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Op doesn't enjoy someone telling him what to do. So he jumps on a public forum asking hundreds of men what to do about one of the most important decisions in life.
/r/askMRP29/01/21 04:05 AM
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Well that escalated quickly... ​ ​
/r/askMRP07/11/18 01:00 AM
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You are a champion! thanks
/r/askMRP07/11/18 12:41 AM
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I want my potential. I want to see what I can do. Great reminder to focus on your best, you don't have to be the best, you just need to be the best version of your self.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/18 05:06 AM
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Protip. Always look over their shoulder in the direction you want to go, instead of at them. Try it and then let me know.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 03:42 AM
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Listening.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 03:25 AM
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This whole thread makes me sigh... I'm struggling trying to get a few ideas off the ground... Working full time, 2 kids, But the only thing that brings in the money atm is the job...
/r/askMRP06/03/18 11:46 PM
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Doesn't matter. Sounds complicated. Must be correct.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 06:04 AM
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What's your mission bud? Focus on that and don't (ever) make sex the mission. Imagining myself in your situation, sex would be the last thing on my mind. Rather than that, it'd be my mission- continue with life, career, workout, hobby, but help nurture her behavior so that she gets back on track with life. Kino would naturally occur from physically comforting her but not intended to have sex with her. In other words, she should want to have sex, not be forced to have sex through pity. The other …
/r/askMRP10/11/17 12:02 AM
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Similarly, applies to setting multiple goals and to-do items. Focus on a limited number 1-3 at a time- those that aren't related to each other- and persist at those rather than come up with a goal list of 20 items only to achieve none.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:48 AM
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Hope this gives you your alpha sprinkling you so desire The answer for each man will be as unique as their fucking fingerprint.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:41 AM
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Here's another take. But note, different culture, strong family unit. Sex on demand - great sex on demand She initiates roughly as much as I do Someone to have sexy talk when ever I feel like Company- you're never alone Looks after the kids Meals are prepped when I get home. I haven't cooked in the last 8 years Looks after the family, relative social responsibilities so that I don't have to worry about the mundane (gift giving etc) Family is important to me (parents, siblings)- she makes a full …
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:38 AM
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Keep in mind to negate the importance of the end-result all together though. I'd weigh both the process and the result just as equally. Having a determination to achieve the end goal in it self helps with the process the process is the formation of habit, looping back, the habit, leads to success. Having said that, you're correct. The work it self must be rewarding. However, the work is not rewarding- at least not rewarding because we haven't been conditioned that way from when we are young. Del…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 06:39 AM
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I need to work on this. Shit. I've got a few friends I see very rarely, that's only an hour or so after work. They're not close friends by any means and doesn't even reflect a 'social life separate of family'. In a similar position as u/addictedtoyourface with work, family, starting up a business. Maybe I'm using this as an excuse for procastination, but I think as I progress with starting my business, easing out of my job, I'll naturally build a better social life as I won't be tied to the 9-5.…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 06:23 AM
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Sell other people's products and services for a cut. Do this with several deals simultaneously, and well, you can do the math here. Off topic. I'm literally starting a business based on this concept and this is the core activity. Relying on online markering so far, any tips or reading materials to help generate leads and finding prospects.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 11:32 PM
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This exactly.
/r/askMRP14/05/17 08:26 AM
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You want your wife to act like a whore though but only with you. There's negative connotations with the word, by you saying that, you're reinforcing the negativity. Meaning when it does come time to call her (either literal or practical) your little whore, it ain't gonna happen.
/r/askMRP14/05/17 08:26 AM
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Are you looking for the unicorn male? I've been pretty bad at making friend in my life. But that was my lack of social skills. I still don't have any 'good' friends, now it's because I can't relate to them. This will change shortly though. I think Key is to have a variety of mates that will compliment certain parts of my life, there won't ever be the one or two that fit the bill for all criteria.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 04:48 AM
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Open up several online accounts, you can get free ones, no fees to set up, and no running costs. The next step is important to automate. You need to set this up once then not have to manually do this afterwards. It's critical. Either set this yourself through your main account, or your employer should be able to do thiswhen paying you: Split your pay that goes into each account. Roughly as follows: 10%- fun account - you blow this money every month. No ifs, no buts. Spend it on nice luxuries, di…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 04:38 AM
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Well that escalated quickly.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 07:08 AM
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Incase this is a serious question. Use pc or view Web version.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/17 01:55 AM
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And if you really appreciate having her in yer life.... A matching bucket to go with it.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 07:37 AM
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Firstly, most men come here and experience what your experiencing in regards to fucking other women. I have been there, I'm still there. My solution is to not cheat. Instead, I'm working our relationship to eventually have other chick involved. If that doesn't work out I will probably end up having sex with other women anyway. The difference is I won't have regrets, and I won't be proactively hiding the fact. As for the leading, take baby steps. Start to handover accountabity towards her. Give h…
/r/askMRP04/05/17 07:55 AM
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You want her to act like your mummy. Because it's too hard being a leading man.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 11:49 PM
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One of our favorite shit tests is when I’m driving, she’ll look up from her phone long enough to complain about where I’m intending to park the car. I used to try to explain my reason for where I was parking, or move the car to the spot she to which she was pointing, but now I just smile and park the car where I think is best. I usually do the exact opposite of what she tells me in cases like parking, even if I was about to do what she's telling me to do anyway! Then i'll just say something like…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 04:56 AM
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Hows the taste? I went on smoothies for a little while, the spinach tastes like dirt, and the kale wasnt fine enough and felt too grainy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 10:59 PM
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Same. I tended to IF most of last year. I plan in doing the same this year, but more rigorous. Hypothesis is that it will assist with lean gains.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 10:56 PM
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Ok, so I've been fairly good with my calorie intake for my cut. I've had a fair few cheat meals amd days, which I'm not overly fussed about. But since I've got two weeks remaining on my cut, I'll clean that up too. My goal for till 30th is to eat exceptionally clean with one cheat meal per week, no more. I will increase my calorie intake by 100 in May and stay there for that month, while I allow my self one cheat day per week, the following month allowing an increase by another 100 calories per …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 10:49 PM
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Daily chin-ups. Currently doing 3-4 sets to make up 50, I will gradually reduce number of sets till I have 1 complete set. Similar to TFA's Men of March challenge. After doing 100 pushups daily, I got to 1 set of 60, which is a massive record for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/17 04:09 AM
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I'm sorta going along with 60DoD, although I set my goals slightly different. My only physical goal for the month will be achieve 1 set of 50 reps on no-cheat chin-ups by 30 April 2017. As a reminder to self: I'll add that I'll also be finishing my cut by 30 April 2017 to achieve Greek God status.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 12:06 AM
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Is it a mental block? Try adding one more rep to each set every day.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 05:02 AM
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Reflecting on the challenge so far: Pushups: From 100 to 120 per day Did 40-40-10 first day, yesterday did 46-46-30. March Goals: Goal 1 (5 approach related) - Not started yet! Goal 2 (Business related) - Working through, 10 percent in Goal 3 (New business related)- Slamming my head against the wall to try and get this done. Goal 4(1 set x 100 pushups)- which is to actually get 1 set of 100 pushups done by end of March, probably unrealistic but let's see. So far all the daily challenges have bee…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 04:55 AM
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And when you think about it, once you take the RP, there is no longer comfort. It all boils down to stepping outside your comfort zone, continously- for every aspect of your goal.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 01:44 AM
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Yes, good pickup, it does flow better.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 01:42 AM
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Going to slightly change it. Probably more relevant to me right now in the phase of my life I'm going thru: Easy is a lie, There is only struggle. Through struggle, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. I shall free me.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:47 AM
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Got kids? I wouldn't call yelling at him while banging on the door perfuriously in panic mode exactly trying to fix his mistake.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 02:07 AM
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Next up: How to prepare and put on clean fresh underwear. EDIT: the manly way
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 04:03 AM
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You just showed logic on your own post. A female would have slightly more trouble doing that. I'll tell you why. Emotion. My anxiety overpowered my sense of reason. The fact that you can take a birds eye view of your self and assess your self like that is validation of logic and rational thinking. If you were anything like me, you could just have been lazy and rationalised laziness over the need to study or attend classes. Secondly, application of logic and rationalised thinking doesn't imply co…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:01 AM
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Or you are intolerant to or allergic to certain foods (regards to digestive issues).
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 11:29 AM
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Genitals If her panties are drenched after meeting you then she probably likes you. Ok so just tried to verify this one on a day cold approach. Didn't work. Got arrested.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:53 AM
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Sounds more like mocking her. Not am. Not even sure why'd you use anything right now if you have 'the upper hand'.
