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I certainly think some of the examples are cringey, I agree. Like, walking up too a group of girls and and telling it's your friends birthday soon and she recently got dumped by her boyfriend and you need gift idas bla bla bla. Hot, young girls don't give a shit! Girls are more self absorebed than any other point in history, lol. They haven't got time to talk about this stuff with some random guys who they don't even know. It can also seem REALLY 'over-familiar' to some people.
/r/seduction20/07/17 12:24 PM
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game was fine, It's all a numbers game. Approach another hundred girls or so and one might give you a kiss or a number or whatever
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:58 PM
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too each their own I guess - cheers
/r/seduction19/07/17 09:43 PM
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this sub is based on the principles of PUA - Why are you here?
/r/seduction19/07/17 09:10 PM
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Every PUA book deals with LMR! Is this all new to you? If guys didn't push, they'd rarely get laid. (there's 2 ways to get ovr Lmr - Keep pushing and try to force her to get horny to the point where she gives in, or give her the cold shoulder like you've completely given up and don't care, and start doing something else like picking up a guitar and tinkering aroud or whatever) Who cares how old she is? SHe was legal 2 years ago. I like young girls. I'm not gonna stop trying to bang them just bec…
/r/seduction19/07/17 07:02 PM
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lol, why?
/r/seduction19/07/17 06:08 PM
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lol - in just about EVERY FR ever written here since inception, every successfull FR usually comes with the disclaimer ''I should say that i'm pretty good looking!'' :)
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:10 PM
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girls have to give last minute resistance too avoid looking like a slut. LMR has been discussed at length since PUA began. WHy do girls even post here?!! Makes no sense. It'll only make you angry
/r/seduction19/07/17 09:35 AM
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legal age is 16 in the UK, moron
/r/seduction19/07/17 09:31 AM
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I approached her in a club on teh dancefloor. We kissed fairly soon (this almost NEVER happens to me by the way so i'm guessing she was into me from the off). Went too a different part of the club and carried on making out and we chatted about the eusual stuff. (this is where I said i was 22). Asked her where she lived. She said she lived like 5 minutes away with her mum who was on holiday. I suggested we go back there for a while. She agreed Got a cab back too her parents place. Kissing and try…
/r/seduction19/07/17 08:34 AM
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Personally, I always lie about my age. I'm 31. Main reason is that i'm not in some high paid career or anything, and as you say, girls expect guys over 25 to be earning big bucks. I am a low earner. Also, i'm attracted to much yonger gilrs, most of whom would be put off if they knws you were so old. Luckily I look a fair bit younger than my years. I was able to convince the last girl I slept with who had just turned 18 2 days before that I was 22. I guess the dark lighting helped me knock a deca…
/r/seduction19/07/17 08:26 AM
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I spend way too much time worrying about how I never get laid and how everyone I know gets so much sex, but I guess the weird thing is that I often think i'm happier than lots of people whose lives are seemingly MUCH better than my own. I sometimes think we all have an inbuilt happiness default base level that our body always tries to revert too! I'm generally fairly happy despite being in some fairly shitty circumstances in various ways! I'd love to have girls actually showing interest in me li…
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:31 PM
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Personally, I don't see it as a 'shit test' and pretty much give up on them.
/r/seduction20/01/17 04:41 PM
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I don't know, my brother! Nobody seems to know, hence why all they talk about is hobbies, good job etc etc. I'm in the same boat as you. I am confident on lots of social situations, but not when it comes to pulling hot girls. Why would I be? I know from experience that they don't tend to go for me! I don't know how people are able to delude themselves! To be honest, i'd say the best way would be things like going to a country where it's easy to get laid to build up some confidence (Philipenes et…
/r/seduction20/01/17 08:42 AM
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I agree with everything you wrote, strongly, but I'm going to challenge your views on inner game. I'm not sure where you're challenging me!? :) You appear to be agreeing with me. Are you disagreeing with me calling the aforementioned friends 'confident'? (since they're unable too approach girls) I mean, i'd agree, but only in terms of GIRLS! They are seemingly confident in all situations other than that. They have good lives and have done well for themselves on the whole. They didn't get these w…
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:33 PM
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I'm always surprised at how scared of approaching girls my friends are. I'm the one who has had a lifetime of social anxiety and who has a crap job and stuff, yet I approach probably 20 girls in a night. They approach about zero My friends are all 10x more self confident than me, and have excellent, very well paid careers, but most of them would never have the balls too approach a hot girl at a bar. That 'self confidence' that they have 'in general' (confidence in their abililty to earn shit loa…
/r/seduction18/01/17 01:39 PM
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Isn't it all a bit 'overkill', though, since what you say doesn't actually matter?
/r/seduction18/01/17 08:40 AM
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what you say doesn't matter in game, so either. Or something else entirely!
/r/seduction18/01/17 08:36 AM
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lol, I know what you mean, but I thought it was funny, and more importantly, so did she. I just think if he answered all similar questions with just 'yes', then she'd have assumed he was just another boring AFC.
