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Resourcesjiva_maya/r/seduction14/09/20 06:33 AM
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Fundamentals jiva_maya/r/seduction30/06/24 12:10 PM
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If you have an opening for a normal/not weird interaction, you should take it for a multitude of reasons, the most important of which are to improve your social skills, regardless of whether you want to have sex with this person or date them or none of the above
/r/seduction25/11/25 12:13 AM
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always
/r/seduction24/11/25 11:24 PM
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she sounds immature man. Usually it's dipshit men who want to know that bullshit.
/r/seduction26/06/24 07:14 PM
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it is definitely not low interest
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:50 AM
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did you read the original post?
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:49 AM
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you ask "what went wrong" and you give no details as to what your interactions were like. I'm going to assume your interactions were like this post: empty.
/r/seduction13/06/24 08:57 PM
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you no brain
/r/seduction13/06/24 06:25 AM
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are you kidding me dude? Those girls are the EASIEST. All you have to do is beat them at their game of snark and they melt. They're the least complicated out of all the different personality types IMO.
/r/seduction12/06/24 09:24 PM
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depends on how old you are. 20s are a bit more open, 30s are more about LTR
/r/seduction04/06/24 06:15 AM
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you can't
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:33 AM
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yes
/r/seduction31/05/24 10:38 AM
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yes
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:34 PM
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deadlifts and testosterone-cypionate
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:05 AM
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yeah, so what? just because a set of thoughts has a meme/name attached to it does not mean it hasn't any truth to it.
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:40 AM
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I was just about to add this: you can be fully offensive and cold too, so long as you are steadfast in your frame (e.g. being a total dick). The most elegant and thoughtful lesson that RSD ever taught me is that the key to success with women is being congruent in your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:40 AM
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yes classic_writer8573 is correct. You need to project a strong frame in your reality. For instance, a guy talks to some girl you were just talking to after you go to the bathroom, a man with a strong frame is not shook by this. A man with a strong frame usually approaches life with a kind of detached curiosity and a somewhat intense set of intelligence. The newly emptied bladder of the strong-framed man may decide to get to know this knew chap talking to his sexual-interest of the evening. A ma…
/r/seduction18/05/24 02:23 AM
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you need a stronger frame my dude
/r/seduction18/05/24 12:00 AM
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yes
/r/seduction16/05/24 06:09 AM
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was it someone you met IRL? or someone texting you pretending they had the wrong number?
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:22 AM
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huh?
/r/seduction05/05/24 05:35 AM
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there's nothing weird about this. Many girls have it in their heads that they'll be sluts if they "give it up". They're probably getting into OP's bed because they want to do it, then the societal programming kicks in and they run off. This should be obvious.
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:55 AM
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Owen has gone off the deep end in recent years but him and his crew are the best regarding anything in this topic. Todd was just another guy in RSD (Owen's crew) and they had a falling out...did not seem to be over anything substantive. I'd pirate a copy of "The Blueprint" to start
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:06 AM
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I think RSD Owen is full of recommendations for books although I can't recall any off hand.
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:42 AM
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...what are you nervous about? is this a question or are you just venting?
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:43 PM
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Strauss was the weird one. Literally whining half the book about the guys (who would later start RSD) wanting to be honest and genuine communicators in their seduction attempts. "The Game" is probably the dumbest book I've ever read.
/r/seduction28/04/24 10:21 PM
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dude like all of it. 99% of it is gone from YouTube after the Julien scandal (he didn't actually do anything wrong). I think you can still pay for some kind of membership on one of their sites and get some of the old content. The Blueprint Decoded I think really lays out most of the actual theory of it, and the videos just tackle the same basic thinking from different angles and show a lot of "field footage". Blueprint Decoded is definitely what you wanna watch first though
/r/seduction28/04/24 12:02 PM
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lmao half of "The Game" book was just bitching about RSD and Owen and his apparently awful method of "being a real person". RSD is the opposite in theory to "The Game". "The Game" is stupid shit and super outdated at that.
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:31 AM
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there's no real order it's kind of all over the place. Unfortunately most of the best content got taken down, but if you manage to find it just put in hours on whatever catches your eye. Jeffy is probably best for cerebral/intelligent guys IMO. Julien is probably best catered for pretty boys, and Owen is Sperg Grand Master
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:30 AM
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First and foremost, though: be a fucking DJ lmao
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:14 AM
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nope, you can show your cards and tell her how you feel like you told us, but that will probably not help (it might though), but yeah you played yourself bro
/r/seduction28/04/24 06:57 AM
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This isn't really a question that be answered in a simplified manner other than you have to find your own humor, your own flirtations, and be confident in them. If she's answering you at all it's a good indicator that she's at least down for a date, so don't overthink it. Off the cuff, a tad whacky, with a helping of ballsy/risky works for me more often than not. You have to regulate your mood such that you're upbeat and ready to banter, flirt, but also get to the point (while also not being out…
/r/seduction28/04/24 06:28 AM
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If you get a phone number off a random girl you meet IRL you gotta hit it up within 24 hours or it'll be DOA. Just be more proactive but also avoid the generic initially texts like "hello/hola". Say something pertaining to your first meeting or just anything else really, chat for a while, then set up a time to meet within that 24 hours.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:28 AM
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Sometimes it's appropriate. You gotta sniff out what's appropriate for each girl, man. There's no universal approach.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:15 AM
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welcome to earth
/r/seduction26/04/24 02:03 AM
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You tried banging her on the first night and she essentially said she needed to get to know you better. Sounds like it's been long enough and she'd probably be down to do it, but I wouldn't do it unless you wanna be her boyfriend. If so, say something like "I'm down to get spiritual with you now". If you don't want to be her boyfriend, sounds like she could be a good friend friend. Friendship is not always a "trap". Also, if you do choose to go with her do *not* tell her you've been banging girl…
/r/seduction26/04/24 01:14 AM
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lol
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:25 AM
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RSD Julien make some (correct) comments on this but got cancelled for it.
