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Sorry. You're right that I shouldn't make fun of appearances, though, but my opinions of his political conduct aren't much different. Finally, we're getting somewhere. People made fun of Bush for his actions. The man is not the brightest person. He was compared to a chimp for his intelligence levels, not for his appearance. Obama was compared to monkeys because of his skin color, so again, you're right, men are ridiculed as well. But can you give me any other examples of white men who were ridic…
/r/MensRights01/03/18 06:29 AM
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In fact, I'd wager my entire retirement account that there were significantly more people voting for her for sexist reasons (yay, she's a woman!) than there were against (ugh, she's a woman!) Don't forget even Hillary herself began pushing her gender as a valid qualification for presidency during interviews and on the campaign trail.
/r/MensRights01/03/18 06:24 AM
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And I'd prefer it that way.
/r/MensRights01/03/18 03:32 AM
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Females are absolutely capable of causing harm. Equally. Not more than males. Good because I'm not implying the contrary. I'm not asking you to reduce anyone to what's between their legs. What I am asking is that we DONT make blanket generalizations that women having power is any kind of danger to society. If that women isn't taught any sense of responsibility and never experienced consequences for doing something wrong, give that woman power and what do you think is going to happen? That she'll…
/r/MensRights01/03/18 01:59 AM
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Trump gets made fun of for his appearance because he objectively looks ridiculous. So you want people to stop making fun of women for their appearances yet here you are thinking Trump "objectively looks ridiculous". Does this sound like equality to you? Can you think of any other white men who have been made fun of for their appearances? George W. Bush. He was compared constantly to a chimp. Michelle Obama was compared to an ape and she didn't even run for office. Melania has also been degraded,…
/r/MensRights01/03/18 01:37 AM
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Why can't we have equal representation? You willing to recognize females as capable of harming people equally as well? Do you really think every single male leader is better than every single female leader ever? No. Can you not think of any women who are more capable than some of the men in office right now? Why do you want me to reduce women to what's between their legs than the qualifications they bring to the table? Are you sexist?
/r/MensRights28/02/18 09:58 PM
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If you consider the way women in politics are treated vs. how men in politics are treated, you'll see that women are degraded for their appearance (age, attire, hair, makeup, etc) and tone of voice far more than men. A lot of the people I know (men and women) don't even consider a female politician's opinions because they can't get past how she looks or how she sounds. Yeah, and I can say the same for Donald Trump. How many times have we heard the media and pundits target his orange hair and wha…
/r/MensRights28/02/18 09:55 PM
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You have Feminists who are radicals or extremists Who are now in government, education, and media and supported indefinitely with open arms. Then you have the level headed ones who you can have a conversation with about gender equality. Who have been scorned, ridiculed, doxxed and ostracized from the movement. I disagree with radical feminists on a lot because they're basic beliefs include "men are the root of the problem". I do not base my naming of groups on agree or disagree i base it on thei…
/r/MensRights28/02/18 09:52 PM
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I've long given up hope in government, local or worldwide, doing anything for the human rights of men.
/r/MensRights28/02/18 09:47 PM
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Because the UN doesn't believe in the existence of discrimination against men. They're a relic.
/r/MensRights28/02/18 09:46 PM
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The times they are a'changin.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 11:31 PM
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Lo and behold, here comes someone with the talking point. "Hey, relax. Men in congress have your back. Privileged white male, you."
/r/MensRights27/02/18 09:56 PM
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AH HA HA HA HA! You really believe women don't experience tension and disagreement with each other over issues? Sarah Palin? Are you serious? You weren't around when she was getting dog-piled by women for her views. Ask any conservative, pro-life woman how they were treated. It'll open your eyes.
/r/MensRights27/02/18 09:53 PM
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Feminists will come in this sub now and say that patriarchy hurts both men and women, I guarantee it. Or attempt to paint the movement in a positive light by claiming the feminists who hurt men aren't "Real Feminists" and that we should educate ourselves by looking at the dictionary definition. "Like, it's right there dude. In the dictionary."
/r/MensRights27/02/18 09:48 PM
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That's literally what textbook feminism says...look at actual feminist textbooks to see Are we going to get this same sorry excuse every time? Textbook feminism does not reflect the actions of feminism today and vice-versa. Even then, textbook feminism was tinged with an implicit adversarial approach to men. Lumping every man with men in power and assigning blame accordingly. The biggest mistake feminism ever made was refusing to believe that not every man is automatically bequeathed power and p…
/r/MensRights27/02/18 09:45 PM
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I think this is a result of men always being taught not to seek help or rely on others or else seem weak. They're also told their problems don't matter compared to women's issues. Speak to male victims of domestic violence and sexual abuse. What's the one thing they hear often? "You're hijacking the spotlight." "It's not your time." "When men are abused at equal levels to women, then we'll talk." It's even more pronounced, this prejudice and apathy, when you're a victim of a female perpetrator. …
/r/MensRights26/02/18 09:19 PM
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With all that though, I don't see what this has to do specifically with Mens Rights. Men make up a majority portion of deaths resulting from Suicide. It's one of the things MRAs are fighting to bring awareness to.
/r/MensRights26/02/18 09:16 PM
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Literally every week Terry Crews is at the top of /r/movies or /r/television. This was posted in r/television and promptly deleted as well. He was included in Time magazine's issue. Not on the cover, though. He deserved to share the same space with those "Revolutionary Women" along with Corey Feldman. But no, sorry, it's all about female victims now. It feels like this subreddit doesn't just want Crews to be taken seriously It's these powerful rags and people in the industry not taking him serio…
/r/MensRights23/02/18 11:27 PM
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They are trapped, and they don’t even have the language to talk about how they feel about being trapped, because the language that exists to discuss the full range of human emotion is still viewed as sensitive and feminine. (Snickering) I'm having a wonderous time hearing these people run their mouths over the same old, tired, one-size fits all solution of making men more feminine and in touch with their feelings while they're so busy ignoring the fact that its these same pompous, bleeding heart…
/r/MensRights23/02/18 12:09 AM
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Not so long as Patriarchy Theory and believing men are more valued over women in every aspect of society still exist is Feminism about equality. Get rid of these and then call me later. Stop wasting my time with definitions, missions statements or whatever meaningless drivel you'll throw at me next in order to save the face of a movement that has demonstrated their detriment to men rights in their actions for decades.
/r/MensRights22/02/18 10:24 PM
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They can claim to be what they want but if they don't respect the equality of both men and women then they're not feminist. Feminism hasn't respected the equality of both men and women for decades now. If you don't agree with Patriarchy Theory, that we still live in a society where all men are granted power over women, that women are more oppressed than men, then you are not a feminist.
/r/MensRights22/02/18 09:12 PM
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"So shines a good deed in a weary world" -The Merchant Of Venice
/r/MensRights22/02/18 03:15 AM
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After you watch the video, try to imagine how someone like Warren Farrell would have framed the exact same position. He already has and look where it got him. You can be nice, you can tell it like it is, either way you'll be labeled a hatemonger. There's no pleasing everyone and, frankly, its futile.
/r/MensRights22/02/18 02:49 AM
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That's an explicit rebuff. You do see the difference, right? You said consent is implicit. So, in other words, women weren't raped if they said no because, according to you, consent is implicit. Am I correct? As if that matters for anything; when was the last time you went to gay bathouse or pool party? Seriously, you have no problem with unwanted groping at a fucking POOL PARTY?!? Christ almighty. My my... "pervet", "sicko", "decent". LOL Yes, you are a pervert, you faggot. That's right, I said…
/r/MensRights19/02/18 11:44 PM
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They don't get it and never will no matter how big of a bone they're willing to throw. Liz AND all her supporters in the comments section. I'd rather not bother.
/r/MensRights19/02/18 10:33 PM
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Consent is implicit. Do you apply this logic for women who said, and meant, "No" when having sex? If you want to hang out in our spaces you have to deal with the ocasional sack-check without crying like a bitch. No I don't have too and there's not a damn thing you can do about it buddy. I don't need your acceptance; Oh really? Then next time this happens: murdering ortorturing my kind or using your power to legally oppress me Quit complaining about it. You don't have a problem with unwanted grop…
/r/MensRights19/02/18 10:15 PM
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I'm simply explaining how things work to a bunch of straight people (and I guess some sheltered gay dudes) that have no idea how certain gay subcultures work I started going to the bathhouses I my early 20s, where you can't walk 20 feet without someone sticking their fingers in your ass or grabbing your dick. This is 100% standard behaviour in that environment so many of us that are used to similar environment having a guy reach down to see what you're packing is just not that big of a deal, eve…
/r/MensRights19/02/18 09:29 PM
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BOY scouts. You know, an organization for BOYS that helps build character and offers guidance. There is already GIRL scouts for girls. Problem is, the people running it are so incompetent as to not tailor their programs along the line of what boys receive in their organization to fit a building desire from the female membership.
/r/MensRights19/02/18 09:24 PM
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Attributing the changes at this gym to feminism isn’t necessarily true though. But one of the core messages behind it has influenced it. Insofar as if you try to start anything for men only, there will be loud protests and boycotts because "Men only spaces are misogynistic". That is, until you concede to their demand of inclusion. Look at the flack hobbies like video games still get for their "Misogyny" and "Exclusion". I’m quite sick of the cultural meme that women are good and men are bad. Yea…
/r/MensRights19/02/18 09:18 PM
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I am an advocate for treatment of pedophiles * before* they act, and punishment if they act. Yet you were fine with Pedos getting arrested anyway earlier. I am also for prevention of acts if you feel they are imminent. Having a "Feeling" is not sufficient evidence. Sometimes gut feeling is all you can go on. And it's not going to get you anywhere when pursuing a case against a pedophile. I understand not wanting to be harassed because you are male, but I also know what I would do to prevent havi…
/r/MensRights18/02/18 07:35 PM
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Any idea how this can be done? How about having something to back up your serious accusations instead of nothing more than a "Gut Feeling" or "Suspicion"? Another question: Why do you want pedos arrested? Aside from what attracts them, I don't see anything warranting legal action apart from when they go further and act on it. In that case, you'd have a point since you can then charge them child abuse, rape, etc. But there's no crime for thoughts and desires. You can make a case for not wanting t…
/r/MensRights18/02/18 07:02 PM
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When it reaches the point where iconic works of art (whether it be paintings, sculptures, operas, or classic novels) are censored or removed because of modern morality, I'd say the world is more than just crazy. They've lost the plot completely.
/r/MensRights18/02/18 05:09 PM
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It starts...
/r/MensRights18/02/18 03:56 AM
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Please reread what I wrote. Maybe you should explain, in laymen's terms, what the hell you're talking about because I still don't appreciate someone telling me I'm threatened by women because I dislike how female characters are written these days.
/r/MensRights18/02/18 03:47 AM
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And that makes it any better? If I don't want to see a movie with women in it, it's because majority of the time they're written as flawless Mary Sues that have free reign to treat white male characters like crap. If that means I'm "Threatened by women", then I'd say the projecting is coming from him more than me.
/r/MensRights18/02/18 12:44 AM
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I'm just appalled that Disney let this shit happen Kathleen Kennedy has been preaching diversity and "More Women" for the project. This was their goal from the beginning. Disney didn't LET it happen.
