jonmarli Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Where do I even begin (need safe space to talk) He may no longer be lying but he’s still a liar.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/22 12:38 PM
1	Baby fever to young So is the point that the people who don’t want to lower their standard of living are wrong for feeling that way? Or is it just an observation of two different cultural expectations that are so different as to be totally absurd either way? I know I’m overthinking a shitty meme but I want to understand all the upvotes. 😅	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/21 03:52 PM
1	Baby fever to young Can anyone explain this meme to me? I genuinely don’t understand it.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/21 01:47 PM
3	Baby fever to young That’s so interesting! I had crazy baby fever at 19/20 and it definitely faded. I still wanted kids but not in that weird baby goggles way where it seemed like I could have a baby with my kinda crappy first boyfriend with us both semi-employed and it would be a really cool idea. 🙈 Starting early would have been fine under the right circumstances but I swear baby fever made me feel like living in a shoebox could work! I’m so glad I waited, having a baby married with a good income is hard enough.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/21 01:39 PM
3	Baby fever to young I very much agree about the birth control. Having an unplanned baby without a committed partner is not going to be the path to domestic baby bliss that OP is craving. An IUD is an especially good option for someone in OP’s position as they’re very effective and long lasting. They aren’t 100% effective, I personally know someone who got pregnant with one and now miraculously has a healthy baby. And they don’t protect from STDs! But they’re far more effective for pregnancy prevention than anything…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/21 01:33 PM
7	How can I comfort him during a difficult decision “against” his family? With careful handwashing you can avoid most stomach bugs even if someone has an active infection. They’re spread by fecal particles mostly. If you wash them off your hands before you put them in your mouth you’re good. Still, if someone who is still potentially contagious prepares food for you and they don’t wash well… Hello norovirus. You and your husband might be on the over-cautious side of reasonable since his family will have been symptom free for four days or more, but his sister’s reactio…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 06:13 PM
5	Wearing hair down Mrs. Midwest is making aspirational videos for people. She’s doing her hair first and putting up with it if it is annoying because her job is looking good. My hair is short- we all just have to accommodate our lives and preferences. I can’t have long hair down and bugging me and also be a functional human. 🤷🏼‍♀️ And I also deal with WAY less hair everywhere! It’s a win win for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/21 04:07 PM
4	How to communicate with other women With strangers at a wedding asking how they know the bride/groom is always a good start. Then the typical boring (lol, in my opinion) questions about where they’re from, what they do. People love to talk about their kids, so you can always follow up with questions about them if they’re mentioned. With people you know or not, you can ask how their holidays went. You can comment on how beautiful the venue is or the weather. You can compliment people’s clothes, especially at a wedding because peopl…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/21 07:59 PM
6	How to communicate with other women This might be slightly different advice because I’m autistic and I struggle with this, too. Small talk is really hard and not everyone wants to have a deep conversation all the time. I think scripting might help you. Think of some go-to questions or types of topics you can offer a comment on. Compliments you can offer, etc. What you use kind of depends on your preference, but if you can give some more information maybe we can suggest you some social scripts. It does feel a little wooden at first…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/21 07:38 PM
4	Subtle signs a man isn't HVM Lol, not me and my husband watching shounen animes every night before bed. 💀	/r/RedPillWives	15/12/21 11:21 AM
8	Cleaning tips I really like the idea of “equal rest” in household labor division. Don’t try for equal work, but rather equal rest. Working towards equal rest means trying to make sure that both partners have similar amounts of time to truly rest and relax. It means different things to different people so it is very flexible to fit any couple.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/21 12:57 PM
2	Why are some women very passive aggressive, resentful, and mean towards men? Whose deeper understanding are you gunning for here? Do you want these women to understand you or are you trying to understand them? If it is a specific person you kind of need to engage with them individually. Some people are aggressive due to trauma, for some they’re mirroring their peers, some are trying to use aggression to gain status or dominance. Some people have bad social awareness and are aggressive on accident. Plus a zillion other reasons. On an individual relational level if femme a…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/21 01:26 PM
2	Why are some women very passive aggressive, resentful, and mean towards men? Much like some of the advice you’ve been given here, I’m avoiding answering your “why are women mean” question (though I did address it- I just don’t know a pithy answer) because it seems like rage bait to me, and ultimately far second to whatever issue it is that caused you to spam this question across like ten subreddits. I’m just trying to give you some behavioral advice and information about common social norms that might get you ahead in life with less conflict. Sometimes we get stuck in a …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/21 01:10 PM
2	Why are some women very passive aggressive, resentful, and mean towards men? Here’s some truth: It isn’t socially appropriate in all circles to call women in the sciences “girls”. It’s not just in isolated Internet communities, either. In most professional environments you’ll be rubbing a substantial number of the women the wrong way by calling them girls. It seems like willful ignorance to pretend to not understand why, particularly in male-dominated fields, it is viewed as more respectful to call adult women “women” and not girls. Your marginalized group status also wo…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/21 12:36 PM
4	Question: What is this community about? This right here is it! The traditional pro-patriarchy stuff and the feminist stuff are both are kind of besides the point. It’s more about trying to find relationship success by looking honestly at human nature and how individual humans needs and desires are shaped by gender. Traditional frameworks tend to be functional, but functionality is the goal. It isn’t about being traditional/conservative for its own sake. The participants here are actually fairly ideologically diverse, and I think that’…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/21 11:49 AM
9	What's your 'perfect world'? Under his laser beam eye. 🙏	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/21 08:09 PM
2	Homemaking books etc from decades ago? Not exactly homemaking but some old Betty Crocker cookbooks and old editions of The Joy of Cooking have sweet sections on entertaining and such. I love reading those sections! They don't always apply to my life but they're so interesting and cozy to read. I hope you get some good suggestions because I love the vintage housekeeping guides I've seen online, too!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/12/21 02:09 PM
3	If he never comes to you with his problems, how can you still be a soft place to land? I should have guessed. Autism seems to be the go-to TRP insult.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/21 01:22 AM
2	If he never comes to you with his problems, how can you still be a soft place to land? What is a sperg?	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/21 11:30 PM
