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It’s not okay. Sure, as some have said, she is referring to the energy and not his dick. But she’s referring to all small dicks in a derogatory manner. That’s half the men in the world being body shamed by her, and everyone applauding. It’s sad.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 05:51 AM
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I appreciate the comment and definitely won’t. There’s certainly things I miss, but I can find them elsewhere in a more stable person. Until then I’ll focus on myself, and handling other dates and plates.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 05:16 AM
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Ya you definitely handled it well. My experience is similar. We had a brief talk when my exgirl told me she didn’t want to see me anymore and then I left. Didn’t ask why or hit her up later to see. She called me a week later to check in and told me to cancel a subscription she was paying for me. I said I’d cancel it and I told her to not reach out again. I refused her offer of friendship, I’m not a safety net. About a month later she saw me at a bar dancing with a girl. This girl was all over me…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:50 PM
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Yup, sounds familiar. I’m really glad to have found your post because it definitely puts things in perspective. My ex set the bait with incredible sex (like you said, nothing was off the table), taking me out for meals and spoiling me. It’s been a while, but last few days I was reminiscing and thinking about what went wrong (poof she just disappeared one day, and I since went no contact and disregarded my urge for closure or understanding). I was debating on reaching out to her because I’m trans…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:34 PM
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Can someone fill me in on why BPD women create dependency and are “like hard drugs” to trp guys? Also, do you know for a fact she is BPD? Legit reminds me of my last relationship.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:12 PM
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Fantastic post. Concise and hitting the good points.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 08:50 PM
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Good stuff, and I don’t agree with the hating women aspect either. That’s derived more fron people with the frustration with struggle than it is with the actual “red pill” thought in my mind. This way of thinking is amoral and isn’t stigmatizing a certain sex. It is simply developing the best strategy to do well in whatever interpersonal relationships you have. Btw, in your current predicament your last paragraph is key. Be the best version of yourself with or without her, and focus on your main…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 07:12 PM
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Not true. Lots of girls like the chase, and if they think they got you early on that you weren’t a challenge enough. It’s all in a good push pull balance where indirect leaves them guessing as what exactly your intentions and thus the direction of the night is going. Allows for their still to be mystery as well. It’s a more nuanced approach typically. Direct does have its moments of being the top play tho.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 08:30 PM
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Ya she keeps ghosting you because she’s making plans with her top guy. You have been demoted, and you didn’t help yourself by allowing her to reschedule more than once after the first time it’s just plain disrespectful
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:11 PM
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The cliche is “leave now” but honestly in this case I believe it is justified. The relationship has grown toxic and it’s impossible to reset relationships. Lesson learned and setting boundaries and cutting out toxicity before it grows.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:51 PM
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I think minimal investment sex is the vast majority of sex in general, especially for this group of people. It shouldn’t be that awkward, sure maybe a bit weird at times especially if she’s a good girl and not used to it, but lead her emotions and keep it silly and aloof. I mean there may not be lust, but it should still have a friendly vibe.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:52 PM
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The only constant after different lays is you. If YOU are having this issue/trend with multiple different females, it’s obvious what the common denominator is. Just don’t be awkward and keep up the aloof attitude.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:56 PM
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One thing is that she isn’t always leaving for the higher value man. It could be that her biological clock so ticking and the higher value man is unable to commit so she is downgrading to the more consistent BB.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 02:59 PM
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Don’t talk much about girls to them. They have to know about this girl from you in order to prank you with her. Just don’t talk to them about girls anymore, but keep your social circle strong. definitely don’t trust everyone with knowledge of your female efforts.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:31 PM
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Agree and amplify or you will set up an non-explicit ultimatum where she feels she needs to prove herself if you act cocky. “Oh trust me I can tell, I’m a bit of a celibate myself.” Smile, shift convo.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:52 PM
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Ya I guess that makes sense.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:40 PM
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Interest doesn’t necessarily equate to power but I guess I can see what you are saying. From my thoughts if a girl treats you like shit then she doesn’t respect you and doesn’t want your genetic material. But if you can pull it off and enjoy it then that’s all that matters.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:38 PM
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Just being taken advantage of with the woman being in the position of power. It’s definitely in that field imo.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:33 PM
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Sounds like you have a cuckold fetish to me
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:30 PM
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Next. Too much problems/drama way too soon. You shouldn’t have to worry about individual girls on dating apps.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:56 PM
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It’s assault.