/r/askMRP01/12/16 06:35 AM
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Had major surgery. She literally cleaned my arse and nursed me back over 2 weeks. Lost nearly half a mill thru bad business and I was putting 17 hours labour in. She stuck around to help and put the hard yards in herself. I Took nearly 7 months off work during beta blue days and became a grumpy grouch.. She kept working thru and dealing with the house keeping, while coping with the bitchy me. Not saying she's a special snowflake. But you get what you put in.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 02:13 AM
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Off topic, but this?? Last night I went for a run with a buddy. We came back to my place and shared a beer.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 10:47 AM
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I'm still trying to find a person who will actually listen. I know of no one. Colleagues, friends, relatives. No one truly listens. Everytime I converse I really see if they are listening, yet they aren't. No one. Not one person I've met. Everyone waits for you to stop your mouth before suddenly wanting to interject with their own thoughts. It's like we stop at a traffic light, they just wait anxiously for the light to turn green, and soon as it is, boom, they're off.... Amazing isn't it? No won…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/16 11:25 AM
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Like the use of capitals. Really subtle way to get your point across. My question to the op is, why is your wife that sick, so often?
/r/askMRP04/11/16 10:53 AM
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On second thought, not sure if you can call my reason self improvement...
/r/askMRP03/11/16 11:10 AM
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I found it.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 11:09 AM
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Bit like spanking her during sex. It's more fun when she doesn't ask for it.
/r/askMRP04/10/16 10:21 PM
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Exactly how you describe (basic model), but I deload in 4th week. I hit the big lifts one day a week only, except bench which I do 2 sets of 2-3reps as additional on another 1-2 days too. I find that's helped me quite a bit in not plateauing on my bench as it is my weakest. Each workout I'll combine with a combination of push-pull, pyramid and supersets for accessory work, not exactly how you described though but fairly close to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 01:05 AM
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Excellent post. I followed the exact same principles this year. 5x5, the supplementing that with some ppl. Moved to 531 now supplementing that with a somewhat ppl. Looking back I could have gone longer periods on each variation but so far it's worked well. Will be moving onto just adding reps toy 531 and ppl while keeping to my newly discovered strength gains.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 12:41 AM
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My team member asked me yesterday if I argue with my wife. I told her I couldn't remember the last time we did. I know why we don't argue much anymore. But I think this is one way to sum it up: Smirk at yourself, laugh at her, because it's all bullshit any ways. But kudos for the awesome post u/reddjive, I'll be saving this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 11:05 PM
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Why wouldn't it be? You reckon you can give kids quality time with poor health? My workouts come before everything. Everything. If anything you probably use your kids an excuse to procrastinate. Hey that's ok though bud, I do that when it comes to starting my own business.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 05:20 AM
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It is what it is... She'll do whatever she needs to do to secure a beta bitch
/r/askMRP31/08/16 10:41 PM
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She either likes you a lot, or she is disgusted by you. She likes you: plays the nice girl, has her slut shields in full swing. Solution: bring the inner slut out of her. Start using sex talk, be more flirty, start ramping up the dirty talk, use fantasy amd get her to imagine her giving you a bj, be overt in your sexual needs. She's disgusted by you: work on yourself. Lift, keep busy, start holding frame. You're not doing this to win her respect, you're doing this to be a better man, for yoursel…
/r/askMRP31/08/16 01:24 AM
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He's waiting for a specific sequence of passcodes before he gets it. Wife literally could have said, let's go have sex on the massage table right now, guaranteed op would have still been confused.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 11:59 PM
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Funny isn't it? This is the only sub that has users comming in here and getting the most shit kicked out of them... yet here we are...
/r/askMRP30/08/16 11:56 PM
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Good on you dude. I was in a similar boat, married 8 years, sex was always there and quality was good too. Red pill though just gave me more awareness, like some sort of extra power, and the sex quality shot thru the roof.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 11:45 PM
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I agree. I forced my self to read this post, amd kept getting lost.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 11:40 PM
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Then that's not on you to fix is it? You could sticky tape her mouth shut... My wife has not exercised this pregnancy, I've asked her to do it, I've encouraged her to do it, I'm not going to force her to do it, cos I can't. Her body, her issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 04:14 AM
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No I haven't yet. Buts it's on the radar, thanks for the suggestions.
/r/RedPillWorkplace29/08/16 04:57 AM
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He's pissed off. He's asked her several times to communicate directly with my team member. He knows my team member is doing all the right things. My boss, thankfully, is very good, not Rp, but he's process orientated at least and wants to make things work, it's one reason I took on this role.
/r/RedPillWorkplace29/08/16 02:14 AM
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We're located in a smaller interstate office, most of the departments and staff are located at the headoffice. So although this is a bit hard to do, it's still a very good point you've made.
/r/RedPillWorkplace29/08/16 02:11 AM
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Are there any practical examples or books you would recommend?
/r/RedPillWorkplace27/08/16 03:53 AM
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My team member was actually thinking of going to Hr. I prefer he doesn't yet... I actually want to play the strategy outlined by u/alphabeta49. Not sure we are allowed to record here, unless the person atleast verbalise authorisation. Buy yeah, that's great advice, will document everything to the t. And make sure every piecework comm is emailed to all. I'll use a bit of black knighting as part of Machiavellian strategy, but keep extreme blackknighting reserved as secondary solution incase she st…
/r/RedPillWorkplace27/08/16 03:52 AM
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This is what I was thinking when I said 'play the nice card'. Time to re-read laws of power again too me thinks. I actually haven't read sun tzus strategies of war, but will add to ke read list too.
/r/RedPillWorkplace27/08/16 03:39 AM
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As in, my wife gets off on thinking about herself, the other chick, and myself oraling each other. Three in total, I'm a simple man afterall with some simple needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 03:59 AM
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Which when I think about it now, highlights the female solipsist nature.
/r/askMRP24/08/16 01:09 AM
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My wife is a talker. She loves to talk, albeit not as much as some other chicks. I actually tune out probably 80% or more of the time. She used to want to chat even during our work outs. So you know what I did? Nothing bro. I continue to tune out. Sometimes I'll listen, buy most times, she's just background noise. Funny thing is, she knows I tune out. I actually asked her once, don't you care that I'm actually not even listening to you right now? So you know what her response was? "No, i just ne…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 01:07 AM
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Note to self: Use kirsten Stewart as ultimate form of dread. I reckon the professor should add this to one of the dread levels....
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 12:57 AM
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cool story bro....
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 12:53 AM
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Im working my wife upto it as well. Been at it for nearly a year but logistics haven't worked in my favour, cos shes pregnant! Started from her ewwing and being repulsed at the idea, now she wets the entire bed just thinking about it! She's actually really into oral for all three of us but not me fucking her in the pussy..yet, that is. I reckon by the time we actually have one, she'll be getting off on that idea too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 12:43 AM
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I think you answered your self.... Obviously MRP tactics take a long time to cause any change. I have a super beta background and a lot of ground to cover to make any dent in the way she looks at me. Or am I just stuck with her acting physically repulsed by me until her beta-bux view of me changes?
/r/askMRP23/08/16 05:13 AM
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The problem is we accept a feminised society. So it's Ok for men to exude a feminine persona and mindset, it's actively promoted, while equally being ok for women to be more 'stronger' and 'tougher'. The polarities are def mixed up for the worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/16 11:25 PM
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Give them options, but always make the final decission. Brownie points if you can get her to believe it was her decision all along.
/r/askMRP21/08/16 11:22 PM
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And men become weaker?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/16 10:11 PM
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That too.
/r/askMRP21/08/16 10:00 PM
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Heh, reminds me when I bought a new car a few months ago. Took the Mrs to see two makes that I had researched and picked out. She absolutely loved one of them and wanted to buy it straight away, although it wasn't really meeting our family needs (too small). I took into account the features she adored. Next week, went and put a deposit on the THIRD, different make all together, was the one that met the family needs, but she'd never seen it. Rang her to say congrats, we are the proud owners of a …
/r/askMRP21/08/16 03:37 AM
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Funny you mention that. I notice that every time I try 'help' my wife on some chores she just becomes an arrogant little harpy bitch. If on the other hand, I act like am arsehole, she's the complete opposite.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 06:06 AM
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Oh my, just read that comment now, definitely deserves to be a post, and deserves ti be stickied...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 06:01 AM
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Wait, so what sort of sandwich was it?