/r/MensRights18/02/18 12:40 AM
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That's definitely something I'd say and not think twice about. It's an observation that isn't pc. Big deal. Because white people are an easy target.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 06:28 PM
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You may not like the way he phrased it, but its sounds like he made an observation and wanted to go in a different direction based off that. Men aren't even mentioned specifically. I'm a black male if someone were to say So you have no problem with people forcing diversity in places where there's no evidence of the majority white keeping minorities down? Please. I would not be offended. To get angry over a statement like that seems hyper-sensitive. Then bloody speak out about how hyper-sensitive…
/r/MensRights17/02/18 06:25 PM
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False rape accusations are an issue specific to men because they make up the majority of cases. This book has a chapter with advice on how women can concoct an allegation to destroy men in power. Not because they raped anyone or used his power to harm others. No, it's because of their status and the author feels women deserve that status after being oppressed for so long. All men, even those in power, have a right to not be treated like crap.
/r/MensRights17/02/18 02:18 AM
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I have no problem with this. Anyone who reads this and takes it to heart is someone you'll avoid in the future. It's going to make it easier to identify misandrists and bigoted people. A bonus is when they do falsely accuse a man, this guide will be used as primary evidence to get the accuser in trouble. Prosecuted: I never intended to falsely accuse him! Prosecutor: Your honor, I present to the court Exhibit A: "How To Destroy A Man Now" the defendant willfully purchased on Amazon.com. Wi.th pa…
/r/MensRights16/02/18 05:47 PM
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I think the way that we handle their mental health/upbringing is broken, which results in boys because less likely and encouraged to seek help You talk as if its entirely their fault and not also the result of a society that is still valuing women's feelings and issues over those of men and boys. What else are they going to do when you shut the door and leave them in the cold?
/r/MensRights16/02/18 01:12 AM
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Michael is looking at a complicated issue from limited, tunnel-vision lens. Here's a fact: Women still value masculinity in a man. Sure, he can be in touch with his emotions and feminine side. But the minute he breaks down and cries all the time, his partner will be repulsed. So unless women want to step up to the plate and help change this, then nothing will be solved. You want men in touch with their emotions and express their feelings? Maybe you should quit policing them. And leave them alone…
/r/MensRights16/02/18 01:09 AM
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Its amazing, yet still depressing, that "Women aren't perfect and perfectly capable of harming others" remains taboo in society.
/r/MensRights16/02/18 12:54 AM
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But not every feminists wants to dominate the world, there are feminists who actually are rational human beings that aren't crazy. Unfortunately for them, they are not recognized as feminists from the movement itself. When they are lucky to catch the people at the helm, the ones with power and influence, on an off day. Otherwise, the people at the helm dox them right out of it. Just ask Cassie Jaye.
/r/MensRights15/02/18 06:54 AM
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Well, "war is peace" as they say now.
/r/MensRights15/02/18 06:41 AM
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Okay, if not Trump then WHO? WHO else as powerful as the POTUS is going to finally stand up and shout "#Metoo are mad and I'm not going to take it anymore!". I can tell you for sure that most feminists have little or almost no idea of the relationship between MRA, RedPill, MGTOW, InCels. They put all those groups in the same bucket, pretty much. That is bad enough, we don't want Trump in the bucket too. Even without Trump, you think they'll ever stop tarring and feathering anyone showing sympath…
/r/MensRights14/02/18 10:05 PM
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Do you know how to stop a 35 year old woman from killing her child? Talk to her about it when she is 12. And stop spoiling her. (Another billboard you will never see)
/r/MensRights14/02/18 03:08 AM
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I realize where it stemmed from, but the fact that people can't separate dance from politics is really sad. We don't live in that world anymore. Politics are everywhere and insinuated into anything. Creating tension in places where it's not deserved. Never thought it would get this bad but here we are.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 01:13 AM
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I wonder how this lady feels about the scene in Wild (I admit, haven't read the book, only watched the movie) where the girl is totally unprepared and a well-meaning guy saves her butt by telling her to throw out all the dead weight she's carrying and get better shoes that actually fit. She'd claim the man was oppressing her with his "Mansplaining".
/r/MensRights13/02/18 05:07 PM
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Boys club I wish we can do away with this label as it implicitly ascribes blame for supposed exclusion.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 05:04 PM
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Because he uses religion for his shit. Where is he using his religion for his shit? And worse, he might just use religion. What makes you think he might?
/r/MensRights12/02/18 03:45 AM
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And he should be the first one to advocate for my right to call him a crazy God freak, because he regularly argues against political correctness. Where do you get this idea that anyone advocating against political correctness is a "Crazy God Freak"?
/r/MensRights11/02/18 11:53 PM
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And how is this bringing everyone else down? If it's okay to fall all over ourselves praising women then we should do the same for men. Equality. Or are you one of those who thinks equality is a zero-sum game and should be narrowly applied?
/r/MensRights10/02/18 06:05 PM
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I am equating the way people see them. More like you're just spewing the usual talking points. I regularly comment here. I am an MRA. And I'm the Easter Bunny. Pull the other leg, why don't you.
/r/MensRights10/02/18 03:47 AM
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So you equate women with black people and men celebrating their achievments as promoting "White Power". What talking point are you going to throw next? You going to call us neckbeard virgins? Wife beaters? You are such a cliche, I'm actually laughing.
/r/MensRights10/02/18 03:25 AM
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What's popular in your corner of the internet is not how the entire country thinks. Oh christ, do I have to give you an example? How about the "The Force Is Female" T-shirt that the director of The Last Jedi stated he proudly liked to wear? Jesus I mean if you haven't been paying attention, maybe the person who needs to get out more is YOU! Why are you listening to radical feminist? No one listens to radical feminist, not even feminist. 1) That was years ago 2) Because I was able to avoid bringi…
/r/MensRights10/02/18 12:03 AM
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You know every single rebuttal of yours is making you look more like a baby than the people you're ranting against, right?
/r/MensRights09/02/18 11:46 PM
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admins won't do shit about it. And I'd rather they didn't. Last thing this place needs is for Mods to be ban-happy like those running r/feminism.
/r/MensRights09/02/18 11:35 PM
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No sane person is claiming that men haven't done anything worthwhile. No they're just happily going along with the popular narrative that women and girls are going to fix what men broke. After all, "women are the missing peace" as my former radical feminist writing tutor once told me. Funny how you're claiming this is combative when, for the past few years, society has been free to take a collective dump all over men and masculinity while believing women can fart rainbows out of their butts. Tak…
/r/MensRights09/02/18 11:33 PM
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Hey, easy on the armchair psychology, good doctor.
/r/MensRights09/02/18 07:03 AM
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And who's going to be responsible for maintenance and upkeep of the island? Yeah, I give it a few days before everything collapses and they abandon the whole idea.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 03:00 AM
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That's all great but very rare. Feminism, as a whole, would frown hard on what you're doing because, in all their theories and academic writings, they've labeled men as responsible for the struggles of women. You going against that would paint a bullseye on your back where they'd gladly throw darts.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 11:13 PM
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As I mentioned above, if you call yourself an egalitarian, you are by default stating that you are a feminist, No, just no. Feminism isn't, and never will be, egalitarian. Look at the name. That should clue you in.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 11:09 PM
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No I didn’t. Egalitarianism is a school of thought that encompasses multiple sub groups, such as gender, race, economics, etc. whereas feminism is a political and social movement that is primarily aimed at gender equality. It is only concerned with equality for women. Everything else is either an accident or indirect benefit regarding allowing men similar levels of equality. Otherwise, they could care less about the concerns of men. If you are an egalitarian, then you would be a feminist by the …
/r/MensRights07/02/18 11:08 PM
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Even The Justice System is succumbing to quotas in the name of Progress.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 10:15 PM
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Somebody please get this idiot out of office soon. I'm at my wits end.
/r/MensRights06/02/18 09:40 AM
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So you never had a actual relationship with a woman. I’m sorry your afraid of us 😐 Oh how original. Going straight to the "You're afraid of women" instead of addressing their point.
/r/MensRights06/02/18 09:35 AM
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I take it then we can finally put the argument that "On Average, Men are stronger than women" to rest every time they resort to this to excuse female on male violence or rape?
/r/MensRights06/02/18 01:02 AM
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So after the assembly, the teachers running the whole program took the grade 10s and split them into the boys and girls. So they had the girls go to the auditorium, and the boys went to the gymnasium. This should've clued you in on the true motives behind this assembly. Here's where this starts to be an issue. They were teaching the male students about 'No means No' and how it's wrong to rape. They taught them how 'Just because a woman is wearing a scandalous outfit, that does not give you the r…
/r/MensRights06/02/18 12:58 AM
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I've got a better question: Why in god's name do they always expect men, and ONLY MEN, to fix their issues? Yeah, fighting sexist stereotypes my ass.
/r/MensRights05/02/18 09:43 PM
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It's because you're succumbing to the right wing ideology of stupidity and muscles. Hey, loosen that tin foil hat of yours. I'm not succumbing to anything. Just observing and expressing. It's like everything is some right-wing conspiracy with you.
/r/MensRights04/02/18 07:40 AM
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Conservatives are brainwashing men into believing higher education isn't important. Is it, though? Sure, a Liberal Arts Degree looks really fancy and decorative on your wall. But when you're out there scrambling for a living while paying off mounds of student debts by flipping burgers or resorting to menial labor to make ends meet then suddenly that piece of paper loses its luster fast. I think it's about time the value of Higher Education is debated. There are way too many courses with, realist…
/r/MensRights03/02/18 06:02 PM
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Lost his virginity Amazing how it's always labeled this way even when it involves an ELEVEN YEAR OLD!
/r/MensRights02/02/18 07:46 AM
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Casino Rape Culture
/r/MensRights02/02/18 05:10 AM
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It's come to this, hasn't it? Now everyone is looking back and accusing past fiction of maliciousness and hate. It won't be long before we're censoring and banning. I'm beginning to outright despise and loathe #Metoo.
/r/MensRights02/02/18 05:09 AM
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plays violin You poor widdle triggered victim, you.
/r/MensRights30/01/18 10:12 PM
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Because, surprise surprise, there's nothing wrong with physical attraction between two people regardless of what you feminists think, Jen.
/r/MensRights30/01/18 10:10 PM
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I mean I’m not really invested in this particular topic but don’t you see how your post could be construed as literally exactly like what Janelle Monae is talking about? Silencing women? How is Janelle Monae being silenced? She's on stage at one of the biggest music award shows in the world, talking into a microphone about how bad her gender has it while the attendees hang on to every word, her music career is successful, she's making money and living in the life of luxury. Excuse me if I find t…
/r/MensRights29/01/18 08:57 PM
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Not trying to antagonise anyone. But what does this have to do with Men's Rights? Sometimes it's not enough to simply tell people men have issues. Because you're always getting drowned by the narrative that women, even in a progressive, first world countries like the United States and Canada STILL have it worse compared to men. Until that narrative is destroyed, men's rights are NEVER going to reach mainstream. Seems like just a post to mock woman and not really help men AT ALL. Women like her d…
/r/MensRights29/01/18 08:51 PM
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I implore you, Canadians, next time there are elections that you please vote this virtue signalling clown out of office.
/r/MensRights27/01/18 10:22 PM
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If you're not funny, you don't make it. Period. Want more women in comedy? Please make sure they have mastered the art of telling a stand-up joke on stage.
/r/MensRights26/01/18 01:50 AM
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Sue them. It's blatant discrimination. These educators have to learn that when you push against someone for something they have no control over (their gender) then expect to get pushed back. Harder.
/r/MensRights26/01/18 12:19 AM
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And I'm sure you're enjoying the little warmth your ass provides that inflated hot-air balloon you call your head.
/r/MensRights25/01/18 11:23 PM
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Jesus - men's lib sub must be women just trolling men. There's no way guys are this delusional. You haven't met a devoutly feminist man. Trust me, they are just as pathetic, if not more so, than devoutly feminist women.
