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I feel you bro, the reason is always bigotry towards us but all minorities expirience that, many women expirience bigotry too from men they wanted to date that's no reason for them to hate all men. The problem is that they don't treat us like individuals, we shouldn't do the same thing too, that doesn't fix anything.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:56 PM
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First wave feminism is timed at the 20th century.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/25 12:43 PM
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Night and day those two things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/25 11:23 PM
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Let's not forget that in the early days of feminism homophobia was a part of their rhetoric. I am bisexual and i have really been disillusioned by how conservative women can get when it's not about others people prejudice but their own.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/25 04:33 PM
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Pretty much how any draft works, in greece it was and i am not joking a little over 8 euros, heard they are planning to make it 50... yeah.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/25 03:56 PM
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Usually the not being able to get in bed with women predates the misogyny. And like others have said they don't view it as misogyny. After all they see men (who are predatory ) get women acting that way ignoring the fact that those women leave when they come to their senses.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/25 03:52 PM
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Hello Christina i am sorry that you had to see such unpleasant stuff. Like others say a lot of this is in the realm of kink, now are some of these people sexists well yes every such kink has people who use it as an excuse. It's a delicate subject and i am sure it can be shocking from the outside but people get off on taboo things.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 08:47 PM
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You have suffered too much, glad to know you had the strength to leave her and i hope that your siblings will understand one day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/24 04:10 AM
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Sounds about right, i hope the sub stays fine as well. Generally i find that as long as we have common goals it works out but it's not ideal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 04:04 AM
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Really sad about this, damn it's no time for infighting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 05:22 PM
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Before I get into this further, please tell me to which definition you're referring I think this covers it because Red Pill and the related pipeline likes to change definitions of things to confuse people Again do not associate me with that.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 01:38 PM
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I am not into red pill i don't know what makes you think that i have only criticized it in this comments but i also critic a world that makes red pill seem good to so many men who have no other options. Back to our topic womens body are seen as beautiful and sexy mens not as much you can't really argue otherwise. Even straight women say they think women are more naturally beautiful. You are talking about sexual shame which yes women do experience almost as much as men but that's not what i am ta…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 11:25 AM
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Red Pill isn't needed for this. Well of course why would anyone thing that the red pill is needed that's what i am saying. Fix society and you won't have men going to red pill and also no women in no way experience desexualization.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 08:26 AM
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Yeah, i also hate the response of "no you are not listening" like i am actually that's how i offered a solution, but yeah it comes down to Communication like most things.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 07:42 PM
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And red pill will keep doing this until society stops desexualizing men and telling them they are bad for wanting sex etc.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 07:36 PM
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Do not mention problems unless you want solutions. Regarding this, people sometimes want to vent with the end goal been that now someone who they trust understands how they feel. I don't think it's disrespectful for a woman or anyone to expect this from me as long as we have talked about it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 02:50 PM
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Great observation as always, it's funny when they say they fight for men when "fighting" the "patriarchy" but when it comes to actually solving men's problem at best crickets at worst well you showed what happens. By the way everyone what's a good citation for how many men die in war?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 05:25 PM
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I know there is hope i am saying that's not the way. Regarding the part of therapy i do hope it becomes more accessible to men in all ways (meaning less social shame as well). But also with growing concerns that women therapists straggle and fail to understand the problems men have male therapists are also very important. And generally an interest on male mental health in particular.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 03:18 PM
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I am glad you are in a better place in your life your advice tho will not help any red pill men they can and will say she is an exception. I think the more important part would be good male role models.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 12:47 PM
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due to plastics, xenoestrogens, Just wanted to say those are the last reasons if at all. Unpresented levels of anxiety, bad sleep, bad nutrition, lack of competitiveness, lack of exercise are far more to blame.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 04:42 PM
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The one i say of course hehe, people don't think that mass change can happen so you should be the lowest common denominator, but that will force everyone done they are telling you to not have standards because another guy will not. Every time i talk about this with people they say "yes they should have standards but how to convince others" you see people are so disconnected that they don't know they want the same thing. Have a growth mindset ask more of yourself and life but of course not in the…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 02:35 AM
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Well i didn't say now but generally speaking it gets harder and harder to keep bad ideas out.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:59 AM
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Hopefully it will happen.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:56 AM
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Let's start when their young and they don't have too much trauma.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:38 AM
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True prevention is the best medicine as they say. However I don't know how well that would work in a school setting.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:29 AM
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People really need to start teaching young men to have standards and expectations when it comes to women. Also an abundance mindset, there are good people out there.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 02:17 AM
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Makes a bit more sense then.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 06:00 PM
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Oof i feel you, we need more men in education.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 08:44 AM
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Sounds about right.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 07:28 AM
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What's your opinion on the sexual assault stuff?
/r/MensRights05/12/22 07:23 AM
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A french woman recently told me that sexual harassment on schools by teachers and students was rampant. I didn't believe her but i didn't want to argue about it. Edit found the exact Text "I don't know if you know French culture, but it's much more gendered, volent, rpy etc. than British or even American ones. Like Japanese culture in fact, which influenced the French 80s and 90s a lot by the way! Like, we were all s*xually h@rassed at school, by both male students and male teachers, and no one …
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:53 AM
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Yeah same same i think we have the same model Germany has so it's pretty open. Which is good for sex workers but there isn't quite enough done to protect the ones doing it. I am also glad by how gender neutral rape laws are in my country, it's all about non consensual use of genitals and been forced to do sexual acts etc
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:24 AM
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Ogh yeah bro haven't you seen all those articles with women teachers "having sex" with students and men teachers "raping" students. And in general i would like it for sex workers to be able to work in a more safe environment.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:09 AM
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I think that would be the case for everywhere it happens.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 10:03 AM
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I know there is sex tourism there but didn't know under age people might be involved.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 09:57 AM
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Agh i see, well it's still happening, and like i said i will look into it. Thank you for sharing.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 09:54 AM
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Fuck that's horrible, will have my eye out for this.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 09:49 AM
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Why would Nigeria do that, doesn't it benefit their economy? Are minors involved or something?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 09:44 AM
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This is one of your best, the empathy gap is one of our biggest problems to address otherwise people will never care.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 09:36 PM
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Studies have shown that men are 6 times likelier than women to leave a partner who's been diagnosed with cancer. Of course, that's still not most men - but it's a sobering statistic. This is a wrong statistic, here is an article about i think the most well know study on this topic, this is the study and here is an authors' Explanation of the Retraction.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 03:16 PM
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Yeah good point good point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 04:57 PM
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Hmmmmmm nothing specific comes to mind, i will sleep on it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 05:45 AM
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To elaborate a great way to not be threatening is if someone else also took initiative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 05:38 AM