15	Am I just stupid? It's all well and good to want to be a housewife, but it takes two to make that happen, and it might not happen on your schedule. I think at your age, planning to be able to take care of yourself (like you are with your planned degree in computer science) is incredibly important. So many bad relationships have been started because a woman needed financial support. Anyone with a job will start looking like your knight in shining armor if you need a roof over your head. If you set yourself up for …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/11/21 01:53 AM
14	Am I fumbling the bag? So... marrying someone with the intent of divorcing them and keeping their money is unethical and likely to blow up in your face. Super messed up. Since you're posting here, you're clearly on the fence about blowing this guy off. You clicked with him without knowing much about him, now he's interested in you. Is it a huge commitment in your culture to see him again and find out if you have chemistry? I'd at least see him again once since you enjoyed his company before, unless that implies seriou…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/21 10:30 PM
1	Tea Time Anyone have a link to the discord? I haven't been on in ages and it isn't on my list anymore.	/r/RedPillWives	01/11/21 09:44 PM
1	What do y'all think about a guy who wouldn't let his wife stay home until she has children, and would make her go to work once they're in school? I have a traditional arrangement with my husband, since I’ve stayed home since we started trying for a baby. I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who was disturbed by it. It’s pretty typical, and we don’t advertise the weird stuff, lol. Is that what you mean by traditional arrangement? What exactly is bothering your peers about your relationship with your boyfriend?	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/21 06:15 PM
12	Thoughts on homeschooling? It’s very dependent on your goals and temperament and your individual child’s needs. Your geographic location and access to enrichment opportunities also matters, plus the quality of the schools available to you. I think it can be a great option if it works for your family, but far, far more work than typical school.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/21 06:03 PM
5	What do y'all think about a guy who wouldn't let his wife stay home until she has children, and would make her go to work once they're in school? My husband and I are taking a play-by-ear approach that prioritize my mental health, but I’m open to being at home until my kids are through school. I might really miss an independent job though and that would be okay with me, too! Depends on a lot things. Finances, the kids, the schools, my brain/body… sometimes I just can’t be the supermom I’d envisioned before I had a kid. It’s very different in practice than in theory.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/21 05:08 PM
14	What do y'all think about a guy who wouldn't let his wife stay home until she has children, and would make her go to work once they're in school? I think this is a very common arrangement. Barring disability or other circumstances (a significant caveat) it seems reasonable to me. I could see remaining a SAHM throughout the school years however, if you can afford it. I think kids still really benefit from more access to their parents, especially if you volunteer at their schools/sports/etc. School age children can still be time intensive to care for. Being a stay at home wife though? If both aren’t on board it is a big ask. If your husband…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/21 04:16 PM
4	This is a reminder to stop golddigging Adjusting for being in a very expensive area, my husband made something like that. Military officer money, it’s a perfectly good living but it isn’t rich.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/21 01:14 AM
14	This is a reminder to stop golddigging My husband gave me “high earner” vibes when I met him but turns out I was just so used to barely making ends meet that middle class looked rich. 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/21 11:56 PM
23	This is a reminder to stop golddigging An interesting observation in my own relationship- I am not really a traditional gift person. My wedding ring was a $200 second hand gold ring. I didn’t have a wedding. I’ve always been pretty frugal and impressed with minor indulgences. I was raised poor and my husband was raised solidly middle to upper-middle class, so little things like dinner at a steakhouse during restaurant week (when things are cheaper!) felt like a wildly fancy and special occasion to me. And I think my husband found tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/21 11:44 PM
16	Did reading Fascinating Womanhood make any of you feel not good enough? Take what you like and leave the rest, maybe circle back to it later if you start to feel like it applies to you. Don't worry too much if everything in FW doesn't click with you. It is a self-help book, not Holy Writ. If there are specific things you WISH you were better at and you're feeling lousy that you aren't already, well, same, sister. I'm not good at it all, either.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/21 10:28 PM
8	Find Me Somebody To Love In All The Wrong Places Not really sure what your purpose sharing this is. What do you want? Just venting about a woman you’re attracted to that has too many issues for you to be interested in long-term? She sounds like an interesting woman, but she’s not here asking for help.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/10/21 11:54 AM
3	Do you know of any jobs that could use some "red pill" workers? Social sciences? Gender studies? Do research on human behavior? What values exactly do you want to bring into the world? I sometimes feel like these types of posts are coded for something I’m totally missing.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/21 10:25 PM
6	Why can't I have intercourse on first date? (Edit to add that this advice is given assuming you want a stable long-term relationship that is at least similar to marriage:) The problem isn’t sex, necessarily. The pacing of sexual intimacy gives signals about your maturity and also communicates to men the value that you place on yourself. It gives them the opportunity to invest more time in you, and that will naturally raise your value to them. Women who are impulsive about sex give red flags to men that they aren’t great relationship mater…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/21 10:10 PM
23	What can I bring on the table other than sex? Providing what the other partner needs/wants is more complex than just sex and domestic support. He could hire that out. Men have emotional needs, too, and crave admiration, respect, and a dedicated caring woman. Someone to create a sense of home and belonging for them. That might mean lots of common interests for some, but it doesn’t have to. It could also be more about possessing character traits that your partner may value, like caring for family, hard work, kindness, intelligence or patience…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/21 02:01 PM
1	Lesbian BFF does not exist because heterosexual men are unable to view women as more than sexual objects. Do you think that what I described could not be considered an evolutionary phenomenon? If the genes which carried the possibility of creating a lesbian (eg the genes of the family of the lesbian) were more successful, potentially more lesbians would be born. Not to mention that lesbians can and do have babies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 11:13 PM
1	Lesbian BFF does not exist because heterosexual men are unable to view women as more than sexual objects. Humans have hugely resource intensive babies and having occasional non-reproductive women in communities could be hugely beneficial. Pure lesbianism may be a genetic dead end for the individual, but not for her family or her community, who she can support unburdened by her own offspring. I’m pulling this out of my ass just like you are, but it is at least as plausible as your conjecture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/21 10:54 PM