/r/MensRights25/01/18 11:19 PM
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Not news to me. R/Menslib is what you get with people who'd rather Men's Issues be dealt with through a feminist lens and damn anyone that criticizes said lens.
/r/MensRights25/01/18 11:06 PM
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False rape accusations are bad. People who lie about things like that should face the appropriate consequences. Congrats, you feel that exact same way as 99.9% of the population. Oh so edgy, being that 1% of the population who thinks they're this great rebel without a cause and come strolling into reddit threads with their head held high against the "Hive Mind". Troll want a cookie?
/r/MensRights25/01/18 11:02 PM
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Well, it's like when your parents complain about racism against white people. Sure, obviously there are SOME people in the world that don't like white people, but to compare it to the struggle of people of color is completely disingenuous. No it isn't. Racism is racism, even when you're dealing it to white people. Are there women who make false rape claims? Of course, but y'all talk about false claims like they happen more often then actual rapes. It's so pathetic Who. Gives. A. Fucking. Shit?!?…
/r/MensRights25/01/18 09:48 PM
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I just read this article and was immediately irritated by the way blame was laid without any justification. Apparently it was all great until the boys turned up and they forced all the girls to start behaving badly. The dancing took an overt sexual tone which was also something forced by the presence of boys. That's the age we live in now. Girls don't have any agency or free will. Whatever they engage in, it's always primarily the boys influencing them. The tragic part is, majority don't see the…
/r/MensRights24/01/18 09:05 PM
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Can't think of a better example when you give an inch to feminists, they fuck it up than this magazine. What a train wreck. Only those so far into their own asshole would take their 'Advice' seriously. That's what you get, Tom Matlack, for kissing up to them. Hope you learned your lesson.
/r/MensRights24/01/18 09:03 PM
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She taught her kids about sexual consent, hoping to avoid them causing someone a MeToo moment. Good. Now all she needs to do is make sure the same thing lesson is applied to her daughters or females she knows in life. Any minute now. crickets
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:47 PM
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If a dad said he wants to raise his daughter to not be a gold digging liar does that mean he thinks that his daughter is a potential gold digger? No, they'll just say he's being misogynistic and then dox him.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:44 PM
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Uh huh. You can make money while acknowledging, even a little, your fellow co-workers and taking precautions. There is balance.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 09:34 PM
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Typically missing in her lamentation: Encouraging her boys to respect themselves and hope they steer clear of false accusations of rape. Along with a warning to keep themselves safe from women looking to take advantage of their vulnerability and sexually assault them. Once again, it's all about women.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 03:49 PM
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The be fair, why is the world would you bother to compliment her hair? That's pretty stupid. Normal, human interaction is "stupid"?
/r/MensRights23/01/18 01:32 AM
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Catherine The Great, too. Don't forget her.
/r/MensRights22/01/18 04:39 AM
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On the other hand, if its required to keep the child safe, then it might be warranted. Problem is, do you see this applied to moms who gain visitation rights? How about if said mother is still a danger? Funny how safety alarm bells go off easily when it comes to fathers visiting. Double standards suck.
/r/MensRights22/01/18 04:38 AM
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Women are often taken less seriously when running for higher positions in both business and politics. That's not being oppressed. People have to WORK for their positions. Even when they've made it, there will always be a contingent that refuse to take you seriously. Fuck them. Keep working hard and making connections. In politics, you campaign and convince people about the policies you advocate. Men have to do this in high areas like the political arena. They also need to be made of sterner stuf…
/r/MensRights22/01/18 04:27 AM
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So because they didn't die means they didn't fight? Men had to die in the name of their country for the right to vote. Women were exempt from this sacrifice when granted this right.
/r/MensRights21/01/18 09:10 PM
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Party time! Excellent!
/r/MensRights21/01/18 09:08 PM
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Well I'm not laughing.
/r/MensRights20/01/18 09:59 PM
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That's what it's all about.
/r/MensRights20/01/18 09:56 PM
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Power they do not have, look at the world 20 years ago or even today and you can see that old white men are still predominantly in the higher positions of government and management. So I guess that means white men not in power are doing just fine and living the dream of privilege. Oh wait, sorry, they're either: -working dangerous jobs just to make ends meat -committing suicide -dropping out of university -losing custody of their kids even when they've proven they're still the fit parent -gettin…
/r/MensRights20/01/18 02:39 AM
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Yeah, and they support and condone the torcher of those innocent children by making light of the woman's actions. Man or woman, you devote your energies to physically harming an innocent, vulnerable child, you deserve to rot in hell.
/r/MensRights19/01/18 09:21 PM
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And what makes you think women have more expertise than men? I would be happier if they advertised it as "A different viewpoint" because I'm all for that. Rather than seeing too much value in that alternate viewpoint.
/r/MensRights19/01/18 09:16 PM
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Seems a bit hypocritical. A BIT?!? These guys are con artists masquerading as supposed egalitarians. "Oh yeah, we're all about equality. But not for men as they caused too much trouble for centuries. Let them rot!"
/r/MensRights19/01/18 05:30 PM
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If you are acting as a representative for a company, it's within the company's right to not accept certain behavior. It was a PRIVATE joke shared between two people. We can complain all day about how we perceive it as being an overreaction to a mild joke, Because it is a gross overreaction. The person that doxxed them went too far and ruined their careers. End of story. but it's not our company and the right price is whatever that company wants to place on the action. Maybe so, but we still have…
/r/MensRights19/01/18 07:50 AM
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How much you want to bet that Keira's definition of assault is so loosely defined as to include a light pat on her butt?
/r/MensRights19/01/18 02:50 AM
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I'm certainly not here to defend feminism, and as important as those topics you just mentioned are, they're not relevant. Yes, they are relevant. Showing that the movement has failed in those areas while hiding behind the "Equality" banner. If people have been using it to attack men, then I ain't seen it, and I'd be looking. I just gave you examples and you claim to haven't seen it? Do you research then come back to me.
/r/MensRights17/01/18 10:59 PM
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I don't know how to be any clearer. This term is not calling masculinity toxic. Great. Then let's work together and talk about positive aspects of masculinity to prove it. It's saying that being forced into traditionally masculine roles is toxic. As in society is making men feel worthless if they don't fit specific masculine standards, and that is toxic. People thinking men aren't parental is toxic. You think this is still a problem in today's climate of "Grrl Power"? As for the rest of what you…
/r/MensRights17/01/18 10:56 PM
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Who's saying that, them, or you? Duluth Model of Domestic Violence, Non-Support of Shared Parenting, Erasing Male Victims of Sexual Abuse (Mary P. Koss) says it. All done by feminists. And watch as you NAFALT me.
/r/MensRights17/01/18 09:42 PM
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As far as I'm aware, toxic masculinity describes toxic expectations thrust onto men by society. Has feminism ever done anything to acknowledge POSITIVE aspects of masculinity? Because all I ever hear out of their end is this constant obsession with the toxic aspects. You would think, since they claim to support men (coughbullshitcough), they'd start promoting masculinity as something positive but all that's talked about are the negative traits. Also, if feminism wants to promote awareness of the…
/r/MensRights17/01/18 09:39 PM
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Brilliant, Oprah. So Seal takes you to task for your hypocrisy and within days he's facing sexual battery allegations. Yeah, it's fairly obvious you, or people you know, are involved with this. Did the woman accusing Seal get a new car from you?
/r/MensRights17/01/18 08:13 AM
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What a society we live in... If you even question the narrative and don't get in line with the vitriolic feminist agenda, you'll be eaten alive. But not unexpected. Look at Cassie Jaye, a feminist filmmaker who presented a balanced view on MRAs. For this transgression, she was shamed from the movement. You can write a book about this sort of thing happening.
/r/MensRights15/01/18 07:36 PM
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People are specifically saying "He raped me." Yes, to not only proven rapists but unproven as well. I mean, jesus christ, Stan FUCKING Lee has been accused of sexual harassment. Stan Lee for christ sake. Which is good reason for an investigation. So long as its an investigation for evidence of wrong doing in support of this allegation. We should never, under normal circumstances, ignore a rape accusation. I am NOT saying we should ignore rape accusations. FFS why is this always the go to retort …
/r/MensRights13/01/18 10:27 PM
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There's a difference between these witch hunts and the communist witch hunts, though... some of these people are fucking rapists that need to go down. Yeah, and some were communists as well. Point is, based on both group's self-defined definitions, there were people ASSUMED to have communist thoughts, just as these men were ASSUMED to be rapists. Thus accused accordingly. Both groups spiraled out of control and abused their power. People can wield the weapon of public opinion carelessly so that …
/r/MensRights13/01/18 10:13 PM
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I firmly believe (and have practiced) that if I see a man, woman, or child being harmed, I have a moral responsibility to do something about it. If the perpetrator was armed with weapon then threatens to end your life, what then?
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:20 PM
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Good luck and I hope he wins. It's about time these corporations get called out for their discriminatory treatment and hiring practices. The Affirmative Action Quotas and pandering to women needs to stop NOW!
/r/MensRights08/01/18 09:03 PM
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Aaaaand the lecturing has begun.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 04:56 PM
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More like a "Cuck".
/r/MensRights07/01/18 07:48 PM
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A little selfish on my part, but one of the worst aspects of social media with celebs is things like this, seeing the smokescreen evaporate . No, it's not selfish. These celebs and artists are making it hard to promote the seperation when they're blatantly posting constantly on their Twitter and Facebook accounts. Social Media brought us together at first but is now keeping us apart in the long run. Remember when political tensions were at their zenith after Trump's election? Broke my heart to h…
/r/MensRights07/01/18 07:13 PM
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"Feminism" ranges from anti-sexism to sexism itself. Even in all individuals there is wrong and right, good and bad, if we're thinking in that terminology. That doesn't mean you have to close critical eyes entirely, no--it's a gift to be hear criticism of staunchly held beliefs whether masculinism or feminism. Too bad. Feminism has closed itself off to criticism. Anyone who does call them on their grevious errors is cast out. Cassie Jaye a prime example. The minute she decided to make a BALANCED…
/r/MensRights07/01/18 06:42 PM
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More like a "Prop".
/r/MensRights07/01/18 06:29 PM
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I have a 6-year-old boy and a 3-year-old girl, and I've started teaching them now. Even though my son can read, and my daughter cannot, she still gets to pick the book. "But mom, I'm the one that reads," he says. "It doesn't matter," I say. "What your sister wants matters." Hey, fuck you, Alyssa. This attitude of yours is the reason why a portion of the female population can get away with murder. I hope someone calls child protective services on you because of the mental abuse you're putting you…
/r/MensRights07/01/18 05:33 PM
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But feminism does not claim that. Have you been paying attention to feminism nowadays? Both of the statements in the OP are strawmen typically used to evade discussing the real issues involving objectification and attraction. What, "Men objectify women daily" ad-nauseum? That a strong female character shown in their underwear reduces them to an object and makes all their past deeds immaterial? Please.
/r/MensRights07/01/18 01:31 AM
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Sexual objectification is treating someone as a mere object of pleasure. Hypothetical: I see a strong, female protagonist on television and in movies. Now, they've done everything to prove their worth and have a great personality to boot. In one scene, they're shown in their underwear. Remember, I've accepted their personality, their character as depicted in the story. Am I still treating her like an object when I find her attractive in that aforementioned scene? Everything else rendered moot be…
/r/MensRights06/01/18 10:00 PM
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Feminist here, you’re allowed to find people attractive wtf? Nope. Not so long as the movement continues claiming it's objectifying to find women attractive and sexy.
/r/MensRights06/01/18 01:45 AM
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And the ultimate irony: These rich, well off women couldn't care less about the men below their standards and prefer men at their brougeous level. The very men they are constantly complaining about. Ask them if they'd want to marry an Average Working Joe. You'll find them turning their noses up at the idea.