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Well because they are authoritarian and want to control people, men were told to man up and now that means be vulnerable even if most women haven't been socialized to deal with that and will make you regret it, be non threatening but also make all the moves, ask for consent but not with words obviously man up and take all the risks but don't be threatening. It's all fucked, like always.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 05:37 AM
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Yes what i am trying to say is that all the hostility you see is to men who can't respond to the new gender roles, you call it normal male behaviour but they see it as men going against the new role they should have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 05:31 AM
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No but here is what you don't get modern hostility is also about upholding gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 05:27 AM
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Open hostility of men has been done for over 100 years now it's not knew. Probably longer but i don't know history that well before the 1910s.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 05:16 AM
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I think it's because in reality there is nothing really modern about it, it's rebranded traditionalism, things are they way they always were, men were treated bad and still are. Men and women have not experienced anything different there is nothing out of the ordinary with male mistreatment. Throwing men under the bus for the sake of women and children is business as usual. The empathy gap and the women are wonderful effect aren't helping either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 04:58 AM
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Same to you keep reading your badly conducted studies that fit your opinions.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 02:59 PM
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It's not direct nor logical, you use the extremely unscientific words such as imply, reasonable to assume. You are intellectual bankrupt, those people could site research that shows how people react when they are sick, she if everyone reacts the same if some people detaches themselves from others etc. Divorce happens when women are sick i would like for people to study why that happens until then i will not make any assumptions.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 02:50 PM
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I have addressed everyone of your points and also i don't believe that women divorce their husbands , i said it's a possibility that is not clarified. There will be no bias if they just added ogh we asked the people why they divorced here is what they said, we also looked at who filled for divorce. Stop projecting you showed a study that doesn't say it's men and i told you it could just as luckily be something else. If you were honest you would be here saying that divorces happen but we don't kn…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 02:24 PM
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You show me a study and you tell me this study doesn't actually say that men divorce their wifes BUT i will assume it because it supports my opinion, you need to actually learn what objectively means.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 01:55 PM
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Researchers don’t make it the focal point of their study because that would cause their study to be inaccurate Actually knowing who started the divorce would greatly help to accurately see who starts divorces, just my opinion. If you ask a divorced couple who ended the marriage, both of them are likely to say it was the other one to avoid culpability Well that's just straight out of your ass and a false dichotomy, there are other ways to go about it like who files for the divorce and i am sure o…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 04:04 AM
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I mean, you got a cancer diagnosis and you react by ditching your partner, the most important person in your life? I could say the same about men leaving their cancer diagnosed partners, it feels very men are bad and here is what i can use to prove that. Some people feel like burdens to their partners i have seen it happen, it feels extremely disingenuous from the researchers to not make this the focal point of their studies, except if i am missing something here.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 03:27 AM
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This study doesn't actually say that men divorce as much as it says divorce happens can i see one that says men start the divorce?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 03:14 AM
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The fact that this guys is as known as he is shows how much help young men need and how much they are not getting it.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 11:39 PM
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Falling so slow
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 12:06 PM
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I was saying this to a friend the other day, gay men are not seen as real men because they don't serve women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 08:19 PM
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Ogh my god this the cutest thing ever 😍, thank you for everything you do it's really inspiring.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 08:33 PM
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So about the same, i have seen polls that are even closer then this.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 09:48 PM
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She is not referring to anything that exists she seems to be convinced that women in the US are somehow more oppressed than men and when see try's to explain she just talks about racism.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 11:00 PM
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It's more of an excuse they use to talk them out of it.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:58 PM
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You proposed a mechanism for which you provided no example outside of racism.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:56 PM
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For women? how?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:34 PM
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We live in the now you can't look at the past and be angry for the now as if you don't have those rights men don't have rights NOW.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:33 PM
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Not the same, women do have access to their family's wealth and do get benefits of nepotism, you again have to talk about racism which is something i don't argue.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:29 PM
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I LETARLY MENTIONED THE RIGHTS THAT MEN DON'T HAVE YOU JUST SAID SHIT ABOUT HOW PEOPLE SOME TIMES TREAT YOU, not the same as a right.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:24 PM
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You use the word right like your feelings matter and you also had to talk about POC to actually have a point you don't feel safe out? funny men get attacked more how should they feel? They are protected by law your genitals are protected by law still in many places your right to be a parent is protected even if you yourself don't need it anymore. No right to make decisions about your body? you are a joke your problems are of capitalism and racism and to a small extend sexism but you come and say…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:19 PM
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Just because you have good morals doesn't mean that your country doesn't still discriminate against men. You did this to your husband he didn't have a right for it FGM was never as big as MGM but even if it was 25 years and nothing for men so much for men having more rights. What rights to women not have? At this point only one, and that stopped last week and again men don't have it either so equal in a technical way.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 07:01 PM
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How so? Up until a week ago women had federally more rights and now have more in like half the states, if they stop having it they will still have the favorable treatment in courts, you said things are changing but not that much. So no men don't have more rights when talking about children or anything else in that matter. Mgm is still very much legal and practiced in the USA which is another right than men don't have, the draft still exists and don't you dare push the goal post to this you talke…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:52 PM
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Do you live in the USA? Because it sounds like you live there which would make your statement factually inaccurate.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:40 PM
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I do know that it's still legal and will probably remain legal in many states i have met meny meny men that were questioned about vasectomies i am sure it wouldn't be hard to find an example even in reddit. I love how you ignore like half my comments every time. Like men never having the rights that women lost in federal level.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:35 PM
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But women do both of those in many states, you tripping? And let's not forget that men also get the what will your future wife think thing doctors don't care about your husband they use that as a way to talk you out of it .
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:28 PM
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No i think some equality is in order, but too each their own you don't have to support equal rights i see Americans don't like them much anyways.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:23 PM
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On the overall negative side........you've completely lost the trust of half the population How so? Women voted for the people that did this every poll i have seen shows that men and women support this equally how is this a gendered thing?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:20 PM
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Usually the legal ramifications are small. Not from the many many stories i have seen, things are changing but mens right to not father children they don't want is not protected i any state in America where it is in more than half for women.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:19 PM
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It's notoriously difficult for men to get equal or more custody, so much so that a lawyer can say don't even go to court because you are going to lose. Women lost two rights one of which men never had which was the independent choice to be a parent. I live in the civilized world where abortion is still legal and there is default joint custody but i am tired of you Americans not acknowledging those things. EDIT for spelling fuck this language
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 06:13 PM
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There have being countries were there was a vote and women did vote for it so.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 02:29 PM
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I think it's done i really do the mainstream no longer has a hold on what people will believe about this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 02:16 PM
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That's it he has already won.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 01:34 PM
