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jmatre/r/seduction09/03/15 06:32 PM
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jmatre/r/seduction09/03/15 07:06 PM
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Go there having got some approaches under your belt so you'll know what its like. Otherwise much presious time will be spent on things you could have discovered yourself.
/r/seduction24/03/15 09:38 PM
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On Tinder, if you are a good looking guy, I have been told its easy. (Never tried tinder and I am assuming on tinder) you put some pictures get a match, start a texting conversation, get number and arrange to meetup. The date itself should be ok because you both know what you are there for and have chosen one another. In daygame you approach someone, have a conversation, get their number, chat on the phone/text and agree to meet. The only thing with daygame as you say confidence. If you are conf…
/r/seduction24/03/15 08:34 PM
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Going out to the mall club bar whatever that takes your fancy and talking to people. You could even walk down the street and ask for directions. It will with some people give you a chance for further conversation.
/r/seduction24/03/15 08:26 PM
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Just don't mention the subject and talk about other stuff.
/r/seduction24/03/15 08:24 PM
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If you really want to bed her, escalate the next time you are in the club or whatever. If it goes nowhere, you are no longer interested. And as for the boyfriend, hopefully he is seeing other women on the side. He does not deserve this.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:17 AM
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Ignore it and play it cool.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:14 AM
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Change perspective man because all this is not helping you.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:11 AM
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Great post. To get the subs right you got to practice again and again and again.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:01 AM
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Go do it and don't think too much about it. Action speaks very loud.
/r/seduction24/03/15 12:57 AM
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Hopefully you have deep pockets. The finer the bottle the faster and the greater numbers that will come to you.
/r/seduction24/03/15 12:57 AM
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Just an opinion. You should reserve direct to only the very attractive women like the first one you whimped out on. Because what you'll say is 100% true and a great deal of authenticity.
/r/seduction24/03/15 12:55 AM
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Forget streets go into a mall or shop and just talk normal conversation with women. You should definitely get some sets approaches under your belt before seeking coaching. If you get a good wing man then coaching won't be required.
/r/seduction24/03/15 12:53 AM
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No you were not an asshole. She was trying to sell you something so she tried to overcome your objections. She gets that kind of response all day long along with some customer too so she'll certainly lose no sleep over it. Nor should you be concerned about it in any way form or shape.
/r/seduction24/03/15 12:48 AM
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Join some social activities like a all sex sporting club, even class, etc.
/r/seduction24/03/15 12:43 AM
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If you are already pretty much developed as in you have a good lifestyle going such as athlete, extreme sports, good looking, feel great in the head, etc etc etc then yeah so be yourself. If on the other hand you are in mental turmoil, don't have much of a lifestyle, do everything can to evolve to be the better version of yourself. Just be yourself in not the right medication here.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:45 PM
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Don't know about 'assholes' but the points listed in bullet point are a must if you are to get anywhere in life. otherwise you will pretty much end in the garbage can.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:39 PM
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Show up at the venue where dating takes place such as a club or bar and the men will come to you. Forget about trying to meet people daytime because that is more rare.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:36 PM
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Depends on how how much attraction there is.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:34 PM
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Good post. Its all about have the right perspective.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:33 PM
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Just try to have a normal conversation and tell them you want to hang out. If you get lots of eye contact it should be easier to approach and chat.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:32 PM
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why not just focus on the other prospectives if they have better qualities?
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:45 PM
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just text her again. a 'hi. long time no see how are you?' is fine.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:43 PM
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Are you a dude or a girl? If you are a dude stop messing about, you are the man and its your job. If you are girl, do your best to help the guy out because not every guy is an alpha leader of men and women.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:41 PM
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You miss all the shots you don't take. Only give it a miss if your cousin's wants her. (That would still stop most people though).
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:39 PM
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Stop thinking about it. The problem exist because you think its a problem.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:37 PM
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Number 1. She'll respect you for sticking to your guns.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:36 PM
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If they laughing at what you have to say, you are flirting. Maybe you assumed wrong.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:34 PM
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Text him and say "I totally hate spending time on my phone texting. Do you wanna hang out sometimes". And agree a date and time to meet.
/r/seduction23/03/15 07:32 PM
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its hard to take that view unless you are a hot guy...
/r/seduction22/03/15 10:53 AM
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The only commonality is both are a numbers game.
