| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 174 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potential | Conversation | jjbinks4 | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Took one girl serious and got my time wasted | Conversation | jjbinks4 | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 06:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Took one girl serious and got my time wastedHonestly I did it not to win her but because I was genuinely concerned with her well being since she was down over the death anniversary. But I get what you mean | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Took one girl serious and got my time wasted🫡 | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | You just are not attractiveI mean I don’t think I’m ugly but in January I was depressed, anxious, and struggled to get women. I’ve been in the gym heavy, got more consistent haircuts, manicures, etc. and now I go on a date with someone new every week at this point (I will say I was in the gym for years prior and took a few years off so the progress I made in the last 3 months makes me look jacked) | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialWill do! | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialI get what you mean 100%. Like I said I’m fresh out of a 3 year relationship so I’m just way out of the game. Right now , I kinda go mild after the first date if they mention serious relationship with me. If we’re talking and we can both agree that neither of us want anything serious then I have no issues escalating on a later date. I’m in the LA area, I definitely target women who are attracted to me and I tend to avoid the ones above my league. I’ll take your advice and everyone else’s comment… | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialI’m in school full time and work full time at a dealership | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialI have heard this about me, I’m working on that | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialNo I’m frustrated because it seems like I’m mainly attracting girls seeking long term relationships. I don’t mind not smashing on the first date, but for a lot of these women it seems like once they put me in “long term” box there’s no way of getting out so we end up fizzling out. I’m just struggling with why most women usually only see me as long term potential. And for most of them they always say stuff like “I don’t have sex unless I’m committed” so even then I have to find someone else lol. … | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialI’ll try this. Idk why I don’t | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 12:24 AM |
| 8 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialOh yeah I always take that chance. I just seem to always attract the ones wanting something serious. Maybe 10% of the girls I date straight up say/ act like they wanna be casual | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialOh man I mean I don’t wanna be dramatic but after the first date they always wanna see me all the time, text all the time, they start making date suggestions for the next date. It just sucks since I know people with the opposite problem and I wanna switch with them lmao | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialUnfortunately during my dates I never bring up anything serious, they always do. But I tend to give vague answers and uncertainty in my replies to their questions | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialI totally get this. All the time. I say out of 10 women that I tend to date, only 2 are down to fuck immediately and without commitment | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialFr lol it’s been a while | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialI’m 26. Usual dates are dinner, but have been experimenting with just drinks. I’m usually kissing them right after we walk out of the first spot and after that the girl is more eager and will kiss me on their inintiative. During the drive, walk to next spot etc. I should’ve mentioned that I don’t have my own place and I’ve honestly never dated another woman that has her own place due to high costs (LA area). I’ve had car sex with a few girls in my car and sometimes in their car so I don’t have a… | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialOh yeah for sure. I’m meaning that they are always eager to tell me they want a long term thing with me, their expectations, etc. I also stopped asking to kiss and just go for it which I’m pretty decent about | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potential26 | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else sitting on hundreds of matches on dating sites with women out of the country but getting no love locally?I’m on Facebook dating too and get matches from girls in Mexico and girls from many states away but no locals 😵💫 they’ve been real people at least | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you start a conversation with a stranger on Instagram and get a reply?Firstly if she didn’t bother following you back I would move on Second-replying to relatable or interesting stories works a good 7/10 times for me | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate things? (Failed to close a date)I think your mistake was playing it friendly, and suggesting a friendly hangout | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Telling people "not to apply pressure" is terrible adviceThis is facts, most of the women I’ve been with were cold or uninterested towards me until they’ve known/followed/hung out with me for a bit | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Women, why you do that?Well I got like 2 friends in relationships that met through Instagram. It’s not impossible | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Women, why you do that?I met and dated my ex because of Instagram stories lol | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 05:53 PM |
| 10 | [FIELD REPORT] Rave EditionThis man is a beast, good shit | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Rule: if you have to guess whether she's into you, she's not.When people agree to plans and one of them cancels for whatever reason before the agreed upon plans | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Would an emotionally unavailable girl who rejected you ever come back?Been thru this multiple times Let go of the hope that she’ll come back lol | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 11:28 PM |
| 8 | Should I message her?The ball is in her court, I wouldn’t message her, she’s probably still stuck on her person. I don’t think it’s worth it | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 11:14 PM |
| 5 | First Approaches field reportDefinitely will next time | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Sex appeal with baby face?I’m in the same situation as you and going to the gym(after coronavirus is gone) is one of the best things you could ever do for looks, and adds confidence | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 7 | His First Ever Attempt At Approaching Women (Daygame Infield)Great post! | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 03:23 AM |
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