/r/askMRP17/08/16 07:11 AM
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Sa? I'm not ready for the black runs yet but hoping to get there soon. Deep and steep where the bush is does feel good though.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 01:29 PM
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This is the best way to build your game IMO. Don't overlook fat and old women.....their the training wheels for the hotties. Just be prepared to cut bait fast, they can get pretty excited with attention from a high SMV man. Did this straight after work today with a lot of retail chicks. Mindset was perfect, no pedestal piling, felt extremely comfortable, and really got me in the swing of things. Didn't escalate today with any, but it felt great just socialising, interacting and having fun during…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 11:36 AM
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Not sure if you are being sarcastic, or for real? Assuming your question to be in the literal sense, why is it a Disney fantasy? This is how I see it, I'm a man of value, extreme value. So it'd be extremely stupid of my wife to cheat on me with another guy, unless that guy is of more value than me, in that case, good on him, and good on her for being a good finder. None the less, if I find my wife to were to cheat on me, I'd give her 1 hour to pack her stuff, she'd be out the door in 61 minutes.…
/r/askMRP12/08/16 11:27 AM
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He's already given you gold, and you're asking for an example? Read some of the OYS sticked posts to get an idea of what men are doing to fix them and their relationships. r/RPNOW said the following, quoting him: reading the sidebar and the top 100 posts of all time will answer your questions. and this: Your wife is a reflection of you. You will get defensive and say that's not true, but that's your ego talking and you are full of shit. You're not man enough for you wife. You need to become that…
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:09 AM
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She gave me this i had sex, then i had a child , now what is sex for ? Riiiiight....that's what I'd say to my wife if she ever said that while giving her a raised eyebrow....riiiight.... About the medical advice- you do realise what you are saying right? She PROACTIVELY goes out and does YOGA TWICE a week. She GOES OUT to WORKOUT with her female partner. Where are the signs of depression in that? I'm sensing no medical issue. I'm sensing she's bored from you and she's not attracted to you. Try i…
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:02 AM
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Firstly the disrespect thing. I'm guessing it happens occasionally, otherwise it wouldn't be an issue. My wife can do the disrespect thing at times as well. I'm not going to lecture her every time. If she crosses a certain boundary, she'll definitely know just by the 'look' that she gets from me. Your options: Draw the boundary, she needs to know that that shit ain't appropriate behavior. Once you've established this in a calm demeanor. It's time to go broken record. Nothing else requires to be …
/r/askMRP12/08/16 05:35 AM
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Gym: Absolute love my sanctuary and making steady strength gains on the 5/3/1 with slight adjustments. I’m not certain about hypertrophy yet and will compare some measurements this week. Visually to myself, I’m not seeing huge gains, hoping it’s just because I look at myself in the mirror every day. Anyway, measurements will tell. Hobbies: I’m happy where I am and not looking to expand my list with any ol’ activity. I have taught myself how to Ski this year, I’m learning how to swim now. Happy w…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 04:41 AM
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Treat her like a queen- when she treats you like a king- I like that. I'm actually going to have fun with this.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:27 AM
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Don't confront her about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:04 AM
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Taking care of her is her own job. You take care of kids. Not adults.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:02 AM
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I have to wrap my head around all this, it's quite a bit. Too much advice all ready, but my 2 cents. Please re-read all the comments here mate. It is pure gold. People here genuinely want to help you out. It's because your story resonates with them very well, and also because majority of men on this sub know what they are talking about. It is real, practical advice, that actually makes better men, happier men, a happier you. BTW, don't tell your wife about this. Don't tell her a word about this.…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:01 AM
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Good response. I second this. Mine is prego at the moment, so being pretty lenient on the value she provides, but then, rearing my child is pretty valuable! Also agree with everything here except the last task: Cleaning, cooking, driving, pet care, probably even blowjobs... I'm not flexible enough. On another serious note though: be fun A lot of guys, me included, forget this every now and then. But I think being jovial is the best thing you can do for yourself and for your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 02:18 AM
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faggots? isn't the new term McFaggots?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 02:12 AM
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Why should he reward her with his intimacy/sex/attention when she's being a harpy? Guys need to reverse this, why is that he gets laid? it sounds like he should be rewarded for his efforts if he passes the shit tests. View it this way, sex isn't the badge of honor the captain receives if he's a good captain, sex is the exemplary award the first officer receives for following orders properly.
/r/askMRP11/08/16 06:19 AM
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Yeah true, make her understand that your time is valuable man. but what OP did is decent anyway. He's managed to ignore the shit test on the phone, although not with 100% confidence, and also managed to stay off the text. From there I just went right on cooking dinner and dropped it, back in a good mood, and she stayed pissy for the rest of the evening. Steak sandwiches came out good as fuck though. If this is true, then good stuff mate, you didn't prolong the argument, and you didn't make a big…
/r/askMRP11/08/16 06:12 AM
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One day, as I am walking, the clasp on the leash breaks. The dog is Free! I worry now. He speaks so often of wanting to play on the grass, surely a car will hit him, he will die, and it will be all my fault! I panic, I run to him, want to take him in my arms and protect him from the world. He runs away. Then stops, waits for me to catch up, then continues to run. He runs through the boulevard, has the sense to hit the crosswalk, since I've done it every time we've ever gone out, looking back occ…
/r/askMRP11/08/16 12:42 AM
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Next time, I will return on my own terms. OP, second this, and it is critical that you heed this advice.: The ultimate goal is for your wife to perceive this woman is hitting on you, not the other way around. Your just so hawt that all you need to do is stand there and mumble some shit; and bam your get swolested. Lastly, this type of behavior is disrespectful of YOUR WIFE. There may be a time for this type of power play; but your not there yet. Your ready for this move when you don't need her v…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 05:50 AM
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I see a lot of improvement mate. Good stuff. Clearly, sex was on her mind (right now) so rather than scheduling it, I said “That’s fine, but you look a little tense right now” and grabbed the massage wand / vibrator. A couple token “Let’s just wait” remarks which I ignored, and the next thing I know, she’s cumming hard from the vibe, moaning with my dick in her mouth, and I’m finishing on her tits. Wife came up behind me, hugged me around the chest,
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 05:21 AM
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They? Everybody.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 02:04 AM
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Load of crap man. Women want to have sex they just need the right man to be there. Only because she may not be initiating overtly doesn't mean she doesn't want to have sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 02:04 AM
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seems like a nice list, but can't make any sense of it! care to format it? I'm always on the hunt of a good non-fiction. It's a shame I can't remember the contents or even the titles of what I read! how do you make knowledge stick?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 01:56 AM
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You hear a word once, and you keep on hearing it again and again. Didn't think McFaggot was gonna be on that list.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 01:53 AM
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SGM my friend, SGM.
/r/askMRP09/08/16 01:27 AM
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PPACS- post partum abstinence control syndrome- usually affects the unlaid male species after his partner gives birth. Outstandingly the symptoms only occur after the partner delivers via c section and not natural birth. Symptoms include hallucinations and vivid dreams of intercourse with the other female species. The cause of this remains a mystery to doctors, however it is rumoured that a dead bedroom or a lack of sex May cause this. Even more surprisingly, the cure is simple qnd Physiotherapy…
/r/askMRP05/08/16 02:52 AM
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Pics or it didn't happen. I don't get these sort of posts or are guys really this clueless? Seriously wtf? "'I did x and Y' in return my wife said 'z', so online strangers, what did my wife really feel?". The real question should be "should I care?" and the answer should be "who gives a fuck!"
/r/askMRP05/08/16 02:38 AM
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Upvote, that's funny. I want to see this played out. Op, please do this, I'd love to see your next Fr with this executed.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 12:00 AM
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Wait, that's only supposed to happen in porn? Shit, I think I've been doing it wrong....
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 11:53 PM
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Interesting. I pretty much can't live without dairy, but am trying to see if reducing other high GI carbs does help or not....
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 02:15 AM
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Amused Mastery, search this sub, there are way too many posts discussing it...
/r/askMRP01/08/16 05:01 AM
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Continue to be busy. You're a busy man with better things to do than console a toddler for her tantrums/outbursts. It's up to her to manage her emotions and you aren't her babysitter nor her punching bag. Just STFU, if she brings it up, and if you're keen, draw some boundaries and repeat like a broken record- that you aren't there her to support her childish outbursts - that is if she is ready to talk like an adult. If she wants another outburst then again, you are not there to support that. Ide…
/r/askMRP01/08/16 03:56 AM
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Lol good chuckle....