/r/MensRights06/01/18 01:43 AM
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But privately, I suspect, many of us, including many longstanding feminists, will be rolling our eyes, having had it with the reflexive and unnuanced sense of outrage that has accompanied this cause from its inception, turning a bona fide moment of moral accountability into a series of ad hoc and sometimes unproven accusations. You were warned. But did you listen? No. Instead, you doubled-down and called anyone with second thoughts a "Misogynist", "Rape Supporter" or whatever social justice term…
/r/MensRights05/01/18 08:48 PM
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The reason I didn't insult you is because it wouldn't be worth it. As I've said, other posts have implied similar charges with no proof whatsoever. And by the way, I want REAL sexism as proof. Not a comment that can be misinterpreted as sexism based on feelings or opinion, which seems to be the norm by people looking to label someone as a woman hater. If you can do that, then the cycle is broken and we'll have REAL discussion going.
/r/MensRights05/01/18 05:25 AM
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You know, I see many posts similar to this asserting that there is sexism present yet never provide any links or citations to support their argument. They prefer to force us into trusting their word and interpretation alone. So, OP, break that cycle. Please, post proof of sexism here. Because I'm not going to make a decision based on someone's opinion alone.
/r/MensRights05/01/18 05:14 AM
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Still, I wouldn't want it censored or taken away because sensitive people have a problem with the way they're written.
/r/MensRights05/01/18 05:09 AM
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Thanks for the info. We need more reasonable voices such as yours.
/r/MensRights04/01/18 11:41 PM
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Delusional Hollywood stars like her are making it easier for me to cut myself off from their form of entertainment. Hey, Meryl Streep, you keep this up and the only ones willing to see your movies are the brown noses willing to sniff your own farts if it meant being in your good graces.
/r/MensRights04/01/18 09:43 PM
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Do other Icelanders see it as fake news? Just wondering.
/r/MensRights04/01/18 09:35 PM
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All right. I just did a re-check. Yes, it's apparent the quote isn't attributed to you. With that, I apologize. However, that doesn't discount the relationship between feminism and suicide. Especially in today's climate where it's rampant. Some men being blamed for the world's problems, they can brush it off. But the men who can't? It's hard for me to ignore. This is what I mean by addressing EVERY facet.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:50 PM
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....I didn't say men are babies? That's not quoting me?? I really didn't say that?? Again. You, tartankaboosemoose, in a response you posted 1 hour ago to BisquitBil's response he posted 4 hours ago: If this is true, men are fucking babies. Men are not babies. Men are men. Men kill themselves for real reasons. It's still there for all to see. YOUR words that YOU typed and YOU posted YOURSELF. Ergo, I am quoting directly from the source. No exaggeration or embellishment on my part. I do listen to…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:32 PM
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So you want men to open up yet when this one tells you the source of his issues, suggests a solution, you believe it turns men into "Infants". You realize how hypocritical you're beginning to sound?
/r/MensRights03/01/18 08:51 PM
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I'm not trying to find a one fits all, but some things to work on. I understand not all men can or want to open up, and I know that's some people don't find it useful, but it's good to know what is useful and what does work. But I can't solve this on my own, I don't even know where I can start other than asking men, and people who support men. Then why are you vehmently denying that other aspect of men's issues? Earlier above, when someone suggested people stop blaming all men (particularly whit…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 08:43 PM
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f this is true, men are fucking babies. Men are not babies. Men are men. Men kill themselves for real reasons. Okay, with this answer its fairly obvious you're not here looking to help men at all.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 08:34 PM
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OP, based on your responses towards one aspect of the problem, I'm inclined to believe you're only here to push a single, one-size-fits-all solution. The fact that you're not taking into consideration that men repress their emotions because they're living in a world where their issues and problems have to play second, and even THIRD, fiddle to women's issues, shows me how limited your solutions will be. Many others have offered varients on your "Just open up and cry. Things will get better, trus…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 05:59 PM
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Have you been a human male child recently? Yes, I have. Once upon a time. Haven't seen it, sorry. It doesn't even have to come straight from the parents, it's sufficiently ingrained in our culture that kids still enforce this in most places Show me proof. Young men absolutely do try not to express certain emotions because they've been taught that doing so is feminine, It's not nearly as prevalent as it was in the past, though. Where exactly are young men being taught this? and that it's bad for …
/r/MensRights03/01/18 05:31 PM
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What about, and I know this sounds crazy but, what if we raised men without telling them that their entire gender wasn't allowed to cry? You're right, it's crazy. Because I don't believe that toxic mentorship exists in the way it used to. Men in this generation don't repress their emotions because someone's holding a gun to their head and saying "No". Rather, they're raised to think their problems don't matter compared to women's issues. How many men are actually committing suicide because of "t…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 05:09 PM
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It was tossed in the trash can by these regressive, authoritarian leftists.
/r/MensRights01/01/18 04:54 PM
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Joss better be careful or else he'll become another #Metoo story of woe by any of these women.
/r/MensRights01/01/18 04:30 PM
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And we never will be, since men and women are objectively, biologically different. Just because we're biologically different doesn't make it an excuse to tell people to "Man up" like what you've been doing in this entire thread. Last I heard, men are human beings. You're not treating us as such.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 05:21 PM
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If she had said "kill all black people," it'd be different - that'd be disgusting. But "men" are half the population of our species. We're way too big to be a protected class. I see. So you have a problem with one thing because they are miniorities. But as far as men are concerned, jokes about killing us is a-okay. I suppose you don't mind male victims being raped/abused by women or charged falsely with rape. How about fathers who lost custody of their children no matter how hard they fought for…
/r/MensRights31/12/17 05:14 PM
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This is the WORST defense of blatant hate, and support of violence, against a group I have ever heard even from you. Seriously, what the hell sort of context is there that excuses this?
/r/MensRights31/12/17 05:06 PM
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Thing is though, Young, Pagila, and Sommers still profess and adhere to the feminism label. Didn't Christina still say she was fighting to save the feminist movement from the extremists and equity feminists?
/r/MensRights30/12/17 08:40 PM
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Then the next day: "My son committed suicide because of toxic masculinity."
/r/MensRights30/12/17 08:33 PM
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Yeah, you just TRY it Emily. Not all men are like those who kiss the ground you walk on. They'll make short work of you when pushed hard and backed into a corner, especially those with guns.
/r/MensRights30/12/17 08:31 PM
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Women can rape boys as young as thirteen and get off scott free while society still classifies it as a "Relationship" or the boy was "Seduced". Worst case scenario is the woman ends up pregnant while the boy is left with a hefty child support bill. Yeah, that's rape culture.
/r/MensRights30/12/17 06:03 PM
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Oh, I see. So I'm responsible for the behavior of all the assholes in this thread. Need I remind you, for the billionth time, that your arrogance caused this in the first place? Look, I know you were trying to intend that to be some damning denunciation, but I can't help but feel a sense of pride. Ego. The word is ego. And its way high off the charts. Think about it; I have single handedly, and without any superpowers ( that I know of ), caused a number of people to act like complete retards. No…
/r/MensRights30/12/17 05:56 PM
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I'm sorry you misunderstood the intent. The language I used here I often use elsewhere, and people understand it just fine. Yeah, god help them. I wasn't suggesting he takes out his anger on his daughters, I was cautioning him that it was a possibility Why do you believe it's a possibility? ( although now I'm convinced it's a certainty ). Yeah, you don't know shit about him, buddy. I've seen it before; well intending parents absolutely blind with rage with one another inadvertently turning that …
/r/MensRights30/12/17 12:44 AM
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There's no "implication" whatsoever in your first post. You talked down to a father of two daughters, both he has raised since they were babies BY HIMSELF, who was looking for some moral support after his ex snatched them up and reduced his involvement in their lives through the courts. His subsequent behavior, however, pretty much validated everyone's preconceived notions about what they thought I meant. Because you goaded him and kept pushing instead of leaving well enough alone. Of course, ha…
/r/MensRights29/12/17 11:30 PM
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It's not the anger that's the problem, it's the expression of it. He is barely able to control his rage at some random asshole on the internet ( me, who tried to help him mind you ), that's how angry he is. Ahem First off, relax; do not let your anger at the situation poison your relationship with your daughters(?). Assuming he's incapable of controlling his anger in the presence of his daughters. Learn how to be a father He's been a single father to them since in their infancy and here you are …
/r/MensRights29/12/17 09:54 PM
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OP, when did this transfer of custody take place? Was it fairly recent? You have my sympathies. I can't imagine what its like when you've raised someone since they were an infant, develop a bond, only for an outside force to interfere with everything.
/r/MensRights29/12/17 05:56 PM
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You've got to be a troll. Because no one supposedly understanding would be employing such passive-aggressive snark and intentionally riling up a person at a very sensitive and trying time in their life. You're adding nothing to the discussion. So if you can't think of anything to say without resorting to kicking someone when they're down then shut up.
/r/MensRights29/12/17 05:32 PM
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If ratings were high enough to plummet in the first place. Majority hardly watch these kinds of awards.
/r/MensRights29/12/17 05:26 PM
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NOW, one of the most mainstream feminist groups in North America, fought against the option for shared parenting, where default custody would be divided equally among the father and mother unless sufficient evidence proved otherwise. I suppose THEY are using a different definition as well?
/r/MensRights27/12/17 05:11 PM
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Does a stranger have the right to touch another stranger's child? I'm not trying to infer bad touch, molesting or anything like that. I'm talking about what the op said with picking up a kid who fell. If the child has injuries with no one insight except witnesses, what's the alternative? Letting them bleed to death? I specifically mentioned my children as an example of information that a stranger could not possibly possess or pick up from a momentary interaction. A stranger would not be able to …
/r/MensRights27/12/17 02:09 AM
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I wasn't asking for sympathy. But I appreciate the response. And it's been made abundantly clear that I need some fucking help. I do realize that. Then what are you doing here? This place is a discussion forum on the internet, not a mental health office. We're not qualified therapists or doctors. The only thing you'll get if you keep this pattern up is that someone worse than me (a troll) is going to take advantage of your weakness (your rage), use it against you, set you off and the next thing …
/r/MensRights26/12/17 11:50 PM
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I apologize but this fucking argument gets brought up every fucking time and all I can say is I fucking dare you to touch my kids like you are entitled to do so. I fucking dare you. Jesus Christ. You realize that this passive-aggressive attitude has given him fodder for his point, right? If this is what he will expect if, say, your son or daughter is lost, in trouble, and you're not around, then fine. He will honor your screed and never come within 30 yards of their person. Meanwhile, your child…
/r/MensRights26/12/17 10:31 PM
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I honestly reckon I could make a better Star Wars movie for free than Hollywood with a few dedicated fanbois with stormtrooper outfits and I'm not even joking. I'll bet a dedicated fanboy can do a new Star Wars Radio Play and it would be one hundred percent more captivating and engrossing than what Corporate Mouse Ears is offering.
/r/MensRights26/12/17 06:25 PM
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The fact is you showed yourself to be more of the immature and egotistical one in the entire debate. And you lost. Fail.
/r/MensRights26/12/17 06:16 PM
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You can't coerce a penis to get hard bro. Oh, she wasn't raped. Her vagina was wet so the act was obviously enjoyable and full of pleasure. See how ridiculous your rebuttal sounds now?
/r/MensRights26/12/17 06:13 PM
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Oh, I'M the egoist? Ha. Look in the mirror because if you're going to throw every decent man under the bus then I'd say the one who needs to grow up is YOU!
