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jgstromptrsnen/r/askMRP09/11/23 02:11 AM
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jgstromptrsnen/r/askMRP19/10/23 04:34 PM
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Of a twitter jerk
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 08:03 PM
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What's his T? The "normal" range is so wide it's around 3x difference between the low and high ends. So if it's around 300, that's still considered normal, but... you'd notice I'd say.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/24 09:45 PM
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Bluntly, what's the marriage you're building: captain and his first mate or captain and her first mate? There can't be two captains, so if both of you aren't aligned, you'll be two people fighting for control, this is how I read the comment above.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/24 05:16 PM
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I'm a technology exec, so let's not get into my experience unless your background is also computer science. To "get there," you need to realize that your success is combination of several factors: doing the right thing, excelling at doing the right thing, and marketing both facts to everyone. So if you're an entrepreneur, you have the right product for the market, with good quantity and quality, and you advertise. If you're in a corporate job, you understand what outcome management needs from yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/24 09:35 PM
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Given the academia is heavily dominated by left-leaning folks, to put it mildly, and RPW views are arguably conservative, I would assume even women who share these views would be pretty reticent about it. You'd need to know a researcher like that personally.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 02:09 PM
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Don't over think all of that. My wife is 5' on a good day and 105 as well, she was just induced when our baby got to 9lbs and wouldn't come out after the due date. Otherwise regular vaginal birth. That said, baby sizes vary so much that it doesn't make sense to overthink it right now.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/24 12:54 AM
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No.9: def a W for the guy, but boy, what a horrible life to put your kids through
/r/TheRedPill14/06/24 03:51 PM
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The biggest problem with having kids from a total fuckup is that personality is highly hereditary. Unless you want kids to keep the prisons full in the future, the best approach is to either pick higher IQ women (the probability of being a total fuckup is inversely correlated with IQ) or not having kids altogether.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/24 03:47 PM
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The community here is intended to help women build relationships that iterate well over time. I don't believe there's explicit intention to either validate or invalidate you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/24 05:46 PM
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What's the end goal of your research?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 05:21 PM
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Look up sunk cost fallacy. Would you marry her today, that's the question
/r/askMRP28/05/24 10:08 PM
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Yeah, dafuq did I just read. Firstly, keeping your hand in your pants is hardly an alpha trait, reading or not, simply unsanitary. Saying no to bad sex or any sex if you have other priorities is a part of enforcing boundaries. Dealing with hormonal roller coaster is a part of dealing with women. If you don't like it, you can switch to men, as others pointed out.
/r/askMRP24/05/24 07:56 PM
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If the issue is the schedule, then you'll need to find a way to succinctly summarize the schedule contention and how it's reasonable for all parties. For example, in another comment here you mentioned "me time" but not "him time," just saying... If the issue is that you want him to do something differently, it's a whole different story. What do you actually want that doesn't start with "I want him to...."?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/24 06:47 PM
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For me personally, there isn't a single friend I discuss every single detail with. Instead, there are friends for themes. There's one with whom we're comfortable enough to discuss our wives, there's another more suited for talks about lifting and rant about injuries accumulated with age, LoL, etc.
/r/askMRP11/05/24 11:25 PM
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This is true and matches my experience as well. Embracing the "secure with yourself" mindset helps handle everything easier. One question I have is how does this iterate with time? I'm in my early forties right now and while I still look jacked (visible muscles and vascularity), there's only so much you can objectively do against time when it comes to plates you spin. What would be some good examples?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/24 06:30 PM
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I came quite close to a similar situation a couple of years ago, but things improved since then. A couple of things I can say. First, you're doing great with work, gym, and being a present father. What's missing is your overarching goal or mission. What is it that's more important that your relationship with this woman? Second, don't make any sharp moves when you're under stress and not in the right headspace. Let the dust settle first. Finally, you have to accept any outcome. Until you're fully…
/r/askMRP11/03/24 05:18 PM
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Seconding this comment as a former metal band frontman turned a tech exec.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 06:01 PM
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I'm curious what qualities you find attractive or not. For example, if you find being physically fit attractive, and the men you meet aren't fit, then I'd question their leadership qualities, because leadership to me starts with setting your own life, body, and mind in order. Or on the other hand, do you find height below 6ft or thinning hair unattractive? Those things they don't have control over.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 04:52 PM
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That I agree with. Unless one of the three A's pops up.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 12:18 AM
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What do you think yourself? What kind of father can he be if he can't control his impulses and compulsively watches porn? Kids bring quite a bit of chaos into life, what other impulses will there be as they grow up?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 12:05 AM
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Something that helps me in the moment, both in my personal and professional life is remembering a question: "If I win this argument, what exactly am I winning?"