/r/seduction22/03/15 10:52 AM
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They lied!
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:18 AM
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Just talk to her in real life. Its kind of wussy to add her to facebook without chatting when she is right in front of you.
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:13 AM
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Get her on the phone and have a real conversation (or is that what you do on snapchat? Never used snapchat!). Some conversation and agree to hang out. Don't talk on the phone overly long. 10 minutes max.
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:10 AM
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Don't know how old you are but for him, his age helps. He has got 3 decades of life experience behind him which means he has developed skills such as confidence, social skills, and solid inner frame.
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:08 AM
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It means she is going to be the dominant one out of the two of you. If you don't mind taking the submissive role and you find her attractive, meet her.
/r/seduction21/03/15 11:47 PM
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Bathroom is good not sure about the other answer. You always have to instigate/lead.
/r/seduction21/03/15 11:36 PM
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If you are an attractive guy, tinder all the way...
/r/seduction17/03/15 10:55 PM
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It not a question of how many approaches you do, its a question of changing your mindset. That can take 5 approaches or it can take 5,000.
/r/seduction17/03/15 10:55 PM
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If there are plenty of options outside campus then stick to that. Its not as if you are starving.
/r/seduction17/03/15 07:57 PM
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Wait for a bit but don't look too needy. Try messing around on your phone or something or even talk to other people nearby.
/r/seduction16/03/15 11:15 PM
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Very true about smart phones and social media.
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:32 PM
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Whatever floats your boat. There are lots of women that love a young stud. Just make sure you don't ask directly their age!
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:21 PM
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Isn't tv so last year? It seems to be the home of older people. Young folks have moved onto smart phones and social media. Movies yes that is reasonable hobby.
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:20 PM
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If its inconvenient, they'll sure let you know quick and you can move on. There is no need to anticipate anything.
/r/seduction16/03/15 10:18 PM
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I am sure this place has been in the news...
/r/seduction16/03/15 01:15 AM
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You are probably a feminine kind of guy. Go do some masculine activities like lifting heavy weights.
/r/seduction16/03/15 01:12 AM
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I think people will love you accent and would want to know more. Start being social to anyone and everyone everywhere and anywhere. I am sure people would want to get you know more.
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:36 AM
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Should it not be a case of are they enough for you?
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:34 AM
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You just need to be relax. You can becomes relaxed by doing meditation.
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:33 AM
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Well summer is around the corner. Best time of the year for this stuff.
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:32 AM
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Romance can take place anywhere you want it, it does not have to be under the gaze of moonlit stars. With escalation, take it one step at a time like holding hands, putting your hand around her waist, and so on. If she is interested, there'll be no complaints.
/r/seduction14/03/15 11:13 AM
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Some of them were funny hardly anything controversial.
/r/seduction14/03/15 11:09 AM
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Probably felt you guys were getting well so left you to it.
/r/seduction14/03/15 11:04 AM
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Very little in life is going to come to you unless you make it even. Even the girl at the bar, though does not approach, made it happen by making an effort with appearance.
/r/seduction14/03/15 11:03 AM
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pickup routines like "who lies more?". its basically a scripted conversation which you deliver while you are with the girl. some of these routines are good because it involves joking around, building comfort, escalatio, etc. routines are frowned upon now because its old school. Edit: I figure Drizzfreak was jesting. p.s. absolutely nothing in this world is creepy, something is only creepy if you tell yourself it is. Routines have now been discarded and not in vogue because going the "natural" ro…
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:55 AM
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Girls will approach or of you approach it'll be a warm approach. They are already attracted, a case of chatting to pass time and escalation.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:39 AM
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One of these two. Given her character, I'd be vary of her.
/r/seduction14/03/15 10:37 AM
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The quickest route is to learn some routines. People say they are outdated and not natural blah blah blah but they can work!
/r/seduction14/03/15 02:39 AM
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Cold approaching is the hard way to meet women. If its what you are doing, try something different like meeting people in a social setting.
/r/seduction14/03/15 02:37 AM
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Saying something to ask her out is better then nothing. There is only 3 weeks left, you have nothing to lose. Do it.
/r/seduction13/03/15 10:34 PM
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Since you have girls attracted to you, why don't you take up those offers first before going anywhere else? Not all of them are looking to settle down.
/r/seduction13/03/15 09:54 PM
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Get over the "freeze up when it comes to spitting game".