2	How do I tackle RP as someone with Aspergers? Thank you Pearl! I’m glad this resonated with you, too.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 08:00 PM
1	How do I tackle RP as someone with Aspergers? I’m so glad it was helpful and not just a huge wall of useless text! If you’ve got other specific things you want to talk about feel free to ask. I dunno if my experiences will be totally relevant to you but maybe some of them will be. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 07:31 PM
8	How do I tackle RP as someone with Aspergers? It’s going to still be pretty specific to YOU, you know? You need to find someone who will be compassionate to your daily challenges and who hopefully won’t find it difficult to live with them. So a lot of self reflection and awareness is absolutely key. Quite a lot of the regular RPW dating playbook will apply. Take care of your appearance. Dress well (keep in mind your personal tastes, what’s fashionable in your region, your body type, etc), wear flattering makeup if you can, and keep good hyg…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 06:34 PM
6	How do I tackle RP as someone with Aspergers? Do you even go here? Lol I’m not talking about The Red Pill being a feminist haven, but if you read a couple threads, they’re HERE. (Also hi, I am a feminist) Anyway I’m pretty sure I know what you actually meant but Google neofeminism and you’ll see why your comment is kinda hilarious.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 04:37 PM
13	How do I tackle RP as someone with Aspergers? I’m autistic, too. RPW is an interesting resource if you take everything with a great big grain of salt. What works for “typical” women may not work as well for you. RP theory works with generalizations and describes the average person. You’re not average. Your ideal partner might not be average, either. Your strategies and requirements for finding a great relationship will likely be different from a non-autistic woman’s. Trying to be the perfect RP woman might seem like a great idea, but consta…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 03:56 PM
2	I feel terrible and ashamed for not caring about my hair and skin more in my teens and early 20s. I'm 26 now. :( You’ll get a ton of advice about specific skincare techniques here but seriously the most important thing is valuing yourself. Care for your body because you value and appreciate it and you’ll love the results so much more. And you’ll be a stronger, happier person overall!	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/21 04:09 PM
5	I feel terrible and ashamed for not caring about my hair and skin more in my teens and early 20s. I'm 26 now. :( Wanting to take care of yourself is a good thing, but shame is a disproportionate feeling for not keeping a skin and haircare routine. I hope you see improvements and feel empowered by starting a routine, but absolutely everyone has wrinkles and pimples and discolorations and they should not be a source of shame for anyone. Work on what you can, but realize that if you internalize a lot of disgust about normal body appearance you’ll just keep feeling gross and unattractive no matter how great yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/21 12:57 PM
6	Would love your insights - best strategy for 23yr old girl who loves science but wants a HVM? High value is all in relation to you. Value in the eyes of someone with different desires to you is irrelevant. Your highest value potential partner will appreciate and encourage your passion. He’ll be attracted to it. And yes intelligent, financially secure, attractive, driven men exist who also are really into intelligent and accomplished women. If you’re looking for absolute “top-of-the-top” with regards to income, the field narrows significantly, and you’ll have plenty of competition. For me…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/21 11:38 PM
3	high body count She said she was in most of these sexual situations as a drugged or blacked out drunk minor??? C’mon. Have a fucking shred of compassion.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/21 10:52 AM
3	Can you really not turn a (ex) hoe into a housewife? You definitely are worthy of love even if you have partied and had a lot of sex. If that’s not fulfilling to you anymore, you can 100% move on and become a reliable and valuable partner for a future monogamous partnership. One autistic woman to another, try not to lose yourself creating a perfect housewife mask. If you find yourself feeling like you’re always playing a character in order to be worthy of love or a “good partner”… examine that. It is not sustainable and can lead to epic and painfu…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/08/21 10:45 PM
2	How to be less serious about myself? It will definitely get you used to looking stupid! I really loved improv.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/21 10:28 PM
1	No nice feminine clothing at the mall I like hearing the rest of your thoughts beyond just your general feeling of “that’s not right” over this guys comment! I agree with you about the OPs pushy boots situation. It was not my jam either.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/04/21 11:46 AM
4	No nice feminine clothing at the mall I got a great A-line coat from Burlington Coat Factory if you have those near you. Lots of options but you have to go regularly. I also hit TJ Maxx, Marshall’s, and Ross when I can, but you need to have an open mind and go relatively often to find what you like. If I’m getting fancy I’ll look at places like Nordstrom or whatever, but honestly it’s a crapshoot and overpriced. If I’m gonna spend more I’ve been looking online at brands like Everlane for quality basics. Get an idea of brands or desi…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/04/21 06:13 PM
4	No nice feminine clothing at the mall Did you look up the dresses/skirts with that search term on Amazon? There was a lot of cute stuff. I don’t think they’re cringe for everyone. I’m super pear shaped so dresses like that (skater dresses, A-line skirts, fit-n-flare) tend to be very flattering for me and actually fit. And more constructed tops are very balancing on me, too. Now I’m not saying that I would make rockabilly or vintage dresses my uniform, it isn’t my aesthetic really. But I could see dropping a few bucks on something th…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/04/21 06:00 PM
3	Can somebody explain why I exist? Have you considered looking for help for your preoccupation with your gender? This self hate is clearly making you miserable and it is not healthy. Neither women nor men lead an objectively superior or inferior existence (though I do agree with you that men enjoy many benefits from systemic inequality and of course there are instances where the opposite is true). Anyway, I’m an atheist and I personally don’t think anyone exists for a reason. We just are and might as well make the most of it. I g…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/21 06:07 PM
8	How to improve yourself and your life/ Glow up! I used to undervalue the role of exercise, general activity, and time spent outdoors in weight loss. Exercise, especially outdoors, helps regulate my hormones and mood, which in turn helps me eat a better diet. Both are important, but from an overall well being perspective, I prefer prioritizing an active lifestyle and then eating intuitively. That works with me because my overeating is usually emotional bingeing or hormonal. I’ll snack excessively and get too tired to cook and order in. But whe…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/21 06:06 PM
2	Laura Doyle 5-day Challenge Oh yikes, this is me so so bad. I try the “whatever you think” tactic a lot, but I still micromanage household chores and childcare. It is so hard not to! When dishes aren’t cleaned correctly or the baby’s not wearing pants... Is it such a big deal? Not really. But I have such a hard time letting go!	/r/RedPillWives	06/01/21 02:40 PM