/r/seduction18/01/17 08:00 AM
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I know it goes against seddit philosphy, but in my opinion, ''what you say'' DOES matter. loads! In fact, it's almost everything! We communicate with words. The people I know who 'have game' are always quick with a witty line or a comeback or an interesting little one-liner etc. Whether it's canned or not, who knows!!? Seddit's mantra is ''what you say doesn't matter, it's how you say it''. I have my doubts about that! I was at a bar with a friend of mine who has 'game' (although he's married an…
/r/seduction18/01/17 12:26 AM
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I think this is a kind of underrated, old school, all purpose opener! The old ''hey, do you xxx at yyyyy??'' (work at Macy's, drink at the black dog pub etc etc ) I actually had a girl open me with that recently. It's funny that in hindsight I now see that it was just an opener (she was a ho who wanted free drinks) but in the heat of the moment, the thought that she was lying didn't cross my mind. Plus the fact that girls tend to have better social skills would imply that it's a fairly decent op…
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:38 PM
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anything, since what you say doesn't matter :)
/r/seduction14/01/17 05:50 PM
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Don't ask "may I kiss you" that's super lame. Although I guess since 'what you say doesn't matter' in game, it is theoretically fine to say that as long as you say it a certain way
/r/seduction14/01/17 02:36 PM
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I see what you are saying, but it seems that people want to have their cake AND eat it. I see people post Field Reports, and if they get rejected, then the words they used to open the girl or what they said during conversation are picked apart by people, implying that what you say does matter. A Lot. But the same people like to quote mantras about 'just being yourself', 'say anything you like' etc. It bugs me (and yeah, I think not buying a girl a $2 coffee on a date just makes you look like a t…
/r/seduction14/01/17 11:39 AM
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Do not rely on seduction "rules" (never buy her a drink, remember to neg, be cocky/funny, etc). Putting on an act = shittier self-esteem = shittier game. I like your post, but I read a lot of posts nowadays similar to the above quote. If we ignore the rules, is there any point in learning 'game' in the first place and even having this sub reddit? And isn't 'being yourself' what lead us all here in the first place~!!? :) Todd RSD made a video about this idea recently. He thinks people have basica…
/r/seduction14/01/17 11:17 AM
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Interesting question. I have a few real life examples. The first one is a bit unsavoury I guess, but someone I knew really 'wore down' a much younger girl to the point where she just 'gave in' and let him have his way with her. Maybe over the course of a few months? In the end it seems like it was more that she was scared/confused of what he could do to her in terms of her social value if she kept turning him down since he was older and more popular, although she wasn't 'into' him at all. Anothe…
/r/seduction13/01/17 11:20 PM
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Unfortunately it's not my own, but a friend of mine (I've mentioned him before. He is very handsome and always getting approached) was walking too his van in the carpark in the evning only to see it being blocked by another car. As he approached the car, a hot young girl ran up to him too apologise. She said ''It's my friends car, but she's getting drunk and not answering her phone''. He was like ''Don't worry about it, I can wait'', and then she got instantly flirty and said something like ''Ma…
/r/seduction13/01/17 08:41 AM
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how does one 'practice' making girls laugh? You mean experimenting with random things until you find something that seems to make girls laugh?
/r/seduction12/01/17 10:41 PM
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I don't know! Probably?! I certainly didn't tell her and she mentioned something before we had sex that implied that she thought i'd fucked lots of girls since the pickup was unusually, and ridiculously smooth. (never happened like that since!) In fact, I lasted a long time in bed (maybe 45 minutes?) since I (we) was so drunk, so maybe she thought that meant that i'd had lots of sex? I don't know! I'm not even sure what makes a guy 'good in bed' when it comes to actual penetration!
/r/seduction12/01/17 10:39 PM
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My friends think of me as having a good sense of humour, and i've been asked a number of times to be 'best man' at weddings. But I also often struggle to make girls laugh. I don't know whether I subconsciously become too serious around girls, or whether girls in general have a different sense of humour to guys. I remember listening to RSDTyler's foundations course, and he kept saying ''at this point, all I would do is say something to make the girl laugh'', and i'm thinking 'how?!!'. Is there a …
/r/seduction12/01/17 08:52 PM
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Pretty much agree with this guy. I lost my virginity fairly late in life through pulling a young girl home from a bar. I felt like a king for about 3 days. Like a new man. BUT, that feeling didn't last. Still having your V-card can consume your thoughts, but the lasting effect in terms of confidence once it's gone is trivial. In terms of women/sex etc, I still feel about as sad and hopeless about it all as I did when I was a virgin! I guess it's not so much the self imposed virgin tag, as it is …
/r/seduction12/01/17 07:27 PM
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Probably! I mean, truth is, Online dating and social media has been a 'game changer'. Them average girls who never got approached/compliments before are now drowning in sexual offers and validation. I wonder whether very young girls who have only really ever known the days of social media think it's very weird if you cold approach them, as if they're thinking ''If this guy could get laid, he'd be on tinder and not approaching me, so why would I want him?! next!!''
/r/seduction11/01/17 12:48 PM
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And there's a huge difference between complimenting a girl for something she has no control over, like her general looks, and complimenting her for something she has control over, like her personal style or the way she walks. There's also a big difference between compliments that require thought, and compliments that are the same compliments she has heard verbatim, over and over again. But I think what he is saying is that he DOES use compliments based on their beauty alone and that his complime…
/r/seduction10/01/17 08:27 PM
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I went to the gym 6 months non stop in 2016. I felt more confident but not with girls. You've hit the nail on the head in regards to the 'inner game' stuff which I really don't buy. Being confident in your well paid job and in your abililty to do your job well, and going to the gym etc doesn't really 'translate' into confidence when it comes to approaching some stunning girl at a bar! Confidence comes from positive references experiences IN THE SITUATION that you are working on. i.e - chatting u…
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:02 PM
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what's the best approach? I've been in that situation before with a girl rubbing up and bumping me despite there being lots of room, and i've grabbed the girl by the waste from behind, and they've ran away. I'm guessing it's best to maybe approach her from the side and grab her so she's facing you?
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:27 PM
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Good Field Report. ps - are you saying the first girl was under 18? (fake id?)
/r/seduction10/01/17 03:35 PM
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I'm jelly as shit that girls approach you (I think i've been approached twice in 30 years), but good job none-the-less! Keep it up
/r/seduction10/01/17 01:12 PM
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It's rough. I'm not a virgin, but i've never had a 'sex life' (and i'm OLD!) I've done all I can in terms of approaching and reading about pickup etc. It's been about 8 months and no real success yet, but all i can do is just keep on trucking. Maybe when we get very old, At some point our testosterone will drop to the point that we don't care anymore and ideally, we won't even feel 'regret' since it's just no longer important/something we think about!
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:17 AM
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I sort of do this! I say ''Watch me get rejected by this girl! It'll be funny!'' then I bowl over. I'ts how I got my only one night stand last year!
/r/seduction08/01/17 11:56 PM
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People will probably fight you on this, but I'd say in general, you're pretty much correct to be honest (although you appear to be a troll). That being said, A super hot girl will always have the 'power' and hold the cards. The guy is going after her and 'running his game' in order to try to seduce her. He is already seduced the second he laid eyes on her! She decides whether she chooses you or picks someone else (ignore this if you are like a celebrity or a male model!)
