joethomma Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Quick reminder PSA		joethomma	/r/seduction	10/11/13 03:38 AM
0	Does anyone else have a lot of trouble not falling in love?		joethomma	/r/seduction	02/02/14 08:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How to make a date more sexual? I was talking about /u/DariusSSfJ and in both cases yes they are.	/r/seduction	13/07/15 09:07 PM
4	How to make a date more sexual? I love that he put quotation marks around something OP never said/wrote, then used OP's exact words.	/r/seduction	13/07/15 08:44 PM
9	I'm scared of sex This is great advice. It's also important to understand, OP, that you're suffering from a lot of built-up stigma over and sexuality. We live in a society that treats sex -- especially the first time you have it -- as something super important, but in reality it's not. (NA culture is also totally schizophrenic about its opinions on sex: innocent girls = good; slutty girls = bad; sell absolutely everything with scantily-clad women = fine; nipple during primetime = far from fine.) You have to liste…	/r/seduction	18/04/15 12:18 AM
6	How do I respond when a girl tells me that their friends likes me? Do you mean when she says her friends like you? Or her friend likes you? Important distinction.	/r/seduction	25/03/15 05:45 AM
1	The 36 Questions That Lead To Love Dear lord, this thing has been posted seven thousand times on my FB (mostly by girls).	/r/seduction	06/02/15 12:09 AM
1	Female journalist challenged to date 60 men in 2 months details 10 mistakes men make on first dates. Thought you guys might find this interesting. I think in this particular case we can listen to most of it because it's hardly dating advice, but common courtesy. Who the fuck asks "So how do you think this is going?" midway through a date?	/r/seduction	21/01/15 02:36 PM
10	Would you take this bet? The simple maths behind why more approaches increases value of approach That's what I was thinking. They probably think he's some kind of street magician who's fucking with them.	/r/seduction	06/01/15 04:44 AM
3	GLL - How to Avoid Getting Emotionally Attached to Girls Too Quickly (Fantastic Insight) Agreed. It's terribly written. There's no advice on how to "avoid getting emotionally attached," aside from "you should have sex with a lot of girls."	/r/seduction	11/08/14 05:37 AM
0	John Cooper Introduces: "Reverse Pick-Up" Anytime a video starts with something like, "ANY GIRL, ANY TIME, ANYWHERE," I immediately discount.	/r/seduction	28/07/14 01:55 AM
9	How do you follow up with girls from different cities? Keep speaking. Remain friends ("friends" -- keep a consistently sexual vibe and let her know you're interested). Make an excuse to come back to her city or meet up in a bigger one again. Sounds a bit simple, but if it's a chick you vibe with then honestly she'll probably want to see you again, too. There's a "foreigner"/out-of-her-reach feeling that you definitely work to your advantage.	/r/seduction	06/07/14 07:24 AM
1	How to tell stories better When you are talking with a girl at the bar/a party/coffee shop/etc the rules of storytelling are the same as they are on paper or film. Make it A) as brief as possible but as long as it needs to be, B) well-paced (e.g. no need to describe the funny eyeliner than one chick was wearing), and C) consistently entertaining. Just play to your audience and make sure they want to hear what you have to say. If they weren't interested in the subject/topic before, make them. Now, realizing that this infor…	/r/seduction	06/07/14 07:21 AM
8	Question about getting rejected by someone I see frequently For all intents and purposes, act like nothing happened. Allow yourself to give as few fucks as possible and move on. If nothing else she now unequivocally knows that you are interested in her. If you keep spending time with her, it's very possible to turn this around, just have zero expectations, move on emotionally, and treat her the same as before. If she digs you she'll probably let it be known.	/r/seduction	30/06/14 02:32 AM
19	After kissing her at a party, is it needy and desperate to hold hands with her for the rest of the night? Read no further than this OP.	/r/seduction	30/06/14 12:33 AM
2	Request: Hosting a Successful College Party (venue pics inside) Alcohol + good sound system = dancing will happen (in my experience). If your friends are a little frigid about shaking their asses, then be willing to be the first one on the dance floor. Good opportunity to show your confidence even if you suck.	/r/seduction	29/05/14 09:11 PM
1	Is there going to be an increase in anti PUA backlash because of that school shooting in LA? I was wondering this myself. If anything, I think it'd be a good thing for our community that this piece of human garbage was anti-PUA.	/r/seduction	26/05/14 05:17 AM
-1	i felt to share a couple of "one liners" i like to think i made up I'm definitely using that first one.	/r/seduction	26/05/14 04:31 AM
2	I think I'm really funny, but no one else does. What do I do about this? Yeah man, I've been there. I think I have a similar sense of humor. Learn to smirk or smile and you'll be streets ahead. It's important to have your own fun, but make sure you give off a welcoming/enjoyable/entertaining vibe for others.	/r/seduction	23/05/14 06:36 AM
