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I believe what you’re saying about being pestered. When I lived in London, my girlfriends and female friends would have stories of being harassed/pestered basically every time they left the house. I don’t know what’s wrong with these people. Mostly pakistani/middle eastern men doing this in London though.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 06:21 PM
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The difference is they get away with it. Women can sexually assault men and even teenagers on TV and suffer no consequences.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 06:16 PM
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Men have just as much access to therapists as women do Do they? There is pretty good evidence that men generally have less access to social services than women do. what laws…male suicides For a start, equal provision for men in terms of refuges and social care. There are almost no refuges for men in the US or the UK. In UK Parliament, a minister just flat out said they will struggle to allocate more money for men’s issues because feminists groups will protest it. Men are far more likely to end u…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 04:12 PM
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Men pay 97% of Alimony That’s because men make a lot more money, on average Yeah, but women are the ones spending it. They make 80% of the consumer spending decisions. Men make the money, women spend it. That’s because men make a lot more money, on average But men also work more, on average. They travel further for work, do more dangerous jobs, and work longer hours.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 04:03 PM
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Why is it always HR? And why do HR workers always seem to be women??
/r/MensRights30/06/22 03:56 PM
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Talk to your friends and people you know. Tell them about the injustices you’ve witnessed. Just help people be aware of these issues.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:46 PM
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Honestly without makeup and youth, she looks very average. She was really nothing special to look at in court. Depp’s female Lawyer looked more attractive.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 10:45 AM
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I’ve read people saying she will have insurance that will cover it.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 10:59 AM
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There is literally nothing about the behaviour of men in shelters there. Or about the reasons why ‘shelters reject them’. This is what men are up against. People like you who find some unrelated study, probably don’t even read or understand it fully, and then use it to demonise men. Just because it has the word ‘rape’ in it. It’s dishonest and hateful.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 09:38 PM
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Then you shouldn’t have said ‘don’t trust me’. (I followed your advice, btw)
/r/MensRights01/06/22 08:58 PM
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So is it data that matters, or subjective personal experience? Because a minute ago you were pushing the former
/r/MensRights01/06/22 04:23 PM
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I know. I’m just not sure how the previous comment about shelters was relevant to the issue.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 04:21 PM
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Mmmkay and where is that data from?
/r/MensRights01/06/22 02:27 PM
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What does a domestic violence shelter have to do with the way the UK government treats men?
/r/MensRights01/06/22 02:16 PM
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The number of rape accusations proven to be true is roughly the same as those proven to be false. Of course rapes happen and it’s hideous, but there are just as many evil women as evil men. They just operate in different ways.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 10:13 AM
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It was illegal though, wasn’t it. It was a tragic crime but the guy is in prison. The fact is that UK law is way too hard on men. I know a couple of guys who had had their lives ruined by false accusations of violence. In one case it’s a guy who is not able to go back to his own house, which he owns, because his partner falsely accused him of dv. Basically left homeless because the law gives no fucks about men. It is far too easy for psycho women to game their system for their own advantage.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 10:11 AM
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If something is raising public awareness that woman can and do lie about this stuff, I’d say that’s good for men.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 09:48 AM
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This stuff happens. So what if it’s the mail pointing it out?
/r/MensRights31/05/22 08:51 PM
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As a Brit I used to be so proud of the BBC. But they've really gone down the toilet. Not only do they put out insufferably woke programs, they have even put out racist content about 'white privelige'. Add to that, they have intentionally discriminated against white people in their recruitment. And forced a lot of white male presenters to take pay cuts to pacify female presenters who were getting paid less for vastly less popular shows. They also hired a 'head of diversity' for fucking £250k a ye…
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:03 PM
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You used capital letters, so I guess you should get paid after all. My bad.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:44 PM
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It sounds like you think you should be paid for doing housework. Or rearing your child. And apparently I am the ridiculous one! Ok then 😆
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:23 PM
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I just cleaned my apartment, and I don’t consider it ‘work’. I’m not upset I didn’t get paid for it. It’s just something I had to do. I would not consider child rearing work either. Yes, it requires effort. But it’s not work.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:15 PM
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Ok 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights15/05/22 03:58 PM
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It takes years of serious training to become great unarmed fighter. Marines spend a few days on it total in their basic training, so it obviously isn’t their main thing.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 02:49 PM
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They aren't movie supermen. I've no doubt a marine is great in armed combat, but hand-to-hand is not their forte.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 09:35 AM
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They aren’t hand-to-hand fighters though. Dude looked like he’d never boxed in his life.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 09:58 PM
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I don’t think Depp will win. I do think his reputation will be restored though.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:10 AM
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I just take it as further evidence of how sexist the world is (and the person replying is). How can it be that advocating for fair and just treatment for men is wrong? These people are just sexist.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:39 PM
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Check out the unedited version from Japanese tv. From Smith’s shouting after the slap to Rock’s shock and fumbling of his lines after, it all looked real.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 03:01 PM
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This is how woke people argue. They won’t listen to what somebody says, they just make something up in their heads and then act like that’s what the person said. Then it’s just strawman after strawman.
/r/MensRights03/03/22 03:19 PM
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Actually yes, people are now getting addicted to social media/the internet as well. This is a growing problem; these platforms are designed to be addictive and many people are becoming overstimulated by them. Porn is addictive, but that doesn’t mean everyone gets addicted to it, in the same way everyone doesn’t get addicted to alcohol or nicotine.
/r/MensRights03/03/22 07:38 AM
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The addictive nature of porn is well documented. It’s more about having the ability to switch between lots of very stimulating things very rapidly. You’re not generally going from your wife to banging three dirty-talking models with FF boobs and then to three different ones 2 minutes later.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:31 PM
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Yep, this. Make some noise, go to a local newspaper, etc. I do wonder if there is more to this story that OP is not telling us though. I can’t believe any UK school would suspend children just for asking if they can have a men’s day. Suspension is taken pretty seriously in UK schools, and the schools can get in trouble if they suspend people unfairly. (Which is also why the boys should make a fuss about this)
/r/MensRights02/03/22 12:40 PM
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When the suffragettes started fighting for the vote in Britain, most men also did not have the vote. But the female suffragettes did not lobby for men to get the vote. So even going by your own example and logic, the people you are calling feminists were not feminists.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 09:18 AM
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Can you point to anything in particular? In terms of the misogyny you see?
/r/MensRights28/02/22 10:03 PM
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Dude, just think about it for a second. If the movement was really about equality for both sexes then why would they call it feminism? It would be egalitarianism or ‘equalism’. The reality is feminism is now mostly about pushing female advancement, with ‘equality’ as a smokescreen. Can you name anything feminists have actually done for men?
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:57 PM
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But women spend more of it. They make most of the consumer spending decisions. Men make most of the B2B spending decisions.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 04:47 PM
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Why was she fired? It sounds to me like she is defending men. She said ‘don’t’ not ‘shouldn’t’.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 10:29 PM
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No, you misunderstand. These are posts people have intentionally made to expose the double standards on Reddit.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 02:27 PM
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Yes. It is so anti-male it’s ridiculous. If you look through this sub you’ll see examples of where people posted to subs like r/relationships and r/unpopular opinion. They ask about a male issue or say they are male. Then they ask the same question saying they are female. The difference in response is astounding. In fact some ‘male’ threads get deleted while ‘female’ ones don’t.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 10:06 PM
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Do you remember the name of the book?
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:31 PM
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Transphobia = anything that isn’t complete and total submission to trans ideology, it seems.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:45 PM
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First of all I will say that this just sounds like a whole lot of gossiping and getting too involved in each others’ personal lives. I know it’s hard to avoid this kind of dynamic when you’re at school, but it sounds like you are kinda participating in it as well as being a victim of it. My advice is to stay out of other peoples’ drama as much as you can. Secondly, congrats for learning young how dangerous woke people are. They are insecure, manipulative judgemental people. They are the most ope…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 11:44 AM
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What country was this in?
/r/MensRights10/02/22 02:49 PM
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I have seen misogynistic comments here. However, it’s usually downvoted to hell. Critics of this sub always fail to mention that (presumably because they don’t bother to actually look at what they are criticising).
/r/MensRights03/02/22 04:24 PM
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I think you could make the same argument about ‘toxic masculinity’ though. It’s really the double standards that are so unfair.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 05:48 PM
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Posts that just make generalisations about women and say nothing about men’s rights don’t belong here.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 09:23 PM
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This sort of post doesn’t belong here. It’s just an u helpful generalisation about women and nothing to do with men’s rights.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 08:24 PM
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I’m a man and manspreading pisses me off (even though I dislike the name). The reason is that the guys doing it on public transport give no fucks about infringing on others’ personal space or touching them unnecessarily. They are always jamming their knees into my knees when I’m sitting next to them, until I ask them to stop it. Then miraculously they can sit normally when they have to. If it’s really about making room for your balls, respect that the guy next to you doesn’t want to sit with his…
/r/MensRights18/01/22 02:28 PM
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Do you have anything in writing from them making these threats? If so, please don’t let this go. Finish your degree, get what you needed, then publish what they sent you. People need to know about this.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 11:37 AM
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Are you saying that the woman who was killed somehow posted about it on Reddit, despite being dead? And that OP was responding to her personally? If not, I fail to see how OP was ‘questioning’ a victim of misogyny.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 01:32 AM
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Reality is that they can’t reasonably expel her unless there is proof that he didn’t rape her. And that’s kinda impossible. Poor guy. You are doing the right thing by befriending him. And you know what? Some people won’t follow your example, but some will. Keep sharing your view on this with people you know. Change can start in small, private conversations; it doesn’t have to be some big public thing.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 03:43 PM
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It’s not just about feminism. Reddit is completely woke and comes down very hard on anyone who doesn’t agree that men are evil, black people are being literally hunted by US police, people can change sex etc. Unfortunately all of bug tech is very left-leaning and acts the same way. But there will be a pushback. People are getting fed up of being censored and will seek other platforms. As soon as someone makes a social media platform with reasonable censorship (so it doesn’t devolve into a Nazi h…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 11:15 AM
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Sometimes girls make this shit up because they want attention/a boyfriend. I had a girl do this with me once. After she told me she was pregnant, I ran into some guy who I vaguely knew. He told me that this girl had told 5 different guys she was pregnant with their kid. My theory is that girls sometimes get pregnant and before they decide whether to keep it, they ‘test’ a few of their sexual partners to see how they react. If they think they will be taken care of or end up with a good ‘daddy’, t…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 06:36 PM
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They didn’t ask them, they measured their behaviour in simulations
/r/MensRights04/01/22 02:39 AM
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Yeah, but they also commit crimes at a much higher rate. The question is how much of the variance is explained by the amount of criminal activity, and how much is explained by other factors (like discrimination). Same goes for men in the legal system.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:19 PM
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There is a study showing that police are more hesitant to pull the trigger on black people than any other race though. But police are more likely to use unwarranted physical violence when arresting black people, according to another study.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 01:30 AM
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None of that is supported by scripture of the teachings of Christianity though.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah. Feminism brainwashes women to think that they are oppressed, then tells them that feminism is the cure. It really is a cult. And from what I can work out, western women aren’t oppressed; they have it better than anyone in the world.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 09:04 PM
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Personally I sort of agree with the idea that society places unhealthy expectations on men, but I have two problems with this. Firstly, why don’t they just call it ‘toxic expectations’ or ‘societal expectations’? It’s like they intentionally chose the most provocative name possible. Secondly, in reality feminists don’t use the phrase in that way (i.e referring to societal expectations). Instead they use it to refer to masculinity itself, while pretending they aren’t when questioned. What people …
/r/MensRights02/01/22 12:49 AM
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I live in Barcelona and there is feminist graffiti everywhere. “Stop violence against women”, “women, wake up”, “women, you are not alone” etc. I don’t mind people fighting genuine injustice but I can’t figure out what they’re actually unhappy about.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 12:31 AM
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is the implication that feminism can only come at an disadvantage to men? It all depends on whether feminism is trying to solve legit problems women face or trying to get women special privileges. My opinion is that a lot of the time, the feminism movement is just trying to get women special privileges. And this can only be done at the expense of men. Life is a ying/Yang balance and you can’t treat one sex better without treating the other worse. Equally, do you think a men’s right movements can…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 10:42 PM
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why they think women are partly responsible for any such feelings In general I don’t think people here hold women responsible for the issues men face. They hold feminism and gynocentrism responsible. I actually think that women do face some unique problems (although in the west they have got it very good). The difference is that womens’ issues are talked about a lot. Society is only now starting to address men’s problems. But many people still deny they exist, or actively discourage people from …
/r/MensRights25/12/21 11:49 AM
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Ok dude. Have a happy xmas.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 09:28 PM
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No, I don’t think they are. Not sure where you mean by ‘over here’ but men at least get the choice of whether they have sex or not.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 09:00 PM
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I mean, it’s a problem unique to women in that they are then subsequently forced into sexual relationships and parenthood, yes. Sometimes boys are forced to marry young also, but it depends on the country etc.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 08:44 PM
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The biggest one that comes to mind is that young girls are often forced to marry while still children in many developing countries. This is a big thing in some cultures like Pakistan. Even in the UK, I’ve had female friends who were married off to men 20 years their senior, they have very little choice in the matter and are often very unhappy for the rest of their adult lives.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 08:05 PM
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I didn’t say they don’t have equal legal rights, I said they have problems
/r/MensRights24/12/21 07:27 PM
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Women face unique problems that need to be solved. It’s just most of the stuff western feminists go on is imaginary problems like the ‘gender pay gap’.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:50 PM
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Yeah it’s just a very woke sub in general. I randomly went on there the other day and all the posts seemed to be about trans, racial issues and supporting women. Very little about actual mens issues.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:57 PM
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It’s the other way around. If you are a feminist, you’re perpetuating your own oppression. Feminism, at least the fake feminism we see here in the west, does nothing for women. It just turns them into angry, bitter people who see themselves as perpetual victims. I can’t think of a single feminist I know who is happy, and none of them are in stable relationships (surprise surprise).
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:21 PM
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Asking someone for evidence is harassment? That is one of the most ludicrous things I have read on Reddit, and that’s saying something.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:17 PM
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Men are disadvantaged in almost the same ways that black people are. More likely to be stopped, searched, arrested, and given longer prison sentences. More likely to get worse grades for the same work in school. etc
/r/MensRights20/12/21 01:03 PM
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Now consider that Katy Perry tricked a 15 year old into kissing her on the lips on live TV. And she still has a career.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 12:57 PM
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even jk rowlins is saying trans/crossdressers are rapist and that made me angry It shouldn't have made you angry because she didn't say that.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 12:56 PM
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You are basing your fears on what you see on….Instagram and TikTok? That’s not real life dude. I am twice your age and let me tell you, I have had plenty of friends who spent their free time in the gym getting jacked. I don’t think any of them did better with the opposite sex than the average person does. I think what makes men attractive is living an authentic life. Being honest with yourself and pursuing what’s meaningful and worthwhile to you. Doing things just to meet other peoples’ expectat…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 01:42 PM
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Oh look, more woke nonsense. Goodnight
/r/MensRights16/12/21 09:42 PM
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Judging people by some loose group association and not their actual words or actions is a very woke thing to do. That explains your aggressive comments here; the people offended by criticisms of wokeism are usually its disciples.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 03:05 PM
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That’s your opinion, and you’re entitled to it. My opinion is that feminism is one facet of the woke ideology that is indoctrinating people with racist, sexist, anti-liberal, anti-western ideas. I have seen no evidence Chappelle is against men.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 01:49 PM
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Call it “politically correct”, call it “social justice”, call it “woke”. It doesn’t matter. These are all different ways to label the ideology that is being forced down our throats.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 01:24 PM
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Because he is still pushing back against the ‘politically correct’ narrative. Yes, the trans movement and feminism are partly at odds. But they are still both part of a larger problem that revolves around using identity myths to manipulate politics. The only way around it is to speak the truth.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 12:48 PM
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Oh, I agree. Just think that being ‘in love’ isn’t important.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 04:51 PM
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What does being ‘in love’ with someone really mean, besides hormone-induced infatuation? Life is not a movie.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 02:13 PM
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Maybe they are somewhat woke themselves. Doesn’t Musk have a non-binary kid or ex-wife or something? I think Amazon is headquartered in seattle which is one of the wokest places in the world
/r/MensRights15/12/21 02:06 PM
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When people start to speak out. It’s already happening. Celebs like JK Rowling and Dave Chappelle are leading the way (even though they didn’t say anything that strong). People are starting to feel empowered a little. Also, the longer wokeism goes on, the more it will eat itself. The trans movement is a good example. Even woke-sympathetic people are now getting pissed off with it and starting to push back.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 09:21 AM
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I don’t think it’s true that nobody is losing their jobs. Some people definitely are. I still think people need to stand up and speak out though. But it’s not so easy to take that risk if you have a family, mortgage, or employees to worry about.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 09:14 AM
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How is it any different to saying racism is just "humans doing it to other humans"? Ask "if I punch your husband/father/brother, is he not a victim because we are both men?" But don't expect logic to work on these people. They have abandoned reason.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 12:41 PM
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Anyone can be an MRA. But no MRA can be a feminist.
/r/MensRights12/12/21 08:37 PM
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Having sexy characters is nothing to do with wokeness
/r/MensRights11/12/21 09:39 PM
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Yep, this. They are bullying you.
/r/MensRights11/12/21 03:05 PM
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Well, I certainly don’t believe in going out of my way to say things that might upset trans people. But you have chosen to wade into this discussion, which was inevitably going to involve people expressing views on trans people that you don’t like. So it’s really on you. I’ll leave it up to you. We can discuss why I don’t think this situation is the same as the short guy, if you like. But it sounds like you can’t handle certain opinions and it’d be better for you to just walk away from this thre…
/r/MensRights09/12/21 10:16 PM
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There are two definitions. The theoretical definition is that a transphobe is someone who hates trans people. The practical definition is someone who simply uses the mainstream definition of man/woman. The latter is the one used most of the time. You can tell because the people saying it will brand people transphobes purely because of their understanding of the word ‘woman’.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:57 PM
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Women are entitled to have their opinions of short men. The problem is when they state them directly to a short man in a way that’s unnecessarily cruel. In the same way, I think it’s not very nice when people say directly to a trans person that they personally aren’t a man/woman or whatever. The difference is, AFAIK, the short guy wasn’t speaking to women demanding they see him as a tall man. He wasn’t calling them names and guilt tripping them when they refused. And that’s more or less what you…
/r/MensRights09/12/21 05:04 PM
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how would you like if someone told you…you are not a real man I would just laugh or ignore them because being a man is nothing to do with money, sexual experiences or height. I think these people are being a bit cruel if they are making the debate about you personally. I would just ignore them. But you are also in a tricky position because you are never going to get everyone to agree with you on what a man is.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 03:55 PM
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Just because people don’t agree with your views on something, doesn’t mean you aren’t welcome.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 02:59 PM
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Personally I don’t believe gender is a real thing. There’s nothing that covered by gender that isn’t also explained by stereotypes, sex roles and expectations. In my book a woman who dresses and looks kinda manly (even if not intentionally) is no less a woman than one who is stereotypically feminine. But I still welcome any trans people who want to come here and I don’t care how they live their lives.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 02:52 PM
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To be fair, schools in the UK have always had rules like this. I had long hair when I was at school in the late 90s and could wear it up or down, no problem. But they didn’t let boys have more aggressive looking haircuts, and I would put this in that category.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:47 AM
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Women have more rights than men But women still face problems and the world is more than just America
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:19 AM
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When somebody decides to go through your posts and attack you personally, take it as a victory. It means they know they don’t have a leg to stand on in the argument.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 06:14 PM
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I have been out with female friends before and been shocked at what they call creepy. I’ve seen a guy come over, say nothing weird, just be friendly and bow out when the girls don’t show interest...and afterwards they call him “that creepy guy”. Honestly I think many women make life hard for themselves with this behaviour. They just have terrible judgement.
/r/MensRights03/12/21 03:31 PM
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Yeah, the guy replacing him is an anti-white racist, it seems.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 11:21 PM
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Yeah. I agree with OP’s original premise to some extent; people here should aim for a hire standard of discourse than feminists do. But there is still a lot of truth in the statement.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 04:42 PM
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Even if you are right and this post convinces 99% of people on this subreddit, it won’t matter. Haters of men’s rights will always focus on the 1% that say something stupid and ignore the 99% that don’t. They aren’t looking for the truth.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 04:39 PM
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What’s hard for men is that we only really have one path in life. Women can chase the career. Or they can try to be a family woman, stay home with the kids and be provided for (I’m sure that has its downsides but it IS a common path). Men only really have the one path: be the family provider. If we’re not geared for that, we’re kinda doomed to be miserable or alone. This is exacerbated by the fact that, if women hit rock bottom, they at least have support. It’s much harder for a woman to end up …
/r/MensRights28/11/21 12:24 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen anybody say black people are more dangerous so they shouldn’t be given jobs. Most people aren’t even aware that there is a problem with this. There are various reasons why men are shown to commit domestic violence more. They are less likely to report it for one thing. They also get zero support when they are being abused themselves, or when they have mental health issues. They are vulnerable to the fact that most people will believe women over men. Of course some men…
/r/MensRights24/11/21 11:17 PM
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Why do these people only ever slip up in one direction? You’ll never catch Khan saying “we must not only respond to black knife crime, we must prevent it”.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 10:02 PM
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One country I don’t hear a lot about in terms of ‘woke scandals’ is the Netherlands. Maybe worth checking out as quality of life seems very good there.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 09:14 PM
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It’s a great book (if a little extreme IMO).
/r/MensRights21/11/21 09:10 PM
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He’s awesome and his ‘message’ in general is about positive things...self-growth, kindness, understanding etc. The fact that some people paint him as this evil guy shows just how fucked up the world is right now. People are so enamoured with evil ideologies like feminism, they hate anyone who speaks the truth about them.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:38 PM
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I don't think there is any reason for revenge, since the past is not what she think it is. We all were oppressed, life in the past was very different, very hard, full of illnesses, misery, scarcity and many other things. Well, more important is the fact that no men today are responsible for the (alleged) oppression of women centuries ago. (Also it's not true anyway) But you are right, it's just about revenge. A truly evil notion.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 10:58 AM
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Give up trying to convince her. These people have chosen to abandon logic and reason. It's like religion (and actually it is a form of religion). It doesn't matter how illogical these feminist beliefs are, they are tied so deeply to emotions and identity, you can't just talk these people out of them.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 10:56 AM
6

That explains a lot.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 10:53 AM
9

Where’s the evidence of this? Zero reference to it in the article.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 03:48 PM
16

admits they have favored white men in the past Really - where did they admit this? Did they actually favour them, or did they end up with them naturally in a country that’s majority white? Did they discriminate in policy, like saying a certain amount of employees must be white men? Or no?
/r/MensRights09/11/21 12:49 PM
1

Yes I agree, conservative thought leaders often have this view of “a man’s purpose in life is to provide for a wife and children”. Which is really not helpful for men. But to be fair it seems to be just an opinion rather than something they base policy on.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 04:38 PM
2

Cool so he didn’t ‘snatch her away’, she married him willingly. And he didn’t pimp her, there’s no account of money changing hands. Like I said.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 03:02 PM
1

I mean, there are issues that only women face. And there are people who call themselves feminists who are trying to tackle those issues.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 02:55 PM
4

The problem is that men’s rights is kinda a political issue now. The left has aligned itself with social activism to win votes and it uses myths about racism and feminism to attack its political enemies. For the record I’m not american and not only talking about the USA.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 08:20 PM
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I’m in favour of genuine feminism, but I think 95% of feminism is fake feminism. Female supremacy in disguise.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 08:01 PM
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Not only that. Notice how that throughout all the celebrations, the running gag will be how beautiful and perfect the wife is, and what a “lucky” bumbling idiot the husband is.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 07:58 PM
2