10	At what weight do get the most attention? Weight as in numbers or whatever is honestly pretty irrelevant as body composition can drastically change how much volume your body occupies at a given weight. If you’re strong and have a larger skeleton you’ll weigh more but still be smaller (sometimes considerably smaller) than someone who is the same height and weight but who isn’t strong. And on top of that, general body shape and how the body carries weight has a huge impact on how much fat the body can carry while still looking very attrac…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/20 07:32 PM
5	Forums for "conservative" parenting/motherhood? ... what is conservative parenting? Minimal parenting? Religious parenting? Old school parenting?	/r/RedPillWives	04/12/20 11:36 PM
2	How do you guys keep a clean house with a baby? “Before getting my son up” Hahaha... cries in baby is a 5am daily riser	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/20 02:23 PM
3	How do you guys keep a clean house with a baby? Sounds like you already have good habits. Maybe you will be able to keep up without too much trouble. But if you do fall behind... Pick your battles. Maybe you’ll keep your floors clean but you won’t change your sheets. You’ll cook dinner from scratch but the laundry falls behind. It’s normal. Be consistent with a few key chores, and forgive yourself when the house is a disaster and you don’t have energy to try. This may not be your season of a perfectly clean house, and that’s okay. It is your …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/20 02:20 PM
8	Hypothetical questions about cheating:conversations with my husband I’d tell if the guilt was weighing on me. And I’d want my husband to feel comfortable telling me in the reverse. Though of it was 20 years on and my husband didn’t want to tell me (because he didn’t think about it anymore), that would be okay, too. It is more about the overall health of the relationship and our feelings of trust and intimacy than the act itself.	/r/RedPillWives	01/12/20 01:48 PM
1	Romance in movies or TV series? It is in the show, too.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/20 05:32 PM
2	Solipsism? I'm not entirely sure I buy this "females are solipsistic" as opposed to men, who are so empathetic and others focused? Really? I guess self-centeredness can be observed differently though the sexes, and there's certainly a stereotype of a woman who talks endlessly about herself. Honestly though, I've been on a few dates where the opposite was true. If you think you have a tendency to be unable to see past your own nose, I think it helps to deliberately foster curiosity for your conversational p…	/r/RedPillWives	29/09/20 05:09 PM
8	Dealing with Hitting the Wall I absolutely love this. It's too bad that "crone" doesn't have the cutest connotations, but seriously what a badass transition in life. I hope my son looks up to me like your daughter looks up to you!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 05:04 PM
58	Dealing with Hitting the Wall Aging is scary. I'm in my early 30s and starting to see little signs of age. It just creeps and creeps. In all honesty I look forward to getting older and I enjoy every aspect of my life, marriage, family life, financial standing, good health (knock on wood) and running our business has been great. I feel like there are some real benefits to getting older that I can appreciate more than other stage in my life. It sounds like you have a good attitude toward aging overall. But the awareness of our…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 04:28 PM
1	My boyfriend encouraged me to become highly educated but didn't seem happy when I announced I would pursue a master's degree I'm so sorry. How long have you been together? How old are you both? If he is young and willing to work on his insecurity, that shows good character and potential. But if he's unwilling, a man who wants to change you over his own flaw doesn't sound like a good partner to me.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 12:39 PM
6	My boyfriend encouraged me to become highly educated but didn't seem happy when I announced I would pursue a master's degree Are you sure the reason he's uncomfortable is that he's feeling threatened? Are there practical reasons he has changed his tune on you continuing your education? I personally wouldn't halt my education just because my boyfriend felt threatened by it. That kind of sacrifice is something you might make for the benefit of your family if you were married (for instance if you ultimately want to stay home with children and your school aspirations would just put your family in a lot of debt), but not t…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/20 12:28 PM
8	My bf is with me just because I was the only available option. It's killing me inside My husband and I were just listening to the song Jolene this morning, and my husband said "man, that guy is such a shithead, why is she so worried about Jolene?" That guy only talked about Jolene in his sleep. If your your boyfriend is explicitly into your best friend keeps telling you that you're inferior, my husband (and I) would say that your boyfriend is a shithead. Work on cultivating self-respect.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 01:15 PM
5	Are all women like "that"? So, I think in the men's spaces, the purpose of the AWALT concept is as a tool for men to keep from putting individual women on pedestals. From a male sexual strategy perspective, this is useful. I'm not entiiiirely sure the purpose from a female perspective. I suppose being aware of female hypergamy is nice when I get antsy in my relationship (can I really be in this relationship forever?!) or find myself attracted to a man who is taller than my husband or with a deeper voice than my husband (o…	/r/RedPillWives	24/09/20 11:25 PM
29	Afraid of aging because of TRP and lack of experience Please please stay out of the red pill subreddit, it is a space filled with angry, spiteful men who feel women have failed them entirely. There are some good nuggets of truth in there, but it is not a space for women, and truly the tone there not representative of men in general. Sometimes "red pill" ideas describe basic truths and tendencies about the sexes, but TRP spaces, MGTOW spaces, incel spaces... They're not for us and there's no need to look if it gets you feeling anxious or upset. Feel…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/09/20 09:01 PM
2	Dr Laura I used to enjoy her radio show as a kid, but when you get into the weeds I don't think she's particularly credible.	/r/RedPillWives	24/09/20 06:49 PM
1	Field Report IR?	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/20 11:54 PM
10	Article: May Every Woman Find Her Marty Ginsburg Ginsburg cited her daughter Jane and the discipline required to make time to spend with her as one of the reasons she was so successful in law school. The distribution of responses in this thread (and the fact that this partnership in particular had been widely celebrated) also suggest that this arrangement isn't "repugnant" to normal people. 🙄	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/20 07:27 PM
38	Going to a guy's house that you met online If you're not interested in sex, stay in public places. You don't know this man well enough yet to know if it is safe to be alone with him. And on the other side, you plus a guy you're attracted to plus wine may equal some heavy petting you'll consent to in the moment but regret later.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/20 06:06 PM
15	Article: May Every Woman Find Her Marty Ginsburg Wonderful. Part of what draws me to RP is not some tradcon domestic bliss fantasy (and it certainly isn't the "TRP" misogyny) but rather my appreciation for an approach to relationships that tries to disconnect from the status quo and make truly neutral observations based on what works. In that sense, RP from a woman's perspective would mean looking at this hyper-successful couple and trying to find, without vision-clouding cultural bias, what made this couple work. Because clearly they did. It'…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/20 06:03 PM
1	Making big decisions together... Wonderful!! I'm so glad it worked out!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/20 11:04 AM
