jobobicus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Mainstream feminists keeps white washing the American women's movement's racist history. (sources in the comment section) Can you expand on that a little? I have never heard this so I tried looking it up. Are you referring to black men getting the right to vote in 1870? Or states reinstating voting rights of Confederates? Or dropping the requirement of owning property, which seems to have happened piecemeal from 1790s - 1850s?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/08/20 02:40 PM
8	What do you actually expect of women? I love women. I have a wife and 2 daughters and my girls are my world. I certainly don’t want to do or say or support things that harm women- quite the opposite, I want them to have the best future possible. All I really want is to an acknowledgement that life isn’t easy for anyone, and we all face our own unique struggles that are a result of factors we can and can’t control. I’m sick of having to compete with women because something that the patriarchy demands from them is harder than what it …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/08/20 11:48 PM
15	Twox is changing the facts of the Cinnipie case were a 14 year old boy was raped It’s a hate sub pushing a narrative, what do you expect?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/20 05:31 PM
10	This is a perfect example of the problem of how feminists react to contrary arguments, and why they keep getting less rational as time goes on This is where, in general, the Left has lost its way. The culture war was won by being aggressive, sure, but also by engaging the opposition in debate and being compassionate. Now they are just as close-minded, vitriolic, and unwilling to discuss anything as the hardcore Trumpers. It’s depressing to watch.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/03/20 02:04 PM
2	"Female supremacy: Women have better memories than men". Thoughts? Is this true or bogus? Women are scorekeepers. I’m just trying to make my way in life, doing unto others as I would like to be done. My wife is keeping a running tally of everything anyone has ever done that pissed her off so she can bring it up in an argument. I prefer to forgive, forget, and move on. Does that equate to a better memory? Maybe. Or maybe it’s just a byproduct.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/03/20 09:56 PM
2	California wants to recruit more male teachers, but not white male teachers...this doesn’t make sense to me. Why not? Even so... if only 18% of teachers are white males, looks like they should be happy to hire more.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/20 07:04 PM
2	HIVE study says women are more productive than men in work (by 10%) and that men work more in weekends but complete less. Thoughts? Stopped reading at the “pink tax”. That myth has been debunked so many times that any article that leads with it has zero credibility.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/02/20 04:24 PM
2	Not all feminist instagram posts are bad, but this one is. Ohhhh shit, thanks for posting this! This will reduce the number of times I rape by like 20%! Very helpful!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/02/20 04:20 PM
2	Feedback Sticky: Thoughts on "low effort posts" I don’t know what tools are available to you, but I think you remove it with an automated message saying that a post can’t just be a link, it needs to have at least a couple of sentences of summary and thoughts to start the discussion going.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/19 02:57 PM
10	The Price of Sex Interesting read. There’s a reason why, for example, 80 - 90% of homeless people are male. You can’t really pay rent with a penis, but you typically can with a vagina. I think most women, if they are being honest, trade sex for goods and services. Not necessarily in a sleazy way, but it’s an exchange nonetheless. Typically men have sex because... they want sex. They are not using it as a barter to get something else of value. But women do it all the time... I buy my wife something she has been w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/11/19 07:28 PM
1	Some dude tried to dismiss men's issues as well as minimizes the trauma of male victims of female rape. When this type of emotional “but what about...?” response is made in response to a feminist argument, it is dismissed as the “fragile male ego.” Well, here we have an example of the fragile feminist ego. This phenomenon that any examination of a victim OTHER than a female is somehow equivalent to a direct attack on women and feminism, and therefore must be attacked in retaliation. We should always strive to make sure we are logically assessing the argument, instead of taking it personally and di…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/11/19 05:47 PM
2	How can "toxic" masculinity be the cause of male dysfunction (suicide, violence, incels, etc.) when men are less masculine today then ever before? I would think that the less masculine you are, the more damaging Toxic Masculinity will be, since you are much farther from living up to the “toxic” expectations. I see a lot of articles on “the changing face of masculinity.” One thing no one ever really talks about, though, is how- as masculinity changes- then the face of Toxic Masculinity must also change. Look at a site like MensLib, where their view of masculinity is so heavily influenced by feminist thought. That will produce a different ki…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/11/19 04:59 PM
5	Positive(?) thread: compliments The most complements I've ever gotten was when I grew a full, long beard. Guys I didn't even think knew my name were like, "jobobicus! The Bearded Wonder!"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/11/19 09:08 PM
2	I disagree with Conservatives on almost every issue. That’s flat out untrue. Guns are absolutely not mainly used in suicide and homicide.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/11/19 12:48 AM
4	I disagree with Conservatives on almost every issue. Seems to me that’s two separate problems. Of course, it opens up a can of worms when we start restricting things that mentally ill people have access to. They also have easy access to cars and alcohol. Should we ban those as well? Or maybe the solution is just to lock the mentally ill up so that they can’t hurt themselves.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/19 11:29 PM
