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jms_mars_19/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 11:17 PM
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Took it to a friend at a jewelry store and bought a good bottle of whiskey with the cash…..
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 02:53 PM
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Lighthearted is welcome… I make an enchilada bowl type deal… I do a lot of cooking in the Instant Pot. Lots of soups and chili.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 04:12 AM
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The ups and downs, coming Jan. 18 for me… a long time coming, a sad ending to a once great relationship, hang in there men… that sounds simple and dumb, but hang the fuck in there…
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 01:43 PM
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Different situation… I was, still am in spirit, a step dad to the most amazing little dude, love him like I would my own, few would understand the level of commitment and the real connection we have… missing him, grieving the loss of him in the day to day is the most painful experience I’ve ever endured. This is my first holiday season without him. I was Santa, I was Mr. Christmas to him…But we still see each other and I’m still in contact, thankfully my ex sees that correctly, one of the few th…
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 01:10 PM
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I went through this, it’s an absolute habit. I know this feeling but you just make the decision, cut it off, I wasn’t cruel or uncaring, but a rapid, healthy separation, physically, emotionally, etc. etc. is not only recommended, it’s crucial for survival. I felt I would never get past the hurt and the pain but I did and you will… you absolutely must keep moving forward, it gets easier.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 01:01 PM
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Similar experience here, words are absolute poison, be sure to do the work required to get through it, past it, and ultimately let it go, very difficult, unfortunately this is my second go-round, talking to a professional therapist is helpful to navigate trauma like this
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 01:34 AM
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That’s a solid idea, when this works like it’s supposed to, the support of a community in this unnaturally stressful situation is invaluable, more than we probably would ever realize… or maybe we realize precisely how valuable this is.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 10:04 PM
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I talk to friends about how pissed I am and why I feel that way in the moment, I’ve talked to a counselor a few times, I burn some energy exercising and take some CBD, l do drink but limit my alcohol cause that can send me in the wrong direction. These responses may sound cliche or automated, but it’s all true. I make myself move forward no matter what. I’ve experienced some extremely angry mood swings.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 03:57 PM
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I’ve been on Zoloft a long time, it helps me man, I also have a great counselor to vent to, I’ve also taken CBD to help sleep, and then I stay very active, very involved in some type of activity where I burn some energy… I have to absolutely make myself some days, push forward, keep moving, even if it’s at quarter speed, keep moving forward in some way, it varies from day to day but you already knew that
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 11:51 PM
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And the opposite of love being indifference, just nothing, sad to see it die after all the time we put in getting here, I didn’t know there was an expiration date on this one. When the step son is sick or scared or can’t sleep, he comes and gets me, he knows who he can count on. His father is very involved and his family has expressed support for me, they hate to see me go because they know what a self centered child his mother is, a strange and unusual situation in many ways.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 12:18 PM
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A lot of similarities here although she was my 2nd marriage, a long and winding path to get here, I turned 48 in March… for my own health and my sanity, I have to get out of this house, away from this person I married. Thx for the replies men.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 11:59 AM
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That’s kinda what it has boiled down to, yes, one of those situations where the woman I dated, fell for, is gone, like living w a stranger, very disappointing and beyond frustrating.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 11:55 AM
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No, no child support, she’s getting a lot on the front end but no alimony… part of her keeping the house where the kid is in school. This has been relatively drama free compared to some of the nightmares I’ve read about on Reddit.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 02:29 AM
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Divorce can make you wiser if you let it, talk to a counselor, you’re hurting man, it’s normal, but don’t be the guy that treats women poorly as a reaction to your difficult experiences... you seem to be very self aware and should trust your instincts but a counselor can help interpret some of what’s in your own head, it’s helpful …Take care of that girl and yourself and enjoy your 40’s. 40 is awesome, you’re older and wiser and now that I’m looking at 50 I realize how valuable this time is man.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/22 12:59 PM
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Similar situation for 6 years, like talking to a stranger in my own home and have now decided to end things…best to get out quick and get out clean financially if possible, if she wants out get an MDA done quickly or annulment if possible, clearly she has not recovered, important to accept some hard truths…anything is possible but seems very likely this will be her routine forever if you try to patch things up, talk to a counselor and take care of yourself, eat, sleep and workout if you can, try…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 08:11 PM
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I think violence or physical threat is one of the few instances where you can get out but must follow proper steps and need legal evidence and representation
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/22 10:19 PM
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That makes sense, I feel like I need, maybe even want, that time, an older hopefully wiser version of myself now, I sincerely don’t want to waste years, they go by too fast man, didn’t occur to me in my 30’s.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 12:10 PM
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Similar situation here… divorced in 2010, remarried 2016 and became a step-dad, divorcing again 2022… complicated relationships, I need to heal and do some work, going to see a counselor next week and ask lots of questions. Even when I was single I was never really single.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 02:55 AM
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I’m in TN… filed a Marital Dissolution Agreement, agreed to split everything and be nice which I was fortunate in that regard, no kids, sold the house… get out quickly and quietly…once I found my new routine and got past the initial pain, I was a new man and enjoyed life again… I did not pursue or want the divorce after 10+ years but it was the best thing that could’ve happened.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 04:12 PM
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