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 08:08 PM
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I would do this at a suitable moment early on for two reasons. One, honesty sets a good foundation for trust in a relationship. Two, if in his mind your prior experience makes you two incompatible, you'd probably also want to learn this fact about him early on.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 11:33 PM
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From a man's perspective, the way you wrote it is the way I'd appreciate hearing this info: short, factual, to the point, highlighting it's sensitive to you and that you learned a lot since then.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 05:56 PM
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Only in one of those things you're called a husband and a wife ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/24 02:50 PM
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Do you want sex with her? If yes, how often do you initiate? You might be surprised how often you'll get sex by simply asking for it.
/r/askMRP17/12/23 07:31 PM
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Being fiscally responsible is a part of being responsible 😉
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/23 03:31 PM
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I find my family similar and different at the same time. No one smokes weed or spends weekends watching TV, but my wife's an engineer first, then a mom and then perhaps a wife. Just like OP I'd like any pointers on dealing with "chicks with an overinflated sense of masculine worth"
/r/askMRP10/12/23 12:58 PM
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I hear you man, dealing with some shit of mine too. Sometimes it takes a crisis to kick off reflexion and re-evaluation. What's your mission? What do you need to do to get there - those are your needs and your backlog of things to go through. Turn your anger and rage into drive to get where you want to be as a man.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 12:17 PM
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Yeah, that's a good question: what does enough money mean? I guess being in the top 5% by employment income in the country is enough to pay the mortgage, save for retirement, and feed a family. I won't be able to pay for a private school on top of that. I own it. Working on it. The recession in tech sector doesn't help. She is a principal engineer, a ste or two above a dev lead. And I'm an executive, her problems are real, because they're a scaling company. From the abundance mindset though, eve…
/r/askMRP09/11/23 07:06 PM
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Will there be a chance to meet a man you're looking to attract at school? That's an important but sometimes overlooked consideration.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:29 PM
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Yeah, that's the problem there: I spend quite a bit of time with my gym buddies. It's fun, social, without her, but not particularly new... Gotta think more here, thanks!
/r/askMRP09/11/23 05:16 PM
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Right on man! This is why I literally ask for pointers as someone who's just been a nice guy for a long time. Like, what did you talk about or what activity did you do with your wife in the last couple of evenings, besides sex?
/r/askMRP09/11/23 03:15 PM
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In and out in under 90 minutes. It's hard but so is being a man in general 💪
/r/askMRP09/11/23 03:12 PM
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How to implement microservices at an early stage company is far from chitchat about nonsense. In fact it's a pretty involved high-context technical conversation. I'd love a chitchat if she was actually "and then she was like, and then I was like."
/r/askMRP09/11/23 10:05 AM
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Where's the line between encouragement and a career coach? Asking about implementing certain solutions as a microservice at a tech startup is far from chitchat. And I have two problems with giving guidance here: One, making her a better engineer is taking her further away from making her a better wife or mother. Two, I do this shit for work, so at home I need a different topic. Chitchat.
/r/askMRP09/11/23 10:03 AM
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Similarly to the other comment, I'm sorting my shit myself, so take my two cents with a grain of salt. This is what helped me a lot. Whenever this shit happens, I imagine myself being a single dad. It's tough, but so is being a man in general. So you don't spend time arguing with her. You don't even assume she will do anything for the family. Do everything yourself, pack the kids, get into the car, entertain them. P.S. bonus points it strengthens your outcome independence: if you divorce, you're…
/r/askMRP30/10/23 02:55 PM
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If your liberal mindset "remnants" cause sadness when he makes jokes, there are two questions you should ask yourself. Are those really remnants or are they your true beliefs you simply repress? Are you and your partner compatible in the long run? There's a fine line between seeping comments into other aspects of your life and ultimately disrespecting you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 10:49 AM
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In addition to other comments around the purpose and getting your life in order, getting T checked and dialing in the diet and sleep (which affects T levels big time), how's your social media and internet use in general, including porn and masturbation? There's no magic pill here, man, first comes your mission, then comes your lifestyle to power your progress on this mission.
/r/askMRP02/10/23 03:48 PM
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You're in med school, his parents are doctors, so you're just one generation away from catching up! I wouldn't look at it as a huge gap. If it matters for him, well, he should make a decision, because there's nothing you can do besides doing what you and your parents are already doing, which is working hard.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 11:50 PM
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Any IT project and product management is largely working with people. Tons of women in this area with degrees in what's usually called Information Systems Management. There's not much detail in the OP's post, but could this be a middle ground?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 01:07 AM
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As a man, albeit older, married and with kids, I can definitely confirm, this is how I would talk if I was serious about marriage and kids, basically, ASAP. When you think about securing a man like that, I would focus more on the alignment than specific vocabulary, though. He's got an objective of having a family and kids, specific and time-bound. You want kids, but can't specify when - not an objective, just aspirations. That's totally fine! But it's also a misalignment for him. So don't stress…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/23 11:16 PM
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uncontrollable So their agenda is to control women or am I missing something?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 06:20 PM
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