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| 12 | My #1 go to plan for an awesome 2nd date!Damn that's nice touch, never even thought of that. I'm stealing that | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 01:12 AM |
| 6 | My #1 go to plan for an awesome 2nd date!Pesto Basil Tomato Anything with parmesan | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 09:19 PM |
| 3 | My #1 go to plan for an awesome 2nd date!Agree 100% with all the those points | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 06:23 PM |
| 23 | My #1 go to plan for an awesome 2nd date!I live in a city so I usually take them to one of few different eateries I like within walking distance of shops and parks and a couple museums. I like sharing a meal and then walking around and talking, people watching. I keep things pretty simple the first date and then ramp it up a bit the second date if I liked her on the first date. hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 9 | My #1 go to plan for an awesome 2nd date!Dude right on!! I got a chefman sous vide off amazon like 6 months ago and its my favorite kitchen tool I've ever bought (9 hour tri-tip at 129F for the win). as far as resistance goes I personally have not had much if any to speak of. I think any resistance may or may not be carrying over from your first date perhaps (but I obviously don't know for sure). sometimes if anything I don't have the time to do it on my second date but I always do this by the third date at the latest. | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Literally 10 minutes ago I bombed my first cold approach in over 6 months (just recently became single a few weeks). No big revelations but I am alive and laughing at how bad it was.It was pretty direct, she was doing homework in a coffee shop and i was sitting across the room. I probably waited a bit too long to go introduce myself but nerves got the best of me. I went up to her with a pretty standard "hey i'm jimmycone, I saw you and thought you were super cute so I had to come introduce myself", she said something like "hi i'm Claire...." I asked her how she was doing and said she was doing stats homework and I said i wish i could help but i'm not the guy to help out som… | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Strong Intention. Why it's important and how to show it.EASY PEASY | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Strong Intention. Why it's important and how to show it.Intention is where everything starts. you came to this sub intending to find out how to have better interactions with women. Why did you wanna become better with women? maybe you want a girlfriend, maybe you want to sleep with 100 women. But you probably have an idea of some future intentional results So if you want a girlfriend or a lay, you have to make sure your intentions are understood clearly, without being aggressive and ideally though a lot of non-verbal communication. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Strong Intention. Why it's important and how to show it.I fully agree with you, that's why I refraine from clickbait titles like "The secret to the game" or whatever other nonsense gets posted here sometimes. I'm pretty logic orientated and I found this to be a simple and logical explanation of how your behaviors categorize you. There's no guarantee In life or in this game of dating & mating. Like you said, get the best hand possible and use it to the best of your abilities.... But yes, nobody wins every hand. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 03:58 PM |
| 1 | You're not scared of rejection and I'll explain whyHey, there's a chance you'll go outside today and get hit by a car if you cross the street. "but I know how to cross the street, I'm pretty sure I'll be fine" So you're telling me there's absolutely no chance In hell you're gonna get creamed by some driver blazing around a corner? "well I guess there's a chance, but I still got to get where I need to go because I have important things to do on the other side of the crosswalk" If you live like everything that can go wrong will go wrong or if you … | /r/seduction | 02/11/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | You're not scared of rejection and I'll explain whyThanks man! | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 08:35 PM |
| 1 | You're not scared of rejection and I'll explain whyCan you explain that last part? I'm not entirely sure what you mean. | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 06:04 AM |
| 6 | You're not scared of rejection and I'll explain whyStart with this one: https://youtu.be/vuzOWmqGevw | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 01:04 AM |
| 5 | You're not scared of rejection and I'll explain whyI think it's about going deeper though, I'm always trying to figure out what the real route of the problem is and at this point I've cultivated a healthy obsession for doing this. I believe that B is deeper because it solely involves your own psyche. When most people look at just A of this problem they're focused on purely trying to limit the amount of rejection they receive so they don't have to feel the pain they tell themselves is completely out of the their hands. Rejection does not always h… | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 01:03 AM |
| 15 | You're not scared of rejection and I'll explain whyGood question, You still gotta learn game basically. Being confident is fantastic and its the basis on which techniques and tactics are built upon. I would recommend watching the free tour videos on RSD for in depth guides and advice on that. I would also imagine you're probably not going out and approaching as consistently as you should be. I didn't either for a while and my results were average. Than I started approaching like 5-7 girls a day for like 3 months and as long you are continually r… | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 09:24 PM |
| 19 | You're not scared of rejection and I'll explain whyThat's if you're coming from a standpoint of validation. Don't approach girls in hopes they'll like you and not reject you. If you do that you've already lost. Rejection only hurts if you give them the power to hurt you. And here's what's funny about it; it's a self fulfilling prophecy, girls can and will pick up on needy behavior. When you do that you're essentially going up to them and unconsciously saying "hey, I'm putting you on a pedestal already because you're hot and Im hoping that you re… | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 08:43 PM |
