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The problem is that men are coming here looking to educate and have their opinions held highly BECAUSE they are men. It's exactly as annoying as a woman strolling into a man's space and expecting praise and validation because they are women. If you have a valuable comment to contribute to the conversation, you shouldn't have to preface it with a declaration of your gender.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/15 03:58 PM
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Potatoes are a godsend
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/15 03:12 PM
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Yes! I adore the Pioneer Woman, but her meals are designed to satisfy her husband who is a rancher, I think? I'm kind of happy that my SO doesn't work a labour intensive job, I'd be making two meals for every meal-time!
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/15 02:27 PM
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Great list! I'll be looking these up later
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/15 11:50 PM
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Yes! Squats & lunges. You can build a booty
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:52 PM
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I like to think in terms of farm-strong versus gym-strong. Farm-strong: not the most aesthetic build, but in-shape. Utility muscles that you need for physical labour. My preference for a LTR man is this: someone whose fitness is the result of or contributes to useful endeavours. Gym-strong: your typical youtube fitness guy. A lovely aesthetic, but one that says "I spend a very large chunk of time at the gym." It's an attractive body to have, and will get you laid, but it also can lead to a borde…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:33 PM
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Canadian here, and I went to school in an isolated, rural community. I remember my teacher saying that women were born with all of the eggs we would ever produce and that they would become less and less viable as we aged. It must have resonated, because 80% of the young women around my age started having kids before 25. I'm 26 and I am hyper aware of the ticking of my biological clock. Thanks for instilling me with fertiliterror, Teach! (Not totally joking... babies are happening within the next…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 04:19 PM
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What about the cupcakes was terrible? The key to being a good baker is being able to tell what you added too much of/too little of/didn't combine well etc.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:38 PM
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Make him feel like a king, and help to affirm that he is still your captain (without being insincere or condescending) and there should be no problem. I think when men stay at home or earn less, women make a big song and dance about it or end up treating their men like women, and that's where the problem is.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:36 PM
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I'd prefer not to say, but thank you for the offer :)
/r/MensRights24/07/15 08:18 PM
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I earn more than my SO, but I have never referred to myself as the "main breadwinner." We split all of our costs 50/50 and I tuck away part of my paycheque into savings for when we have children (i intend to stay home). The "main breadwinner" mentality is what creates a perceived power shift. Focus more on what you can bring to your household instead of who is doing it "better."
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:16 PM
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That is terrible. I hope that your brother can break out of the cycle of abuse
/r/MensRights23/07/15 02:57 AM
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I'm in Canada. I'll look into it
/r/MensRights23/07/15 02:56 AM
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It wasn't meant to be a generalization, and was probably worded poorly. It should read something like "witnessed feminist bias of police officers." I know that there are good people on the force that would not have responded the way that these officers did
/r/MensRights22/07/15 05:36 PM
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I don't understand how someone couldn't care, but I guess that's the world we live in Thankfully I don't think they have kids to watch and learn this behaviour
/r/MensRights22/07/15 04:48 PM
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I actually might do that if (when) she starts laying into him again
/r/MensRights22/07/15 03:58 PM
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I will move it there, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 03:39 PM
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Fair point! I hadnt really considered that reasoning. Do you think that they would have responded differently if she was much larger than him?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 02:59 PM
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I'm sorry, this post doesn't address sexual strategy. I can delete it if this isn't the place for it
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 02:32 PM
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"Monogamy is a mindset of finding abundance in one special person." I love that way of thinking of it. I'm going to focus on bringing abundance to the table in our relationship instead of insecurity. Thanks for taking the time to respond, it was a lovely post. All the best to you and your partner.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 02:11 PM
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Haha, excellent!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 09:23 PM
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I'm working on it! Thanks again
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 08:42 PM
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You're probably right about the validation thing. When I look at him, I always feel so lucky that he chose me as a partner. There's a lot of insecurity on my part that he'll "snap out of it" and realize he has so many other options
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 08:41 PM
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No complaints from him. I'm trying to work on letting him take the lead, but it's hard not to worry and anticipate the worst. Thanks for responding.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 06:29 PM
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I think this is my biggest hurdle. Most things I have no trouble surrendering to him, but I always have this stubborn sense that "I know better." It's wrong, of course. I could not possibly know him better than he knows himself. Thanks for the response!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 06:28 PM
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Yes, this is literally all you need to do. Ramp up your sexuality/sensuality. I think there's an awful lot of over-complicated rom-com romancing ideas in this thread. Touch his penis, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/15 09:38 PM