2	Making big decisions together... I'm so glad my perspective was helpful to you! If you guys are overall in a good place, I bet if you make room for your husband's needs he'll come through for you in ways you find satisfying.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/20 01:02 AM
16	Making big decisions together... Sounds like you're pretty upset with the AC situation, and you don't trust him to fix it. Maybe you could suggest that you and the kids can use the new vehicle with working AC until he fixes yours? The important thing is to bring it up in a neutral way. Because you're feeling resentful over the AC (and I'm sure he knows it) it would be easy to put your husband on the defensive. If he's really resistant, I'm wondering why your husband wants this car to be his so bad. Is he feeling like he needs s…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/20 11:16 PM
3	Policy Discussion on "Just Leave Him". I agree with you about how important it is to temper our own emotional responses to what we read here. Outrage porn is not a good use of my emotional energy either. I agree with everything you're saying here, actually. I'm okay with a ban on emotional, oversimplified and bad advice. It just seems like a hard rule to enforce, and I hope it doesn't have unintended consequences.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/20 09:10 PM
6	Policy Discussion on "Just Leave Him". There's so so many women posting here who are a year or two into garbage LTRs, often long distance with a thousand red flags. Every once in a while they're freshly married after dating for like five months. They are currently vetting or failed vetting and may very well be better off moving on. There's already selection bias in many of these participants. They're posting here because the writing is on the wall. They ask "should I stay? Can this last?" not "how do I fix this?". It isn't at all the…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/20 06:58 PM
5	The Wall, by Barney Stinson Wow, nice! Yes he described my thoughts exactly! Minus the general air of bitterness toward women. 🙃	/r/RedPillWives	21/09/20 03:12 PM
9	Which partner/husband is he out of a group of men? If your husband really loves the packed lunch, bust your ass to make it! My husband can barely remember to take one when I make it, even if I put it in his hands on the way out the door. 🤣 I guess that's the thing though, you have to find what makes your partner feel important and want to brag and then it is super rewarding to provide it.	/r/RedPillWives	21/09/20 02:36 PM
12	The Wall, by Barney Stinson I wonder if some of TRPs obsession with "the wall" is due to the explicit goal of having more sex with more attractive young women. The goal is not relationship oriented. Women's goals are relationship oriented. With relationships, "the wall" is definitely relative to the man's age. And I think in darker terms, The Wall is a popular concept because some frustrated undeveloped men would like to believe that something bad is waiting for attractive women who reject them, or for Attractive Vapid Wom…	/r/RedPillWives	21/09/20 01:36 PM
14	Post-College Options You are very very young and could still do any number of things. Why are you turned off by law now?	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/20 01:17 PM
5	I (29f) Broke up with my boyfriend (30m) of 4 months... Did I do the right thing? Have you read about "nun mode"? There should be information in the sidebar about it. What you are experiencing right now is exactly what this concept is made for. You DO have emotions. Lots of them and strong ones. That's why you need a break from men to get your head straight.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/20 12:40 AM
8	I want to get into some of these hobbies but I have a few questions… Those hobbies sound fun! Some of them have sexual overtones (or are overtly sexual, like burlesque), but that's not inherently bad if you're discreet about your hobby and focus on the self improvement aspects. Some very traditional men might be bothered by it, but if you're not interested in very traditional men that might but matter to you. As for other women, they tend to be very supportive in these communities. Other women will be more skilled than you. Try to just appreciate them and cheer t…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/20 12:34 AM
3	I (29f) Broke up with my boyfriend (30m) of 4 months... Did I do the right thing? I'm just being realistic. People don't often "circle back" and he will likely move on.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/20 12:00 AM
6	I (29f) Broke up with my boyfriend (30m) of 4 months... Did I do the right thing? Find something else to do. Journal out your thoughts and feelings. Exercise. Meditate. Try a new recipe, clean your room, go for a walk. Try a new hobby. Reach out to your female friends and your family. Everyone gets lonely, you can handle it. Learning to be happy and feel great without constant male attention and validation is how you'll prepare yourself to get that awesome relationship you want someday.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 11:58 PM
5	Am I "friendzoning" myself? nobody should have to provide anything for me that I cannot provide myself. Sometimes they just want to. Don't accept extravagant gifts from people you aren't comfortable with. But people you like and admire? Your boyfriends?? Learn to gracefully accept the gift!	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 10:45 PM
3	Buzzer recommendation? I use a Shick Trimstyle I think? I like the size even though it eats AAA batteries. When super pregnant I had luck sitting on a towel in front of a mirror to trim. Learned about my third tri piles that way, too. 🧐	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 07:45 PM
10	I (29f) Broke up with my boyfriend (30m) of 4 months... Did I do the right thing? After leaving a multi-year relationship, it is healthy to take a break entirely from dating and just get to know yourself again. You did hurt this guy by getting into a relationship too fast, but you're probably making the right decision breaking it off. Maybe you and this guy will circle back in the future, but probably not. Just let him go and get comfortable with yourself. If you want to be respectful to this guy you just dumped and take personal responsibility, stay off the dating apps for a…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 06:28 PM
3	Am I "friendzoning" myself? I still up until today have problems in receiving gifts even from friends, I always feel guilty and somehow as if the gifts are undeserved. Would you consider yourself to have low self esteem? This kind of sounds like the behavior of someone who doesn't think they're worthy of love and attention. Do you think that describes you?	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 06:16 PM
2	Help! Career-Relationship Cross Roads If OP hadn't orphaned her own post, maybe we'd get to know. 🙃 Edit: thanks for coming back, OP!	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 05:51 PM
3	Intro thread! Girl me toooo! Bi and nonmonogamous with a sightly younger baby. We can be outliers together.	/r/RedPillWives	20/09/20 04:50 PM
5	Intro thread! Same, I dig the evolutionary psychology perspective!	/r/RedPillWives	20/09/20 04:49 PM
4	Intro thread! I'm an early 30s STEM grad, and married for just over a year to an incredible provider, father, and partner. I'm currently a stay at home mom to a baby boy. I'm into cooking, eating, drinking, entertaining, health, plus whatever odd hobby or interest I pick up any given season. Lately though I just feel like a breastfeeding buffet. I participated in RPW some but mostly have just lurked as I've felt the content had gone downhill in the last year. I also identify as a liberal feminist in a nonmono…	/r/RedPillWives	20/09/20 04:42 PM
14	Would you Lie to a man to make him feel better about himself? I try not to give false praise to people I respect.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 12:34 PM