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:34 PM
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exactly. What does 'saw through him' mean, lol. They're supposed to know!! I'd say the first one was textbook, and the second one was hard to judge because....well, what can you do when a girl just doesn't want to talk to you and gives you one word answers?! My only issue with field reports is the huge amount of hindsight bias. If someone says ''I opened her with ''you look like a duck!' '' and they end up pulling, it's all '''great, fun opener, man! You Self amused! that helped you bang her!!''…
/r/seduction07/01/17 01:55 PM
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Good, isn't it. It was one example of a number of 'good' field reports i've seen recently, but that don't seem to ever get much in the way of advice/input etc. Plus Lots of them seem to always get downvoted unless it ends with someone having a threesome or something! The other one I linked has a nice layout for a FR in my mind and also deserved more input i'd say.
/r/seduction06/01/17 06:49 PM
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I've been in this situation a few months back, and I am now in this situation again.....in the same bar.....but with a different waitress!! With the first one, all I done was casually speak to her one night, like asked a question about the quiz. Then said hi too her a few nights after and we chatted briefly. We became acquaintances, but not really 'friends' as such. Anyway, I saw her out in a different bar one night when she wasn't working. She was 10x more friendly and started flirting, too. We…
/r/seduction05/01/17 11:40 PM
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Nice opener. I always try to picture myself in the environment when I read a Field Report, and so pictured the scene in my head before I read your opener. Frustratingly, I could't think of anything (which happens in real life all the time, lol). I'd have either said a boring ''Just looking for a notebook?'' (and then cringed inside) or have just been like ''Hi....I know this is random, but you are super cute!'' Anyway, good job, man.
/r/seduction05/01/17 09:02 PM
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But often we see FRs that give a sketchy outline of interactions without any basis in the principles of PUA. Could you elaborate on this? Maybe it's a bit like an RSDTodd video I saw recently where he talked about how the core principles of pickup are being ignored nowadays in favour of simply 'just self amuse', 'just have inner game and don't worry about what you say'', ''what you say doesn't matter...it's how you say it!!'' etc etc. Basically implying that there are really no rules in game I t…
/r/seduction05/01/17 05:45 PM
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Field Reports should be much more frequent and encouraged. I noticed that, for some reason, lots of the time people are downvoted for them. It seem the only time someone gets upvoted is if he ended up pulling. I read some great FR's from a certain poster recently, and they seemed to be getting downvoted a fair bit as well as almost zero comments/input (probably because he 'failed' to pull!) And yes, I also notice certain bloggers post old content from their youtube channels again and again. Post…
/r/seduction05/01/17 10:03 AM
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that is encouraging, although at the same time I have to confess that i'm concerned at how I don't really seem to have improved at all. The only changes are that i'm slightly braver at approaching and maybe a little less anxious, but I still suck at making teh conversation 'fun', and at keeping their interest, running out of things to say, failing to capitalise on any 'threads' that they might give me (I typically think of the 'correct' reply about an hour later when it's too late! :)) Maybe i'l…
/r/seduction02/01/17 03:43 PM
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I've always been fairly unsuccessful with girls, but then at the same time I never really approached girls much. However, my handsome friends never approached girls either, yet they always got laid, lol. Girls would just come on to them and make it super easy for them. It's a different game if you are lucky enough to be handsome. You don't need 'game' at all. Even though i'm old, I only got into 'pickup' about 8 months ago. Maybe 500 approaches at a complete guess? Hardly any results to speak of…
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:32 PM
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I made a SHIT TONNE of approaches this year. Been very hard on the ego and I find it hard to believe i'll ever get much success, but gonna just keep on going in 2017! Don't seem to have improved much in the way of general conversation. Eveyone told me that i'd naturally get better the more I done it, but they appear to be wrong, lol. I definitely had some awkward, stilted conversations last night with girls at bars! Just hard to know what to talk about, especially when all I read is what NOT to …
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:23 PM
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I'm with him on the conversational skills thing. (But I don't really care about his first two concerns) I just get so stuck with it all. Say opening a girl in a bar for example, and after the open, I naturally ask things like 'who are you with', 'how's your night going' etc? I also do the whole 'make assumptions' thing and try to guess their job etc, but I still find myself running out of things very soon, and sometimes the girl looks a bit bored. I never know whether this is correct or not. Som…
/r/seduction12/10/16 10:18 PM
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Sounds like she picked you up, but good job none-the-less! I'm jelly! I'm assuming you're a good looking mofo for girls to basically hit on you?
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:16 PM
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There you can run normal game on her. What does your 'normal game' look like, out of interest? (lots of people seem to almost have their own definition of what 'running game' is) You just talk a lot and ask her questions to build comfort, throw in lots of teasing to build attraction, good eye contact, 'pull' when she is saying things you like as a reward and 'push' when she does the opposite, at some point isolate, ramp up the kino, go for the kiss kind of thing?? ps - OP. I also have loads of f…
/r/seduction12/10/16 09:43 AM
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I'm gaming a shy girl in my social circle What have you done so far in terms of 'gaming her'? How long have you been friends?
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:43 AM
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I notice you always tell them that you think they are hot, whether it's a direct or indirect sort of opener. This goes against lots of what I read here which is to ''show your intent without actually verbally saying it'' Or maybe that advice is possibly more meant for night game or when you're going for a same day/night lay? And also that actually verbally stating it puts all of the power in their hand? what are your thought on this?
/r/seduction11/10/16 10:37 PM
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usually the attractive ones want you to make her seem like she's the hottest thing in the world. So you should neg her, don't act too interested? And the very less confident ones can't really believe that you genuinely like them so they get really defensive. So the same with girls with low self esteem, too? Neg and act disinterested? So it's always the same no matter what the girl is like?
/r/seduction11/10/16 09:14 PM
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I think just making shit up - lying about just having got back from a holiday or something, and just ramble on to build comfort might be my next trick!
