We are currently remodeling a building for a clinic for the wife. After the closing for the bulding went through, I sketched out the new floor plan and sent it over to my wife for her input. This will be her business, so she needed to give me the high sign that the layout would work. She wanted to make some changes so we sat down to go over the plans. Her ideas were relevant but not feasible for the budget. After I pushed the ideas aside for this reasoning, she kept comng back to these issues, which were not on par in terms of benefit versus the budget increase. I got tired of being questioned so I told her the my reasoning in my "boss" voice. It wasn't so much as pitch or timber of voice as the terminology and conviction I used to convey my point. She dropped it. She handled it well in my opinion and we moved on.
Fast forward to that night, we are fooling around and dirty talk is flying back and forth, and she drops this gem "the way you talked to me earlier, you never use that voice with me, it was fucking hot..."
My wife has never tried to hide the fact that she likes to see me lead, etc but to hear it put so succinctly by her and to see it affirmed in her actions in bed was revelatory In and of itself. I refer to this as "security tingles." Sure she enjoyed seeing my male agression. However, I think what was really appealing to her was the notion that her provider knew his shit. In essence, my confidence was saying "I got this, you concentrate on your duties, I've got this side covered."
It's that Darwinian mate instinct in effect. The idea that her mate is going to make this work and she can focus on being a first mate was the source of the tingles. It wasn't my behavior so much as the reaction her instincts had to my behavior.
That's MRP in a nut shell. Take it back to the most basics of nature. Be a man, let her be a woman. Everything in between is just fluff. The trick is redefining what we consider manly. We were raised to turn away from our manly instincts. MRP illuminates this trend and helps us turn back to our roots.
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