Not seeing anything about her being 'snatched away' - she seems to have been legitimately married. Also not seeing anything about her being pimped by the husband.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 05:32 PM
2

I don’t claim to know everything about coverture, but I know a lot more than you (literally zero). Also, I already looked for info on Worsely and even just going by the Wikipedia page, what you said about her isn’t correct. Colour me shocked!
/r/MensRights01/11/21 02:54 PM
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Coverture law gave the husband unilateral power over just everything. And yet evidence shows that the law gave plenty of protection to wives who were mistreated, and that many husbands ended up in jail or bankrupted by their wives's spending. Does not sound much like 'unilateral power' to me. Coverture was certainly not perfect and it's good that we've moved on, but it clearly wasn't the tyranny that feminists pretend it was. ​ Do you know about Lady Seymour Worsley? Actually no. But given that …
/r/MensRights01/11/21 11:07 AM
2

What purchases was she allowed to make under the husbands name? Groceries? Household goods? Anything from groceries to servants and jewellery. It just depended on the wealth of the family. We know this because there are records of husbands going to jail because they couldn't pay debts for some items that wives purchased (see below). ​ they themselves only being required to provide the bare minimum to survive? False. Under coverture, husbands had to provide for their wives at a level that matched…
/r/MensRights31/10/21 08:27 PM
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status of a child Children do not have the responsibilities that women did. A child could also not make purchases under the husband’s name. Coverture was not an one-sided arrangement. It was a reciprocal one in which both husband and wife had different responsibilities. This kind of relationship actually supported the family unit at the time. Most men were out doing back-breaking labour while most women looked after the children. She could not keep her earnings In practice many women did. And af…
/r/MensRights31/10/21 02:27 PM
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She could borrow money in his name, which he would then be responsible for repaying. Also if a wife damaged someone else’s property, the husband would be obligated to pay for it. There is no advantages to it You are telling me there is no advantage to a woman having a job and keeping 100% of her earnings because her husband has to pay her taxes?
/r/MensRights31/10/21 01:48 PM
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You leave it out! Literally my first post in this thread acknowledged that men had the legal property rights in marriage under coverture. (Although in practice, many married women did own property, make money and make the financial decisions in the household) if anything it was beneficial to the husband Tell that to the husbands who had to go to prison as a result of their wives’ crimes/debts, which was common. how was that far more beneficial to the wife? Because as I explained, the contract ch…
/r/MensRights31/10/21 01:34 PM
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They don’t leave it out, that’s the point. They only tell one side of the story. Overall, women benefited far more from coverture laws than men did.
/r/MensRights31/10/21 12:05 AM
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Because under coverture laws, a husband and wife were essentially one entity. So yes your stuff technically belonged to your husband. But your husband was also 100% financially responsible for you, including paying your taxes and debts. This carried on for a very long time even after laws changed and married women had financial agency. Right up to to the 1970s, men in the UK had to pay their wives’ taxes - even if the wife made more money than him. Funny how feminists always leave that part of t…
/r/MensRights30/10/21 06:04 PM
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All his videos are the same thing - they are all about how hard it is to date because women are so crazy now. I don’t think it’s necessarily about him wanting to keep covering the same thing constantly. I think he just found something that struck a nerve with people. He keeps talking about the same thing because there is demand for the content.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 10:52 PM
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Probably there is a difference, technically speaking. But the average person doesn’t think too deeply about this stuff and just thinks feminism and women’s rights are the same.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 03:58 PM
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“woke feminism” is a joke at best I suggest calling it “fake feminism” like I do. Because in reality there are issues that only women face, and there are genuine, not-man-hating feminists tackling them. But 99% of feminism, at least in the west, is not tackling inequality. It is simply trying to get middle-class women money and privileges that they don’t deserve, while masquerading as feminism. If you call it ‘fake feminism’, you also show that you’re not fundamentally against reasonable female …
/r/MensRights20/10/21 11:32 AM
3

You are arguing with a mentally ill person. Seriously. Save your breath.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 10:01 PM
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Nobody is saying it would be ok to make a similar statement with the sexes reversed. And I bet you can’t even find a record of a president saying that about women in the last 100 years. Seriously can men talk about anything affecting men without a feminist jumping in to make it about women?
/r/MensRights17/10/21 05:29 PM
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Me neither
/r/MensRights17/10/21 05:25 PM
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Joe Biden said that there is nothing a man can do that a woman can't do as well or better. That's the President of the USA saying that there is not a single thing men can do better than women. Unfortunately this ideology is poisoning the highest levels of society.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 02:12 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/MensRights01/10/21 02:15 PM
1

Literally every country is good for some and bad for others. But overall Norway seems a pretty good place to live. Why do you dislike it so much?
/r/MensRights29/09/21 07:46 PM
1

Where did you see this 1% figure?
/r/MensRights29/09/21 04:13 PM
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Because these are men who have been brainwashed with anti-male, anti-white propaganda for decades. They believe it. They promote it. Look at the guy saying it. He just can’t wait for his applause.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 04:10 PM
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The country with the highest quality of life in Europe? Sounds alright
/r/MensRights29/09/21 04:08 PM
2

When I used to work for NHS, I couldn’t believe how wasteful and badly managed it was. I used to work booking outpatient appointments and we had to book patients their appointments minimum 8 weeks out. Even if there were free appointments beforehand. We used to have these poor old people calling up, clearly in pain, barely able to function because their foot was messed up or whatever. I used to look in the consultants’ diaries and see free slot after free slot. Sometimes the very next day. But w…
/r/MensRights29/09/21 04:05 PM
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Eh, the NHS stuff is nonsense. They have enough money to spend £80k+ a time on ‘diversity managers’. The media has been saying that the NHS is on the point of breaking, beds are full at xmas, and the NHS is being slowly privatised for decades. I voted remain and I’m sad we left the EU but at the end of the day Brexit is what the population wanted. I’m not a tory voter but in retrospect I don’t think they were wrong to call the referendum and follow through with it.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 03:53 PM
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I know you didn't say it's THE leading cause. I quoted the study because it mentions that black men actually seem to be less likely to be killed by the police than other groups. (Seventh versus sixth.) The study also says police violence, not police brutality killings. So your claim is false. ​ To state that there is no evidence that black people- especially black men, who are killed by police isn't the result of police brutality is ignorant. I didn't, I said there is no empirical evidence. I'm …
/r/MensRights27/09/21 09:45 AM
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Black men are the most killed by police officers. Other racial minority men and white men follow closely behind. White and BIPOC women are the least killed and least likely to be subjected to police brutality. Police brutality killings are actually one of the leading causes of death for black men in America. Yeah, this last line is simply not true. ​ We contacted the study’s lead author, Frank Edwards, and he told us that police violence is not the leading cause of death for any group. Edwards, …
/r/MensRights27/09/21 08:11 AM
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Because British people are completely blind to anti white racism. London is the most woke part of the country.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 11:46 AM
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Khan has tweeted things like ‘there is no reason why 65% of engineers should be white males’ (I can’t remember the exact number). It’s like, yes there is Sadiq, how about the fact that the UK is majority white and women generally aren’t interested in engineering. He is in a position of power and spreading racist, divisive ideology. How anyone can be ok with that, I don’t understand.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 10:21 AM
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Khan is so woke it’s vomit-inducing.
/r/MensRights23/09/21 08:32 PM
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Reddit in general is fucking terribly moderated. I was banned from /r/mgtow for lightly defending a woman in there (back when that sub was still pretty innocent and reasonable). I was banned from /r/askmenover30 purely because I posted in r/mensrights and r/mgtow I was banned from r/worldnews from saying that most mosques in the UK are run by the Deobandi sect of Islam, and that this is the same sect of Islam practiced by the Taliban. (This is a fact and is easily verified). On most of Reddit yo…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 07:36 PM
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Anyone can post here.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 10:42 PM
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Thanks for trying to advocate for men and help men with their issues. You sound like a good person. “Men should be able to communicate their feelings...it’s not healthy to keep them repressed.” I hope one day people realise what a cop-out this is. People want to blame all men’s problems on not being able to express their feelings. This is so convenient for feminism because: * This problem can’t be measured or solved, so it’s a perfect scapegoat * It puts the onus to solve the problem on the indi…
/r/MensRights18/09/21 05:32 PM
2

I agree.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:33 PM
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Actually I think she’s just saying she wants to play a main character/interesting character, rather than one that’s just peripheral to the story. I actually think that Hollywood does portray both men and women as stereotypes quite often. And it often is, arguably, harmful.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:17 PM
3

Did she say why?
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:09 PM
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QG was good but I remember rolling my eyes at quite a few points thinking ‘feminist nonsense’. (It’s nothing new, Netflix is so damn woke) Nice to know my feelings were right. Don’t people realise that this stuff isn’t helping women but harming them?
/r/MensRights18/09/21 03:26 PM
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First of all, stop caring about what her family thinks/says. There are only two people in your relationship: you and her. They will try to put pressure on you but they’re not your parents and it’s YOUR job to make the best decisions for yourself. Secondly, you don’t need to get married. There’s no logical reason to do it. Yeah people will bitch and complain, but so what? Marriage benefits her, not you. If she loves you, she’ll at least try to understand your perspective. Remember, the point is n…
/r/MensRights15/09/21 02:30 PM
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Maybe OP just hadn’t come across some of these perspectives before, despite being open to them. No need to be harsh.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 09:55 PM
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Personally I refer to ‘feminism’ and ‘fake feminism’. Feminism would mean fighting genuine injustices that are specific to women. Fake feminism is people advocating for female privileges while dressing them up as rights. I am happy to support feminism. But Unfortunately 95% of feminism in the West is fake feminism.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 09:52 PM
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Yep. I’ve been banned from r/Askmenover30 just for posting here. This is pretty standard.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 09:48 PM
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Thx!
/r/MensRights12/09/21 09:07 PM
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Can you give an example of where this is stated openly? I don’t understand how companies aren’t being sued tbh.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 05:08 PM
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Long haired man also here (but much older than you). Actually having long hair used to be a sign of freedom - workers and slaves could not have long hair. Whether people are aware of this or not, the fact is that you have made a decision to be a little bit different. This makes some people uncomfortable. They expect you to conform like they did. Maybe they’re a little bit jealous that you have strength that they don’t.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 12:10 PM
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What if they want to be a SAHM or trad wife? Why is that a bad thing?
/r/MensRights11/09/21 05:11 PM
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In all fairness though, that comment has been downvoted to -108. And people are calling him out for victim blaming. In general though, Menslib is a pro-feminist forum that supports sexist comments that are harmful to men (toxic masculinity, patriarchy).
/r/MensRights10/09/21 08:13 PM
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It’s only extreme if you think opposing feminism (or fake feminism) is extreme. Personally I think that’s no more extreme than opposing racism or homophobia. whiny betas Using this term makes r/mensrights look worse than anything else you mentioned.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 11:23 AM
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There is really nothing bad about what he says. All his teachings are pretty mild and positive. He is only controversial because he is standing up for men and because he is against the social justice movement. They do everything to silence their political opponents.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 10:29 AM
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It’s a pro-feminist sub, dummy.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 10:14 AM
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Found articles about it, but nothing directly from feminists. The argument seems to be that some ethnic minority communities favour boys and so tend to abort girls. I would agree that’s wrong.
/r/MensRights05/09/21 06:47 PM
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Source for this?
/r/MensRights05/09/21 06:35 PM
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Not a minority. People here dislike feminists, not women.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:33 PM
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this woman (who has done this to another poor guy years ago) Woah there. Are you saying you got with this girl knowing she falsely accused someone else before?
/r/MensRights30/08/21 08:42 PM
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Nobody cares about women ‘gaining rights’. They care about them gaining privileges which are thinly veiled as rights, which can only hurt men. E.g all-women shortlists which exclude men from job opportunities.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 11:37 AM
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There are nearly 7 billion people on the planet. Tens of millions of men having an edge is not that much in the grand scheme. You also didn’t answer the question. How does a small elite of men doing well benefit the majority of men who aren’t? Why should the normal, non-elite men be treated as if they are something they’re not?
/r/MensRights21/08/21 11:26 AM
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Because the whole point is to destroy masculinity and the role of men in society. They are doing it by saying that men can be replaced by women in every facet of society
/r/MensRights12/08/21 08:16 PM
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Let’s not forgot the time that Katy Perry tricked a 15-year old boy into receiving a kiss on the lips from her on live TV. Not just sexual coercion, but sexual coercion of a 15-year old.
/r/MensRights12/08/21 04:46 PM
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I didn’t bring up articles, you did. What do you want to see? Materials showing that the wage gap is not because men and women generally get paid differently for the same job?
/r/MensRights11/08/21 10:22 PM
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What is it that you want me to provide evidence of, exactly?
/r/MensRights10/08/21 05:21 PM
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I’m not grasping at anything. You’re implying that ‘articles’ on the topic should be dismissed because they are written by men. And that of course that no women could possibly have contributed to that topic. Utterly sexist, as feminists always are. And of course you’re completely ignorant of the many legit studies on the topic, including many from female academics and economists. But hey you won’t listen to them either, because you’re not interested in the truth.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 03:28 PM
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We're talking about a couple of uncredited articles written on a Sunday evening by a bunch of, guess who? Men with the very interest in disproving this issue and being ignorant towards the way it's implemented in modern society, so you aren't convincing me here that it doesn't exist by going "Trust me bro." Only a feminist could be this sexist and this ignorant of the truth.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 09:09 AM
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you seem to believe that anything women do to equalize their roles in society is an attack on men Not anything. I said quite clearly that I think women have problems that need to be addressed. Making strawmen arguments is a red flag that you have the woke mind virus. women are underrepresented in managerial positions So what? They are also underrepresented in garbage disposal positions. Yet remarkably no feminist is campaigning for greater representation there. Because they don’t care about equa…
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:02 PM
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I don't know. Even people who aren't woke still perpetuate myths about the patriarchy, women being an oppressed class, etc.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:02 AM
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That's bullshit. You absolutely can raise women's wages, increase their positions in managerial roles (not by taking them from men, but by giving women the chance) and give them bodily autonomy without taking any of those rights away from men. Women are already paid fairly. This is a classic example of dressing up privileges as rights. The only way to inflate women's wages is to pay them the same as men who have more experience than them, or who work more hours than them. If you do that, you are…
/r/MensRights09/08/21 09:59 AM
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Yes. Notice they never say ‘silence is violence’ to Muslims after a terror attack. Not that they should. But the double standard is clear. The woke have no principles, only favourites.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 09:57 PM
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All I can say is learn to read.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:12 PM
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Well said. This person has got fucking cow shit for brains.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:05 PM
1

Kids are anti facial hair now? Why??
/r/MensRights08/08/21 07:54 PM
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Of course. It’s all part of the manipulation. You’re either fully on our team, or you’re against us. If you’re not a feminist, you’re a woman-hater. If you’re not ‘actively anti-racist’, you’re a racist. If you’re not on board with all the trans stuff, you’re a transphobe. Etc. It’s all just control and coercion.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 07:30 PM
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Exactly. But I don’t think it’s brilliant, I think it’s stupid. They are lying to themselves and on some level they know it.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 07:27 PM
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Yep
/r/MensRights08/08/21 06:20 PM
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Because all polls done so far indicate it. https://www.alphr.com/demographics-reddit/
/r/MensRights08/08/21 03:31 PM
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Exactly. But this is my point. They don’t care if someone else’s life is ruined. They only care when it happens to them personally. Unfortunately this is the problem with the ‘woke’ ideology, of which feminism is a facet. It seems to attract narcissists who don’t have any empathy for anyone else. If false accusations were considered a ‘big enough’ problem, the narcissists would start blabbing about it to make themselves look good. But it isn’t, so they don’t.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 02:49 PM
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Yes, but I didn’t say men are mislead until women accuse them of rape. You literally said guys who support.. Do you know what the word ‘literally’ means? Do you know what ‘e.g’ means? Maybe English isn’t your first language, I don’t know. Go and look those terms up, read my post again, and stop writing nonsense.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 02:45 PM
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Feminists aren’t usually attempting to undermine men Perhaps not directly. But they are trying to uplift women and get them privileges in numerous facets of life. And the reality is, there is a ying and yang to everything. You cannot give something to women without taking something away from men. Most sexism towards women is a result of sexism towards men, and vice versa. I also don’t mean to say that women don’t have problems that need addressing; they do. But the pendulum has swung too far and…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 02:40 PM
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Same here
/r/MensRights08/08/21 02:20 PM
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How many people does it happen to a year? I don’t know. How many are needed for it to be a legitimate problem, in your view? You also said men are mislead until feminists falsely accuse them of rape Not what I said. Go and read my post properly. No you said women will falsely accuse them and anyone who thinks differently then you is a fool CLEARLY not what I said. Honestly if you are incapable of discussing the topic without just making stuff up, I see no point in continuing the conversation.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 02:16 PM
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Another person missing the point. Another person downplaying the significance of false accusations. I can’t spell this out any clearer: my point is that many men don’t understand the problems misandry and feminism creates until it affects them personally. False accusations are just one example of how that happens.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 02:11 PM
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Because if it shows if it is a legitimate problem or not Are you saying that false rape accusations aren’t a legitimate problem? Does this mean all white people are racists No, and to follow your analogy, all women aren’t false rape accusers either. But if you care to read my post properly, I didn’t say they were. you offer no statistics Why do I need to offer statistics? Did you see me say that all rape accusations are false? Spot the feminist arguing against points I didn’t even make, smh.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:40 PM
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I’m not saying ‘the left’ is all bad and I’m not saying Conservatives or ‘the right’ have all the answers. I’m just saying most people on reddit are left-leaning, and left-leaning political parties tend to align themselves with feminism (or try to appear that way). you want a traditional object that doesn’t work Do I now? Word of warning, making rash generalisations about men is a pretty good sign you’ve been brainwashed yourself. Most of us just want equality for everyone Then call yourself an …
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:34 PM
1

Ok, that’s fair enough. I retract my original point in my first point.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:09 PM
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And what is the exact statistics of men falsely accused of rape? Why does it matter? My point is just that many guys don’t realise that feminism doesn’t care about men until it affects them personally. Your reply is pretty black and white and good and evil I don’t think so. I was quite careful to say ‘most’ or ‘many’ rather than ‘all’. Recognising that there are shades of grey is anything but black and white. I also didn’t call anything evil.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:08 PM
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From a public standpoint? I agree. Calm, collected, intelligent arguments are the way to go. Having said that, this is still an anonymous Internet forum. IMO it’s not a public platform. People will use it to vent their frustration, and I think that’s understandable to some degree. But I am kinda with you anyway, people who use this forum should at least be careful not to come across as women-haters.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:03 PM
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I agree should be careful about the way they say things on here. If you look through my recent posts you’ll see me calling someone out for negatively generalising women. ‘All women are x’ statements do not belong here. That said, ‘noone talks angry aggressive men seriously’ is true, but it’s also part of the problem. Maybe the people not taking men seriously are also the ones who need to change.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 11:56 AM
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I am sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 11:50 AM
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OP, your post reflects the feminist narrative. Keep the feminists happy, or you’re banned. Don’t express anger with the hard deal men get, or you’re letting the side down. You cannot appease the feminists and their allies. They will accept nothing but complete submission.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 11:49 AM
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If it doesn’t happen to them, it happens to someone they know personally. But other than that, there isn’t much that can wake people up from the dream.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 11:47 AM
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Reddit is largely used by young, left-leaning men. Unfortunately recent generations of men have been brainwashed with sexist propaganda ever since they started watching Disney movies. They propagate feminist ideology even when it’s against their own interests. Sadly many of these men won’t realise that feminism doesn’t care for them until it slaps them in the face - e.g they get falsely accused of rape or destroyed in divorce courts. This is exacerbated by the way political parties align themsel…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 11:34 AM
1

Well known as a woke sub tbh
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:54 AM
1

These bots are so useless and annoying
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:23 AM
1

From what sub?
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:20 AM
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This talk of ‘power’ is nonsense anyway. I don’t have power just because some other white guys do. And there is more than one type of ‘power’. A black person can accuse me of being racist, a woman can accuse me of being sexually inappropriate and I’m immediately in huge trouble. That is far more power than I have personally.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:18 AM
7

Tbh almost no relationships have happy endings. If two people enjoy each other, who cares. Let them do their thing.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 09:42 PM
7

Spot on. Who is Roissy?
/r/MensRights06/08/21 09:38 PM
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I don’t like generalising about women for the most part. But I have noticed that pretty consistently, most women (not all) get very uncomfortable with the idea of men having choice. They are quite happy for women to have all the choice in the world. If they see a 49 year-old women with some ripped 20 year old dude, it’s “you go girl!” They know she’s probably in it for the sex, and they know that in the sexual marketplace, the woman is getting the ‘better deal’ out of the two of them. But god fo…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 09:35 PM
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Some how these idiots don’t realise the very obvious paradox in what they’re saying. White men apparently aren’t vulnerable even though they’re the one group that doesn’t get protection. Because of their skin colour and sex.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 09:17 PM
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Saying “women are immature” actually does mean all women. It’s literally the only thing that statement can mean.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 09:24 AM
8

Ok, here’s the first comment from the first thread in the sub. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/oqft3f/a_report_published_by_the_university_of_central/h6r317j/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 I think your radar is the one that’s off. Find me one that is.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 06:49 PM
12

Couldn’t be further from the truth. People here dislike feminists, not women in general. When someone makes a misogynist comment, which is fairly rare, it usually gets downvoted to hell and removed by the mods pretty quickly.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 06:38 PM
17

I don’t, I think people should be able to discuss men’s rights and men’s issues. Why don’t you?
/r/MensRights04/08/21 06:27 PM
2

Lol, what? 45 is old age now? Anyway, I have to respectfully disagree. My 68 year old mother gets hit on at bars more than I do.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:36 PM
18

If they ban this sub, I’m leaving Reddit full stop.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:23 PM
4

Women get very uncomfortable with the idea of men having sexual choice. I don’t like to make generalisations about women, but that’s one thing I’ve noticed again and again.
/r/MensRights04/07/21 12:44 PM
1

You can’t fuck someone’s personality though. Ultimately you have to be with someone you’re attracted to physically, or the relationship just doesn’t work.
/r/MensRights01/06/21 09:48 AM
9

Blaming men’s problems on men ‘not talking about their feelings’ is such a weak cop-out. It’s an excuse that allows people not to tackle any of the real problems that men face. Instead, they just blame it on some vague issue that’s not measurable, provable or curable. (Oh and it also suggests that men only have themselves to blame)
/r/MensRights30/05/21 08:19 PM
1

Personally I don’t have a problem with the general idea. Street harassment seems to be a serious problem, my girlfriend comes back home with some story practically every time she leaves the house. But what’s the difference between the way men and women are treated? Men will be told “stand up for yourself”. Women are told (subliminally) “someone else will stand up for you”. Actually I think women are generally in a better position to stand up for themselves because it usually won’t escalate into …
/r/MensRights27/05/21 09:54 PM
1

Honestly, I admire you. It doesn’t matter how much my brain is like “ugh, she’s so immature”, my dick is still like “duuuuuude look how she cute is though”.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 09:46 PM
3

I took as saying that it’s ok for men to be ‘manly’ and not just men who act like women do. But I get what you’re saying.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 07:17 AM
1

Where is this 1/21 stat coming from?
/r/MensRights15/05/21 06:24 PM
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I actually agree with the post, I don't understand any man who cares about whether his wife-to-be is a virgin or not. I understand that fathers don't want their daughters to become sexual at too young an age, but beyond that, being obsessed with virginity is indeed creepy.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 06:55 PM
7

Hmm, I don’t agree. Cheap shampoos make your hair look/feel like shit (I am a guy with long hair). Cheap razors cut you up.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 03:07 PM
11