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:15 PM
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It’s a gradual change. Looks pull them in, game and personality keep them. Physically, you should lift 30-60 minutes a day 3-6 days a week. 10-15% bodyfat is optimal. Can’t even really tell until the shirt comes off.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 07:39 PM
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Should have told her you were a virgin before and laughed. Don’t answer her questions straight up, don’t play her game, don’t enter her frame.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 07:16 PM
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Straight to the point, something a lot of posts and comments lack. Brevity is the soul of wit. Good post.
/r/seduction12/12/19 12:41 AM
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She already said yes to the date, so getting laid is for you to lose. With that attitude, which couldn’t be more off, you shouldn’t even go. You got the date, youre gonna get the lay... this is the proper thought. But if you don’t, you’ve advanced the ball for a close on date 2. Outcome independence. Just chat like a normal person, talk about all sorts of stuff and for the love of god don’t over think it. It’s one random girl, one random day. In a month it’ll be a distant memory. If you mess up,…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:33 PM
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I’ve always seeded the pull by asking what their favorite Tv shows are early in as a convo piece, and then discussing one that we have a common interest in or whatever, and then towards the end of the date bringing it up again to pull. Never heard of the term though, but I seriously like those terms. I can definitely attest to the efficiency of “seeding the pull” though.
/r/seduction02/12/19 03:56 AM
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It’s not about not giving a fuck. It’s about giving the right fucks.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 08:21 PM
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As someone who literally makes hundreds of phone calls a day (10s of thousands of calls in my life), I text girls for logistics. If you call, you come off a bit odd. The social norm is to text if an issue isn’t pressing, in business, in social life, in anything. Texting is the email of our phone. It insinuates to reply when you have time. It’s considerate and normal. Calling is forced. It’s unnecessary, and unless you are really good at it you have tons of room for error and confusion. Obviously…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 05:21 PM
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The “it’s just your turn” has a whole different meaning when you bring LTRs into the mix. But glad to hear about your success and application of principles
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:06 PM
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So what’s the point of the novel then man? Lol
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 06:27 PM
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What if I were to tell you, that even the casual guy doesn’t see the real girl. She is still presenting herself to him, though more honestly. All the world is a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 06:17 PM
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Some women are shallow and boring, but so are some guys. Sort through the lame ones quickly. I went on four dates in a row where the girls all had at least a masters degree. I didn’t even do that intentionally, it’s just those type of girls intrigue me I guess. They all had passions and missions of their own. They were all fit and very interesting in their own way. It’s like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get until you open them up.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:39 PM
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Consistency is key. You got this
/r/askTRP21/04/19 07:25 AM
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Invite her over dude. Don’t complicate simple stuff.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:07 PM
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Pretty simple man. Make a move.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:06 PM
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Try to schedule a date with a different girl. If you get a date and then she gives you a time, tell her you can’t anymore. She will learn to jump at the chance eventually. Abundance.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:05 PM
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Angrypicnic and that was epic on YouTube
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:02 AM
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Ehh, that was a rollercoaster of a post. You came off pretty needy. I have noticed that the less you talk about the inner working of a relationship (be it LTR, fwb, plates) the better. I would have acknowledged, but not showed emotion like you did - maybe like a “hmm well that’s interesting” and leave it at that. Let that little hamster she has run. But now you have a better understanding of the situation. She had essentially demoted herself to you and you can reprioritize other girls before her…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:13 PM
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Well it’s obviously an interesting situation considering the power dynamic that is baked into a employer/employee relationship. In my particular case I knew I was a hard worker, highly professional, and respectful. I was failing to get respect back in this case. But I was calm and interested in the situation, but had self respect and knew the probation wasn’t warranted and was a strong arm tactic. I was obviously pissed in the moment and contemplating quitting (wouldn’t make the decision quickly…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:08 AM
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Had a similar situation a year or two ago. Was the hardest worker in the company (highest amount of daily calls in medical sales) and they called me in at 6 months for review. Put me on probation. Worst part is the misspelled my last name on the form. I was pissed, but I kept frame. Asked lots of probing questions and showed legitimate concern. Went back to my desk and thought about it for a few minutes, honestly feeling insulted. Went back to my manager 10 or so minutes after the meeting and as…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 03:45 AM
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How to win friend and influence people by dale Carnegie. Timeless and frankly the best.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:46 AM
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I wouldn’t fuck a hooker. Let it happen naturally man. A hooker makes you lose the title “virgin” but you literally didn’t earn the title, and this could further/maintain your mentality of inferiority. What needs to happen is the dam needs to break. You need to bang a girl and earn it. You need to know you did it, find a way that works for you to get it, and keep using that system and it will perpetuate becoming easier and easier But before you find that success, The number one thing that your s…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:22 PM
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Best way to get over it? Hit on 10 girls irl (get 1-2 numbers or more), swipe on bumble in 10 mile radius of you, and swipe limit on tinder for a week. At the end of this exercise you’ll be thinking “what girl?”