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They carry the same resentment and paranoia into marriage and continue to seek validation from these videos This is very true when the thing that created a belief stops being true for you and even if you know it's not true and you act like it's not true you can still think that it's true. This sounds very weird but pretty much it's that the original belief doesn't stop existing but a new one came to be however the rejection they feel it's still there right next to i have a wife that loves me. Th…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 03:53 PM
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Being a doormat is not nice that is propaganda that you have being given to be more complacent to your corporate overlords so being nice in this way is actually bad for you and also other people.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 03:37 PM
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This is some wild shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/22 04:52 AM
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I see, quite unfortunate that such a topic is used this way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/22 04:43 AM
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How so?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/22 03:52 AM
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Are you going to post this to r/foreskin_restoration ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 06:17 PM
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Ogh true they should do that and see the reaction that people have not only when you are a man but also when you go against the scheduled programing, of which talking about your mistreatment is not part of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/22 06:00 PM
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I can’t help but roll my eyes at all this “Cismen can’t see it, but I can because I was socialized as a woman” Talk. True many many of us see it quite clearly, we just don't talk about it because we know better than to do so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/22 05:45 PM
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Fuck if PragerU is what he views as acceptable news source i think there is a deep problem that you can't really fix. You might have to move on.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 05:06 AM
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It's incredibly difficult talking to you when you can't argue in good faith. I struggle to argue with you as well but not for what i see as bad faith arguments(which by the way i am not making). They are seen as feminine but not weak but you do you. Many men have made a fortune by pretending to be empathetic and humble look at Elon musk for example he pretends to care about the environment and humans. Many men have become president by pretending to care about the working class you sound a bit de…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 03:32 AM
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No it doesn't affect women it's not a problem for them when a man looks down on another man. and femininity is overwhelmingly ascribed the traits society deems unhelpful, immature, etc. Is that so?? Ha i had no idea, so been nurturing is seen as unhelpful and also gracefulness, gentleness, empathy and humility? The more you know i guess.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 03:07 AM
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The fact remains, it's overwhelmingly men who draft men Well like i said not really. Pointing to the fact that some queens did it once, too, is disingenuously comparing a mountain to a molehill. I pointed out that queens did more actually, almost one third more which you have to say must of had a hand in reinforcing this culture of male disposability in modern times. And i am not saying that women are responsible i said to show that men are not responsible either. Even if every war ever was made…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 02:48 AM
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of being seen as a feminine There it is, the lie that you believe, no not at all they were told that men need to be a certain way and should be ok with certain things the same way that women in the 1950s were tolled that they need to be a certain way. When a man wants to act in a normal way but doesn't because he finds it wrong that is self hating behavior and if he is imposing that to other men than he is acting in a misandrist way.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 02:36 AM
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red pill I am not red pill but whatever Also feminist critiquing capitalism should look into egalitarianism. became leaders with patriachial systems that demand men serve in the draft ALREADY IN PLACE And not only they didn't do anything about it but they made sure even more men would not have a say if they live or die.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 02:31 AM
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And what do these anecdotes prove? That women always had a say on war, people always say that war is done by men and bla bla like no war is done by people and people see men as more expendable (now yes that has a base on biology and all that but we are more than that)
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 02:27 AM
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All this is internalized misandry and it should be called that not toxic masculinity i mean no one says toxic femininity when women have toxic beliefs about women, i know you mean well so i will leave it hear. If you think that government agencies not having men's health departments is not misandry but is SOMEHOW misogyny then i will not try to say otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 02:21 AM
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Yeah i am very health continues and i really straggle to find info about male specific stuff, latter i found out this from "thetinmen" page on Instagram and it all made sense.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:51 AM
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Yeah it did a real 180 around 60 years ago. The US national library of medicine has 62 journals focused on women's health and 6 for men. And the list of such things goes on.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:44 AM
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Also i sagest you see the comment i made to this person if you haven't really shows how much more complicated this problem is than just "misogyny".
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:30 AM
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Well they can be against men and women issues it's not one or the other. Also the NIH has an Office for research on women's health, The department of health and human services, the centers for disease control and prevention and the food and drugs administration all three have an office of women's health non of those for government agencies have one of those for men. Is this specific enough for you?
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:27 AM
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Society and the ones in power.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:17 AM
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You are ignoring their point many problems that affect men are ignored, that's not up to debate.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:15 AM
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And they are also not statement i have made.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:09 AM
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No from 1480 to 1913 nations ruled by queens were 27% more likely to go to war, than those ruled by kings. And even in modern times what about Maggie Thatcher, Indira Gandhi and Golda Meir, all powerful Prime Ministers, who went to war. My brethren didn't do as much as you have been led to believe. Men are used as expendable meat shields that is misandry, deal with it.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:08 AM
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Misandry doesn't have the weight of an entire culture behind it Tell that to men that get drafted to die to wars, bad take.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/22 10:58 PM
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Yeah that negative feedback loop is hell on earth it's extremely hard to get out of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/22 08:24 PM
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Hmm i don't know most of this guys i feel could use some therapy they are never as undatable as they think.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/22 07:09 PM
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Are they really that different, most incels i have interacted with undoubtedly has some form of untreated mental health problems either anxiety or an unhealthy ability to interpret reality. I am not saying it's all of them but a lot more than people realise.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/22 10:52 AM
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I think that it's the case for most of perpetually single men that i personally have interacted with both irl and online, now i can't really put myself in in this list because i have had several sexual relationships with men and have even rejected women at points, that being said most of what he says is true about me as well. Of course i can't ignore the experiences of men that i know who still are perpetually single despite not having such anxiety around women. My thoughts are that what Gilmart…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/22 11:58 AM
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You could call it Gaslighting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/22 11:54 PM
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Thank you for the nice words by the way!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/22 10:11 PM
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Where i get really bothered with this is that what i experience is gender-based discrimination and hearing that in reality the hate is to the other gender that doesn't experience this makes me feel that no one actually cares about what we experience as bi men but they just want to further their own agenda.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/22 10:10 PM
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This is one of my biggest frustrations with the bi community they acknowledge that bi men have problems but somehow it must be misogyny or at least also misogyny, like no it's misandry and i am tired of them mental Olympic level gymnastics that they do to come to the conclusion that somehow it's that being feminine i viewed as bad which is why men experience discrimination for liking other men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/22 04:56 PM
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As someone with ADHD i haven't thought about this is in the past. However i have heard quite a few people saying some of what you are saying. The sentiment that "Diagnosis are predominantly given to males based on typically male traits" is quite frowned upon in ADHD communities because it shows a lack of understand of what ADHD is and how it is diagnosed, most "symptoms " deviate greatly from the stereotype of the hyperactive kid. Like i said i haven't thought about this and i do plan to do so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/22 05:13 PM
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Sounds like something written by a man This is the Women-are-wonderful effect , there is no reason a woman wouldn't write this.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 07:28 PM
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I am glad this is the top comment and i hope it stays in the top.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 07:25 PM
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Perfect timing, i have being thinking a lot these days about getting vaccinated, HPV vaccine is free for most women in my country but from what i can tell i belong in the group of men that can get it for free.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/22 05:23 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/22 08:23 PM
3