You can repeat all this ‘nobody treats white people differently’ stuff all day if you like. But we can all see it’s happening. The double standards are plain to see. The president of the USA just said white people should get lower priority access to government financial support, ffs.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 11:26 AM
3

Nobody owes you a smile and if you tell strangers they need to smile, you’re a retard. That said, I don’t think it’s sexist.
/r/MensRights06/05/21 08:23 PM
2

Yeah but he was suffering a fentanyl overdose and was saying he couldn’t breath while he was standing. Plus there is pretty good evidence Chauvin was on his shoulder blade. I think Chauvin made the wrong decisions, but it’s not as clear cut as it seems on the surface.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 03:32 PM
2

Sorry, what? Are you saying that all groups don’t have issues and struggles?
/r/MensRights02/05/21 01:47 PM
2

Because she said women face issues unique to their gender?
/r/MensRights02/05/21 01:22 PM
2

Wtf are you taking about? She said nothing of the sort.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 12:42 PM
3

Well said, OP. There is no logical reason why women and men can’t work together. What’s stopping people is ideology and greed. The ideology is this woke philosophy being pushed everywhere, saying that society is an oppressive patriarchy. The greed is feminists who win votes or make an easy buck out of selling the oppression narrative. Why are they so fiercely against people talking about men’s issues? Because it will expose their bullshit and get in the way of next pay day.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 12:40 PM
5

Women are considered to be inferior in STEM Only by feminists. Women are expected to by mothers Most women want to be mothers.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 12:36 PM
1

Being in favour of men’s rights or male advocacy gets you banned from feminist forums. That says it all.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 12:28 PM
5

Some people are open to be approached, you just won’t know it until you try. There are some times and places where it’s kinda silly to approach someone (when they are running is one of them) but everyday situations are fair game. Take a chance, if she doesn’t like it, move on quickly.
/r/MensRights29/04/21 07:59 PM
6

I was banned from r/askmenover30 for posting here.
/r/MensRights29/04/21 07:53 PM
1

I don’t think anybody here is worried about women taking ‘positions of power’, as long as she is is a fair and competent person. What people don’t want is women who aren’t competent or fair getting the position just because they are a woman. It seems like this is what happened with Kamala Harris (although she ticks two boxes because she is also a minority).
/r/MensRights18/04/21 07:42 PM
2

MRAs typically dislike feminism because it is directly responsible for a lot of the injustices men face. I think the idea that feminism is about man-hating is actually fairly mainstream. Few people actually describe themselves as feminists.
/r/MensRights17/04/21 08:51 PM
1

Honestly just ignore it. Making a fuss will draw more attention to it. I
/r/MensRights17/04/21 08:37 PM
2

Just ask her the question: “what would prove to you that men have equally significant problems”. Let her set the terms. If she sets reasonable terms, you probably won’t have trouble meeting them. If she says she doesn’t know, point out that she isn’t really entitled to an opinion then. If she says something ridiculous like ‘when men and women make the same amount of money’ just follow her own logic until her argument falls apart.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 08:43 PM
1

Who’s calling all women insensitive bitches or whores? I’ve never seen this in here.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 08:24 PM
2

I think calling them ‘scum’ is going a bit far. They are kids. But otherwise I agree with you. The boy should not have shared them. It was stupid of the girl to share her own pic, but that’s at least her own choice.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 06:29 AM
10

Shaming is used to get you to do something against your best interests. This is something the whole world needs to learn right now.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 07:09 PM
5

Many women like to send false positive; They like to play and test their sex appeal This is definitely a thing and back when I was dating, it was such a headfuck. I never knew how to interpret girls’ signs of interest as so many of them just seem to be fishing for an ego boost rather than genuinely being interested.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 05:34 PM
2

I think it’s more about the state of dating dynamics today. For the most part men have to chase, women get to choose. That’s true (in general, not for literally everyone) whether the women in question are high maintenance or low maintenance.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 05:29 PM
1

Ok. Personally I didn’t interpret the original post as being about high maintenance women.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 05:11 PM
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Because it is a feminist forum.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 04:25 PM
1

Yes it does. Not all women are high maintenance.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 04:22 PM
1

I get what you’re saying. But nobody needs to win over horrible sexist people in order to have a social life. There are plenty of decent people out there too. Not trying to argue with you man, just offering a different perspective.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:19 PM
1

I get what you’re saying. But nobody needs to win over horrible sexist people in order to have a social life. There are plenty of decent people out there too. Not trying to argue with you man, just offering a different perspective.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:18 PM
1

Sorry dude but it sounds like you’re trying very hard to win the approval of women. Or at least your own approval, based on what you think women want, i.e being ‘cool’ by being a well-behaved provider. This just sounds to me like you’re going along with what society trains men to do, but you’re framing it as some kind of rebellion. I actually moved to a big city not long ago, and it’s one with a big feminist movement. I have zero need to prove to them that I’m not a rapist, in the same way I hav…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 12:27 PM
1

The irony is that anybody who actually wants men and women to be equal would want women to take responsibility for their choices. Not leave everything to men.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 11:22 AM
1

He’s such a nice, harmless guy and everything he says is positive or at least about finding ways to be positive. The fact that people judge him in these horrible ways show how fucked up the world has become. And it shows that he’s doing something right. Feminists don’t like him because he calls out their bullshit.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 11:16 AM
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I get you man. The difference is though, my friend wouldn’t call me a rapist. And if they did, I wouldn’t give them the time of day, let alone a free meal.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 11:13 AM
1

I just don’t see why you think it’s your job to ‘cure’ these women of their entitlement. Or what you get out of ‘proving them wrong’. The reality is you already know they are wrong, but they will probably never see it. So what is there to gain? And I understand the point of being open-minded yet brutal in your genera dating strategy. But if the woman in question in your apartment block had already shown herself to be an ugly, sexist person, isn’t that enough to put her in the 99% already, as you…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 10:54 AM
1

Guys like this are just lost. They will only change when something awful happens to them or someone they know. Then we get the post in here “I used to agree with feminism until I got divorce raped and blah blah...” I hope that doesn’t happen to the guy but it seems to be the only way people learn.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:42 AM
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Not sure what you’re getting at. It’s worth taking out women who you have no interest in to show that you’re not interested in? And to help them figure out who they are interested in? I don’t get it. Not trying to trash you buddy but that doesn’t make much sense.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:39 AM
1

There is a difference between making a value judgement of a group and commenting on their behavior. A better comparison would be if someone said elementary school girls shouldn’t be given the same toys because they treat them worse than boys do. Which if it were true (remember, this is just an example) would be quite reasonable. I’m not saying I agree with his theory about college girls but it’s not the same as your example. Anyway, we’re not gonna see eye to eye on this, so let’s leave it there…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 04:03 PM
1

Yes, but this isn’t discrimination against a sex. It’s referring to a very specific sub-group. This really isn’t that complicated.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:30 PM
2

I agree, if it’s an attempt at irony it’s a bad one.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 03:15 PM
2

I would think it’s unfair and offensive. But that doesn’t make it sexist.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 02:58 PM
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I think the point is that women don’t usually get accused of rape in this situation, they get accused of ‘having sex with’ a minor. So the poster seems to be making the point that the legal system gives less leeway to unattractive women. It’s a condemnation of how society/the legal system treats to women. There’s nothing sexist about that.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 02:55 PM
4

Not seeing the sexism here.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 02:36 PM
0

That one I will agree with you on, it’s a sexist generalisation. Although the poster does say he’s trying to make a point with irony.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 02:35 PM
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Again, I would agree with you if it was about replacing girls with boys. But a fair comparison would have to be replacing college girls with college boys.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 02:33 PM
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Someone saying they think the majority of college rape cases are just a girl having regret the next day. There’s nothing sexist about that, whether it’s right or wrong. He’s specifically picking on college girls.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 01:58 PM
3

Like what?
/r/MensRights07/04/21 11:01 AM
4

Any time I see a misogynistic comment here it’s downvoted to fuck pretty quickly.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 11:00 AM
2

For the same reason that Jordan Peterson gets lots of hate even though he really says nothing controversial. People just cannot handle the truth, especially when it comes to pointing out feminist lies.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 10:59 AM
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Who would have thought that nerds who spend their leisure time moderating message boards for free don’t live in the real world?!
/r/MensRights07/04/21 10:56 AM
2

Holy shit! Thanks
/r/MensRights06/04/21 10:26 PM
1

Women can choose what jobs they pursue or whether they decide to have a family. Nobody chooses to become homeless or mentally ill. They are so stupid, it’s just staggering.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 08:44 PM
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I think this is the best analysis of wokeness I have come across. But are they more liberal? Not so sure.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 11:31 AM
2

Yes absolutely. The manipulation works. But there is already a pushback against the pandemic of wokeness. People just need to stop being such cowards. If your average person stands up and shows they’re not afraid of these labels, if we just ignore the race-baiters, this can all change pretty quickly.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 08:27 PM
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Yes, it’s just a form of behaviour control. But I think it will backfire. People don’t like to be controlled and this will make them gravitate more towards the ‘forbidden’ content.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 07:47 PM
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I didn’t attack the OP’s character. I’m just saying, what is the point of going to that sub and sharing their stupid posts here? We already know that there are women who will call anyone advocating for men ‘incels’. We already know many feminists are wilfully ignorant about things like the gender pay gap. Whining about it here helps nobody and achieves nothing. It just makes people angry and sad. For the record I do think there were some good points in the specific post shared. Women should be a…
/r/MensRights04/04/21 05:36 PM
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I don’t understand why people who use this subreddit go in /twochromosomes and /feminism. It’s like, why torture yourself? You know there is going to be ridiculous sexist nonsense in there 24/7.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 04:45 PM
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People get suspended for nothing these days, I can absolutely believe this. A lot of it is done by shitty AI bots so if enough people report you, your account may be closed unfairly. Then some woke 19 year old on $12/hr working for YouTube gets to decide if the decision was right or not.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 04:42 PM
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Exactly. One of many reasons that this kind of dishonest ‘arguing tactic’ is so destructive.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 04:39 PM
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See this for what it is: a manipulation tactic. Nobody who is sane thinks disagreeing about a factual argument makes you far right. But being called far right is scary. So they do it to scare you into submission.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 11:48 AM
1

Is actually true that in the US you have to sign up to the draft to get a vote? In 2021?
/r/MensRights04/04/21 11:41 AM
4

The documentary is excellent. You should watch it!
/r/MensRights03/04/21 03:39 PM
1

I have to say, all the wokest people I know personally are Canadian.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 08:52 PM
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Just know that when someone goes through your post history, it’s because they don’t have an argument and you have won.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 08:51 PM
3

Canada seems to be the most woke country in the world, and I say that as a Brit.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 12:39 PM
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Both the judges and the women who do this are sociopaths IMO. It beggars belief.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 12:36 PM
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Here’s the lesson you need to learn. As soon as someone decides that you have ‘privelige’, it gives them license to treat you worse. They’ll deny you a voice, shrug off your opinions and refuse you fair treatment because of whatever arbitrary group they put you in. Paradoxically, that is the exact opposite of having privilege.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 08:38 PM
2

With regards to the pay gap, the lie part of it is that it’s explained by sexism. Which is the whole feminist argument. The reality is that it’s almost competently about women’s choices, and the amount they work. There is an ‘hours worked’ gap in favour of women - does your GF complain about that gap? Actually I think most people in this subreddit are supportive of women’s rights. They just don’t really call it feminism.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 01:19 PM
2

Personally I like to differentiate between ‘fake feminism’ and ‘real feminism’. People arguing for actual women’s rights (e.g the right for women to drive in Saudi Arabia) are what I would call real feminists. People arguing for female privelige dressed up as rights (e.g gender ‘pay gap’, all-women shortlists) are dishonest and in my book they are fake feminists. I’m also in Europe and most of the feminists I know are in the second category. It doesn’t always mean they are intentionally being di…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 06:35 AM
1

I thought so, this guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Sad that we can’t post avfm articles here.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 06:29 AM
4

Er, what? A voice for men is not even vaguely ‘hateful’. Please can you share the article from AVFM you’re talking about?
/r/MensRights30/03/21 07:19 PM
3

It’s the same in London tbh. Rich people from other countries buy all the properties, natives are priced out of the market.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 08:11 PM
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No it doesn’t mean that. If I ask a friend or a family member out for dinner they pay for their own damn food. Why is a date any different? Unless the girl is a homeless person it’s not actually about buying them food, it’s about spending time with someone you want to get to know. The answer is just that dating ‘rules’ are built on traditional gender roles e.g man is the provider, woman is the child-bearer. I thought modern women weren’t about all that sexist stuff?
/r/MensRights29/03/21 07:57 PM
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According to my mate who lives in Melbourne, you have to be a millionaire to buy property there now. All the property has been bought by rich Chinese people apparently (I imagine not literally all). He also tells me the girls are extremely bitchy despite not being very attractive over there. He was shocked at how much nicer they are here in Spain.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 07:50 PM
1

You’ll be called a misogynist or an incel if you do, sadly.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 11:53 AM
0

I’ve done most of the things on the list
/r/MensRights27/03/21 01:08 AM
2

This is fantastic news.
/r/MensRights26/03/21 10:19 PM
5

Feminism is the most successful political movement of all time. It achieved its goals in a couple of decades and now wields so much power it’s just used to get women free stuff.
/r/MensRights26/03/21 02:49 PM
1

No, that’s umbrellas. You’re thinking of umbrellas.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 03:26 PM
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Personally I don’t believe it just because, as always, the allegations are from many years ago. I just think it’s women trying to make a fast buck off a minor celebrity, or ruin a guy who rubbed them the wrong way. Women know the power of these accusations and they use it to their advantage. Incidentally I met Ron Jeremy outside the rainbow in LA a few years ago. He pulled up at the same time as my phone said ‘your uber is arriving’ and I tried to get into his car, lol.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 03:24 PM
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Probably it’s a combination of metoo and dating apps, which massively favour women. A woman who is a 6 can fuck a guy who is a 9 or 10 on tinder because the guy just wants an easy lay 3 times a week instead of dealing with some princess playing hard to get. That means the top 10% of guys are getting all the attention from chicks on there while the normal guys are in tumbleweed central. Meanwhile hypergamy is a thing and there are zero women who are 9s or 10s who are dating guys who are 6s off ti…
/r/MensRights25/03/21 03:16 PM
2

Read ‘the Privileged sex’ by Martin Van Creveld. Chapter 2 is basically about the hardships of growing up/being male and he absolutely nails it IMO. It’s not fiction though, it’s research driven. Bloody depressing tbh.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 01:54 PM
5

Man I always started off that way like “I’m not gonna try too hard”. But then after getting zero responses you just naturally start getting more tactical. Anyway, if what you’re doing works, good for you. I just found tinder was terrible for my self esteem and it was not worth the occasional date or lay. Glad I am out of the game.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 09:42 PM
1

I know 4 girls who are very close to me who got raped (my mother, girlfriend, ex-girlfriend, former band mate). None of them told the police. So it’s a problem, yeah. But to say there is a ‘rape culture’ doesn’t make any sense. Rape is considered one of the worst things you can do. It’s illegal, and it will ruin your life if you are found guilty of doing it. If there was a ‘rape culture’ that would not be the case. The problem is IMO that women feel so bad about it and they just want to let a tr…
/r/MensRights24/03/21 09:23 PM
8

When I was using tinder I found myself using all these creativity to try and get their attention and not just saying ‘hi’. So I found myself saying all this goofy shit. The thing is, when someone sees your goofy message and doesn’t reply, you feel twice as stupid like “she must think I’m such an idiot”. The whole thing is depressing.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 09:14 PM
3

Because feminism has rewritten history. They only talk about stuff like women not being able to have full property rights. They never talk about the fact that that stuff only applied to married women, or about all the privileges that came with it.
/r/MensRights23/03/21 03:03 PM
2

Lol yeah right. They will just say the usual crap about how a woman would never be allowed to hold up a class so why would a man. Woke people don’t care about men.
/r/MensRights23/03/21 10:31 AM
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Have you not noticed how there is no real agreement over what ‘toxic masculinity’ is? Even the definition you are using is different to what feminists say, which is different to how they actually use it. There is a reason for this confusion. The term is a smokescreen. It’s used to demonise masculinity while allowing feminists to pretend they care about men’s issues by talking about vague, un-solvable problems like systems and expectations.
/r/MensRights23/03/21 10:15 AM
3

Reading this at the moment. He paints quite the picture of how hard men have it. Parts of the book actually left me feeling depressed cos so much of what he said resonated with me so much.
/r/MensRights22/03/21 11:03 AM
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Even under coverture (where married women had less control over property/finances), women had massive privileges. Men were responsible for providing for them financially, including paying womens’ taxes. The man was responsible for any debts the wife occurred, and if she damaged someone else’s property, the man had to pay for it. The crazy thing is that in the UK, men were still responsible for their wives’ income taxes even after coverture laws changed and women could have their own normal incom…
/r/MensRights22/03/21 11:01 AM
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My friend works in TV production. She said Netflix turned down the show they had been pitching because the main character was a while male (as in, Netflix actually told them that).
/r/MensRights21/03/21 10:13 PM
1

Just to play devil’s advocate for a moment, why are these women feminists? Seems like they are just random women who don’t have any morals
/r/MensRights21/03/21 02:36 PM
1

No, that's a fair point, it shouldn't count infants and boys.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 04:34 PM
2

But 98,000 reports of rape doesn’t mean 98,000 actual rapes, unless I’m misunderstanding something. Also there are roughly 161m men in the USA. 196,000 rapes, if they were all different men, works out at 0.12% of the male population. That’s about 1 in 1000. And that’s if we’re accepting that all reports are genuine, and that 50% of rapes go unreported (I’m sure many do go unreported but not sure how you could measure it accurately). Also I made a typo before, apologies. I meant to say that ‘if o…
/r/MensRights20/03/21 03:44 PM
1

I got banned from there because I post here.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 03:11 PM
1

I don’t think that makes any sense. How do you know how many total rape cases there are? If only 6% go to jail, how do you know the rest are innocent? Also without any idea of the number of repeat offenders, the analysis is pretty meaningless. Tbh I would be surprised if it was more than 1 in 100.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 03:09 PM
1

What do you mean? This whole problem exists because people keep spreading the gender pay gap lies. If they didn’t, your situation wouldn’t happen. It’s compounded by collectivism and the apex fallacy in the above example.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 07:27 AM
0

It’s doubley stupid cos of it
/r/MensRights19/03/21 11:57 PM
3

Jeremy Kyle is an absolute scumbag who made a career out of humiliating poor, uneducated people on his show. But he’s spot on here.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 09:15 PM
1

Try being self employed. I probably won’t get 16 weeks off until I retire.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 09:05 PM
1

Because they continually get free shit from men because of it. Either directly (taken care of financially in a marriage/relationship) or indirectly (women prioritised in the job market, education programmes just for women, etc). Most men have been brainwashed with this shit for so long they believe it too.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 03:16 PM
1

It could swing back but stop in the middle
/r/MensRights18/03/21 10:10 PM
6

We don’t need to leave it alone - the pay gap doesn’t exist, at least not in the way they make out. Nothing wrong with saying that.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 09:11 PM
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I’ve tried it, it has never worked. They are just too stupid to understand the point. Then they accuse you of being racist because you keep talking about black people. Smh so stupid
/r/MensRights18/03/21 09:10 PM
2

Hang tight. My theory is that things are going to get so bad for men, it will eventually swing back the other way. It will have to.
/r/MensRights18/03/21 09:06 PM
2

I’ve seen a lot of number 1 recently. Especially in the recent arguments about the woman who was murdered in the UK. If you make the argument that ‘not all men’, you are labelled a misogynist trying to ‘derail the discussion’. The mods in r/ukpolitics even shut down a big thread about it (which had lots of pro-male comments for once).
/r/MensRights18/03/21 09:03 PM
1

He’s genuine. It’s pretty obvious if you look at what he has said and not what people say about him.
/r/MensRights15/03/21 12:12 AM
1

Exactly
/r/MensRights14/03/21 11:57 PM
6

What exactly do you want us to do? Patrol the streets at night like vigilantes? Furthermore, more men are falsely accused of rape in the UK than women are murdered by men. What are you doing to rally round and prevent it?
/r/MensRights14/03/21 11:50 PM
1

How is it impossible? I’ve had girlfriends who every time they step out of the house, they come back with a story. A guy is saying inappropriate sexual things to them, trying to touch them, pestering them for a date etc. It’s an everyday thing. So yes I can believe it’s 97% and I’m surprised it’s not 100%.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 06:10 PM
1

What’s interesting is that something similar happened 3 years ago in London with a girl named Iliana Todos. She was murdered walking through a park. It made the news but zero feminist outrage. The only difference I can see was that the killer in this instance was a black guy born outside of the UK. They don’t play the identity politics game when it’s anything other than a white male.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 05:12 PM
2

“A white person would have the privilege or opportunity to build a better resume” Except when they wouldn’t. Or except when they can’t because racists won’t give them a job.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 05:04 PM
2

I can believe this. Everyone experiences sexual harassment at some point, even ugly people and men. But it just depends what sexual harassment actually is.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 04:44 PM
-2

Would you want to date a broke person? I wouldn’t.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 04:41 PM
0

Actually I believe you. Living in a big city I heard stories like this a lot from my girlfriends and female friends. I think there are a small amount of men who are very sexually aggressive and do these things all the time.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 04:40 PM
8

The difference is, they can post their concerns about the sub here and discuss it with us to find out the truth. Post the same thing in r/feminism and it will be deleted in minutes. I think that says a lot about which is really the ‘hate sub’.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 08:32 PM
8

In the UK, women make false rape accusations more often than men murder women. Do women need to hold other women accountable for this?
/r/MensRights11/03/21 10:18 PM
35

The people who profit most from feminist lies are the ones who try the hardest to discredit movements that expose them. Who would’ve thought it.
/r/MensRights05/03/21 03:46 PM
0

Eh, not really sure what your point is here. There are definitely people in non-first world countries who call themselves feminists.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 04:17 PM
0

How so? If anything technology has enabled hypergamy.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 03:23 PM
7

Er, no. Feminists do not represent all women, not by a long stretch.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 12:10 PM
-12

Honestly I think about half of the world are incels. About half of all people in relationships stop having sex eventually, so they’re incels. Most old people don’t have sex, so they’re incels. Many people are forbidden by their religion to have sex outside of marriage, so they’re incels. Many people in developing countries can’t get contraception easily. Loads of people are just too ugly, busy or poor to get laid regularly, so they’re incels. Inceldom is pretty normal if you think about it.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 11:37 AM
1

I know where I live (scandinavia), there was a political debate recently regarding certain men's support organisations for those who were abusing their partners. Apparently, their behaviours did not change, rather it worsened (statistically), so they dismantled (or how u say) the whole thing. Apparently there is not sufficient research on how to go about these things, or maybe if there is, no proven methods on how to do so. I am curious to read more about that, if you can find a link.
/r/MensRights02/03/21 11:02 PM
1

Personally I don’t think it’s a good thing if help is taken away from women because of this. In an ideal world both men and women should get the help they need. But two things to consider: Maybe giving men somewhere to go would prevent partner murder also. Maybe the other organisations will use the funds more efficiently.
/r/MensRights02/03/21 06:43 PM
3

There is a difference between legs completely closed and legs at a 180 degree angle, which is how some guys sit. While I think this whole thing is being blown out of proportion, it is a legit annoying thing some people do. I’m a man and I’ve had to ask men to move their legs before when they were sitting like this.
/r/MensRights01/03/21 04:37 PM
5

This person created a thread, not a sub. There is nothing wrong with celebrating financial success.
/r/MensRights28/02/21 09:13 PM
1