30	Help! Career-Relationship Cross Roads The words "burnt out on authority" kind of give me pause. Why is your boyfriend leaving the military now? Was he enlisted or an officer? Does he genuinely have good job prospects and a great work ethic to do well in self-employment? Savings? There's a lot of missing information about your boyfriend's character and goals that would inform what you might do here. If he won't talk about marriage but also wants you to change your work goals to be compatible with being a SAHM, he's asking you to give…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 11:37 AM
9	New Rule: "Leave Him" is never the 1st option. RPW is a subreddit about trying to keep relationships together, at least as long as it makes sense, and to the best of our abilities. I thought it was about female sexual strategy for finding fulfilling relationships and general life satisfaction? Is that wrong? Staying in a relationship can be an effective strategy for women, but not always. I like this sub (despite finding TRP honestly horrifying sometimes- truly shocking, nasty things are accepted there for discussion in the name of being mor…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/20 01:40 AM
2	Where do you find good women with good values and low n-counts that you can connect and court with? The old religious bait-and-switch. Women love that.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/20 11:25 AM
6	I think my IUD is making me depressed The progesterone from the IUD does enter the bloodstream, and moreover it changes the natural production of sex hormones in your own body. This isn't necessarily a bad thing but I believe the potential side effects of IUDs are dismissed far too easily by "it's low dose! And localized!".	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/20 11:13 AM
5	I think my IUD is making me depressed I experienced hair loss with my Mirena IUD. Took it out and it has mostly reversed itself. I also had cramps, less energy, reduced sex drive, constant yeast infections from vaginal dryness, and weight gain. Just a heads up, going off the Mirena was harder than going on it. I had the worst PMS, plus every crazy progesterone symptom in the book. Exhaustion, moodiness, nausea, you name it. It seemed to let up after about two months. Anyway, hormonal BC of any kind absolutely fucks with your brain c…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/20 11:05 AM
11	Feel guilty about my past I agree, the real issues here are trust and emotional security based. She needs to trust him, he needs to trust her. The sexual history is just a lens bringing these issues into focus.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/20 01:45 PM
7	Feel guilty about my past I'd hesitate to go into a marriage when you don't feel safe talking about certain subjects, especially ones that are weighing on you. If she hasn't talked about it in a year, she isn't just repeatedly harping about it, or obsessively asking for reassurance. If he's nasty about it when she brings it up again, that's a different issue. But she can bring her problem (her lingering guilt and insecurity about her past) to him in a constructive way. He is the only person who can actually answer to whe…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/20 01:42 PM
6	Feel guilty about my past You can talk to him about it if it is really eating you up, but I'm pretty sure if he said he doesn't care, he doesn't care. Your boyfriend very likely cares more about your current actions and feelings for him than things you did (and didn't even enjoy) before you met him. Virginity is not the prize to many men that it is hyped to be in some internet spaces. Don't feel endlessly guilty or bad about having normal life experiences. A little bit of shame or regret is healthy and helps us learn, bu…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/20 12:42 PM
2	How does r/RedPillWomen feel about guys and girls being friends? Can guys and girls be close friends or are they just considered orbiters? I love the phrase you used, "radically honest". This solves so so so many of these murky relationship issues (often revealing that things won't work like you wanted them to!), but it is so hard to do.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/20 02:05 PM
3	How does r/RedPillWomen feel about guys and girls being friends? Can guys and girls be close friends or are they just considered orbiters? They absolutely can be friends, but not generally. But there are difficulties that don't exist in same-sex friendships (assuming everyone here is heterosexual- same sex friendships are also complicated when sexual attraction is at play) that make great male-female friendships more difficult. It has generally been my experience that most men are at least somewhat sexually attracted to their female friends and would sleep with them if given the opportunity. If your male friend is mature enough tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/20 01:38 PM
–	Simple Questions I'm not really worried from a health perspective. It seems that the virus is highly contagious, but only particularly dangerous for older people and people with respiratory conditions. (I'm working off the apparently reasonable assumption that there have been a very large number of cases that have not been identified and never will be because they were mild infections.) I'm not either of those, and my immediate family isn't either. So I'm more just concerned that people will panic at some point …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/03/20 01:53 PM
2	Cautionary tale of hypergamy Nonmonogamy is definitely riskier. Anyone who argues otherwise is just not cool with the definition of risk. I think it is fair to say that red pill would then inform women to stick to less risky relationships and be monogamous. Fortunately, red pill is a "tool box", and not laws. If we want to accept additional risk into our lives we can! Personally, I value the freedom of ethical nonmonogamy, even when I don't act on it or have other partners. Does it strike me as red pill friendly? As the eas…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/20 01:58 PM
9	Can I learn to embrace femininity after a lifetime of fighting it? How much do I need to change to attract the kind of man I want? I read in this a fear of vulnerability. It sounds like you had a borderline (or outright) abusive childhood, and that you've had to project strength in the form of masculinity to feel safe in your body and to feel respected despite being a woman. I grew up in an emotionally safer home, but I still got toxic messages about femininity from my parents and from the world. It all followed a common theme where being a female was being less than. Having a sexy body made your personality irrelevant. Bei…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/02/20 05:50 PM
2	What are the qualities of a high value man vs a low value man? In addition to what a lot of posters have shared, you should also consider priorities that are unique to you. To give you my own example, I don't think I could have a lasting relationship with someone who I felt I was smarter than. I need more or less equal intellectual footing with my partner or I'd just get frustrated and bored. In some types of intelligence, my husband is way more perceptive than I am. I'm a little more suited to other things, and we feel like intellectual equals and can stil…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/20 04:29 PM
2	Do not fall for the lie of having fun now and settling later while you in your twenties or be involved in meaningless relationships. As if there are no older lonely dudes... I know plenty of forty to fifty year old bachelors (check out your typical church singles bible study) who would rather have a solid romantic partner and at their age they're not getting with twenty-five year olds. They're looking at women their own age with divorces, kids, and baggage, just like themselves. It's true that men don't face the reproductive urgency that women do, and that the two groups tend to date in different age directions, but it isn't …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/20 04:16 PM
2	Do not fall for the lie of having fun now and settling later while you in your twenties or be involved in meaningless relationships. I see some young people overcome with anxiety over finding a spouse or starting a family- and to those people I say relax, you have time. (And the bitter truth is that they might find someone and they might not. But they can work toward their goal of marriage and family without being an obsessed head case over it and they'll be better off no matter what happens!) But they should also be taking the rest of your advice and working on self improvement and staying away from junk relationships!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/20 04:07 PM