| 4 | "No going back" policy for flakes or nonresponsivenessYes, they said they could get together at a later date and that's what happened. Like I said, sometimes they legitametely did have to study, get called into work etc... It'd be pretty immature and egotistical to think that every girl that gives a reason to "bail" is lying. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 05:05 AM |
| 4 | "No going back" policy for flakes or nonresponsivenessI've gotten many positive replies from using this, I'm not needy or insecure therefore I don't have any issue with someone thinking that I am over a 2 sentence text | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 04:58 AM |
| 6 | "No going back" policy for flakes or nonresponsiveness"some reason I can't make" was used as a vague blank example of the millions of possibilities it could be | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 03:24 AM |
| 6 | "No going back" policy for flakes or nonresponsivenessTo me the "no worries" comes across as completely disinterested/upset even if you would actually like to meet up with them. Also sometimes people do have to cancel for legitimate reasons, I've had to do it myself in the past. If you give them the option to reschedule than it puts the initiative on them which most of the the time they are thrown off by. Switching up the paradigms in my experience takes a lot of pressure off them because now youve given them 2 options, either they make another tim… | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 01:39 AM |
| 9 | "No going back" policy for flakes or nonresponsivenessThis is what I say: Her: "some reason why I can't make it" Me: "No worries, let me know when you'd like to get together, but if not that's fine too." Clearly indicates that you flaking on me doesn't affect me (which it doesn't) but in case she actually does have a legit reason to not make it I giver HER the option to set it up (I already did it the first time and I'm not doing it again on account of her scheduling conflicts) They usually take the initiative to reschedule like 75% of the time. Th… | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 11:44 PM |
| 3 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.When you no longer take what others say and do to you personally (what others say and do is up to them, their actions and reactions are their own) you can freely go about saying and acting in accordance to what you feel is right and behaving in ways you feel are congruent with your own desires and beliefs. This is the fundamental factor in being happy in my opinion, when you no longer feel restricted you become free, when you are free you are able to overcome walls you set for yourself before an… | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | I'm not sure why bars are celebrated at THE PLACE to meet new women and people in general.Look at this way, bars are where a collective of people go to in order to have fun. There's music (albeit mostly shitty music) there's dancing (sometimes) and there's always alcohol (unless you live in the footloose universe). Now bars a perfectly fine place to meet a woman you want to take home or make out with or laugh with for a night. However certain bars (and I mean incredibly packed and loud bars) are not where you should be going if you actually want to practice game. You want to be in an… | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Just remember this quote when you feel like you'll look weird approaching a beautiful womanWhat this means is that despite even the best of intentions, the right motivation, the correct posture and amount of eye contact; some women will just flat out think that doing this is creepy. Since reading models I've probably approached close to 100 girls, and I always had this in the back of my mind. I think this is what a lot of guys on here are mortified of, looking like a stalker or a weirdo. But after having done a good amount of approaches this quote in my experience could not be more ac… | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Just remember this quote when you feel like you'll look weird approaching a beautiful womanWhat this means is that despite even the best of intentions, the right motivation, the correct posture and amount of eye contact; some women will just flat out think that doing this is creepy. Since reading models I've probably approached close to 100 girls, and I always had this in the back of my mind. I think this is what a lot of guys on here are mortified of, looking like a stalker or a weirdo. But after having done a good amount of approaches this quote in my experience could not be more ac… | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 03:32 PM |
| 1 | My theory on the dating game as a whole.Yea that's pretty much it. It's cool and surreal seeing someone summarize what I wrote haha | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | My theory on the dating game as a whole.I'm glad I could help. Hope you have a great week | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 05:21 AM |
| 2 | My theory on the dating game as a whole.I really appreciate that, if the post just helps one person than it was a success | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 10:23 PM |
| 3 | My theory on the dating game as a whole.Yea I'm not sure why it formated it that way haha | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 09:34 PM |
| 27 | My theory on the dating game as a whole.Now anyone can feel free to disagree with me on this, but being attractive and good looking are two different things. And both are subjective. You can be not physically good looking but you can be attractive through charisma and confidence. You can also be good looking but very unattractive in your personality and character. Both have their advantages and disadvantages. And like a game if you want to play with someone who's much "better" than you are, that's a perfectly fine prerogative to have.… | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | My theory on the dating game as a whole.Good point! | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.Really cool actually, definitely highly unexpected though haha | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 06:03 AM |