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:05 PM
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Not a bit, I just didn’t know what he was talking about and tried brining some humor to the post. Should have known better I guess.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:46 AM
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You need some tissues to cry into bro? It’s a funny quote, I wouldn’t take it too seriously. Where did I claim that? Breath deep man, didn’t mean to upset anyone.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:45 AM
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At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this sub is now dumber for having read it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul. I.e. what did I “claim I did”?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 12:15 AM
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This is fantastic advice. Especially the last paragraph for 80% of meaningless disappointments. It helps you move on and keep eyes to the future.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 06:14 PM
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No ultimatum, no nothing. Just ghost her and let the bridges burn and cards fall where they may. On to the next one.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 11:19 PM
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Sex by nature can be a medium through which you can build a connection of sorts. Maybe not the type that ultimately ends in a relationship, but learning the others body, mind, and quirks...they become dependent on you for the sensations you make them feel. Much of this is mental.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:59 PM
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Girls can be sneaky and tricky. There is only one sure fire way and you already know it. Move on. Abundance.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:57 PM
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Came here to post this. Already posted so thumbs up. You teach people how to treat you.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:25 PM
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Good stuff man. Makes sense. Good A&A as well
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:05 PM
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Good insight. So they leave and find the commitment... but still come back for the dope dick?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:52 AM
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It doesnt make them more promiscuous, but the type of girl who is willing to dabble there is more willing to dabble elsewhere. Simply put - they were like that before.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:48 PM
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Yea, maybe she’s riding other cocks but if you bang her the best she will feel this way towards you. This is he perfect example of the first rule of relationships: The one who cares the least/ needs the other the least has the power in the relationship. AKA: the less fucks you give, the more fucks you get.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:09 PM
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Number 1 tip I can give: Converse with everyone. Man OR woman, it doesn’t matter. It will be practice for the convos that really matter and put you in a state of flow.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:43 PM
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She is withdrawing from you and potentially preparing for a break up. I went through something very similar around 6 months ago. Hindsight is 20/20 and I didn’t see the break up coming even through the red flags and her withdrawing. What I would recommend is to withdraw as well. Don’t go to her. She needs to meet halfway at least. Knowing the first rule of relationships: “the person who needs the other the most has he weaker position in the relationship”... I wouldn’t argue with her anymore, but…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 10:51 PM
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Fantastic man! You’re 1 for 1!!! Keep it up bro
/r/seduction17/11/18 01:51 AM
3

Good stuff, you keep putting in the effort and talking to the amount of people you are the results will come. Yes lives in the land of no. Each “no” you get past is one closer to the next “yes”.
/r/seduction05/11/18 01:42 AM
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It’s a self fulfilling prophecy. If you think their is hope, and act on it, then there is. If you think all is lost and give up, then you are right too. Abundance is out there, but you can’t climb to the top with your hands in your pockets.
/r/seduction05/11/18 12:10 AM
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Fantastic man! “Yes lives in the land of no” Each night you fail is one closer to the next success. Mad props to you.