32	[FR] Got a girl's number in my class - Not to stereotype, but from my experience with girls who are into girls, their relationships are often looser, less defined, and more sexually free than typical hetero relationships. Her being into girls does not at all mean she's not also attracted to dudes. You're not necessarily barking up the wrong tree. Maybe they're looking for a third...	/r/seduction	23/05/14 04:53 AM
3	I think I'm really funny, but no one else does. What do I do about this? Reading your post, I was waiting for the words "dry" or "deadpan" to come up. From your description I'd guess you often find yourself in situations where people don't even realize you're kidding around. This kind of dry, bizarre humor can exceedingly entertaining, but people probably need to attune themselves to your personality and sense of humor. For example, one of the funniest dudes I've ever met is a coworker of mine, and his humor sounds very close to what you described. I'll often think s…	/r/seduction	23/05/14 04:38 AM
3	Freaking amazing Seconded. Bang mode: activate.	/r/seduction	27/04/14 04:25 AM
14	[F] wondering how to seduce Similar (very broad) advice that I'd give to a dude. Be sexually forward without coming off as desperate. Invite him out, make sure to kino (touch his leg, shoulder, back, etc...). Text him stuff that suggests you want him inside you without, you know, coming right out saying that you want him inside you (yet!). Key is to suggest interest without -- I cannot stress this enough, it looks awful on guys and girls -- seeming at all desperate. And don't get hung up. If he doesn't bite -- which he lik…	/r/seduction	25/03/14 04:10 PM
1	[FR] Edgy girl from class. Same day f-close Prime FR. Great work, thanks for sharing.	/r/seduction	19/02/14 05:44 AM
3	How do you escalate a relationship with someone you already know? Nice, thanks. I'm a recent Anglo arrival to Quebec, so my French speaking/writing skills are a little weak. That was my attempt to write out what I'd heard.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 07:24 AM
13	How do you escalate a relationship with someone you already know? This is killer advice. Moving "typical" conversations a step further always establishes intimacy.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 06:32 AM
1	How do you escalate a relationship with someone you already know? Just try to have fun no matter the situation. Genuine fun. Even if there's not a girl around. If you think something is funny, say it. Who cares what anyone else thinks. Watch RSD Julien's videos on self-amusement and being able to have as much fun with a 2 as you do with a 10. (On mobile so no links, sorry.) His style rules.	/r/seduction	31/01/14 05:50 AM
169	How do you escalate a relationship with someone you already know? This is one of the few areas I actually feel confident in giving advice, so here goes. First and foremost, un-friendzone yourself. If I'm interested in a girl I know, a friend, someone from work, a classmate, etc., even if it isn't serious interest, I'll usually try to do something so that they do not think of me as the nice guy/friend-type. It doesn't really matter what it is. Tell a funny/gross/stupid sex story. Bluntly hit on her. In my experience even talking about past girlfriends/girl dram…	/r/seduction	30/01/14 09:30 PM
1	Willpower is like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it will become. The inverse is also true, the less you use it, the weaker it is. Still a nice analogy.	/r/seduction	12/11/13 05:59 AM
1	A simple, effective opener for the women you have class with How do you have a final mid-September? What type of topsy-turvy crazytown school do you go to??	/r/seduction	13/09/13 06:40 PM
2	We need to retire the HB system. I propose the infallible binary system: 1, would; 0, wouldn't.	/r/seduction	28/08/13 05:03 AM
6	Has anyone ever moved to a new city, knowing nobody, in their mid-to-late 20's and successfully made -real- friends? If so, how did you do it? I did exactly that at 27. Best advice I can give you: roommates. I stayed with a family friend until I found a place on craigslist. The people I moved in with were fucking awesome, and my whole friend circle just kind of developed from there. I might have gotten lucky, but I specifically looked around for people who I felt were "the same" as me, and it happened remarkably fast. I would just throw yourself out there and see what you can see. If that sucks, go to a reddit meet up. Some of us are c…	/r/seduction	11/08/13 09:04 AM
12	New field tested routine: "The matchmaker". Let me know what you guys think. Clever. Funny. Simple. Very nice. I will try.	/r/seduction	19/05/13 09:24 PM
1	Don't go out to get girls, go out to have fun Your exuberance is infectious.	/r/seduction	19/05/13 06:18 PM
4	Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction? I'm sure others have done better, but I had three hook ups in one weekend. That was surreal. I'm not even very good at this shit.	/r/seduction	30/04/13 09:10 PM
3	The DJ that can't get laid... This is great advice, especially #5. Don't let some moron who fetishized chastity color the rest of your dating life.	/r/seduction	04/11/12 06:14 PM