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This sums up why I don't mind the downvotes. http://www.smbc-comics.com/?id=2939 Most people think this is some sort of debate or discussion, where somehow we'll have a winner based on arguments, when I'm actually trying to understand what's going on.
/r/MensRights01/07/13 01:55 PM
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Nah, it's a good argument, can't disagree with you at all.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 07:42 PM
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But feminists like you can't let that get out, as it threatens your ill gotten gains, doesn't it? Before anything, I'm sorry if I sounded aggressive or disrespectful, my point is to go the whole dialectic way to understand some aspects of MensRights. If it's relevant for the discourse, I am not a feminist, at most an egalitarian, but the community usually have way too many issues with modern women's rights to talk about other things. From time to time I think I do understand the point of MRA, bu…
/r/MensRights25/06/13 07:07 PM
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But when you do, society treats you as a hero. That's the exact point I'm making, patriarchy only favors those who conform to it, and in the end, it's usually used as a mean of control and manipulation.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 06:41 PM
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Thanks! I'll check this out as soon as I get home.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 06:06 PM
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I remember studying game theory, but I don't understand how this applies to this case. If this is not a zero sum game, what is the point of expressing hate against a particular group/line of thought?
/r/MensRights25/06/13 06:04 PM
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I don't mind the critique, that's what's destroying feminism, their lack of self consciousness, but everytime I read somebody 'hating' feminism, it's just too much of a broad message, specially since the movement as a whole is much more complicated than dumbing down to a few events.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 05:56 PM
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Well... I get that, I don't understand why is there this need to somehow put feminism under. That does align with conservatives and I don't think that can be productive at all, can it?
/r/MensRights25/06/13 04:13 PM
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I think I don't... could you expand on that?
/r/MensRights25/06/13 04:05 PM
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Patriarchy still exists but not in the way that classic feminists believe, the whole idea and abuse that some women can get from parental rights is tied directly with the fact that 'girls take care of home' while 'boys bring in the bread'. So it makes sense that parental rights would favour women while men would be obligated to give them money. Maybe I don't understand shit, but the whole 'patriarchy' thing is a double-edged sword that has been exploited by men in the past, and is being exploite…
/r/MensRights25/06/13 03:34 PM
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This comparison goes beyond true, considering that unions are use as career trampolines for people who want a head start in politics. The same can be said about feminism, which have been abused for the profit of a few people, while ignoring everything else.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 03:29 PM
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So you hate the fact that women vote? And are not under your complete control within marriage? Or the fact that you can't hit your wife in the face and not face the consequences? Or do you hate the fact that a lot of feminists managed to take something that was supposed to be egalitarian and transformed in a mean to abuse men? Even worst, the destruction of the male identity over the last few years? There's a big difference. EDIT: For the 'white knight alert' comment: If MensRights continues to …
/r/MensRights25/06/13 03:08 PM
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Guys are unlike women Guys are like that. Some great shit right there. Why do MRAs have such an unhealthy need of pointing this kind of argument? That just hurts the whole thing. I don't even know why I bother, maybe some good comments and stories, but the amount of ignorance in comments is just ridiculous. You're just being as dumb as feminists who insist on saying that all men are rapist/potential rapist.
/r/MensRights24/06/13 07:07 PM
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When did bullying became rape? This is way out of proportion.
/r/MensRights24/06/13 06:51 PM
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So fucking adorable. That's some good advice right here.
/r/MensRights14/06/13 02:13 PM
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Now this is a real feminist issue that no one addresses. IDK. By acknowledging radfems maybe the whole movement loses force? I do wonder if /r/AskFeminists would give a decent answer or at least give some insight on the subject. But considering that whole subreddit is run by tumbrlfems, I do know I won't be satisfied with the replies I do get.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 05:06 PM
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The problem within feminism is not feminism itself, is the whole radical feminism concept. The Wikipedia article is just awesome and explains a lot about why I hate and love feminism at the same time. Anyways, avoid doing like radical fems do: Do not generalize a whole movement/theory/whatever. Feminism has a lot of good points and it is not all sexist bullshit. But obviously some parts of it are, just avoid generalization or you'll end up sounding like they do.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 04:08 PM
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I wasn't able to watch the video, but I read the Atlantic article, bassicaly what everyone is saying is that men who don't fulfil their gender role based on patriarchy end up commiting suicide at higher rates. Right? Isn't that feminist theory right there?
/r/MensRights31/05/13 03:23 PM
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How is this related to anything in this discussion?