/r/seduction04/11/18 12:04 AM
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It is easy, but you have to have the right mentality. Anyone in sales knows there is a pipeline aomewhat like this rough one I just came up with: Haven’t Mets —> Mets (cold leads) —> warm leads -(big conversion rate here)-> first dates -(another big conversion rate)-> f close. You need to constantly be putting people in your pipeline, and there will be a decreasing number of girls that make it through (both through your vetting process and also by hers). As long as you keep putting girls into th…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:05 AM
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Oh absolutely. I wouldn’t mess with coworkers, but I’m not sure I’d get super sprung for them either. Abundance mentality brother. It’s pretty much a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:05 AM
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Well in that case I’d go up to them and ask them out or chum it up. How do you get oneitis if you have many even hung out with them or talked?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:59 AM
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Yea bro, had a similar issue in college. Keep your side fucking spotless. Any time something of his is on your side, kick it to his side with blatant disregard. Clothes, backpack, schoolbooks, whatever. He will learn you have 0 tolerance for his shit encroaching your side. The centerline of that room should be a fuckin boarder between 2 warring countries. I wouldn’t discuss it with him, but I would show him I’m not messing around. This works best if your side is pristine. I’d walk in, drop my ba…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:56 AM
2

I wouldn’t say shit. Play it off like you didn’t notice. Soft next her, and in all likelihood it may be over. If you bring it up or act needy I think it increases he chances of it being over.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:47 AM
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Is it one at a time? If you start getting feelings for a girl, go on 2 more first dates before another second date with her. Mix it up and keep your pipeline full.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:46 AM
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Do you physically initiate? Have you kissed? I purposely invite girls back to my place on the first date so that it is as obvious as possible of what my intentions are. I will not fall into the friend zone, and I will take her back to my place if she is willing (typically they do) or fail trying to. At the very least a kiss can do the same thing. It says “I’m not trying to be your friend, this is more” without getting mushy and showing weakness. I try to never tell girls my feelings, and I don’t…
/r/seduction17/10/18 02:45 AM
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It’s a vicious cycle. But it’s a game society has created and we are all forced to play. All you can do is game hard and ensure you are on the right side of it, and not the one with a sloot for a gf.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:36 AM
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Good stuff broski
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:04 AM
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Guess you’re going to have to fuck your way to the top.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:03 AM
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AA (agree and amplify) or ignore. “Yea, I wasn’t too keen on having sex either.” Watch her hamster scurry wondering if she was good enough. Or just totally disregard it.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 01:00 AM
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It’s the sniper rifle versus the shotgun. Abundance mentality and realizing it’s all a funnel with conversion rates at each stage. Sniper: Too much focus on one target scares them off. You haven’t appeared aloof enough, for example you could say: “I’ll be at Starbucks this morning getting some homework done, feel free to join.” Your mission is first and she can be a compliment if she wants. If not next. Don’t overly pursue her. Shotgun: text 10 cute girls and ask them out on a coffee date or eve…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:49 PM
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I personally just ignore them most of the time, after a fun and relaxed first date and the absolute most intense sex I can muster. Its not hard because my job requires a lot of attention throughout the day so they just end up being the ones that text more. Keep it light and airy, and don’t text much unless it’s to make plans. Then just make plans with them like a week or so later. After 3/4 dates they understand what the deal is, and they see that we go out for a few drinks and we fuck. Sometime…
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:33 PM
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“We all” lol.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:30 PM
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Done
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:29 PM
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My sincere satisfaction with life begins by having a standard with those I continuously socialize with. If the gf in this case was disrespecting for the approval of others, more is to come. If it was an odd joke, it could be benign. Either way a mindset of abundance will help put this is perspective. Your desire to soothsay is laughable man. You try so hard to be intuitive over an anonymous forum. Keep up the comedy act.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:21 PM
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No, it’s an exercise in battling obvious oneitis. If you are sprung enough to put up with a girl who disrespects you in front of your friends, there are other bigger hurdles down the road. I do appreciate you jumping to a wild and baseless claim on my game and courting style. Gave me a good chuckle.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:51 PM
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Probably should drop her
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:30 PM
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Well done. The story it’s self and the telling of it. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 11:03 PM
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You are doing just fine man. Lots of back and forth. You are going to college though, you obviously have oneitis for the girl and college should be the time in your life where you play hide the salami with All sorts of beauties and really test yourself. You are obviously caught up with her. You should not drive from Tyler to Austin in my opinion. 3-4 hours each way... for what?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:40 PM
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Disregard, act aloof, even act like you forgot who she was. You are new person now after all, right?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:25 AM
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It may boost you to a certain extent if your SMV is very low. But there is a threshold - after about 8/10, tattoos may actually be a detriment. There very few top players in the world with tattoos other than celebrities who do it only to strengthen their brand.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:29 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience here. Helps to read.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 02:10 AM
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I think the lead up was good, it’s all practice and the more you do it, even without the close, the better and more knowledgeable you get. Obviously the one key take away you should have taken from this is “fail to prepare, prepare to fail”. Not having a condom, or having scoped out a place to bang have the same root issue, lack of preparation. Next time find a stairwell, alleyway, other place hidden from public eye, but still in public, for a place to get a quickly in and also make her remember…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 06:13 PM
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Not sure what you are getting at. Do you not date girls who have dated before??? Must be a small pool to choose from. If what young were getting at was referring to anal sex, then I totally misunderstood you and count me in.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:46 AM