That's so funny!! Can you link on something talking about this i want to learn more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/22 08:09 PM
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Because when you are used to privilege equality feels like oppression.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/22 07:35 PM
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Agh i did see those comments, it does happen from time to time but know that it doesn't represent the sentiment of most people here. I mentioned it because there is a chance it might be taken down i don't know if it will but some posts are for that reason so i just wanted to say it so you don't think that you are not welcomed here or anything like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/22 03:22 AM
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Yeah i don't know why you need to mention provoking it's just that this sub is for more high quality posts that's all i am saying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/22 03:10 AM
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Yeah that's cool i do mean that i just don't know if this is the right sub for that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/22 03:06 AM
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I think this post might be considered a bit low effort then.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/22 02:50 AM
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Yeah i get that i just want specifics
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/22 02:43 AM
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I don't know if this post fits this sub but since you are here let me ask you, what are those points?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/22 02:40 AM
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This is so true the stuff i can get away and say after people know these two things about me is almost socking.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/22 08:09 PM
3

I have tried this in the past, i like this idea.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 05:51 PM
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I frequently read posts in subreddits about dating and relationships and the short answer is yes, they can be as desperate as men. The scary thing is this though, there are a lot of young girls in those subreddits they read about how easy dating is supposed to be for them and then when it's (obviously) not they think that there is something wrong with them.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 07:54 AM
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We should really start teaching that to men and women.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:12 AM
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Financial abortion should be legal end of discussion. ​ if it does effect their financial situation they really had no reason to be having careless sex to be honest. ​ Should i just start saying that to women that can't raise their children?
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 09:11 AM
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Lots of posts asking how to have sex with girls while they have a girlfriend, lots of people encouraging having sex and going after people already in a relationship I am not saying that this doesn't happen i don't see every post in this sub i am just going to say that i haven't seen this at all, although i do see people agreeing with you i am still not convinced.
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:46 PM
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Can't argue with that.
/r/seduction28/09/21 07:33 PM
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If you can get off at home alone then you lose all ambition to go out and meet someone. Is that really bad tho? What i mean is should horniness really be the main motivation to meet people?
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:54 PM
1