Like those are the only ways to get a house! Her point seems to be that she bought an expensive house on her own without help from a partner. So what? She’s just celebrating her own success, fuck all to do with men’s rights.
/r/MensRights28/02/21 08:44 PM
6

Wtf has this got to do with men’s rights?
/r/MensRights28/02/21 06:08 PM
2

That’s an extremely sexist assumption you’re making. It really speaks volumes about the misandric tendencies of those who support feminism.
/r/MensRights28/02/21 06:04 PM
15

Blaming all women helps nobody. I have had drunken sex with many women and nobody ever accused me of anything.
/r/MensRights28/02/21 12:06 PM
3

What, because they point to things that feminists are saying on feminist websites? On what planet is the person pointing to the statement extreme and not the person actually saying it?
/r/MensRights28/02/21 12:00 PM
3

As I said, feminism certainly doesn’t encourage them to stay together. In fact, I would argue it incentivises women to get divorced (no surprises that divorces are initiated by women 70% of the time). 1st wave feminism won women the right to have their own property and income, but to still be legally entitled to their husband’s income after a divorce. It made women the default winners of child custody, while still making men responsible for the children’s financial well-being. In fact, men were …
/r/MensRights28/02/21 11:17 AM
5

In which of those is it encouraged that the parents separate or the child has one parent?
/r/MensRights27/02/21 08:31 PM
9

Well, it’s definitely not about keeping the family unit together, that’s for sure.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 07:28 PM
3

Link?
/r/MensRights26/02/21 10:21 PM
1

Got a source on this? There is a lot of debate around domestic abuse at the moment and it would be good to know
/r/MensRights26/02/21 10:10 AM
2

You didn’t answer it, because I didn’t ask it. People on this sub, for the most part, are open to reasonable debate. I include myself in that. I am quite happy to be challenged on my views regarding feminism, because I care if what I think is correct. But the way to change minds isn’t just to make assertions and mock people, it’s to present reasonable arguments.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 10:10 PM
1

Barely anyone agrees with me on what?
/r/MensRights24/02/21 09:13 PM
1

It hasn’t increased in 2 years, different study with different wording. I mean, if I play the same game as you and go off this study, feminism has actually become less popular since 2014 (when 36% apparently said they were feminist): https://www.onepoll.com/36-of-british-adults-define-themselves-as-feminist-yet-76-support-gender-equality/ But yeah you used capital letters in a silly way so you must be right, literally everyone’s a feminist.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 08:53 PM
2

A feminist organisation reported it: https://www.fawcettsociety.org.uk/news/we-are-a-nation-of-hidden-feminists You can say for a fact that no girls in the UK agree with me on what, exactly? This should be good.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 08:35 PM
2

What you said is the opposite of reality. Men are treated unfairly in courts, they get worse sentences for the same crime. And many are forced to pay ridiculous alimony payments to ex-wives for the rest of their lives, to the point where they are essentially slaves. Men also get worse marks in school for the same work as women. Most women aren’t interested in being in positions of power cos guess what, it takes enormous amount of pressure and sacrifice to get there. Most men don’t want to do it …
/r/MensRights24/02/21 05:26 PM
7

In the UK, only 7% of women identify as feminists.
/r/MensRights24/02/21 05:19 PM
1

How would you objectively measure that feminists have 90% of the power in politics though? In the UK at least, only 7% of women identify as feminists.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 10:30 PM
1

I mean, I’m playing devils advocate with you here. In general I think feminism is a force for bad in the west. But it’s hard to say if the ‘false’ feminists are actually the majority (I suspect so, but it’s subjective).
/r/MensRights23/02/21 10:14 PM
1

It’s a tough question to quantify because who or what actually is feminism? A lot of the things we blame on feminism are done by women who aren’t actually calling themselves feminists.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 10:09 PM
1

Personally I don’t despise real feminism, which is helping women who are the victims of genuine injustice. I despise fake feminism, which disguises privileges as rights and advances women at mens’ expense. You know, the whole ‘future is female’ stuff that is largely about getting middle class women jobs and money they haven’t earned. I think most people here are the same. But unfortunately it seems like 90% of feminism in the west is the fake kind.
/r/MensRights23/02/21 09:45 PM
20

I don’t care about it and neither does my girlfriend. I’d take it as a major red flag if she did.
/r/MensRights22/02/21 03:08 PM
3

Why do you say dress codes are sexist to women? Surely it depends what the dress code is?
/r/MensRights18/02/21 09:02 PM
3

Some are, but I think it’s a small minority. If you find a sexist post, it’s usually downvoted to hell.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 08:48 PM
4

Menslib gets a pass because it’s a feminist sub. It parrots the same old crap that is abusive to men and helpful to feminists, e.g patriarchy theory. MRM doesn’t, so it’s a thorn in their sides.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 06:19 PM
2

She is clearly trying to emotionally manipulate you. Don’t fall for it. Stop talking with her.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 04:00 PM
0

I respect your calm and mature posts, it’s a nice change. Unfortunately I think that person came here to fight and judge, not to learn or discuss.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 08:11 PM
2

I love the fact that his video got 100k views as a result of this press. I have it bookmarked but haven’t watched it yet.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 02:52 PM
29

You are realising what a lot of us are realising. ‘Far right’ or even ‘right wing’ don’t relate to politics any more. These are just terms used to frighten and shame people into silence. Personally if I hear someone is being called ‘far right’ my reaction is longer ‘oh no a nazi’ but ‘I wonder which forbidden opinion they expressed.’
/r/MensRights09/02/21 02:51 PM
9

Why do you pick the woman in that scenario, then?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:14 PM
9

Why is a man consensually masturbating in front of a woman worse than a woman physically abusing a man and lying to destroy his career? Not that it’s a competition, but if push comes to shove I think it’s obvious which is worse.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 07:46 PM
6

Yes and it’s probably something that has contributed to the survival and advancement of humans. So it’s not necessarily a bad thing. But we have to realise that both men and women are part of the same balance. It also might not be hypergamy so much as that men often assume the provider role more, and that generally means working more.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 04:47 PM
10

The wag gap (earnings gap) is largely explained by men working longer hours, doing riskier jobs, etc..
/r/MensRights08/02/21 04:10 PM
15

That’s not what I’d call systemic oppression. Systematic oppression to me suggests laws and rules that unfairly disadvantage women. It’s against the law to pay women less for the same job, at least in countries like the USA, UK, Australia etc. So they aren’t being oppressed in that sense, not in the western world. Most differences between earnings and career outcomes are largely down to personal choices that men and women make. There could also be some sexism at play, but outcomes alone aren’t e…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 03:24 PM
12

It’s possible that there is oppression happening today, but men are still being blamed for historic oppression they had no part in. That said, what is the systemic oppression happening today that you are referring to? If the worst that women have to deal with now is a sexist expression, I’d say they have it pretty good.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 03:11 PM
1

Make sure you get it written down in an email etc so you have it in writing. Don’t ask them in person.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 02:26 PM
-4

She’s not saying she hates all men though.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 10:03 PM
3

Tbh she definitely has a right to be upset, that was some horrible shit. And I really don’t understand any guy who does the thing of chasing a women relentlessly after they showed some disinterest. It’s like, don’t you want a woman who feels passionate about you too?
/r/MensRights28/01/21 09:18 PM
13

Tbh, sometimes my junk is the only thing I wash.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 09:15 PM
6

Yes, you are exactly right. Ironically this is the only kind of racism/sexism/bigotry that is widely accepted and even promoted.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:24 AM
2

Agreed, also they don’t care about black lives.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:50 PM
2

But those extremist opinions are what holds the MRM back. They really represent the core of the problem here - feminists myths and gynocentrism that stop people taking men and men’s issues seriously.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:48 PM
1

You are right, men should stop putting women on a pedestal. But that’s never gonna happen tbh.
/r/MensRights12/01/21 01:00 AM
2

This was a trend about 10 years ago with the whole PUA thing. But it never really got mainstream because people just seem to hate men having any kind of control and choice over their dating lives and sex lives. Women in particular, tbh. Have you ever noticed how irrationally angry women get at the idea of men ‘exaggerating’ their value through pickup techniques, lines, etc. Meanwhile the same women go out in heels, makeup, fake hair, fake nails... Anyway, I actually agree with you. Men should kn…
/r/MensRights12/01/21 12:58 AM
37

Disagree that nobody gives a fuck. I saw a facebook post from a movie-related page yesterday, it was about Aquaman 2. Hundreds of comments from men and women saying they wouldn’t see it as long as Heard is in it. I only say 1 comment saying they would go if she is in it. Of course, it could be that a lot of these people wouldn’t really go to see it anyway (just like me, I never see movies in theatres). But people certainly give a fuck. Personally I think Aquaman 2 will perform badly because of H…
/r/MensRights05/01/21 12:59 PM
44

Just ask them “what would it look like if men actually were oppressed” or “what would prove to you that men actually are oppressed?” If they give you an answer, you can prove that men are oppressed by their own logic. If they give you a really stupid answer, you can use it to prove women aren’t oppressed. If they refuse to give you an answer or say they don’t know, point out that they aren’t entitled to an opinion in that case. In my experience people just go quiet when you ask them that questio…
/r/MensRights03/01/21 05:07 PM
69

It means your parents are dumb. My condolences.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 04:06 PM
3

I don’t agree that child support is automatically misandry. It depends to what extent it’s demanded and enforced. The problem is that the courts are completely unreasonable in what they demand of men for child support.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 08:36 AM
1

Doing what? I could not care less if she calls herself a feminist, as long as she is not arguing for the kind of feminism that hurts men. And she is clearly not, at least from what I have seen of her.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 08:18 AM
0

So what if she has mental health issues though? If we expect everyone who supports men’s rights to be perfect, we’re making things very difficult for ourselves.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 02:09 AM
6

Well you haven’t given any justification for what you are saying, just ‘a woman doing this has ulterior motives’. What if she simply thinks what she is doing is right?
/r/MensRights03/01/21 01:56 AM
8

Yeah. Tbh it’s disheartening to see the reaction here. This is what men actually need - women from the younger generations speaking out for men. As much as I am a fan of Karen Straughan etc, they aren’t going to get through to younger people like some girl on TikTok will.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 09:45 PM
1

I watched a few minutes of her talking about nice guy syndrome and then got bored. I didn't see anything misandrist or feminist in that section, but let me know if there's something else that's revealing in there.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 09:13 PM
6

So the only explanation for a women agreeing with the MRM is that she has ulterior motives? That's some belief in your own movement you have there buddy!
/r/MensRights02/01/21 09:03 PM
12

How on earth did you come to that conclusion?
/r/MensRights02/01/21 09:02 PM
2

I nearly had a kid with a girl who was a pretty awful human being (but hot, as they often are). She was supposed to be on birth control but got pregnant. This girl was the last person I would want to have a kid with. My instinct was to be a gentleman and not pressure her to get rid of it. But I had seen friends in similar situations before and learned that if you are a gentleman, the girl will just take advantage of you and have the kid. So I just straight up told her that I wouldn't even speak …
/r/MensRights02/01/21 07:10 PM
7

Probably older than you mate.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 07:00 PM
11

I have seen posts in this very forum saying that people decided to look into men's rights specifically because they saw her videos. That's a good thing and I don't see anything crazy in what she is doing. Some people will just dismiss her, sure, but these are the same people who say MRAs are all rape apologists anyway.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 07:00 PM
16

I don’t think she is fake. It’s possible she wants attention/money while also caring about men. She is only human.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 06:36 PM
47

Tbh even if she does it for attention, it still is helping men and drawing attention to male issues. So it doesn’t matter.
/r/MensRights02/01/21 05:00 PM
-1

Pakistan is not ‘the west’, and women there actually do need help in ways that they don’t in other countries. Not saying this is justified, but it’s hard to judge without knowing more.
/r/MensRights30/12/20 05:29 PM
2

I can’t comment on them or say whether they broke the rules or not, because the text has been deleted. I’m not sure what I’m supposed to be looking for in the 3rd link. What kind of posts do you want to see/make that you can’t?
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:42 PM
2

From what I can see, looks like they were banned by reddit admins rather than r/mensrights mods. Hard to figure out what has happened, but I don’t think it reflects badly on this sub.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:06 PM
3

Yes but OP was referring to places on reddit outside of this subreddit.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 06:21 PM
1

Paul Elam got shadowbanned? When/why?
/r/MensRights29/12/20 06:00 PM
14

What kind of posts do you want to see here? You can always post stuff yourself. Be the change you want to see.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 03:52 PM
8

https://medium.com/@sm_app_intel/the-user-demographics-of-reddit-the-official-app-7e2e18b1e0e1 https://www.statista.com/statistics/517259/reddit-user-distribution-usa-political-spectrum/
/r/MensRights29/12/20 02:03 PM
3

OP said that she posted them online.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 12:20 PM
4

Agreed.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 12:19 PM
13

You’re 100% right my friend. Nobody wants to talk about it because it’s taboo. When you start thinking about that and why it might be taboo, things start to seem very sinister.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 11:32 AM
3

Sounds like she agreed to meet with him after he sent the pics. It wasn’t wrong until the girl got her feelings hurt. That said, I agree it’s stupid sending dick pics. Plus if a love interest really wants to see your dick, isn’t in-person better?!
/r/MensRights29/12/20 11:31 AM
9

Reddit’s audience is overwhelmingly young, left-wing males. They are just reflecting the feminist propaganda they have been brought up into.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 11:25 AM
2

As much as this doesn’t surprise me, what is the source on this? The news comes from Daniel Richtman, who says on his Patreon page that just as Disney made Marvel and Star Wars franchises with great female leads and casts full of non-white characters, the company seems poised to do the same thing with Pirates of the Caribbean. With Pirates of the Caribbean expanding in the future, it makes sense that Disney’s biggest live-action franchise should follow suit with their Marvel and Star Wars proper…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 11:22 AM
21

You shouldn’t have to say “I don’t wanna sound racist” though. There is obviously nothing racist about the point you’re making. It’s just we’ve all been brainwashed to think that sticking up for white people is racist.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 11:19 AM
4

It’s on YouTube, yeah. I had to pay a couple of bucks to watch it, but well worth it.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 03:32 AM
6

Yes, you are exactly right OP. The feminism that people dislike here is the kind that demonises and silences men. I highly recommend watching the documentary movie ‘the red pill’ by Cassie Jaye. It’s a movie by a feminist who wants to ‘expose’ the men’s rights movement but ends up changing her mind about both the MRM and feminism. The difference between this sub and feminist ones is that you can actually ask questions about what MRAs think of feminist issues. And you will find that people here a…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 02:03 AM
1

Link to the actual vid: https://youtu.be/uretrfMA-Io
/r/MensRights26/12/20 01:11 AM
1

In what sense are feminists trying to cancel/block her?
/r/MensRights21/12/20 09:58 PM
0

Nobody is made for monogamy. Stop judging.
/r/MensRights12/12/20 08:59 PM
8

All of your points are about getting the approval of women. Not having a go, just an observation.
/r/MensRights09/12/20 01:07 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrvDhSB7GHk Wow, it's just so hilarious to them, isn't it. You're right, this says more than any statistic (on an emotional level). What show is this from?
/r/MensRights03/12/20 06:03 PM
1

But 90% of the time they will come back with "but men make the laws!" And at that moment you realise they are completely missing the point and are not worth talking to.
/r/MensRights03/12/20 06:01 PM
3

Horrific. Which country?
/r/MensRights03/12/20 05:51 PM
1

But sex work isn’t done in public. Neither is non relationship sex.
/r/MensRights03/12/20 11:43 AM
3

Why do you they think are degenerates?
/r/MensRights03/12/20 02:20 AM
1

Mental. Surprised I haven’t seen that study talked about in here.
/r/MensRights02/12/20 10:30 PM
1

Jesus that's nuts. I know this country is known for being a bit sketchy but that is really corrupt.
/r/MensRights01/12/20 05:46 PM
2

Jesus Christ. As a non-spanish immigrant to Spain (who loves the country) this is terrifying and awful.
/r/MensRights01/12/20 03:08 PM
2

Thanks for saying my exact thoughts so eloquently!
/r/MensRights01/12/20 12:05 AM
7

Feminism pretends priveliges are rights though, that is part of the problem.
/r/MensRights30/11/20 08:46 PM
1

Honestly, I don’t think she will have much of a career any more. 95% of people seem to be fuming at her, and her next movie will probably do badly because of it. Add to that she is like 35 and her looks won’t last much longer.
/r/MensRights30/11/20 08:44 PM
3

Am I the only one who thinks ‘society’s expectations of men’ is pretty low on the ladder of men’s problems? It is an issue, but it’s used as this kinda vague way of pretending people are trying to help men, when it’s not. It’s this intangible thing that nobody can measure, change or legislate again. Shit like actual equal treatment by the law is what men need
/r/MensRights29/11/20 01:26 AM
6

It’s not even cognitive dissonance, it’s just the complete lack of self awareness or actual morals.
/r/MensRights24/11/20 08:51 PM
1

Sorry to hear about the bad things that happened to you and your friends.
/r/MensRights22/11/20 11:49 AM
1

Can I ask, what happened that changed your perspective so dramatically?
/r/MensRights21/11/20 10:25 PM
7

Nobody deserves this happening to them, even if they make stupid decisions.
/r/MensRights21/11/20 10:02 PM
0

Out of interest, is the HR person in charge of this stuff a man?
/r/MensRights21/11/20 11:21 AM
5

The argument is always ‘but it’s men doing it to to other men’ meaning that it doesn’t count as injustice. That argument goes out of the window when it’s a white man killing a black man, for example. Woke people have zero consistency, they just have no actual morals if you ask me.
/r/MensRights20/11/20 12:30 PM
11

How would you define ‘power’?
/r/MensRights20/11/20 12:25 PM
23

Even if they don’t fire her, I think this movie will lose a lot of revenue because they kept Heard in. That will send a message and she will probably lose future movie deals. I have seen so many people online who are furious about this, including many women.
/r/MensRights16/11/20 03:48 PM
1

That is a disgusting thing to say.
/r/MensRights15/11/20 12:45 AM
0

I don’t see anywhere the original poster said all Muslims are rapists or anything like that. This knee jerk reaction of ‘anyone complaining about Islam is spreading hatred’ is a trained reflex, it’s no different to the feminists who think anyone supporting the men’s rights movement are ‘spreading hatred’.
/r/MensRights14/11/20 12:25 PM
1

Islam is not a race. The irony in you calling others brainwashed.
/r/MensRights14/11/20 12:00 AM
1

What are you saying is racist here?
/r/MensRights13/11/20 10:56 PM
0

“You are brainwashed” is not an argument. If you have some personal experience to share that differs, let’s hear it. If you have some proof to the contrary, let’s see it. If you don’t have either, perhaps it is you that is brainwashed.
/r/MensRights13/11/20 06:11 PM
1

There has been four inquests about this at the BBC now, not one of them has found any wrongdoings.
/r/MensRights13/11/20 06:07 PM
2

So sad. Sorry you are going through this. Stay strong!
/r/MensRights13/11/20 05:26 PM
5

Sadly, so many people now are this level of deluded.
/r/MensRights08/11/20 12:43 AM
2

This woman is pure evil.
/r/MensRights06/11/20 10:36 PM
1

Ok I didn’t know that, you’re right, that does explain a lot.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 10:30 AM
1

Well said
/r/MensRights02/11/20 09:10 PM
6

Maybe I’ve missed parts of the case, but wasn’t the only evidence of that a single person’s testimony? Someone employed by Heard?
/r/MensRights02/11/20 05:57 PM
1

Let’s hope so.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 10:53 AM
513

Fuck. There goes my trust in the British courts, and courts in general. There is a little less justice in the world today.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 10:46 AM
5

Fuck. Thanks for the update.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 10:38 AM
11

I have that feeling too, but we’ll see.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 12:41 AM
197

Hope Depp sues them too. Fuck, if Depp wins this will be big. But if he loses it’s a big blow for men’s rights.
/r/MensRights01/11/20 10:28 PM
3

Watch this ad that they made: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0
/r/MensRights01/11/20 08:44 PM
9

Alcohol is such a horrible drug. I moved to a country where people don't really get drunk, and now I see in comparions just how awful my country (England)'s drinking culture is. Russia sounds way worse though. I mean, 30% dying from alcohol? What the absolute fuck.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 10:38 PM
16

I'm cool with that, as long as the men have a "right to know" the hours worked by the women. And their experience, qualifications etc.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 10:19 PM
1

It’s worth considering that women make most consumer decisions. That means that men make money and, in general, women spend it. In a true ‘patriarchy’ it would be the other way around. Something to think about!
/r/MensRights19/10/20 10:03 AM
0

Better to just never get married then. But you can still have a relationship.
/r/MensRights12/10/20 08:33 AM
1

This whole incel insult is kinda stupid. My theory is that most people, or at least a good chunk of them, aren't regularly having sex. Most people under 18 aren't having sex. Most people aged over 60 aren't. Most people in long-term relationships stop fucking after a few years. People with children often don't have the time or energy. Really it's just pretty people in their 20's who are fucking all the time. Most other people are too bored, busy or ugly for it.
/r/MensRights12/10/20 02:42 AM
2

I skim-read the whole thing. There's nothing in there about feminists protesting male-only DV shelters, only about various institutions basically ignoring them.
/r/MensRights12/10/20 02:16 AM
14

There are good women out there. My girlfriend is as low-maintenance as it gets. She will happily sit there all night while I watch UFC or play video games (she actually enjoys watching me play xbox, I shit you not). Makes no demands, never expects me to spend money on her. Supports me, takes an interest in me, compliments my looks. Mind you my girl doesn't really like women herself, and I think she actually tries not to be a stereotypical woman. I was reading the Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar …
/r/MensRights12/10/20 02:06 AM
0

Bill Burr is great, I've been a fan for years and have seen him live. But fuck me is he obsessed with race and white guilt.
/r/MensRights12/10/20 01:56 AM
0

I don't see any problem with this. He was selling grooming products so his looks were highly relevant. There's another vid where the dragons give some feminists a proper roasting after they make unfair accusations of sexism: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dadNBfNmh5I
/r/MensRights07/10/20 11:50 AM
1

This is one of the best points I’ve ever read on here.
/r/MensRights02/10/20 10:21 PM
5

It sounds like it may cost you more to not see a lawyer if this continues.
/r/MensRights30/09/20 11:13 AM
3

Sorry this happened to you, it’s a terrible feeling. But don’t make it worse for yourself by spending more time with her. It won’t win her back, it will just torment you more. Cut the cord and move forward. Stay strong, you feel like shit now but you will be fine.
/r/MensRights26/09/20 01:59 PM
2

They are trying to shame you into being silent about men’s issues and men’s rights. Call them out on it. Ask them what’s wrong with discussing men’s rights. In my experience they either shut up or expose themselves as bigoted man-haters.
/r/MensRights20/09/20 09:29 PM
1

Judging by the amount of rape/grooming gangs we see in the UK right now, you are probably right there. I think we would have to agree on what ‘rape culture’ is to answer that question though.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 02:01 PM
1

This is one issue where the feminists are right*. Men need to be openly against this and criticise other men who voice any support for such behaviour. *I think they are right in saying that people should be openly critical of it. I don’t necessarily agree that there is a rape culture, not in ‘the west’ anyway. Pakistan, maybe.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 10:09 AM
1

What feminists say and what they do are two different things. I regularly hear feminists using the term to describe masculinity in general.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 09:03 AM
1

It could just be that your builder’s normal experience is that the man pays. I’m not saying that it’s ‘right’ if that’s the case, or that he shouldn’t still give you the chance to pay. But it might be that his expectations are moulded by experience rather than bias.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 05:39 PM
1