/r/MensRights31/05/13 03:15 PM
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When you're the minority, acting aggressively usually doesn't yields results as fast as you would expect, since a lot of people won't agree with you - and you'll be cast as the nutjob in the group - we can use feminists examples in Europe recently about this, there has been little backlash and most feminists say that those girls who call themselves feminists, aren't really feminists at all. Just don't think that this is a fight that can be won with violence.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 08:25 PM
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Yeah right, because having feminists arguing against transgender people is a really funny joke. This is straight up offensive. If you seriously identified as a woman and they ignored you, it would be a problem. But making this to make a joke out of them is just absurd.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 06:03 PM
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Just fucking don't. Advertising your own 'Men's Space' is a really bad idea. Just ask for a Safe Room for gender discussions. You can say that while girls might as well have problems, there's a real need for a safe space for gender discussions. Gay, straight, black, white, women, men, trans or cis. Just avoid going for the binary part about Men/Women. It's a much stronger argument to point out other perceived minorities than to go with the binary gender argument. Specially because if they try to…
/r/MensRights28/05/13 06:01 PM
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You missed a sarcasm tag over there. Or you're just homophobic. In any case, go fuck yourself.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 06:00 PM
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You really think that someone who identifies itself as straight wouldn't rape someone of their sex? Just think about the various examples in Middle East about gay people who are captured and then sodomized by straight people. It's not about sexual gratification, it's about dominance and control.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 05:58 PM
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I can't explain how relevant it is to notice how much equality overshadows feminism.
/r/MensRights10/05/13 06:27 AM
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But I'm pretty sure they'll be the pinnacle of Men's Rights Revolution
/r/MensRights09/05/13 07:23 PM
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This. /r/lgbt is pure agony.
/r/MensRights26/04/13 11:22 PM
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IDK. It shows fine on my PC. It's basically a backwards question mark. Anyways, I guess we already know why using the '/s' tag is better than the symbol I mentioned.
/r/MensRights22/04/13 12:03 PM
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I'm always open to meeting new people. Hehe.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/13 12:02 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irony_punctuation I thought it was a standard symbol.
/r/MensRights21/04/13 08:45 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irony_punctuation
/r/MensRights21/04/13 08:44 PM
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what is the '/s'? sarcasm? use ⸮
/r/MensRights21/04/13 05:10 PM
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Not sure if that's the most important part. The school is retaliating for the money they lost, this should put fake allegations in a different perspective. What I do wonder is why the school had to pay. What was their fault?
/r/MensRights19/04/13 04:24 PM
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Don't mind if I do.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 04:13 PM
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For women it's perceived differently, specially because it is sucking your breasts...
/r/MensRights16/04/13 09:45 PM
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IDK. I remember seeing my dad's privates and spent a long time in my childhood with the impression that I had a really small dick, compared to his.
/r/MensRights16/04/13 09:08 PM
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What I do wonder is how would you treat this situation if her daughter wanted to see her father's penis. Or even if her son would like to see it. Obviously the article points into an interesting direction about not being ashamed of masturbation, but the fact that if roles were reversed the situation as a whole would be much more complex. Which does bring an interesting question, how should a father deal with his son about masturbation?
/r/MensRights16/04/13 05:39 PM
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For a professor he seems rather ignorant: One of the issues for gay men is they all share the same equipment.(...) There’s talk of tops and bottoms, but if you have two men, regardless of whether they’re a top or bottom, how much is their essence and idea of self attached to being a provider? I think it is a different story for them. The biggest issue among gay men is the large amount of guys who think that being a bottom means being less of a men since it's somehow analogous to being a woman. T…
/r/MensRights16/04/13 03:38 PM
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You can't just not want, there must be a reason. It's just a body part, like your feet, or belly. /u/Sarstan brings a good question, the whole homophobic bullshit has damaged a lot of male relationships, it's something you should ponder.
/r/MensRights11/04/13 09:50 PM
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"You know how many dicks I sucked that I didn’t want to suck, because I’m a good kid? She's not a good kid. She's a stupid person. EDIT: I personally like sucking dick and I don't need no 'reciprociaquation' - I do things I enjoy doing. Period.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:03 PM
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Jesus, I can't open twitter right now, can anyone confirm this?
/r/MensRights21/03/13 04:42 PM
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Well... A lot of people don't agree with the concept of 'rape culture', I personally don't know what to think about. In a sense I understand what women mean when they talk about that, but when I see similar behavior in the gay scene, it loses its meaning showing that 'rape culture' is an exclusive term for specific feminists. I honestly think I suck at this, but let me try pointing one thing or another: We so often think about rape and sexual assault as "women's issues" and we focus on individua…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:59 PM
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Is rape such a hard thing to have evidence? I mean, even with a condom, the damage done is huge, no? I honestly want to know what is the lack of evidence that she claims.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 12:27 PM
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I wonder what the feminists would say if they made a pair of giant breasts.