Always like thorough thinking.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/21 02:24 AM
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This is descasting and of course with no real evidence just hay they are bad and they are the problem OBVIOUSLY.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/21 05:11 AM
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Obviously Aba & Preach are not the type off people who would care about this"criticisms" i always like how they want to express themselves even when they know that some of their fans won't like it. Although i don't think that is the case here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 12:34 PM
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Because they are actually the source of the problem not just someone benefiting from it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/21 05:03 AM
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Maybe it's because i am bi but i can't see it as a platonic thing, i guess it's because that's how i have categorised it in my head i stragole to separate the two.
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:54 PM
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I don't know, i love music i probably love it more than people (i am not a misanthrope by the way i do like people especially the ones creating music) it hasn't really done much for me i don't see how my interest for music or my knowledge of it's history helps me in any way in this topic, who would it impress?
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:01 PM
1

My question is why him? You mentioned fwb, relationship, etc you don't seem to want anything serious so why try this much about a guy that fucks around but hasn't tried the same with you? Maybe he just views you as someone he can be emotional with it's anyone's guess but it doesn't matter, why do you want anything with him?
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:41 PM
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Exactly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/21 01:39 PM
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No they don't not to this extent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/21 03:47 AM
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As a European i see the American left as conservatives, American as a whole is too conservative for a real left at the moment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/21 03:41 AM
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I was told once by a girl that a guy that fears coming off as a creep is not the type of guy that would act like a creep. Guys that are creepy are oblivious to it, really opened my eyes, try to relax around people remember that you have privacy with in your mind and just see if you can feel comfortable around girls if not then give your self some time it's all about baby steps with this things your mind takes time to change. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/08/21 12:51 PM
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Bro this is such good advice and greatly worded.
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:54 PM
1