/r/MensRights26/12/17 02:58 AM
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... You know, I'm so glad there's push-back against your form of justice. The good men, men willing to help, don't appreciate being told they deserve anything for the crimes committed by other men.
/r/MensRights25/12/17 09:24 PM
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he press needs to hear it too, and anyone who would tell a victim to shut up, or to tell it to the police instead, deserve to be raped People asking the victim to report their rapist to the police deserve to be raped as well? You don't see how incredibly counter-productive this is, do you?
/r/MensRights25/12/17 09:18 PM
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What I appreciate about Marilyn Manson is that he's a very intelligent and aware guy. Keeps up to date on current issues. His interview on Michael Moore's documentary "Bowling For Columbine" is an example of that.
/r/MensRights25/12/17 04:44 PM
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Being constantly told that your problems/issues aren't on the same level of what women are struggling with.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 07:23 AM
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Believe me, I'm getting better at keeping myself in control. But this here: Further below I will spell out how we can address our own issues and really make a difference but for now, today, tomorrow, this week, the story is about women being abused, assaulted and harassed by men. Deal with it. Yeah and when can we expect male victims to be part of the conversation? Until YOU say so, Ally? When's the right time frame? Because for DECADES, men have been doing exactly what you suggested only to fac…
/r/MensRights23/12/17 10:19 PM
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This is all you need to know about Ally's brand of Supporting Male Issues. https://freethoughtblogs.com/hetpat/2017/10/17/metoo-or-mentoo-how-men-can-talk-about-abuse/ Screw him and the horse he rode in on.
/r/MensRights23/12/17 05:40 PM
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I think it hints at what I'm getting at: that we have created a culture which infantilizes women, and in which their emotional development and maturity is thwarted by that culture. So ironic because girls are supposed to mature faster than boys.
/r/MensRights20/12/17 05:53 PM
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Homer: Well somebody had to take the babysitter home. Then I noticed she was sitting on--her--sweet caan. So I grabbed--her--sweet caan---Accch, just thinking about that---caan---so---sweet--swe-swe-swe-sweet caan. Host: So Mister Simpson, you admit you grabbed her CAN. What do you have to say in your defense? paused footage of Homer mid-glazy eyes Host: Mister Simpson, I must warn you that your silence will only increminate you further. paused footage of Homer mid-glazy eyes Host: No! No, Miste…
/r/MensRights19/12/17 10:24 PM
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It's more like they're asking all the good men to apologize for themselves and work harder at calling the bad men out. Men are still useful tools to be disposed of or junked when they break to these people.
/r/MensRights19/12/17 10:08 PM
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What do you mean by "Women" though? All I see are critiques of feminism and feminists. Doesn't equate with women in general since not al women are feminists.
/r/MensRights18/12/17 09:08 PM
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No because, either way, he'd be smacked down by these women. Nothing men can say, in general, is safe or appropriate. It'd be all dismissed as "Mansplaining".
/r/MensRights18/12/17 04:47 PM
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The other elephant in the room people refuse to acknowledge is that boys really don't like being told, implicitly, that they're trouble. Both male and female authors in contemporary times tend to reduce the complexity and personality of male characters while heightening the competence and attitude of the female protagonist while sneaking in an ignorant comment on men and boys in general. YA Fiction is plagued with this.
/r/MensRights18/12/17 04:44 PM
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I agree that it's largely what boys are being forced to read that makes them so disinterested in it. I was (and still am) an avid reader when I was a boy, but almost all of my reading was sci-first novels written by men, for men and boys, and scientific non fiction. Sadly, even stories written by men nowadays are riding the "Strong, Female Protagonist" gravy train and making male characters LOWER than her. Even some classic authors followed this trope.
/r/MensRights18/12/17 04:42 PM
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An English Teacher is supposed to be neutral in their opinions of other writers and stick to the fundamentals of writing and literature. Obviously yours was an incompetent buffoon, which is sadly the case most of the time with those teaching in high school.
/r/MensRights18/12/17 04:40 PM
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Okay, you first Anthony.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 10:30 PM
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A practically broke enterprise once again getting on their high-horse and lecturing people on their failings in the guise of humor. Those who remain at Cracked.com better enjoy it while it lasts. Soon they'll be using their brand of humor begging for money in the streets.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 04:02 PM
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Put some stock in women run goverments and watch all of these problems shift and change. You realize the sexism inherent in your opinion that women will solve every problem better than men?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:43 PM
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This is why you need feminism and men's shelters. Anytime someone suggests men need their own space for ANYTHING (not just shelters from abusive women), who is the first to step up and shout it down, declare it sexist and exclusionary? I'll give you a hint: It's not macho men exerting toxic masculinity. You guys can't pretend like this post isn't a symptom of absolutely toxic masculinity, one thing feminism is working diligently to erase. Which you screwed up, majorly. (Duluth Model of Domestic …
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:40 PM
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Even though it's one company, this move can set a dangerous precedence for others to follow. And no one cares. When even Time Magazine elevates #metoo to cultural status, puts only women who have spoken out on the cover, it's expected. As I said in another thread: Put the tools of justice in the hands of the mob, expect them to fuck it up royally.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:29 PM
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Don't be fooled by the "Representation of the People Act". This is reality television. They're only going for all female residents to be oogled during hot tub sessions in the guise of "Female Empowerment". In fact, never EVER trust reality television in general. It's the lowest form of manipulative drivel disguised as realism.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 04:53 AM
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This is more in relation to "The Force Awakens".
/r/MensRights13/12/17 09:57 AM
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Yet men get away with sexual assault and still end up the President of the United States. Poor, oppressed men Yeah, poor male victims who aren't listened to and lack equal services and shelters to go to. Poor men falsely accused of rape. Their lives ruined, careers destroyed based on heresay alone. Poor men fighting for custody of their kids because courts still believe mother is the better parent. Get some fucking empathy and quit looking at the upper-echelons, jackass!
/r/MensRights13/12/17 07:07 AM
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Rey was the Epitome of the Mary Sue: A female protagonist who excels at everything, never struggles, lacks character flaws and does everything a male character can do. Only better. Apparently, Anita must've missed this little fact.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 03:35 AM
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They also supported the "White Feather Movement", shaming men who weren't signing up for the service to fight for their country during a time of war.
/r/MensRights12/12/17 09:55 PM
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It's also entirely plausible that this #metoo thing will pass with no major long-term culture changes in workplace atmosphere. Time Magazine named the women who spoke out against Harvey Weinstein and which inspired the #Metoo hashtag as person of the year. So no, it's never going away.
/r/MensRights12/12/17 09:46 PM
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It's true. You're not a real feminist. In the eyes of the people who run the movement now. Feminism is, and always will be, centered on women's issues. Sure, they'll tack on "Women's issues are men's issues, too.", "Equal rights women means equal rights for men", but that's just misleading. Warren Farrell, Christina Hoff Sommers, and Cassy Jaye all tried their hand at highlighting Men's Issues for the feminist movement. Look what happened to them as a result.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 09:19 PM
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Anyone who pulls the "She's young and her concepts of right and wrong haven't matured" should note that eighteen years of age is enough to have fully formed awareness. Therefore, this rapist and torturer should fry in jail with the rest of the depraved adult criminals.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 09:14 PM
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Five men. All accused without due process. And they only took action after the fifth. Tell me, critics, how are false accusations rare and not a problem?
/r/MensRights11/12/17 09:09 PM
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As far as your first paragraphs of questions go, I think Columbine taught America enough about that, but things like that still happen sadly. Then the answer is more open and honest discussion about bullying instead of "Zero Tolerance" rules. Confronting it head on! As for your second, you're just shaming masculinity, therefore making you look sexist. So because I have a problem with this "One Size Fits All" answer of yours that means I'm shaming masculinity. Fine, if that's your opinion, Mister…
/r/MensRights11/12/17 08:55 PM
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Hey, I'm only stating a fact. Not pushing anything on you. Whatever you wish to feel is fine with me.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 08:52 PM
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The answer to all bullying is ruthless violence. Stand up to your enemy, ignore the moralizing teachers, and make the bully bleed at any cost, lest you become a victim/casualty of your own pussification. Oh shut the fuck up about "Pussification". I've really got to ask you and any of these gung-ho warriors: you think it's really so simple? What if the bully is built bigger and more powerful than this boy? He also said that a GROUP of them are involved in the torment at once. That's one against t…
/r/MensRights11/12/17 04:48 PM
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Reality is, emotional men are not attractive to women. Sure, in the beginning, they'll be over-the-moon. But as years go by, and they're spending the rest of their lives waking up with this "Master of emotions" by their side, the novelty will wear off quickly. There will always be that innate desire for the masculine traits these ideologues decry.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 04:32 PM
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The most charitable view of this tendency of some women is that they don't really take themselves or the impact they have on the world seriously. While complaining that nobody takes them seriously.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 04:28 PM
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How, though? No medical insurance, debt up to his eyeballs, and sickness that may or may not recur. This a lose-lose scenario.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 03:56 AM
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Not your tent, huh? So you're going to avoid taking responsibility? The women who fight for xyz and are on the side of right also fight for abc which is the side of wrong. I'd prefer women who fight for the side of right rather than wrong. Doing both means they're hypocrites. Do you throw the bath water out with the baby? Considering the damage feminism has, and continues to, wrought I'd be glad to.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 08:57 AM
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Whether they are cited, quoted, held in high regard ....it doesn't matter. Oh yes it does. If these "non-feminists" are regularly revered then that does tons of damage to the movements reputation.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 08:55 AM
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Now it's like there are no restrictions on what women can do (they're accepted for being stay-at-home moms; they're accepted for being working women), but men are still held to the same restrictive roles as always (a stay-at-home dad is a lazy leech; a man not interest in marriage is a "man-child") Women are also allowed to get away with things that would land men either in jail or the hands of a lynch mob.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 10:54 PM
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To attack someone that says 'it's not ok to grope men without their consent for whatever reason' is exactly counterproductive to your little rant. We're attacking your argument that feminists doing wrong aren't feminist. That is NOT the case though as they are still being referenced by current generations, their work taught in colleges/universities, and still held in high regard instead of kicked to the curb.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 10:50 PM
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I think what people have to understand is that there is a clear definition of what feminist means - if you grope someone without their consent and then claim that it's ok for whatever reason, you are not a femenist you are just an asshole who sexually assaults people. How come those assholes are still being harbored in your tent, though, if they aren't feminists?
/r/MensRights09/12/17 10:48 PM
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Holy patronizing batman. Yeah I guess MLK needed counselling too. Here's the difference between you and him. MLK was able to control his rage, seperate the personal from the political. You, however, have deigned to allow your rage to color (no pun intended) your opinion so much leading to statements like: You don't have to be racist, sexist, or wealthy to have white privileged as a white person in the U.S. Which is so ignorant, exclusionary and disrespectful to those whites who have had to strug…
/r/MensRights08/12/17 04:50 PM
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Good.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 11:27 PM
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It may not be her job, but having one with opposing views can be a good thing. Not when you're supposed to be focused on healing yourself. Too often today especially with political views people love to surround themselves with like minded people that reinforce their own views. As such they create their own echo chamber. Being around others with different views than your own does more good than harm really. We're talking about psychological health here and someone paid to support the well-being o…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 03:49 AM
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It can even happen that pretty young men may be preyed upon by more powerful women – as I was happy to experience when a stunningly attractive female member of staff at a school I attended took a shine to me. For that abuse of power and office, she would certainly have been sacked and drummed out of the teaching profession; but for the whole of my life ever since, I have remembered the outrage with undying affection and my only regret today is that there wasn’t a lot more of it. Yeah, sorry but …
/r/MensRights06/12/17 09:26 PM
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Only because their harassers and rapists were men. I'm waiting until a man is free to post his story of harassment and abuse from a female under the #metoo tag. Then I'll judge whether its inclusive or not.
