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| 31 | ''One can't create attraction in a girl - only amplify existing attraction'' | jimmynonose | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 12:30 PM | |
| 4 | Anyone successfully using mysterymethod in the UK? | jimmynonose | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 03:25 PM | |
| 4 | Is going out with handsome wings a bad idea? (bad for the psyche) | jimmynonose | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 08:27 PM | |
| 2 | What does LoveIsland in the UK tell us about seduction? | jimmynonose | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 11:20 AM | |
| 1 | share your favourite indirect conversation starters in bars | jimmynonose | /r/seduction | 19/06/19 10:25 PM | |
| 1 | how do you approach and transition/build attraction in louder environmetns? | jimmynonose | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 03:58 PM | |
| 0 | Your favourite indirect openers at night? | jimmynonose | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 05:03 PM |
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| 4 | Game is really just flirtingNow I can talk women into threesomes, because I know the right things to say to make that attractive what do you say? | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Seduction is a numbers gameI feel like if people got to spend a week with their favourite PUA youtuber, they'd realise that they experienced similar success/rejection rates to themselves! The only difference is the volume. One can't game a girl into finding him attractive lol. Her mind is made up before you've even finished your opener. Same as you with a girl. But one can definitely improve to the point where he's banging a higher percentage of these attracted girls. Bad 'game' can mean losing lots of the girls who thoug… | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | ''One can't create attraction in a girl - only amplify existing attraction''For example, if a girl is taken, and you push her buttons the right way, she will feel attracted Thing is, I don't think that's actually true (although i've obviously read that in PUA books too) There must be a million examples of guys trying to implement techniques and lines that they're read in books etc, and the girl still has zero attraction to the guy since he's just not her type | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Looks do matter, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.cuz I didn’t know how to spark attraction even though I was physically attractive How did you do it? In practical terms? What things did you say and do to spark attraction that you weren't doing before? ps - your story isn't ideal. I don't think people are disputing the fact that if you have zero 'game' you can fail to close a girl - even if she thinks yuo're ''hot''. They're saying that without her thinking you're 'handsome/hot' you'll never get close despite running 'game' cheers | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 01:43 PM |
| 3 | How to act when you see someone again that rejected you?MAKE her interested/attracted by using 'game'? lol - just kidding. Just act kind of aloof but still friendly. Basically, as the other guy said, 'smile and move along'. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successfully using mysterymethod in the UK?Hi. Pretty sure my body language and stuff was fine. In regards to negging too much, is that clear from my script? Does that read as negging too much too early? It doesn't appear to be making girls attracted to me despite me following verbatim lines from mystery method. Can you list me a few of your typical openers / initial negs / transitions / IOD's for when she fails to play ball etc? I'll test them tonight or tomorrow night Maybe my lines aren't good enough or not quite correct as it honestl… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - few interactions from last nightNice man! ps - Dunno why you were downvoted lol. Funny people on this sub | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Where can I go to get approached by girls?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8o8os0/frnight_out_with_my_handsome_mate/ | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching doesn't work, unfortunatelyit seems like he starts small talk then tries to make a move? If he does that, it's a huge turn off. I think That will work better for people who aren't especially handsome. At least 50% of the PUA community advocate 'indirect game'. (girls want to chase. Girls are like cats and want what they can't have. Show them no attention (intent) and they chase etc) Personally, it's probably gotten me slightly better results (not that i'm against direct game) | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | fr/lr eventuallyAre these your first approaches ever? Thats a pretty fucked up conversion rate lol Maybe if you're Leo DiCaprio! haha | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Thanks Boys (Success Story)not to downplay your success, but if girls actually open you AND you do well on tinder (I get one match every 3 months or so and have never been approached!!), am I too assume you're a handsome MOFO!!? lol. That's a game changer unfortunately | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | The harsh TRUTH about Rejections-: And how to overcome themOn rare occasion it might be because she's having a bad day and her hamster just died, or she's madly in love with her boyfriend, or she's a lesbo etc Fact is though, it's simply about whether you are her physical type on a cold approach. If she thinks you're hot, she'll chat for a bit, if she thinks you're not, she'll insta reject you/ignore etc Nothing you can do about it, so just wish her a nice day/night and move on to the next We've all seen the 'best' PUA's get rejected a tonne, often succ… | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Thanks Boys (Success Story)I just kept adjusting my approaches, jokes, conversational skills and attitude. Can you talk more about this process? I feel like in social situations, there's unlimited variables and you might never know WHY a particular approach works because the answer could simply be 'she thinks you're hot' and you'd never know and might attribute the success to something irrelevant (anda visa versa in the case of unsuccessful approaches)! But having said that, i'm still curious. What about your approaches a… | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 07:42 AM |