312	Am unable to satisfy my husband - looking for tips from women in similar situations So, he doesn't have a job, but you do. And you both think it is your job to do so the housework, too? And this has been the situation for a year and a half? No wonder you're tired. Red pill doesn't mean that women have to do chores. It is about accepting relationship roles that suit men and women and make them more fulfilled. One person doing all the work in a relationship isn't that. You both need to support each other or you're just being taken advantage of. If your husband is truly "red pille…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/20 02:10 AM
17	This 1955 ‘Good House Wife’s Guide’ Explains How Wives Should Treat Their Husbands I think this list is likely fake, even if it is based off actual 1950s advice. Even for that time I kind of doubt a woman's magazine would pepper in comments on the wife's relative unimportance to get husband among dinner prep advice. While I love the idea of making my home a haven for my husband and prioritizing his comfort when he gets home from work, some of the little things like "remember your problems are less important than his" seem like they're just made up to get readers riled. If you …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/20 04:11 PM
9	How to encourage my boyfriend to be more dominant and rough in bed Seems like you're overthinking it. Tell him that sometimes you crave being spanked and you were hoping he could help you with that. Tell him you'd like to try out him being rougher with you in bed because you like feeling how much stronger he is than you. Whatever. You can keep it sexy by putting it in terms of him specifically and how he makes you feel. Let him know you trust him and that you would like to explore kinkier stuff with him, and if he seems reluctant, find out why. If it's because …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/20 06:19 PM
7	How to encourage my boyfriend to be more dominant and rough in bed Asking for something you want is not dominant.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/20 06:07 PM
1	Need to vent Depression and anxiety have been companions for me since puberty. I view managing them to be just like managing diabetes, a thyroid problem or whatever other shitty health conditions some people get stuck with. Once you've got the most serious symptoms under control, you still need to constantly maintain your health. Fortunately, some of the best things for depression and anxiety are also just great for you in general. Seek out exercise, plenty of sleep, good diet, supportive relationships, rewa…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/20 01:33 AM
22	How can I encourage my boyfriend to lose weight? I come from a family of overweight and obese people and all I can tell you is that in my experience, you can't change anyone's relationship with food. If you have an ED background you know that's true. It has to be self-motivated. I think it is great to let your partner know that you're interested in being a healthy, active couple. Follow good habits yourself and enable your boyfriend to eat well and have active hobbies, too. He will or he won't and it is mostly just up to him.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/20 11:10 PM
4	How are you supposed to withhold giving him sex if it's the thing that you want? I want to enjoy sex. I want to keep it in a fun, supportive context (even rough stuff- it needs to be with someone I feel safe with and trust). I'm not going to build resentment and disrespect and unfun head games into my sex life with a long or short-term partner. I want everyone to enjoy themselves physically and emotionally. That lady's attitude sounds toxic. It would certainly make me feel miserable and it would ruin sex for me. With a long-term sex partner you're also looking for companions…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/20 04:19 PM
7	How are you supposed to withhold giving him sex if it's the thing that you want? Eh, I don't know about how everyone else acts, but I slept with my husband on our second date. Our sexual compatibility was a big part of what initially brought us together. I don't think he's ever worried that I'd cheat on him just because he and I had great chemistry and wanted to sleep together right away. And if the only reason he was committed to me was because I was his only possible source of sex, what would stop him from cheating on me? Sex was a fun reason to spend time together in the …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/20 04:06 PM
–	Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions https://www.unfuckyourhabitat.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/Basic-Cleaning-for-Almost-Any-Room.png "Unfuck Your Habitat" is a resource I used to really like for depression cleaning, but they've changed a lot over the years. They do keep it simple though and this is a good checklist to start!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/20 03:48 PM
1	How do I appear happier? Hey man, I'm an INTJ and I only sometimes suffer from resting bitch face.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/20 03:42 PM
8	Keeping up appearances when stressed/busy Totally agree, except the ponytail. This is probably great advice for a lot of people, but it is really dependent on hair texture. Mine looks a thousand times better if I wash it and let it air dry without touching it too much. I'll just comb it with my fingers into the position I want on my head and detangle a little as it dries. I have straight, somewhat fine hair and it looks pretty great this way, especially considering it takes zero effort. Also, volumizing dry shampoo (I like Dove) is a li…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/19 02:32 AM
3	How do I suppress my desire for wanting to have children? Baby fever is a real thing. It is totally overwhelming. To preface, I'm currently 31 years old, married, and expecting my first in the spring. When I was in my early 20s, I wanted a child so, so badly. I was in a committed relationship for several years that ended because my partner didn't also want kids. After that I was single for a few years, and kids were a huge uncertainty. I worked very hard and shed a lot of tears thinking I wouldn't be able to fulfill my dream of raising children. What I…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/12/19 04:12 PM
14	Do men always prefer virgins? Men absolutely can love women who have had sex with other men before. A dick isn't magic and it doesn't poison your vag. Some women who sleep around end up with attachment issues or they get addicted to risky behavior. That isn't attractive. Someone who can't commit or who has repeated bad relationships isn't very attractive. Someone who has kids may not be as attractive. Someone with a lot of emotional baggage may not be as attractive. Women can avoid these things by being choosy about their se…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/12/19 01:48 AM
2	How does the concept of poly armory fit around the concept of RPW? After posting, I was thinking specifically about the issue in your last paragraph. It seems like RP would work better with heirarchical polyamorous relationships.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/19 04:03 PM
2	How does the concept of poly armory fit around the concept of RPW? I wonder if the "traditional" dynamic is partially just community preference in this sub as well as in public opinion in general. Polyamorous lifestyles are viewed as very fringe in nearly every community in the United States. It is hard for me to separate because of the tradcon influences on a lot of red pill writers. Tradcon is not RP, despite the overlap. It seems that monogamy is certainly more suited to most people in general, but I'm not sure why some polyamorous relationships can't also u…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/19 12:01 PM