/r/MensRights06/12/17 08:53 PM
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You'd think no one teaches women to never hit a man... No one does. To even suggest an equivalent program for them would get you ostracized immediately and your career ruined.
/r/MensRights06/12/17 08:41 PM
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There's also the special interest groups (majority feminist) that rely on the narrative that domestic violence is something only women can suffer from and men perpetrate. Didn't help The Duluth Model made attaining support even harder. Covered in bruises and cuts from your wife/spouse, when the people who you rely on for help suspect YOU of wrongdoing because they reference a method that relies on domestic violence as a "Patriarchal tool men enforce on women" to judge your situation, it makes yo…
/r/MensRights06/12/17 08:39 PM
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Same here. The 2010 v. 2017 comparison in the article says it all. Imagine that: losing all your ad revenue because your articles shift from good entertainment for the masses to SJW-specific fluff bits... The unbeliveable thing about this is: There's still a segment of long-standing pop culture institutions whom still believe that pandering to extremist ideologues is big business. Even as magazines like Cracked experience financial woes and are forced to kick staff to the curb. If, like The Guar…
/r/MensRights06/12/17 03:58 PM
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But don't Indian men get away with abusing women with no consequences? Yes, they do too. Your point? And to a higher degree? All right, back the train up from where its headed. I know its tempting to play Oppression Olympics but just because statistics show females are victims by a margin doesn't make it okay to ignore male victims. The sins of male perpetrators on females are not their problem nor do these male victims appreciate being given the cold shoulder like feminists groups in India did …
/r/MensRights06/12/17 12:08 AM
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Listen you pompous asshole, you went for the personal. I offer my critique on METHODS and you make the jump to thinking I deplore women who refuse to consider themselves property. Yet you have the fucking cognitive dissonance to lecture ME on debate. Get blocked.
/r/MensRights05/12/17 05:13 PM
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No, I'm sure the one screaming bloody murder was the person assuming I deplored the idea of women refusing to be considered property. When I implied NOTHING in my response and YOU KNOW IT!
/r/MensRights05/12/17 04:53 PM
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I see what you're trying to do now. Go straight for the personal and accuse me of something I'm not. Buddy, I'm not playing your game. I've known and worked with women in my life and I'm a great, positive role model to my little girl relatives. I could care less of what some idiot on the internet thinks of me or misconstrues in my comments because, in the end, I'm a better man than you'll ever be (if it is a man I'm talking too right now). Good day.
/r/MensRights05/12/17 09:13 AM
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Where in my comment did I ever express disdain for women taking a step out of being purely objects? By the way, criticizing the approach feminism took is not wanting women to remain objects. Please make that distinction because you're just proving how feminism is no different from Evangelical Religion. Yeah, the law was best of for the time. Sure, generations of innocent men harmed. But who cares? Right? Shows how cold your heart is.
/r/MensRights05/12/17 06:37 AM
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If it meant progress from being seen as objects that dudes owned, then yeah. So in other words, ends justified the means. Who cares if innocent men are hurt along the way and the harm of the first wave has lead to the harmful laws and mistreatment of innocent men now. I'll remember this the next time feminism claims to care about men or is for equality.
/r/MensRights05/12/17 05:35 AM
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And that justifies the horrendous mistakes your "exalted" first wave made in the name of rights for women?
/r/MensRights05/12/17 02:32 AM
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From u/DarthCerebroX 1st wave feminists: 1) Won the right for married women to own their own property and income, and hold it separate from their husband's control. Maintained the legal entitlement of married women to be supported financially by their husband. (Otherwise known as, "what's mine is mine and what's yours is ours.) Her entitlement to his support even extended to the tax burden on her property and income--property and income he was legally prohibited from touching. So basically, inst…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 11:17 PM
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"It was SATIRE!"
/r/MensRights04/12/17 11:13 PM
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My comment was saying that patriarchy isn't intrinsically better for men. We no longer live in a patriarchy since the role of the father has been diminished.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:57 PM
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This is just smart TV. Twice the women means twice the bullshit drama. And twice the hot bodies in bikinis. Yeah, I see through this whole "Salute to a centenary of women's suffrage". They're only looking to put up more hot women to increase those lower than low ratings.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 05:28 PM
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First his wife and now he's getting in on sustaining his dwindling relevancy. You're no longer president, Obama. Get over it!
/r/MensRights04/12/17 05:21 PM
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And mothers aren't perfect either. Cruelty knows no bounds, gender-wise.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 05:16 PM
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Yeah we have such a huge problem with feminists, just look at the president And you don't think women are part of his constituency? er i mean ceos of 90% if fortune 500 companies As if you have no agency and no drive to become one. Why don't you put on your big girl panties and prepare to make the neccessary sacrifices? Think you're up to enduring longer hours at work, lesser days at home, countless late night overtime, your ears glued to your phone, eyes to your laptop, taking care of business …
/r/MensRights04/12/17 01:24 AM
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"It probably would be a better world if women were in charge." Me: Bitch, if you were ever in charge and treated me, a male, horribly, I would take you down. Just like every tyrant who abuses their power. You have no fucking right to visit harms upon me because of how you feel women are treated as if I deserved it. As a survivor of abuse, get fucked up your cold, heartless ass.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 01:05 AM
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Their secret weapon is also changing the definition of Sexism so that it's not possible for the oppressed (women) to be equally sexist in return to the oppressor (men) because misogyny against women permeates institutions that are majority run by powerful men. Same thing occurred with racism.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 12:52 AM
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No, nothing offensive in what you say. Children NEED a father. If not, a FATHER FIGURE. A decent, positive role model to learn from alongside mom.
/r/MensRights02/12/17 10:20 PM
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And you crossed the line because you'd rather just take a sarcastic jab at Burchill than to leave a compassionate comment about her son, the victim. Or Option 3: Spread compassion about the unfortunate while berating and jabbing the person who supposedly "Cared".
/r/MensRights02/12/17 09:48 PM
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I was a MRA before it was cool. It still isn't. Sure, men's issues are slowly penetrating the mainstream. But, as per Cassey Jaye's treatment, coming out as an MRA or even in support of them is still taboo.
/r/MensRights02/12/17 09:46 PM
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It's one thing if they're busy people and barely go onto the internet, but what's amazed me is the balls some of them have had to come on here to try and claim "Oh but i'm a feminist and I never see anyone I know doing that!" Believe me, I've been on here long enough to know how Coffee Shop Feminists tend to swarm in and holler "Not MY Feminism" en-masse. Not that I have anything against them. They're just naive and, ironically, not up to date on what serious damage their movement has, and conti…
/r/MensRights02/12/17 09:39 PM
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"DRIVER! THIS MAN'S HARASSING ME!"
/r/MensRights02/12/17 09:33 PM
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what we see today, and what happened with those two men is, again , not feminism. you can say you support men and women’s rights, but if one side of it is mistreated or unheard, or you’re not really a misandrist, but don’t care either, IT IS NOT feminism. Sorry but Feminism has become the very thing it despised. Otherwise Cassey Jaye would'nt have needed to rely on the Men's Rights Movement alone to help spread the word of her documentary. Nor would she have received a drubbing from Australian m…
/r/MensRights01/12/17 07:54 PM
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Neither are feminists who believe in supporting men as well. Just ask Warren Farrell and Cassey Jaye, to name the most egalitarian, on how they were treated by the movement once they brought up the subject of Men's Issues.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 08:33 AM
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What's even MORE ironic is that feminists hate this story for exactly these reasons (and LewdRudeJude's below). And both LewdRudeJude and feminists want it banned/thrown in the trash. Advocating the removal of a fictional work for those reasons is a slippery slope. When MRAs are right about some bizarre gender relation in popular culture, 9 times out of 10 the feminists they despise have beaten them to it. Funny I don't see them calling out contemporary works that allow women to get away with vi…
/r/MensRights01/12/17 03:07 AM
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Precisely. I've also made this argument before: Theatre Productions, Ballet and Amateur School Plays have been performing this story for decades, including this scene. So far, I haven't seen any boys or men playing The Prince turn into rapists overnight or girls and women playing Sleeping Beauty lose all their agency and become helpless damsels.
/r/MensRights30/11/17 06:19 PM
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It's also worth noting that even in the family friendly tale, it is still a princess having no agency and being forced to wait for "prince charming's" kiss or she'll just lay there till shes dead. No agency? No shit. She was cursed by the prick of her finger on a Spinning Wheel Spindle. Conclusion: it's a dumb story and regardless how you slice it the message is shit. It's a fairy tale. Fiction. Should go in the same trash pile with those old racist cartoons and anything else that undermines the…
/r/MensRights30/11/17 05:31 PM
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Art imitates life. http://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/item/348b95fd-81d6-46d4-827e-73c727b8ceb6
/r/MensRights30/11/17 05:27 PM
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Well, this is the government my country gets when the bar for running things is set to "Good Looks", "Progressism", and "Taught Dramatic Arts".
/r/MensRights29/11/17 06:38 AM
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By urinating on a wall in public. Seriously, there have been men put on the list for actions like that.
/r/MensRights29/11/17 06:32 AM
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Also, I'd add: To those women out there looking for a relationship, it would be a good idea to be honest and upfront about that desire. Don't go all "Independent Woman" and declare you're more interested in a career than a relationship, then decades later complain about the lack of men willing to take you on as a partner. Not saying you don't have the choice to wait first and THEN put yourself out in the dating pool. That's fine. Just bloody well make it clear to the man who is pursuing you.
/r/MensRights28/11/17 11:56 PM
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I think I'll conclude this exchange with a comment from Karen Straughn that displays where I'm coming from on the matter. Read it and then try and save feminism's face for the umpteenth time. I dare you. So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum are the true feminist, and the feminists actually responsible for changing the laws, writing the academic theory, teaching the courses, influencing the public policies, and the massive, well-funded feminist orga…
/r/MensRights27/11/17 09:42 AM
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I've really got no idea what the first half of your comment means and being me, I'm too lazy to actually try. So you're not going to expend an ounce of effort. Typical. But as to the last point, just because some feminist are exploiting their power and making all males look bad to children doesn't mean that every person who claims to be a feminist is the same. It isn't just making all males look bad, it's fucking ERASING their problems from existence alongside the rest of society. Look at the pl…
/r/MensRights27/11/17 08:03 AM
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Plenty of women abuse people, and get away with it "Because Patriarchy blah blah blah!" Seriously, though, I've heard that trotted out so much the word has lost all meaning.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:27 AM
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Honestly, I was stunned to read something this bad on the NYT. You ain't seen nothing yet. https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/11/opinion/sunday/interracial-friendship-donald-trump.html If you and your wife decide to take the plunge, better hold on to your lunches.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:18 AM
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"I hate my father and pretty much all men as much as I hate white people." Daddy Issues. I'm not surprised.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:08 AM
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Bill Hicks on CNN Headlines: "Where is all this shit happening, man? Ted Turner is making this shit up. Jane Fonda won't sleep with him. So he runs to a typewriter and goes: ''By 1997, We Will All Die of Aids.'' 'Read that on the air! I don't get laid, NOBODY gets laid!'"
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:06 AM
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But that's just purposefully making any feminist's argument invalid, you could try and separate them but you choose to not to for (what I can see), no reason. You ever read the kind of Feminist Theory they adhere to? Heard of the feminist writers and speakers whose limelight they cast on? If they're concerned about making a separation, they would've lead by example. "But feminism isn't a monolith", you go. So why are you complaining about people refusing to make the separation? There are men's r…
/r/MensRights27/11/17 05:02 AM
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We're calling out racism. What are YOU doing?