Men weren’t able to vote at that time, it’s a law made by men But again you are choosing to look at it through the lens of sex. You could say it’s a law made by high class people. Or rich people. Or even better educated people. The fact that they were men is completely arbitrary. Half of all people are men, but you choose to focus on sex rather than infinite other ways of grouping people. Why don’t you just go one step further and say it was humans oppressing other humans? Do you see my point?
/r/MensRights09/09/20 02:14 PM
1

In the UK, most men got the vote at the same time most women got the vote. So surely they were both oppressed, by that metric?
/r/MensRights09/09/20 10:35 AM
3

People of higher class made the laws and controlled who could vote etc. You’re choosing to view the issue through the lens of sex.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 10:31 AM
1

Can we ban posts about r/fds yet? So bored of seeing this shit
/r/MensRights09/09/20 09:41 AM
1

Stop trying to prove things about men’s rights to people. They aren’t interested in the truth. If they were interested in the truth, you wouldn’t have to do anything.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 07:59 PM
13

Where is this?
/r/MensRights07/09/20 11:14 AM
1

It’s not swings and roundabouts. Most people, even religious people, aren’t trying to be a priest/Imam/Rabbi etc. We are all subject to the law.
/r/MensRights06/09/20 10:50 AM
1

You don’t think being given worse punishments for the same crime is substantial?
/r/MensRights06/09/20 10:41 AM
2

Wow talking about stereotypes. Where is that from?
/r/MensRights05/09/20 10:36 PM
2

What would oppression look like to you?
/r/MensRights05/09/20 10:33 PM
2

Perfect summary.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 11:46 PM
1

This is the fakest thing that ever faked.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 08:48 PM
2

I count 4 comments deleted by mods, hardly tonnes.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 11:01 PM
3

I met Ron Jeremy outside then Rainbow a few years ago. He pulled up in a beat up car with a cute young girl, then told me his other car was a Ferrari.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 09:00 PM
6

Wow. The fact that they locked the thread is fucking insane! Almost every reply was agreeing with the post, zero controversy.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 07:39 PM
5

They forgot to mention that legally men can’t be raped by women in the UK.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:44 AM
1

Ah ok. That is ridiculous :(
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:58 PM
2

That's fucking brutal man. Sorry to hear that. Why did the fashion designer thing affect you? Stay strong.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:55 PM
3

And again.... if we see the countless men who get away from rape charges, we can see that women don't have more power in the courts ! They 'get away' with rape charges because, shock horror, we don't just throw people in jail for unproven accusations. Everyone in here is anti-rape. But we also see examples every single day of men who have their lives ruined by false accusations too. That's why MRAs (and frankly any sensible person) don't just jump to the conclusion that anyone accused of rape is…
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:52 PM
3

not to mention the wage gap (which while highly debated—is real) Even that article itself admits that: The median gap is calculated by lining up all men’s and women’s wages from top to bottom, and comparing the number that falls in the middle for each gender. As with all averages, it smooths out nuances and doesn’t account for differences in specific job roles, age, or previous experience. This is why the 'pay gap' is rubbish. The supposed 'gender pay gap' (which is actually an earnings gap, ) d…
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:41 PM
5

As you alluded to, that sub echoes tons of feminist tropes that are harmful to men (e.g posts about toxic masculinity, about how men need to be taught not to rape, etc). That and it perpetuates the lie that MRA's are sexist, 'a hate group', etc.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:32 PM
17

Pretty much sums it up. A lot of women actually didn't want equality (e.g the vote) and campaigned against it.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 09:04 PM
44

Women had it better when they had 'less opportunities'. Studies have shown that women's happiness has decreased steadily since the 1970's. Women entered the workplace and then saw how fucking hard and miserable it is. That's why feminism now focuses on getting women the easiest ride to the top as possible, generally at the expense of men.
/r/MensRights24/08/20 08:55 PM
2

Where did you get those stats?
/r/MensRights19/08/20 09:51 PM
3

Men in England are treated horrifically by the courts and social services in England. My cousin had 3 kids with a wife who turned into a heroin addict. She has not worked for about 15 years now, they are divorced and she has a free apartment and money from the government because she is an addict. My cousin however works 50 hour weeks as a truck driver and had his kids taken away from him because he could not afford an apartment with a separate room for each child (which is what the law requires)…
/r/MensRights18/08/20 10:05 AM
1

Very good point
/r/MensRights14/08/20 04:41 PM
5

Because they want to make men's issues taboo.
/r/MensRights11/08/20 09:47 PM
1

You are literally my hero. With all the anti-white sentiment in the air, I bet there are lots of opportunities to do this kind of thing right now. Although I guess that’s going into racial rather than gender rights.
/r/MensRights06/08/20 01:53 PM
1

Lol what bollocks.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 10:07 PM
3

There’s a lot of misinformation out there about this. At the time when women got the vote in Britain, most men couldn’t vote either. What’s more most women didn’t actually want the vote and many actually campaigned against it.
/r/MensRights30/07/20 02:03 PM
2

I didn’t know that. Good.
/r/MensRights29/07/20 08:50 AM
2

Yeah but Turd has also produced witnesses that back her. I suspect it’s bullshit, because she is clearly a liar/manipulator, but that will make things hard for Depp.
/r/MensRights29/07/20 08:48 AM
2

Sadly, I fear this will not end well for Depp. Amber Turd has had witnesses supporting her side of the story. It’s pretty clear she is an abuser and manipulator so I don’t believe them but others well.
/r/MensRights28/07/20 08:32 AM
3

Australia has a long way to go, they are neck and neck with Canada for most woke country.
/r/MensRights28/07/20 08:28 AM
2

These posts are right, really. It is 100% the rapist’s fault if a woman is raped. But as always there is absolutely no diplomacy in these statements and they create an angry ‘men vs women’ dynamic instead of unifying people.
/r/MensRights14/07/20 10:24 AM
2

Dating someone 10 years or more younger.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 01:28 PM
3

Don’t know that that’s necessarily true. There was a female MP in the UK who was recently heavily criticised for wearing clothes that were too revealing in Parliament (of course that’s just one example but still).
/r/MensRights06/07/20 01:25 PM
5

Damn. These girls are assholes, but celebs like him need to be more careful - anything in text can and will be used against you! Tiger Woods lost millions of dollars because of some texts he sent. Don’t send texts people! Side note, check out the shaming men get when they hook up with younger (but legal) girls. What 34 year old doesn’t want to shag a girl in her physical prime?
/r/MensRights01/07/20 09:50 AM
1

Can you describe the changes?
/r/MensRights26/06/20 12:07 AM
1

Yep, that’s him.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 12:31 AM
1

I saw a woman punch her boyfriend in the face in the street tonight. They were drunk and arguing, they guy went over to take a pee against a bus shelter, just as he’s finishing she smacks him one, hard. It makes me so made that people share shit like this and think it’s funny.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 12:30 AM
1

I found it very interesting but a little extreme. I don’t think things are as bad as she makes out.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 12:23 AM
1

Figureheads? Probably not, but I can show examples of when feminist groups have done it or appeared to have done it. Riot police called after protesters attempt to shut down Bettina Arndt talking at university Erin Pizzey, who opened the first women's shelter, receives death threats from feminists (after trying to open a men's shelter and arguing that women can be voilent too). More on that here Professor Suzanne Steinmetz published an article detailing how men can be victims of domestic violenc…
/r/MensRights10/06/20 06:26 PM
3

I literally have no opinion on all this stuff about your relationship and court cases. I am just interested in whether your comments about this forum are true. So far they appear to be bollocks and you are coming off as mentally unhinged.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 12:59 AM
6

The posts appear to be talking about the legality of arming yourself to protect yourself against someone who is threatening you. The note in the picture appears to be threatening. The responses to it are quite reasonable and nobody is telling anybody to attack anyone, they are just discussing how OP can protect himself. I didn’t call you a liar and you are arguing about stuff I haven’t contested.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 12:46 AM
1

How feminists talk and how they act are two very different things amigo. It’s generally not the conservatives using violence, intimidation and lies to stop conversations around male issues. It’s feminists.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 12:39 AM
5

What? Literally nothing you posted shows people telling other people to get weapons. Someone calling you a ‘horrible bitch’ isn’t nice, but that’s nowhere near what you are claiming. So far you are not coming off as credible here.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 12:17 AM
3

No. Can you just link one? Go the post, see the button that says ‘permalink’, right click and select copy link. Then post the link here.
/r/MensRights09/06/20 12:04 AM
4

I can’t see anyone posting about ‘street justice’. Literally everyone is just saying lawyer up. I’m on my phone so I can’t search, but I’m literally not seeing anything bad in the comments. Can you link the specific comment you are talking about?
/r/MensRights08/06/20 11:43 PM
4

It's not only men who don't want to work under Karen. I've met plenty of women who dislike having female bosses.
/r/MensRights08/06/20 11:22 PM
7

I see people all the time on here saying that posts are fake, so I don't think everyone just believes everything that they see in here. But there are some important things to consider: This is the internet and some people are just here to act like dicks A lot of men are genuinely angry about the false accusations being levelled at men, there are people here who are legit victims of that It's against forum rules to post personal details and from what I have most people here will speak out against…
/r/MensRights08/06/20 11:19 PM
1

I'm not sure if they did, for one thing the people teaching boys in schools are female. Regardless, this is the situation we are in, and it's certainly feminists who are stifling the discussions around these problems now.
/r/MensRights08/06/20 10:04 PM
5

What's funny about this whole thing is that men are disadvantaged by almost the exact same metrics that black people/minorities are. Worse performance in school, worse treatment by the courts, arrested more, more likely to die in prison, less access to healthcare, etc etc.. But nobody gives a shit, nobody is talking about "female privilege".
/r/MensRights08/06/20 08:35 AM
4

Now if Bill Burr could just lay off all the anti-white crap, that would be great. I love his critiques of feminism though.
/r/MensRights07/06/20 12:25 PM
1

Where specifically in the report does it say this?
/r/MensRights05/06/20 11:44 PM
4

Slut shaming vs predator shaming Women are sluts for having sex, men are predators for seeking it. Honestly there is a ying and yang to everything in sexism.
/r/MensRights04/06/20 06:56 PM
5

Yeah, surely that’s a reward if anything?
/r/MensRights04/06/20 09:44 AM
1

I wasn’t arguing that they can.
/r/MensRights04/06/20 08:47 AM
1

Right. That’s why I said this in reference to Steve Jobs not being able to cure himself: Still that doesn’t mean diet doesn’t affect it in a preventative sense Meaning that if you eat well, you can probably prevent cancer or reduce your chances of getting cancer.
/r/MensRights04/06/20 12:10 AM
2

Thanks for chiming in. I really don’t know that much about cancer but it’s not some quack scientific theory to say you should be careful what you put in your body. (Plus this guy just seems to be looking for a fight)
/r/MensRights04/06/20 12:06 AM
1

Wow. Which country?
/r/MensRights03/06/20 05:27 PM
1

I didn’t try to mate.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 04:58 PM
0

I’ve no idea.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 04:50 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MensRights03/06/20 04:32 PM
0

I mean, it seems kinda obvious that what you eat will affect your health.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 04:32 PM
-4

Ah ok. Still that doesn’t mean diet doesn’t affect it in a preventative sense.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 04:23 PM
1

Why do you doubt this?
/r/MensRights03/06/20 03:29 PM
3

And if a women has a divorce, she keeps the House, the kids, etc and the man does not have anything. I live in Barcelona and in the early parts of 2020 we kept seeing this news about '7 women killed by men since the start of year'. Lots of feminists protesting, feminist graffiti on the walls everywhere. But when I look up stuff about the men killing women, it seems to be mainly men whose women are taking their kids away from them. Now, I don't think murder is justified. But just maybe this probl…
/r/MensRights01/06/20 10:30 PM
1

Ahhh, claro. Lo entiendo ahora, gracias. Qué triste este adoctrinamiento esta todos lados 🤦‍♂️
/r/MensRights01/06/20 07:54 PM
1

Ingleterra. LIVG qué es?
/r/MensRights01/06/20 06:11 PM
1

Gracias, te seguirà. Aunque no soy espanol, me gustaria ver progresso por los MRAs allí.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 02:56 PM
5

There’s a very easy way to test if this is true. Here on Reddit, go and post about men’s issues in r/feminism. For example, you could post about Amber Heard and why women should consider boycotting L’Oreal to ensure that women are not seen as endorsing domestic violence against men. You could also post about how men are underperforming in schools and universities. Do the same in Facebook feminist groups. Go to real life feminist groups and ask them to help campaign for a man’s issue, e.g equal t…
/r/MensRights01/06/20 01:02 PM
3

Man what a shitshow. It’s the same in a lot of countries, but I thought it was mainly the former English colonies. Seems like Spain and France have been infected with the same bullshit. Hablaste bien tio.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 09:24 AM
3

Vivo en Barcelona y estoy interesado tio! Daba cuenta qué el feminismo es duro aqui. Cada dia veo graffiti en las paredes, y comportamiento extraño de las mujeres a veces. Pero como esta el MRA in españa? Hay mucha conversacion? (Sorry for my mistakes!)
/r/MensRights01/06/20 09:19 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/gtyui2/350\_false\_allegations\_againt\_men\_per\_day\_in\_spain/ I already saw it, thanks for sharing! My feelings really are that this is so terrifying for any man in the country. Choose the wrong woman and you can be screwed over so easily. I'd like to see something more recent though - the article dates back to 2013 and the video to 2012.
/r/MensRights31/05/20 05:06 PM
6

Can you say where in the documentary?
/r/MensRights31/05/20 05:04 PM
1

I’ve had my own experience of trying to sit next to guys who are manspreading. Quite frankly, some guys are just being ridiculous about it with the way they sit. I don’t believe it’s about anything but taking up as much space as possible. I don’t care how big your nuts are, nobody needs to sit with their legs are virtually 180 degrees.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 09:15 PM
49

Good for you, brave thing to do. Australia is so fucked right now. That said, you should probably not post anything that links your Reddit account to your real-life details.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 07:41 PM
1

I can't call someone with a dick a man but I can accuse an Irish man of being complacent of the crimes a German committed 200 years ago That is literally the best summary of woke philosophy I have seen.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 03:09 PM
1

Not really, the push to get women into STEM has been in what, the last 5 years? The fact is they don’t really want to. But they do want an easy ride and feee money.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 12:42 PM
2

It’s a fallacy that ‘representation’ is needed. Government bodies need competent, intelligent, fair people, regardless of their skin colour or gender. I am white but I don’t care if a black woman is ‘representing’ my needs, as long as they do a good job and aren’t racist or sexist.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 10:54 AM
11

Yes, it is sexism. Not only that, it is probably going to hurt women in the long run. We are already at a point where a lot of people see female managers and think “you just got the job because someone wanted to fill quotas”.
/r/MensRights30/05/20 10:47 AM
12

I have to side with some of the people who think she is doing this for attention/fame/money. Exhibit a) Sexy pictures while claiming women are worth more than their looks b) Selling merch with her brand that (aside from one design) has no men's rights message That said, I still think this is good. If she's helping men's rights it doesn't matter that she's making some money in the process.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 11:10 AM
3

Agreed, this smacks a bit too much of someone trying to get famous.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 11:05 AM
1

Not trying to be argumentative here, but Spain had a constitution in 1812 that was then repealed in 1814. The country didn't have a full democratic constitution until 1978. Agreed that it's a more interesting question as to why they created a separate court. I'm wondering if there is much of a men's rights movement in Spain?
/r/MensRights29/05/20 11:02 AM
12

For anyone who doesn’t know, Munroe Bergdorf is an mtf tranny who is fairly well known in the UK. She was hired by the Labour Party as an advisor and then fired due to public outcry after she said all whites people are racist. Watch her get absolutely destroyed in this interview: https://youtu.be/VQTnnDCXZNM
/r/MensRights29/05/20 07:12 AM
1

Democracy is a pretty recent thing in Spain, they may not have it figured out very well.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 07:00 AM
3

Jesus they have made three posts featuring her in the last few days. But, reassuringly, tons of women are commenting and trashing L’Oréal for promoting an abuser.
/r/MensRights27/05/20 01:32 PM
1

I read it a couple of weeks ago. Fascinating and eye opening read, but a little to extreme for my liking. It’s not realistic to say that all women are like that, not in 2020 anyway.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 07:50 PM
1

I don’t understand how this person hasn’t been banned and arrested for inciting violence.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 07:38 PM
1

Wouldn’t women doing more unpaid labour explain why they are less qualified for jobs? Women are still generally the ones who stay at home with the kids, which means they get less work experience.
/r/MensRights23/05/20 07:32 AM
0

I couldn’t read the first link you posted, but I read the second two. Can you explain the link to feminism? I didn’t see anything about feminists protesting in those links.
/r/MensRights23/05/20 07:22 AM
2

How often do you call out fellow feminists for perpetuating the wage gap myth?
/r/MensRights21/05/20 09:37 PM
10

How about actually telling us what happened?
/r/MensRights20/05/20 11:23 PM
20

If you think someone saying ‘they are not’ is dishing out a blow, that says a lot about your position
/r/MensRights19/05/20 09:09 PM
22

“You disagreed with me so I’ll call you ugly”. This isn’t kindergarten mate just FYI.
/r/MensRights19/05/20 08:16 PM
15

No they are not.
/r/MensRights19/05/20 06:51 PM
2

Same here. Frankly I think going for dinner on your first date is just weird. I've always just gone for drinks, and the girls always seem happy to just buy rounds. I think it's a cultural think though. In the UK going dutch seems normal, but it sounds like in the US it's more expected that the guy pays.
/r/MensRights16/05/20 10:33 AM
5

Hmm, probably still not worthy of a knee to head. That could kill someone.
/r/MensRights15/05/20 11:57 AM
3

Let's not forget that most consumer decisions are made by women, women vote more than men, women are on track to own more capital then men in the next few years. Plus women work less, retire younger and live longer than men. (at least in the US)
/r/MensRights07/05/20 10:47 AM
1

Reddit has algorithms that automatically downvote things.
/r/MensRights05/05/20 03:49 PM
18

If you’re feeling annoyed by this, check out the absolute trashing the writer is getting in the comments. One of the comments starts with simply “Karen,..” That aside, the Independent and the Guardian are the most disgusting hate rags in the UK.
/r/MensRights05/05/20 01:31 AM
31

So...why is it called askmen if it’s not a place where you can ask men?
/r/MensRights05/05/20 01:14 AM
2

Anyone else miss the classic “you’re gonna have a bad time” Reddit meme? Basically if you’re on Reddit and you’re worried that you got downvoted to zero...you’re gonna have a bad time. This is an absolutely pathetic thing to post about, you make MRA look like a joke, GTFO.
/r/MensRights05/05/20 01:09 AM
8

It’s almost as if people here should have better things to do than give their time to these pathetic subs. Men’s rights activists: “let me see what r/wehatemen has to say today..” The same Men’s rights activists: “OMG they hate men!!”
/r/MensRights05/05/20 01:05 AM
4

And the UK tbh.
/r/MensRights03/05/20 08:03 PM
1

Nah. They do it to pretend their dicks are that big, because they are weak people.
/r/MensRights03/05/20 02:12 AM
1

Obviously, I’m a straight white male and... Damn, I had respect for MM before too.
/r/MensRights02/05/20 12:57 PM
-2

Their center of gravity is higher in their body, and if they do not open their knees wide enough they will fall over When they are sitting down? OK mate.
/r/MensRights02/05/20 01:42 AM
4

As a man: yes, manspreading is a thing. I have sat next to fucking idiots sitting like the guy in the photo many times, I don’t know what is wrong with these people. There is literally no reason to sit like that but people do. That said, it’s not hard to just ask people to give you some room.
/r/MensRights01/05/20 11:24 PM
2

https://youtu.be/LDZX4ooRsWs No I mean the version with Murray talking over it.
/r/MensRights01/05/20 09:28 AM
2

Great video. I was just annoyed I couldn’t find the anaconda video he mentioned.
/r/MensRights30/04/20 11:06 PM
3

Wouldn’t be surprised if this is fake. But if it’s real, well, I feel sorry for people who think like this. They are brainwashed into thinking something so awful and ugly about the world. It must be very hard to go through life like this.
/r/MensRights30/04/20 11:06 AM
1

Honestly speaking I wouldn't be surprised if he decides to divorce her after he gets back on his feet, but that would also be messed up o his part as she is paying the bills in the house and taking on all his debts, Well it sounds like she doesn’t have a choice! Plus it sounds like your father has supported the family since it started, your mother has to do it for 5 minutes and she is giving him hell. So I hope your father divorces her. Your mother wants a personal slave, not a partner.
/r/MensRights29/04/20 11:12 AM
6

Thanks! Nice to hear someone say this for a change.
/r/MensRights29/04/20 11:08 AM
6

The UK is in a similar place. Women now make more money than men in their 20’s, there are all sorts of ‘diversity quotas’ putting women to the front of the line for jobs. Any woman entering STEM is basically guaranteed to be thrust into management. But yet young women are constantly complaining how oppressed they are, because they are brainwashed into believing they are victims. I know a women who doesn’t work - she just leeches off her boyfriend and the state - and she still thinks she is a vic…
/r/MensRights29/04/20 11:05 AM
42

Wow what a manipulative POS. “You should feel bad for trying to solve problems with money, but if you ever stop doing it we are getting a divorce”.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 11:15 PM
1

The point is not to be the same, but better. Don't tar everyone with the same brush.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 12:34 PM
1

Perhaps we should actually be encouraging companies to pay men more than women. Men are still expected to be the primary providers for families, without the support that women get from the government. Try applying for a council flat in the UK as a man.
/r/MensRights25/04/20 04:56 PM
1

She was mental. To make it worse, after we stopped seeing each other, I turned down the chance to fuck this gorgeous japanese girl who was leaving the country the next day, just cos I didn't want to hurt the ex-fuckbuddy's feelings. Oh, and she also told loads of people I got her pregnant, which I actually believe. At one point I found a letter in her room from a doctor, referring her to another health specialist, explaining how she kept getting pregnant and having unexplained miscarriages.
/r/MensRights24/04/20 10:48 PM
2

Didn't get accused of rape, but she did tell half the city I was doing shit like putting a paper bag over her head and punching her during sex (!). All cos I didn't want a serious relationship after we were fuckbuddies for a while and then she broke up with me.
/r/MensRights24/04/20 10:38 PM
3

I was being sarcastic amigo.
/r/MensRights24/04/20 10:36 PM
2

Dressing skimpily is no more asking for trouble than walking through a council estate in a suit while juggling iphones.
/r/MensRights24/04/20 07:07 PM
6

What exactly did you say about clothes playing a part in rape?
/r/MensRights24/04/20 09:53 AM
1

LEt us know what happens.
/r/MensRights21/04/20 11:50 AM
1

His sense of dignity may be hurt even more if she continues to ignore his points, which is the most likely outcome tbh. But who knows, you might be right. I'm no psychologist.
/r/MensRights21/04/20 11:47 AM
2

I don't see what he has to gain though. His teacher is not going to see sense.
/r/MensRights21/04/20 12:07 AM
17

Dude, this sadly isn't a battle worth fighting. Your grades are more important than trying to prove something to this idiot. I would concede this one, take the loss on the chin and save your points for a better debate.
/r/MensRights20/04/20 07:27 PM
5

Dude, this sadly isn't a battle worth fighting. Your grades are more important than trying to prove something to this idiot. I would concede this one.
/r/MensRights20/04/20 07:25 PM
6

Women do get people being sexually inappropriate to them all the time. On a night out it can happen several times a night. This is probably a big city phenomenon though.
/r/MensRights17/04/20 07:43 PM
3

Yeah, I agree. I've met had plenty of girlfriends in my time, can't say any of them have been like OP describes. I'm sure there are women like that. But if you're a good, honest person, you will probably attract good, honest women. If you're immature and shallow you will probably attract immature, shallow women.
/r/MensRights17/04/20 02:48 PM
0