| 3 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.Why is a guy be a afraid of talking to a pretty girl he sees? Hes afraid of rejection and ridicule. If he had the mind set of them rejecting him as something that is out of his total control and instead something that more has to do with them and how they are as a person than he will not feel the pain of rejecting. I say 90% because you still need other things like -good hygiene and decent style -conversational skills -social awareness But if you're not afraid of how someone is going to interrup… | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 04:00 AM |
| 2 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here."Hi I'm Notnormal2, I know this is random but I thought you were really cute and wanted to know if you wanted to grab coffee with me" Works 80% of the time for me. It's actually so direct and honest that it throws them off and they get a big smile on their face. No beating around the Bush with this line | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 01:11 AM |
| 3 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.It's not so much about treating others well (although obviously that is good you do that). It's about not letting what other people do or say to you cause you to lower your self esteem. | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 12:51 AM |
| 1 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.Correct :) | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 09:57 PM |
| 21 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.Angry and intolerable people don't act that way because they hate everyone and everything. Instead they don't like themselves and are uncomfortable with who they are. Therefore it has nothing to do with you and you should not let yourself be affected by their behavior | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 02:39 PM |
| 16 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.Well yes and no. You're intention should be to NOT act like a "complete fucking Knob" however if the people you are behaving this way towards were to take this advice to heart than they would realize that you being an asshole has nothing to do with them and instead it's because you don't have a healthy interpersonal relationship | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | The "Outcome Independent Switch" was finally turned onThank you, I appreciate that | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"Exactly! | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"Play enough times and maybe you'll hit the jackpot | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"I'm gonna slightly disagree with you here, it's definitely important to love yourself. If you meet a girl you like and don't love yourself you'll never be able to truly love her. That being said, you can have an amazing passion, be a fantastic person, make differences in many other people's lives and still never be good at approaching or speaking to women Also I'm sorry, "you shouldn't even think about women" is not a realistic approach, that's trying to sweep the problem under the rug. My post … | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"Believe me I know where you're coming from. The thing I have really been working on is my daily practice of meditation and seeing a therapist who's awesome and has helped me a lot. Many people I talk to honestly do not believe me when I say that it is possible to not take things personally. Rejection doesn't have to hurt, it doesn't have to be taken as seriously as it does and I know people will read this and tell me that I'm full of it and that it's a basic human response etc... The only way to… | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"People (men or women) in my experience are generally more receptive when they're alone so I would agree it's not always the best to approach a single girl out of a group. That being said it depends on the environment; an outdoor concert, a festival, a fair etc.. Places that are in a sociable environment. Also you're opener is perfectly fine. Pick up lines and what not are lame and don't work. Simply introducing yourself and your reason for coming over are all you need Also remember that even if … | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"No it would be mathematically because we're dealing with basic probability. Statistically would mean you have a certain amount of varied results from a given data set. And if there are 4 options total each option has a pure 25% chance of happening | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"For F and G you can sue that guy and collect some sweet coin H-J she's clearly just an asshole and clearly not someone that you would want to get to know any further anyway. also all of those would fall under D) And I would bet all the money from your successful lawsuit that K will never happen. But whats more important to understand is that moment you see that girl, you feel paralyzed, you become hyper aware and sensitive to your actions and movements. just remember the worse that can realistic… | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"True, but from my experience going in with the mindset that you can't fail if you try generally leads itself to either A or B Edit: The bigger point to this is that when you realize the pain you experience from not doing what you feel like you should be able to do, whether that's flirting with a girl, reading more, doing your homework etc... Far out weighs the pain of actually doing it and maybe hitting some bumps in the road. | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"Thank you, hope it helps | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 05:55 PM |
| 34 | Mathematically speaking, you're cheating yourself by not talk to "her"Just remember, until you approach 100 women you don't have enough data to derive any statistical analysis haha | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 05:48 PM |
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