/r/askMRP28/07/16 11:18 PM
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1.) You never reach the top of your game. Stay hungry. 2.) Don't kill your vulnerability. This sub is a constant reminder of this- so its important to atleast check it out every now and then if you can't regularly.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 11:01 PM
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First Question. How long have you been together/married? Current living arrangements? Why are you with her? Did you ever have a strong healthy bedroom? Tried once and it was OK for me, but she did not like it that much. she still does not want to French kiss or have unprotected sex of any kind with me Have tried speaking shamelessly to her about sex but seems too direct for her her “cockblocks” alternate from health scares to her being unable to force herself to want to do it with me. In general…
/r/askMRP26/07/16 02:45 AM
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Sure, baby, Take a break. You work hard poor little man..... They will test you when you are weak and it won't make sense. LOL, that just helped me answer my own question in my mind and I was trying to figure out the exact why. My wife regularly tell me to skip my workout. The smallest of reasons sees her advising me to not hit the gym and I'm always left wondering why. There are several reasons potentially here but I think what you said fits the puzzle the best.
/r/askMRP26/07/16 02:12 AM
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and becoming the man your wife wants to make proud and wants to please. disclaimer: wife's pregnant* I'm about to digress but I'm not sure where she currently sits in trying to please me 1- I'm recently getting a lot of 'you don't help around the house' - she fails to recognise that I handle the finance, the bills, fixing up around the house, handling the little ones bedtime routine, spending quality time with him, etc. 2- She does initiate sex often but only initiates when she wants the D, and …
/r/askMRP26/07/16 02:02 AM
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I envy you.
/r/askMRP25/07/16 06:51 AM
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I chuckled at this. So true. Wish my wife would give me the silent treatment. Alas she has never in the 8 years of marriage.
/r/askMRP25/07/16 06:51 AM
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He might have benefited by posting in askmrp with a better op.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 10:51 AM
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Put some effort into your post before you get beaten up here as well. You haven't given us anything here to help you out. But anyway, before you get thrown out of here, here's some advise. Start reading the sidebar material. Develop some balls aka frame. Don't tolerate shitty behaviour. And set boundaries. Throw her arse out of the house if you can't be fucked doing any of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 10:48 AM
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I prefer to have my wife sprinkle herself over my dicktatorship. Not sure if you let your wife plan and lead your vacation, but we've seen how that works out for most couples as proven by the posts in this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 08:31 AM
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Don't see how he's on point here. On point would be to take the original post, break it down and succinctly explain the content to point out the flaws in ops behaviour and answers. What I see is a rant and just calling the op a pussy. Exaddictbro just played the victim card too but most people failed to see that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 10:32 PM
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I meant the ski resort. They're decent sized ski areas, but only caters for skiers and sight seeing. Sadly there is no on-mountain accommodation or anything. The closest town is 30 minutes from the mountain...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 04:23 AM
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Skiing had to happen. Otherwise there would have been no trip. Unfortunately nothing of that sort was on the resort or close by- although it would have been ideal. But that's where solid leadership comes into it. Making a decision and being confident with it is one key. As is considering as many variables as possible, planning around constraints and setting the right expectations. Being a good leader also means having the ability to empathize with your crew. Given the timing, budget and other lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 01:21 AM
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Same. Although I have always naturally been stoic. The downside (or upside) is that most conversations and events are fairly boring -uninteresting. Sometimes it's almost revolting to see how people around you act based on minor events around them. Example, 'bonuses' at our company didn't get paid this year due to declined profit. Colleagues go wild with rage and further speculation, one colleague doesn't show up to work the next day and it bothers him for a whole week. Another colleague gas ligh…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 01:01 AM
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Good post, and extremely well structured. Lesson Learned: she wants to be led by you and more importantly she wants to see that you are capable of leading. Leadership, in my opinion, is the highest display of value one can display. This requires solid frame and doesn't happen instantly. Only because you have taken the pill, it doesn't mean the shift for her happens. Even when it does happen the shit tests are never ending. She will constantly poke and prod at your leadership. Even the slightest …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:53 AM
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I agree with some of the commenters here man, I think you got your panties in a twist u/ex_addict_bro. The dude made a post, then deleted it. You provided a lot of value to the original post by making several attempts at trying to help him, he didn't understand, he deletes his post, you get mad, then you post this rant. Dude, of course we can learn from his post. But if he's deleted it, who are you to rehash it from the dead? If you really wanted to provide value, re-write the content into a pos…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:36 AM
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Reading 4 hour body right now. Did you try any of the work outs in the book to the T? His 4 hour workout is extremely low volume. I want to be lifting weights because I want to lift weights. I'm currently on the 5x3x1 program, but thinking of combining some of his workouts/theory outlined with a 5 x5 program to help increase my bench press. E.g. Standard 5 x 5, adding in 2 sets x 2-3 reps bench three days plus the normal bench 5x5 day. Also a little confused about his diet. He's advising to cut …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/16 02:46 AM
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mink oil. Soo... i should using mink oil? I thought it was coconut oil?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 04:06 AM
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Do you prefer spoon or fork?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 04:00 AM
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I've been trying to build a competitive spirit into both of them with a lot of success, "Can you kite go as high as your sister's?", or "Can you make your brother's crash?" That's interesting. Why between siblings? and how are you planning on preventing sibling rivalry/jealousy between the two especially as they get older and start to drift apart or have different interests?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 01:05 AM
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Thanks for the link.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 12:59 AM
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This The basic point is: Every diet works and will make you lose weight if you eat fewer calories than you burn. If you eat more calories than you burn, all diets will have you gain weight. Again eat fewer calories than you burn Heed this advice OP and people. Nothing you do will matter otherwise. Logic will also tell you that for you to burn more than you eat, you will need to KNOW how much to burn and how much to eat. SO make sure you follow this advice also: You need to count calories. Begin …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 01:05 AM
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Go home your maths is weak. You forgot to take into consideration the theory of relativity. While keeping in mind e=mc2. To lose 34 pounds he needs to exert energy of 3e12 calories. Taking into consideration of relativity, it doesn't matter how much he loses, even if he does, because his wife will only see the results if he achieves the desired results at the speed of light. You also have to consider the negative effect of such weight loss it's going to have on his wife because he'll be taking l…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 01:01 AM
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Oh man, so many words. So, so many words. It's just made me nauseous. How do you even remember a conversation with your wife to this much detail???? She asked “What specifically?” "Every thing bro. And The girlfriend is improving on her blow jobs too." Mind you, this probably would have either blown up in your face or you would have come out the clear victor. I STFU about this and she continued to talk about how she found herself considering frugality while at the grocery store. I asked "Well do…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 05:45 AM
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So thats where intermittent fasting comes from. Well done to her invention.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 06:11 AM
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Sex to rough sex.... Take baby steps. There's an important component to dominance. Her emotional state is the driver do the type of sex you can go for. Your goal is to stretch these emotions to the extreme ends. Think of it as a sin wave. If her emotional state is at a peak, go ultra caveman. If she is in middle, normal everyday sex, if she is minus go slow passion sex. Emotions don't have to be good. Post drama sex can be as passionate as sex you'd get after 24 hours of foreplay. I'm not saying…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 04:38 AM
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You have described my first year of Marriage to the t. My wife was the same. I went through the same feelings. All I can say now having hindsight, is MAN UP. Quick. Enforce boundaries, alone time, her own social network, encourage her and lead her to be motivated in other avenues. She CAN develop a motivation to be more than a clingy piece of Velcro. And you are right, it's not her, it's you. MAN UP. Read the side bar material. Develop your frame. Know what covert contracts and passive aggressiv…
/r/askMRP10/06/16 01:11 PM
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Can second this.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 04:21 AM
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What???? You mean I didn't have to have a talk with my wife when I wanted to do an extra 15 minutes of workout yesterday??????!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 04:20 AM
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By that time she will have a career equal to mine that i paid for. If she comes around then I get a great wife with a career that can take us to the next level, and pay for the kid's college. If it doesn't happen then I move on fairly easily. aaah makes sense now. You're a Gollllllllld Digggggggger.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 04:13 AM
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Either u/reddjive you're not telling us something, or your wife needs to be replaced.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 04:09 AM