| 2 | So how do I approach this girl at my kickboxing gym without it looking weird or awkwardand if he doesn't get ioi's? Just forget about her? | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 06:12 PM |
| 28 | How To Get Laid On The First Date Nearly Every Single Timewhat do you talk about? Do you try to sexualise the convo after a while at all or just talk about normal 'small talk' stuff the whole time. Or 'job talk' etc. Any kind of 'routines' or anything to help you along/make it 'flirty'?? Or maybe you don't need to since you don't mention kissing her until you get to your place? Any tips to help with kino or do you just basically start touching her whilst you're talking about your pets or whatever and no need to do anything clever for when you ramp up k… | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Does opening with a ‘hello’ work at the club?Russell Brand style is very close to the dancing monkey thing state side. his style is kind of unique | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you field tested having a hobby?oh. Earlier I asked seddit what was their most powerful game/seduction technique, and the highest voted answer by far was ''get your own interests so that you have something to talk about'' I was then told to field test it (I already have hobbies though, so wanted to make sure, hence this thread) | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | What's your favourite/most powerful thing in terms of 'game'?Start by field testing what I said. Then if you have a more specific question you can ask that. field testing having interests? ok. Thanks for replying. Although i've always had interests lol | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 02:26 PM |
| 3 | What's your favourite/most powerful thing in terms of 'game'?Have your own thing (interests). Then you always have something to talk about. Yeah, the twin brother also has is own 'thing'. He's into music and MMA. Same as you. Like, I'm not being mean but your answer kind of underlines what the problem is. I mean, Is that the best we can do on a 'seduction' sub? Is having your own thing the best we can do to seduce some hot young girl? Everyone shouts and raves about 'game!!...''learn' game!'. But surely everyone has hobbies and knows how to hold eye conta… | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 01:57 PM |
| 4 | [FR] went to hooters alone. Wtf just happened?Could mean she thought you were handsome and she's into you, but honestly? Much more likely she does that with every guy as she wants followers | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like 'game' = be brave and go for it!!In for tips. Never met anybody who has a 100% hit rate. How do you open? What do you say to turn it around if they reject you at the open? What do you say to make her sexually attracted if she's some hot young thing and you're old and physically ugly? Conversation examples etc. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | 200 approaches, what I've gathered.Sounds similar to this: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/100-approaches.251860/ I think at some point there will be ZERO dispute about this. When someone get's laid, the girl DOES think that he's good looking (even if he's not traditionally good looking). When TylerRSD bangs a girl, she thinks he's decent looking. It's a necessary pre-requisite You can't game a girl who isn't into the way you look. People seem to want to have their cake and eat it on here. Someone will say ''Game is all abo… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Game is 100% skill! Follow these four steps and you can't lose...Everything you say is true for the purpose of attraction and getting laid. Thing is, saying the right words won't get her attracted/into bed if she doesn't think you are physically attractive, and so the 'skill' element of game (assuming it really exists) is kind of a secondary thing. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:59 PM |
| 5 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneI don't approach too many girls is not because I have approach anxiety, its simply a matter of if I want to waste my time. Why bother spending energy on someone that'll take so much more effort to obtain than conserving the energy for those that are actually interested in me? Nothing wrong with that at all, and it makes sense. I think the frustration is that lots of guys never ever get girls giving them IOI's etc and so they are always forced to go in 'cold' and it inevitably ends in a rough rej… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:43 PM |
| 4 | How to game a Pornstar, anyone ever done this.If you're 6ft 5 you have decent shot. Just tell her she's cute and ask her out | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | just facebook-closed some girl customer at my jobis that a problem? | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 08:57 AM |
| 2 | How do I take this from these girls at work?like 2 years you've been posting this dude | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Girls give me stares but when I approach they show no interestIt's annoying. One of the first things I remember reading when I got into 'game' was about how you must approach girls who give you IOI's and how you're chances are much improved etc, but I can't tell you how many times a girl has been in my space, dancing near me even though there's room elsewhere, almost rubbing herself on me, I open her, and she looks at me like i'm Quasimodo and runs away from me! haha. I think sometimes it's an attention thing (girls love to be seen rejecting guys. Makes th… | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:05 PM |
| 10 | If a girl finds you physically attractive, can you really fuck it up? If so, how?It's possible, but it would take a fairly extreme mess up in my experience. The really good looking guys in my group of friends break most 'rules' of game and mess up in all kinds of ways (failing shit tests, not very smooth kino, bragging too much or being too needy etc), but they basically always get the girl since the girls are very much into their looks Good looks get you 'attraction' which is the most important part of game and something you can't really get without her being into your look… | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 08:52 AM |