If you are that paranoid, just don’t sleep with/date anyone. It makes no sense to spend hundreds of hours per year for a slight percentage change in your chances of being falsely accused. Which is a your own unproven theory. I mean, if you like working out good for you, but most women won’t think you’re a 10 just cos you have muscles.
/r/MensRights17/04/20 12:20 PM
1

What does getting jacked ‘for your own good’ really mean? This is just like women saying they wear heels and makeup ‘because they like it’. Unless you’re some kind of model or athlete and you need to be in incredible shape, you’re doing it to impress others. Getting muscley is like a part-time job but has zero payoff other than pandering to what some people think is attractive. And why do you need to fuck someone ‘for practice’ unless you think you need to be ready to impress someone further dow…
/r/MensRights17/04/20 10:16 AM
-1

Like I said, ‘if’.
/r/MensRights17/04/20 02:16 AM
0

Yes. I am talking about a hypothetical situation where the procedure is not serious (or where actual surgery isn't needed).
/r/MensRights17/04/20 12:45 AM
2

...yes, and? If there was an easy, quick, painless way to get a reversible vasectomy, I don't see what the possible downside is to this. But such a thing doesn't exist.
/r/MensRights17/04/20 12:43 AM
0

Nobody is trying to make this happen. It's impossible, so it's nothing more than a thought experiment.
/r/MensRights16/04/20 11:49 PM
1

Do you know what the word 'if' means?
/r/MensRights16/04/20 11:46 PM
-9

What are you so upset about? This will never actually happen.
/r/MensRights16/04/20 11:03 PM
1

I know multiple cases where the landlord has hit on his tenant directly implying that she could stop paying rent, And I know multiple male landlords that have had women offer to pay for their rent in sex instead of money. Why isn't it ever the woman's fault?
/r/MensRights16/04/20 10:41 PM
-28

I actually think this is a great idea, if it could be done easily, quickly and painlessly. But there shouldn't be any criteria like 'being in a stable relationship'. You just apply online, there are no criteria to meet, everyone who wants it will be un-vasectomied. This would almost completely eradicate unwanted pregnancies, which would be great for men.
/r/MensRights16/04/20 10:07 PM
3

I recall a Redditor saying something like he could not really understand his girlfriend because men can never really understand women’s experience. How does anyone have a relationship based on differences rather than commonalities? I mean, the point is nobody could truly understand another individual's world. Doesn't matter what sex you are. We all live different lives. Unless you're one of those conjoined twins. The tragedy of it is it must make normal supportive empathetic relationships betwee…
/r/MensRights16/04/20 04:30 PM
6

The world view they are using sees the world as defined by power struggles between groups. The dominant group is the oppressor and everyone else is oppressed. They can't see groups actually working together for mutual benefit. In terms of sex or gender, they see 'team men' as the oppressor of 'team women'. They are also incapable of seeing people as individuals, ONLY as their group identity. Doesn't matter if you're a homeless man with no arms. You're in the male group, so somehow you're rich an…
/r/MensRights16/04/20 02:32 PM
3

It's a little different than racism. Can an individual act racist toward a white person? Yes. Is society institutionally racist toward white people? Not really. You could make a reasonable argument that it is now, precisely because of these conversations. I would still say minorities experience more discrimination overall, but its kinda done in secret. We now have institutions openly and proudly discriminating against white people in countries like Australia and the UK.
/r/MensRights16/04/20 02:30 PM
1

Just ordered her book.Thanks.
/r/MensRights14/04/20 07:39 PM
2

I agree, it's pathetic. I am considering leaving this sub because it's just full of stuff being said on reddit now. It's a joke.
/r/MensRights14/04/20 07:23 PM
-4

Posts like this make MRA look like a joke.
/r/MensRights14/04/20 07:20 PM
1

He could have had some balls and done the right thing, which is what leaders are supposed to do. People would be praising him now.
/r/MensRights13/04/20 02:34 PM
2

I have no idea what that means in the real world, you're talking in riddles here. My point is it's not worth trying to get approval from these brainwashed feminists. You aren't going to convince them - it's like trying to convince a religious fundamentalist there is no god. It's a waste of energy and will only lead to frustration.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 02:04 PM
2

Exactly. You have to adhere to the dogma 100% or you are in league with the devil. 'Transphobe' is just a modern way of saying 'heretic'.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 12:45 PM
2

You've lost me, sorry. If what goes deeper?
/r/MensRights12/04/20 12:43 PM
8

But MRAs are never going to get their approval. They are too far down the rabbit hole of delusion so it's a pointless exercise.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 11:23 AM
1

Fuck me, she actually thought those tattoos were a good idea. Cringe video but glad to hear a woman saying this, especially a young one.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 11:18 AM
15

I care a lot about her, I don't want to hurt her. But yet she seems ok with hurting you. A partner with double standards about the relationship who is unwilling to budge on important things like this is not a caring one. Granted you are both young and she is probably too immature to understand this, but it's a red flag for sure.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 11:16 AM
-2

No, it doesn't. It's perfectly possible to accept trans people and call them by their preferred pronouns etc, while still believing there are two genders. And loads of trans people are fine with that position, they just aren't the ones you hear from. (Actually most of the people you DO hear from in this debate are people who aren't even trans themselves)
/r/MensRights12/04/20 11:11 AM
1

I got banned from r/askmenover30 because I post here.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 11:08 AM
19

What do you think of generally discouraging and removing posts of people who got banned in other subs? They're not related to men's right, they're not some sort of injustice men are receiving or discrimination, they're most of the time proving the other side's point. I don't know if it's helpful to think about this in terms of 'sides'. Personally I think all this complaining twitter and reddit is juvenile. Trying to stir up debates in anti-male subreddits achieves nothing, it just looks like MRA…
/r/MensRights12/04/20 11:05 AM
1

50% of posts in this sub seem to be complaining about things being said on Reddit. It makes MRA look like a fucking joke.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 11:00 AM
2

Or y'know, just rise above and don't bother with all that childish shit.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 08:46 PM
3

Wow she/he really put you in your place with those astute answers like 'Wrong x 1000'.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 06:20 PM
4

There is no such thing as 'mansplaining'. It's just a linguistic one-shot used in an attempt to shut men up.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 03:51 PM
0

Can people stop posting this article every 5 minutes?
/r/MensRights11/04/20 03:48 PM
6

There's an important detail that gets ignored however. You cannot have meaningful consent(that should hold up legally) unless you take up the responsibility of getting across a lack of it. The people claiming there's no such thing as real consent don't realise that they give up their autonomy that comes with the responsibility. If it's never your fault for not communicating a "no" then your "yes" means absolutely nothing. Unfortunately, the law is utterly broken about this in sexual situations. …
/r/MensRights11/04/20 03:45 PM
1

She doesn't say that though. She says 'based on our liefestyle'.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 12:41 AM
1

Posts like this are why people mock MRA. Surely there are bigger issues than girls getting more compliments at school. You're also making your own apex fallacy, assuming that all women are attractive women. There are lots of plain and ugly women who don't get complimented much.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 12:39 AM
5

If she is training every day and you aren't she should annihilate you cardio-wise 🤔
/r/MensRights10/04/20 08:47 PM
4

Yeah. I studied Psychology and it was pretty useless to me as I didn't pursue it after the degree.
/r/MensRights10/04/20 02:19 PM
7

She sure looks like she's 'hiding her figure' there.
/r/MensRights09/04/20 05:42 PM
2

The guardian has also come out with some bullshit in its time. It also trots out anti-male, anti-white opinion pieces virtually every day.
/r/MensRights08/04/20 07:33 AM
1

So what? You are still complaining about something nobody has actually said. FWIW I see two people being a bit OTT in their responses with you, the same amount of people actively sticking up for you, and everyone else being pretty neutral. That means its only actually a small minority that has been 'disrespectful' to you (which is still a stretch tbh).
/r/MensRights05/04/20 09:00 PM
3

What is that video from?
/r/MensRights05/04/20 06:36 PM
4

Can you point to one? Even if you can, I don’t see what you have to gain by putting words in people’s mouths in here. Especially when nobody in this thread is saying anything like that, AFAIK. Honestly it’s a shame that you came in here pretty open minded, and now you’re all ‘I saw an MRA say a bad thing once so now you’re all saying it even when you’re not’. Disappointing.
/r/MensRights05/04/20 11:34 AM
3

No, where did I say that? You’re being awfully defensive here, jumping to conclusions about what I’m saying. Personally I think it’s a good thing men and women can both vote .But I also think feminists have a habit of painting history in a certain way that doesn’t necessarily reflect the truth.
/r/MensRights05/04/20 11:31 AM
1

Why wouldn't it? Men are constantly told we're trash etc.
/r/MensRights05/04/20 12:26 AM
3

Here is the link to Cassie Jaye's talk, it's excellent. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3WMuzhQXJoY
/r/MensRights05/04/20 12:07 AM
2

I don't think the poster above was suggesting women are lying. Just saying that men also don't report things that happen to them.
/r/MensRights05/04/20 12:04 AM
2

A hundred years ago, women couldn’t vote They also didn't want to, by and large.
/r/MensRights04/04/20 11:58 PM
3

People on here worry way too much about what is happening in stupid subreddits full of weirdos.
/r/MensRights04/04/20 08:04 PM
6

Franzese at least has done 12 years in prison and is seemingly a changed man and doing positive things now. That's a good thing. An innocent man having his life ruined is tragic without the mafia dude comparison.
/r/MensRights04/04/20 03:50 PM
2

So far it seems like the evidence proves undeniably that Heard has abused Depp, and that Depp hasn't been violent towards her. I think it all comes down how far the judge views what Heard said is defamation. I mean, it's a single line in an article. Will the judge view that as being worth 50 mil? Maybe, maybe not. But I know fuck all about US courts, so just thinking out loud.
/r/MensRights04/04/20 11:22 AM
21

"Nobody cares about your dick" Clearly they do if messing with it is the first thing on the to-do list when boys are born.
/r/MensRights04/04/20 11:16 AM
2

Potentially he could get more than 7 mil back from here if he wins in court.
/r/MensRights31/03/20 05:41 PM
1

Which sub did the bf thing happen in?
/r/MensRights30/03/20 08:42 PM
5

Wtf. I mean, why should he bother paying the second time around? She could just do the same thing again.
/r/MensRights30/03/20 08:35 PM
1

What does a single example of a woman doing something bad have to do with MRA?
/r/MensRights30/03/20 10:26 AM
0

You didn't make it easy. This was difficult and annoying to read, and completely irrelevant to men's rights.
/r/MensRights29/03/20 02:34 PM
0

Good for you OP. She might think twice next time.
/r/MensRights29/03/20 02:31 PM
2

Most people don't know how to use pressure points or control their power. We're not all martial artists, nor should we need to be.
/r/MensRights29/03/20 02:31 PM
2

Yeah, but if a man walks up and punches a noticeably bigger/stronger man and then gets KTFO, everyone will say it was his own fault.
/r/MensRights29/03/20 02:30 PM
1

Back then, many countries in Europe were as diverse and integrated as the US is today. Hmm, that's probably not true. What European country had anything near the level of immigration that the USA did?
/r/MensRights28/03/20 06:22 PM
0

If your point is that women do genuinely face discrimination in some circumstances, and that MRAs need to acknowledge that, I agree. I also agree with your points below that some people on here just make misogynist/anti-women comments, and people here should be better than that. Not sure about your last paragraph though. Just stay away from Mexico and all of South America. Continue ignoring the Middle East (since you can’t find men’s rights issues over there that demonize women, just other men) …
/r/MensRights28/03/20 06:19 PM
1

(when in reality it's been shown that a woman is much more likely to jump to negative conclusions about people's thoughts about her) Got a source I can read for this? That's interesting.
/r/MensRights28/03/20 05:51 PM
2

You were probably right on that tbh. I was being slightly weird at the time and had a card that only had my email address on it.
/r/MensRights22/03/20 03:07 PM
2

I gave my (now) girlfriend my card and she emailed me. We had our first date after that and the rest is history..
/r/MensRights22/03/20 01:49 AM
3

I like the way he couldn't answer your question about rights.
/r/MensRights21/03/20 02:58 PM
1

Try watching anything from the BBC, ugh.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 10:25 AM
1

> But let's say that a woman has a female friend who works in a post office and you happen to occasionally get 'beautiful (car) model' magazines through the post. The postwoman is sure to tell my sister if she hears I am being 'unfair'. That information will FOR sure find its way to some other woman in my life. Now imagine it is not a post office and it is not a magazine. I hope people here will understand. But that is as far as I can go. I can't figure out what you're trying to say. Why does th…
/r/MensRights16/03/20 10:45 AM
2

I agree. Don't sink to the level of man-haters.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 10:41 PM
4

You hear this argument all.the.time. from people. It makes no sense. It's like, if I punch some feminist's brother or father, is he not a victim just because we're both men?
/r/MensRights12/03/20 08:58 AM
2

I'm obviously not worried about some five foot tall woman following me. I just found it a little insulting.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 09:10 PM
3

I live in Barcelona, feminism is big here. There is always feminist graffiti all over the streets. I've also had weird things happen like I am walking behind a woman on the street and she stops and waits till I go past like I am following her.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 07:17 PM
46

I honestly felt that I've been unfairly treated. You have. The head of HR is a long time personal friend of Kate, so I felt that it was a factor. Holy shit, we don't need scooby doo to solve that mystery. This is terrible. I wonder what the boss of the company would think? Hold on to that recording.
/r/MensRights10/03/20 09:30 PM
10

​ He literally answers this flawed argument in the first thing he says.
/r/MensRights05/03/20 01:02 PM
10

They’re only synonymous if you are incapable of seeing people as anything other than their skin colour. Oh and Europeans can be non-white.
/r/MensRights05/03/20 11:19 AM
9

Why was it 'white people' rather than European colonisers? You have been brainwashed into only seeing the world and history in terms of skin colour.
/r/MensRights05/03/20 11:13 AM
23

It is true that men have come to dominate society, the same as white people have come to dominate society in the west and some other areas over other races. Is it really surprising that white people 'dominate' societies that are primarily made up of white people? And before anyone asks, I am a white, very privileged man. Nobody needed to ask.
/r/MensRights05/03/20 08:49 AM
0

Dude, you said nothing meaningful about Men's Rights in your post. You just slagged off women and then vaguely mentioned that the courts should treat men better. There are shit women out there. Nobody with half a brain is ignorant of that. How does your post help men or men's rights? Post like yours don't help, they just make MRA look like female-haters.
/r/MensRights05/03/20 12:39 AM
0

Which facts are you referring to?
/r/MensRights05/03/20 12:33 AM
1

This sub has gone a bit MGTOW all of a sudden. Can we not just discuss men's rights/issues without making vast generalisations about the opposite sex? That's what feminists do.
/r/MensRights04/03/20 02:50 PM
1

First off I am a Johnny Depp fan. But just because im a fan doesn't mean I would automatically side with him. Just like the Louis Ck situation. He admitted his wrong doings but I'm not going to defend him. CK didn't really do anything wrong though. He jerked off in front of women who said it was ok. It was weird, but consensual. Maybe I'm not fully read-up on the Depp thing but I don't know that he did much either. It seems like there's no evidence he did anything beyond have verbal arguments wi…
/r/MensRights01/03/20 03:36 AM
3

That's absolute nonsense. There was literally a video just posted in this thread showing a boy being swarmed boy men after pushing a girl. And he was defending himself. And videos like this are common. Nobody thinks DV is ok unless they have serious issues.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 04:02 PM
3

But there are women who have those same 'traditional' beliefs. There are woman who propagate them, just as them are men who propagate them. Most people learn it from their parents (but also don't grow up to kill anyone).
/r/MensRights25/02/20 10:21 AM
3

what about the 25 women murdered every week in the US by their husband/partner? Why is the sex of the person that murdered them the important thing though? They do these things because they are violent, unstable people. Not because they are men.
/r/MensRights23/02/20 12:12 AM
1

Ha, well said.
/r/MensRights22/02/20 12:05 PM
3

Suicide is horrible whatever the circumstances. But I don't think this will help anything. The tragedy of her suicide will overshadow any conversation that might have happened about the abuse she committed.
/r/MensRights16/02/20 01:52 PM
-5

Downvoted. Nothing to do with men's rights.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 10:34 AM
1

I don’t know what you mean.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 08:48 AM
11

Considering the murkiness of the legality regarding black balling someone’s career, I doubt that was the focus in his trial. But he did have lots of connections, he has been described as controlling, and Courtney Love did fall off the map conveniently after she briefly mentioned the notion of being invited to his hotel room. None of that is proof though.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 10:56 PM
2

How would they know if he’s a model or rich from a picture of his dick?
/r/MensRights12/02/20 08:31 AM
0

I just think it’s not the way an adult should behave. There are literally 11 year olds that show women their interest in more sophisticated ways than “let me show you my dick”.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 08:37 PM
1

I never thought of that before, makes sense. Still I don’t understand why any man who has women in his life would do do this. They universally complain about men doing this stuff.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 08:32 PM
2

Where? Couldn’t find anything about this by searching.
/r/MensRights04/02/20 12:13 PM
1

I found that a little suspect too. But there are some crazy people out there.
/r/MensRights03/02/20 12:54 PM
4

Yes, there is such a terrible shortage of beautiful women in hollywood action movies, I haven't seen one in years.
/r/MensRights02/02/20 09:16 PM
2

Wondering what impact this will have on the court case. If Depp wins, does he have a shot at at actually getting $50m from her?
/r/MensRights02/02/20 09:00 PM
3

Not if it was repeatedly after he asked her to stop.
/r/MensRights01/02/20 10:20 PM
2

In my younger days I got numbers from several women while they work working. I went on dates with them and had a great relationship with one. You can hit on women anywhere. Just be smart enough to tell the difference between them being polite and them actually flirting with you. Men are constantly told to leave women alone in every possible scenario till they end up with no options whatsoever. It’s ridiculous.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 01:18 AM
2

So in order to get to a decent guy she has to sort through tons of these guys continuously. It gets very tiring after a while. It has nothing to do with her attractiveness, these guys would fuck anything. Boohoo, it gets tiring. The fact is even if they have to sort through tons of weirdos, these women so much choice, it's almost inevitable they will find someone they like. I would LOVE to be a woman and sit there going through the lists of people I don't want to fuck. Way better than looking at…
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:19 AM
1

Did she comment on taking her clothes off earlier in the conversation?
/r/MensRights28/01/20 12:07 AM
3

I got accused of trying to date rape two women because I was buying shots for myself and two 'younger girls' in a bar. One of them was 5 years older than me (and also my girlfriend), the other one was a literal grandmother.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 11:49 PM
1

Errr yes they do experience these things, certainly in the UK. White people not allowed to apply for junior scriptwriter role NHS racial equality boss fired for racist discrimination against white colleague Labour party excludes straight white men from equality conference Cheshire Police: Man rejected from job for being white and straight, tribunal finds. British police bans white men from recruitment events These are just a few examples, these things are happening all the time. And straight whi…
/r/MensRights25/01/20 04:52 PM
2

And the guy responding who has "(he,him)" as part of his name on Linkedin. Jesus how desperate for approval are people.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 12:26 PM
2

People can be from diverse backgrounds regardless of their skin colour or sex. But to people like you skin colour and sex are the only things that define people.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 01:26 AM
10

I see weird feminist graffiti all the time here in Barcelona. I saw some recently that said 'sex without love is violence'. Not explicitly feminist, but I bet my ass it wasn't a guy that wrote it.
/r/MensRights20/01/20 09:17 PM
7

I like this guy more every time I hear something about him.
/r/MensRights20/01/20 09:15 PM
0

Mate you literally posted complaining about how feminists judge men for the women they choose, and you linked to an article about men going out with fat women. The context of the discussion is male/female relationships so how would I know you're gay unless you explicitly say it? You must have some serious issues to be this angry, dude.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 11:44 PM
1

Because most men are straight and OP's post was about men and the women they choose, dumbass.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 11:15 PM
0

Sure dude, you have deflowered 100 virgins. Why are you thinking about other dudes’ dicks when you’re having sex? (Don’t worry, you don’t need to actually answer that).
/r/MensRights18/01/20 10:18 PM
1

Can't say I have an interest in virgins, myself. I'd rather fuck someone who knows what they are doing in bed.
/r/MensRights18/01/20 04:00 PM
0

Dude, going 'herp derp women are bad' is not helping anything and it makes people think MRA people are just women-haters. Stereotyping helps nobody, if you think it does you need to grow up.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 01:26 PM
1

What has that got to do with women not wanting men to ask for consent? Shouldn’t we men actually be happy about that?
/r/MensRights15/01/20 01:32 AM
0

I’m not white knighting. I’m saying we should be better than the people that make stupid generalisations about men. I imagine you wouldn’t like it if someone accused you of being a wolf-whistler or a rapist because ‘men do these things’. If you give a shit about men’s rights, try not to make us all look like 12 year olds.
/r/MensRights15/01/20 01:29 AM
2

The idea of 'privilege' is an oxymoron. As soon as you declare someone 'privileged' you have license to treat them worse on others, therefore making them not privileged.
/r/MensRights14/01/20 03:02 PM
-3

Eh? Dunno what you're on about. My point is the women who don't want men to ask for consent aren't the same people as the ones who do. Lumping them all together is playing the same game as people who lump all men together. Be better.
/r/MensRights14/01/20 02:52 PM
14

Treating women as if they are one single entity is retarded. Don't play the group identity game.
/r/MensRights14/01/20 11:17 AM
1

What are you basing this on, exactly?
/r/MensRights12/01/20 05:23 PM
2

How do you propose kids "get good enough" if they're not even allowed to play? Why is not having feelings hurt, the most important thing to you? Children are actually very fragile. At a young age experiencing a lot of negative emotion can be very damaging for them because they don't have the capacity to deal with it logically. The kid can grow up thinking they're "not good enough" in general. But I know what you're saying, you can't protect kids from every little thing either.
/r/MensRights12/01/20 12:38 PM
2

Here in the uk were very obsessive over football, and if you’re a young boy, you basically have to like it to even be considered Male. Yeah, that's one thing that always annoyed me about growing up here. The questions is never "do you like football?" it's "what team do you support?" Then people look at you funny when you say you don't like football. But as you grow up it's not that hard to avoid those people. Anyway, I don't think this is really about competitiveness. It's about people not being…
/r/MensRights12/01/20 12:35 PM
2

I agree red flags should be taken seriously, but this is ONE thing on what sounds like a first date.
/r/MensRights11/01/20 04:44 PM
0

I agree it was a little selfish, but I think you went a bit too far dumping her over one thing. You're right, some of the comments you received were nuts, e.g: I'm 100% down for it. Giving me a chance to show my worth as a protector/provider in the relationship? Hell yeah. "I can't wait to be a walking wallet for someone!"
/r/MensRights11/01/20 11:38 AM
4

I think you're kinda missing the point. Of course everybody is free to date or reject whoever they want, nobody is saying men are entitled to date people. I think OP's point is that many men have to go through hundreds or thousands of rejections in their lifetimes, often very brutal ones. But they're not really even supposed to talk about how difficult that is - they're expected to just 'be resilient' as you allude to. But women have relatively fewer rejections (unless they are fairly ugly) and …
/r/MensRights10/01/20 01:15 PM
1

"We're paid the same". Schofield couldn't wait to get that out there, even though he's like 20 years older than the woman. Why the fuck are they on the same pay? He's been on mainstream TV since I was a kid.
/r/MensRights09/01/20 10:06 PM
2

But it's mostly white people complaining about it, I'm sure.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 08:58 PM
2

Well unfortunately you either apologise or you don’t work again. Tbh that probably wouldn't happen though. AFAIK nobody has ever had the Louis CK treatment for saying that men experience sexism. And Harrington is way too big a star to lose his job over that. If he said something racist, sure.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 07:33 PM
1