/r/MensRights01/03/13 09:22 PM
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Well... I might go back to this, maybe as a gay men I've been over this - at least the part were I need to talk about it with a lot of people. The main reason I left was the superficiality, anyways, are there any works by Donovan and Palahniuk you'd recommend?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/13 09:36 PM
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Yes. But the behavior of most males at /r/TheRedPill just tend to be a little off to my logic. The whole 'game', 'alpha', 'beta', and the behavior of 'let's fuck what we can', the lack of faith in a relationship and among other things are just ridiculous. This whole thing, for me, seems like a bunch of college grads things to legitimize their superficiality. Then again, that was my impression. The guys you were talking about are Jack Donovan and Chuck Palahniuk? I'm gonna take a look at their wo…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/13 08:10 PM
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As a gay men, I feel like this article seems to think that only women make porn.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 08:28 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1964_Brazilian_coup_d%27%C3%A9tat
/r/MensRights14/02/13 08:26 PM
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I'm pretty sure I would have suicided or murder somehow.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 08:28 PM
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It was the 90s. There were some changes in thought at the time and the vagina monologues were part of that. Obviously it's a piece of work that seems to lose its relevance as time goes on. And again it was fucking art. Art like that hipster who started to take a bath in tomato soup in stage. Art like the guys from www.thedualism.com [NSFW]. Art like everythingisterrible.com It's some fucked up art that rarely crosses to the mainstream.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 12:29 PM
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I wonder how feminists would react if there was a sign in these parties stating that drunk women will be asked to leave.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 08:38 PM
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Dude, chill. I was commuting from work. I'm really trying to have a discussion, I'm sorry if my post sounds retarded or came across as aggressive, that was really not my point. The whole concept of complete freedom of speech is kinda alien to me. My response /u/yerpaaaa to is here. =)
/r/MensRights24/01/13 01:19 AM
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IDK, I guess I'm being a little silly. EDIT: No wait, I wasn't. I'm afraid that something that starts with this argument could something similar to a 'Straight Pride Parade' that was heavily hijacked by relgious conservatives to be a 'Homophobic Parade'. As the majority (I think) we should be careful about the fights we fight because Feminists have an edge on us: The Double Standard crap. The same way they can make a male-only gathering sound the greatest Feminist conspiracy, I have this stupid …
/r/MensRights24/01/13 01:07 AM
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A 'Straight Pride Parade' is similar the 'Parade for Family and Tradition' in Brazil (It was the parade that led to the military dictatorship in the 60s). It's a conservative movement by the majority of a country.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 09:13 PM
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Yeah... I recommend avoiding these discussions. I know there's the whole american thing, but this is usually comes across as a little redneck for non-americans. Remember that US is the only country in the world with no hate speech laws.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 08:39 PM
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What happens when someone makes a comment about Men's Rights that is hate speech? For example, the people who think that a Straight Pride Parade is necessary?
/r/MensRights23/01/13 08:20 PM
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If she really is a con artist, a lot of people played their part perfectly. Bashing her for what she's doing obviously worked in her favor.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 11:17 PM
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Don't you think at least that having someone to start the conversation would lead to bigger discussions? BTW, you're completely correct when she just says 'it's bad' and doesn't provide any resolution to the problem - this is really obvious in many of her videos. I find her discussion interesting but I also agree that's unilateral, but from what I notice from most feminists (and minority groups, I'm involved in some LGTB movement) is that this is the main MO: Talk about the shit that's happening…
/r/MensRights22/01/13 08:55 PM
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She's pointing out the fact that the industry is completely disproportional. I honestly don't see what's wrong with that. The same way we still have M-Rated movies with boobs, we will still have games that over exaggerate sexuality. She's just bringing this into light of discussion something that has been taken from granted for years. I personally find this kind of discussion extremely beneficial, specially at a time that video games seem to target a very specific audience (frat houses/male teen…
/r/MensRights22/01/13 08:26 PM
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What is MGTOW?
/r/MensRights22/01/13 07:58 PM
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I think you should learn to pick your fights. What the hell is wrong with you guys? This looks like redditors at /r/Chicago screaming MAN HATE because they tried to organize a girls only meet up. And yeah, they wouldn't allow criticism after her wiki entry was vandalized so many times. Am I the only fucking person in this subreddit who thinks this kind of fight just fucks up the whole MensRights movement? It really passes a bad bad image. And what the fuck is wrong with fucking Anita Sarkeesian?…
/r/MensRights22/01/13 03:52 PM
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Yeah... somebody posted that making these points about double standards are kinda pointless. There are much more important issues at bay.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 08:08 PM
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This is what fucking bothers me the most: Dr Hakim said many women did not want to “admit” that they were looking for a higher earning partner. They even keep the fact secret from the men they are dating, she said. “It has become impossible to say ‘I wouldn’t mind being a housewife,’” she said. “It is so politically incorrect that a lot of women don’t want to admit it.” Jesus fuck. Grow the fuck up. There's nothing wrong being a house-wife and there are men out there who wouldn't mind being a ho…
/r/MensRights17/01/13 03:54 PM
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Top level comment =/= most voted comment Their mods explained that happens because people troll a lot. I personally don't care and I think that the people in charge are not the best representatives of feminism.
