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jewiger/r/seduction05/06/12 03:25 PM
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jewiger/r/seduction28/06/12 06:13 AM
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Get the prenup. Be generous. Take everything as half it is today. You will earn more in the future. I got married and divorced without a prenup. Luckily it was only a two year marriage in a community property state. I only owed her alimony from what was earned during the marriage time. Still it was nerve wracking during the divorce process. Prenups secure the future for both her and you. You know what’s on the table.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 01:24 AM
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What made you get a divorce?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:12 AM
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Tough one for me to sum up in proud or not proud. Grey area for me. There are certain things I respect such as his intelligence, diligence, and fortitude. There are certain things I despise such as his emotional outburst, controlling attitude, and self-righteousness. He was a lawyer and thought the world revolved around his life. Talking with him wasn't a conversation, but more of what he was doing or what is on his mind. My mom stayed with him eventhough he treated her like dog shit. Didn't hav…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 11:50 PM
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Just go out 5x a week. Practice takes perfect.
/r/seduction27/12/14 06:48 PM
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Worst. Post. Ever .... fuck seddt, fuck everything, fuck this post.
/r/seduction21/10/13 12:38 AM
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I haven't had any alcohol or drugs in 3 months. Not only do I feel better but my game got better as well. I'm much more coherent and continue conversations much better than when I was drunk. It's much harder to escalate because you still have your inhibitions, but you make much better decisions on the type of girls that you hook up with. Sober game is very difficult to start at first. It takes about 3 weeks before you can become comfortable to interact in bars or clubs. To be honest most girls t…
/r/seduction22/09/13 04:44 PM
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Do you drink while using the Dark Traits?
/r/seduction30/07/13 06:28 PM
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Great FR. I respect how you didn't compromise your values to try and sleep with a girl who disrespected you. I too also have learned this lesson and recently told an amazing looking girl that I didn't want to see her anymore because she had flaked on me twice. My time is valuable and if she couldn't respect that then I don't want to be with someone like that. I would also challenge you not to hold a grudge. People do change and it is counterproductive to hold a view of someone just because of an…
/r/seduction22/07/13 12:58 AM
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Yea I have. I practice gratitude everyday through a journal and positive self-talk in the mirror. It helps me keep perspective. I have been in your place before as well. After a major depression it's common to feel an uplift of positivity that can last for months as your mind cannot stay in that state forever. I've been extremely high off of positivity and told myself that I have "figured it out" and I will never go negative again. The danger of getting so high is that you begin to think you are…
/r/seduction30/05/13 05:18 PM
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Positivity and Negativity will ebb and flow throughout your life depending on a number of factors including but not limited to your environment, your job, and/or life events. It's nearly impossible and/or un-humane to stay positive all the time when your dog dies or you lose a bunch of money. You must let your negative emotions release or they will just build up. The important thing is to keep things in perspective. Not letting your emotions control your actions, whether high or low, will ensure…
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:25 PM
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Do you take donations in butt sex? SF isn't as weird w/o you. P.S. I'll give you money too (for butt sex)
/r/seduction16/05/13 08:04 PM
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I lived in Vegas for a year right after college. You'll first start going to the strip, but that eventually gets old. I would live in Henderson if I were you. Lots of local places to go and fairly easy to get to the strip.
/r/seduction13/05/13 11:59 PM
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Best FR I've seen in a long time. Thanks for sharing OP!
/r/seduction11/05/13 04:04 PM
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Consultant. I travel 4 days a week. This is great for random hookups at hotel bars but horrible for building relationships with girls. I've had a few one night stands on the road but I'm getting kind of tired of it and the lifestyle isn't very conducive to building anything.
/r/seduction24/04/13 03:31 AM
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I think the OP is right to an extent. Obviously there are going to be exceptions with pretty girls, but for the most part they are going to be attracted to tall and buff guys. However that doesn't mean an average guy can't do anything to improve his status to the point where these women will be attracted to him. Money, looks, status, clothes, humor, friends combined with experience in pickup all wrap up into your confidence level. A higher confidence level will allow these girls to become yours.…
/r/seduction23/04/13 03:45 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction20/04/13 09:12 PM