Consider they are probably right. No group is uniform.
/r/MensRights04/01/20 12:39 PM
2

We do live in an oppressive system, and we need to work together to fix it. It is mostly the wealthy oppressing the rest. Both genders oppress and both genders are oppressed all in very different ways. I want to understand how I can help men. I know from experience that most men will support me as a woman because it is their nature to protect and provide for women. I just want to be as useful to them as they are to me. I think perhaps this has to do with children and the care women provide them.…
/r/MensRights04/01/20 01:29 AM
2

Unfortunately it may an evolved trait, so perhaps we're swimming upstream trying to correct it. But I think trying to dispel the notion that we live in an oppressive patriarchy would be a good place to start.
/r/MensRights04/01/20 12:37 AM
3

This appears to refer to the studies referenced: https://malepsychology.org.uk/2019/06/15/its-easier-to-blame-men-than-to-see-men-as-victims/
/r/MensRights03/01/20 11:59 PM
3

If you were actually bothered about learning something, you would look in the comments and find it.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 11:51 PM
3

No, I said the studies posted 'here'. On r/mensrights.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 11:45 PM
2

No I didn't. If you're gonna criticise someone else's english language skills, you should learn what a comma means.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 11:40 PM
3

Literally the top post in the sub now is a study mate.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 11:36 PM
4

Are you suggesting we’ve become a matriarchy and no one noticed? In an absolute sense? No. Life isn't that simple. But you could make a far stronger argument for a matriarchy than you could for a patriarchy. I suggest you go back to your own post that started this thread, and start reading some of the studies that get posted here.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 11:10 PM
3

Wealthy, powerful, influential people are predominantly men so it should be easy to get them to care about issues that face them too. Ok, but they don't. Now what? Fact is you can make all these irrelevant claims about the elite, but they are like 00.000001% of the population. And it's a very simplistic way to look a the world. Women have all the social power. They also make the majority of the spending decisions and are close to overtaking men in terms of actually owning more capital.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 10:31 PM
5

Now I don't know what you're talking about. Who the hell cares what wealthy powerful people are like? How is it relevant to the greater discussion about men and men's rights?
/r/MensRights03/01/20 10:17 PM
5

We are talking about two aspects of the world: No one cares about men all the wealthiest and most powerful people in the world are men You're saying both of these things can't be true, like they contradict each other somehow. I'm saying neither of these things affect the other. Whether people are wealthy or powerful is not affected by whether people care about their 'demographic'.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 10:09 PM
3

You just repeated the same statement with slightly more advanced language. How can you complain that no one cares about you when all the wealthiest and most powerful people in the world are in the same demographic category as you? I didn't ague that nobody cares about men. But both of those things are unrelated.
/r/MensRights03/01/20 09:52 PM
5

Men are still the leaders in every area of society. They outnumber women in positions of power everywhere. Such a weak, illogical argument. Most of us are not in positions of power. How do I and every other normal guy benefit from these powerful men? Am I supposed to be getting a cheque from them every month that I don't know about?
/r/MensRights03/01/20 09:45 PM
1

What does that have to do with the question we were talking about?
/r/MensRights30/12/19 05:11 PM
1

It doesn't matter where it's from or whether it's 'native' or not. The point is that's it's happening.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 08:41 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/12/19 08:09 PM
2

So? The question was whether there is non-trivial sexism against women, and there is.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 08:09 PM
2

My ISP is blocking access for some reason :/
/r/MensRights29/12/19 07:40 PM
5

Post now deleted, can anyone give me the gist? Curious as someone who lives in Spain.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 02:59 PM
1

That's not true, even in the west we have pretty serious sexism against women e.g honour killings when muslim women don't want to get married. It's not common but it happens.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 10:58 PM
0

Point to where you said it or GTFO. (Or you know, just calm down and make reasonable posts. People are open to debate here)
/r/MensRights28/12/19 09:10 PM
0

You didn't say that, here's your post: Yeah, the Ministry of Justice, that great gender studies department. Fucking liar. Also love the way you dumbasses think you are being discriminated against on the basis of gender, yet also think that examining the way different genders are treated is terrorism. Have fun rolling around in your ignorance like pigs in shit.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 08:38 PM
52

That's crazy. Keep us updated.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 07:30 PM
0

Yeah, the Ministry of Justice, that great gender studies department He didn't claim it was a gender studies department. Please tell us which organisation is a better source of UK statistics around crime than the MoJ.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 07:29 PM
1

I actually think she is right to be upset. Give your wife a present and not even wrap it? Sounds like she just wants to take part in the fun of it
/r/MensRights28/12/19 01:22 PM
4

On tope of this the BBC lists jobs that white people can't apply for.
/r/MensRights25/12/19 01:34 PM
1

The BBC isn't giving its own opinion here though. It's reporting what others are saying.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 02:55 PM
26

Not true that it's ALL. Also that argument really works if you judge everyone on their group identity. People are individuals and most individuals do not have 'power'. Edit: Nice job editing your post, pussy.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 02:52 PM
8

I recently moved from a large city to a relatively small one. Living in the small city, it's so much easier for me to have a social life - it's no hassle when friends are only 15 minutes away. Since living here I have been able to make new guy friends and it has been amazing. It has made me a lot happier as a person. I didn't realise how badly that part of my life had been missing for years.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 12:37 PM
3

I think it's the fact that getting married and having children is such a huge risk. If you marry the wrong person, good chance you get a divorce and they take you to the cleaners. You end up sleeping on a futon at 50 with literally not enough working years in your life left to build up what you lost.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 11:50 AM
1

Interesting, thanks for sharing. Though I don’t see it backing up the claims about specific MPs mentioned above.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 10:09 PM
1

Where is the bit about it being illegal to criticise feminists? Honestly people seem to be just making stuff up.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 02:54 PM
13

Anecdotal but I work with various departments at Microsoft (as an outside contractor) and they're all women anyway.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:37 AM
1

Yeah, I’m no lawyer but you’re probably right there. He could have walked away. He also could have restrained her without hitting her. I don’t understand just tanking 10 blows to the face without doing anything.
/r/MensRights28/11/19 11:14 AM
3

I agree, it doesn't look good. But I don't know how a jury could see this video and not think she is committing a serious assault on the guy.
/r/MensRights28/11/19 10:56 AM
4

Mental.
/r/MensRights28/11/19 12:38 AM
1

Yawn, more name-calling. You're done, GTFO.
/r/MensRights23/11/19 12:21 PM
1

At least I’m making points - you’ve gone back to just saying ‘shut up’ in a pointlessly wordy way. You might wanna take your own advice mate, spare us your attempts at bullying and silencing. Fuck off to twitter or something.
/r/MensRights22/11/19 08:57 PM
2

I don't think the list is some big deal, it's not like you made a list of the 5 ugliest girls. You gave 5 girls a compliment, basically.
/r/MensRights22/11/19 11:55 AM
1

at the people actually affected by the matters at hand Oh, is that you? Suddenly all your ranting is starting to make sense. You don't get to silence me or anybody else just because you don't like our opinions. If you're that easily upset, you might wanna stay off the internet.
/r/MensRights22/11/19 10:20 AM
1

Well, here’s the thing about having an ‘argument’. Without one, all you’re doing is calling people nasty names because they don’t agree when you. It’s not convincing; if anything it makes you look like an idiot. Back to the subject: Personally I have no problem calling a trans woman “she” or whatever. But I’m not gonna deny reality just cos you call me names.
/r/MensRights22/11/19 12:54 AM
1

You've written reams and reams of crap without a single argument as to why men with a cock should be called women. Saying "it's hateful" is not an argument. Calling people names is not an argument. Saying trans people are vulnerable is not an argument. Grow up and be better. And I know this sub is about recognizing the few ways that society does victimize men, but in general, men have run the world and it is assumed that men will continue to, if you consider who is in the vast majority of positi…
/r/MensRights21/11/19 11:33 AM
2

Ironically that's quite a bigoted, hateful comment
/r/MensRights20/11/19 08:56 AM
8

Google has something up today. Not sure if it's related to IMD or not.
/r/MensRights19/11/19 09:48 AM
6

Thanks, I'll be sharing this. This needs to be edited though, the mistakes are confusing. 3,4 times more likely?
/r/MensRights18/11/19 03:53 PM
1

I've seen this before and it's interesting. It's in a very specific context though.
/r/MensRights18/11/19 10:45 AM
2

It's not as simple as that, female sex drive is influenced by other hormones too e.g progesterone. My girlfriend has a higher sex drive than me, pretty sure she doesn't have more testosterone than me.
/r/MensRights17/11/19 06:53 PM
0

Hmm, not sure I buy that, I think women have similar sexual urges to men, they just manifest differently. As for dating sites stats, I'm not sure that's conclusive either. Women seem to vary in their dating behaviour depending on the context (I expect men do too). For example studies have found that women are less choosy in speed-dating scenarios when there are more women than men.
/r/MensRights17/11/19 04:00 PM
0

What are you basing that on? (I'm just curious. Even if true, it doesn't change what I said above.)
/r/MensRights17/11/19 03:24 PM
-2

This is such a reddit thing to say. There are plenty of unattractive guys who find partners, and plenty of less than attractive women who struggle.
/r/MensRights17/11/19 12:36 PM
1

Who are you referring to? Your use of 'they' is well confusing.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 09:01 PM
3

Why? It’s just emasculating a gay guy for no reason. Straight men are subject to the same thing: if we’re not stereotypically male in our sexual exploits we’re ‘not real men’. I’m surprised/disappointed that pro-mens rights people are supportive of this joke.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 06:26 PM
1

Hmm, some pretty concerning stuff in there, but I don’t see anything specifically damning Labour in the way you say. (I’m still not voting for them, in fact I see nobody worth voting for in this election)
/r/MensRights16/11/19 06:17 PM
1

You specifically claimed that they are trying to make it illegal to criticise feminists. I would just like to see something backing that up 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights16/11/19 11:18 AM
1

“You know, as an actor I should be allowed to play any person, or any tree, or any animal because that is my job and the requirements of my job,” she told As If magazine earlier this year. I agree with her on this. The backlash over her playing a trans person was PC bullshit. "I think society would be more connected if we just allowed others to have their own feelings and not expect everyone to feel the way we do,” she said. I like this broad.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 09:12 PM
1

Hmm, your first link doesn't work and the second link doesn't seem to mention anything about feminism? (I haven't read the whole thing, just did a ctrl-F search)
/r/MensRights15/11/19 06:23 PM
1

Jess Phillips and Harriet Harmen are spectacularly revolting specimens (they are currently trying to smuggle the policy of making it illegal to criticise feminists into the Labour manifesto) Where can I read more about this?
/r/MensRights15/11/19 11:20 AM
1

In a dazzlingly diverse country like ours, politicians shouldn’t all look the same. Fucking hell, we are going backwards. A party literally wants to base its MPS on how they look. My country is fucked.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 11:19 AM
1

Just don't go to clubs, nothing good happens there.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 11:14 AM
1

This whole ridiculous thing about closing the gender pay gap can only be resolved in two ways: Paying women vastly more than men Prevent women from taking career breaks to have children, or working in less profitable industries like teaching and care work etc
/r/MensRights15/11/19 12:05 AM
2

You are a pushover of the highest order my friend.
/r/MensRights14/11/19 11:51 PM
1

https://www.theguardian.com/money/2015/aug/29/women-in-20s-earn-more-men-same-age-study-finds thanks!
/r/MensRights14/11/19 02:43 PM
1

You got a source though?
/r/MensRights14/11/19 12:12 PM
1

There is only a pay gap because women choose to spend more time off work to see family/their kids/otherwise (not that that is a bad decision but it is a largely popular decision) Do you have a source for this in the UK? I've seen US analyses but last time I tried to find a UK one, no joy.
/r/MensRights14/11/19 02:00 AM
3

Funnily enough one girl in question who I remember saying that used to squirt like fucking nobody's business. Hardly normal!
/r/MensRights13/11/19 07:29 PM
14

Yeah. Personally I don't think it makes a difference how many people they fuck, it's just genetics.
/r/MensRights13/11/19 06:32 PM
19

I've still had women in the UK tell me being uncut is 'weird'. My penis being unmutilated is weird? Okay...
/r/MensRights13/11/19 06:29 PM
14

But then you can argue that men have even less rights on those fronts. Men don't have any say on whether they want a child or not after the woman becomes pregnant.
/r/MensRights13/11/19 10:33 AM
13

Thing is, this kinda shit happens all the time in normal life. People touch people without thinking about it. Yes, it's annoying and often inappropriate, but it's usually done without malicious intent. It's not sexual assault.
/r/MensRights12/11/19 12:19 PM
22

You sound like a good woman, glad you're posting here. (Several months though? Dang )
/r/MensRights11/11/19 04:29 PM
1

kind of feel like a white human complaining about injustice to a non-white human, especially in the south is a bit like bitching to a Native American human about your recent eviction/foreclosure and expecting them to agree that you've got it worse than they do. If the Native American has not had to deal with an eviction/foreclosure, than the non-white has indeed got it worse. Why is this so hard for people to understand? Individual experiences are the only ones that matter, whatever your ancesto…
/r/MensRights10/11/19 11:34 PM
2

It's not about appeasing feminists. It's about showing reasonable people that r/mensrights is not the boogieman it is made out to be.
/r/MensRights10/11/19 11:06 PM
-2

I believe you, but the world is already out to get r/mensrights so why not prove them wrong?
/r/MensRights10/11/19 10:57 PM
1

Wow. Do you have a source for this?
/r/MensRights10/11/19 10:45 PM
5

Hmm. Would love to hear a mod's response. The sub is great for allowing people to argue and it would be a shame to forbid views that aren't popular here.
/r/MensRights10/11/19 10:16 PM
8

Looks like she has removed the tweet. I suggest people submit this screenshot to twitter and request that she be removed for inciting violence.
/r/MensRights10/11/19 10:01 PM
1

Williams is great.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 01:19 PM
3

Sounds like he is in a good position to negotiate though.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 01:17 PM
2

A bus stop is a pretty good place to chat to someone. It’s day time so there are other people around. It being day usually means there are no drink or drugs involved, plus no risk of drink spiking etc. There is no music there, so you can actually hear each other. You’re seeing someone in daylight, as opposed to semi-darkness or in some carefully chosen photo, so you see what they actually look like. All things considered, it’s a very safe environment that is conducive to having a normal conversa…
/r/MensRights09/11/19 12:45 PM
1

Does it? I thought I was talking on an Internet forum while in an airport, but apparently I’m devouring women.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 12:11 PM
2

Actually I’m sitting in an airport. Wtf are you on about
/r/MensRights09/11/19 09:24 AM
2

I literally have no idea what you just said
/r/MensRights09/11/19 09:08 AM
3

A bunch of cells is not a child.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 09:05 AM
5

It’s bad social etiquette, but that still doesn’t make it sexual harassment. That’s the point.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 07:29 AM
2

Why 5 years specifically?!
/r/MensRights09/11/19 07:27 AM
6

“Only use approaches that put you at a massive disadvantage”. Great advice.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 07:25 AM
11

You could make the same comparison with muslims too. People in the UK freak the fuck out if anyone generalises about them. But for some reason it's perfectly acceptable to do the same about men.
/r/MensRights08/11/19 11:48 AM
3

Yeah, my sister is the same. Has no clue about what's actually going on in and the world and won't listen to anybody. She works in HR and once said to me "I would never pay a man more than a woman". FFS.
/r/MensRights07/11/19 09:51 AM
2

Refreshing to see that everyone in the comments (in the original post) is trashing the article.
/r/MensRights02/11/19 02:41 PM
9

My social experiment would be very simple. For one week we would plaster billboards across the country with slogans screaming: Australia says no to violence against men and children. Other posters would feature graphic pictures of women beating and at times killing their children. The girls in every school would be told they must respect all boys and demonstrate this through their words and gestures whenever they interacted with a male. There would be no such demand on boys to return this respec…
/r/MensRights01/11/19 02:49 PM
3

I don't agree with killing children either, but yeah if it's just a collection of cells, I don't see the problem.
/r/MensRights31/10/19 06:56 PM
1

Reproductive rights: Seriously, yall just want an abortion? I know this is is a difficult issue, but IMO feminists are right about abortions. Birth control is not fool-proof and accidents happen. People do not always have control over their urges and some will inevitably have unprotected sex. There is no reason to be against abortions, perhaps unless you are religious (in which case you should probably be against condoms too).
/r/MensRights31/10/19 06:48 PM
49

What kinda stuff were they posting?
/r/MensRights31/10/19 06:44 PM
2

I probably should have said they aren't 'officially' communist!! By the way, a point to make about the Labour party, they have very much abandoned the white working class in this country in favour of social justice pandering and being anti-Brexit. Totally agreed there and it's another thing I am very pissed off about. Although Labour have not been anti-brexit enough IMO. Proper fence-sitters. At the same time, many people (understandable) dislike the conservatives. I wouldn't vote for them eithe…
/r/MensRights31/10/19 05:59 PM
6

They are left-leaning, but not communist. They are our 2nd biggest party and the main opposition to the conservatives (who are currently in power).
/r/MensRights31/10/19 04:53 PM
20

Another reason I will never vote labour.
/r/MensRights31/10/19 03:58 PM
23

Yeah. There are clubs in London that will not let you in if you don't have women with you.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 11:07 AM
3

I mean the fact that someone wrote a post primarily about women in a forum for men says it all. It is a subreddit for male feminists. Most men understand the boundaries of rape and consent very well. Yes there are men that don't. But the majority of men are not rapists, we don't need to be brow-beaten about it by other men it. It's not helpful to men, it's undermining and patronising. So fuck r/menslib.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 10:53 AM
3

Fucking crazy isn't it.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 02:16 AM
13

I already got banned from /r/askmenover30 for posting in this sub.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 04:55 PM
1

Does it? IMO people expect you to be like that, over a certain age anyway.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 09:17 AM
4

I issued an apology explaining why. I didn't see anything wrong in your original post. You're just allowing yourself to be brow-beaten for making a perfectly reasonable point. It's nice that you came out wanting to support men. But really you've just shown that we're all alone in this.
/r/MensRights28/10/19 10:38 PM
1

"You are" and "you're" mean the same thing. The irony in you not knowing that.
/r/MensRights28/10/19 09:52 PM
1

So... In other words it was successful. Not really, my girlfriend liked my appearance and approached me cos of that. And other than that, we just get on. She was never particularly bothered about my interests or ability to speak other languages.
/r/MensRights28/10/19 09:46 PM
-1

Well, you specifically said 'your passion for your interests plus your willingness to walk away from a toxic situation, is really attractive to the right kind of women'. If that isn't a 'formula' I don't know what is.
/r/MensRights28/10/19 09:43 PM
0

I speak Spanish well, but it's never made anyone attracted to me. But I do live in Spain so it's probably not that exciting to anyone. Same with playing guitar, everyone seems to think it makes you some chick magnet. But even when I was playing to 1000s of people, it never made any attracted to me. The girls who were attracted to me were the ones I approached and was able to flirt with. Obviously, I can only speak for my own experiences. If that stuff helps you, good for you.
/r/MensRights28/10/19 09:41 PM
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learn a new language, hit the gym, work on your finances. Learn to walk away when anyone treats your poorly. What you'll often find is that in pursuing your own interests, you attract women to you As someone who has done all the above pretty successfully, for my own goals, I don't find that to be true. Nobody gives a shit if I speak another language or I can spend all day talking about my nerdy hobbies. I expect they might give a shit if I did it while driving a ferrari though. I have a great gi…
/r/MensRights28/10/19 11:24 AM
1

I hate that I’m held accountable for making plans and being told to be the initiator in every situation. I’m suppose to support a woman as she sits and claims she’s independent. I’m expected to do everything in my power to make sure she is the happiest, her life is exciting, and go above and beyond for anything she asks. I mean a lot of these girls are told that they are the most special and unique person in the world. There are women out there who are nothing like that. You might have to look a…
/r/MensRights28/10/19 09:34 AM
1

"Can I show you some things that will give you a more complete picture of the situation?" Something like that.
/r/MensRights26/10/19 07:40 PM
1

I asked if I could show her why she was wrong To be honest, that is not a great way to start a discussion. Nobody likes to be told they are wrong. Plus, studies show that being told they are wrong makes people more sure of their beliefs. That said, you probably wouldn't have got a different result here, even if you were more tactful.
/r/MensRights26/10/19 01:52 PM
5

I don't get it either, he seems a very mild-mannered guy who is generally very positive. He has opinions some people wouldn't agree with but nothing particularly extreme. But at the same time, he is saying things that aren't politically correct, particularly when it comes to identity politics. You aren't supposed to say that the wage gap is a lie. You aren't supposed to say that white people shouldn't be punished for the sins of their ancestors. He's being bold enough to stand up against common …
/r/MensRights24/10/19 08:34 AM
0

I agree with you. I don't understand why this was posted here.
/r/MensRights23/10/19 04:40 PM
222

‘I have no proof I am innocent’ Sadly, that’s probably why.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 01:00 PM
8

Meh, who cares. Shows by idiots, for idiots.
/r/MensRights18/10/19 01:02 AM
5

Why?
/r/MensRights15/10/19 10:29 PM
2

And when the men and women are equally qualified, who do you think has a better chance of getting the job?
/r/MensRights15/10/19 10:29 PM
3

"She found that, when a man and a woman had exactly the same credentials, universities still showed a 2:1 preference for hiring the woman. Why is it worthless?
/r/MensRights15/10/19 10:01 PM
3

So let me get this straight: Men being moronic with their money is a woman's power? Lol. Yes, exactly. That is the power of pussy, sadly. https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/leadership-and-political-participation/facts-and-figures Don't really know what your point is here? What. You want men to be women? Okay. No. But you're effectively saying women are born being valuable, men are not. That is a difference in power. Like i said it doesn't matter. But it does matter if we are talking about the…
/r/MensRights15/10/19 09:29 PM
4

Monetary power is granted to women by men, by either marriage or divorce.Hell i've lost count of the number of times seen guys in budding relationships emptying their wallets for their new-ish girlfriend. Right. And by and large, that is a power women have that men don't. Men are expected to pay. Nor do all men go to war Nor are all men politicians - a miniscule amount are, in fact. Women don't have to, to the degree we do is because they were already born with what they needed to contribute wit…
/r/MensRights15/10/19 08:51 PM
5

Political Power:Men. There's more men in politics, I won't argue with that. But more women actually vote, at least in the US, which counts for something. Monetary power: Men. In the US, women apparently make 85% of the consumer spending decisions, and own 60% of the wealth. It's predicted that 2/3 of the US consumer wealth will be owned by women in the next decade. Source Military Power: Men. More men are in the military, sure. But then this is perhaps offset by the fact that it's mostly men who…
/r/MensRights15/10/19 07:51 PM
5

If there is a way ANY individual can abuse the law for their own benefit then that should be fixed, but you seem to be selectively targeting the few that are mostly abused by women and then projecting that onto nearly all women I haven't projected anything onto all women. I pointed out 'powers' that women have, which men do not have. For the record, I think women should be able to have abortions and in most western countries they can. I also noticed a distinct lack of empirical and statistical e…
/r/MensRights15/10/19 05:51 PM
3

Be more specific. What kind of power are you talking about?
/r/MensRights15/10/19 04:35 PM
5

Definitely gonna get downvoted for this, as sticking up for women on a "mens rights" (lol) page is a big no no, but seriously dude you have a warped perspective on reality You're fine to stick up for women, people do that all the time here. But you'll be downvoted for making a post that essentially says "lol, you're wrong, incels" without any substance. Which is what you just did. Even in Countries like the US men have an advantage economically, socially and politically. Dont believe me? Look at…
/r/MensRights15/10/19 04:32 PM
7