/r/MensRights13/01/13 09:38 PM
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Top level comment =/= most voted comment. It took me a while to understand that. From that the mods said at their topic this happens because of their trolls level, so I guess it's not such a big deal, is it?
/r/MensRights13/01/13 09:36 PM
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How can you moderate top level comments?
/r/MensRights13/01/13 09:21 PM
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Wasn't expect for women to be 'clean of dirty thoughts' at that time?
/r/MensRights10/01/13 09:39 PM
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"advance women's reclamation of their capacity for, and right to, visual pleasure"" Am I the only one who thinks that makes sense? In the early 90s?
/r/MensRights10/01/13 08:04 PM
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Because this kind of bullshit has started to happen now. I feel like this year we're gonna see some drastic changes on people perceive feminism and male rights.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 08:01 PM
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Yeah, I wanted details, the story seems badly told and a lot of points are missing. If this is his first feminist class, how can he disagree with the theory of patriarchy? That's an established model, there are numerous examples of it on religious groups and traditional/conservative nations. Again, I'm not even talking about patriarchy, I'm talking about the theory behind it. I feel like he told his teacher he disagreed with the concept of monarchy or something. It's an axiom that can't be 'disa…
/r/MensRights10/01/13 03:56 PM
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Yeah... there's some part of this story you're not telling... I'm calling bull, but then again, who doubts the hive gets the downsvotes.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 02:40 PM
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All the kids involved on this case need serious counseling. The boy was abused. The girl is a psychopath and her brother has to deal with hear.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 02:38 PM
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Sounds like an awesome read.
/r/MensRights28/12/12 09:33 PM
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But it's complete bull. His mother is the worst of all. He pays healthcare for her but every time there's an emergency she decides to go to the most expensive hospital and he fucking pays. And believe me, getting an appointment for USD 400 is not cheap under any situation. We're having an awesome vacation this week; Me, him and our other partner are planning to spend a week in Argentina for New Year's Eve and I hope I can put some sense into his mind. Oh yeah, I didn't even mention the worst par…
/r/MensRights28/12/12 09:29 PM
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It just kills me. He has a crappy job as an accountant for the Brazilian educational system, which is basically bureaucratic crap and politics all day long, then he works 4 to 5 days at the bar and has to get this shit at home. Oh, and he's fucking 30. I'm having a real honest talk about this shit tonight, ever since I met him in 2006 I've seen this crap happening... or at least convince him to get a lawyer and get some legal protection.
/r/MensRights28/12/12 07:45 PM
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Raping your gf when she's drunk is very different from sticking pointy metallic objects into her vagina.
/r/MensRights28/12/12 07:39 PM
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Someone who rapes a person up to the point that it's necessary to have a new intestine doesn't even deserve to be alive.
/r/MensRights28/12/12 07:37 PM
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I'm currently watching one of my business partner go trough this. His father died about 7 or 9 years ago and my friend became the 'head of the family' - not in the sense of getting respect or anything good, he just pays all the fucking bills for his mother and his two sisters. Last Friday there was a problem in our stereo system, we own a bar, and my friend got his sister's stereo until we fixed our amp. Yesterday his sister slapped him and he slapped her back - obviously not as strong - but the…
/r/MensRights28/12/12 07:25 PM
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That comment is as expected as having someone screaming "GAY" in a 4chan topic. Sadly, the future isn't know, and it will take a lot of time for people to stop seeing men as sex machines.
/r/MensRights21/12/12 08:20 PM
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Maybe just use chloroform? If he has a car he could easily just get her unconscious, strip her of her cellphone (or camera), and just dump her somewhere. When she calls the police he'll just say they hooked up, she slept there for a couple of days and then she was gone.
/r/MensRights21/12/12 01:25 PM
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Wat? She grabbed your penis? She touched your penis? She fucking groped your penis? Jesus fuck, that's horrible.