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It will help you focus on yourself and becoming a man first so you can be the confident man who can escalate and connect with the women you desire.
/r/seduction20/04/13 09:12 PM
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Read Models. It will help with all that shit.
/r/seduction20/04/13 06:20 PM
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Read Models
/r/seduction12/04/13 08:39 PM
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Thanks Nick .... the difference between shame and guilt is an important distinction into how you handle rejection.
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:40 PM
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.... And pics or it didn't happen!
/r/seduction02/04/13 11:01 PM
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Nice FR. Its probably not anything you said in particular that worked but your overall confidence and attitude. I wouldn't recommend people trying OPs lines if they don't have their state completely on. Good job on giving no fucks tho.
/r/seduction02/04/13 03:48 PM
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You'd probably be fine banging her but its probably the better call. I've dodged more than a few bullets in my day just plowing in anyways. Maybe u could have gotten a bj at least or go get a condom from a friend. Most girls have condoms in their room ad well.
/r/seduction01/04/13 08:03 PM
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We're u drinking at all?
/r/seduction30/03/13 05:31 PM
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I like to compare pickup to Hansel and Grettle instead. If you eat a shit ton of cookies then you get to have sex with and then get eaten by old grandmas. That really is the end goal here.
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:44 PM
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You may not be happy, but you certainly shouldn't have an issue with your confidence. Literally there should be no pressure in approaching a girl since you claim that you get laid once a week. I smell complete bullshit. Even accomplished PUAs aren't hitting numbers that you claim. You should quit and get some professional help to match your handle name.
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:22 AM
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You've laid 100 girls in 2 years and u r having issues with your game? Please. You should be riding high or u r completely full of shit.
/r/seduction08/03/13 02:59 AM
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My advice would be to move to Asia. It will be a life-altering experience for you and you get a chance to re-invent your self. You can teach English for cash until you establish a network over there. It was a fantastic experience for me and something I will never forget.
/r/seduction21/02/13 11:18 AM
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Move out. Develop a life for yourself. Changing your situation will always have an effect on your self - either positively or negatively. The important thing is to put things in perspective. Realize you are only living with your parents temporarily and your social situation will change. Don't worry this happens to everyone now and again. Game and confidence will ebb and flow throughout your life no matter how good you are at pickup.
/r/seduction22/01/13 02:40 AM
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Congrats dude ... I went to Brazil three years ago but didn't have any luck with the girls beyond kisses. I hooked up with a few backpackers though. Did you go to Warung Beach Club near Floripa? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRFvPtY070Y This was by far the sickest club I went to in Brazil.
/r/seduction16/01/13 01:59 AM
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I've been fired for this, but I wasn't very responsible either. Taking 2 hour lunch breaks to go bang in a secluded parking lot wasn't very professional. I've had other office romances that have gone well. You have to set up clear rules beforehand. I would keep things on the DL for a long while to make sure things are for real before coming out and announcing it. In addition, it really helps if the person you are seeing isn't on your direct team. Aside from some of the legal consequences of mana…
/r/seduction11/01/13 08:14 PM
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Don't
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:44 AM
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You make some very valid points in here and I think you are dead on with your analysis of looks. It really does depend. The girl, the situation, the weather, your clothes - a bunch of different factors can play into weather your looks play a factor or not. I definitely agree with you that you have to up your game to another level if you are not particularly handsome. You have to show that you have perceived value beyond your physical traits. Whether it is money, personality, or drive there has t…
/r/seduction10/01/13 09:03 PM
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Disagree. This kid needs to have fun and get drunk.
/r/seduction10/01/13 08:42 PM
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Don't be subtle ... be direct. All or nothing. She'll either be turned on or won't. Either way it will make it will make your life easier.
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:56 AM
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You must have some serious inner game working for you now if a chick is going to proposition you. Were you doing any pre-work with this girl i.e. escalating, talking sexual? It would help if you were a little more descriptive in your conversation to get her to that point.