7	Thoughts on weightlifting and maintaining femininity Femininity doesn't require weakness, helplessness, or small size. Self-respect and maintaining good health can come in different packages, and I think a woman who lifts heavy things and cares for her body and appreciates what it can do and how it can look can also be wonderfully feminine. Some men may be intimidated by a fit, strong woman with a disciplined gym and diet habit, but many of them just because they don't think they'll measure up. And aesthetic preferences for waifish women exist, bu…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/19 05:48 PM
2	Did you improve your marriage/relationship by becoming more submissive? Reading these posts, it is really interesting to see the intersection of submission and trust. The leader-follower dynamic (Captain/first mate) works when there is strong trust between both people in the partnership. You need to be aligned in your goals and have respect for each other. If you trust your partner to have your best interest at heart and you respect their ability to make good decisions, it is easy to let them take the lead. If they respect in return, they'll ask your opinions and re…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/12/19 04:28 PM
10	Dusties and trolls Wow, what a horrible message. I hope you reported it. I like RPW even though "red pill" gives me a bad taste in my mouth. That's because RPW focuses on how men and women are different, and how to build good relationships and families with that knowledge. That's a beautiful thing and there's no man-hating or woman-hating necessary. Red pill, on Reddit anyway, attracts a lot of unbalanced, angry men and they come here to see how the other half lives. And then act like barbarians. It probably makes…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/12/19 02:08 PM
2	Me (22F) vetting my new partner (23M) for the first time after discovering RP and doubting my own judgement — am I just insecure or are there red flags with him? How often are you bringing up needing to talk more? In your post I saw that you had brought it up one time and he responded positively. Did he not follow through? Probably I can't answer your last question though. Try to work on your own anxiety and see if it is coming from his actions or coming from your self-doubt. If it really is his actions, and he's giving a lot of mixed signals? Well, he may not be as available to you or compatible with you as you had hoped, and it is not your fault and no…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/12/19 12:48 PM
9	Me (22F) vetting my new partner (23M) for the first time after discovering RP and doubting my own judgement — am I just insecure or are there red flags with him? Sometimes you just have to be patient. Unfortunately the LDR situation gives you fewer opportunities to see how this person behaves in a more "natural" relationship. He does sound pretty busy, so the hot/cold thing could absolutely be totally normal life interference and not a red flag. You need to continue to reflect on your needs and make sure you can express exactly what you are feeling. If he keeps responding in a constructive, respectful way, then maintain the relationship. You two have goo…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/12/19 04:24 PM
10	Housewives/SAHMs and domestic tasks I'm a stay at home wife and I am pregnant with my first. I think if I weren't planning to have children, I'd probably be working or in grad school right now. I love the topic I majored in and I'd love to get a doctorate, but since I'm in my early 30s children are taking precedence. School and career will always be there if I decide to go back. My baby-making years won't. I've always wanted to be a stay-at-home mom, at least while my kids are young. I'd always expressed that to my husband when we…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/19 05:55 PM
2	Something quick, easy and yummy Oops. Thanks!	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/19 11:55 PM
2	Something quick, easy and yummy My super-basic go-to is usually a baked chicken thigh or breast (or fish or whatever protein is on the freezer) with couscous and roast broccoli or asparagus. An easy dinner I'm enjoying right now though is chicken fajitas. Just remember to marinate butterflied chicken breasts and sliced onion, mushroom, and bell pepper for 30 minutes in advance (in vegetable oil, lime juice, chili powder, cumin, salt, and pepper). Then grill up your chicken breasts in a big cast iron pan, then remove the chicke…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/19 01:25 AM
4	How does one deal with SO wanting you to play video games or be into sports? If you love video games but don't like the competitive downsides, don't overlook the goldmine that is cooperative games. My husband is nuts for them. He hates playing competitively against me but blowing stuff up together in Borderlands? That's quality time. Good co-op is harder and harder to find, but they're out there if you want to scratch that gaming itch!	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/19 02:49 PM
2	My boyfriend(22) wants to move home and in an apartment with me(20) Don't move in with someone you're not completely sure about. Doubly so if it isolates you from the majority of your friends and professional opportunities. Triply so when it was someone you enjoyed your breakup from! It will complicate your relationship and your life. If you need the financial break, get a regular roommate. Your boyfriend can do the same. If your relationship doesn't survive it, take a great big sigh of relief because it sounds like an incoming disaster anyway.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/19 02:41 PM
2	He Doesn't Want To Pay..? I might start to worry if he doesn't change once you've made it more clear what your needs are. Tell him "I am really enjoying seeing you, but I'm a student right now so it is hard to afford more expensive dates." Either he or you should be able to suggest low/no-cost dates that are mutually enjoyable, or he should pay. If you can't make either of those work without a lot of frustration, he's not for you. I understand guys being wary of women using them for dinner money, but if he's still feelin…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/19 02:26 PM
–	Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions I put them up and decorate them with seasonal ribbons! It's super pretty and smells great. Which reminds me that my current broom still has ghosts on it. Whoops! I need to change that out.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/19 06:53 PM
7	How does one deal with SO wanting you to play video games or be into sports? I give it an honest try to enjoy what my husband enjoys. I'll listen to which players he is excited about and go out to watch games with him. I still don't like football or basketball very much, but I love my husband (and bar nachos) so staying a little involved isn't too hard. He appreciates the effort even though he knows it isn't really my thing. I think he's flattered that I genuinely want to spend that extra time with him even if it is going to be kind of boring for me to sit through a game…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/19 06:38 PM
8	My marriage has changed for the worse since I quit drinking regularly. Do you masturbate (or just fantasize if you avoid masturbation) or otherwise feel desire for sex (in general, not only with your husband) when you aren't inebriated? Do you feel attracted to other men?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/19 06:29 PM
–	Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & Questions Best thing to do is run a self cleaning cycle. It will make your house smell a little and you need to be home to monitor it, but it will cause everything stuck inside your oven to turn to ash that you can easily sweep out. If you don't have a self-cleaning oven, I'm afraid even baking soda is a "chemical" so you're kind of stuck there. And it would work for crap and scratch up your oven anyway. Unfortunately the stuff baked into your oven will be really difficult to remove without some kind of h…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/19 06:22 PM