/r/MensRights14/12/12 03:10 PM
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Well... if there's a meaning: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cock%20shopping When a girl walks around a bar, or gym, talking to every guy she sees, flirting, and gazing in the eyes. That girl I was just talking to must be cock shopping, she just walked away from me, and started talking to that guy over there.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/12 01:17 PM
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On a side note, I read this article a long time ago that I think it could help: http://inpraiseofargument.squarespace.com/teach-a-kid-to-argue/
/r/TheRedPill13/12/12 01:01 PM
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Maybe I'm a little harsh since most posts seem to drift from what I initially understood as Alpha. Yeah, and i totally exaggerated the part about the numbers. What I don't understand is the excessive need for auto affirmation. And this is something that as an Alpha, you should be careful. A person who needs to show off his masculinity ends up showing that he is not in control of his self, and that could fuck up any kind of daily politics you have to handle - for example in your job. Is there a g…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/12 12:52 PM
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Thanks. I'm not sure if this is a good or not, but I've been feeling kinda blue because of all this crap - specially when I started to notice how trapped my friends are in their relationships... I mean, I guess I'm kinda privileged for having such view of society but I'm feeling like shit because I can't really do anything for them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/12 04:25 PM
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IT'd be nice to see how this goes. I'm definitely curious how a child would react to these home lessons when he's constantly bombarded with opposing concepts - specially from television. Just be careful with "you must not be nice to people who aren't nice to you" - sometimes we must be 'nice' to people who have more power over the situation than we do - I'm not sure if a kid can grasp this concept. Have you talked to your kid? How is it going?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/12 04:22 PM
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Actually, 12% body fat is the most attractive %. Source[1] I was pointing out that the author compared 6-10% range to those in abnormal (unhealthy) ranges. It was quoted the original study from the blog. Smart or dumb, brain or no brain, they all say yes to the Alpha. Fact. Yes they do, that's not the deal. The problem is when you think you're an Alpha but you sound like Brucie from GTA4, that will get you your target group: shallow stupid mindless girls. White Knight? Really? That's how I'm bei…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/12 04:00 PM
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When you reach the pinnacle of your health and you walk into a club, every woman in the room immediately recognizes your presence, and you can feel their gaze taunting you, hoping, wishing, and dreaming of being approached by you. These lines and this kind of line of though always makes me wonder how much self-esteem most of these 'alpha bloggers' actually have. dreaming of being approached by you. Now here's what I think I finally understood about 'game', 'alpha' and 'the game' - they're all tr…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/12 12:18 PM
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Oh Mikey!
/r/MensRights10/12/12 11:27 PM
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As a gay men I feel this is unnecessarily. I know this comment will stay in the bottom, but this subreddit has enough space for every man. It's totally cool to bring homo into the topics, and everyone seems to be cool about it. Honestly this is a safe place for men. Straight or not.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 01:54 PM
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This. I gave up on Feminism after a while because I noticed this. While a lot of the people who know what feminism is understand that it's about equality, there's this other bunch who insist on being simply pro-women. Check out our own subrredit feminism, check their sidebar: Although we focus on feminism and women's issues, there are other systems of oppression which intersect in various ways. Therefore, sexism, classism, heterosexism, homophobia, anti-egalitarianism, transphobia, ablism, racis…
/r/MensRights04/12/12 08:56 PM
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The only thing I can say is: Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/MensRights30/11/12 07:21 PM
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=3 It happens.
/r/MensRights30/11/12 07:17 PM
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In the 90's he was giving speeches on how welfare recipients can be mobilized as a political force. Source?
/r/MensRights30/11/12 06:12 PM
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Exactly! The same way we should have a straight pride parade! /sarcasm
/r/MensRights30/11/12 05:59 PM
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Wasn't this posted a few days ago here?
/r/MensRights30/11/12 02:49 PM
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I did read... I can't relate to anything at all! I mention this again - I don't know if this is because I'm gay or because I live in Brazil, but this kind of stories I keep reading seem to make little sense. What I do understand is that there is a disconnect between what we expect from reality and from what reality really is - and this is the issue that I is constantly being addressed - and this is good. I mentioned the part about 'blaming the game' because it's something I haven't taken account…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/12 05:47 PM
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...maybe my line of reasoning is wrong, but here's what I'm thinking: Having more sex means using more condoms and condoms break - if the concept of 'game' means more sex, it means he's exposing himself more often, so the possibility of breaking it is higher. If I could add two cents: Guys, stop using male condoms, is the worst shit in the world - get female condoms and make her use it, it's much much harder to break and it feels much much more awesome.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/12 04:00 PM
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I have no idea what you guys keep talking about, seriously. This sounds like some sort of rant from some GTA4 character. Honestly? I don't know what's the big deal of not getting married - if you're happy with 'the game' good for you, but every time I read one of these posts, I feel like you need to put out what you're trying to rationalize because you can't really believe what you're saying. Specially because you blame the culture you're living in for the way of life that you take. I don't know…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/12 03:49 PM