/r/MensRights27/11/17 04:48 AM
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but that makes no sense- excluding boyd does nothing to help girls, and a 7-11 year old boy doesn't somehow "inherent" knowledge in coding from previous decades of male overrepresentation. You ever heard of Original Sin? These people are preaching an equivalent. Every boy inherits "Knowledge" (or sin) from their fathers and their fathers before them that is oppressive of girls, their mothers and their mothers before them. It's codified into the feminist literature they read and the theories they…
/r/MensRights26/11/17 09:36 PM
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Since when did any form of sexism and racism become acceptable? Since both words were re-defined in such a way that one portion (against whites) is par for the course while the other portion (against minorities) is taboo. It's the old "Racism/Sexism = Power + Prejudice".
/r/MensRights26/11/17 06:30 PM
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Is this going to be a new trend now? Blaming everything on the Russians? Guess the cold war never ended.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 06:05 PM
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This needs to be asked: How many of these "not feminists" is it going to take before you finally admit that "Yes, feminism has a problem with its movement that needs immediate attention and rectification"? There have been a slew of these "Imitations", IN POSITIONS OF AUTHORITY, making all kinds of bigoted, misandric remarks about men as a whole. To be perfectly frank, your continuous pleading is embarrassing and pathetic.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 05:30 PM
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Well, when you're steeped in literature and theories positing men as oppressors and women as helpless victims, it's pretty hard to not deny the, if not outright hatred but, rageful resentment and bitterness that drives whoever composed them. And ideologues of that school of thought taking them to their logical conclusion.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 09:06 AM
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When no other mainstream thread or rag publication is willing to flag this person's racist viewpoint or even, at the very least, target it for a hard, frank and honest discussion on the kind of bigotry that's granted immunity from hate speech laws, I could care less about the source.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 06:57 AM
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There's literally no balance anymore is there. The myth is that balance was a real, tangible thing. In actuality, there never has been anything resembling balance. Human nature is all about grasping the pendulum and giving it a hard shove with enough force so it can only rest on a side. Nothing more.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 06:27 AM
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Her white mother should've aborted HER.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 06:20 AM
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I'll bet the reaction they'll have, their go-to excuse, when people call them out is "Hey, we are aware that Men can suffer from sexual abuse. But we're highlighting women today. Just because we're calling for awareness doesn't mean we're excluding men". Of which I'd say "All right, then I'll be waiting for when you run an equivalent ad for men and boys. Synchronizing watch...NOW!"
/r/MensRights25/11/17 11:19 PM
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This is only the calm before the storm, though. If she is hellbent on destroying you over a dispute with an electric bill which she refuses to take responsibility on, I'd get yourself a lawyer in case she decides to bring accusations of you hitting her to the police. Because you have no video evidence of the altercation, it's not going to be easy defending your character as she decimates it.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 10:03 PM
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What is it that discourages black women in particular? Why not other women too? Yes, it discourages other women as well. But the subject of this thread is aimed at the black community. The black family structure. Of which Denzel Washington is alluding to.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 06:48 PM
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More like not an ATM machine.
/r/MensRights25/11/17 06:39 PM
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And I'm sure this won't cause any resentment to build in those male employees who had to work their rears off as their female co-workers are automatically handed a big paycheque in the name of fighting the wage gap. Oh no, sir. /s
/r/MensRights22/11/17 05:07 PM
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The thing is that feminism isn't a monolith So feminism isn't a monolith yet the ones discussed in those sites aren't what feminism is?
/r/MensRights22/11/17 06:01 AM
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Or India. There were even feminist groups in India who were successful in keeping rape laws from being re-written to include young and adult male victims.
/r/MensRights22/11/17 05:50 AM
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This comment here: You don't have to segregate yourself from women. You just have to interact with women the way you would want other men to interact with your sister, wife, daughter, or mother. Is it really that hard just to treat us like fellow human beings? Lady, you haven't treated it as such in return. One touch that you deem uncomfortable, one misread cue, one innocuous comment, and your first reaction is to throw the man to the wolves. Even when you THINK he did nothing wrong, suddenly yo…
/r/MensRights22/11/17 01:15 AM
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Don't. Feed. The. Troll.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 10:52 PM
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They're trolling. Don't take the bait.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 10:50 PM
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Thanks, Karen. I really appreciative having someone with field experience speaking on my behalf.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 08:15 PM
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You can be heard through conversation. Just cause they yell louder, doesn't mean they are right. Like I said, mainstream thinking says otherwise. Doesn't mean you should go to their level. Be smart about it. Yeah, and then get met with accusations of "Misogyny", "Wife-Beating", and "Fragile Masculinity". Told to "Check my privilege". Just cause they yell and name call doesn't mean shit. You heard of the University Of Toronto protests? Where Warren Farrell was invited to speak? Those protesters d…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 07:49 PM
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Because the opinions of these groups were enshrined into law and mainstream thinking with full advocacy behind the actions. I'm talking Duluth Model and Tender Years Doctrine as primary examples. Mattress Girl, the one who destroyed the life and reputation of a college male with false rape accusations, was made into a feminist hero by N.O.W for fuck's sake! Donna Hylton, who participated in the murder of an innocent man, was given a platform to speak at the recent Women's March. Yeah, she served…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 07:39 PM
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The world has alot of groups like that, and I not only hope but feel society is starting to see these groups for what they are. Sorry to dash your hopes but these groups are still around and continue carrying influence. The answer to these problems isnt trying to yell louder than them How can one be heard when you're shouted down by those that yell louder?
/r/MensRights21/11/17 05:57 PM
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Finally. That's exactly what I'd hoped you'd agree on.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 05:38 PM
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But they tended to get drowned out by the ones yelling For the umpteenth time, they are not only "Yelling" but have the influence to help government shape laws and the media to shape their fucking image!
/r/MensRights21/11/17 05:25 PM
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I feel if anything NOW is part of the yelling group. Multiple times, you've been informed that NOW is not a "Yelling Group" or loud-mouthed extremists but a very influential, well-funded special interest group that has done a lot of damage. Why can't you see that?
/r/MensRights21/11/17 05:08 PM
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As expected, instead of addressing the evidence where feminism hurt men, you prefer to absolve the movement of any responsibility for contributing to keeping men imprisoned in their gender roles.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 05:04 PM
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All these types we know; Homer Simpson, Peter Griffin, Hank Hill But at least Hank Hill had a decent job selling Propane and Propane Accessories where he was very competent at the task. Homer Simpson and Peter Griffin, you wonder how in the hell they ever managed to KEEP their jobs in the first place.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 12:44 AM
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Doesn't matter so long as it exposes the holes in their argument and flaws in their approach. And they've done a brilliant job of accomplishing both simply by spouting their talking points with no thought or direction. Their argument for Roger Waters work as all anti-right wing, for example. Well, they walked right into it by attempting to sway a true Roger Waters fan. And lost. Oh, if they're still around, here's something they should also know about Waters: Even with his anti-trump stance, he …
/r/MensRights20/11/17 07:36 PM
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Go further than that and put your critic on the spot. "So you believe those men who killed themselves should be grateful for their male privilege?" Brutal and to the point, giving them no ground to maneuver for if they try to weasel their way out or turn everything towards how women have it worse, they will lose in the eyes of the neutral.
/r/MensRights20/11/17 06:04 PM
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People reading this thread, this is all you need to see. Buddy, since the first thing you mentioned is downvotes, I suggest you take a look at the low rating your comments have generated through this thread. Apparently, the audience you court isn't buying your bullshit. but Jesus Christ, this paragraph is so far off the edge it's practically satirical. Hey, all the proof I need is how you waltzed right in here, telling white men how to think and feel. Where their issues are on the totem pole. Do…
/r/MensRights20/11/17 07:23 AM
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It’s ironic you pro-Trumpers use I'm not pro-trump. Quit assuming. where everything about Waters, Floyd, and The Wall is anti-everything Trump and far right conservatism. Roger Waters hated Hillary as well. He's had a firm, resolute anti-government, anti-corporate, anti-religious and anti-war stance for decades. I've read his interviews, listened to his works, am a fan of his writing, and learned of the layers he packs into his lyrics. So pull the other one while you're at it. Alright. Ready for…
/r/MensRights20/11/17 05:12 AM
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Lena Dunham can call herself a feminist all she wants but she isn't i don't know many women that feel Lena talks for them. Agreed. Personally i think she is disgusting. Agreed Some women do lie about rape and it ruins mens lives she should take that into consideration at least if she wants to even consider the notion that she is in anyway a feminist. Partially agree because it was the feminist movement pushing for the "Listen and Believe" approach. Real feminists understand the difficulties both…
/r/MensRights19/11/17 11:56 PM
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Well we don't need their education. We don't even need their thought control.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 11:45 PM
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I think it's more hate on feminists You think its unjustifiable though? The movement doesn't have a clean track record of supporting men. When they bother to acknowledge men have issues without brushing it off with women having it worse in the first place.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 11:42 PM
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One caveat: You're not becoming a misogynist. Instead, piles upon piles of stories about women making false rape accusations, abusing boys, acting like they're above and beyond men, using their empowerment to hurt people, has made you distrustful of women. I'm in the same boat, only it's strong women I treat with caution. Particular fictional female characters. There are strong women whom don't fall for this "Oppression" cage that other women get trapped in. I should know because one was my boss…
/r/MensRights19/11/17 07:10 AM
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What, you think double-standards DON'T have an effect on whether men are heard or not?
/r/MensRights19/11/17 01:58 AM
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Just skip the ones about how men have nothing to lose when raped and carry the strength to defend themselves because "Evolutionary Psychology-Babbling-Bullshit" and you'll be fine.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 01:56 AM
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Even though she was less fired and more voluntarily stepping down, the latter is even worse. This combined with her previous apology as "Damage Control" only served to lend credence to the charges against her by these idiots. When will people finally refuse to relent to this tidal wave of ignorance?
/r/MensRights19/11/17 01:52 AM
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I skimmed through the whole thread and on the whole, the responses and shared stories were much better discussed than on another similar one that was posted here a few weeks ago. The particular nest of comments you quoted was pretty shitty Shitty and upvoted into the 20s and 30s. Certainly got a lot of back up.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 09:25 PM
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Two things for this girl to consider: 1) What Louis CK did was lewd and inappropriate but these women weren't raped or sexually assaulted. They consented to his request and had the option to leave if his masturbation display was making them uncomfortable. 2) She's not aware of how hard it is for men to come forward with their own stories of how they were raped/abused by a woman. So you don't hear about it. For the ones who do choose to go public, they get very little sympathy and tons more skept…
/r/MensRights18/11/17 08:42 PM
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I'll do my best to challenge these bozos. After I've collected and composed my thoughts. Likely get downvoted into oblivion but doesn't matter. This bullshit has got to stop!