3	I disagree with Conservatives on almost every issue. I think it’s disengenous to lay all the blame for firearm suicides or criminal homicides at the feet of the pro gun crowd... they are not and have never advocated for the use of firearms in those ways. It’s like saying anyone who isn’t for reinstating prohibition is responsible for all the alcohol related deaths, and they obviously don’t care about the lower classes who are disproportionately affected.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/19 11:13 PM
1	I disagree with Conservatives on almost every issue. Aye- I’ll take a wolf over a wolf in sheep’s clothing any day.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/19 11:08 PM
1	"Shotgun dad" masculinity I think in most cases, it’s just a humorous exaggeration. And, at the root of it all is the Dad saying “treat her well and take care of her.” I have 2 daughters so I kind of get it. I want their bf to be just a little intimidated by me.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/19 10:57 PM
3	When they call us "incels" See, that’s the problem with the Left today (to be fair, it’s a problem with the Right too, I just expect less from them). No, you shouldn’t know to ignore anything they say... you should still be willing to discuss and engage with them. Ignoring them- or worse, insulting them back- just pushes them farther toward the fringe. Hell, a lot of people that talk like that are probably kids anyway and just parroting something they’ve read online.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/19 01:38 PM
1	Study Finds Majority of U.S. Respondents Favor Revising the 1st Amendment to Restrict “Hate Speech” It’s terrifying. The practicality of implementing this will require someone in the government to determine hate speech, “fake news,” and whatever else. Do we REALLY want to trust some of these assclowns with that? A world where a Donald Trump Administration can’t just call out a news outlet, but now has legal authority to go after them??? Yeah, sign me up for that /s	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/19 01:30 PM
1	I believe men are just as, if not more likely to end up in an abusive relationship than women. We're just taught not to perceive women's behavior as abusive. Just to clarify, when I’m talking about “emotional labour” (as I understand it anyway), I’m not talking about physically doing the work. So I spend roughly as much time cleaning up the house as my wife does, and she’s probably as good if not better at being a disciplinarian. I’m talking about the pressures we feel from the outside. Regardless of who does what, when someone comes to our house, if it’s a wreck, odds are it will reflect poorly on her moreso than me. And he reverse is true if the gr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/19 11:53 PM
1	I believe men are just as, if not more likely to end up in an abusive relationship than women. We're just taught not to perceive women's behavior as abusive. I agree with that in general... lol of course my wife is 6’1”, I’m 5’10”, and since the 2nd kid she outweighs me by about 20 lbs. I don’t expect her to protect me.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/19 11:27 PM
1	I believe men are just as, if not more likely to end up in an abusive relationship than women. We're just taught not to perceive women's behavior as abusive. I don’t know if that’s really true anymore. Yes, women do emotional labor that men don’t... but no one ever really discusses that maybe both sexes are doing emotional labour, it’s just different. My wife talks about how she feels pressure to keep the house clean and be the nurturer, and remember birthdays because “society expects it.” Very true, and that sucks. But it sucks that I feel the same way about keeping the yard mowed, the gutters clean, the oil changed in her car. That I feel pressure …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/19 11:23 PM
1	I believe men are just as, if not more likely to end up in an abusive relationship than women. We're just taught not to perceive women's behavior as abusive. So the implication here is that a man should have a similar protector/nurturer relationship with their women as women and men do for their children? Isn’t that a bit insulting to women?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/19 11:14 PM
1	I believe men are just as, if not more likely to end up in an abusive relationship than women. We're just taught not to perceive women's behavior as abusive. That’s not always true. My wife’s abuse hurts even more because it is so different than what I grew up with, and it kills me that I can’t give my kids the same loving home life that I had. But I feel so totally trapped. She has promised to make my life miserable in a divorce, and guaranteed that at best I would see the kids every other weekend. I know it doesn’t necessarily always work that way, but a lot of times (I live in a very Conservative area) it does and I’m scared to risk it. I also wor…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/19 11:11 PM
4	A good man is getting even harder to find for strong, picky, independent women. (analysis in comments) Women may get more degrees, but it’s not like all degrees are created equal. My wife has a PhD. I have a lowly bachelor’s degree. OBVIOUSLY she’s smarter and more successful and had to settle. Of course difference is that if she had stopped with just her undergrad degree, from an expensive, private, Liberal Arts college, she would never have gotten a job. Meanwhile dumbass me went to a large public University for free because they offered me a full ride scholarship, and picked a degree (chemical…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/10/19 07:46 PM
1	Q4Men: how much time do you actually spend around women in real life? I spend very little time around them at work... I'm an engineer in an industrial facility; women don't want to work in that environment. At home, all the time... I'm raising 3 girls, aged 4, 8, and 37 (2 daughters + wife)	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/19 06:31 PM