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Honestly? You fucked up hard. Talk to her and see if she's interested in an abortion. If the answer is yes, you're safe. If the answer is no, get a lawyer. I would like to point out that you 'alpha red pill way of style' got you in a situation that could fuck up your whole fucking life - you should honestly think about what you're doing with it - specially if the only thing that is worth in your life is 'the game' and 'dark arts'.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/12 03:39 PM
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Oh, it's not that I don't believe in conjuncture, but I'd like to check in mainstream music, sitcoms and movies to see if this can be really be noticed in various aspects of society. I think Dharma and Greg was a good example of this, a sitcom where the male character was completely submissive to a female. The examples you give seem to me much more about dumb people than a on going trend, but I'm starting to believe that this trend is happening in various situations. Oh yeah! I can remember one!…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/12 06:11 PM
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That's a really interesting article. The concept of male privilege maybe the root of this line of thought - and it's rather obvious, if I conceive that there is another party that has a natural benefit for being born the 'other gender' than my own, it's obvious that I would try to form the same conception for myself. I think something similar has been happening within the gay community for the last years - but this is a story for another moment. What I would like to ask is to directly question h…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/12 03:32 PM
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If you think about when the feminist movement started, women were the oppressed gender. And it started in a time where concepts like transgender, homosexual and etc. were not developed. I may be mistaken, but the girls started their movement in 19th and early 20th century, and queer theory started in the mid 20th out of the women's studies and gender studies. The very name begins with "Fem". How can it represent both genders? Feminism started as a counter movement from the patriarchy concept. Li…
/r/MensRights26/11/12 09:04 PM
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I don't get it. Your original post has a few bad apples and a bunch of people giving you support, what's the drama? Oh wait, you got PMs... nevermind.
/r/MensRights26/11/12 05:52 PM
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I'm pure homo, so, I never been with a girl. I had a lot of partners clawing me during sex, but I do enjoy bondage. What I don't get is how submissive some guys are and they can't handle the consequences. If you don't like getting clawed, that's your choice. What I don't understand is how something so silly like this could make someone rant with so much emotion. Is this really a big problem?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/12 03:10 PM
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All I read is hate. Can somebody explain what is this? In the act of sexual intercourse as when she climbs toward orgasm, she will claw at you, try to tear your flesh with her hands, and bite you. What the fuck have you been dating? Do you enjoy bondage? No? Then when someone hurts you during sex, just stop and ask 'What the fuck are you doing?'. If you get the reply of 'Oh, man up.' tell her you don't like sexist sadist bitches and ask her to leave your life. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/12 01:46 PM
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Feminism is enough for both genders. Feminism discusses masculinity as well as femininity. Fuck this shit. I love it when people tend to go for this perfect world where there are two genders. Seriously, if there is one thing that I find pathetic about these 'pro-gender' movements is that they forget about all the other people who are not cis-straight.
/r/MensRights26/11/12 12:28 PM
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I'm currently on the other side of this situation. I feel kinda guilty of loving this kind of comedy, but I can't really understand why. I had a rather bad discussion here > http://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/13gr9p/why_is_the_term_white_male_privilege_in_vogue_the/c752zcd?context=3 And I ask you the same question. When are stereotypes ok?
/r/MensRights23/11/12 01:49 AM
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Your problem is that the movie is not politically correct, is that right?
/r/MensRights23/11/12 01:40 AM
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What I think she fails to mention is that the problem isn't men and men aren't privileged. People who conform to patriarchy are privileged. From the moment you don't fit the stereotype you're rejected. Period.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 05:38 PM
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I'll say it again, the red pill is about stereotypes. The reality is this: Ask any 18 year old girl something about science, ask her what she thinks about philosophy. Get in a conversation about politics. You probably won't get much. Now here's the thing- your response will be telling here. "Well she's an 18 year old girl, what do you expect?" That's basically it. Because she's a girl, and she's young, we don't expect much of anything, do we? Half the girls of my graduating class managed to get …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/12 07:13 PM
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I wouldn't go as far as stating that all feminist are irrational. What really pisses me off is WHERE ARE THE FEMINIST PEOPLE WHO CAN ACTUALLY USE REASON TO DEFEND THEIR POINT OF VIEW? /rant I keep trying to make insightful comments to get some discussion going, but nothing. Maybe I'm doing this all wrong.
/r/MensRights16/11/12 06:14 PM
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Sadly, I have to agree with this. I tried many times to have conversations at /r/Feminism, but every once in a while I felt like I was @4chan having discussions with a pre-teen. Here's a great example, I even played the special Olympics image when I realized that I was being trolled. It wasn't polite at all, but I really lost my cool when it came to that. EDIT: I say sadly because there's a lot of shit @ /r/MensRights that I don't agree with, but then I find some femnazi @ /r/Feminism that makes…
/r/MensRights16/11/12 04:15 PM
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I never did it with out his permission. But I got a lot of blue balls when he wasn't in the mood.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 11:33 PM
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I mentioned in another topic that I would constantly wake my partner with morning sex. People downvoted and called me rapist. Is it rape if he likes it as much as I do?