/r/seduction11/10/16 09:08 PM
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Obviously much better than some random guy, but didn't seem as smooth as lots of infields if i'm honest. Still decent, though. Do you find it lots easier got speak with foreign girls in London as opposed to local girls? I still find that UK girls are very weirded out when being approached. I had a girl in bar last night ask me if I had approached her and her friend for 'a dare' because they were so shocked at a stranger just coming up to them and talking to them!! They were like ''You just go up…
/r/seduction11/10/16 01:09 PM
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I tend to be VERY VERY skeptical of 'infield footage' since I saw a vid that proved that all of the guys who I'd been watching to try to learn from had actually been using paid actresses! That being said, this guy certainly has the gift of conversation down! I'm jealous. I tend to go into interview mode and run out of things to say etc, but he just has a motor mouth (in a good way). I might watch this a few times to see if I can spot how he does it. I guess lots of statements, talking about hims…
/r/seduction10/10/16 11:25 PM
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Girls are crazy, and really nobody has the answers you want! You'd literally need to read HER mind. I had a girl open me once with a freaking cheesy chat up line and then gave me her number! I obviously thought I was 'in', and was so happy because she was as hot as hell and like 15 years younger than me! Actually, what happened next was very very similar to you in terms of the texting. Basically boring one word answers, and didn't actually seem to want to meet me when I suggested it (little excu…
/r/seduction10/10/16 09:04 PM
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I'm at a similar stage, man. I probably don't make as many approaches as you (Only a few times per week for me) but I'm also at around the 6 months mark, and like you, it's just constant rejections. Nothing seems to work. I experiment with trying all kinds of things. Not sure what my next step should be now! Tempted to just take a break and stop approaching, but not sure if that will help me at all. That's what I spent my life doing before which lead me here in the first place!
/r/seduction09/10/16 12:54 PM
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I don't get any joy either, but read the lay reports for the various pickup forums like rooshv, attractinoforums, goodlooking loser etc, and then tell me what you think! It's all tinder lays.
/r/seduction20/09/16 11:25 PM
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Most definitely not talking about myself, but nowadays it seems it's all about tinder or social circle. Going out to bars and getting laid with consistency is not something i've ever seen with my own eyes, and I have lots of friends! A few of my exceptionally good looking friends done OK with it, but typically the girls would approach them!!
/r/seduction20/09/16 06:24 PM
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Am I "doomed" if I'm not a professional guitarist, or drummer, or personal fitness trainer? Hehehe. I know people who have never had a job, who have zero ambition, and are, in most senses of the word, the biggest losers you can imagine, and some of them absolutely kill it with the girls and have amazing sex lives! They are typically 'bad boys' I guess you could say, and some of them are in relationships with girls who have brilliant, well-paid jobs and kind of 'keep them'. Others just bang all o…
/r/seduction20/09/16 03:12 PM
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Dude screw online dating. Too much effort barely any results. Based on what i've read on various pickup forums, that couldn't possibly more untrue? (not trying to be an ass) It seems that things like tinder make up the VAST majority of peoples lays on the various 'lay report' threads on pretty much ALL pickup forums! People seem to get like 1 bang per 100 cold approaches, but can get a tinder bang almost at will with almost zero effort (although obviously yuo'd need to be decent lookling)
/r/seduction20/09/16 02:39 PM
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yeah, it's a tough one. On one hand, We are supposed to be direct and 'make our intentions clear', but at the same time, not give them the 'power' and remember that 'WE are the prize' and not be needy and also to make them chase us.
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:21 AM
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I'm looking to experiment with etizolam (a benzodiazepine ) to see how it effects things like approach anxiety (and SA in general which i think is all linked)
/r/seduction14/08/16 12:23 PM
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but do they get results? Do them guys usually get to smash?
/r/seduction14/08/16 10:40 AM
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I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. You can't make girls attracted to you. You can't. Either they are or their not Whilst I agree with you, doesn't that kind of go against everything we 'learn'? Like...'game' as a whole? My general theory is that it's about looks and if a girl doesn't see you as a potential sexual partner within 2 seconds, then all the 'game' in the world that you run won't change her mind. I kind of see 'game' as helping you to bang the girls that are already into you, and…
/r/seduction13/08/16 02:51 PM
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lol, mate, i have the same problem. In my group, most have girlfriends, and the single guys are very bitter and think all girls want male models and that they're too ugly, so they dno't approach. I'm not good looking either, so when I approach and get rejected and come back to the group, they can sometimes make me feel bad like ''mate, why do you bother? At least aim lower! she was gorgeous!! out of your league....'' etc etc. I mean, they're not all like that, but just one or 2 of those comments…
/r/seduction13/08/16 09:13 AM
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like...pre-mature babies?
/r/seduction12/08/16 03:53 PM
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With looks theory, I'm always slightly conflicted. On the downside, the very good looking people I know have more sex than anyone I know, with the hottest girls, and with the smallest amount of 'effort'. (they don't tend to approach, they get approached). They don't know 'game'. Any 'game' they have is just natural confidence as a result of being given compliments on their appearance since they were children. However, I concede that I also know one or two people who are about as ugly as me, yet …
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:24 AM
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Oh, I know people lie. But it was so easy to believe since I was often there when girls were falling over themselves to get a glimpse of him, or when girls approached him in bars. The deal was already done when they saw him. It was no stretch of the imagination to believe he fucked most of them. Obviously I wasn't there whilst he had sex (well, I kind of was one time in fact!) but lots of the time I'd find out anyway as a result of an angry girl he'd pumped and dempued who knew someone that I kn…
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:10 AM
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You don't have to be making lots of money to have your shit together however you should work towards achieving some sort of financial stability Yeah, I mean for me personally, I have never been able to earn more than minimum wage through a mixture of low IQ/intelligence (thus struggled academically), then got cancer, and combined with social anxiety, I was destined to be loading lorries and such. However, I've been known to lie mjy ass off (successfully) about my job etc in order to get girls in…
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:31 PM
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Well thoguht out post. As someone whose never had confidence (but like you, at times I can be AMAZING at faking it to the point hot girls tell me they like me because I am confident!) I found it interesting. I'll be honest and admit that recently i've even been thinking about taking certain drugs to give me instant confidence. I have a few friends who's success with girls literally sky rocketed when they started popping pills on nights out. Like a damn miracle! From shy (nearly)-virgins, to slay…
/r/seduction11/08/16 06:06 PM
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If you go out with the same confidence women use, "I'm guy therefor all women want to fuck me" You're right that women get confidence for free since guys are desperate for sex and they have teh vagina. But the problem is that, in the case of the girl, it's actually true. Just telling yourself that you're a guy and therefore all women want to fuck you doesn't mean anything. YOu can't just magic up confidence with positive self talk. And all the self talk in the world doesn't change the actual fac…
/r/seduction11/08/16 03:16 PM
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i don't care either, if i'm honest. Just looks. 2nd important is being 'fun'. Confidence, i can take or leave
/r/seduction11/08/16 03:11 PM
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Do you mean having a very well paid job by 'having their shit together?' I've always earnt minimum wage so for that reason, I tend towards one-night-stands than with trying to get a girlfriend, as I think as far as relationships go, that stuff matters and she wuoldn't be interested, but you can be unemployed and still get 1 night stands. Also, i guess it's partly to do with the culture of the poorer parts of the UK (tihnk chavs) but I actually know of a number of man-children who have steady gir…
/r/seduction11/08/16 03:07 PM
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what is a man-child in this context? Someone who is needy? Or who can't make decisions so needs their girlfriend to do it? (you mentioned they don't want to your mom)
/r/seduction11/08/16 12:57 PM
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I have learned so many things go into play when you go up. Do tell
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:38 AM
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To be honest, I don't. Some nights, I'll leave the house and I just don't think I'll have a chance at pulling a girl. I feel low on confidence and feel down/ugly, and I can't snap out of it. But some days, for some unknown reason, I'll wake up and i'll feel slightly better. Not confident. I'm not a confident person, don't forget. But I feel 'good' enough that I feel able to PRETEND to be confident. I go out and act. I must be a good actor and I probably missed my vocation in life! :) I don't get…
/r/seduction11/08/16 07:20 AM
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same. It's just mental masturbation on my part as i'm way too socially anxious to actually do anything like that, but i'm still curious. How old are you, OP??