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8 times initiate 8 times turned down Can you please be more exact? we need a date time stamp here please. sext her….regardless of what she said about the kids using her computer, or her mom using it. (we have macs and she uses iMessage). She can delete the texts or turn it off while someone is using it. Just a simple ok in return. Man I'd be constantly thinking of nexting this one. Why are you with her? While she does desire me I'm doubting that too by your posts. I don't see a hint of desire he…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 04:06 AM
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Mate, you have entered a shrine where the disciples bow to the weights. It's the FIRST thing besides 'read the sidebar' that you get as advice. Lift weights. There are somethings in life you shouldn't worry about arguing about, and just trying them. THIS is one of those. I had my WIFE lifting weights as soon as she was out of the post pregnancy phase. If she can do it, surely you can too.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:58 AM
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Fitness Dude, procrastinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaationnnnnnnnnnnn You've been reading about fitness since your first post I remember. Join a gym. Hit the weights. It's that simple. Did any of the reading tell you that? Muslims are commanded to lower their gaze in regards to the opposite gender I wonder if that's cultural than religious enforcement? What's wrong with looking at a female in the eye? From what I've seen, every weight lifting exercise has an equivalent body weight counterpart (up to b…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:44 AM
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sometimes truly horrified, by what we had unleashed upon the world man i feel this right now. i always ask my wife what she ate before giving birth to the munchkin we call our son. He's a tornado in the form of a human being.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:29 AM
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front thigh muscles You're still doing it wrong. Hit them Gluteus Maximus to maximise IOIs.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:10 AM
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“I do not want to hear the word NO, and will not take it forever”. Got up and went to work. Felt like this was a mistake; but decided to proceed with my current DL4 protocol. Went radio silent rest of day: work, lifting, BJJ, and fishing. She called twice; but my phone was off. When I got home, she came right at me with “where have you been?” I said, “same places I am at every Wednesday”. She said, “why didn’t you answer your phone”. I said, “I was busy and had it turned off”. This was all deliv…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:07 AM
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Side note, you really don't feel bad applying RP to your wife the path has been long and hard It's because you actually have to put effort into your life now. Now I have a busy schedule It's because you can't sit on your arse all day now I still want my wife to desire me for who I am It's because you want everything handed to you on a golden platter
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 02:51 AM
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I still want my wife to desire me for who I am with no RP techniques applied. I know how stupid this is but I still feel bad for RP to work on my wife. I still need to work on flushing out this bit of "nice guy/BP" left, any advice is welcome. Get over it. She's not a snowflake. We all want something else but that's not the point. Otherwise we'd have 50% of the guys here tracking there daily sex intake on excel every day. The other 49% wish they could reach there dicks with their mouth. The rema…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 02:46 AM
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This all sounds like I'm in her frame, but I don't believe I am. I do handle her as she needs to be handled, but I do it on my terms and no longer whine when she doesn't want to get busy. I'm still learning her mindset as it's completely different from mine. But the red pill has definitly fixed a number of issues we had, it's pretty awesome. She loves to be asked for sex, hates being seduced, so I will just tell her bedtime, or hold her collar up in front of her, yes I collar her frequently, mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 02:28 AM
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Mods feel free to dispose of this rant if it doesn't suit. did you have to take it literally? ;p
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:10 AM
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(it works, surprisingly) Surprisingly?? The truth can be simple and effective and often hard to swallow than fiction. When you are no longer surprised about these things, you'll have your answers. Keep this up, one day you'll look at this post and think 'what da fuck did I jus read?'. Congratulations on the pickup. But since you have asked for feedback, you could have used AM/AA, or you could have just put the keys where they belonged when you came back and you wouldn't have gone through this. i…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 11:33 PM
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You got the tip wet And didn't even need the coconut oil. Good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:48 AM
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Since we are on Youtube... FEMINIST CRINGE COMPILATION! Funny as hell at 3:07 onwards
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:37 AM
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Pardon the ignorance, how long have you been married? and when did you discover RP?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:27 AM
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Sex (Pregnant LTR) Weird one really, I feel like my own Sex drive has dropped a little since finding out she was pregnant. I almost instantly felt happy/nervous and protective all at the same time. Ive started noticing shitty little things in the house that need fixing and decorating....I guess its normal? But anyway, yeah, sex. She is constantly nauseas and exhausted, so I do feel like I don't want to initiate. My wife is pregnant in her first trimester. Nausea has been the devil for her and I …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 04:25 AM
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it's also important to measure the quantity of oil used then analysis needs to be conducted on the breakeven point where she becomes horny enough to blow you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 04:33 AM
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one good use would be to go back in time and kill Zukerberg. The real terminator
/r/askMRP29/05/16 10:55 AM
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Rim jobs it is then ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/16 02:29 AM
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I don't think i could handle bitches by cat earth mover truck loads. I'd be ok with mini truck :) not trying to turn my self into Dan bilzerian. James bond will suffice.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/16 02:27 AM
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Never been into anal, but she's been 'requesting' so I guess it's time to man up. Any ass men out there? I'm in the same boat. I even bought her an anal starter kit. But I can't bring my self to go for it, i feel like her shit's going to get stuck in my meatus, aka dick hole. On the other hand, I could then be owning her shit too.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 04:38 AM
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If you want to bang bitches by the truckload, thats your perogative. Yeah, I've thought about creating my lifestyle to give me that freedom. I see my self married happily with my wife, enjoying her as my wife and the mother of my children. so I don't know if banging sloots is the right move at this time. No, the end goal is not on the agenda yet! I'll give it a bit more thought for now. Maybe I'll get over my ego by then, or maybe I'll have a more concentrated plan over it. I'm a little differen…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 04:24 AM
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For cutting fat, unless you can stick to a calorie deficit, you macros aren't worth anything. It's simple as that, energy in vs energy out. r/reddjive you're going to have to set a goal soon, e.g. cut fat, or gain muscle. If you are a beginner, like r/stonepimpletilists said, it's possible to achieve both.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 04:11 AM
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I'm a size 38 at 6'4" 240. Read up on metabolic adaptation. Once you hit a low calorie deficit and you start to plateau, where do you go? More cardio? even less calories? The best advise I've seen and since been practicing is around metabolic adaptation (Layne Norton). Cut/increase your calories verrrrry slowly depending on if you're cutting/gaining weight. On my cut my end consumption was at 1700 calories- Size 32 waist and abs visible- with almost zero cardio. I'm now 3 months into my lean gai…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 04:04 AM
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I'm confused as to why but it's not validation seeking and not everything in sight. It's gotta have a pulse. Variety? Fun? I just like female? Or maybe im just lying to my self and seeking to fill a void because my wife was my first.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 06:52 AM
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Owning: Gym, Sex, Style, life's just good at the moment Lifting: Lean bulk – on track, building strength slowly and regaining squat strength after knee injury last year. Upper abs are still visible and I want to maintain this until September this year. I’m on 2200 calories currently and hope to increase this gradually over the next few weeks. Wife: I’ve been providing sufficient comfort, I’m actually communicating better with my wife and things are smooth now! Whadya know! No issues now so far a…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 02:59 AM
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but fuck me if I can reduce calories any more. How much you on? What's your routine? Are you cutting or trying to hit maximums? They're sort of opposing goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 02:55 AM
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dude just deleted his account????!!!! I can imagine him sitting there with his wife looking over his shoulder getting him to delete it 'no more reddit for you young man!!' shit, i feel sorry for him!
/r/askMRP19/05/16 12:03 AM
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if you don't use sex as a weapon You want to use that line and 'discuss' this with your wife? might as well also go with "If you were nice to me, then I would buy you flowers" or what about "please have sex with me so I can bend over backwards for you". You've missed the point by a long shot. Its clear this is not about her mate. This whole thing has nothing to do with her. You should first ask yourself, do you want a kid or not? Black and white. No grey areas here. Do you want a 3rd kid or not?…
/r/askMRP19/05/16 12:00 AM
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Locking phone to avoid something as trivial as this? No way. Locking phone to avoid her from finding about the manosphere. He'll yes!
/r/askMRP18/05/16 06:33 AM
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Why did you post this here? I'm curious if you just stumbled to this sub or if you are aware of its purpose? Either way, you've got a long way to go. Your wife has you by the balls. You could apologise to her and continue the path you are on. Or you could start reading the sidebar, and get your wife to losen that grip on dem balls before they turn purple.
/r/askMRP18/05/16 06:32 AM
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Where's that she vs I Bot!? You can only work on yourself. Do you even want to save the marriage? Ie does she provide any value to you? And is that value enough for you to want to be with her? You atleast also took the blame that 'you let her get away' with it for so long. Nothing for you is gonna change if you next her. Why? Because you can only change yourself and AWALT.