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:34 AM
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I don't know what a "bitch shield" is but I definitely believe in shit testing, not entirely sure you understand the concept fully.
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:24 AM
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huh???
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:34 PM
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because men don't end it over dumb shit in the first place
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:15 AM
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yoo I was in this exact same spot at your age. Had chicks handing me their numbers written down on a piece of paper and walked away giggling with their friends, comments, all that. My biggest fear was asking one of them out then not knowing what to say. In hindsight as a man in his 30s...that stuff is way easier than I made it out to be. You just go for it and it doesn't matter how awkward you are, you go for it the next time it happens and play it out, and the more times you do it the easier it…
/r/seduction20/04/24 02:43 PM
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Allude to doing something together some time. If he evades then he's just passing the time with you.
/r/seduction19/04/24 08:32 AM
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You become a "performer" when people get the impression that all you can do is joke without relating.
/r/seduction18/04/24 08:03 AM
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just install insta and smash you fool
/r/seduction17/04/24 06:30 AM
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no, and even so: why care? This entire subreddit is basically for the purpose of getting dudes laid as much as possible. Don't be a hypocrite
/r/seduction17/04/24 06:19 AM
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nooo not perceiving women as magical elves goes way beyond the benefits of being able to talk to them.
/r/seduction13/04/24 10:46 PM
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Then this isn't something that can be fixed with anyone's words. You know it, now have more experiences so that you may internalize it
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:07 PM
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uhhh are you like a rich looking dude in his 40s? If not there is absolutely no way that girl was not flirting with you. A cashier at a liquor store? Come on. A woman in that situation would not tell a man they smell nice just to get in his wallet, she would end up in a not great spot sooner than later if that was her MO
/r/seduction13/04/24 12:36 PM
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https://tprbay.top/torrent/4096408/Real_Social_Dynamics_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs)
/r/seduction13/04/24 12:28 PM
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lol @ whoever downvoted you. Some jealously in the water
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:54 PM
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Talk to them longer and you find out no matter how attractive they are they're still human
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:53 PM
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wow surprised the comments echoed my sentiments for once. "waah i'm 15 and i wanted to fuck my cousin and it happened now i wanna tell mommy and send the hot 20-year-old to jail" give me a break. You got your nut now you regret it, it will happen a lot. Thankfully you're not married or in a long term serious relationship because you're 15. Give it a few hours and you'll be jacking off to the memory of it.
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:55 PM
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you have to find the blueprint of each woman you talk with and tailor your conversation and content of conversation to what that individual is stimulated by. If you're smart you'll figure this out.
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:21 AM
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Full clothes? This sounds like she might be insane. Like does she look different than anyone else in the room clothes wise?
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:42 PM
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Because they think you're cute. Instead of framing it as an insult frame it as an opening. Something like "after a couple drinks I think you might find me a bit more than 'cute'". OPENINGS guys. Quit the bitching and moaning and take your openings.
/r/seduction12/08/23 04:03 PM
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our best behavior usually occurs when we're feeling our best. Mirror stuff can help a little but it's by no means a "life hack"?
/r/seduction04/08/23 05:20 AM
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If you say the right things, you can almost come back from any fuck ups or lack of attraction. OP's is a young man attitude. Trust me, I've clinched at the last second many of times. Don't listen to this nonsense
/r/seduction02/08/23 01:19 PM
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You wouldn't go shopping in a shoe store with bare feet would you?
/r/seduction21/07/23 08:06 PM
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best thing i learned from any "PUA" people was from "RealSocialDynamics". If you don't feel confident, and you feel depressed, but you still feel desperate for validation, and/or horny: be congruent in thoughts, feelings, actions, There is one thing that trumps confidence and charisma and that is complete and total unbridled honesty. It may not lead to you landing dimes on a regular basis but an intelligent woman will see you, and there is nothing greater than being seen. It's kind of hard to fu…
/r/seduction17/07/23 12:18 PM
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There is always a path of redemption in these matters. She can probably sense your tension. I suggest breaking it by chilling out, talking to another girl or 2, then maybe down a couple drinks, and text her something funny off the cuff. Don't get serious. You can get back in.
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:30 AM
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Don't confront your boyfriend about his masturbation habits. Ever. He'll resent you every time he gets horny. As long as you're getting what you need out of the relationship sexually and emotionally, don't go interrogating him on whether he's bi or some shit or about his porn habits. That shit is childish.
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:18 AM
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yes
/r/seduction17/10/22 01:51 AM
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er I think Tyler got some tricks from Mystery for sure, but they were fundamentally different philosophies as soon as the RSD thesis was conceived. Check out Tyler's old school lecture series: "Blueprint". You'll see what I mean 10 minutes in. It's on pirate bay or whatever.
/r/seduction14/10/22 05:55 AM
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it's so funny how unbelievably bad the traditional PUA shit that Neil Strauss touts in his book in comparison to the Real Social Dynamics methods/people he tries to shit on in the same book. It's no contest that RSD is better all around.
/r/seduction13/10/22 07:38 PM
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bro you are tripping you can ask her to hang out what are you even talking about
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:21 AM
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just hang out with her dude and try to get a better sense of the moment to go for it. If the moment doesn't come it doesn't come
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:51 AM
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yeah you have to say something interesting or unique.
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:37 AM
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Bend her over.
/r/seduction20/05/11 01:35 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17jymDn0W6U
/r/seduction26/04/11 07:40 PM
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There's really not much you can do other than take some advice from the Doctor. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKWpQDBvBbM
/r/seduction08/04/11 04:02 PM
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