/r/seduction09/01/13 02:10 AM
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There is no aha moment in my opinion. You are going to go through ebbs and flows, good times and bad times, throughout your life. Some time your game will be solid steel and other times it will suck beyond belief. However during those sucky times you can reflect on what's going on and how you can fix it. Things usually always work out in the end.
/r/seduction09/01/13 01:53 AM
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Can you put these rules in a 10 commandments style prose: Example: Seddit is a place to study human seduction. Field Reports are in the field studies of seduction. Great field reports focus on the techniques, mindsets and phrases you specifically used that changed the course of the night to being successful. ...... It's a little difficult to follow the wall of text.
/r/seduction09/01/13 01:39 AM
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Be happy and grateful and try not to worry about the future. Have as much fun as you can right now!
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:32 PM
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So? Did you bang?
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:16 PM
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Who isn't trying to bang strippers?
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:38 PM
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Coke works better. Seriously though, if she is into you in anyway she'll come back regardless.
/r/seduction27/12/12 04:36 PM
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Start smaller than trying to approach a girl in a high pressure situation like a club. Try just saying "Hi" to a couple of girl while you are walking outside. After you get comfortable with this next start asking a girl a simple question like "What's the time?" Eventually you will start to build up some comfort in actually having conversations to them and eventually having guts to hit on them. It takes practice dude not just reading 20hrs of seddit material. Good luck on not drinking for a year.…
/r/seduction26/12/12 08:42 PM
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Great post Eric. This happened to me about a month ago. I knew it was happening, however there was not much I could do about it because I was too invested at the time. I eventually ended it on my terms after she blew me off a couple of times. I think another thing to do here is to not stop chasing other girls. This will relieve some of the pressure you feel with the girl you actually like and continue your abundance frame. You will be less needy emotionally and thus more attractive to the girl y…
/r/seduction25/12/12 06:11 PM
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I do miss Shangers a lot, however being away from there is definitely better for my health and sanity.
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:15 PM
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I lived in Shanghai for a year btw 2008 - 2009. I wasn't afraid to escalate the situation and I always led the interaction. I'd also do crazy shit. For example, I would pick up girls on the dance floor or say sexual things in Chinese, pretending I didn't know the meaning. Maybe it's the American in me being aggressive.
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:44 AM
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Nice. Where are you from? I felt pulling in China was easy in the clubs but much harder for daygame/dates.
/r/seduction10/12/12 08:40 PM
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Nice ... coke is the perfect DHV lol. Solid FR and memorable night.
/r/seduction05/12/12 04:50 AM
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Just go bang hella girls ... you don't really have to know how. Just do it. Cool tip bro - why don't you actually post something useful and with substance instead of throwing out an affirmation.
/r/seduction15/11/12 05:47 PM
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Do eet .... you can cross off ex-convict and heroin addict from your sexual bucket list in one shot!
/r/seduction15/11/12 05:26 PM
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Use it to your advantage. Tell them exactly what you are going to do to them and kino escalate the shit out of them. It wont work all the time but some will get really turned on and blown away by your bluntness. It's a fresh change of pace to the guy who pussy foots around and doesn't take what he wants.
/r/seduction06/11/12 04:05 AM
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Sunday - Thursday = Dates, LTR, FWB Friday - Saturday = Prospecting You have to maintain the stable.
/r/seduction02/11/12 02:14 AM
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Great!
/r/seduction01/11/12 06:35 PM
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It sounds like you feel guilty for taking people's money and not being able to fully change them. You see this all the time in the industry and it probably makes you sick. Promises are made and sometimes just don't get fulfilled. Pick up lines, routines, gambits, etc don't work if you are not as you say confident. The fact is, as you probably know, you can't teach confidence. It's something that is built over a variety of experiences and wisdom that you gain over time. It's something that ebbs a…
/r/seduction01/11/12 06:29 AM
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I'd probably agree with you ... a lot of the dudes you see are not with the chicks they are standing by. The only way to really find out is to approach. Even if they are with the girl, most likely the guy will be flattered that his gf is hot enough to get hit on. You can usually find out early enough if the guy is with the girl and if so just back off.