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Went to his house and drank, car pooled to class 4 days a week, hung out at each other house and chilled - for a semester or so
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:32 PM
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First off I don’t know who broke up with who. For all I know he is still pining away for her, and I’m just a bro trying to hollar at hotties. I think you read too much into this haha.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:14 PM
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The bar scene in my town is very condensed, really only 4 top bars. Big name playing at the local venue as well.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:38 PM
-2

Also, been talking to a pretty cool girl who is an operation nurse and very sexy. Should I tell her about running into my ex to incite dread? Or is that more like I’m letting her know type thing? Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:16 PM
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Hah that’s superb. Hindsight is 20/20. This girl was naked in my bed, I’m elbow deep and she says the shit to me... I just said, “is it the same for you?” “Yes” “Ok then, thanks for sharing” It came off a lot like an agreement and I instantly knew there were probably better things to say, but you know... I was thinking about some other things.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:15 PM
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While a lot of what you say is true I think the difference is this: A women can go into a bar and easily find someone to sleep with. Men are always green light for sex, where women are the selective gender (as long as the girl is attractive). Women can get a partner at anytime. Not so with males, they must game and display value. So it is in higher regards when a man gets an attractive woman. Think about it like this... -A lion takes down another top tier gazelle which displays his power, streng…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 07:27 PM
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I mean it’s not over? Did I miss something? Yea you should have gone in for the k-close but this is no mortal wound. It’s just one girl anyway. Initiate next time you are with her and either way you will know where her head is at and you can either move on or gain a slam piece. Lots of girls don’t want to fuck immediately, but some do. Typically I wouldn’t take a girl who fucks quickly too seriously. A failure is not a final failure until you give up.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 07:59 PM
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This is one of the weirdest and most pointless posts I’ve read on asktrp in a while. Putting that aside... Don’t let girls know you are in a relationship. Don’t answer definitively either way. Take her number next time. I’ve been in your situation and it never became a problem when she doesn’t have anything to get all weird about. Keep that’s stuff on the DL and just be fun and go with the flow.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:28 PM
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As long as there is a healthy work/play balance you are good. Earn your playtime by being productive for a few hours (gym, work, study, run, read, learn something, etc).
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:33 PM
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Weights are great for fat loss, and rather than doing an “x” mile loop every day, you see your lifts increase and it becomes addicting. You won’t make excuses and you will want to see more improvement in your strength and the bigger weights you grab for certain lifts. It adds the fun factor. Plus the more muscle, the more calories you need for maintenance. Not to say you shouldn’t stop cardio, I would keep that up as well. DIET! Look into keto, cut carbs as they are easy to exclude and not neede…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:40 PM
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It depends on the stage of game. Early stage, such as the initial approach. Looks are 100% of your SMV until you open your mouth. Your facial and body structure, fitness, swagger, nonverbal communication all fall into looks and are the first thing she sees about you. As you you progress through the stages of game, looks become less and less important, until they settle, just this side of meaningless. Looks are the bait that gets you in the door, everything else is what keeps you there.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:32 PM
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Amen. That is probably the number 1 red pill scene in the movie, but there are many. Well said mr ed.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 11:46 PM
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Scarface
/r/askTRP29/04/18 02:14 PM
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Yea I’m going to go ahead and say that this never happened.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 05:25 PM
5

I think OPs interpretation is correct. Friends have incredible influence on the subject female. You are playing it correctly.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 07:32 PM
1

You said it yourself. Those places are legendary because they are so rare and so are good workout partners.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:32 PM
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If you aren’t working out alone, you aren’t setting the pace, and you aren’t getting out of it what you could in the same amount if time. It’s like forming a study group. 90% if the time is all bullshitting and a social club. You want to get shit done, do it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 01:45 AM
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“ wow that’s a wild story, that really happened? Wow!” “Wow man, that’s just TOO cool!” “Woah, I didn’t know stuff like that happened in real life!?” Then turn to a girl you are working on or a bro and give them a micro expression of humor.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:48 PM
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Power dynamics change, and others often aren’t as savvy to discovering them as conscious observers. Let his newness wear off (he sounds like he’s annoying as fuck) and let things shake down a bit. I would say ambiguous shit after his stories to make him doubt if I am questioning his honesty or just being overly nice. Others may pick up on it if you follow with a sly smile. But I would wait for his new shine to wear off a bit.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:44 PM
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That’s what I was thinking. Like we have messaged back and forth (through bumble and text) maybe a total of 20 messages. Sounds to me like she’s horny, but I wanted to see what others thought.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 03:14 AM
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What’s A and A
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:56 PM
1

Well of course I want to fuck. I was just trying to get varying angle to hone my game.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:27 PM
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Go no contact, don’t ever see her or talk to her again. She’s despicable for even suggesting that, if you had even a remotely normal relationship. Cut her off completely and move on, it’s hard but don’t ever left anyone get the best of you.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:27 AM
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What’s the point?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:22 PM
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Recently got out of a 5 year LTR. Monk mode during the first few weeks was key for me and large emphasis on self improvement should be priority 1. Monk mode helped my emotions in the first few weeks, but if you are already healed there is no need, focus on improving. These things can be done at the same time. Get out there as much as possible and learn! Gaming is a skill, unlike riding a bike it can fade, and thus practice is key. Get out there! Practice, lift, keto, improve!