/r/askMRP16/05/16 06:37 AM
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She jumps me. Sex starts, she cums in about 2 minutes, then goes limp and lies there. I try...but dear god...it was like fucking a hole in the mattress. How did you try? that's my first question. I realize you can't be stuffed with star fish but what did you try? Then there was this from your comment history: The standards are there. I'm just not interested in lazy half hearted sex any more. It's useless. Fuck her wants in the process. Then again sex in general, unless it's to standard, is not i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 05:26 AM
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You can marry another one anyway = multiple wives = abundance mentality
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 04:40 AM
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I read some of the folks doing lean gains are similar to my style here in that day time/morning is easy, night time is tough and lean gains worked well. I second that. i've been on intermittent fasting for nearly 1 year now. I'm still on it though I'm bulking. I find the weekends hardest. Business days- I can reduce my eating window to 4 hours if I need to. You really need to adjust to your way of life. See which meal times are easiest to skip. For me, on a workday, breakfast and lunch is piss e…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 04:00 AM
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In PUA it's called an 'opener'. You could almost say anything, if the delivery is good, it won't matter how stupid the opener is.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 03:49 AM
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My problem isn't really lack of respect. My frame control and a couple main events have largely solved the disrespect problem. But she doesn't defer, submit or admire. It's like a more subtle lack of traction. Looks like you're gaining quite a bit of ground so that's an achievement. But you might be forgetting this little nugget of a discussion that you started yourself. I'd be re-reading r/thefamilyalpha 's advice again. How far are you with that? (especially the bullet points) . He also pointe…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 11:57 AM
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You haven't branched out on your own? You mention 'startups' so it got my interest peaked.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 02:32 AM
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I've ever really broken my wife's frame and I think this is my main problem. I'm trying to understand the context here. Why are you trying to 'break' her frame? You can't break someone's frame, you can pull her into yours. Why are you even battling her? I need to get more aggressive, attack/withdraw harder, go for blood, make it hurt if she doesn't concede. What the hell? Problem isn't her dude. It's you. Why would you want to do a stand off? I've only gotten her to apologize a handful of times …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 12:36 AM
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I'll be researching fitness. How far I'll get I'm unsure given my exams coming up. I've reduced the hours I work significantly so I should be able to make some start. You don't need to 'research' fitness to get started. Looks like it may be an excuse to procrastinate on this also. Here - Google 5x5 beginners workout and follow it to the tee. Lift heavy. Progressively Overload. And keep your calories in check. But, it's been 8 days since you last posted, have you joined the gym?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 12:08 AM
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I didn't budge, didn't show emotion(not because I'm exceptional at controlling them, I just didn't feel them) in response. You still want to show emotion. A smirk or a smile, a tease or something playful, even pull her and hug her, embrace her etc. It can help if you view her as a little girl. It'll pull her into your frame. But like r/Persaeus said, be stoic and it'll naturally come to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 12:02 AM
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was running $100 MM+ projects and living through the startups Off topic, but what do you do?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 11:41 PM
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Agreed on the value add... But I'm sure it would be the equivalent of world peace for some of the guys that come here though...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 06:39 AM
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IDGAF is hard to achieve in the face of anxiety. I know though, the ony times I've approached are the ones where my last thought to my self was... (in my head) blah blah blah...excuse...excuse...Ahhh fuck it! "hey..."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 06:37 AM
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LOL, I'll make sure not to approach at my local shopping strip! I work in the CBD though, so now with this new mindset, I have ample opportunity to test getting rejected!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 02:00 AM
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Interesting frame. Will have to try that point of view. Did you ever have same issue? Is that what you did if so?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 11:09 PM
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Owning: After this little saga I decided to be a bit more switched on with the wife. Decided to text/call her more often, which I was lame at doing. I've added it to my calendar, so have started act it out. Will also be just hanging out with her every week to help build a stronger connection with her. So far, this is going OK. Just have to stick to it. Style: since MRP I have really upped my style. I'm continuing to do so. I get complimented by someone every so often. Get too many compliments fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 03:35 AM
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I suffered from shoulder pain for a while too due to over training it. What I found helped: resting it for a while (no pressing movements, especially no stretching) counter balancing with opposite movements (pull exercise): for every push, you do one pull - this has been by far the best thing for me to prevent pain stretching post work out instead of pre-workout strengthening the tendons: youtube 'scooby' he shows you some shoulder rehab exercises when stretching your chest/shoulders you have to…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 11:50 PM
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Describe your shoulder pain?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 06:52 AM
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Very true. Unfortunately I'm in this position due to me putting a lot of money into a business that failed. My head wasn't on straight, I wasn't experienced enough and it cost me a lot of money and a very large debt over my head. My wife also left her job to work on the business. With me, I lit myself on fire and got burnt! I nearly lost my house too. The bank wasn't allowing us to sell the business because the house was attached as security. My wife was three months pregnant when we finally sol…
/r/RedPillWorkplace30/04/16 12:46 PM
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What do you want? Do you have a career path plotted out? I'm currently preparing for my move to a BA here myself post military. Are you hoping to move into consulting? move up to manager, than director? use this to start your own firm? I had up to this point wanted to be a BA then Senior BA then Consultant. I'd be happy doing consultancy for a while. I do want to start my own company, but it's not in consultancy. Although I'd like to continue consultancy on the side. Seriously I've never conside…
/r/RedPillWorkplace30/04/16 12:34 PM
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you should follow your passion in life and if you have true talent for this passion the money will be there. Forgive me if I assume you are in your 20's. This post reads exactly like someone who hasn't figured out what they want to do with their life. My passion isn't in a BA or Management role. It's in innovation and start ups. I want to start up my own succesfull business and work on that. I'm in my early 30's. Unfortunately, my passion got the best of me a few years ago and I ended up losing …
/r/RedPillWorkplace30/04/16 12:16 PM
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The opportunity has come about as the senior member there is pregnant and about to go on maternity leave for one year. It isn't technically a team leader role. It's a senior analyst role. So more than 2 thirds of my time will be spent doing the shitty old analytical work -looking at spreadsheets all day- that I used to do 2 years ago in that team. I'd maybe if lucky get 1 thirds of my time managing the team and working towards a goal to improve the team (department), that I have in my mind alrea…
/r/RedPillWorkplace30/04/16 11:49 AM
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Okay man. From one Indian to another. I fixed your post for you, you'll see your solutions in there. I've got 2 many general problems in my relationship: My girlfriend is a couch potato. She is (was) a 10, i built a gigantic pedestal and put her there she will not exercise. I do BJJ twice a week. I signed us both up for Orange Theory, which was actually a pretty good cardio workout, but she won't go. It is a fact of life that if you don't exercise, you will get fat, so how do I get I got my gf t…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 11:59 AM
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Errr right.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 11:32 AM
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He let her ruin 3 vacations. She should next him.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 11:31 AM
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Use this on the gf. Not here.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/16 05:27 AM
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Following your input and some deep reflection on my part. I've realised that she has demonstrated genuine concern. I had enough sense to recognise what she was seeking, but failed to respond accordingly. I even had journal entries to dictate actions I was going to take but didn't. Had I done so, I wouldn't have been posting the above. I will not be talking to her about this. Moving forward, these are the *changes' I'll be making. my solution: Calendar entry to text or phone call Mrs once a week,…
/r/askMRP28/04/16 12:40 AM
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I am going to figure out this very simple thing. Are you? Yes. see update.
/r/askMRP28/04/16 12:31 AM
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Yeah, that probably paints a good picture.
/r/askMRP28/04/16 12:31 AM
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You had better read you fuck Well that escalated quickly. Seriously though, thanks for reminding me. I had that in my journal nearly 5 months ago. I called them Chill Out With Wife sessions. You are also right in that my ego is getting in the way.
/r/askMRP28/04/16 12:29 AM
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Mind blown. Very well put. I'll be adding to my OYSW. She's made a fair call here, I refused to see through the haze and smoke. I'll need to work on my communication and will evaluate how I'm going to get over the past behaviour which resulted in me lacking this with her.
/r/askMRP27/04/16 12:13 PM
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i.e. the week of ovulation when she most craves dominant, hard pounding sex and a strong masculine man. Thanks for pointing this out. It was failure on my part which I recognized this as one root cause: I also concluded: * She was well away from shark week, this was normally caveman time * Also due to dot point 4 above, as as a man naturally would assume, I really just thought “she needed a good rough bangin’” Why not? This is easy enough. Since you know the day she freaks out, put it on your ca…
/r/askMRP27/04/16 02:52 AM
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AM and AA are backfiring and causing a decided lack of comfort that your now pregnant wife is looking for I think you may be right. By the time I'm about to comfort her, it's normally after I've tried AM and AA. Maybe this is a reason she doesn't see my comfort as I'm trying to deliver. You're not calling her or messaging her during the day because you read here that those things are for logistics only...but that doesn't mean you have to go dark. You can't abruptly break from patterns without ca…
/r/askMRP27/04/16 02:46 AM
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Precise middle? I'd say about a quarter. But I did notice your post on this and that's why precisely had it in that first quarter, summarized in the context. Can't open with she's pregnant, because she wasn't three months ago when this started.