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:38 PM
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Good FR(s) ... everyone should get laid on Halloweekend!
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:34 PM
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countered with an upvote for op's confidence and game (what you call "douchebaggery") .... get a clue white knight.
/r/seduction29/10/12 06:13 PM
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good luck. Thanks for the advice on India. Yes I'm chosen.
/r/seduction10/10/12 07:19 AM
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they won't soften up dude .... You have to lead. This is your chance to lose your sensitive nice guy image .... If its what you want then why not take it? She'll be more into you if you do. Definitely went through a hooker phase in sea. It was a lot of fun but now I'm through. Have some hilarious stories with hookers but you have to move on at some point or you will have trouble connecting with women if ur still in it. Recommend giving it a swing if ur curious.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:42 AM
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Good post man. I'm doing the same thing. I just moved home a few weeks ago to save money for a year long trip next year. 30/m. You just have to make it work for yourself. A few things I would add/expand upon: 1) Your Assage will go down - Accept it. You don't have your own place and you have a lot less to work with. Don't stress over it. 2) Put things in perspective - Most likely your situation will be temporary. Realize that this is only short term and make the best of your situation. This will…
/r/seduction09/10/12 10:55 PM
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Lived in Shanghai for a year, so speaking from experience. You need to plow through it with Chinese chicks. Some of them are very conservative in the bedroom. Just start taking your clothes off and let her know that you are going to have sex with her and that she will like it. Keep pushing ... you will most likely never hear a flat out "No" Have fun in Cambodia dude .... that was my favorite country in SEA. Go get weird at the Heart of Darkness club in PP if ur there.
/r/seduction09/10/12 09:28 PM
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I'll fake bust when I'm on too may pain killers
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:16 AM
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sutruo baths = my sex dungeon
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:14 AM
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Of course it's normal to feel this way. Everyone wants to be 6'4 toned and handsome. But you have to work with what you got. As you get older you become more comfortable with this and comfortable with how you look. Feel lucky that you are a guy ... You can get away with shitty looks and get a hot chick if you have something else to offer. Ugly chicks don't have nearly as much leeway.
/r/seduction05/10/12 06:40 AM
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ha dude ... I usually just get drunk and tell a girl she has great tits. Then i start touching them and tell them we should fuck. 50% of the time it works all the time.
/r/seduction03/10/12 06:05 PM
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Sucks. It's all mental with you. I'll echo what other people have said on here and say start small. Try saying "Hi" to at least six girls a day. This is super low risk / low pressure and at least you get some interaction. Some will say "Hi" back, some will ignore you, some will not even hear you. The important thing is to keep doing it. You can say it as they are walking by, next to them in line, or wherever. Make it a game and reward yourself for each "Hi" you do. Don't expect to be fucking in …
/r/seduction02/10/12 11:57 PM
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Start drinking or doing some drugs. A little liquid courage could loosen you up a bit.
/r/seduction02/10/12 11:21 PM
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Maybe you have other things more pressing on your mind (like being broke and unhappy) that is causing you to be nervous and have approach anxiety. Why don't you fix the other things in your life first (perhaps get a job/better paying job) before you worry about approaching girls. I find that when I have other worries in my life my game sucks. Girls wont solve your problems dude.
/r/seduction02/10/12 10:39 PM
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I think it depends what you want. Escalation is key if you want to hook up. Yes you do have to build comfort first, but you need to go for it and push for interaction you want. Just because this girl didn't want to hook up doesn't mean another girl won't. If you are looking for something more than you might want to hold off a bit. Getting to know each other before a sexual interaction is healthier for a relationship.
/r/seduction29/09/12 07:53 PM
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Great post. I don't know if escalation is really an anxiety issue, but more of an awareness issue. I think a lot of guys have a real fear of approaching, however escalation is more of a skill you have to be conscious of rather than fearing to do it. There are a ton of times I just get caught up in conversation and just forget to escalate.
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:47 PM
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Great stuff - abundance mentality.
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:08 PM
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Great stuff - abundance mentality!
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:48 PM
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Very cool man .... way to escalate and take over the situation.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:39 PM