/r/MensRights14/11/12 08:53 PM
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Am I the only one who finds it weird that most posts around here are from rationalmale?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/12 08:40 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 12:27 PM
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Maybe in America. That is not true in Brazil. It's completely optional to health care providers to extend their plan to simple unions. And even if legally you change you benefactor of your insurance, savings and etc. the family can always claim that blood is thicker than water. The same is true for same sex parents - if one of the parents if the legal parent and he dies, family can ask for custody.
/r/MensRights13/11/12 04:05 PM
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Phallophobia is a problem.
/r/MensRights13/11/12 03:37 PM
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Because health care, insurance, pension, savings, communal visits, and hospital bureaucracy. I'm gay married, if there was no legal document proving this relationship, in the case of my death, my family could (and would probably succeed) in taking all assets that are registered in my name. And this is a pretty common thing. Sadly the institution of marriage has been distorted into the assumption that it's a safe place for the person who's submissive (traditionally, a woman) and courts usually gi…
/r/MensRights13/11/12 03:31 PM
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Wow, I never stopped to think about that... I wonder if there's any academic study about that, it could really shed some light on the real gender issues that seem to be rarely discussed.
/r/MensRights13/11/12 03:24 PM
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The article itself seems a little biased and the comments from straw feminists seem clear that they are afraid that a Men's Centre becomes a Men's only Bar or something. Not that the feminist groups seem to be happy to help: “Our support,” it stated on the website, “would be contingent on that centre’s mission statement, vision, and mandate. If the centre were about challenging popular conceptions about masculinity, confronting homophobia, sexism, racism, classism, and ability issues then we wou…
/r/MensRights13/11/12 01:22 PM
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I'll be eternally confused by a lot of things people say on this subrredit, but I'm honestly trying to figure out what are you guys all about. It's not women's conception. It's society's conception. It's what we're being sold as the 'happy couple'. I recently watched Sex and the City 2 and I was discussed by the main character behavior when she gets married. Everything becomes shoes and money. As a reminder, I'm the gay guy on the group and if I could share some experiences: These kind of compla…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/12 02:37 PM
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I was wondering why he didnt to that... when me and my sister fought thats how my mother would break us up.
/r/MensRights11/11/12 01:40 AM
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Please do post original link =3
/r/MensRights09/11/12 04:09 PM
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The main problem I do see is this, as a gay man I have an open relationship because we believe that love is more than sex and sex can separated from love. The initial problem with this is the concept of ownership that some couples have - straight or gay. From the point that you have a clear distinction from sex and love, getting sex is much easier than 'game' - you got a bunch of apps that can help you connect with other horny men around you for some easy hook ups, you can go to a local sauna or…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/12 08:13 PM
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I really would like to do some research about gay couples. I've followed real close a few 'divorces' where none of the parts asked for anything but their fair share of the deal. IDK. Maybe this kind of drama will be seen within the gay community as gay marriage laws becomes more widespread. Thanks for the link - it's an interesting take on the matter.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/12 06:54 PM
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I'm in a very specific gay market niche, the whole butch bear scene - from what I see @ ManRights the whole drama feminism x equality takes a bigger tool on straight people. The main reason I subscribed around here was because I was having a lot of personal issues in college when I did realized that there are men out there who are the classic stereotype; not only was that completely off to everything I've ever seen, I found myself in various ridiculous situations - like having a colleague I've j…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/12 05:38 PM
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As a gay male, I just realized that this place is not for me. =3
/r/TheRedPill08/11/12 05:21 PM
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Stop having such a low self esteem. You look like a cute chubby blond geek. When you said you had a rapist face I was seriously expecting something like this.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 08:54 PM
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Is it too weird to ask for a picture?
/r/MensRights05/11/12 08:28 PM
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You can trust this advice. The bestest thing anyone can do with prejudice is to act like they don't understand. As a male homosexual currently enrolled in an engineering college (which is a breeding ground for stereotypical remarks) I can say this works pretty damn well. Just pretend you didn't understand, you don't need to be sarcastic, or rude, or anything, just point what is so wrong with their joke. In this particular case you can even try to use the obvious punchline: Co-worker: "That packa…
/r/MensRights05/11/12 05:36 PM
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Sadly this will probably be lost in the comments but here's a comics by Brazilian cross dresser cartoonist Laerte: http://murieltotal.zip.net/images/muriel745rgb.jpg "First world pre-school: -Welcome boys and girls! Today you'll take the first step to be happy and normal men and women. -But first let's put our uniform, blue for the boys, pink for the girls."
/r/MensRights25/10/12 12:41 PM
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I read this like old school hip hop.