/r/askMRP27/04/16 02:30 AM
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Great post. Love how you've drawn the correlation between work and marriage. How could I possibly expect my marriage to be as successful as my career? I wasn’t doing any of the things required for success! I see guys, and I was there before, become utterly complacent in their marriages and lives. Unless you constantly work at it, regularly review your actions and results then it's very easy to roll back into a continuously complacent state- just as you would go through a monthly review of your w…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/16 12:03 AM
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Okay. I normally visualise as well, but it's mainly positive. Either way I can see negative visualisations working.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 01:00 AM
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Try to take the rejections as something to learn from and improve. Seek out some critical feedback from the agencies and find out if your CV needs to be improved. Some simple changes to layout or descriptions can make a massive difference. Heard of STAR? apply that to your interview answers. Trust me. Apply that to each question asked and it will do wonders. I realise I'm not perfect either and I can fail to do this too, but have you heard of SMART goals? tailor your goals listed there so that e…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 12:57 AM
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The core message behind MRP is self improvement. That is what attracts me here. Although the concept behind TRP in general is also to be a better man today than you were yesterday, this message probably gets a little lost in all the noise on the other forum. I was also engrossed in the pill, being alpha, being masculine etc when i was new to the concepts. It took me a while to disregard the terminology and stop pigeon holing my self. This focus then changed to trying just be great at everything …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/16 12:50 AM
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I think you've misinterpreted my post, maybe it's because it's partially in the wrong forum. I enjoy what I do, I provide value and I make the most of it. I've changed roles throughout my career due to various reasons, none being I don't kick arse at work. My question was really due to me striking a fork in the road. I can go two ways here. One- pursue Ba role for another co etc as described in post. Two- take up the management opportunity that I've been offered, once again as described above, i…
/r/askMRP17/04/16 12:32 AM
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Why do you float job to job? What are you hoping to find within the next one? Read the para about providing value, where do you feel you sit with that?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/16 12:34 PM
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What's that supposed to mean?
/r/askMRP16/04/16 12:25 PM
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Yeah thanks, will do that instead
/r/askMRP16/04/16 12:24 PM
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Sure I'll link the next time if I post something. I'm thinking of reorganising my blog- it has nothing to do with the manosphere or redpill, but one section is solely for self improvement and the target market is men. I might also have to create another account on reddit due to some of the history on this one?? Undecided yet, any opinions?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/16 07:34 AM
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This is a reflection of some epiphany moments I've had in life, observations and through stuff that I've read. I'll be expanding such topics on my blog.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/16 07:30 AM
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negative visualizations?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/16 12:53 AM
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Can you afford to outsource it to an accountant? To have monthly budget-follow-ups? I envision that as an expensive exercise.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 01:25 AM
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Accounting 101: You need to separate your business expenses to your personal expenses. You're hinting that you may be following a passion and turning it into a business, so this should be further reason to make sure you continue to separate personal to business expenses. Have you got a plan on how to manage your finance? Do you create a budgeted cash flow or profit loss statement? Do you track your balance sheet? and do you measure ROI (return on investment) on your purchases?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 03:55 AM
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Following my previous post, I’ve got some serious issues implementing some of the changes in my life. I don’t think I can be saved. • Wife wants more sex that I do. WTF? She initiates more than I do now. She becomes harpy if I don’t give her a roughin’. The things I have to do now to keep her happy! • I’m lean and have mass poking out of my stomach area. WTF is wrong with my body? • I ended up wasting money on a two wheeled vehicle, it’s got some branding on it CBR500R? It’s a shiny red colour. …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 01:48 AM
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Many have all ready replied. This is an example of 'Captain' not working. You know your wife can't read maps. So can't mine. You print off the maps and/or have a detailed look a couple of days before. You have the route memorised or you note down key check points. The wife should have been used to verify, instead of instruct, if any assistance should have been sought.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 03:20 AM
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I went out and bought a 2014 Cbr500ra! Guys gonna get the roadworthy sorted and drop it off once it's done! Can. Not. Wait!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/16 10:38 AM
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started to try almond milk and hazelnut milk, (I hate soya milk) Check your ingredients. You may just be paying for water. I remember getting a few bottles of a 'reputable' branded 'Australia Organic Almond Milk'. It turned out to be 97% Australian water and 3% almonds imported from Turkey. Never again.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:22 AM
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Looks like you are owning that shit (sex) there. then suddenly about 20 minutes into it she just sort of went limp I'd have had a play at her instead of getting mad or poke some fun. That's a lot of butt hurt. But looks like your are getting the results you want so can't argue with it too much!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:20 AM
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It’s been a while since I’ve done any posting here. But have been reading and browsing on a daily basis. I’m finding the reading really helps the mind to re-iterate some of the basic concepts and make me realize personally the mistakes I’ve made and some of the posts resonate somewhat with my experience. Shit I’m Owning • Alpha/Beta mix: I'm happy where it's at. I'm bad at complementing and gift giving. Even though it was our 8th marriage anniversary, I didn't buy anything and I didn't take her …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 03:15 AM
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My view it is the best thing for a sore throat was sadly not accepted. I'll have to try that line.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 02:53 AM
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It's a great feeling. However it can back fire sometimes if you over train. Then you are over trained, tired, sore and sleepy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 02:38 AM
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Some reasons: Bad form Increasing weights too quickly (also inducing bad form). Unbalanced workouts. (i.e. too much chest vs too little back) Lack of mobility. Edit: Forgot to add Lack of rest Solution: - Fix form, get your form assessed by some one trained - Go slightly lighter weights that you can lift really slowly with perfect form and minimal momentum - Balance your workouts: with Push vs Pull for your core muscle groups. E.g. for any push exercise you need to do similar pull. E.g. if you d…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 02:26 AM
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Thanks for the heads up. Will have to closely look at my protein powder now. I rely on my whey powder a little more than I should, but it's much easier as I'm a vegetarian. Don't agree with arcaneadam on 'fiber'. It is way over-rated. If anything, excess fiber causes more harm than good and more blockages. If you're having some sort of veges/fruits/salads, it should be ample fibre that you don't need to supplement. Blockages are also caused by low potassium/magnesium and other vitamin deficienci…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 02:16 AM
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There is no best time to join rp other than as soon as possible. I resonate fairly well with your circumstance. Our bedroom has gone from very good to mind blowingly crazy. If all goes to plan for you too then yes, you will unleash your own personal slut from within your wife as a bonus. All the best.