Some of the best advice i have seen here.
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:27 PM
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Clearly not the same guys tho men are not a hive mind you know.
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:18 PM
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A lot of men agree with this, i am not one of them.
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:58 PM
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I didn't say they meant that, what i was trying to say was that those rights of passage was a test to see how much are you willing to sacrifice yourself and your body.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/21 09:52 PM
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We are not saying anything different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/21 09:44 PM
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Well like i said men are seen as expendable bodies for societies convenience. That is why pain is used as a test that men should aspire to pass because suffering is what value men had. Go to wars, go hunting, go do the dangerous job. The fact that it's still practiced and it's legal in every country in the world shows that this sentiment hasn't changed. MGM wouldn't be as papular if mens bodies were seen as their own.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/21 05:22 PM
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Every time a parent says it's not my business how they raise their kids (when talking about mutilating their son) I want to beat them to a bloody pulp. This is just another example of how men are seen as expendable bodies for societies convenience. And for anyone that doesn't know in the USA it originally became popularised as a way to prevent boys from musterbating so it's literary an attempt to control mens sexuality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/21 03:30 PM
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But you see that is patriarchy backfiring so that somehow invalidates the over one billion mutilated men around the world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/21 03:22 PM
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Internalised sexism definitely exists but that doesn't mean you have it. Maybe all the bad women in your life made you focus on negative women and you can't focus on the good ones. After all people do focus more on the negative things but that doesn't necessarily mean you have internalised misogyny. Honestly i don't know how you can avoid being called all kinds on names by misandrists just know that this people don't actually listen they have an ideology to defend. They will call you this things…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/21 05:19 PM
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The funny thing is that gay men often don't like us for their own stupid reasons, ogh well keep fighting the good fight.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/21 03:41 AM
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Actually bi men also don't have this freedom, if you are atracted to women you don't have this freedom.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 11:29 AM
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I have some similar experiences as you i am quite big and muscular so people are always surprised to see that i am an anxious nerd. Honestly being queer i knew that i could never be the traditional man but yeah i do hate that we are expected to be 1950s men AND THEN BLAMED FOR IT AS IF IT WAS OUR DOING. It's difficult but i know that there are people who will except me for who i am.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 04:11 AM
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Hey bro you are welcome i wish you best of luck.
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:30 PM
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You are very welcome.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 03:31 AM
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Ok thanks for the explanation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 05:22 PM
2

