josh11915 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Parenting plan question		josh11915	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/24 12:59 AM

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2	Anyone else tired of how modern age movies heavily portray the dad or husband as an incompetent idiot? I have found that watching older eastern European and Balkan movies with English subtitles is a nice change.	/r/MensRights	09/08/25 12:13 AM
7	Wife leaving to possibly live in another country. Not to burst your bubble but sounds like there is a third party involved. Go get a hobby, bjj works really well for me and focus hard on work and your future. It’s hard at first but it gets better.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/24 10:57 PM
11	Stbxw graduates uni today Get two hobbies. One very challenging and one relaxing, try to do them as often as possible. I chose bjj and fishing. Bjj made me feel like I was about to die but showed me I could survive while building a community of people I could trust enough not to kill me and fishing allowed me to relax and master a skill that could be so rewarding and I could even cook the fish I caught (I love to cook). It only took me a short time to realize how happy I was without her and gave me the confidence to find…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 05:10 PM
3	The narcissist has brought me to the end of my life. Is this based on a psychological evaluation? If not, how did you come to believe this, why do you believe it and what makes you so confident?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/24 07:45 PM
3	The narcissist has brought me to the end of my life. I’ve been there brother. I get it. Let me be there for you, I’d love to help be apart of your support system. We all need one.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/24 07:27 PM
3	The narcissist has brought me to the end of my life. I sent you a dm, I hope you reply.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/24 07:25 PM
7	The narcissist has brought me to the end of my life. Brother, don’t let her win. Go get a very challenging hobby and a relaxing hobby. I chose bjj for my challenging hobby and fishing for my relaxing hobby. It flipped my life around and took me out of some dark places. If you need help, please dm me and I’ll be there for you in any way possible. Remember, you’re worth more my friend. Lots of people here want to see you in a better place and have ways that they have found happiness and can guide you to a better place.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/24 07:24 PM
2	Parenting plan question I’ll dm you	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/24 02:50 AM
1	Parenting plan question School designation. For purposes of school boundary determination and registration, the address of Parent {name or designation] “Dad” shall be used.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/24 02:14 AM
2	Go work out they say… Ahh okay, understood. I can relate. I don’t like picking up heavy things to set them down so I chose to do jiu jitsu. I enjoy the problem solving aspect and I get a physical work out from it in the process maybe you could enjoy something like this instead. It’s rather humbling too.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/24 02:54 PM
3	Go work out they say… I don’t think he is shaming you, I think he is telling you that you’re right, don’t do it for them, do it for you. I hate the gym too, it’s not about going because you enjoy it, it’s about going to push yourself and to do things that are hard and pushing yourself in a way that is physical instead of mental. But maybe working out isn’t for you and you could find another outlet but most men find satisfaction through physical work, especially when it’s hard. I wish you the best in life going forwar…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/24 02:22 PM
13	My wife Don’t walk, RUN. You’ll be happier without her, she has already left the relationship and is most likely seeing another man already.. she used you, don’t do her any favors.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 03:18 AM
1	Hard day brothers... Maybe boxing would be a good place to start, at the begging you’ll be on the bags a lot. I’m unsure of how moving your legs for kicking would affect your back. Generally speaking, bjj is pretty low impact sport. I had some issues I was worried about but once I got in there I discovered it was a non issue for me. Just remember, tap early and tap often.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 02:36 AM
1	Hard day brothers... I went from a very dark place to feeling like a new man and I have not gone back to that place since. Glad you’ve had similar success 🙏🏼	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 12:56 AM
2	Hard day brothers... I mean, I usually go with a 1:1 bjj to bbbj ratio. Your preference may vary.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 12:36 AM
4	Hard day brothers... I’m going to be harsh for a second, stop feeling bad for yourself and go get into a BJJ, boxing, Muay Thai, MMA, kick boxing or wrestling. Push yourself further than you ever have.. get humbled.. just fight to stay alive on those mats. It’ll change your life. It makes everything else easier.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 12:28 AM
6	Hard day brothers... Get into a hobby. I highly recommended BJJ. The first time a stepped on the mat, all the bad feelings went away. After a few days it was like she didn’t exist and my life improved. I can’t recommend it enough.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 12:24 AM
1	Any men on here who are finally fully healed, but didn’t sufficiently heal for at least 2-3 years after separation / divorce? There is always risk off injury. Just role with people who go easy and explain your injury so the can be more easy on those areas. Tap early, tap often. You’ll survive.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 05:18 PM
1	Any men on here who are finally fully healed, but didn’t sufficiently heal for at least 2-3 years after separation / divorce? Get into a hobby. I took up BJJ. First time in changed my life 🫡	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/23 10:40 PM
2	Finally, Finally done. The last hang over piece of the divorce - 4 1/2 years later. It’s way cooler if you buy your kid something you can both enjoy together 🫡	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/23 12:01 PM
6	She just admitted it You should do it man. You can’t afford not to do it for yourself. Every time I step on those mats, all the problems disappear and all I focus on is staying alive 💪🏼	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/23 03:33 AM
10	She just admitted it Get into an into a physically intense hobby and push yourself to limits you never thought you could. I chose martial arts, BJJ was the hero of my mental health. Good luck, be productive. You’ll survive this one too.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/23 03:28 AM
4	Planning on divorcing my wife... horrified by the fact that I will be single for a long time If you go there and just get with some calm guys that are high level belts and tell them you have to go easy because of your issue, you’ll probably find some great people that will work with you 👍🏼	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/23 01:18 AM
16	Planning on divorcing my wife... horrified by the fact that I will be single for a long time Get a hobby. I took up Brazilian jiu jitsu and it completely changed my life. I stepped on the mat for the first time and it was like the world and all of its complications completely disappeared. I’ve never taken an antidepressant but it’s the best natural one I have ever encountered in my life and and I’d recommend it to anyone, also a great place to build new friendships 🙏🏼 good luck and god speed. You will get through it.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/23 10:10 PM
3	Meeting my ex wife affair partner for the first time... and... Maybe he should say “ah you’re the man she destroyed the family for?”	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 12:01 AM
2	On The Divorce Path I’m going to be a dick in hopes that it will help you to find an express path to fixing your relationship with your wife. You’re a bitch with zero self control.. quit smoking, go to counseling, fix your family. No more excuses.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/23 08:47 PM