/r/askMRP01/12/15 07:11 AM
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I used to not accept gifts either. I realised it was stemming from from a place of ego and social conditioning. I gradually learnt to accept them. Now I say bring it on and am thankful for it. As long as it is genuine and the person wants to gift because there is a sense of care. We also grow up learning to not accept things. Whether it's a compliment, a gift, a favour. We feel obliged to give back. Even a compliment, if someone compliments you the natural tendency is to respond with a return co…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/15 05:44 AM
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I am still way below of what I want You finished in a fee strokes. Did you go at later again. Could've done oral. I'd you start something, finish it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 09:13 PM
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Nice! I get my wife to call me master in bed. Unlike your wife though, she wasn't keen on doing it at the start. It took some major alpha moves to get her to submit to me. I still have to remind her, as she doesn't tend to do it naturally. I think the word 'master' itself isn't very natural. Maybe that's why? She hasn't submitted completely yet, so that is more likely though. She still has some power issues in her own mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:56 AM
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How are you showing you are happy? Your frame and your body language should be reflecting it. Smirking is a powerful tool. Learn to use it. That would be stoic. You have to be BE stoic. Not, not be stoic. In your situation, I'd be looking at my wife as though she is a child throwing a tantrum. It is literally no different. Once you start to see the child in her, you'll start to hold your frame better. Lose the anger. It doesn't do any one any good. Be assertive in your words, sound like a broken…
/r/askMRP25/11/15 03:42 AM
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Yes agreed. It's like any relationship, trust is important. Blindly trusting someone isn't the right move obviously. It wase easier for me due to her background and the environment she grew up in to make the relevant assessment. After marriage, there.has been no reason to not trust her. Once again, due diligence is required to make that assessment. How far one goes into their due diligence dependends on the partnership and their history to date. As far as outcome dependence, If she stays loyal, …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 09:46 PM
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You didn't initiate? earlier she was talking about wanting to fuck Well that was a missed opportunity to make sure she went through with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 07:26 AM
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I too was married young, no prior girlfriends. Now approaching 8 years. I firmly believe my wife hasn't had any boyfriends prior to marriage. I have not any reason to believe that she would have cheated on me during the marriage. My views on marriage have changed now though. I am willing to open up to other woman but have no underlying causes because of the marriage. Maybe it is just a fantasy for now or the fact that I haven't 'ezperuenced' being with other women. If I keep trusting that my wif…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 06:36 AM
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I too was married young, no prior girlfriends. Now approaching 8 years. I firmly believe my wife hasn't had any boyfriends prior to marriage. I have not any reason to believe that she would have cheated on me during the marriage. My views on marriage have changed now though. I am willing to open up to other woman but have no underlying causes because of the marriage. Maybe it is just a fantasy for now or the fact that I haven't 'ezperuenced' being with other women. If I keep trusting that my wif…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 06:35 AM
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"Did I handle this correct?"No you didn't. A woman's frame is like a black hole. The closer you approach it the more you get sucked in. You have got your self sucked to the centre of that black hole. Your woman is also a reflection of you, multiplied by 2. You stress = she stresses double. Remain in your frame. Do whatever it is you need to do to get your career back on track or make sure you are prepared before you get fired. Man up. Stop freaking out like a pussy and take action. Like I said i…
/r/askMRP21/11/15 04:32 AM
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Keep reading the side bar material and keep working on being more dominant. Have you read the sex god method yet? Looks like sex quantity is there for you which is good. Introducing dominance in the bedroom just opens up a whole new world outside the bedroom. Amused mastery just works better. Agree amplify just works better. In this situation you should be able to man handle her, and go for the kiss. Pulling her into you, or picking her up, grabbing her ass, slapping it and finishing with a "let…
/r/askMRP21/11/15 04:22 AM
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That's it! To the op, make sure to check them out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/15 06:26 AM
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I'll typically do intermittent fasting on non workout days. Only during cut though. First meal around 2-3pm and last meal around 9pm. I did stringent hours last year, this time I haven't been as stringent. By skipping breakfast you mean having breakfast +lunch at lunch time yeah? You can consume same amount of calories. Hopefully this should be my last cut though as am Gonna work on lean gains next year. Sick of this massive cut which just seems to drag on and on.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 06:00 AM
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Shoulder might be tendinitis setting in. Give them a rest and google or youtube exercises and mobility exercises for shoulders. I can't remember the guys name but some weird looking tank dude has some videos on shoulder impingement exercises that really work. He wears a hat in all his videos. Do not stretch them.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 12:01 PM
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Intermittent fast all the way baby. I do it 3-4 times a week. Really feels like the body just shreds the fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 11:58 AM
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Thanks, will apply some of this and variance of it. Been googling a bit on it yesterday and made a new workout. I'll still do larger volume though just because.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 03:36 AM
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Yeah, sex is fun. I prefer it if it is for both. Works better that way. I've only recently read SGM and realized I've been applying majority of the principles for a while, even prior to RP. With further knowledge and on-purpose practice of the knowledge I'm finding the wife is initiating much much more though.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 02:36 AM
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Forget the idea of exercising to burn calories. It is a huge waste of time. No activity burns enough calories to be worth doing for that purpose alone; not traditional endurance training, not sprint interval training, not Spinning or “cardio” kickboxing or “boot camps” or other group classes, not even strength training and What About Warming Up? Won’t I Get Hurt If I Don’t Warm Up Before HIT? No. Hit the mark. I've had more injuries when I stretch before a workout, that I've stopped stretching p…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 01:20 AM
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Looks like an interesting read. I've started reading some of the blog you provided, and so far it's making sense. I have been training mostly without any cardio this year and did a very lean bulk. Now that I'm cutting, I've started incorporating High Intensity Interval cardio, but emphasis still has been weight lifting. I only do 2 mini - 10 minutes cardio sessions a week and one 30 minute session. If I could get rid of these, it'd be a blessing in disguise for me, as I hate cardio. I haven't co…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 01:11 AM
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Physical to the extent that I know my wife was capable of taking. Under the circumstance, environment and events leading up to it- I deemed it allowable and necessary. Force it though? Definitely not, I could tell she wanted it, remember, it's what she does, not what she says, and what she was saying was not even close to what she was doing. Plus it's hard to force a penis inside a mouth. Is this to be repeated? No, unless we go through the same motions and events leading up to it. Did it work? …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 12:59 AM
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It's amazing what a strong assertive and confident tone can do (with full eye contact). Will smash through shit tests. It's helped me immensely when the wife constantly questions mine (or even her own) opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 10:27 PM
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Last time and only one time my wife tried leaving with a half blowjob, I ended up on top, face fucking her hard and finishing all over her face. She said I raped her after but was smiling like a kid coming from a candy store. Too much agree and amplify? Lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 10:22 PM
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'Rewire' on Android. Only allows you to track 5 habbits in free version. There were quite a few to choose from in the app store though.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/15 05:23 AM
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That's excellent work. Yeah, 5x5 is going to help you turn you into Hulk. Crossfit won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 01:36 AM
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Shit I owned: • Alpha/Beta mix: As per my last OYSW post I've upped my beta slightly due to some ripples that were being caused by me being too Alpha and an increase in SMV. These ripples were displayed as exponential increase in shit tests and comfort tests. The additional beta-ness has worked. Shit tests almost down to zero this week. Wife has been bubbly and chirpy. So have I. Laying my stoic and introvert side dormant is difficult sometimes, but if it creates a light and happy environment, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 01:25 AM
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Did you end up going to the gym? what did you do? Hope you didn't end up surfing on youporn all evening.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 12:37 AM
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Lot of great points raised here already. As long as you uncover it's just a mindset, here are a few things I'd try: Do more 69ers Stroke her arse more and make dirty comments along the lines of wanting to bend her over and fucking her, without actually doing it if she is standing eg over kitchen sink, dressing table etc from behind, kiss, fondle etc, then bend her over slightly while rubbing/humping her from the back smoothly, keep it sexy with clothes on, don't escalate -give her oral with her …
/r/askMRP04/11/15 10:41 PM
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You are having sex on her terms. But when you do have sex, it's good sex. So in conclusion, as long as she is satisfied, then that's all that matters, right? In other words, does she give a fuck about your needs? No. AWALT. Read the side material, raise your smv above hers, dominate the bedroom, learn amused mastery, stop giving a fuck about her orgasm, tell her to suck your dick more. She begs for your cook? Next time she begs for it, put it in her mouth and ask her if she really wants it. Don'…
/r/askMRP04/11/15 10:08 PM
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If by 'mistake' she means slipping and falling on someone's dick. Then No, that won't be forgiven. I'd make it clear. My wife knows this too.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 12:08 AM
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This. Start with the bars and approach every stranger. Must try this. The thing with reading is I end up doing too much, replacing other tasks I need to do with reading. It makes my procrastinating a breeze! To counteract this, I've started jotting down notes and summarising what I now read. Hopefully this will help embed what I read deeper into my brain, but also make reading a harder task that I don't consume more time on it than necessary.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 07:35 AM
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I know the feeling. I've been living under everyone else's frame my whole life.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 04:06 AM
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My first one here as well. Will start posting here regularly. Primarily, I need a group of guys that can give me some critical and solid feedback, and a kick in the butt where need be. Been on RP a few months now. Bedroom has always been OK, no major issues, but has none the less improved momentously. SHIT I’M OWNING • Alpha/Beta mix: had a lot of arguments last week, wife questioning my authority and exponential increase in shit tests last week. I realized they were are result of 1. Break in fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 12:43 AM
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As long as it is playful and no hidden intent then it is OK. Keep working on A&A and AM. It still looks like a shit test, so don't break your frame. Situations where I can't come up with anything on the spot I'd just laugh it off. Otherwise examples: 'you wanna see magic?... kapoof' wave your hands like a magician and then just walk away to do your own thing walk up close to her, smoothly and with a slight green, 'yeah I would, but who's gonna keep you wet then?' 'I don't mind staying at the gir…
/r/askMRP02/11/15 12:05 AM
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Reading NMMNG and midway through MMSLP. Really need to read WISNIFG I think, might help provide guidance in reducing wife's clinginess? By the 'its not you, it's me' talk, I meant, she thinks my 'changes' are directly related to her. If I'm quiet, it's her. If I'm angry is her. If I want to go out, it's her. At some point I think I want to let her know that I'm changing to be a better me. She has never supported me doing guy things, becomes quite clingy. I will add intellectual goals. ATM they a…
/r/askMRP31/10/15 06:42 AM
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