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My man seems to like the combo. It's usually something like this I feel like dressing to impress your man =! dressing to look put together. Maybe I'm the only one, but I hate having bare legs when I'm doing things around the house.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 02:14 PM
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Be sure to try on different dress silhouettes to make sure you know what is the most flattering on you. Depending on your hips/waist/bust, you might need a different style. A-Line is the most universally flattering, drop-waist is the most universally unflattering... but there are some women who look terrible in an a-line, and some that can rock the drop-waist (I assume, I've yet to see it be done). I have a larger bust, so anything that doesn't nip in at the waist and flair out at the hem looks …
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 01:41 AM
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Yes yes yes! Full and A-Line are the epitome of the casual dress.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 01:31 AM
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I think that RPW encourages being the best women we can be and trying to make monogamy as effortless as possible for our partners, not worrying about what we may or may not "let" our partners do. As has been mentioned before, STDs are a logical reason to practice monogamy. I also don't think you should discount the emotional reasoning for monogamy. In the real world jealousy and insecurity can make women do incredibly destructive things to a relationship. If we could easily put logic ahead of ou…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 11:19 PM
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Simple dresses go a long way. If you wear them with leggings, they're basically just a more sophisticated version of a tank-top and yoga pants. And soooo comfortable. It also helps to spend at least a half an hour on hair/makeup/whatever in the morning. Don't just throw your hair up into a bun.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 09:08 PM
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If money is tight, do not cancel that ticket unless you can get a full refund. Postponing your schooling is not that bad, stop comparing yourself to other people and stop letting your parents' expectations drive your decisions. Honestly, I think that you have already worked this out by yourself (judging from the comparative length of your "pro" list to your "con" list).
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 07:41 PM
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Hopefully we will be starting a local business in about a year, but until then we're in semi-long-distance purgatory. I'm so amazed and grateful that my man is as patient and understanding as he is. A big struggle for me is to switch out of stressed out work-mode when I get home on Friday night. I've been guilty of nagging and berating more than once in the past year, but I'm really trying to work on it. My mantras to get through this and be as pleasant as possible are: suck it up. relationships…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 12:35 PM
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:) No problem. I'd like to hear how this works out for you. Currently my situation is almost the exact opposite of yours. I've been working 60 hour days, away from home 5 days a week for the past year. It's a challenge.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 10:52 PM
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Yeah, nagging is obviously worse. I was assuming OP would chose not to greet her spouse that way. In my experience/household, my partner likes to be greeted. This doesn't mean jumping all over him or being too high-energy, just a moment of appreciation to let him know that he has been missed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 10:01 PM
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Make sure all of the house work is done while he is away. Other than minor tidying, cooking, and things that are unavoidably day-to-day: you should not be focusing on keeping house when he gets home. When he gets home, the focus should be on spending time together and helping him to unwind. Be ready to greet him when he gets home. There is nothing worse than coming home to be mildly ignored. Chances are he will be exhausted and want to relax, so exude that energy. Be calming and soothing, listen…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/15 04:35 PM
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My only advice would be to be politely disinterested rather than giving the cold shoulder. Walking away from someone or blatantly avoiding them just invites more drama. You don't have to be best friends, but for the sake of your sanity (and out of respect for the bride and groom) treat them like hardly-known acquaintances rather than enemies. Also, good point with the comment about the respect of your SO's privacy. Mine is also very private, and I've indulged more information about him than I sh…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/15 04:32 AM
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Thanks for commenting :) I think that loyalty is the key trait to these true friendships. Sadly, I don't think that I believe there is any truly selfless action (everything we do, we do to benefit ourselves). You make a good point about impoverished communities. I think herd strength is just that much more important when you may not have the means to support yourself at any given moment.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 03:28 AM
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For me, it's as simple as feeling secure in my station in life (at this point, my career) and in my relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 04:23 AM
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Agreed. A woman is only competitive with another woman if they are both interested in the same man. After that, the competition is less about beating out other women for the top prize. There's a sort of onus on the women to convince her peers that she is happy, secure, and otherwise living a charmed life. It's more about appearance than actual achievements.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 04:22 AM
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I can see how that would be nice! It's more of preserving the "mystery" between him and I, since it's just the two of us. Hearing your partner in the bathroom is a little bit too intimate at this point in the relationship. I also like the idea of there being a bathroom that is a wholly feminine space, and one that is a wholly masculine space. Along with being just a place for hygiene, it becomes a place to prepare and ground yourself, as well as hone in on the image you want to project.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 01:55 PM
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My SO and I have been living together for 2 years, and I don't think either of us would be happy with separate bedrooms. I like having the security of having him by my side, and he likes to have my body in close proximity. Separate bathrooms, though, is something I think that both of us really crave and would benefit from.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 12:12 AM
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