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I have a friend like this whose brother is in the same situation. He's tried for years and years to change him by including him in events, letting him hang out with us, and even introducing him to girls. He still lives at home, is most likely amvirgin, and lives in an mmo fantasy world. The fact is you really can't change people. Its up to THEM to want to change. The only thing I can suggest is work with your parents to give him some tough love. Tell him he has to move out and support himself. T…
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:37 AM
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Lived in China for year. Escalation is key with them. A lot of them are very submissive yet restrained. State your intentions and they will follow.
/r/seduction21/09/12 03:54 PM
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Do it. What could possibly go wrong?
/r/seduction13/09/12 06:05 AM
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It sounds like she approached you but good job on closing
/r/seduction13/09/12 06:01 AM
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Great post ... Thank you.
/r/seduction11/09/12 02:51 AM
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Love Montreal. Bagged a cougar the last time i was there. Good ole American escalation goes a far way there.
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:54 AM
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I'm in the same boat .... Moving back home in 2 weeks @ 30 yo! Albeit it is only for 4 months and I'm doing it to save money for travel, I'm not particularly looking forward to it. I don't expect much f-closing going on but hey it puts me up against the wall without a close place to go home to for the night except her house. I plan on being honest about the subject if it's brought up but won't willingly tell her where I'm crashing.
/r/seduction07/09/12 02:24 AM
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You have to change yourself into your best self. Your perception of yourself can vary from a WoW playing, out of shape, unconfident nerd to a sharp looking, lean, social, womanizing machine. If you don't choose to be the latter than no you wont get women. It doesn't even have to be these qualities in the latter, however something that shows your best side and is attractive to others.
/r/seduction06/09/12 05:07 AM
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It's not uncommon to lose interest in a girl if you have sex with her soon after meeting her. It's not that you view her as a slut, but sometimes it feels like you didn't have to work that hard for it and it's time to move on. That's way a lot of girls wait to have sex because it is a much more emotional experience for them. Girls looking for something serious want to make sure the guy wants something more and won't give it up so fast. Seeing that this girl is inexperienced she will probably cli…
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:55 PM
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Nice bro .... You are awesome dude and i love all the distinguished lulz you bring every night.
/r/seduction21/08/12 03:59 AM
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i go shock and awe. "You have great tits" is one of my favorites. Needs to be calibrated correctly but can catch them off guard in a great way if said fit. Sometimes I say "You are increadibly sexy" or "If you were mine I would do crazy things to you." if you want to be a little more subtle say "You smell fantastic" or "Your hair is great" with some kino mixed in.
/r/seduction13/08/12 03:37 AM
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You spiked her body temperature and didn't escalate. She was primed for the other guy and he probably didn't even have to work that hard. Has happened to me a lot actually so don't sweat it. Once you get your IOIs make the conversation sexual and go in for the score. Lesson learned.
/r/seduction12/08/12 07:16 PM
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Cool story
/r/seduction09/08/12 09:56 PM
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Agreed. All you have to do is learn a couple of words in their language. Then fuck it up in the pronunciation and they think it's cute :)
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:51 PM
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Chill out man ... Asia's a great time and full of lulz. These stories are fun and I don't think the OP is doing anything to disrespect himself or the women he has been with. It's definitely not for the faint-hearted white knights though.
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:47 PM
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Yes Yes and Yes! I've been all over SE Asia and have had much success in every country. In the Philippines I banged 4 girls in a 2 week period. Not only that, I had a great time in SE Asia, learned a lot about myself, and have many awesome stories. Definitely well worth it.
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:42 PM
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What was the policy on going out with customers? Of ok did you have much success getting dates? I wishi had retail experience growing up .... Seems like a great training ground.
/r/seduction07/08/12 02:36 AM
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Fuck all you white knights! She obviously was having problems with her marriage and CHOSE to go with the OP. Go wipe your vaginas if you can't handle this reality. I commend your game. I banged a MILF too this weekend although she was not married.
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:21 PM