| 10 | Advice for 30sKind of like the Mark Manson thing of girls wanting to sleep with the guy sleeping on friend’s couches. I've always said that getting your life in order etc is great, but when it comes to getting laid, it's seemingly completely irrelevant in my experience. I know lots of guys who are practically virgins who have excellent jobs and 'have their shit in order' and probably even more friends who have ZERO going on (perma-unemployed, no driving licence, no ambition, etc etc) who seem to get laid like… | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 05:31 PM |
| 10 | My level of confidence is directly tied to my amount of success I'm having with women at any given moment.. How do I get out this mindset?It's normal. Don't sweat it. People here will say ''just get your life in check and have your shit together'' but as you already stated, you do! Success with girls is really unconnected to ''getting your shit together'' and ''being on your puprpose'' and all that stuff. Getting a promotion at work and learning the guitar does nothing for your 'confidence' when it comes to chatting up that stunning 18 year old at the coffee shop. But yeah, your situation is normal. | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Coworker wants to smoke with me.If a 10 is throwing herself at you, you are as handsome as holy hell, so whatever you do, you can smash her! Go get it!! | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Trying to Carry Conversations with Women Who Have No Hobbies or InterestsYou kind of can't win. I'd not overthink this. Some girls won't talk back - because they aren't into you. You can't 'game' a girl who doesn't want to be gamed. Most people advise 'don't ask boring interview questions like what is your job. Ask her something interesting like 'what do you do for fun' ''. Or to 'make assumptions' Well, that's what you done. Both things! Well done. But as you saw, it didn't 'work'. Tha'ts because if a girl isn't 'into you' before you say a word to her, she usually w… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Trying to Carry Conversations with Women Who Have No Hobbies or Interestsexamples of sying somoething 'interesting'? To be honest, I don't think his example is 'job initerview' style at all. Some girls just don't want to engage lol She has a boyfriend. That's why she's not engaging. She's not interested and I think that nothing he says would 'hook' her | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 12:23 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girls you already know, but just a little? It seems much easier with girls I don't know or know pretty well than girls that I just know a little.Are you me? I have the exact same issue lol. I even made a thread just like this one once after sort of falling into a 'semi friendzone' thing with a girl I really liked. But not actually 'friends'. Hard too explain. Met her on a night out. Became facebook friends and saw her rarely on nights out at which point, I just found it impossible to 'get it going' as you say! (although I guess it could also have been because she simply wasn't into me). But with a stranger, I feel like it's all mapped ou… | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Personal opinions of how much looks matter?Maybe he wasn't that handsome? My handsome friend literally NEVER gets blown out. I honestly believe he can bang literally any girl he wants too! lol Do you know unfortunate looking men with beautiful SO's? Or do you happen to think looks is the MAJORITY of what counts in seduction? I know a few ugly dudes with fairly hot girls. But the pattern seems to always be that it was a 'slow burner'. Like, they've bee friends for years, or work colleagues for ages etc. Never ever cold approach. I think l… | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 08:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] If a woman isn't immediately receptive to my approach or seems reluctant to talk, it puts me offStep 1: Learn more game theory what game/lines do you use after the open to 'hook'? | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this is the best pick up artist with the best infields in the world, or he is just another fake YouTube prankster? (ThatWasEpic aka Juan)lol, probably not fake. If it's fake then so are PUA infields at a guess | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Is this is the best pick up artist with the best infields in the world, or he is just another fake YouTube prankster? (ThatWasEpic aka Juan)Cody doesn't even do half as good as Juan. He's like 5'7. True. But he has much better game. I guess it proves that looks > game (which I think deep down, we all know that anyway! lol) | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Is this is the best pick up artist with the best infields in the world, or he is just another fake YouTube prankster? (ThatWasEpic aka Juan)He's not a 'PUA'. Thatt's why nobody in the community recognises him. Lots of his vids are of just him doing weird stuff like dressing up as a gangster or riding around on a daft bike or just using readers comments or playing pranks on people etc. He's a prankster. Not a PUA. And he hasn't studied 'game' anyway and wouldn't know what a 'neg' is or a cold read etc. Doesn't really implement that stuff usually either. He's just a tall, good looking dude, and so most girls are happy to give him thei… | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Can’t cum when having sexIt's fairly common. Often stems from some sort of anxiety (general/performance etc) If that's the case, it usually just happens at some point once you get comfortable with the person or just the 'act' of banging strangers! It could also be from from watching too much porn and masterbation. Could try abstaining for a few weeks from any kind of sexual activity and then see what happens | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Game in a barOpen verbally, and expect zero to minimal feedback at first. Definitely this! lol I'm like a year in and I still am talking too a brick wall on most approaches and can never really get them to engage/hook. (although if she fancies me, which is rare, I can always hook and maybe get