/r/seduction10/08/16 08:14 PM
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it can be done. I have ZERO confidence, but sometimes i've convinced girls that i'm some sort of superconfident stud, and i've banged them, and they told me that it was my confidence that they liked. (i giggled inside when i first heard this! if only she knew!!!) I literally act like i'm being filmed and am playing the role of a confident guy. Unfortunately this doesn't always work since sometimes my mood is just too low to be convincing or to even try, but at times it can definitely work.
/r/seduction10/08/16 08:06 PM
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Sounds like he doesn't have any game (no confidence?) but you have a crush on him anyway. That's probably good news for most of us here! Goes against everything i read And yeah, he probably likes you back. Go for it
/r/seduction10/08/16 04:40 PM
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Regarding humour, not to blow my own trumpet, but I am thought of as someone with a good sense of humour among my friends and family. I've been asked to be 'best man' at 3 friends weddings, partly because they assumed i'd give a hilarious speech. (i declined each time, but that's besides the point) . Despite having some social anxiety growing up (which typically results in people having zero friends), I still maintained hundreds of them! People seem to like me. However, I find that I often becom…
/r/seduction10/08/16 12:38 PM
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interesting. But only VERY good looking guys can rely o getting approached by girls, so i guess 'being the prize' is just about being like a male model. About 95% of guys on this sub approach, so we are pretty short on prizes around here, lol
/r/seduction10/08/16 11:48 AM
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we shouldn't approach?
/r/seduction10/08/16 11:36 AM
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we're all the prize, apparently.
/r/seduction10/08/16 09:39 AM
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Definitely not a virgin, but also if it wasn't for the liquor confidence, I probably would be. That goes for about 90% of the people i've ever known! Don't feel too bad. Your SA can't be THAT bad if you're going ona Euro trip all by yourself. Just stay safe and try to have some fun.
/r/seduction10/08/16 09:27 AM
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mate, it sucks! I hate it, lol. So many times at the weekend, 3-5 girls at a time would come over to us (him) and start touching him and talking to him, and i'd then try to make a move on the ones who were more on the outskirts (Like 2 girls were in his face touching him and flirting, and the other 3 were kind of standing behind them 2 girls), and each time they would just turn away or shoo me away as if to say ''No thanks! we like HIM!!'' , lol. Doesn't feel nice. I prefer going out with my ugl…
/r/seduction09/08/16 10:46 PM
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I wish that was the case. He doesn't even really have much style, lol. He's not big on fashion and stuff. He actually looks fairly umkempt I'll admit that he IS fairly charming, but the thing is, girls throw themselves at him without him saying a word. He just has the face! And yes, he does have confidence which comes from a life of girls throwing themselves at you, but i think without having that reference/experience, yuo can't expect to adopt that same confidence? I really can't tihnk of anyth…
/r/seduction09/08/16 08:29 PM
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It honestly sounds similar to my friend. He had some issues growing up and probably some abandonment stuff going on. So yeah...a certain emptiness. I was actually out clubbing with him for the first time in a while this past weekend and it was as painful for my ego as ever! Just me and him dancing, and girls drooling over him and approaching him, whilst I was getting rejected left and right, lol. The time before that when I was out with him, he fucked a gorgeous girl in his car within, i'd say, …
/r/seduction09/08/16 08:19 PM
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I've had very little success with girls so i'm not talking from experience, but my friend is super good looking and so has banged hundreds upon hundreds of pretty girls, and has stunners throwing themselves at him everyday, and he cheated on all of his girlfriends etc, but a few years ago, he found a girl who he adores and says she is his soul mate, and since then, despite having girls basically offering themselves to him on a plate with their legs spread, he is yet to cheat. I can only imagine …
/r/seduction09/08/16 07:58 PM
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People say you have to develop an abundance mentality and all this crap but a lot of it does come down to actual success. If you're a virgin and approach a 100 women and don't sleep with a single one, it's going to be difficult to believe in your abilities. Yes, a lot of the pua stuff is silly. It's like 'just be confident, bro!' lol. Where do people think confidence comes from? :) Are you saying you have literally had NO semblance of interest from any woman you've ever approached? How many appr…
/r/seduction09/08/16 07:45 PM
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''I'm the prize! I'm the prize!!....teh fact that they don't seem interested doesn't change that! I'm the PRIZE!!!''
/r/seduction09/08/16 07:36 PM
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I have never done cold approach that's interesting. I really don't want to throw the towel in, as to me, that (approaching girls) is really what pickup is mainly about! But It just really feels so impossible sometimes and when girls just reject you in a second so often, it further erodes ones confidence. UK girls seem to see you as a weirdo if you talk to them without knowing them first! Not to mention that so many of my friends have slept with hundreds of girls, and i've basically never seen th…
/r/seduction09/08/16 04:50 PM
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Well i'm getting old now and will never be able to 'catch up' with all my friends who have all slept with lots and lots of girls, but I imagine at some point the 'high' kind of wears off? That's kind of what Russell Brand said in an interview. He'd banged a ridiculous amount of girls before he was even famous, and obviously once he became famous, the game became even easier!