/r/MensRights18/11/17 06:01 PM
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it is truly inspiring. my god, the support the men in the comments section are getting is amazing. 90 percent of comments are of men coming forward and being supported while acknowledging the damage our double standard society does to men. Until you reach this comment: Nailed it. This is what men are often missing when they say, "If you reversed the roles..." It's evolutionary psych. Men don't have as much to lose, historically, as women. 9 months pregnant could be a death sentence in the wrong …
/r/MensRights18/11/17 05:45 PM
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I need to wash my eyes out with bleach after reading those reviews.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 07:14 AM
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Its as speculative as your assertion that its a worse relationship than a teen with a teen. bangs head against keyboard I'm out of here. And let me guess, this will be your response: "Derp, I feel the same way, derp derp. Hyah-hyah!" So save it.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 07:12 AM
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You, a person who thinks teens will have healthier, more fulfilling sexual relationships with adults, is lecturing me. How rich. Please do me a favor and shut up. Your noise pollution is dirtying the air I'm breathing.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 07:06 AM
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Yeah, keep repeating it until it becomes truth. Won't work on me. Try someone else.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 03:23 AM
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Do you want your children to have shitty sexual experiences for their first time? Then keep them with their peers fumbling painfully and dumbly with sex. This is the stupidest, most assinine thing I have ever heard come out of someone's mouth. Teens having sex with adults is, according to you, a more positive experience then sticking with their age group. You can't make shit like this up, I tell you.
/r/MensRights17/11/17 10:01 PM
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I'm going to play devil's advocate here...I'm in no way saying it's ok for women to slap men, but I also don't think it's ok for children to slap their parents...but far less ok for a parent to slap their child. And I'll come at it from a perspective that cuts across gender lines. Let's talk about basic boundaries. We're taught, as children, never to violate or infringe upon the boundaries of one another. This woman clearly either wasn't raised that way or too mentally disturbed to even care tha…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 06:42 PM
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Dissent won't be tolerated since they have a narrative to uphold.
/r/MensRights16/11/17 06:38 PM
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No offense, JebberJabber, but spare me. You're too much of an apologist for all the harm that feminism had caused yet is always excused.
/r/MensRights16/11/17 06:37 AM
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You're not alone. There's a population of men such as yourself whom society would rather sweep under the rug then offer a caring hand.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 09:48 PM
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Feminism doesn't do, radical feminists do. Then get them out of your tent because they're stinking up gender relations more than any misogynistic man on this planet. t's not about the ideology itself, but about the perversion of the ideology, that is used to justify immoral and inhuman ideas and behavior. Funny how easily it was for them to corrupt your precious ideology. Those feminazis are no better than terrorist Terrorists that are still being harbored, mind you.
/r/MensRights15/11/17 09:45 PM
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There are many feminist that acknowledge that men are people too, that they can get raped, that they have feelings. Yeah, where are they? Aside from you. They still blame everything on "the patriarchy ™" but a it's a progress at least. No, far from it. It's not "Patriarchy" when we ignore or excuse abuse of males from females and pass it off as "Empowerment", what with the media is engaging in right now (Especially movies and books).
/r/MensRights15/11/17 05:31 PM
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Of course I do. Explain the sentencing gap then, where even a woman who sexually abuses a boy can get off easily. There are also girls who hit boys (especially vulnerable boys) and no one so much as bats an eye until the boy defends himself and suddenly he's labeled the aggressor in the situation. I could regale you with tales from my experience of how little validation I received from feminists for expressing some serious, traumatic experiences at the hands of girls and boys, men and women, bec…
/r/MensRights14/11/17 05:00 PM
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"see?? Women are bad too!!!" Do you believe society sees women as equally capable of harming individuals on a physical and emotional level?
/r/MensRights14/11/17 06:07 AM
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had no intention of extending their entitlements to poor women Not only poor women, but women of color as well. The early movements weren't lacking in racism.
/r/MensRights13/11/17 12:17 AM
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So he should just apologize and be thankful he gets to keep his job? Do you not see the problem here?? You don't think I deplore the situation in general? Look, I'm sure it's very easy for someone who has never worked in such a cutthroat, competitive and volatile industry as Show Business to sit there and say "He should SPEAK OUT!". But the fact is, Kit Harington doesn't have the kind of power and autonomy over his career that Stone and Parker possess. If he does Speak Out, he'll cut all his cha…
/r/MensRights12/11/17 11:55 PM
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Having your career stolen from you for having an opinion needs to stop, period. People could learn a huge lesson from the south park creators. They've been threatened so many times but never backed down or apologized for anything and they have flourished. Difference is it's THEIR show and are granted total creative control. Kit Harington is only allowed to say his lines, hit his marks, then go away until the next scene.
/r/MensRights12/11/17 09:49 PM
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More like "You're a Gender Studies graduate. Welcome to unemployment."
/r/MensRights12/11/17 09:45 PM
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What makes you think I'm incel?
/r/MensRights10/11/17 08:16 AM
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Yes, we did. They went to his apartment, no sexual assault took place and they were free to leave. Now they're accusing him of sexual assault anyway. What else is there to see?
/r/MensRights10/11/17 07:49 AM
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Yeah, how dare he have respect for his friend's privacy and dignity. The bastard!
/r/MensRights10/11/17 07:41 AM
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Yoko Ono and John Lennon once wrote "Woman is the Nigger of the world". Imagine Muhammad Ali hearing that song. He'd erupt like a volcano!
/r/MensRights08/11/17 09:24 PM
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o be clear, #MeToo is for women. I do not want to hear a single man inserting himself into this conversation to remind women, “This happens to all genders” or to say, “This is a human issue, not a women’s issue.” Not now. How about you go fuck yourself, lady.
/r/MensRights07/11/17 11:29 PM
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8 Million / 27 Years = almost 300k/yr. He got compensated far better than any of us stuck working for 27 years. Erroneous comparison. This guy never had the chance to work because he was confined behind bars for 27 years. Even then, he's way past retirement age to qualify for a job now.
/r/MensRights07/11/17 11:19 PM
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Jibberjabber, you can bring up all kinds of "Reasons" for your position but, in the end, you're no different from the people dismissing male victims. Here's my principle: Anyone who is hurt, I'm willing to support. Women or men. I don't give a shit about "Upper-Body Strength", "Lack of PTSD", or any other basis for comparison. You seem to want to keep those caveats rolling. Which sickens me as a survivor of abuse. I have it tough enough already having to deal with people thinking girls and women…
/r/MensRights07/11/17 03:47 PM
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"Women should be free of oppressive gender roles and accorded equal respect in comparison to their male counterparts. Hey, fuck you buddy. Ladies first! Move to the back of the line!"
/r/MensRights06/11/17 10:54 PM
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The difference is that men are more efficient at executing in these situations. It is not a matter of choice and one gender being more benign. It is a matter of being incompetent and lacking the wherewithal to execute. Also consider, when they are successful, how it's addressed. Women who murder and abuse are given more lenient court sentencing compared to male perpetrators. Their circumstances and upbringing used as leverage in garnering the level of sympathy men can only DREAM of.
/r/MensRights06/11/17 10:51 PM
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Men are always to blame for anything and everything according to their worldview. No surprise.
/r/MensRights06/11/17 10:49 PM
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Still, having spent a fair bit of time on our support subs for suicide and the various mental illnesses caused by rape and sexual abuse, I can understand her reluctance to put a weapon in the hands of the whackos who want to claim that rape of men by women is an "equal" problem, as I have already seen the odd guy doing on here. How do you know its not when male victims were erased from existence in the first place? The damage done to men raped by women is remarkably similar to that done by men t…
/r/MensRights06/11/17 08:22 PM
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It might be worth asking feminists what they personally have done to rein in female rape culture If they're willing to accept "Female Rape Culture" in the first place, of which their track record has been poor. I guess they could point to opposing gender stereotyping, disassembling the pedestal etc. "Patriarchy hurts men, too", "Freeing women from oppressive expectations will benefit men", "Men should get in touch with their emotions more. It's okay to cry", "We are about supporting FEMALES. Why…
/r/MensRights06/11/17 08:17 PM
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It's a dead end degree because once you graduate and enter the real world, there are very few options to earn a living with that knowledge.
/r/MensRights06/11/17 07:34 AM
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Hey, Mrs. Obama, your husband is no longer president. Go away!
/r/MensRights06/11/17 02:58 AM
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Welcome to unchecked "Female Empowerment" taken to its logical, extreme conclusion.
/r/MensRights05/11/17 11:27 PM
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I think feminists' solidarity and reluctance to criticise other women is harmful here. They correctly say that some of the work against rape by men needs to be done by men, but conversely the attitudes and beliefs that lead female rapists to feel fine about what they do, can best be addressed by other women. And hell will freeze over before it ever happens at a major scale.
/r/MensRights05/11/17 11:24 PM
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Certainly academics tend to be radical because they have to distinguish themselves by the originality of their thinking. Craziness is an inevitable outcome of that system. Sounds like you're just making excuses for the harm these radicals have done. "Originality of their thinking". Fuck off! The media are overwhelmingly concerned with appealing to the masses, or massive niches. So I don't see how crazies and radicals will survive in that environment unless as specialists just to write a feminist…
/r/MensRights05/11/17 05:33 PM
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But the fringe crazies are so much more outspoken that they become the face of the movement. They're also in positions of power like University Professors, Government and Media.
/r/MensRights05/11/17 03:00 AM
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Denial of F on M rape by a woman is a pretty reliable sign she is a non- or anti- feminist, or maybe a noob. Please can the "Not all feminists are like that". I'm tired of hearing this deflection. I'd go into a full on rant about "If not all feminists weren't like that, how come (insert feminist supported law/technique/method) wasn't protested" but that's become tiresome. I have often seen feminists discussing rape and when a man raped by a woman contributes his own perspective he has practicall…
/r/MensRights05/11/17 02:59 AM
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I agree with Lethn. Feminists tend to only take one-half step forward when it comes to men who are sexually abused so long as the subject concerns Male-on-Male. Soon as people start talking about female-on-male, they draw their foot back and prefer to pass the female perpetrator off as a victim of patriarchy or some other such nonsense, if not outright ignore the existence of this population.
/r/MensRights04/11/17 10:19 PM
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And so Kevin Spacey's fall is underway.
/r/MensRights03/11/17 09:55 PM
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Unfortunately, he did. But I can sympathize with his position after looking at it more carefully. When you work in an environment where your opinions are scrutinized to the point it can endanger your career, better to avoid rocking the boat. Doesn't make the double-standard less heinous, though.
/r/MensRights03/11/17 04:25 PM
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I hope the babysitter receives equal amounts of lashings and whippings she'd dealt to her vulnerable victim by a blunt weapon and is forced to live the rest of her life with brain damage as well.
/r/MensRights01/11/17 11:58 PM
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I've reached the point of wondering why anyone would want to make it big in such a mainstream venue. "It's my dream to become a star" or "If only a place like that recognized my work". Then I'd say to these struggling artists: "Don't! Steer as far away as possible! You will only be recognized for your talents so long as you restrict yourself to a formula and tow the social party line!"
/r/MensRights01/11/17 04:24 PM
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Something inside me screamed a forewarning. But I didn't heed it. Now, it's just as it had been telling me: The #metoo hashtag falling prey to vindictive, petty females looking to drag innocent men and their reputations through the mud. It's the evolution of false-rape accusations come true. Curse #metoo. And what it has wrought!
/r/MensRights31/10/17 06:07 PM
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From John in the comments: Maybe the reason men are failing at life is because of their fathers and grandfathers and world dictators that promote war and suffering. Those fathers and grandfathers also likely fought in those wars and suffered just so you can have the freedom to post your shit online, John. Get fucked.
/r/MensRights31/10/17 08:08 AM
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You can see the spots where they reserved space for ads, but don't have any. This is some idiot's blog that's basically just started If this is the kind of content to expect in the future, I hope it fails. Hard!
/r/MensRights27/10/17 07:22 AM
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This is why I'm skeptical about the effectiveness of exporting Feminism to other countries. On the one hand, women do suffer from oppressive parts of those cultures. On the other, so do men. Above all, without checks and balances, it leads to laws like this enacted in India where male victims of all ages are excluded.
/r/MensRights27/10/17 02:01 AM
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