laid) | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Is going out with handsome wings a bad idea? (bad for the psyche)Yeah, this is what a few others have told me on a PUA forum. Maybe there's like a handsome threshold. Like, if someone is a BIT better looking that you, but you have better 'game', you can win, but if someone is just a boat load more handsome than you, the attraction thay have is just too much to compete with? | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Is going out with handsome wings a bad idea? (bad for the psyche)cheers I feel like it should be OK now in terms of education. I've studied basically everyone! If i'm able to get past the open and reach the hook point, i'm often able to get somewhere, but then that could be because the girls who LET me reach the hook point think i'm handsome and so it was already a 'done deal' anyway from the second I opened? But from a trouble shooting point, it's hard because i'm often insta rejected more or less. (I open using a mix of direct and indirect). PUA wisdom woul… | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Dancefloor game with David AttenboroughI wonder if there's a more effective way, though! haha. This is all I see in nightclubs to be fair. It's weirdly accurate. Guy approaches. If he's not her physical type, she eye-codes her friends and one of them drags her away or they 'switch' places lol. Someone told me that dancefloor game is basically all about looks. Fair? | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 08:46 AM |
| 1 | So I came across a post talking about the m3 model...What's yours?if you've got FWB's you're ahead of me so I can't really give you any advice lol I don't even necessarily advise you to read Di Carlo or anyone else to be honest. I mean, if you understand the M3 model I guess you've read the mystery method which tells you everything you need to know about game. But just be aware that his way isn't necessarilythe RIGHT/ONLY WAY is what i'm saying. I guess you could read something like 'models' by mark mason or someone who will give you an idea of what 'game' is … | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | So I came across a post talking about the m3 model...What's yours?I don't know if he has infields tbh. I've only ever read his stuff too, although i'm pretty sure he's legit. Style and Tyler both vouched for him after having gamed with him apparently. | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 10:40 PM |
| 0 | The women I want wont even give me a chanceSame for most guys as most of us want to bang people who are extremely good looking, but so do the girls! All you can do is hit the numbers game hard! If you approach enough you can stumble across a stunner who actually thinks you are handsome. It happened to me last year when I banged a worldie and i'm pretty ugly. She just thought I was good looking (some girls have weird taste) and was probably a bit drunk lol! | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | So I came across a post talking about the m3 model...What's yours?I've kind of given up on 'models' and 'rules' I have been reading both Gunwitch and Vin DiCarlo recently, and it's amazing how every single 'rule' of game is disagreed by all the top PUA's. It's just not worth worrying about. I used to be talking too a girl and thinking ''OK, i'm still in attraction. I need to start qualifying the girl first. Then if she qualifies herself i'm allowed to show intent but not before. If she gives me an IOD, i'll give her one back and then tell her some more attract… | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask out the cashier/co-worker?Be warned that hot guys like him have some millions of options! So if you are super hot yourself, he'll likely give you a shot. If you're not, then you're out of luck. If you're average, he might bang you if he's got nothing on that night, but don't expect a call back! good luck! | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | How do I ask out the cashier/co-worker?Who says ''looks don't matter. Game does'', huh?! - haha I bet he lives on easy street with the girls who don't even know him wanting to ask him out lol! What does he look like out of interest? Anyway, I'd say you need to start with small talk and become a little friendly and maybe after you've been chatting for a few days, i'd basically tell him he's hot, but maybe in a jokey way so that the pressure is less? Something like ''I bet you have to work harder than everyone else because I bet all th… | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 10:27 AM |
| 12 | How is this guy so good at picking up girls (anything4views)OK, just watched some of his vids. I don't think he's 'good at picking up girls'. He's getting dates from tinder because he's youtube famous. (his tinder profile would mention this, or he'd tell them in the messages)Once on the date, he's still streaming and stuff and so his status is through the roof with her. She feels like she's on a date with a celeb plus he is in 'the power seat' since he's streaming it all to his fanbase. He does have some 'game' I guess, but if you were were a famouso str… | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Tricky Night Game ScenarioIt's tough, isn't it! It can feel like you're damned if you do, and damned if you don't! If you'd have jumped on her straight away, you could say that you are doing it all wrong and that you didn't 'make her chase' etc. Plus to be honest, i'm sure her friends would STILL have dragged her away. It's what they do. I had a girl dragged from me last night whilst I was making out with a girl! But you kind of played it cool and aloof. I'm sure that's text book A game according to old school game theor… | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 08:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - First Date Ever + AudioAwesome! I don't even know her and I already love her! She is amazingly friendly and 'bubbly'!! You lucked out, man. And she's a model!!!? I bet she's beautiful. I want a pic to compare against the image in my head!! lol edit: She mentions that she has a boyfriend? Hmmm..... ;( So how did it end? Does her mentioning that mean taht she's not interested? Did you ask her out again? | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:04 PM |
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