/r/seduction09/08/16 03:14 PM
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what concepts helped the most? I've been reading here for nearly a year and trying to apply the stuff when i go out and approach girls, but girls really just aren't that interested in me. I get almost 100% not interested, and i think it ca only be due to my face. I'm legit considering plastic surgery (nose job, chin job for a start) as all my good looking friends are drowning in pussy!
/r/seduction09/08/16 02:58 PM
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Also be better looking if you want to avoid the friend zone weeps
/r/seduction09/08/16 01:53 PM
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i can never think of an opener other than like ''Hi!'', so for me, i tihnk maybe i need to always used canned openers. But i even forget THEM in the heat of the moment, so might have to start writing them on my hand! lol
/r/seduction09/08/16 07:26 AM
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yeah, it sucks when that happens. I saw some girl on Saturday who looked like Mila Kunis, but maybe an even hotter version! And lots younger I just couldn't approach her. I didn't really know how to open (she was at a bus stop, couldn't think of anything 'good') and I kept thinking that she cuold literally get any guy she wants, and was probably going home to see her 6ft 4 male model boyfriend, lol However, you definitely get over it pretty soon. I know i do. The pain lasts about 3 days :)
/r/seduction08/08/16 11:01 PM
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Not really sure. I know people who break all the rules and who do well with girls. I know a classic 'nice guy' who is a bit needy and 'soppy'/beta etc around girls, but he pulls a fair bit. Lots of game theory talk about the idea that if you want to get lots of girls you need to have your life in check with a good job, interesting hobbies, etc etc, but again, I know LOTS of people (as a result of where I live) who have never had a job, probably never will, have no money, not much of a social lif…
/r/seduction08/08/16 09:31 PM
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lol, same! Some guys get all the luck ;)
/r/seduction07/08/16 08:21 PM
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what if he was drunk, too? Do they both go to prison? lol
/r/seduction06/08/16 09:50 AM
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you've never tried to pull a girl in your home town?
/r/seduction06/08/16 09:49 AM
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yeah, it's much easier with foreign girls.
/r/seduction06/08/16 09:48 AM
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i think it's kind of a little 'cheat', because when talking to someone who doesn't live in the same country as you and stuff, you automatically have lots of natural easy openers and things to talk about and even little things to tease them on (accent etc) which gives you much needed time. Muc,h less chance of awkward, stilted interactions
/r/seduction06/08/16 09:47 AM
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to be fair, some coaches who have been teaching this for years say that indirect is superior. Obviously others disagree. So i'd say it's not even a crutch. If you feel more confident with them, then just keep using them.
/r/seduction06/08/16 08:57 AM
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If it makes you feel better, quite a lot of it has been exposed as fake. Some of the RSD guys have used their girlfriends in vids and the same girls in different vids, too. There's been adverts found where certain pua's are recruiting for 'models'. That muscly pua (forget his name) was exposed as frauding some time ago, too. Not to mention that if those who are legit, they can literally fail 100 approaches, and then succeed, and then upload the successful interaction.
/r/seduction05/08/16 05:02 PM
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Other times I have been told to fuck off for saying much more innocent things because I was not in state and the girl sensed that I was a little nervous and they probably thought I was putting up a mask and not being relaxed around hot girls. Or it could just be that that particular girl just had a very different personality to the one who let you get away with the insnse stuff. We need to remember that a hell of a lot of pickup is about the girl.
/r/seduction05/08/16 04:36 PM
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sorry. The friend of the target was the one who wouldn't leave us alone (Me and the target were joking and kino'ing/flirting /laughing the whole time) and the friend was giving me shit tests and little digs etc. (in front of her friend as if to get her friend to stop liking me)
/r/seduction05/08/16 01:26 PM
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lol, this kind of happened to me a while ago. I had an unusually good vibe/interaction going on with this pretty girl i approached in a bar, but her friend took an instant dislike to me. The girl I liked, was into me enough not to let her friend drag her away from me when she tried (this seems to happen SO MUCH! Fucking friends, 'saving' the girl you're talking too!), but then the friend was just giving me shit test after shit test, little insults etc etc, in front of the other girl. I tried my …
/r/seduction05/08/16 01:09 PM
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I'll be honest in that my sample size regarding openers is still fairly small, but pretty much all of the bad rejections have been from when I smile and just say 'hi'. (yes, I smile and try to project confidence) All of my better interactions have been using 'funny' canned openers/routines. Quite elaborate, really, which can get tiring! But i definitely want to confirm my suspisions by making a good few more approaches with just a simple 'hi' (and maybe a 'what are you up too?'' as suggested abo…
/r/seduction05/08/16 10:07 AM
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the guys who get laid on tinder from what i've seen open with ''You DTF?'' Then they either get blocked, or get laid! I think girls swipe on guys who they think aren't ugly, but they still would never sleep with most of the guys they swipe on. They just want validation and the knowledge that somewhat attractive people are desperate to bang them and think the'yre pretty. So maybe best to jsut weed them out. Forget about 'game' on tinder i think. It's looks based
/r/seduction05/08/16 07:50 AM
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when something similar to what happened to the OP happened to me, i said to teh girl, ''just so you know, you're nowhere near pretty enough to have an attitude like that''. She went ape shit and tried to attack me, lol. Then I nearly had to beat up some idiot who began white knighting her!
/r/seduction05/08/16 07:45 AM
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well that's pretty normal, really. White knights and all that. But aggressive girls who don't like strangers talking to them is a UK thing, so that's why i guessed that. I nearly got in a fist fight with a guy a few weeks back who was white knighting a random girl who gave me a brital rejection. He shit his pants when I got back out the cab and offered him out. He was all brave as i was getting in the cab, but looked like a scared little boy when i got back out and moved towards him to throttle …
/r/seduction05/08/16 07:39 AM
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equal rights for equal lefts. Don't worry about it, stud. PS, you're not in the UK are you?? that's how lots of UK girls are!
/r/seduction05/08/16 07:32 AM
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if someone throws a punch, they should expect one back. You done nothing wrong
/r/seduction05/08/16 07:32 AM
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yeah, my head was in a spin when i first started reading various books and watching various peoples vids. Is it all over complicated? When someone says 'learn game!', do tehy really just mean, ''learn to be more socially skilled, have balls to approach girls, try to isolate at some point and then make yuor move!'' I've read abuot 5 books now, but sometimes i tihnk that everything you need to know about 'game' could probably be written o teh back of a beer mat. I think since it's a bit of a money…
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:10 PM
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why are all pickup vids, approaches on foreign girls? like about 90%!