May i ask are cross posts allowed?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 05:12 PM
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This looks great 👍
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 05:08 PM
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I really feel your pain brother i hope you get the help you deserve, what is your reality will one day be a story that inspires the ones who will know you. You said you like learning and playing music those are wonderful things and one day you will share them.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:46 PM
3

Exactly it's something you can do for fun with aquentances.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:41 PM
2

I don't know how to name them i said i had bad social anxiety and intimacy issues that was specifically what i was looking help with, we talked about how i feel (that was the first few times), we talked about why i feel that way (that was a couple months), she told me were the mistakes in my world view are (about a month) and through that she would give me homework as we say, and she would give me small tasks that i was somewhat comfortable with. I guess broadly it is behavioural therapy.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:34 PM
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I mean i am not the one Cumming here giving the same recycled advice as 100s of other people and saying how i am better than others soo...
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:17 PM
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That is indeed not going anywhere, what they said is bullshit. A therapist is supposed to give you homework and tasks, like my therapist would tell me to talk with my coworkers, teacher me how to feel like i have personal space around other people( life changing), she would assigned me to write everything i feel in day for weeks and she explained to me how to regulate my emotions. Similar things i was told by other people your therapists seem to have being wrong for you.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:13 PM
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Yes well don't they try and walk you through it? They should be giving you either tasks to do or teaching you how to retrain your brain. They should be teaching you how to see your self and the social power that you have AND BELIEVE ME you do have that.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:48 PM
0

This is something i have struggled a lot with, it's about knowing which is the next appropriate place to take the "relationship" see what your interactions are and do what is a bit more "intimate". Pretty much think what is appropriate and you know for sure you can do then think what should be the next appropriate think and try it. This is a metaphor i was given it's like playing a video game and wanting to go from level 5 to level 7 that's not how it works you can play level 5 and try to go to …
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:43 PM
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That is unfortunate to hear, i guess saying to try again would be obnoxious but damn it's important to find the right one i went though like 10 therapist before finding the right one for me it was the most difficult and soul crashing thing. May i ask what was the dead end? I
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:29 PM
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I relate to this, i would be lying if i said that i have things figured out. So this girls go out with you, isn't that a bit of an admission that they wanted for you to do more? Like i said i feel the same fear as you do i have quite a few similar stories. Small escalations are still appropriate so flirting, compliments, discussion of "mature" topics and even light touching WHEN appropriate are stuff you are well in your right to do in a date. You don't need her to explicitly ask for them i real…
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:21 PM
2

Don't worry i notice you, it is asphyxiating this filling worst thing i have ever felt. May i ask have you been to therapy for this specifically?
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:57 PM
5

Yeah i won't disagree with that it helps find which ones just wanted attention and which ones are actually interested, but proper escalation is important, personally i do the mistake of being too passive.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:39 PM
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She felt pressured to either reciprocate or decline, when people feel pressured they often want to avoid the source of the pressure.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:13 PM
1

Agh now it makes sense you are "not like the other girls"
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:04 PM
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Looking at your post history i have actually seen a few of your posts but that makes sense i guess, i am proud of you i hope you achieve your goals.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 08:06 AM
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I am looking forward to hopefully seeing another update, you are doing important work.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/21 12:30 PM
2

"Men, the vast majority, don't love anyone nor do they want to. The vast majority of men don't yearn to love a woman or to be loved by her, the majority want what women provide: love, which translates to actions, such as: loyalty, sex, taking care of, cleaning, cooking, etc." Tell me you are a misandrist without telling me you are a misandrist.
/r/seduction30/07/21 11:57 PM
1

I remember commenting on that post, we seriously need to talk me about this, those people make me feel weird for being queer.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/21 01:12 PM
3

You see i intellectually know this to be true but i am still scared, well baby steps i guess.
/r/seduction23/07/21 09:01 AM
2

And 31k people agree with her. I assume that in their mind men are to ones to stupid to understand that they would have responsibilitys or something along those lines.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/21 09:46 AM
1