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Nice FR .... I like how you went out without intentions and things just naturally happened for you because you were confident. I wouldn't worry about an std but you should probably get checked. IMO most girls won't have sex without informing of the std if they knowingly have the disease.
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:56 AM
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Thanks for the post OP! I think some of these are good and some of them are not so good. My take: Good: 1, 2, 4, 6, 7, 8, 10 Eh: 3 Skipping Class - I think it's plenty worth your while to skip class if you are not learning anything and / or there is something more useful to do with your time, like an event or a lecture. In fact, some of my most successful friends got C's in college. Good grades doesn't always equal Good money. 5 Getting a Girlfried to quick - If you find the perfect girl than wh…
/r/seduction24/07/12 02:52 AM
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Why don't you get some plastic surgery if you think you are so ugly? If its really a problem for you then do something about it. I have a friend who got a nose job and he loved it. He was already happy before but realized that it was something he could do to improve his looks and it made him feel even better about himself.
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:58 AM
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Nice Job dude ... you are learning that escalation pays off. I agree with some other posters that you should have just grabbed her hand and said something like "Show me the tour of your room." To be honest it doesn't sound like this girl was that drunk and knew what she was doing. She was there for the closing. D2 closing might be tough because it sounds like it was an in the moment interaction. Say something like "Great meeting you last night ... I owe you a drink. What are you doing Thursday?"…
/r/seduction17/07/12 07:47 PM
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Love the opener
/r/seduction12/07/12 11:52 PM
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First off congratulations. Going to college is an amazing opportunity that many people in this world don't get the privilege of experiencing. For me college was a lot of fun and great learning experiencing, however it was also a massive and sometimes painful adjustment. There are many parties and girls, however mommy and daddy aren't there to take care of you anymore and you'll have to be responsible for getting your own food, dealing with bills, doing homework on you own, etc. That realization …
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:43 PM
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Seconded ... you usually don't go to great places when you are a consultant anyways. Use your weekends wisely.
/r/seduction03/07/12 10:01 PM
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Great post ... you really articulated a lot of how my journey has been over the past year. Thank You.
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:08 PM
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Seems like a keeper .... great FR!
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:06 PM
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lol
/r/seduction28/06/12 06:05 PM
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Get your life in order first. This shit won't work too well if the shit in your life is effecting your attitude, which it sounds like it is. You could spiral even further if you don't have any success with women. I wouldn't try to use game to supplement your confidence if ur feeling shitty about your situation.
/r/seduction27/06/12 12:58 AM
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Sometimes a great bj trumps a lay, especially if she swallows.
/r/seduction24/06/12 05:52 PM
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This is an awesome story. Thanks so much man! It seems like it took a while but it didn't stress you because you had other chicks on the side. I'm definitely going to use this on an asian friend I have been wanting to bang for awhile now.
/r/seduction21/06/12 12:44 AM
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Nice FR dude. Why couldn't you bounce her back to your hotel room and escalate for the f-close? I'm sure your roommate can go walk around the block a few times.
/r/seduction20/06/12 10:18 PM
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Why don't you go out and practice having fun? Approaching women seems really painful to you and women can sense it. Until you are comfortable with yourself and carefree don't expect to see any results soon.
/r/seduction18/06/12 02:17 AM
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i love porn. It relaxes me and is a stress relief. I've gone weeks without doing it and made no difference in me getting laid or not. Porn is not your problem - if you are not getting laid, it's your attitude.
/r/seduction08/06/12 05:53 PM
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A not so attractive female
/r/seduction06/06/12 05:26 PM
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typed on my ipad dude and i also don't give a fuck about spelling while you are jacking off to my FR.
/r/seduction05/06/12 09:27 PM
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Absolutely. For Dinner: 1) I went to Au Pied De Cochon for Friday night. Amazing french food but watch out because the portions are HUGE. We could have fed our table of six with 2 entrees and an app. 2) Moishes Steakhouse on Saturday Night. Amazing. Traditional Jewish steakhouse with a great cut and excellent starters. Ambiance here is also amazing. Worth the price. Clubs: 1) Globe - Went here on Friday night. Wasn't too great but I here it gets popping from time to time. There are many options …
/r/seduction05/06/12 06:14 PM
4