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:05 PM
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do you mean, as you approach? Anyway, i have a really bad resting bitch face so without meaning too, i often look angry/scared/serious. It's very annoying. Even looked into surgery to fix it! How should one look when they approach, anyway? (assuming that's what you're asking) I always assumed a slight smile? So friendly but not creepy clown!? But then i've also read some people say you should look kind of 'intrigued', so almost neutral mouth, but kind of scrunched up eyebrows?
/r/seduction04/08/16 04:51 PM
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''I like you. Make out with me'' That's all you need as a hot teen girl
/r/seduction04/08/16 01:19 PM
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post how the interactions went. How did you open, what was the situation, how did the convos go etc
/r/seduction04/08/16 01:17 PM
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Yeah, Max is blatantly very good looking. Anyone who knows anything about facial aesthetics can see that. Tyler isn't bad looking either, really. He certainly won't turn any heads, but his face doesn't have anything 'off about it. People who are more on the ugly side (me for example from certain angles!) usually have things that are a bit 'off' such as a big nose or a very small chin, or a long face etc etc. In my case, I won't ever be 'good looking' unless i get some surgeries done, but there's…
/r/seduction04/08/16 12:00 PM
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if i have nothing at all in mind, then all i naturally come out with is like ''hi!'' Then they're like ''Hello??'' (slightly on guard because a stranger is talking to them. UK girls don't like being approached and aren't social). Then I realise i have nothing planned and just ask ''how are you'' I feel this gets the interaction off on a weird footing. I think i need to have openers planned, personally. A couple in my head for a few different situations (girl byy herself at bar, girl with a frien…
/r/seduction04/08/16 08:20 AM
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they obviously matter a hell of a lot. All of my very good looking friends are always pulling and none of them have studied game or anything. But then with my ugly friends, most of them get no action, HOWEVER, there are like 1 or 2 guys who do well with girls and ar always punching well above ther weight in terms of looks. Now, these guys haven't studied 'game' either. However, they are naturally extremely confident guys despite their lack of attractiveness. It's as if they look in the mirror an…
/r/seduction04/08/16 07:59 AM
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But you have lots of shared memories and things to talk about with your friends. These are the kind of the things people talk about with their friends, but you obviously don't have these things to talk about with people you don't know. Last night me and a friend spent ages talking about a wedding we both attended where some crazy stuff happened, and about a holiday we went on once. Obviously can't do that with a stranger...??....
/r/seduction03/08/16 08:59 PM
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conversation examples of how you do this?
/r/seduction03/08/16 08:27 PM
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i would say it's hard to know why you failed and hard to know why you succeeded, though . That's kind of the problem with trying to 'learn from experience'. There's just infinite variables as to what lead to the result which does cause frustration! Even things as simple as a particular open leading to a good interaction, and then only ever using that open inthe future, or visa versa, walking up and saying ''Hi, i'm jack!'' and then her looking all weirded out like she's never spoken too a strang…
/r/seduction03/08/16 04:26 PM
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dunno. I guess it depends on how good looking YOU are and how good looking the girls you approach are for one. Also, there's lots of people out there who have neither studied or even heard of 'game' who do well, so I wouldn't expect miracles. After I studied game for a month or 2, I went out and made my first ever cold approach on a girl in a bar, and I banged her back at my place within an a few hours. I felt like a genius. But in hindsight, I didn't really use many of the techniques that i'd r…
/r/seduction03/08/16 04:15 PM
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i thought it was just an app where people send pics to each other. I downloaded it a while back, but i didn't really get it and deleted it soon after. Didn't know what pics to send ppl, lol. Like, if i had a job as a sky diving instructor, i could send some cool interesting pics to girls, but otherwise.....
/r/seduction03/08/16 03:00 PM
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isn't snap chat that thing that kids use, where girls send selfies, and guys send dic pics?
/r/seduction03/08/16 12:50 PM
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i think lots of PUA's have a few openers in their head that they always use in the event that they can't see anything interesting to comment on? I'm personally still trying to think of some 'good' simple canned openers for bars for these situations where my brain struggles to observe anything interesting other than something extremelt dull. Ideally something that will get them smiling, as all of my best interractions (some leading to F close) have happened when i managed to get her laughing with…
/r/seduction03/08/16 09:48 AM
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if it was easy to get such pills here in the UK i'd do it! I've tried phenibut after reading lots of great things about it, but it had zero effect on me. I'm hoping that maybe the particular brand i bought was bad and maybe i'll try again with a different brand
/r/seduction02/08/16 07:30 PM
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I'm jealous that you can remember things in the moment from RSD vids and stuff! I have a shit shit memory and my mind goes bank, lol. I always realise the next day, like ''damn, i could have used julian RSD's line in response to what she said there''. Anyway, you sound like a pickup pro from that field report, like you threw every piece of game theory at her! Keep it going, i guess!
/r/seduction02/08/16 07:26 PM
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too many RSD infield vids could be the issue, lol.
/r/seduction02/08/16 08:28 AM
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Yeah fear not. My aforementioned preference/opinion doesn't extend to oral!
/r/seduction01/08/16 04:26 PM
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I guess we're all different! I get majorly turned on by slamming a girl who I find super hot! I'd MUCH rather have sex with a 10/10 who has no idea what she's doing, than with a 5 who is a sexpert. (ps - i'm not a virgin :))
/r/seduction01/08/16 04:10 PM
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And honestly, you should know more about a girl before you will have any idea if the sex would even be worth it. For me, if she's hot and young, the sex will be worth it! She could literally just lay there like a star fish and i'd have the time of my life if she's super hot.