Thanks, i wish you the best.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:48 AM
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That's good i am also trying to improve my mental health, some of my interests do involve other people but i do manage not to talk with people at least not outside from formalities, well thanks for the talk i have to go now.
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:50 AM
2

Yeah -_- i know, some days i just feel really undesirable so i don't really want to try meeting people, well thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:34 AM
1

Yeah that's true, what alternatives do i have tho?
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:23 AM
3

But i hate dancing.
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:04 AM
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Not hard at all in my opinion all the crazys are not really left wing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 11:11 PM
7

And then they tell you that divorced fathers don't want there children using the excuse that most child custody cases are resolved outside court as if everyone involved doesn't know that outside rare cases the father never gets custody.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/21 08:44 PM
1

You have gotten good advice better than the one that i have to give, my only advice is to not be afraid to change multiple therapists i saw more than 10 before finding the one i have right now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 05:40 AM
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A few others have already noted this but humans in general focus more on negative things because they are potentially dangerous it's a survival mechanism for when potential death from predators was part of life. People need to actively work against that and put equal focus on both good and bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 05:35 AM
1

Number 4 is so difficult to do.
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:08 AM
1

Those are the two main reasons women will give for not dating us, one that they don't think you are man enough and second this that the are afraid you would want to have sex with men there are also some others that are thrown around but this two are the main ones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/21 03:21 AM
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I would love to be paid for my sexuality you really need to look into the phenomenon that we are talking here because you are talking about very different things and also been a comedian is a profession and a choice. I will stop this conversation now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 03:18 PM
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It literally is tho because i am only seen as a part of me not as a person. And i also get to complain about this it's a freedom i have, again this feels like much more then a fetish it's very different then when men fetishize me for being Asian. You don't actually understand what is happening here they don't just like the idea of mlm the bastardise it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 03:01 PM
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Yeah grate, they fetishize my whole existence and they go about it in a very insulting way. Being fetishized is inherently objectifying but this actually feels worse the obsession that this straight women have with mlm is beyond that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 02:40 PM
0

I am really bothered that i can't figure out why this happens but yeah this is the only idea i have. I guess it might be something unique in the female experience. It would be very fascinating to see some of them talking about what they like about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 02:28 PM
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I see what your saying but a lot of what these women do and say doesn't make me comfortable with my sexuality at all, i can't really explain it but calling their behaviour as fetishization is putting it lightly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 02:19 PM
1

Honestly i can't think of a reason maybe because women are aroused by ideas i mean we all know how much they love erotica and smut, and also although there are queer women who do get fetishized it's very different from this because for us it doesn't stop at porn. As you said men don't get obsessed with it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 02:05 PM
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Ogh i hate this, they want to make male affection purely sexual, this is enforcement of gender roles , it's why those same women don't date bi men because we are not manly enough (yeah i am kinda projecting my own experiences here but i do think there is correlation). As if men only act nice when there is sex involved, friendship is one of the most beautiful and pure things in the world and it's treated like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 01:11 PM
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As a bi man i am also bothered by this, the fetishization of queer men by straight women makes me extremely uncomfortable about my sexuality. My ability to love men is reduced to i don't even know what by this women. Some of the fandoms that i have seen are disturbing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/21 11:08 AM
1

Well it seems like you were a bit to direct with a lot of these guys which i think is a mistake that a lot of women make when trying to approach men, approaching is a skill on it's on don't you agree you definitely know that not all men are good at it and those guys get the same reaction as you did.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/21 09:34 PM
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Meanwhile they tell us how rare false accusations are and that we shouldn't worry about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/21 09:19 PM
1

Thinking about the future reactions and creating fake expectations, are just elaboration of your mind, and believe it or not, your mind cant predict future, so stop wasting the Present I know but my mind still insists on this, i am working on it tho.
/r/seduction30/05/21 02:23 AM
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No that's what i thought as well i just wanted a woman to say it. Thank you for your input. Where would you feel comfortable with someone flirting with you?
/r/seduction03/05/21 12:16 AM
1

Let's focus on the point of the post would you specifically be ok if someone flirted with you in a gym ? I'm curious.
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:44 PM
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This is actually a great point i always feel like i burden the ones i start a conversation with.
/r/seduction19/04/21 09:26 AM
1

But everybody always says not to hit on workers.
/r/seduction17/04/21 07:28 AM
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