Oh Vegas ... seems like only yesterday we woke up in a haze and i saw a broken iphone on my floor and a mormon and a puerto rican cuddling in the corner.
/r/seduction05/06/12 04:09 PM
3

If you can afford it get some tables. Women get bitchy and greedy in Vegas so your game has to be tight.
/r/seduction05/06/12 04:07 PM
2

This is a great exercise I picked up a while ago. It's a low risk interaction with people and will get you very comfortable in approaching strangers. Try setting a goal for yourself each day. For example today I'm going to say hello to 8 girls. Record your interactions and try different ways to say hello. IMO hello is the best opener ever.
/r/seduction04/06/12 03:59 PM
0

I've fingered girls in bars truestory.jpg
/r/seduction01/06/12 03:10 AM
2

Call her. If she doesnt pick up text her one more time and say "Take a chance .... I have a 12 inch penis!" (for lulz)
/r/seduction01/06/12 03:08 AM
1

you sound uptight. maybe start drinking a bit.
/r/seduction30/05/12 01:17 AM
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Makes no difference whatsoever. Nofap is the dumbest thing I have ever heard of and I think it is crazy that some people think it helps their game. Fap or no fap before an interaction - doesn't matter. You are the one who determines the outcome.
/r/seduction30/05/12 01:14 AM
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Could be a cultural issue with confrontation maybe. I would say keep practicing and have other passions in your life so that the girls that you actually like will be attracted to you. This way you will have the confidence when the opportunity presents itself to seize it.
/r/seduction28/05/12 06:19 PM
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*EDIT Congrats Darren ... solid pull. I definitely will close blondie next time around. Just wanted to give you guys a little lead in to show how hardcore_softie (hs) and I opened the set. The two chicks were sitting at the other side of the bar and diegan spots them. He pressured us to go into the set, which was good cause I probably wouldn't have opened if I wasn't nudged a bit. I stroll over with hs and by this time the blondie had gone to use the bathroom and therefore the brunette was isola…
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:54 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble dude, but those are your own negative thoughts about yourself. Your perception of reality is negative and you are deemed to fail if you keep seeking external validation to re-enforce the negative self image of yourself. It's a vicious spiral that will continue to drag you down until you make the decision to climb out of it. Happiness takes work, but it is a choice for the most part. Do yourself a favor and at least try out the book.
/r/seduction25/05/12 06:20 PM
2

Have you tried Cognitive Therapy dude? Pick up Burns' book titled "Feeling Good". There are many exercises in here that are practical and can really help with changing your negative thought. Best of luck dude and keep fighting.
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:27 PM
1

I used to carry one but I got in a fight with a bouncer and that didn't go well. I hear you on saving money though. Bars can get expensive. Just don't get sloppy bro ... Might help you with lulz with fattys but never with the quality ladies.
/r/seduction25/05/12 02:40 PM
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Nice dude (no pun intended). It sounds like you just started to believe in yourself. You should never give up on your core values .... It makes you who you are. Great job in finding your inner game dude.
/r/seduction25/05/12 02:35 PM
1

Pain mess help my game :)
/r/seduction24/05/12 02:23 AM
1

Dude I feel the same way. There is sometimes when I just want to sock a mutha who steps up to me. I don't go looking for fights but there are sometimes when trouble seems to find me. I'm actually trained in Krav Maga and have a muscular build, so I feel confident in my abilities to defend myself, but even so it rarely escalates to punches. I usually back down since I know as much as I want to lay this guy out, it's really not worth it because in most cases I have a lot more to lose than the othe…
/r/seduction21/05/12 10:34 PM
2

In certain environments Asian dudes do have to work harder if they haven't developed their own style and personal confidence. Having lived in Asia and understanding the family pressures and certain cultural depressions, I can understand you might feel this way. Everyone has insecurities and self limiting beliefs that they have to break through for pick up to actually work. Race is one of the strongest barriers to break through because it is literally a part of your identity that you cannot chang…
/r/seduction19/05/12 07:46 PM
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Congrats dude .... That's awesome. Don't forget about the lulz though!
/r/seduction12/05/12 05:11 PM
1

I would also say set the sexual frame. You don't want to come out with it right away but definitely once a few drinks have been downed talk about sex and escalate her body temp. This lets her know what your intentions are and she will be more willing to concede.
/r/seduction10/05/12 02:30 AM
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Hipsters in sf are much more hip. I give her 3 months before she dyes her hair blonde, gets fake boobs, and develops a coke habit. What else is there to do in fl?
/r/seduction08/05/12 03:16 PM
1

Good job dude .... I'm sure you know already i that it is a numbers game. I'm sure you will be converting a lot of these numbers into lays.
/r/seduction03/04/12 02:48 AM
1

Dude Shanghai is one of the craziest places ever. I lived there for a year in 2008 and I had to leave because I got sick from partying too much. It's like New York on crack. Some of my favorite places: 1) club 88 - very cool Chinese club with an 1800's theme 2) baby face - one of the franchise Chinese clubs but still a classic 3) shelter - my favorite place (always ended up here at 3 am) There were some others but I forgot their names. Get ready dude.
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:48 AM
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When are we doing Barney Stimson night? I want to use the entire playbook.
/r/seduction29/03/12 12:03 AM
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SHELTER!
/r/seduction28/03/12 02:54 PM
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Cool dude .... Cougar sex is bomb
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:00 PM
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That's better than banging a homeless man
/r/seduction18/03/12 07:46 PM
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