/r/seduction01/08/16 03:41 PM
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I tend to agree with you. Especially here in the UK! Just approaching and talking to strangers is STILL really a weird tihng to do. And as you say, when i think about, im' as guilty as anyone! Just a few weeks back I was sitting on a bench in a park on my own having some lunch, and a forreign person came over to me and asked if they could sit next to me. My immediate reaction was to say ''There's lots of empty benches around here!!'', but I kind of stopped myself from blurting it out! Then they …
/r/seduction01/08/16 02:09 PM
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Yeah, i'm ugly and i've had the odd girl approach me, too. VERY infrequently, lol And they can't tell you're cocky and funny from across the room, unfortunately. You need to speak to them, first. But I thought this sub was about game and seduction as opposed to 'how to be good looking so that girls approach you and chat YOu up''
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:10 PM
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:)
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:08 PM
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Why don't you just sit there and wait for them to approach you? Errr....you being serious?? Good luck with that unless you look like a fricking male model, lol
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:01 PM
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I wish I could help you! I get the same thing. I went through a tinder thread on another forum a while ago in America, and so many of the guys were hooking up with girls every night. I was so jealous. I downlaoded tinder here in the UK, and i even copied the openers of the successful american guys, and the reactions from the girls were just completely boring/diss-interested. I'm starting to tihnk that tinder is best for Americans - ideally young, good looking ones in college or something. Like y…
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:26 PM
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:)
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:19 PM
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thanks. I mean, this is my way of thinking too, but sometimes I read posts here, and they imply to me that when you are good at 'game' then nothing should stop you from getting any girl you fancy. As if game is some sort of black magic, and nothing else matters. Her having a boyfriend, you being black and her being racist, you being 90 years old and her being 18 etc etc. It kind of screws with my head. I even kind of dislike the word 'game', like when people say ''once i learnt game, I started h…
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:09 PM
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by 'finding what works for you', do you mean just tracking the result of each interaction and remembering how I opened? I mean, I was able to get sex out of a girl in a bar a little while ago within a few hours, and my opener was a kind of canned/funny opener - basically pretending that I knew her and having a silly story. Since it worked, I thought ''great! That's my opener forever!!'' and since that night, i've used it about 20 times, and i've had almost 100% negative reactions! :) But yeah, i…
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:43 PM
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Interesting. You appear to be in the minority with that view from what i've seen. You must get in a lot of arguments here :) Most seem to think that 'game' is a thing taht you can learn and can learn what to say, how to say it, what order of events to do certain things (escelate at this point, qualify her after this point)etc etc, and that it can override how ugly you are and stuff. I'm still too new to have an opinion either way, but i DO know that my good looking friends who knno nothing about…
/r/seduction08/07/16 04:15 PM
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Just be attractive physically So Do you think 'game' doesn't really exist? fucking girls is basically down to looks? Note: i'm not arguing with you btw! I've studied loads of material for ages, but i don't think it's helped me at all!
/r/seduction08/07/16 11:48 AM
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If a girl 'wants outs' wouldn't that imply that ones game isn't good enough, yet? Should a guy with the best game on planet earth never get rejected?
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:24 AM
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so you just walk up and say ''Hi, i'm jack.what are you up too tonight?'' (that sort of question). I had a brutal rejection last night where I walked up to a girl, smiled and said 'hi' and before I could get another word out she looked at me and said ''Eeerrrr...not interested!'' and then her mate dragged her away! lol I also kind of feel as though there should be a UK specific seddit. I know this will sound strange to you (I assume you're American) but 'introducing' yourself (walking up to a gi…
/r/seduction08/07/16 09:12 AM
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I think i've tried everything, but i don't plan to give up. Thing is, i did get laid a while back, so does that mean my 'game' worked? Why then didn't the same aproach and general conversation work with the next girl? That's why i think looks must come into it. The girl that I pulled, maybe i pulled in spite of 'game' and not 'because' of it? How do you approach girls in bars/clubs? What do you say? Can you basically always pull any girl you want now? thanks
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:54 AM
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hey. Yeah, i've watched loads of tylers vids. To be honest, I think he's OK looking. Not super handsome, but deffo not ugly! Plus people say the vids are fake?? I hope not! And yeah, i'm obviously still trying to learn? But in my group of friends, the ones who pull have no game, but are very handsome and since it's always in my face, it's hard to get away from hard truth But yeah, i'm still trying. I got 4 rejections last night and called it a day! All very fast rejections. Gonna try again tonig…
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:33 AM
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I've studied game for a while now but don't tend to have much luck unfortunately. But in theory, are you saying that like, my 84 year old grandad could start fucking 18 year old hot cheerleaders if he learnt what best to say when approaching girls and how to 'neg' them and about 'kino' etc etc (or whatever one thinks 'game' is) ? I mean, surely looks matter a hell of a lot? regards
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:21 AM
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i'll take my chances with the angry dads. I'm guessing you're just in a different country with ta very different culture. Probably the US
/r/seduction11/06/16 10:24 AM
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:) - Hansen dealt with guys who were breaking the law ;)
/r/seduction11/06/16 10:09 AM
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you sound a bit like me in the looks department! And I know what you mean about how it's hard to be confident when you know that you are objectively not great looking! Like you, I also have a few 'male model' looking friends who get hit on NON STOP which is hard to watch! They don't need to do anything at all to get sex with the hottest girls. They could be a mute and still clean up But I get 'inspiration' from a number of other friends that i have who, like me, are simply fairly unattractive ph…
/r/seduction13/05/16 06:48 PM
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I know what you mean. For me, I find UK the hardest. It's like I smile and say ''Hey! How are you tonight??'' and I get a look as if to say ''Errrrrrr.....Do we know each other?!''. I actually found it easier in the US and the girls were MUCH more approachable funnily enough. Although maybe that's the Brit accent?!! But when I went travelling to various European countries people just seemed so different. I like the way you worded it ''Paranoia vs curiosity''. It's strange, really...
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:30 PM
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thanks. Guess it's fairly simple when you put it like that. I guess I just want another crack at her at some point so I don't want to completely fall out of contact. Also don't want to look desperate. And also don't want a 'relationship'
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:26 PM
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I'll look into a brain transplant to make me super clever and stuff so I can earn millions! ;)
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:25 PM
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that's interesting. I hear so much stuff about how it's 50x easier to pull girls in certain countries in comparison to say the US or the UK. It is kind of depressing to think about.
/r/seduction20/04/16 07:27 PM
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I think the ambition thing makes sense with tring to get a girlfriend, but with hust hooking up with a girl on a night out for a one-night-stand, it often doesn't even come up. And if it does, he should just lie his ass off and say he wants to be a big time writer or something - he wants write a best selling novel! my friends who do best with girls aren't ambitius or itelligent, but they are good looking, and confident. Probably confident from being good looking (sometimes they're funny with a g…
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:57 PM
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