/r/MensRights25/10/12 12:37 PM
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It does go both ways, but what I find it interesting about r/MensRights is the fact some really small things that usually go unnoticed show that everyone loses with the lack of equality. Kinda sad for your friend thou... I don't think there's anything better than having bald friends during chemotherapy, I remember I cut my long hair during my last year in high school - my uncle just couldn't believe that I would shave my hair just because he had cancer. At least he was happy =)
/r/MensRights25/10/12 12:36 PM
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Wow, are people still beating Sarkeesian? Can't people wait for her video to come out before anything? Do you guys even agree with this girl? EDIT: Yeah this quote really makes me thing: "Video games are not supposed to be a social message on the problematic views of society." Are you sure about that? I remember various games tackling on matters just like movies do.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 05:29 PM
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It's one of those rare situations where the school should be sued.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 03:52 PM
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I always find these stories a little fishy... but then again there was a case of a gay guy who was sodomized with a air pressurizer and the culprit admitted to doing it...
/r/MensRights17/10/12 08:17 PM
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I think what we should be saying is that a women should be allowed to do whatever, as long as she's able to cope with the physical burden of the job. But here's the problem, I think: If men are naturally stronger than women (because testosterone), does that mean that women will always have a problem with certain jobs? Or even in the situations quoted (forest ranger and fireman), if a women works out, can she be expected to handle those situations the same way a man would? I mean, I've met some s…
/r/MensRights04/10/12 03:18 PM
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Meh, in the end I guess I'd wish more establishments were more moral and correct... the government shouldn't need to legislate against this kind of thing, but then again, it's not a perfect world.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 08:19 PM
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What if all companies dump toxic waste and nobody enforces it?
/r/MensRights03/10/12 08:18 PM
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As I mentioned, what is the establishment owner supposed if ladies night make a lot of money?
/r/MensRights03/10/12 04:49 PM
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Well here's the problem. If there are more women on a venue, specially a place where people drink - more women means more profits since it attracts more customers. And I refute your claim about discrimination. It's very common to discriminate against women at gay clubs - the same way it's common to discriminate against men at lesbian clubs. Here in São Paulo there are at least 5 clubs that cost way too much for women to get in than to men. BTW: I will never say it's morally correct, I'll just sa…
/r/MensRights03/10/12 04:48 PM
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So can we say this is discriminatory? As a bar owner I know that a bar with ladies is a bar that attracts more people. So I'm not sure what to make from this.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 03:21 PM
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I'd say this is bullshit. The say way I don't ladies in a gay sauna, I wouldn't want boys in a Ladie's Night Out. BTW: Relevant http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/e8765fd502/a-girl-s-night-out
/r/MensRights03/10/12 03:10 PM
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That's why I love my bar. All bathrooms are unisex with a robots signs instead of a gender signs. I'm planning on making a big decal on the doors with a big question mark, similar to that SpongeBob episode on Rock Bottom.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 02:09 PM
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We need to accept that there will be some areas where gender bias is naturally present. Here's the problem, if you say that gender bias is naturally present - and let's not even talk about the natural fallacy of using the 'natural argument - let's just assume that gender bias is naturally present because, on average, boys are stronger than girls. And you should change the rules of the game to respect that. So what you're telling me is that women should be treated equally in areas that they can b…
/r/MensRights28/09/12 09:38 PM
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Sarcastiball.
/r/MensRights28/09/12 09:34 PM
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cof cof http://www.feministfrequency.com/2011/09/tropes-vs-women-6-the-straw-feminist/ EDIT: I still believe that every stereotype has its origins in some extremist faction of a group but straw feminist are usually shunned by more legit feminist groups, which means that there is a stereotypical feminist that is fucking most feminists image, like that bitch that punched some random dude on the street because of a rape joke AND went to brag on tumbrl.
/r/MensRights19/09/12 04:47 PM
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The idea that women's fashion has anything to do with women is kinda impressive. The most high couture aspects of this (she mentions Mark Jacobs and Louis Vuitton) make clothing about fashion, not about women. And before anyone thinks this is sexist, just remember their male high couture fashion walks are not about clothing for men, it's about fashion. Genderless fashion. She is right in the fact hat a male designer wouldn't think about wearing his clothing, but a female designer should NEVER th…
/r/MensRights13/09/12 10:10 PM
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cultural marxist?
/r/MensRights13/09/12 10:05 PM
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I'm gay and that doesn't qualify me as an expert of LGBT bullshit, but here are my two cents: /r/gaybros is an odd subreddit. Most state that they are fine out of the closet but they seem hateful against most of the homo cliches, so it's at least expected that they have some classic sexist ideas. The replies are interesting, but it's interesting to note that most conservatives think that a child needs a father and a mother. PERIOD. And on top of that, the mother is usually seen as more important…
/r/MensRights13/09/12 05:17 PM
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