/r/seduction13/03/15 09:50 PM
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They do say "don't shit where you eat". So going for a girl at work may not be the best idea. But it all depends on the type of work you are doing. If its a well paid professional job with good career prospects, definitely don't takes things further. If on the other hand its a part time position or a summer job or some retail position or something that is pretty low paid, do whatever you want. If she says no, so what? No one is going to feel bad, its pretty much all in your head. And even if you…
/r/seduction13/03/15 06:35 PM
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You got to be the alpha guy, its no good you behaving like a baby brother or something. Just do your stuff like you'd do normally when doing PUA/seduction or whatever.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:54 PM
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sounds like pickup helped you get into the self improvement game.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:35 PM
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Start by being a social person in general, talk to anyone and everyone. That will help to get into the groove.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:24 PM
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Lucky girl. A pretty girl will always have guys after her even if she in a relationship or not.
/r/seduction13/03/15 12:11 PM
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You have to at some point kino. All this is easier in a bar/club in the evening then during the cold light of day.
/r/seduction13/03/15 12:10 PM
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Is he is one of these orbiter guys? If so I feel sorry for him.
/r/seduction13/03/15 12:03 PM
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So you did not approach her and thereby failed. So what, it really does not matter. If you fail enough times, you will get to the destination. In life especially with the opposite sex, you get many chances.
/r/seduction13/03/15 12:42 AM
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Go there have a chat and become a regular customer. After you've been there a few times and they know you, if they still seem friendly still ask them out. Now its almost like a social meet rather then cold approach.
/r/seduction12/03/15 11:51 PM
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Be the best dressed man in the venue, that will do half the trick.
/r/seduction12/03/15 11:44 PM
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You are a man of experience so that should help a lot. Just be friendly and have a conversation with them. But as a man you have to do the approaching, its not the other way round.
/r/seduction12/03/15 11:42 PM
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Yeah say hi and have a conversation for 5 minutes if you can. I guess you could ask he out again if the conversation goes well but probably best leave that for another time.
/r/seduction12/03/15 11:11 PM
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Shame people grow out being a "kid" and become warped by society.
/r/seduction12/03/15 11:08 PM
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Yes there is a good chance she'll reject you. But plenty will take up your offer too especially if you are more attractive then them. Anyway its not about memorizing lines and learning stuff from here, its actually putting it into motion to become the quality guy.
/r/seduction12/03/15 11:01 PM
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Try to ask her again perhaps not the next time you see her but after that. If she does not give you a definite answer that time then drop it. She is a hot girl and has plenty of options. Just because you are "attractive", it does not mean every single girl is going to be into you. Don't be confused and just go with the flow, she is not the only "8" in the world.
/r/seduction12/03/15 10:57 PM
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Because they like to gossip.
/r/seduction12/03/15 08:13 PM
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Evening in a bar is always better. People are more in a relaxing mood here then say 1 o'clock in the afternoon in a cafe.
/r/seduction12/03/15 07:55 PM
2

Perhaps don't go for lunch and do an activity that costs nothing.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:01 PM
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I'd fix shyness before anything else. If you are shy, obviously you got some underlying stuff going on effecting your confidence. Poor confidence is not a good trait for attracting the opposite sex.
/r/seduction11/03/15 04:59 PM
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He sounds depressed.
/r/seduction11/03/15 04:56 PM
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Walk a bit faster and get by her side and initiate conversation.
/r/seduction10/03/15 11:30 PM
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"I get told by some girls I approach that they want taller, prettier men." - that must be quite harsh to take. Its not always a kind world out there.
/r/seduction10/03/15 05:44 PM
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"I though you died and gone to heaven. Or was that hell."
/r/seduction10/03/15 05:20 PM
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Not sure how its works out with flaking but have never tried to ask the girl to give me a missed call so I got her number. Always a case of getting the number and giving her a missed call 'I'll call you now so you got my number'.
/r/seduction10/03/15 05:03 PM
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He has a good image, in the sense of clothing anyway. As for what he was saying, it didn't seem to register.
/r/seduction10/03/15 04:43 PM
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Violent? I am not that sort and in any case, if a girl got that "vibe" why would she stand there for 20 minutes chat away? Lots of girls have said "Sorry I got boyfriend" or something along those lines and we all leave amicably. Fair play to them.
/r/seduction09/03/15 07:35 PM
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