Oh and it isn't female dominated.Men still hold the vast majority of the positions of actual power.But for the masses it is female compliant.In general anyway. But the vast majority of men do not hold positions of power. And really it depends what you mean by power. What kind of power? Women make the majority of purchasing decisions so they clearly have some kind of power that men do not.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 04:16 PM
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Women and men mostly talk in a way that if a woman is with you, she is doing you a favour Ach, I hate this one. I'm always being told that I'm 'lucky' to have my girl. Or they say 'don't mess it up, she's a special one'. Well maybe she's lucky to have me?! It's so insulting.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 04:14 PM
1

If they are wearing shorts then it's a bit generous calling them fully clothed. Guys can wear vests in the gyms. Surely that is the male equivalent of a boob tube or bikini top? I honestly don't get what you are complaining about. There is no male option inbetween vest and shirtless.
/r/MensRights13/10/19 03:01 PM
1

Lol, what do you mean have to attend the gym fully clothed? They have to wear trousers?
/r/MensRights13/10/19 02:43 AM
5

Let's give until it a few years after she hits the wall to see how she feels about paying for men. Are there any female dating experts out there that aren't young and attractive?
/r/MensRights08/10/19 03:59 PM
3

I believe when they separated, his ex-wife was extremely sick (she still is now, many years later) and was not capable of doing much parenting. I don't know the ins and outs of what he did legally, but I know he tried both to get custody and council housing and was denied. This is common in the UK mate. Councils do not like taking kids away from the mother. And the threshold for children going into care is quite high and it's seen as a last resort. They are not taking children away from their pa…
/r/MensRights29/09/19 01:18 AM
2

Jesus christ. It is so fucking disgusting that this stuff is happening.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 05:54 PM
3

Nah she was doing some weird shit and that's why they started filming. Look at her facial expressions, she's on drugs.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 05:22 PM
2

I have no idea what you just said
/r/MensRights28/09/19 05:01 PM
2

Wtf is a back shot?
/r/MensRights28/09/19 04:17 PM
23

Fathers get treated like shit in the UK. My cousin is a father of 3 kids and was in a very similar situation. His wife was a heroin addict and had free housing. My cousin was sleeping in his car and the council would not give him a council flat for him and his kids. They literally told him they would be able to help him if he was a junkie or an alcoholic, but as he was healthy they couldn't. Also he had just gotten a job and they actually advised him to turn down the job as they couldn't give hi…
/r/MensRights28/09/19 12:53 PM
3

I agree that the story does not add up. Why/how was this woman in your house? Why did a policeman turn up when you were on the phone? Why did they arrest you when there was a stranger in your house? Something is missing here. But I’m sorry about what happened to you. You should sue everyone involved somehow.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 09:57 PM
1

Black and ethnic minority students Commuter students Female science, engineering, technology, maths and built environment students KU Cares students LGBT+ students Mature students Student parents Students with a disability or learning difference Students who are the first in their family to attend higher education Where does it say this? I don't see it when I click the link.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 12:46 PM
15

it doesn't have the contrived and altogether stupid connotation of mutilation But that's what it is.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 12:00 AM
1

There will always be people that thrive while others don't.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 09:52 PM
1

Assault of one man by another man does not equal men being suppressed I didn't say it was. I think we've been over this already. I cannot say that men are victims in their society when it's men who are the perpetrators. But if it's primarily men who are the victims, it's still a problem that specifically affects men (or boys). And the chances are there are wider, more complex societal reasons than simply 'men are doing it'.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 08:55 PM
1

Well, it's hard to say poor men when it's men abusing children... So if I punch your dad/brother/son, he's not a victim because we're both male? Of course he would be.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 06:58 PM
1

The second, everyone besides the leadership at the fire dept had a problem with doing this. Society in this situation doesn't think it's right. Probably why it's causing such an outrage and why they're reporting on this. It's good that there's outrage, and it's good that this stuff is getting corrected. But the point is, it's happening. And a lot of the time, nobody gives a shit. How many stories are there just like this that never see the light of day? How many men are losing hard-earned career…
/r/MensRights25/09/19 06:25 PM
1

By this point, Turner would have been (3.3×6) 19.8 yards away. Turner was also drunk, so he probably wouldn't have been speedy gonzales.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 06:09 PM
1

Here are some recent examples: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-sues-brewdog-sex-discrimination-16534136 https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1576499/Fire-brigade-discriminating-against-white-men.html https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6868361/Brighton-NHS-racial-equality-boss-sacked-discrimination-against-white-coworker.html Police discriminated against white male in hiring process We have to think of the middle east, asia, south america, and parts of europe. I agree that wome…
/r/MensRights25/09/19 05:30 PM
4

What happened to you was a grave injustice. This is frankly disgusting. Have you talked to your parents about this? You should get them to complain. Don't let this go. There is no argument here: the girl was not even running whereas you were voted in.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 05:01 PM
2

schools didn't want to get called racist for putting in a white kid in that position Why would that be racist if it's a majority white school?
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:59 PM
1

Except society as a whole is like that, or at the very least is becoming that way. Things like this are happening all the time.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:58 PM
4

We are far away from a society where men are supressed. This particular example suggests otherwise. He's literally having his accomplishment torn down because he is the wrong gender (and possibly wrong skin colour).
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:46 PM
3

she seems too good of a person to be this infliexible Or maybe she's not. Maybe you're putting her on a pedestal.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:24 PM
1

First of all it's not like that for all women - you're specifically talking about young, beautiful women. Most women are not in those categories, and do in fact have lots of problems in dating. Lastly, just because it seems easier, it doesn't make it better. Men in general probably get rejected more, but we also have more control over how many women we can meet, and where and when we do it. Men have to work on our confidence, conversational skills and careers, which is going to benefit all areas…
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:23 PM
4

So why is this person your 'dream girl' if they were so inflexible about the whole thing? Your dream girl should be one that is gunning for you too. Not counting you out over trivialities.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 04:01 PM
1

That’s got nothing to do with the point OP was making. Women in the top 100 are an ultra-rich elite, by definition upper-middle class women are a different group.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 02:45 PM
0

This has nothing to do with men's rights.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 10:59 AM
4

Well done on your journey. You sound like you're making a lot of unfair generalisations about people though.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 10:58 AM
34

Anyone seen this movie? I thought Brad Pitt was cool :/
/r/MensRights25/09/19 02:56 AM
48

Sure. This isn't a forum for men. This a forum for men's rights. If you're on board with that, you can join and I think most people here would consider you very welcome.
/r/MensRights25/09/19 02:51 AM
17

Which country?
/r/MensRights24/09/19 12:05 PM
1

How do you know it was the same people?
/r/MensRights24/09/19 11:03 AM
9

It's just a very long-winded way of saying 'white people deserve it'.
/r/MensRights23/09/19 05:21 PM
1

The bag?
/r/MensRights21/09/19 04:58 PM
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Yeah, it's kinda difficult when you're older. Most people at this stage in life are committed to their family, their careers etc. They just don't have the time/energy to commit to friendships.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 12:59 PM
2

Here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgIgytWyo_A
/r/MensRights18/09/19 08:34 AM
7

I just watched a TED talk from a 'reformed' feminist who said the exact same thing - she didn't want her child to grow up thinking she's a victim
/r/MensRights17/09/19 10:38 PM
0

Lol, no they're not. They're based on your own nonsensical conjecture and internet psuedo-science. Your sweeping generalisations are there to see in black and white mate, nobody is misunderstanding anything.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 10:40 PM
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Yes you sound like quite the scientist, I'm sure your theories are totally based on biology. I didn't say majority of women lead people on. I'm saying that majority of people who lead people on are likely women. Those are two very different statements. So you say. But you're quite happy to make sweeping "you're a woman so you're x" statements. Like I said, no different to the man-haters who say "all men are sexist" etc.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 10:26 PM
0

Actually, given my age and relationship/sexual history, I know more about the dating market than the average man does, at the very least. Whereas you sound like you've got most of your opinions about women and the dating market from internet forums. It's not obvious, and it's not self-evident as you are making out. Having multiple people being interested in you and leading people on are two mutually exclusive things. Claiming that the majority of women lead people on is a pretty big claim. If yo…
/r/MensRights15/09/19 09:14 PM
2

Seems like exactly the kind of person someone OP should stay away from.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 08:56 PM
7

Why should he have to ask her to apologise?!
/r/MensRights15/09/19 11:30 AM
12

If she was a good friend she would apologize.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 11:30 AM
0

Obviously if you have a selection of potential partners to chose from you will inevitably lead some on. There's nothing obvious about it. People are perfectly capable of having suitors and not leading them on. And men lead women on too.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 11:12 AM
0

Not really sexual harassment is something both genders do As is leading people on. Leading men on is something a majority of women Gonna need a source on that buddy
/r/MensRights15/09/19 10:52 AM
0

And sexual harassment is something men do.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 10:10 AM
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No it doesn't.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 09:07 AM
0

Because you're making a sweeping statement based on her being a woman. It's the same as saying "but you're a man, so you'll probably sexually harass someone tomorrow".
/r/MensRights14/09/19 10:51 PM
1

I’m still waiting to hear about what ‘abolishing the patriarchy’ actually means. So far it seems to be mainly about calling people incels and giving middle-class women payrises.
/r/MensRights14/09/19 10:44 PM
0

Bu then again you are a woman You sound just like the man-haters.
/r/MensRights14/09/19 06:22 PM
2

Don't talk rubbish. If the counsellor has not touched him or at least talked to him in an aggressively sexual way, there is no sexual harassment happening. No wonder people don't respect this sub.
/r/MensRights14/09/19 11:07 AM
1

tell them you are being sexually harassed at school... by the counselor. Oh yes, fake allegations, great idea. Can't believe people have upvoted this.
/r/MensRights14/09/19 01:19 AM
1

The thing is if people didn't molleycoddle this women, she might actually get off her ass and lose some weight so she is more attractive. But no, she's just going to spend the money on 'lard and wine' as she said.
/r/MensRights13/09/19 10:05 AM
1

Covered literally the next, unquoted, sentence after the one you quoted. I would say a dinner date falls under 'informal/friendly'. It's not formal or unfriendly. A purpose of courtship is for the suitor to demonstrate his ability to support the doe-eyed maiden until she dies tragically in childbirth or is taken by typhoid. Lol ok.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 04:21 AM
48

Honestly, why bother engaging with weirdos like this? They are fundamentally unreasonable and probably borderline mentally ill.
/r/MensRights11/09/19 12:58 PM
3

As a matter of etiquette, whoever formally invites should expect to do the paying unless otherwise stipulated But...why? If a friend asks me out for dinner, I don't expect them to pay for me. Why should a date be different? It's two people who are interested in each other, it shouldn't be like a business meeting.
/r/MensRights11/09/19 09:31 AM
13

Also not in the US and I have never paid for somebody else's dinner on a date. It's just weird to me.
/r/MensRights11/09/19 09:29 AM
5

You telling me that as an individual, or on behalf of all men?
/r/MensRights10/09/19 07:41 PM
7

We've done a hell of a lot worse, and for a hell of a lot longer Speak for yourself. Unless you're a former writer for Married with Children, I don't know which 'we' you are talking about. You certainly don't speak for men as a whole.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 06:21 PM
1

What did Osbourne do?
/r/MensRights10/09/19 06:18 PM
8

How fucked up do you have to be to do such horrible things to a child? That woman should not have kids
/r/MensRights10/09/19 05:42 AM
1

Eh, I'm not saying it can never work, but it's risky. If you don't time the kick right, or if you miss the guy's balls, you're now off balance on one leg, or between his legs. Bad place to be. They don't have to be twice your size for teeps to be way less effective. If someone has 20lb on you, you will struggle. Unless you're both huge guys I guess.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/19 03:49 AM
2

Teeps work great against someone your size who is plodding towards you in that slow muay thai way. I wouldn't want to rely on them against someone bigger than me who's rushing in. I would say the same for the clinch, it's effective but mostly against someone your own size. I have seen people get KO'd by strong hooks in MT. While MT does defend against hooks, it's mainly by either stepping back or blocking with your hand by your ear, like you are answering the telephone. A block is way inferior t…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/19 02:22 AM
1

That's not an answer to the question.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 02:09 AM
2

Until their mates turn up and kick you in the head.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 09:46 PM
1

Eh, I'd still rather having boxing than muay thai in the streetz. Almost nobody is going to throw kicks etc in the street, but 98% of street fight videos are people throwing wild haymakers. Boxing defends that well, muay thai not so much.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 09:45 PM
1

There should be a law against you being allowed to talk.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 09:39 PM
9

So basically everyone is privileged except that one black, transgender, disabled, not-christian, gay immigrant woman who didn't go to school. In which case she wouldn't be at the University of Ontario anyway.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 09:33 PM
1

Let's just get rid of all laws then.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 09:21 PM
2

How is it ridiculous and stupid when people who do get raped rarely report it Because some do report it. Because more people might report it in future. Because it's a fucking hideous crime and anyone who does it deserves punishment. And because decriminalising it would encourage more people to do it. people who do report rape are usually lying? That's most likely not true. Outside of India at least.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 09:13 PM
2

No, decriminalising rape is a fucking ridiculous and stupid idea, plain and simple. They were wrong to ban you for it though.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 09:07 PM
3

Missing from the list: beautiful (or even average looks), tall, intelligent. Seriously though this is fucking ridiculous.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 08:39 PM
3

I mean did you ask them why they didn't offer it to men?
/r/MensRights09/09/19 03:19 PM
2

Did you ask them why?
/r/MensRights09/09/19 01:45 PM
8

This one gets it.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 09:08 AM
19

Why assume that people empathising with this are fat/lazy/uninteresting?
/r/MensRights09/09/19 07:05 AM
70

What a pitiful amount of upvotes for something that actually concerns mens rights.
/r/MensRights08/09/19 11:19 PM
3

Can't wait to see the feminists call Murray, an open homosexual, an incel.
/r/MensRights08/09/19 10:46 AM
1

I refuse to hate myself for what other people have done. Fuck this guy.
/r/MensRights07/09/19 09:48 PM
10

No, MGTOW will ban you for saying anything vaguely in defence of women. Source: was banned.
/r/MensRights07/09/19 06:53 AM
53

Reddit mods are shit tbh.
/r/MensRights07/09/19 12:03 AM
-5

He’ll get a check to live off of. And will it be substantial? If she's making 3x what he does, she will have money to travel the world with, he probably won't.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 10:38 AM
22

She is smart to worry about that. If he doesn't save for retirement, she will be paying for him to live when they are both retired. That's not fair on her.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 10:19 AM
14

Hope more media outlets cover this.
/r/MensRights03/09/19 08:15 PM
11

I would donate.
/r/MensRights03/09/19 08:09 PM
1

I don't get it. What crime are you supposed to have committed?
/r/MensRights03/09/19 01:53 PM
9

It's just ridiculous logic, isn't it. If I hit that dude who plays the Mountain in GoT, he's stronger than me. Does that make it ok? If I hit someone with 15 pound on me, does that make it ok? Of course not. I'd get blasted in the face and everyone who saw it would rightly say it's my own stupid fault.
/r/MensRights02/09/19 06:54 PM
-14

Eh, if he'd really wanted to he could have got out of there pretty quickly. Look at the video at 0:08, there's like 2 metres between them and she was not taking swings at him. I'm still on his side but it's not that hard to walk away from some girl who is screaming at you.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 07:14 PM
-19

just turned around and walked away
/r/MensRights01/09/19 07:05 PM
1

True but if a guy attacked a stronger guy, the same applies and everyone would shrug their shoulders at it.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 06:06 PM
3

According to the international labor organization, the global participation rate of women in the labor force is 49% and 75% for men, That actually seems high for women, considering they are usually the primary caregivers for children.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 06:05 PM
23

He says on twitter they both got 5 days suspension
/r/MensRights01/09/19 05:53 PM
-49

Eh, she was definitely in the wrong, but he could have handled it better than he did, i.e just turned around and walked away fast. Still, anybody with half a brain can see she was harassing/assaulting him and he defended himself.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 05:50 PM
115

If you think about it, the incel thing is pretty sexist. Basically they are arguing (incorrectly) that MRA's are angry with women because they can't get laid. This implies that women are ONLY good for sex because it's the ONLY thing a man could be angry at them about.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 05:40 PM
1

the default for the phone You mean like the SMS messaging system?
/r/MensRights01/09/19 08:50 AM
2

I think it's just the father's way of saying 'he saved others from suffering'. Comparison is a powerful writing tool.
/r/MensRights26/08/19 06:37 AM
1

In my experience of playing in bands for about 2 decades, there are at least 4x the amount of male musicians. It could even be double that. There just aren't many female musicians, and even then, you rarely see any that put the same hard work into it that men do. So there are always going to be all-male bands.
/r/MensRights25/08/19 04:12 PM
153

So being a gentleman is about treating women like they are above tasks that men do?
/r/MensRights25/08/19 04:04 PM
2

I was banned from r/askmenover30 for posting in r/mensrights.
/r/MensRights23/08/19 08:11 PM
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PLEASE go and write about your experiences somewhere. Publish a private blog, a post on linkedin, anything. People need to know this is happening.
/r/MensRights22/08/19 10:13 PM
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Errrrr this teacher was being highly inappropriate. I would complain. She will do it to others.
/r/MensRights21/08/19 09:06 PM
2

He’s right. There are about 4 billion in the world. You’re asking if they are all the same. They are not.
/r/MensRights20/08/19 06:53 PM
2

That's funny, cos I banged a few girls when I was at work and like bottom of the pecking order.
/r/MensRights20/08/19 10:51 AM
7

And I've turned up to a Tinder date to find the girl was 3x the size of what her pictures suggested. If it's fair for her to ask his height, it's fair for him to ask her weight.
/r/MensRights20/08/19 09:21 AM
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Ah, I see what you mean. And I agree. While I think boys are more attracted to certain activities (as are girls), I agree that saying 'you need to do boy things' isn't helpful.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 11:54 AM
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Therapists actually recommend doing something physical to release anger. This is because emotions are something you physically feel, and people tend to get disconnected from them. Hitting a ball or punching a punchbag helps people reconnect. This is why you get people talking about doing "anger work" where they shout at some inanimate object and hit it as part of therapy. It sounds cheesy but it's about learning to deal with anger in a healthy way. I disagree with that the poster said above abou…
/r/MensRights19/08/19 09:11 AM
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So? People know and still use it.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 09:17 PM
5

I have friends who were treated in similar ways by their parents, so this is totally believable to me.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 08:46 PM
5

Absolutely fucking disgusting parenting.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 07:24 PM
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I'm pretty sure she can refuse to do something that will make her look bad, even if she isn't producing the video.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 02:16 PM
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Ha, this is amazing. I think Katy should be innocent until proven guilty, as others have said, but it's interesting that this is happening. People are starting to see that women can be inappropriate to men too. Plus, Perry is just a suspect personality anyway. We already have her on a TV show tricking a guy to kiss her, we already have a music video where she looks at the dick of a guy who is asleep.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 01:34 PM
1

This is a fucking car accident waiting to happen. Seriously. This dude is barely looking at the road.
/r/MensRights16/08/19 10:13 AM
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You suggested that 'it's the language barrier and my flawed english'. You were right and I have tried to show you the difference. I have already said I don't agree with the notion that women in BJJ are eager to beat up men. What do you want from me dude? Jesus.
/r/MensRights15/08/19 12:04 PM
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I was ASKING a question. I was asking IF this is the case. I'm not claiming something. I'm asking a question. Is this a problem in training and competitions? If yes, how often does it occour? Does that problem occour AT ALL? Cool. Then it's just a matter of phrasing. Is it a problem in training if some women have issues with men in general and are outright eager to beat them up? This is the correct phrasing you want. Although it's not really a question you need to ask, any reasonable person woul…
/r/MensRights15/08/19 10:31 AM
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You're getting downvoted because you're asking a leading question. Your question is phrased in a way that suggests 'women have issues with men and want to beat them up' is an accepted fact. In fact, many people probably don't agree with that. As someone who also does BJJ, I don't agree with it either (from my own experience). How do you know these women are eager to beat men up, and not just training BJJ?
/r/MensRights15/08/19 09:46 AM
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Success means different things at different ages Success means different things to different people.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 10:40 PM
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I agree, he is the asshole. As a student you are not 'successful'.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:29 PM
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Well, I don’t live in the US and I could probably make a half-decent case for self defence in my country. I would probably still be fucked though.
/r/MensRights03/08/19 12:15 AM
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I like to think I would too. I probably wouldn't, but still.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 09:29 PM
1

Can anyone copy and paste the text? Can't access in my country.
/r/MensRights02/08/19 08:10 AM
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I just moved to a new city and found there were almost no female therapists (I had previously tried a female and decided I would prefer a male one). It's nobody's fault, but the occupation/field does seem to attract way more women than men.
/r/MensRights31/07/19 07:51 AM
1

Both are bad. People should be free to wear whatever they want, and it's only 'provoking something bad' because these guys don't have any self control. Also people often don't have the choice over what they wear, e.g they have to wear tight clothes for work.
/r/MensRights24/07/19 07:46 AM
1

Why not? Ironically we're here in a Men's Rights forum and you're arguing that men aren't capable of self control.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 08:27 AM
1

If you say so mate, I didn't even bother reading the rest of your rants. You hate women, I get it.
/r/MensRights22/07/19 08:33 PM
1

OK dude. I seriously hope you get the help you need at some point.
/r/MensRights22/07/19 01:09 PM
1

So what. People wear tight clothes for all sorts of reason. If your argument is ‘she asked for it by wearing tight clothing’ then you are basically arguing in favour of sexual harassment and rape - it’s all the same thing, according to your logic. Men following their instincts because their sexual urges were ‘provoked’.
/r/MensRights22/07/19 06:37 AM
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I just watched it again. He walked alongside her for 5 minutes. Speak for yourself because I have never followed anyone down the street - and yes, you are still following them if you are right next to them. Are you seriously defending this behaviour, essentially low-level stalking somebody? You would have no problem with somebody following your sister/girlfriend/mother down the street for 5 minutes, because in your mind they're innocently trying to think of a way to impress her?
/r/MensRights21/07/19 11:24 PM
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That is a paranoid delusion. People wear tight or 'revealing' clothes for all sorts of reasons, everything is not about you.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:42 PM
1

You're equating someone making everyday fashion decisions with somebody publicly aligning themselves with a genocidal facist regime. It's not the same thing.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:12 PM
1

But she didn't hang her tits out, did she. Sure, men are visual creatures. We are also humans, not animals. You wouldn't masturbate in public, despite it being the most natural urge we have after sleeping and eating. A little self control is not a lot to ask. Lol, dressing sexy is harassing people. That's a new one. No wonder MRAs get a bad reputation.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:04 PM
1

But she's not walking down the street with her pussy out, or her tits out, is she.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:02 PM
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Guys are not getting dates this way. There is a big difference between being bold with regards to meeting women, and just shouting random stuff with zero intent. The guys doing this are pussies. None of them make any attempt to actually talk to her. They are just expressing their sexuality in a fruitless, unpleasant way. Nobody owes anybody gratitude for attention they didn't ask for.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 03:01 PM
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No. And I am not one of those people who argue that women should never be careful about dressing sexy. Women need to be aware of the reality of how people can act. But I don't see how this is the equivalent of a Rio favela. Men everywhere like attractive women.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 11:14 AM
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I don't deny it's a reality. But wearing tight clothing is a long, long way off wearing a nazi uniform.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 10:52 AM
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Wearing tight clothing is not "asking for it". What somebody chooses to wear is nobody else's business. What is this nonsense.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 10:50 AM
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I agree, and I have approached many, many women in public myself. But shouting out random shit on the street isn't an approach. It's just verbally waving your dick in somebody's face.
/r/MensRights21/07/19 02:09 AM
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