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:01 PM
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When a set power dynamic is involved, context matters even more. How important is this job? Is this habit, or a bad day in the bosses life? Could it be brought up, lightly, during an employee review?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 03:33 PM
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It appears you have an issue you with reading comprehension. I never said obama was a beta, I simply pointed out a beta attribute in a comparative analysis. I’m not going to teach you of the difference in foreign policy, but Obama’s famous “line in the sand” ultimatum was trespassed several times, with no repercussions. We all have read about ultimatums, haven’t we?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 03:11 PM
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Of course he is an alpha. Write out a list of attributes that one must possess to rise to such power and status. Decisive, resilient to others opinion (media), spins plates while married to a supermodel, not scared to bomb Syria one month in office when obama was too beta, aggressive with North Korea, puts competition in their place during the campaign... regardless of political stance, I’m surprised this is even a real question.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:09 AM
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I too have a propensity to anger quickly if the right stimulus is in front of me. I have made errors in front of prospects, and have learned a bit. Like all things, context matters. Typical road rage is probably not wise in front of a female prospect. It is easy to become frustrated with idiots, I am guilty of getting angry, but control and calculated decisions in situations similar are much more impressive. A man trying to demote you in situational status should be called out and possibly recti…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:01 AM
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Read the one thing. It’s about Big goals and breaking them down into daily goals that’s are pieces to the whole. Written by the owner of Keller Williams.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 04:56 PM
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What happened to you in a crisis. It is very similar to a divorce or a serious break up. This crisis has shaken your frame and made you see things in a new light. That’s is a GOOD thing. For rapid change and improvement are rarely easy to handle. The discomfort shows you are human and have emotion. Having gone through a similar circumstance recently, I would recommend monk mode, which I get the feeling you are in. Examine yourself. What are your goals. Where do you want to be in 1,5,10 years. No…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 12:44 AM
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Similar, just got out of a 6 year relationship. Test mainly for logistic it essentials like if she has a bday. The thing is don’t make her feel too special.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:33 AM
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Just got out of a 6 year. It’s rough, but rapid change and improvement often is uncomfortable. I would suggest cutting her off completely, meat clever that attachment. Who cares what she thinks. Your life is about you. Go monk mode and evaluate the errors you had made. Really examine who you are and what you want to get out of life. Develop a mission for you. Make goals. You will reach a point where you have exhausted self reflection. It’s time to game at that point. I noticed I was a bit rusty,…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:53 PM
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When you guys break up you will eternally regret not jumping at this chance.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 02:44 AM
20

A tight moist feeling around a finger or two.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:11 PM
3

Orbiter status. What’s he point of female friends anyways?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 02:43 AM
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You lost me at tapping her electronics. That is bizarre, an invasion of privacy, and frankly immature and insecure.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 03:43 AM
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Great post. Interesting the parallels brought forth regarding Carrey being overly needy of a friend, and Kovach/BPs being too needy of the ex.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 03:14 AM
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This post seems to be nothing more than assumptions and pontification. If you look at trends and facts, you will see that women are actually having their first children around their mid 20s. Lots out of wedlock, and this seems young considering your narrative. The ones that typically wait a bit longer are more stable and able to raise their child in a more structured home. You have placed undue emphasis on the genetic aspect and not enough of the nurturing and socialization of a child. Typically…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 02:52 PM
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